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FIELD REPORTlolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 12:00 AM
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ADVICElolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 11:28 PM
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LIFESTYLElolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen22/05/18 11:28 PM
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DISCUSSIONlolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 04:42 AM
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DISCUSSIONlolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 08:24 AM
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LIFESTYLElolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 08:15 AM
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ADVICElolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 02:08 AM
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lolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 01:01 AM
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lolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 12:46 AM
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ADVICElolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 12:56 AM
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lolablackbird/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 12:19 AM
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When I say give it time I meant, you will inevitably know whether to stay or not. For me personally every evening or time he is out and days a random reason- I will be suspicious and then feel a withdrawal in my self esteem bucket that why do other girls have faithful men but mine is needing to cheat? it would make me feel I’m insufficient in some way. And perhaps if you stay with him you do feel insufficient because your actions then show you don’t believe deep down you are worthy of a man who …
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/24 02:13 AM
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Thank you. I needed to read this. I’ve got lost
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 01:53 AM
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Thank you this is great
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 01:25 AM
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I feel I go with the flow then figure out he’s not serious. I don’t have a type - just usually successful is the only trait all of them usually have. / or are powerful in some way. I will say I had one serious relationship but I left it and it was a man I just didn’t see myself with forever. But now I keep getting these rich successful men who are real players. Would you advise I just don’t have sex and stick to my commitment ? Sometimes I will go into the evening thinking ok I won’t be sexual a…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 12:51 AM
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Thank you. So focus on me and stop making them the Center of my universe 😂🙏🩷🩷 I appreciate this!!!
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/24 12:40 AM
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I want to join sign me up
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/22 04:16 AM
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No I’m not actually
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 03:29 AM
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Thank you this is food advice for me. Yes I’m studying something valuable , but definitely should see things different
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 03:04 AM
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Wait I don’t understand lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 03:03 AM
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I have a job and am Studying full time
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 03:02 AM
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And yes he’s been violent many times this year. Unfortunately I’m ashamed of this and still believe somehow it’s my fault for provoking him. :(
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 01:08 AM
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Thank you so much. You’re right. He doesn’t want traditional, that’s clear. I am very domestic and have been so amazing in this regard. Always building him up, treating him like he’s above me, cleaning cooking serving non stop and I am pretty. I think This is a grave mismatch
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 01:07 AM
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Also Im worried I caused this all by not being RP enough and focusing on my own needs????? Am i bad for telling im it’s not fair he pressures me for help , he can work more? I just feel lost and like I don’t know if I’m a bad wife or he is not the right one
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 12:59 AM
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And I’m worried to get out the marriage in this pandemic because how will I meet a good man and my time is running out I’m 24 turning 25 but also worried I’m wasting my life with someone who won’t give me at all the true happiness I desire
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 12:49 AM
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thank you so much for this. I am a virgin now anyways so it isn't hard for me to not sleep with anyone right away at all. Your advice really is brilliant here, thank you, it is exactly the aura of high value woman. xox
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 03:20 PM
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I didn’t say I don’t do mine ! I get gel nails! Just like them solid colours mostly. Love the bows that sounds so feminine
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 03:13 AM
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Omg that’s happened to me !!!!! I got “bubble bath” 3 times at different salons and it was always mislabeled and ended up being so pink and gross looking, finally I bought my own at a hair salon place and put it on and it was exactly like on Pinterest! For some reason OPI is mislabelled a lot
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 02:45 AM
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To me it is Grace and femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 08:31 PM
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My angel. Love and accept yourself. It’s easy to feel pressure and mount the world on your shoulders once you find out about RP and think that you need to be the perfect woman, perfect wife etc and you start thinking times running out and that men have their pick of every girl ever, but the reality is my dear, it sounds like you are lacking self compassion. Be a friend to yourself. Don’t condemn yourself for your anxious feelings inside. I have also a very difficult family life but on the outsid…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:44 PM
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Exactly 🙏🏻
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 03:38 PM
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Amen
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 05:26 AM
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I still don’t even know what the question of this post is or the point really. Are you even dating anyone ?. Sounds like you explained a story in which you cheated on a boyfriend with a guy who is most definitely not an alpha. Also, why ever would you ask a guy for a relationship like that, and also, why would you say “if you want sex ask for it”. Do you not understand this is against your self interest if you want a male to respect and therefore love you? I hope you are a teenager at least, tha…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 05:14 AM
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Here’s my opinion lovie. You sound like you have a shit ton of self confidence now, and good for you. Self esteem is great. Guess what, I can be arrogant too and mentally many times I think, “ shit any guy who gets me has won the fucking lottery”. I think people are rubbed the wrong way by what you are saying because it sounds like you are tooting your own horn, so to speak. Here’s the thing: No matter how hot I am, and beautiful, and kind and lovely and a gift to mans earth , I still need a man…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 01:25 AM
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He married you, you won, don’t even worry about it or think about it. Channel your anxiety about it ( which is totally understandable ) into loving him. You are worried because you love him so much, so instead of sabotaging yourself by appearing possessive or “crazy” instead build him up and tell him how much you respect him and think he’s the most amazing man.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 05:44 PM
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My angel, I can feel your heart and sincerity through this post and I can imagine the heartache you are feeling right now, but you need to put him into the seller mode and remember that YOU are the one doing the buying. If he’s gone and just done something with another girl and he’s coming to see you tonight, in the most feminine and non nagging way, putting him in charge you need to say, “I require monogamy from a man, can you bring it?” Make it so he is the one trying to get you You are lovely…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 02:46 AM
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This might hurt. There’s absolutely nothing you should do now on your end. A man can only love a woman as much as he respects her. Respect is earned by how long you withhold sex so that he has time to like you for you and realize that sex isn’t his main objective with you anymore, that you are the main objective and sex is the icing on top of that. Unfortunately being young maybe you yielded too soon and now are emotionally invested in him when he wants nothing to do with you. For now be self re…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 12:07 AM
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Personally I’d never say it. I am a big fan of the Rules by Ellen Fein and she says save the traumatic stories in your life for your therapist and journal and do not share this stuff with a man. Honestly you could say it when you are married to a guy, but other than that, in the beginning getting to know a guy , he doesn’t even know the best of you yet. How would you react if a guy told you something like that too early upon meeting him? You’d think it’s strange he’s over sharing something so tr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 04:02 AM
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Not misinformed, this is my personal experience of 5 years of therapy, none of it worked, all of it actually made me think of myself as worse, reading books and healthy habits ultimately is what made me healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 03:43 PM
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Therapy is bullshit and they are biased anyways. Read BRENE BROWNs book “ I thought it was just me “ and google Albert Ellis the Myth of self esteem. In my opinion, thinking that you have all these problems and need a therapist to uncover deep rooted issues is complete crap that makes you feel even more like damaged goods and unlovable. You are completely lovable and amazing and perfectly worthy of love. Thoughts are just thoughts. Stop believing your insecure thoughts. It’s just a story in your…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 03:09 AM
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Lasered completely off. Guys like completely bare
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 02:55 AM
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My girl, I feel your pain reading this. I know this feeling myself, but now Im going to say some things that might hurt, but it is out of the deepest compassion and empathy for you, ok? You said he said, “we are not in a relationship and he feels burdened by obligations”. That explains everything. He feels burdened by obligations and being trapped down in anyway, and here you are, well meaning, searching for reassurance and security. He can’t give it to you, and the more you demand it from him a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 02:47 AM
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I LOVE TIM FERRIS ! Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 04:28 PM
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Thank you, great advice
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 04:28 PM
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Yes definitely wouldn’t do that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 03:50 PM
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Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I agree
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 05:09 PM
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❤️ .
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 05:08 AM
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Thank you. This is so true. It’s special. I feel now that I don’t need to be self doubting myself and instead just be quietly confident in my being a virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 04:57 AM
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Yes ! Enthusiasm is key!! ( I’ve heard ) haha
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 04:55 AM
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Thank you so much for this advice. And yes I completely agree that it’s soooooo important to have a relationship before. Wish me luck and I hope I am in a LTR like you soon!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 04:55 AM
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Thank you so much, this has made me feel better already.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 04:54 AM
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Thank you... I feel better now
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 04:54 AM
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Thank you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✨ you are right
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 04:53 AM
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Thank you so much. 🙏🏻 you are right. No more being worried about it, I’m a virgin and proud. thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 04:53 AM
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Giiiiiirlllllll, you done fucked up
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 03:27 AM
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I personally always wear cute stuff, it makes me feel better even if I’m just being lazy all day. I always wear mascara or I have eyelash extensions in! I like to always have a spray tan because then I don’t need foundation. I like to have my hair long and straight, and my bf likes it that way too. It makes me feel more “done” even if I’m wearing total slob stuff. At home I pretty much wear a tank top and leggings if I’m doing absolutely nothing, sometimes I wear a knit form fitting dress ( usua…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 10:44 PM
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agreed. But as a fellow attractive girl who puts my phone on silent and has 100s I’d unread messages, if I ignore you 5 times in arrow : I am actively ignoring you. We notice all our texts. We just don’t answer all of them. To a guy I’m interested in fucking the most I wait is 24 hours ( if he’s taken a while ) . Mostly 2 hours / 1 hour if I’m REALLY INTO him. If we are talking in a convo that’s flowing and the responses are fast I can reply within 10 mins even, but if he takes an hour or someth…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 09:40 PM
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You are 18. You do not need to have this all figured out now. Just enjoy your life. Stop worrying stop futurizing. Enjoy the present moment
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 12:14 AM
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This is very true! Maybe I should just have courage haha
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 11:48 PM
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Haha that is amazing, I will do the same!
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 11:47 PM
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Thanks so much for this, I totally agree. Neutral might be best until I can articulate my views as soundly as JP!!!
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 11:46 PM
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Omg this is amazing hahaha yes I totally agree. And am so happy to know there is another unicorn in Toronto!!!! I only know one other girl who is red pill 😭 I am desperately wanting to have red pill friends. And wow that’s amazing about law school!! yes I keep going back between keeping it secret because I enjoy being liked by my friends hahah and then sometimes saying oh whatever and liking Jordan Peterson tweets. I definitely tell people in person my affinity for JP however I haven’t divulged …
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 11:45 PM
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Thank you so much for this post.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 11:38 PM
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Wow thank you so much. I completely agree hahaha I have already made a secret twitter !!!!
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 11:31 PM
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Im a girl and this is true asF.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 05:48 AM
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