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What you’re looking for Jeremy, is a friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:22 AM
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I honestly feel like I’ve unlocked some hidden knowledge... that I can just skip the game, that I don’t have to sacrifice myself to be some mans therapist and fuck doll! It’s great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:58 AM
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I have wasted too much time on dudes who have ‘put up with’ my body lmao honestly never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:19 AM
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I’m fat and only attract lvms who think I’ll be an easy lay because of it (or closet fat fetishists who usually have thin girlfriends at home they keep around for the sake of their reputations). They get mad and call me all the names under the sun because I won’t fuck them, so I mostly just don’t interact with men unless it’s on a professional level. I do think in some ways it’s a gift, because I am often overlooked by dudes who aren’t completely desperate and therefore don’t experience as much …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:46 PM
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You don’t get a pretty, demure and pure girl who will silently bat her lashes at you like a baby lamb all evening without saying a word- who also has the stones to argue with you about how she’s going to pay the bill, pick a fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:58 AM
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You can tell she’s really drank in what men have told her over the years, since her final rebuttal is literally ‘I want to see who you are fucking’. Girl....what the fuck does that have anything to do with the argument. Way to out yourself as someone obsessed with validation from strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:54 AM
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Bisexual women don’t want you either bro it is literally none of our fantasies to be the unicorn for a straight couple who hate each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:14 PM
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It’s fun and campy, I got a lot of enjoyment out of knowing exactly what the film was doing and who it was catering to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:10 PM
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I’m going to start asking for sources on these ‘I SAW ONCE A LONG TIME AGO THAT THIS WOMAN SAID....’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:13 PM
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Not all men, but enough men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:34 PM
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I’m so glad my Facebook feed is full of women who are angry why is it that society demands women need to protect themselves and do the right thing (don’t wear headphones, change your route, go out in the daytime, pretend to have a phone call etc etc) and there is no request that men STOP MURDERING WOMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:33 PM
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I love Porto!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:15 PM
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What a kind message. Thank you so much, that means a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:21 PM
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I think part of the reason why the kids ask me about my romantic prospects is I am firm about being called ‘miss’ lol..they automatically revert to Mrs (name) because they associate adult with marriage. If a child calls me Mrs Lollykpops (which they do often) I just gently say ‘I’m not Mrs lollykpops, that’s my mums name!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:56 PM
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It’s not my forever job and I’ll actually be leaving again after this year- to go back to my previous line of work in travel once COVID has lessened but it’s certainly been a learning experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:37 PM
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Right now I teach 7 year olds in a low income area where many women have kids young (I’m 26) - and have been asked lots of times by the girls in my class why I am not married/have a boyfriend. I have been very open that I am happy being single and have talked about all the exciting experiences (like leisure travel, working in different countries, volunteering) I’ve had that might not have been possible with a husband! Now lots of the girls have ambitions for high flying jobs and say ‘I want to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:44 AM
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TWENTY MINUTES, girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:34 AM
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My fat ass is gonna skip the line and go straight back to the Hershey’s, thanks anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:41 AM
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My fat ass is gonna skip the line and go straight back to the Hershey’s, thanks anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:41 AM
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Men like this will give us 10 reasons not to fuck them, then get mad that we won’t fuck them. Either that or they just assume that there is a near constant bevvy of sexy, cool girls that don’t have those pesky morals....until that well runs dry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:09 PM
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The casuk sub was full of this yesterday... like good for your and your Mrs that she likes the bare minimum. I swear it’s such a British thing to brush off anything that wouldn’t be discussed in a working men’s club by over 40s as PoInTlEsS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:42 PM
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Hey dude don’t threaten me with a good time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:16 PM
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If his girlfriend is here, hey queen we support you! Please leave this bottom feeder 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:56 PM
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When I was a kid I was away on a brownie camp over Valentine’s Day and my mum hid a box of chocolates and a card signed ‘your secret admirer’ in my suitcase. I felt like the baddest 7 year old in the camp that day even though I recognised her hand writing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:06 AM
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Lmao if he thought of women as anything more than fuck holes he’d be selective like....it says it all. I don’t wanna date a man who’s only prerequisite is ‘woman’ cause then he’s not interested in anything past surface level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:37 PM
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A great way to think about it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:57 PM
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I’m not pretty in any sense but still find things about my physical appearance that I enjoy and that makes men SO angry lmao because the usual ‘you look like a man’ ‘fat/ugly/hideous’ doesn’t bother me any more. The only person who needs to like what they see in me is MYSELF. I don’t exist to make men happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:41 AM
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Lmaooooo, queen behaviour 👑👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:16 PM
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Omg the shutting down thing! My ex used to literally remove contact from me for weeks until I’d ‘calmed down’ whenever I was mad at something he’d done. He said he was uncomfortable with conflict but really it was manipulation to keep me sweet in case he decided to pretend I didn’t exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:05 PM
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My favourite misinformation about FDS is that we are brainwashed....there are women here from all walks of life with different goals and ambitions that ALL benefit from FDS principles. Married women, women looking to date, women in long term relationships looking to move to that next level...even women like me who no longer see dating on the cards for them. I don’t have an interest in dating or engaging with men any more and I STILL find worth in following FDS. I love this community and how we l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:55 AM
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Men love her sexy toddler aesthetic 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:34 PM
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Now ladies, you all know real men LOVE women who take care of themselves. You better have your hair, face, nails and outfit on point every time we meet. But don’t let us ever fucking catch you 1) spending money to do this 2) spending time doing this 3) enjoying the process. Everyone knows that high maintenance girls are bitches, money should be spent on things that MATTER. Like Xbox live. Jesus, why can’t you just be a natural beauty like Ariana grande? Bitches like you are the reason we #takehe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:47 PM
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Money first is such a male centric world view lmao, I love how the definition of HVM here is what a MAN would look for, not us. They keep calling us golddiggers but have the Gaul to pretend to be experts on FDS without even clicking on the about tab, never mind reading the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 11:40 AM
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Congrats sis!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:03 PM
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‘She’s into choking and slapping’ ‘She’s too basic in bed’ Bro pick one! What kind of porn sick dude thinks choking his girlfriend to death isn’t ~~kinky~~ enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:48 PM
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There seems to be a few of us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 09:11 PM
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I’m a (I think) bi woman and spent my life engaging in comphet but honestly since I found FDS my interest in men is at an all time low both physically and mentally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:53 PM
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I bet Parmesan calves over here thinks he’s a real catch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 12:02 AM
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Girl............. why doesn’t she love herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:31 PM
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If you’re not careful you’re gonna end up with time to spend on your hobbies and meaningful friendships!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:45 AM
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That is the best offer a man has ever made me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:42 AM
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I’m fat af even after losing 40lbs in 2020. As I continue on my journey of losing 120lb total my standards are higher than ever. I’m aware that I have high standards and have made the decision to be alone until someone of worth comes along that can match the level of self love I have been working on 🤷‍♀️ at this point being with someone sounds exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:56 PM
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Okay girl, I see that you’ve explained your point multiple times to people who have disagreed with you. It’s cool. I get that it’s a big issue. Just wanted to throw my 2 cents in the ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:38 PM
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‘I don’t need a man, I need a puppy’ and ‘I don’t have the time to pretend you’re funny’ are my new no men mantras lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 11:34 AM
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It is absolutely not productive or radical to talk shit about other women and what they choose to do with their appearance, you’re right. Ladies, I really hope this place continues to be a place of mental and spiritual growth that helps us to elevate the women around us; not shit talk them because they’re not ‘like us’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:28 AM
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Yeah I agree, I wasn’t trying to argue that men all secretly want a fat girlfriend- just noting a trend I have noticed with men who claim to be ‘into bbw’ and lead with this kind of thinking that I no longer engage with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:39 AM
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Girl, I’d gently remind you to think about the way you speak about other women and their perceived value. Grading women on a number scale is LV behaviour and I’d hate to see it creep in here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:12 AM
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I’m a big girl (working on it now) and have been my entire adult life. It is common for women who look like me but own it to encounter men who are obsessed with bigger girls- men who seem to scream from the rooftops how proud they are to date women that look like me and how much they adore them. 9/10 the man has a size 6 girlfriend at home for ‘appearances’. This is why I no longer date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:05 AM
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I am willing to bet that she didn’t say all this and that he’s embellished because he KNOWS he broke his dick and his brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:53 PM
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Amazing, mods can this go in the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:19 PM
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I have this video saved on my phone and try and listen to it whenever I find myself shrinking myself to accommodate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:00 PM
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As a woman who enjoys certain anime (for instance I am a huge sailor moon fan) it would be cool to find a partner that would also be open to watching with me. That being said it’s a real slippery slope from ‘someone who enjoys the medium of anime’ to ‘creepy weaboo’ so vetting is doubly more important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:23 PM
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Oh my god the noise I just made
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:58 PM
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I love Jenny! I’m not into MLP at all but I watched this whole video when she posted it and it was really insightful. Amazing to hear from a woman who was a huge part of the community at the time and just how it was overtaken by men and their need make everything sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:38 PM
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They don’t wanna cuddle you, they want to coerce you in to bed and then rub their hard on against your thigh until you give in and let them fuck you. Why would they cuddle a person they don’t care about? They just know cuddling forms a trust bond so they pretend to want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:53 AM
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I just want to say that I relate to this so much, thanks for sharing! I have also spent my time with partners focusing on their pleasure because I was tired of trying to work out how to make it feel good for me and would reassure them that it wasn’t important if I came or not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:18 PM
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Because men have been taught that they are worthwhile for who they are inside, and women have been taught that they are worthwhile for who they are outside. Simply put men are conditioned from a young age to expect the best from their partner regardless of how much effort they put in. So they don’t bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:13 AM
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I’d rather receive no head at all than head from a dude who’s pretending to be into it like a toddler trying broccoli for the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:37 AM
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Dunno if it’s because I’ve had an awful morning but this made me cry really hard! Good luck to her she is doing an amazing job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:28 AM
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They pretend to be stupid to get you to engage, pure and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:57 PM
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Ladies come see us at femalelevelupstrategy for this kind of vibe! I wish we had more content there, it’s the coolest shit. Just queens celebrating queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:38 PM
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Ah yes, the logical sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:40 PM
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Honestly men have the nerve to complain about duckface but think it’s the height of sexy to do the fucking Dreamworks eyebrow in every picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 07:43 PM
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They stay telling on themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:50 PM
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You go girl! Proud of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:13 PM
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Hey sweetheart, I wasn’t mad at you I promise! Tons of people post this girls content and I figure some of them don’t know. I get the vibe that a lot of her discussion of FDS principles are not her personal beliefs, and more “what would a sexy Russian sugar baby say about men?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:05 PM
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Please stop posting this girl pretending to be Russian it’s........Yes she has good points but she’s cosplaying as another nationality for clout
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:52 PM
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Not new and read the handbook several times but I think posts like these are SO important. We get so wrapped up in the latest info and forget the core principles sometimes. Especially now when so many people are choosing 2021 as the time to focus on themselves it’s really important to know the basics upside down and left to right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:23 PM
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Having read the comments and seeing that there are so many women out there like me taking nvm passion projects on, I wonder why we did it? So excited to never have to say ‘but he’s such a nice guy’ to describe some dude I found scraping a Petri dish to my friends again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:11 AM
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WAMENS ARE ONLY ALLOWED TO BE HAPPY WHEN IT RELATES TO MEEEEEE Edit: I also fucking love that the only insult those men have for every woman they post is that they’re fat. Do better Stephen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:31 PM
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I’m so fucking tired of pretending men are helpless babies or powerful alphas depending on the task
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:15 PM
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PORN SICK LIMP DICK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:13 PM
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I’d be into it if she wasn’t cosplaying an Eastern European woman for clout....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:56 AM
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Please god there must be some lady here that knows robotics well enough to speed up the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:54 PM
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I love it when men get angry and start talking like philosophers. OH NOW I’M MAD SO THE BIG BRAIN WORDS COME OUT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:21 PM
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My first boyfriend used to ask me to fake my orgasms because it helped him cum and my vagina was ‘broken anyway’ and I think it messed me up so severely that ive never had an orgasm with a partner since (although I can make myself cum easily) so that’s fun. Before I saw the light, I used to tell dudes before we got down to it for the first time ‘not to worry about trying with me, since I can’t cum. It’s my fault, not yours’. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:46 PM
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Girl same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:35 AM
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Happy holidays to all you ladies however you’re spending it. Thank you for helping me find myself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:30 PM
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You too! You’re doing amazing sis, 100lbs is INCREDIBLE and you should be mad proud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:18 AM
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As a plus sized women, I got fed up of only being hit on by men who assumed I was 1) easy or 2) willing for them to live out their fat fetish dreams. I got tired of being hit on by ashamed men with thin girlfriends who was looking for something large and soft to degrade. I also got tired of being offered less, given less love and being expected to be ‘greatful’ for any man to look at me as something worthy of love. I am in the process of losing a lot of weight just like you, and in the mean time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:40 PM
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Is it a girlfriend or a pet dog?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:04 AM
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The fact that she is ASKING if she is allowed to feel mad for being violated is absolutely mind fucking boggling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:37 AM
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As a fat woman? Girl please leave. Your self esteem deserves more than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:19 AM
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“Not seeing female faces cause of masks has me going crazy” literally sounds like a serial killer line
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:33 AM
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Because we unattractive women are considered useless by men and therefore should consider ourselves useless too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:48 PM
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Thank you mods! You know this is a well modded subreddit since I don’t notice them much, but I’ve also never noticed any bullshit or trolls so I know they’re working hard. Thank you ladies you’re amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:20 PM
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Thanks I will 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:52 PM
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Lmaoooo imagine being a 44 year old man crying because the woman you’re seeing casually isn’t a virgin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:59 PM
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YOUR BIOLOGY THAT YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER MAKES MY PEE PEE ANGRY!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:07 PM
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Just like you ladies taught me: “if he wanted to, he would”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 09:40 AM
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Something that still bothers me about my scumbag lvm married ex, he once told me as I was sat with his friends at a bar that they were saying “why did you pick the white girl that looks like a pig? There are lots of white girls that are not fat here” (they spoke a different language of course) right in front of my face. He was laughing and wanted me to laugh too because ISN’T THAT FUNNY BABY? He didn’t understand why I was so hurt because HE didn’t think that and I should just laugh!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:49 PM
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I was about to say “yeah but I’ve bailed on every date I’ve ever been invited on cause I was dreading it” but that is a reflection on my poor self esteem and reaffirms why I shouldn’t be dating in the first place lmao, back to FLS I go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:51 PM
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He is just DYING for you to jump up and scream to the high heavens that you love nice guys lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:05 PM
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Can confirm: I did this, distanced myself from everyone that wasn't my partner, then found out he was a cheating shithead and now I've got to start from the group up making new friends! Eta: my mum also did this and her biggest upset in life is that my dad has a full social life and she goes nowhere and sees nobody except him. Sitting at home at night waiting for him to come in from his multiple social events and fall asleep in front of the TV. I am doing my very best to unlearn the patterns dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:27 AM
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Jesus, he puts the person he 'loves' beneath his hand. Sweetheart if you're reading this, He is with you for convenience Please leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:20 AM
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I think the general demographic has changed, which is good because we can reach more women, but bad because the message is now more 'general space to complain about men' and less 'discussion about the ways we can ensure to attract the type of man reflected in the handbook principles' I lament that r/femalelevelupstrategy is mostly quiet because that is what I'm really looking for (not in a position to date now or really ever) but at the same time I don't want the ethos diluted like it is here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:18 PM
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"Spiritual midwife" is incredible, thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:38 PM
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I feel u sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 05:05 PM
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Oh god, so many of the men i meet seem to be pretty well adjusted....until I find out that they EXCLUSIVELY WANT HARDCORE ANAL SEX. I hate this new development and before fds allowed myself to be violated by multiple men who didn't even stop or slow down when it hurt...I'm convinced anal sex is used as a covert way to hurt women during sex and not be seen as a predator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:45 PM
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This dude: I'm a rapist but like.....a woke one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:54 PM
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I know we aren't supposed to broadcast the sub but I wish she could find FDS, the community might be what she needs to #kickhimout2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:20 PM
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Men who don't eat out are an instant deal breaker for me, as a woman who struggles with anorgasmia with penetrative sexual contact I'm not about to dead bedroom myself completely cause some sucker is "grossed out" (but still expects his balls gargled)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:33 PM
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Women who advocate not recieving oral sex cause iTs IcKy are honestly???? Who are you and why are you afraid of your own vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:00 PM
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I work in the cruise industry and travel the world for a living, men on land won't date me because they're worried I would cheat while I was working away , and sailors are unfaithful. Soi thought I lucked out when I dated a man who worked on the same ships as me and we travelled together. He was STILL petrified of me cheating....but that's because it turns out he has a wife in his home country and 2 kids. Ladies: don't date sailors. Mistresses are common and the men are getting better at lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:50 AM
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It sucks because I know HVM but they're all dating long term or married! I'm convinced that since I didn't get in there at 20/21 now all that is left is the dregs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:48 PM
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I'd also be interested to hear! At 26 I have resigned myself to the idea that I will be single for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:58 PM
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LOW VALUE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:32 PM
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I actually thought I was on fundie snark when I made my comment lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:29 PM
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For someone who is against womens rights ...she sure is a woman with a lot to say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:01 PM
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As kind of the other side of the coin, I'm a woman who has always worked with children in some capacity (i do teach atm) who wears glasses and is busty. Every boyfriend I've ever had has mentioned that I look like a 'sexy teacher' more times than I am comfortable with. And didn't understand when I said it was inappropriate and I didn't like hearing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 05:33 PM
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UK edition: 1) recruitment wanker/personal trainer definitely on steroids/ unemployed neckbeard that likes game of thrones too much 2) Saturday is for the boys 3) alcohol abuse as a personality trait 4) "banter"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:37 PM
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Ladies, why are men so fucking boring? I'm honestly tired of being approached by men just looking for sex. I feel like the pandemic has really heightened the 'wish you could come here and cuddle xxx' messages and circular sex chat, and it doesn't help that I've lost enough weight to almost fall into the 'fuckable by a normal man' category (and not just bbw fetishists). Had to block three men i know this week for repeated attempts to exchange pics/sexy talk. It is such a snooze. Not even exciting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:36 PM
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I cant wait until the idea that women are designed to be each man's sexy therapist DIES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:02 PM
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👏 ALONE 👏 IS 👏 BETTER 👏 THAN 👏 THIS 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:52 PM
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God i hate 2x, just absolutely crawling in WOKE GUYS talking over women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:50 PM
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I love that men also can't comprehend that women aren't all hourglass shaped!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:30 PM
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Men who hit on women at work because they KNOW we have to be polite are the absolute bottom layer of scum on the lvm fishtank
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:05 PM
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God I hope she gets picked so she stops saying things on the Internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:10 PM
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I cannot believe there is evidence right in front of this dude that he isn't fulfilling his wife's emotional needs.....and he manages to blame her still lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:32 AM
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As a British woman: no. Our men are just as multifaceted as yours. We come from a wide variety of backgrounds and cultures, and nobody speaks the way the 'English gentlemen you've seen in media for more than one area in the country. There is nothing gentlemanly or charming about the men in my northern mining town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:13 PM
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Plsplspls can we do less 'here's a screenshot from my texts or tinder of me continually arguing with an identified NVM'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:30 AM
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Lmao i saw this on a Facebook group called "what object are we being compared to today, ladies?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:41 PM
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I'm so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:38 PM
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I just....why do we act like THE MEN need sex or they'll die? It's not like their dicks are gonna explode from build up. It's been years since I've had sex, you don't hear me demanding pity fucks for my mental health? I have a vibratory and some self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:34 AM
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I've found being vocal about how much i love my cats has been a good way to weed out LVM actually!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:33 PM
47

Thankyou for the insight! I'm a cat owner, but even I felt like that sounded a bit wrong, especially the bit about starving them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:17 PM
130

I honestly can't fathom how men can equate women to animals that they need to TRAIN to be OBEDIENT because of our small stupid brains....and still wanna fuck us? You wanna fuck your dog bro? Is that what you are telling us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:09 PM
11

I'm more bothered about the photo commentary in the next few screenshots tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:00 PM
16

Ah yes, the OLD trifecta of 'I'm emotionally stunted and have no plans to work on it' sarcasm, BrUtAl HoNesTy and over competitiveness. All attractive qualities we feeeeeemales look for in a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:53 AM
17

Yeah! Check out the Celebrity Edge- they are very vocal on social media!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:59 PM
195

As a seawoman, Captain Kate and her all female bridge team continue to be my biggest inspiration, and I channel them all the time at work since it's such a male dominated industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:36 AM
28

I have not seen one MGTOW going his OWN FUCKING WAY LEAVE US ALONE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:17 PM
4

I have repeatedly attracted LV friends that have taken advantage of me and have completely cut contact more than 3 times in my life, even before I knew about FDS. I am not good at maintaining friendships or chosing the right people to be around so I've made peace with the fact that I don't and will not have friends anymore. It's sad and I don't like it, but it's been 8 years since I've been part of a friendship circle so I am getting used to the loneliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:08 AM
12

As a fat bitch: we don't want his ass either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:53 PM
2

Thankyou Queen! That last sentiment made me want to cry a bit, but in a good way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:22 AM
3

For sure, I keep a job and wash my ass, which is more than any of my LVM exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:21 AM
6

I don't think theyre dating, they just outwardly flirt on twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:56 PM
6

She got twitter famous for looking like shoe except she's barely legal teehee , then when he dumped shoe they got suddenly....very friendly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:09 PM
13

Sir what the fuck do you offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:58 AM
21

I really love the dichotomy between his supposed 'i am the alpha male, woman be my door mat and make me a sandwich and then i dominate u' and the fact that he blatantly simps for like a million twitter girls on the reg talking about pwease notice me goddess! Not even just lolibait like kiwi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:42 PM
18

If it was any lower it would be in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:49 PM
4

Thankyou for the advice! If it makes you feel better, the generic 'hot dude asks you out as a joke the whole school year is in on' did happen to me, more than once. I'll try and remember your advice for sure! I'm 26 and need to grow some balls at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:42 PM
40

Meanwhile, the pinnacle of manhood they've been clamouring for unironically looks like Prince charming and shrek merged into one except Shrek would never advocate for submission of the entire female species! Gregory if you're reading this, you can't be an ALPHA MALE and a star wars fan that lives off revenue your shitty ex girlfriend got for you. Get a life a talk to a woman your own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:02 PM
39

his new girl, cosplaying his old girl is a special kind of fucked up, no? She sells lewd photos and her whole persona is 'I'm shoeonhead but better' honestly couldn't make it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:50 PM
15

Ruthless strategist for a reason! You are confidence goals for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:20 PM
19

Oh haha, thankyou. I wasn't looking for compliments, don't worry. Objectively I am overweight and have unfortunate features (glasses, bad hair, bad teeth) so my generic 'attractiveness' level is low. This is something i am working on, and it helps a lot to be in communities like FDS and FLUS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:36 PM
62

I struggle with this, I understand your tactics and this sub has taught me in person is the right way, but if a man i didn't know approached me in public I would be afraid or embarrassed. This is probably because my level of attractiveness is low....i wouldn't trust the intentions of a man who approached someone like me. something for me to think about i'm sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:01 PM
77

She's a terrible person, and while nobody deserves getting dumped on their birthday and replaced by a literal skinwalker except she's way younger, suprise.......at least it was her. Definition of a pickmeisha, and belittles other women who don't simp for overgrown hideous narcicist manbabies like she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:04 PM
44

THIS JUST IN: NEW DRUG 'SELF RESPECT' RIPS THROUGH INTERNET SPACES, MEN FEEL "THREATENED". More at 10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:52 PM
348

Scrotelation: give me a bangmaid but make her love me, no strings attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:41 PM
36

Wehhh, my inferior bone structure is to blame! Not my absolutely heinous personality.....it's my JAWWW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:39 PM
73

Imagine being so jealous of someone bettering themselves that you say shit that clearly isn't true, for attention Boo hoo why don't women like me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:09 PM
208

I'm so excited!!! 100,000 women taking control of our lives! Thankyou to all the ladies who have shared with us, thankyou to the handbook contributions, and thankyou to everyone on this journey of love and light with us 💕 I truly believe that this movement could be culture changing. Edit: this comment just got me my first hate message, now i'm really in the FDS sisterhood!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:51 PM
3

For sure! It has tons to do with body size and stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:38 PM
109

Religious tradscrotes always look like they skipped an evolutionary step fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:38 PM
43

Let me guess, the commenters suggested CoMmUnIcAtIoN? Despite the fact she even said in the god damn post that they have talked about it multiple times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:08 PM
2

You're absolutely right, but I think it was meant to be like a tongue in cheek 'character' thing. Totally understandable if it makes you uncomfortable though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 06:34 PM
14

You can do this, we are all right here with you girl. It might please you to know that today is the autumn equinox, pivotal point in our yearly cycle....and the universe is telling us that now is the time to remove 'dead things' in our lives, like autumn leaves from a tree. You are ready, and you can start anew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:29 PM
5

Vitamins is SOOOO GOOD and has been the soundtrack to my WLJ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:05 PM
5

I know this sub is ambivalent on female rappers but I do think she projects a good message overall, especially on this new EP. Chakras is also a good avenue to go down for these kind of lyrics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:47 PM
22

Plastic bottle vs paper cup, i get it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:38 PM
97

This is absolutely rampant in OLD especially with men who consider themselves 'alternatives' in some way, such as perceived higher intelligence or less mainstream (but ironically very mainstream) interests. So many dudes demand women must be able to hold a conversation, but when i took the initiative to message first (as I always did) and immediately start off asking about something the mentioned on their profile, they were unable to give anything more than surface level answers....which dissolv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:22 PM
1

Oh for sure! I've been learning a lot about self pleasure, i talked about my struggles with anorgasmia in another post yesterday but have been getting pretty great at doing it myself! Ladies, it is important and healthy to masturbate 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:08 PM
4

You got this girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:16 AM
112

My pussy off limits bc I dont know how to pick a good dude yet. It will continue to be until i get some goddamn self respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:35 PM
3

Oh it didn't he didn't even get a response lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:03 PM
13

I have never had an orgasm with a partner, and for years referred to myself as 'defective'. I would out and out tell male sexual partners not to 'bother' trying to make me cum since it wouldnt work. I think this stems from my first sexual partner who was unhygienic and disinterested in my pleasure, I was young and religious and had no idea what he should or shouldn't be doing, so I faked it purposefully since it helped him cum, he was aware of this. I am now capable of making myself cum through …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:35 PM
180

Glad I'm not the only one who was like 'he right......but i'm uncomfortable' lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:22 PM
14

What are we betting he hasn’t discussed this idea with his SO like, at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:40 PM
9

I seem to attract man babies with bad sleeping schedules too sis, I feel you. I am DONE being their mommy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:55 AM
48

These dudes truly never grew out of being a young teen, where hanging out while walking the dog would have been appropriate. TF you mean grown ass women and 13 year olds expect differing levels of courtship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:45 AM
6

Your boundaries are your own, and are completely valid! I'm proud of you for putting yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:19 AM
6

A special kind of infuriating, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:05 PM
15

I mostly eat vegan unless I'm out for dinner and I FEEELL YOUUU, I also took it out of my profile cause I was fed up of people either wanting a 10 page essay on why I WON'T JUST EAT THE BACON? Or just ignoring it entirely. Why are dudes so pressed about how or what we eat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:09 PM
7

I think i saw here that men don't like cats because they can't control them, and as someone who loves my cats BECAUSE they have their own minds, it really resonated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:01 PM
13

I generally hate banter "culture" anyway, people just looking for excuses to be mean to each other and get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:36 PM
32

This is the same dude that accosted me with how he REALLY WANTS A RELATIONSHIP, SOMETHING REAL AND NOT JUST MEANINGLESS SEX. ??????? You can't have a relationship with someone you don't have any interest in listening to. I have been finding that since I've been upfront about looking to continue my long term job overseas after COVID (if I am able to) a lot of men got weirdly angry that I wasn't therefore looking for a lifetime commitment. (Not FWB, mostly just connections in my local town since I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:27 PM
23

I dunno where you're from, but this insistence on 'I need a girl who can take BANTER' is prevalent in the UK. It seems now men expect women to be comfortable with constant, gentle negging disguised as 'banter. Funny how none of them seem to be able to take it back. On the plus side, this was the push I needed to finally delete my OLD profiles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:20 PM
25

I think he was butthurt cause when I mentioned I had some green tea steeping, he was like ONLY URBAN OUTFITTERS PEOPLE DRINK TEA THAT ISN'T BRITISH 😂 loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:11 PM
11

Listen, my inbox is always open if you wanna talk about this girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:49 PM
106

I was fully prepared for him to be like ‘oh haha whoops!’ and the conversation would continue.....but instead he pitched a fit and got blocked. Remind me again how women are the hysterical ones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:47 PM
40

I have chronically low self esteem and a binge eating disorder which has left me obese, so i'm trying to level myself up by getting to a healthy weight and mindset before I ever try and consider men again. I think I've continually thrown myself at damaged people who didn't treat me well as an additional form of self harm. That's my battle, yours is probably different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:45 PM
7

Some background, we had been discussing food, I let him know that I was vegetarian and then he immediately asked if I had eaten this type of seafood he enjoys. When I reminded him he got all kinds of mad. Calm down Brendan nobody said you were a bad person except YOU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:12 PM
1

Dudes who self identify as 'doms' so they could tell me how to behave and I didn't feel conflicted about it, or raging narcissists with wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:19 PM
6

Clam Down!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:09 AM
8

Been there, done that. All it did was make me insecure and stopped me from believing in myself. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:43 AM
2

So i guess these dudes have stopped pretending they want to be 'allowed to live in peace' and just out and out admit they want extermination of females lmao Hard to leave these people alone when they CAN'T STOP TALKING ABOUT US
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:31 PM
74

"We became the men we wanted to marry" really resonates, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:02 PM
4

Yup! I have worked at sea for the past 5 years and it is common in that community for men to have wives and mistresses and it be common knowledge to all involved. He was married and did the 'non monogamous' thing with me but took it badly when I started fucking other men when he wasn't around, shocker. I was deeply in love with him and still unpacking this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:49 AM
3

You sound like you are taking steps, I can relate to a lot of what you are saying and I think levelling up starts a little differently for those of us who have trauma to unpack first. Keep doing those small things and add in more when it feels right! I'm proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:42 AM
3

Imagine broadcasting your low self esteem like that bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:54 PM
7

Thankyou! I'll meditate on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:09 PM
4

We got this, sending good vibes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:09 PM
7

It's hard cause I've taken the job out of necessity, I work in travel in a sector I adore but that won't be happening for a while with miss Rona around :/ so I've moved in with my family and committed to a job at home until August. Trying to make the best of it but i feel like i'm going backwards in life lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:00 PM
18

Thanks for the wisdom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:40 PM
11

💕💕💕💕 ty sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:32 PM
139

Starting a new job tomorrow and feeling so incredibly unsure of myself. Needed to see this. Work hard and work on myself harder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:22 PM
48

I did ask why once and was told that it was seen as feminine or gay to do foreplay, which is hilarious to me. Making your lady feel good is gay? Sure. I'm sorry that the culture has made you feel that way, and hopefully you can get some peace with it <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:25 AM
35

Yeah, my jamaican and bajan sexual partners both expressed disdain for foreplay especially oral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:06 AM
3

I agree, but I'm saying they originally started calling a specific type of woman a 'Karen' by their estimations and now it is more broad. I do not use the term myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:50 AM
33

I'd love for someone to make a post about how to stop being self deprecating because it is my biggest crutch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:22 AM
122

This is correct for my own experiences too, I work in a super multicultural and super male orientated atmosphere (I work at sea) and the past few years for me it's been Jamaican, colombian, filipino, macedonian, indian, indonesian and obvs dudes from my locale beforehand that are white british. I tended to like going back to filipino dudes cos they are super super giving in terms of foreplay. My ex would make me cum 5,6 times before he even considered himself. Jamaican dudes were by far my worst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:05 PM
47

Yeah, it's a double edged sword. Either bothered about it OR he had some sense in his head and just got real good with the tongue. But I'm probably biased since I'd rather get head than ever have to fuck lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:34 PM
322

my last partner was asian, 5'3 and i actually had the best sex with him compared to other dudes i've fucked, felt like he hit all the right spots internally. I don't need a huge cock, but I do appreciate girth and a good curve. I've fucked some big dudes before and they just hurt, so I think I have a shallow vagina. It's cool, but I wouldn't broadcast that anywhere except here cause saying "I prefer smaller dicks" sounds like the pick me line of the century.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:27 PM
8

I feel like a lot of dudes miss the point of 'Karen' too like, just because a woman does something you don't personally approve of doesn't make her a Karen. Any excuse to put us in boxes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:38 PM
8

It's amazing right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:32 AM
10

Yay! I'm so glad we get to grow together 🌱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:31 AM
107

I never knew how much i needed to be here until I found you all. I've only been here a few weeks and already feel like my life is changing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:55 PM
7

Why the fuck can't we have ANYTHING you guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:49 AM
36

10000 reasons why you should not date dudes who look like a thumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:49 PM
4

i guarantee he is sat at home feeling like the master manipulator for this, just blocking his ass with no way to reach you to react is the best revenge, dude doesn't even get to know if he bothered you or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:18 PM
5

I needed to hear this today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:44 PM
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