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I just learned a lot from you about child sex abuse. Things I never considered, so thank you. And I appreciate that you’re responding to everyone in such a calm manner regardless of their attitudes. You seem like a pretty cool and smart girl from the way you communicate. I think there are tons of guys out there for you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 10:40 PM
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Thank you, I really appreciate your advice. I’m spending time with family for the holiday so there will be lots of people to help watch the kids for a couple days. I’ll take a journal with me to fill my free time! I’m curious what you mean by indirect benefit and the story attached with a learned love language. I definitely felt abandoned as a child… what is the connection here? I’d love to get to the bottom of it.
/r/RedPillWives30/06/22 12:18 AM
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I don’t usually post only because my partner and I aren’t married…. We have 2 children together and neither of us plan on going anywhere. But I would like to be married and he’s not quite on board. Tbh I feel a bit embarrassed about that because I know RPW advises against the way we got together (pregnancy after dating 1 year). I guess it’s that I feel I just don’t belong… and I honestly don’t know if most women here would agree with me or would say I’m just being silly?? Either way, I do all th…
/r/RedPillWives28/06/22 02:39 PM
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This is a seriously awesome response. Thank you so much! No I’m not in a Mother’s group. I do have a handful of friends but I have a really hard time venting too much to them. I don’t like to seem like I’m complaining/not a good mom/don’t love my kids/ putting my partner down/etc. I imagine they’d probably be relieved to hear me open up and talk like that more often though. I’ll give it a try. Yelling is definitely cathartic for me. I love that you asked your husband to call you out on it. I nee…
/r/RedPillWives18/06/22 11:53 PM
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Thank you so much for this. I do try to love on him. And gave him oral while I was healing. I know it really helps his stress, helps him feel loved, and closer to me. We tried sex the other night but it hurt where my fresh scars are. I definitely see the change in willingness to help after those interactions. Our problem is he works so much, and I’m always with the kids, there’s just often not a chance for us to cross paths. I will look for more opportunities. Thanks again.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/22 04:08 PM
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I appreciate your perspective. I had the same when I was pregnant with my first. It’s tougher than you can imagine. I do work all day. Staying home with babies is the hardest job I’ve had.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/22 03:40 PM
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I appreciate your perspective. I had the same when I was pregnant with my first. It’s tougher than you can imagine. I do work all day. Staying home with babies is the hardest job I’ve had.
/r/RedPillWives17/06/22 03:40 PM
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Yes! I’m very cautious who I tell that I don’t give my LO any food with added sugar. And I do things like make her homemade applesauce. Why is this an embarrassing thing to tell people!?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 04:27 PM
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Totally agree. Sooo gross!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 04:17 PM
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This is so insightful! My LO is 21 months so we’re just getting into toddlerhood. This makes lots of sense to me. Thanks
/r/RedPillWives10/03/22 02:06 PM
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In regards to the “proving himself to you”…. That will really just take time. And 9 months probably isn’t going to be long enough. You need to make a decision right now if you trust him or not. And don’t go back on that, support him while he builds a life for all of you. My partner and I were only together for a little over a year before I got pregnant with our first baby. He had a great job but left it to open his own business. I was so scared but I decided to trust the process and the principl…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 04:57 PM
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You could ask these subs r/books r/findabook r/booksuggestions
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 03:26 AM
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Ohhh I hope someone can find it for you!
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 03:24 AM
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This is good advice! Thanks. I’m curious what you mean by laundry being a trust issue?
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/22 01:48 AM
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I’m a SAHM with just my 20 month old right now. Pregnant w our second. So I know you have years of experience more than me. But one thing that came to my mind is that my partner and I have been playing scrabble at night. It’s been loads of fun. Most of our games are pretty closely tied. Its a chance to sit and talk… we end up laughing a lot. It’s great! Maybe something like this??
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 06:09 PM
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This is great advice, a lot can get done in five minutes as far as tidying up goes!
/r/RedPillWives19/02/22 03:11 AM
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I would really love this!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 04:52 AM
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Being selfish isn’t always a bad thing. In this case, her mental health is at stake. And the children are probably not blind to what’s going on between their parents. I’d wager to say their mental health is at stake too.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/22 10:06 PM
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I’m not sure I agree with this… I think everyone has the capacity to forgive. Not saying it’s easy though. OP, It sounds like he needs help to let go of the past. It really isn’t fair of him to keep holding it against you. Especially if you’re doing everything in your power to take his lead, show him respect and love, etc… I would tell him your thoughts: You want to move forward and grow together. But you can’t keep being held in the past. Ask him what you can do to settle the matter so he can g…
/r/RedPillWives11/02/22 07:34 PM
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My sister is cognitively disabled. Should she not be praised? Also, if sex workers and their customers are happy, that’s all that should matter.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 12:28 AM
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That’s very impressive! How did you get to this point? Especially with twins? I was not good at this when my girl was younger than about 15 months
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/22 08:35 PM
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It really depends on your baby’s age. In the beginning I was just scraping by as well. My LO is 20 months and here are the things that keep me on top of things: 1) always clean every dish by the end of the night. I try to load the dishwasher as the day goes and run it just before bed. I got this idea from YouTube - search for “dishes math” 2) put clean dishes away before nap time. If I do let dishes pile up in the morning, by lunch time I will get the clean dishes put away and dirty ones put in …
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/22 03:45 PM
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Oh I’m so happy for you!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 07:22 PM
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Oh yes I had a boyfriend Ike this around your age. It wasn’t until I had a couple other boyfriends when I realized how awful that first bf was. Not a lot of people can make the massive improvements you’ve made. And there are a TON of men out there that deserve a woman like you. My advice is to go enjoy the compliments from those men while you search for your prince. ETA: I almost never advise an internet stranger to leave a relationship. You just deserve so much more sweetheart
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 06:59 PM
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I feel my family and I all belong to each other. But not in the sense that we are owning each other. More like I want to belong to him and my kids, he wants to belong to us, and (so far) our kids want the same.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/22 07:30 PM
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Your first paragraph is so interesting to me. And makes a lot of sense. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 03:50 AM
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I really feel you! I’ve had issues with this too. As you said, I’m becoming a more gracious and kind person. I try to be warm and friendly to everyone and treat them how I want to be treated! But I really feel like…. I dunno… a lot of people don’t know how to receive this kind of treatment? Like it’s too hard for them to open up or something?? It’s so frustrating, I just end up feeling hurt for putting myself out there. I recently had a friend just straight up not respond to a text I sent the ni…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 03:43 AM
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Id like to suggest a book for her to read (I am a straight female). It shines a light on how she may be unknowingly disrespecting you and gives ways for her to change her behavior. Now, I’m not sure how well received it will be for you to recommend it to her (because it basically says she is the one that has all the power to change your relationship for the better or worse, not you) but I might as well give you the title. I listened to it as an audiobook. It’s called “First Kill All the Marriage…
/r/MensRights04/01/22 12:41 AM
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The audio book “First Kill All the Marriage Counselors “ by Laura Doyle helped me in a similar situation!
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/21 10:33 PM
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Oh yes I have def heard of this. I didn’t think about it at all. He might really like that. And it would make me feel shy which of course he loves to play into, lol! Love it, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/21 03:50 AM
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Thank you for posting this! I have been wondering this for about a year too
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/21 01:29 AM
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This is really interesting. Where did you find this?
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 08:23 PM
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It’s not quiet to him when he’s trying to sleep. You have actually shared with all of us that he’s expressed this to you… and you’re still refusing to believe it. The only time he has complained is when he perceives I’m being “careless” by loudly throwing on the light and traipsing into the bedroom like he’s not there, neither of which I do. His perception is his reality. Write out his words and read them as the truth. Stop telling him he’s wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 01:13 AM
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Lol yeah I think about this every now and then. My mom was start at home but my parents didn’t ever explain to me that this could be an option for me. I probably would have still went to college but it’s interesting to me that this isn’t a conversation that had.
/r/RedPillWives14/11/21 01:24 AM
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For real! When I first joined this sub I don’t remember ever reading comments like this. I was around 30 then and the comments always seemed to come from women who were even more mature than me. Tbh all of Reddit has gone downhill.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 12:16 AM
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