| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | [FR] The barista | lolpickup | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 05:21 PM | |
| 11 | [FR] F-close, 3 year celibacy over, and uh-oh | lolpickup | /r/seduction | 03/04/11 08:11 PM | |
| 11 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a Cougar | lolpickup | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 10:13 PM | |
| 3 | [FR] The punk show | lolpickup | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 07:47 AM | |
| 1 | Sup seddit - Intro and plates I'm spinning | lolpickup | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 09:33 PM | |
| 1 | Being out AFC'd? | lolpickup | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 02:46 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [FR] F-close, 3 year celibacy over, and uh-ohThanks, feeling refreshed as hell now :) | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 02:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-close, 3 year celibacy over, and uh-ohhaha, thanks. Wrapped up becuase I know better. | /r/seduction | 04/04/11 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Fellow plus size sedditors. How is your luck with seduction?Otherwise I'm doing alright. I mostly pull from OKC these past few months because it's convenient and my job has been incredibly taxing on me, along with a shitty living situation. I did pick up a cougar at a club last month, but she ended up being insane. I need to get out more though. | /r/seduction | 28/03/11 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Fellow plus size sedditors. How is your luck with seduction?I currently weigh 280lbs, but I'm 6'4" and I carry my weight well, but I used to be almost 400lbs. Confidence with women that I already knew was great, but I always had issues approaching strangers. I hit the gym, for myself more than anything, started reading PUA material again (A friend had lent me "The Game" years ago) and built my confidence. I've seen really big guys have the ability to get with girls, it's all about your confidence. So my main advice, is get comfortable with yourself. I ha… | /r/seduction | 28/03/11 11:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a CougarIt's alright! It is kind of racist, but not "let's put on our robes, an lynch us a good ole boy" racist. The adults in my life growing up were the same. It's so strange to say that last sentence.... | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Anyone have any luck using this site?I saw this in an FR a few weeks back and it sounds like the most immature, passive aggressive, stupidest idea for dating ever. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 04:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a Cougarand she's a former professional ballet dancer ;____; it's so beautiful | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a CougarShe's 46, lol. She mentioned a lot how she is old fashioned and that what really attracted me to her was that I seem like an old soul. She shuts off her cell when not in use so it "doesn't kill the battery" and had a hard time putting her number into my iPhone, which I ended up having to do (I chuckled because someone mentioned this in an FR I read today) | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:35 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a CougarYeah, I get what you are saying. She was going on about what type of girl I should meet (I guess I need to stay away from Scorpios) and how since we're both Virgos, we won't really work out (my care levels were so high, at about 9001 /s) all the while we were making out and playing with each other's hands. I've always taken a passing interest in astrology, but I'm gonna go another 3 levels derper. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a Cougarty, ty. I was hoping you'd post here. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a CougarAs an update: I spoke to her again tonight, and she made some odd comments that have me convinced that I have her wrapped around my finger. She was very attracted by the fact that I danced with her and she said something along the lines of "not being jealous" while I was away on business. She doesn't text, so I'm going to have to figure out a good way to build more attraction long distance through voice. I tend to be a more descriptive person writing than I am speaking. Either way, she has alrea… | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 03:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a CougarYeah, I'm not sure what the whole "advice on romance" thing was about, but I know enough about astrology to be able to keep up. After talking to A, I decided to do more research on it this week, because it seems to be a very common trend. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 02:53 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a CougarYeah, when I read it on my phone, I read it the same way, thinking I made a typo. Derp. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 02:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The Club Weekend and Accidentally Bagging a CougarIt feels weird saying this, but she's from "that" generation. This feels kind of creepy, but she's not much younger than my mom, who is the same way. She followed this up later on by saying that she doesn't find black people attractive at all and why. The explanation wasn't racist per se, but it's a reflection of age for sure. I'm not racist, but I'm generally not attracted to black girls. | /r/seduction | 23/02/11 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Girl won't stop texting. Should I be replying?In my case, it has a lot to do with the fact that I ignore her frequently. It drives her bananas because she is so used to guys tripping all over themselves, so when she's at work or at a party, I'll get a blow by blow account of everything she does. I find it kind of funny because it's the flipside of where I was a few years ago. That was me! She is trying so hard for me to qualify her and I'm just not having it. | /r/seduction | 14/02/11 10:47 PM |
| 6 | Girl won't stop texting. Should I be replying?I'm in a similar position at the moment, but I've basically just ignored the stupid texts and only commented when I thought it was worth my time, going even as far as flat out ignoring for a whole day. I also threw in some negs to bring attention to the issue "Where is the unsubscribe button" "If I could unfollow you like Twitter, I would", but the texts persist. While mine were a little harsh, it fits the situation and the girl, I'm sure you can come up with some playful negs. | /r/seduction | 14/02/11 06:00 AM |
| 0 | How to scope out more dominate guys~?It's a shame you are somewhere else because you sound hella interesting. This is your fault. | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to stop girls from flaking?I reccomend Neutrogena TGel. That's the hard part about Internet dating, women get incredibly fickle and you have to build attraction really quick. I use this line when we talk about meeting up "You know, a lot of girls I make arrangements with on here totally flake on me because they just seem to be intimidated by my manliness" and joke about that. Most girls have a similar story and they will share. This seems to work most of the time, but some flakes are actually legitimate. Lives are chaotic… | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Match.com just acquired OKCupid.I wouldn't touch POF with a 10 foot pole cause it just got hacked and they are refusing to disclose to their users. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 06:12 PM |
| 18 | Match.com just acquired OKCupid.from: /r/okcupd link "We are excited to join forces with Match because it is clear that no company is more committed to helping people find relationships," said Sam Yagan, co-founder and CEO of OkCupid. "This marriage offers us the best of both worlds: the autonomy to continue pursuing OkCupid's original vision and the ability to leverage Match's reach and expertise to grow even faster." | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 03:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Little embarrassing, but first kiss (I'm so old), solid date. Hope for awkward, late people just starting outDude... you stole my Ikea date idea! jk, I haven't had a chance to do this, but when asked the response was ~amazing~. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 11:38 PM |
| -3 | What's wrong with Seddit?nine whole days of posting history in seddit. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 05:17 AM |
| -2 | What's wrong with Seddit?Oh goodness. You don't seem to know how to read. Tell you what, go back, read my comment FULLY and then get back to me. Also, look at my post history and then you can apologize. I'll wait here. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 04:11 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with Seddit?I've been reading Seddit for a few weeks now and it's rapidly gone down hill since. Some of these new posts are retarded, the OPs don't read the sidebar and a lot of general retardedness. New users are not reading the sidebar, they want a magic pill that they can swallow and make some girl fall in love with them. Gentlemen, that's not how it works. I admit, my comments have been trolly in nature (I'm a troll, I cannot lie) but I try to convey a message or make a point. Overall quality has decrea… | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 02:29 AM |
| 1 | What is a good way to ask out a female barista?I like my coffee like I like my women, dark and bitter. I like my coffee like I like my women, light and sweet. Girls on the job are tough, check my history for a barista story. The goal with waitresses/baristas/etc is to be different and memorable. They serve 9001 people a day, so anything you do or say that is memorable will be A+++ will flirt with again. They also have guys hitting on them all day, so again, that advice rings true. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 01:48 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a girl says "sorry im working but we will definitely hang out sometime" assuming she is honest? Rejection?That's the originating story from OP if you were curious. Should of probably mentioned that in the comment. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you spin plates on Valentine's Day?This can now be taken care of with the magic of permissions! | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 11:31 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a girl says "sorry im working but we will definitely hang out sometime" assuming she is honest? Rejection?http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fclry/need_advice_after_making_first_contact/ | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Need advice after making first contactOk. Read the sidebar first. Second don't add her on Facebook just yet, you clearly want to jump at that, but don't. It will give her the impression that you are very into her and give her control of the frame. And you are very clearly into her. You might even have a case of one-itus. Forget about her for a while, talk to other girls, if you two happen to be in the same room together, approach her and follow the advice on the sidebar. edit: My previous post had a point. You are asking people what… | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Need advice after making first contactI don't know, should you? | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Need advice after making first contactBut seriously, the first step would of been perfect. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Need advice after making first contactYou should of walked over there, teased them all for talking about you and then introduced yourself. I also then suggest walking over to your target and carrying her off to your dorm/apartment, but this isn't for everyone. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 08:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Deaf newcomer decides to test the AA to see if there are any resultsI dated a deaf girl in hs, never really went beyond holding hands, light kissing and trading notes in "our" notebook. I started to learn ASL, but she moved away, I know how to say "bullshit" and "thank you" I was thrown off earlier in the week when I tried to hit on a deaf girl at a show while not knowing she was deaf till later. There is a fairly large deaf school near me and I'm guessing it's a situation I'll run into again eventually. I'll talk to my friend who is majoring in ASL, thanks :) | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on picking up a girl who's on the clockThis made me chuckle a bit, good situational line :) | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 04:10 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Deaf newcomer decides to test the AA to see if there are any resultsEnjoyed reading this :) Congrats man. Any advice for hitting on deaf girls? :P | /r/seduction | 30/01/11 02:27 AM |
| 15 | Is Texting/Facebook Killing Cold Approach Game?Do you not have an enter key? ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Any logistical tips for planning around flakes?"Hey, you're going to come get drinks with me on Wednesday at $location" If she flakes again: NEXT | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here go out in St.Paul/Minneapolis?I should be up next month, but it's tenative. I'll PM you. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here go out in St.Paul/Minneapolis?I'm interested in this because I fly up to St Paul for business a few times a year. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a good cologne suggestionAn ex of mine really liked Unforgivable by Sean John. I've gotten really good compliments from it from other girls as well. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Met cute girl I've been eyeing, friend let her know that I'm interested, seeing her tonight.Don't get me wrong, I believe this situation can be recovered from, I just don't have the answers due to herping while I derp. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Met cute girl I've been eyeing, friend let her know that I'm interested, seeing her tonight.Think about it. Your buddy contacted her and told her that you were "captivated". Already, she assumes that you are gaga over her and she can act/do however she wants now. Like I said, everything I come up with sounds retarded, even now. Maybe someone else can step in. I'm running on 8 hours of sleep for the last 48 hours. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Met cute girl I've been eyeing, friend let her know that I'm interested, seeing her tonight.Really now? Congrats on taking the initiative and going to talk to this girl. The thing with "likealittle.com" is a bit childish and you've lost control of the situation walking into the door. Your friend gave her the keys to your kingdom by posting there and you are walking into the situation with no control. I thought I could give you good advice on the situation and help you out, but everything I typed out seemed rather retarded. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Finally got a girl's number from classNo. There is no winning the game. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 05:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The punk showI get what you are saying, but due to current circumstances of a buddy being outed as a PUA in my social circle and criticized publicly, I'm going to hang on to my paranoia till things die down. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 10:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The punk showThe communication barrier was crippling. We had a notepad we used to write back and forth on, but it kind of sucked, which is why I started learning ASL. I liked her a lot, but she dissapeared. I didn't even think of her till my encounter tonight. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 08:21 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The punk showI did date a deaf girl while in HS for a little while. She was really sweet to me, but we never really went further than holding hands and kissing. I started learning ASL for her, but she ended up moving and I can maybe remember 3 words. 1 of them is a curse. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 08:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The baristaThanks for looking out. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 06:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The baristaLOL. I got my reply, but it's as if nothing ever happened in the coffee shop. She responded all serious going on about how Starbucks coffee is top quality, it's not bad, etc. Her whole text was split up 3 ways because of her rant. A couple things could of happened: I read the situation wrong She didn't get the joke (not everyone knows how coke dealers work) She was kind of weird to begin with(I like weird girls though) She actually was a cop and I was about to be set up. (whew) So what now? I ca… | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 04:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The baristaNope, I'm in a southern state. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 01:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The baristaUPDATE: So it's 8pm and I haven't gotten a text yet, so I went ahead and sent her "So, you're not gonna give me the good coffee now to get me hooked and then give the crappy coffee once I'm addicted, right?" about 45 mins ago. She seemed shy, so I'm probably not going to get something back tonight if at all. I can always go back there and give her a hard time. I told my buddy, if it's a next, it's a next. I had fun doing this and it's given me awesome crazy confidence. edit: tried joining my loc… | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 01:19 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The baristaWhy thank you. I don't quite think I showed everyone up here tbqh. Wait till I post a FR of me going to a bar or club, then you'll see this awesomeness crumble completely. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 01:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The baristaYou're right, Assange may not be the best choice. Hacking is big in the media, so it'll be one of those tools I can use in my arsenal. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 12:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The baristaolawd that's actually really, really amazing. I have not played Magic in YEARS. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 12:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] The baristaI've actually been wanting to learn some magic for some time now, it's a cool thing to have when social engineering too and a lot of the concepts are the same. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 10:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The baristaDunno why you got downvoted (so have an upvote), but I'm actually annoyed it's gone this easy. I was expecting a challenge and expecting rejection, but glad it's turned out this way. Part of my personality is that I absorb as much of something till simply absorbing is useless and I need to practice what it is I learned. I sound like a veteran because I've been reading seddit for a full week now and have gone back very far into the archives where no man has gone before. I also read PUA literature… | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 10:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The baristaThey are just hating. Keep it up man. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 07:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The baristahttp://www.jinx.com/men/buttondowns/coding_security/hacker_buttondown.html?catid=1&cs=19&csd=hacker I didn't really game her, just some light flirting and smiles all around. I ordered a beer with dinner and she asked if I wanted a second round "Now you're trying to get me drunk!" I'm trying to improve my overall ability to interact with people and she enjoyed it. Servers constantly get hit on all day long, so when someone is playful and funny it brightens their day a bit. (I used to be in food s… | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 07:18 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The baristaI have a tattoo and gauged ears, so it gives me that "nerdy bad boy" edge. I like bikes and muscle cars, but I don't own any. I prefer nerdy girls that align with my interests, I don't want to have to explain everything to a girl that has no idea how to properly turn on her computer when her Twitters are acting up. On the other hand, this is where I need to improve. While this gives me a lot of material to open on nerds, I need to work this material to for "normal" girls. Thanks for bringing up … | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 06:59 PM |
| 5 | [FR] The baristaComing from that screen name, your comment means a lot ;) | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 06:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The baristaThanks. I'm doing good with warm approaches, but I gotta figure out those cold approaches better. Day 2 challenges is to make more eye contact while making conversation to 5 strangers and writing down their eye color. I already have 2 down today, but I forgot to remember the eye colors. Ah well ;/ | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 05:46 PM |
| 1 | isn't that a girl's name?Take whatever your name is and turn it into something. I like the other suggestions posted "That's not a girl's name, that's my name :wink:" "Just pretend your making out with a girl then" I knew a guy named Lindsy in highschool, dude had no problems. | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 03:38 PM |
| 2 | isn't that a girl's name?Derp. The connection didn't click | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 05:10 AM |
| 2 | isn't that a girl's name?I know this is probably not going to happen, but what is your first name? If it's Ashley, (you have an "a" in the first letter of your screen name, assuming it's your initials and your age.), you can either make it go two ways depending on the crowd. Ash is the name of two fairly famous pop-culture characters. Bruce Campbell in Evil Dead as Ash, or Ash Ketchem from Pokemans. If the crowd you are in will get it: "Ever see evil dead?" y: "Just like me, Ash is a badass, but I left my chainsaw and s… | /r/seduction | 24/01/11 04:49 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Crappy night of sarging ends with #-closeGood for you man, glad my advice got you somewhere. If you like hookah bars and hipster chicks, they are also pretty good places to go for similar settings. Coffee shops are great places to meet women. That artsy stuff is great for opening as well. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I´m a fat guy who is actually fairly good with women, AMA!Awesome, I'm glad you posted because I was going to ask about this in it's own thread. I see you weigh 320lbs, I was there in November and I've since come down to 285 range. (I was pushing 400 and still getting laid) It's given me a lot of confidence and they have definitely noticed. I go to the gym a lot, but I've not been a gym bro. How often do you f-close? and is it ever an issue in the back of your mind that causes problems? Until now, I've pursued LTRs, but I've decided to have fun now whi… | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 09:32 PM |
| 1 | My IRL game is down without a doubt but I am awful at facebook and texting.While this is opposite of my problem, I completely understand. I'm actually really good at going from transitioning from internets to irl. Tell them you want to talk to them a different way, don't disregard texting/IM outright as a method of communication "I hate texting, it's stupid, I don't get it, etc" (like an old person might say) because it's become a geniune way to socially interact these days. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Sup seddit - Intro and plates I'm spinningGreat book btw. First thing beyond books is to seek out some people in your area that share the same interests. DCG or 2600 group would be a good place to start. If you can go to cons, get to cons. Check out /r/netsec, this account is obviously a shill account, but I post and lurk there frequently. Much like seduction, the relationships you build with people in the field will make your life go much smoother and will open a lot of doors for you. I advise downloading BackTrack4 and going through t… | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Sup seddit - Intro and plates I'm spinningI've been trying the same thing every day. I generally flirt with girls that are working wherever it is I go, I find them more attractive than the ones just walking around at stores/Starbucks/etc. It is a super fun job, for pay, you need to develop lots of technical and soft consulting skills. A mind that is easy to mold would be a requirement of a candidate, especially one with little to no technical skills. It takes a lot of problem solving and reasoning. I work for a firm doing this, I probab… | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 04:14 PM |
| 2 | ideas for tonightHead to the bookstore, coffee shop, hookah lounge, etc | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Sup seddit - Intro and plates I'm spinningI agree. I was led there already with the one girl and I'm leading her out of it. The girl I was starting to get with, I was able to get her back home after the first date, probably would of had her clothes off if my roommate lent a helping hand and took the movie to his room. I probably could of pushed her further too. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Sup seddit - Intro and plates I'm spinningYou're paid to test security for companies. This is also called pentesting. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Sup seddit - Intro and plates I'm spinningYeah, not an issue by myself. Probably anxiety. | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 10:37 PM |
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