Help me with boundaries - how do I communicate that I’m not going to sleep with a man without commitment? / how to be assertive in a feminine way?

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Title: Help me with boundaries - how do I communicate that I’m not going to sleep with a man without commitment? / how to be assertive in a feminine way?

Author lolablackbird

Full text: Help How does you do this? i am a people pleaser but catholic and was a virgin till 22 - but since then have been really used now by 5 men… i have trouble honouring my values I keep to myself because in the moment I want to please the man.

How do I stick to this and say it in a way that isn’t masculine or bossy or weird? I don’t want to keep compromising myself it’s hurting my love life if I cave and sleep with the man when my heart wants commitment and marriage not instant gratification / casual sex / to be used

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Title	Help me with boundaries - how do I communicate that I’m not going to sleep with a man without commitment? / how to be assertive in a feminine way?
Author	lolablackbird
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	August 27, 2024 12:56 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1f24efa/help_me_with_boundaries_how_do_i_communicate_that/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/help-me-with-boundaries-how-do-i-communicate-that.1528497 https://theredarchive.com/post/1528497

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