Okay this is something I’ve been thinking about posting for a while but I’m just not exactly sure if I can explain myself correctly. Here goes…

My partner was very into “pick up” before we met and while he was dating. Like he had some very popular articles/blog posts (this was back around 2005-2010) and swears some of the OG pick up guys used his material. He learned a lot about getting the girl and from my experience he was really good at it! I like this about him. He’s super sexy and really good at “playing the game” but he’s also just so sweet and such a good man.

But now we’ve been together a while, have a daughter and have a second on the way. We flirt and have fun but I’ve been wondering if there are little things I could do to activate that “chase” feeling for him. Like… so he can use those skills again, you know??? I don’t mean that I want to play games with him but just give him a fun little challenge I guess?? Are you feeling me? I’d love to hear some ideas!