I was handed "The Game" a few years ago by a friend, kind of thought it was trashy and never really built on to that. I'm a hacker by trade and I'm not that great at social engineering, so I'm hoping to improve this as well. After being an AFC my whole life, finally decided to do something about it. My buddy has had some success after finding seddit and working with his local lair, unfortunately he lives 3 hours away from me. (more on that later)

Some of this stuff comes really naturally, I have high DHV wherever I go and I'm great at negging/teasing. I generally have problems with approach and kino, but what guy doesn't in the beginning?

I came close to an fclose and a relationship (which was my goal), but at the very last minute, she decided she wasn't over her ex and erased me from her life. I was generally alpha with her, but I had problems reverting back to beta-mode sometimes. We ended up making out for an hour in my room, but she refused to go further because my roommate (who I notified ahead of time) and his gf were watching tv right outside in the living room. Felt good, wanted to get that fclose, but whatever. I told her where we were going, what she needed to do, etc. My game was pretty good with this chick and this is before I found Seddit and started talking to my buddy about this.

Oh, btw, haven't had sex in 4. years. I was in a relationship where I went full alpha at first, reverted to beta as soon as we started fucking. She went to study abroad, and fuck European men. After that, I was demolished with women and looked for "deeper" relationships afterward.

I'm running two long term games on a hb8-9 and a hb6-7 long distance. I've known both of them for a while, one or both of us were involved every time I've hung out. The hb6 is coming down here in a few months to visit and she's staying with me. I've had a boner for this chick for a long time and I'm planning on getting up in her. She generally is driven nuts by being ignored and escalates really easy because of it. We send flirty texts back and forth and sometimes pics. The hb8 is a girl I've known just for a few years. It doesn't take a lot to game her, she's gaga over the fact that I hack for a living and she's heard rumors about my goods from the cheating ex. Actually both of them have heard rumors from an ex. She has ridiculously low self-esteem, so it's easy to game her. (I'm not taking advantage of it, it's just how the cookie crumbles)

Things I need to work on:

  • I suck at approaching. I had a gigantic opportunity this winter while in NY at my family's bar. Lots of friends, huge social proof, I probably could of slept with any girl that night... if I had the balls to approach.
  • My RL game sucks to a certain point, but once I get there it's game on. *I'm used to dating girls from OKC, while this gets me dates, it doesn't get me closer to my goals (popping my secondary vcard) I need to get out in the real world and work on things. (see the trend? I am just way too internet)

I do have one question: like I said, I have not had sex in 4 years. I was worried because generally I have a hard time when I'm first with a girl. I make up for being a cunning linguist, but my guy gets shy and I am disappoint. It also causes problems like "WHAT AM I NOT ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH?!?!?!?!" which I diffuse, by negging/teasing a little bit and explaining. (this is usually relationship type stuff) If I get to this point, is there anything you guys recommend for me to do? Should I get a otc boner producer, or a script from my doc? (I read a thread here the other day about a guy popping a viagra)