lostinkyoto Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Advice?	SEEKING ADVICE	lostinkyoto	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/20 10:02 PM
1	Is this a red flag?		lostinkyoto	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/20 08:42 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
130	Man Wonders If Leaving His Urgently Ill Girlfriend At The ER Was, Like, Rude Or Whatever. You wrote “fiancé at the time”… please tell me they didn’t get married.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/22 12:17 PM
6	What is the best thing that happened to you after your left your bad relationship? I got a dog. I moved across the country. I keep my environment as clean as I like. I took up fun new outdoor hobbies. I haven't looked back!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/20 02:14 PM
12	Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want. Hmm if he was "used by females for sex and [his] body", then he should already know how bad it feels to be objectified. No thanks!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/20 03:54 PM
9	What kind of men are those who only talk about themselves? I have encountered so many men like this. They don't ask questions about me and they interrupt me to talk about themselves. When I do manage to finish a thought, they just steer the conversation back towards themselves. The worst example was when I excitedly told a man that I was meeting the governor the next day - he interrupted to ask which governor (uh, the only one?) then told me about an interaction he'd had with a previous governor. He then continued talking about himself. I was so steamed…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/20 05:40 PM
5	Is marriage worth it anymore? I'm sorry you're going through this as well. But you have every reason to be optimistic. It's an exciting world out there! I was terrified of being alone at first, but it ended up being one of the best decisions I've ever made. I wish you all the best, and feel free to reach out any time if you want someone to listen who's been there before.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/20 05:16 PM
11	Is marriage worth it anymore? Are you me? My story is identical, except I'm a few years past the divorce hump. It was hard in the moment, but ultimately so worth it to get out of that relationship when it was hurting me more than it was helping me. You got this, sis!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/20 04:57 PM
2	Comedy hour... What's the longest time period a man has reached out to you after? 2.5 years, and it was an absolute novel of an apology text from my ex-husband who had an affair. Barf. Blocked.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/20 09:21 PM
9	REMINDER: block him sis “Why It Took Me 7 Months to Unfollow My Ex on Instagram” I don't see the point in following exes. If we broke up (regardless of who initiated), then I don't want to see them anymore, and I certainly don't want them creeping on me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/20 10:32 PM
2	Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself? I went on a business trip and built up my network in my field. Also paid off my car!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 02:29 PM
1	'Be A Lady They Said' Video Narrated By Cynthia Nixon Is Powerful And Real This gives me chills. So true.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 02:23 AM
7	It's over. So sorry you're going through this, sis. I'm going through something similar. Its not easy! Here is what I did/am doing: I blocked him on everything - Instagram, Facebook, even the Xbox I purchased just to play with him. I can't see him and he can't see me. If I don't see, then I don't know, then I don't have anything new to analyze and hurt over. I am marking on a calendar every day I go without talking to/checking up on him. It's a running tally of exactly how strong I am. And when I see my st…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/02/20 03:42 AM
70	Tips to recover your self esteem after falling for a fuckboy Sister, I am in the same boat as you right now. Its not easy! Here is what I did/am doing: I blocked him on everything - Instagram, Facebook, even the Xbox I purchased just to play with him. I can't see him and he can't see me. If I don't see, then I don't know, then I don't have anything new to analyze and hurt over. I am marking on a calendar every day I go without talking to/checking up on him. It's a running tally of exactly how strong I am. And when I see my streak, I don't want to break it…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/20 08:38 PM
1	Self Improvement Workout - climb, hike, yoga. Spend time with friends. Read to learn new things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/20 03:52 PM
7	He can ALWAYS make time for you. Excuses are excuses. Sister, I'm sorry to say this to you - you shouldn't have to send this to him to get his attention.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/20 02:50 AM
13	Don't know if this has been made a post already, but hey ladies in awesome relationships with HLM, can we hear about your success stories and how you did all the right things for yourself to win the mega jackpot relationship boyfriend lottery? :) Let's inspire some folks! I'm not going to tell any long personal stories, but I will share some pointers that worked for me: I boosted my self-confidence by leveling up my appearance. I developed a skincare and hair styling routine. I had makeovers done at a few different makeup stores/kiosks to try new products and get an idea of what I liked. I leveled up my wardrobe (this doesn't have to be expensive - I've purchased nice pieces at thrift stores. The trick is to think classic and timeless). I do my own nails. I too…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/19 09:55 PM
6	Talk Therapy: tales of your pickmeisha past Even writing this makes me cringe, but here we go. After 6 years of marriage, I discovered that he was having an affair. I considered leaving but he said he wanted to make things work, and I believed him. I organized an international trip to help rekindle the relationship. He was distant during the trip, and one night he made a comment that he cheated because he was dissatisfied with his job. Ladies, I actually said out loud to him that I wanted him to be happy, he should go back to school to st…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/19 10:58 PM