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Discussionlostnumber08/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:51 PM
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lol yeah, I guess my point is that the ring isn’t a deterrent. Other married women hit on me all the time, much to my wife’s amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:30 PM
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Try being charming and hot. They absolutely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:05 PM
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Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:45 PM
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Op lives in a version of reality where people don’t have allergies, no one minds their house/apartment stinking of animals, and everyone enjoys having hair on their cloths at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:08 AM
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I like women and enjoy being around them. I am socially well-adjusted and people seek out my company. I am optimistic and hopeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:32 PM
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Yeah just not you bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:11 PM
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Age is correlated to fertility and mitigating risk of birth defects and birth complications in general. Younger women have fewer complications related to pregnancy and birth. This is a medical truth. Most men want families. This isn’t a difficult concept to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:52 AM
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They are just as beautiful but not just as valuable. Men want families; the serious ones anyway. 40 year old women may be very attractive, but age is correlated to high risk pregnancy and birth defects.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:53 AM
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Ragebait. You fell for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:35 PM
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Men of value will never want a family with a sex worker, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:16 PM
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Just a reminder that you don't need to be a high value man to be a man of value. If a woman can't see your value, she isn't worth what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:17 PM
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For sex; yes. For relationship; no. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:45 PM
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Phenotype is an indication of reproductive fitness. Pretty simple to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:05 PM
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“Pilled” people are to be avoided in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:34 PM
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OP over here acting like everyone deserves sexual attention; which ... isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:47 PM
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#1 Humans do not have instincts. #2 You think religion discourages polygamy? You have a lot to learn, fellow netizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:12 AM
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A worthy man will attract a worthy woman and you can have a family. If you are a good man, having a family will make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:23 PM
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They are the right place to meet a specific kind of woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:31 PM
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Lol speak for yourself! You don't love women, so you think that no men love women. Self-association schema; you are incapable to thinking about the world outside of your own personal experience. Coincidentally, this is also how children think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:40 PM
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Already have kids. My wife like getting her guts blasted. Birth control fucks up her hormones. It is a reasonable compromise, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:27 PM
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They are waiting for a man to talk to them who is much more charming and socially intelligent that you. Pretty simple. You are making the mistake of self-association; thinking that all men view women like this the same way that you do when we don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:06 PM
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The “all women do X thing” mentality automatically prices you out of the market lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 02:43 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:13 PM
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I live in the western plains of the US. I have never once met one of these people in real life. Most men, even younger men, out here are married and have kids. They don't ever spout any of that "pill" bullshit. These men, by-and-large, are hard working, compassionate, kind and humble; all qualities that pill-bros lack. I work almost exclusively with row crop farmers and cattle ranchers. All of these men are the antithesis of pill mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:25 PM
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Feminine. Fit. Cooperative. Loyal. Family-oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:51 PM
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I believe it because I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:50 PM
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Take this wisdom from an older married man: "open relationships" are total bullshit and almost never work out. The ones that do are the exception, not the rule. It is just a convenient sex buddy and you are also at huge risk for STIs. Do yourself a favor and pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:04 PM
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A woman has more to offer than simply being hot; this is something that all you pill-bros can’t comprehend. How cooperative are these women? How worthy are they as mothers? How capable are they as homemakers and managing a household? Pillboys have no ability to see past their own status, personal pleasure, and have no concept of sacrifice or hard work. You think that everything comes easy once you have looks and money (again, I have both) because this is how you want life to be. You all just wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:41 PM
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I suppose I meant in the context of having relationships. Having a well-paying job certainly makes paying bills easy, but it doesn’t necessarily make having a happy relationship easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:26 PM
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I have both of these things, and guess what… having successful relationships still takes work. There is no easy mode especially when you lack self awareness. Good looks and a career alone won’t carry you through life the way many men in this sub think it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:33 AM
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The simple answer is that short men are super fucking annoying. And with women, there is direct scientific correlation between height and intolerance for bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:06 PM
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Good lord...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:50 PM
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Looking for it, yes. Capable of it, no. "Pilled" bros, I feel, don't have the mental capacity to be cooperative enough to make a marriage work due to their brain worms taking over their personalities. No well-adjusted, functional woman would ever want to spend the rest of their lives with one of these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:48 PM
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Average men, no. Low-value shrieking man-babies, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:54 PM
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Like I said, it is interesting to me. My wife and I have a great relationship and I genuinely enjoy helping people who are willing to listen. Unfortunately, you don't seem to fall into that category, based on your response. So I will turn the question back on you: if you are unwilling to listen to the wisdom of people who have figured out how to make a relationship work, how to you expect to learn? Why would YOU come to the sub if you clearly don't value the advise and stories of more experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:53 PM
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Because it is interesting to me to read what people have to say about relationships now that I am not dating any more and offer insight where I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:36 PM
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"Despite what they say, you can absolutely be overweight and be healthy." Lol let's just agree to disagree. Super healthy overweight people are the exception, not the rule. Your argument is disingenuous on principle. Size is a perfectly fine indicator of health, at a glance. I don't want a fat person raising my kids because they clearly do not understand how healthy eating works, full stop. Watch the show, Secret Eaters. These people lie. The ones who aren't liars simply can't comprehend in thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:21 PM
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Depends on the woman. My wife was older than 25 when I married her. I married her because it was obvious to me that she would be a worthy mother. I generally find younger women insufferable, emotionally and intellectually. They are great to have sex with, not so great to have a conversation with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:09 PM
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If you shit your pants at home, no one will mock you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:51 PM
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I met my wife online. I was able to get her attention through charisma, which translates to writing skills as well. For example: I type out the word "you" completely instead of typing the letter, "u", which is cringe for educated people to look at. Also, being a literate "dude", I avoid capitalizing words which are not proper nouns. Little things like that go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:52 PM
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Anyone who uses this vocabulary is both emotionally and intellectually unfit and unprepared for an actual relationship. It is just a method of apologizing for ineptitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:22 AM
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I can’t help but agree with this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:19 AM
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Lol speak for yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:02 PM
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A majority of women have, at one point, been the victim of a man. There is your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:34 PM
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Depends on the type of people you value and how easily impressed you are. I’m a combat veteran with a stable career, wife and kids. “Bad boy” types get no respect from men like me. Maybe immature low value men respect them, but not men who actually have accomplishments and life experience. I see them as children and mentally fragile. I only respect men with compassion, intelligence, and a sense of family and community.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:28 PM
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The privilege it takes to assault a man and not expect retaliation…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/23 01:48 PM
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“Could someone please use legislation or technology to compensate for the fact that I have made myself undesirable to the opposite sex?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:02 PM
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I feel like this is more of a MGTOW larp than an actual goal since the men who fantasize about this kind of relationship are neither worthy of a woman nor capable (financially or psychologically) of providing for a family to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:03 PM
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Marriage is an L for YOU. You get nothing out of a deal that you have nothing to offer into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:25 PM
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On the internet, we call these women slampigs. Men can sex and easily forget about the human afterwards. She may find it validating, but the men are just mildly amused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:48 PM
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Have something to offer and have clear goals in life that another person would compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:19 PM
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A man of value doesn’t want strangers at a daycare raising his kids. A woman’s income rarely makes up for the cost of childcare and the loss of familial unity by having daycare employees raise your kids for you. So, yeah, your career doesn’t mean much to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:12 PM
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Lol speak for yourself. If you are a man of value, and you have a worthy partner, this isn’t the case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:07 PM
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If you and your partner are on social media looking for validation or thirsting, you don't have a serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:29 PM
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Probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:43 PM
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What is more important is who to NOT listen to. If you want a wife and family, don’t take advice from unmarried men. If you want to build wealth, don’t take advice from broke men. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:13 PM
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In generations past, hard work reliably led to a better life. This is no longer the case. Men are no longer incentivized or motivated to work hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:41 PM
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With an attitude like this, it's unlikely that any woman is going near him any time soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:57 PM
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There is a difference between keeping something alive and raising it. The goal of every parent should be providing optimal care so the child has every advantage within your means. You obviously don’t have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:31 PM
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OP doesn’t understand how much work is involved in raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:59 PM
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You could have just typed "Kevin Samuels high value man" in YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1T\_qUUdHGkI
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:51 PM
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As I stated in my previous reply, I use Kevin Samuels's definition of what constitutes a high vale man. Mr. Samuels (RIP) had an extensive online presence and there are many videos and interviews of him where he discusses the topic in exhaustive detail. I said that being a 'man of value' does not involve wealth, which I think Mr. Samuels would agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:44 PM
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I use Kevin Samuels's definition of "high value man" since he put a significant amount of thought into what separates people in this regard. So not every man can be a high value man, based on what Mr. Samuels said; however, every man can be a man of value, which doesn't necessarily involve wealth at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:44 PM
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Believe 87% of women.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/23 03:23 PM
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Men are rational, for the most part. Not all men are the same. Not all men can achieve things that other men can achieve. Often this is due to personal shortcomings. To avoid high/low value language is to avoid identifying ways that a person can improve themselves; which is, if I not mistaken, the entire point of discourse. Even if a man can’t be a “high value man” due to lack of opportunity or personal shortcoming which are insurmountable, they can still strive to be a man of value. Trying to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:03 AM
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Depends on the man. High value men view everything through the lenses of progressing their goals. Low value and younger men are in it for instant gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:23 PM
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As soon as some dude starts talking about “pills” and “maxing”, fucking run.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:16 PM
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Solipsism isn’t a female trait, it’s a trait of people who lack life experience and introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:10 PM
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Having a family requires intense cooperation. It’s unfortunate that more people don’t understand this. Hopefully you don’t have kids. My parents were total selfish narcissists and it was very harmful to my siblings and I.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:48 PM
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Maybe not to internet intellectuals like you, who are unable to type a sentence correctly. However, I have all of the things that redpillers claim that they want. A traditional stay-at-home wife who is highly cooperative, wonderful children, a good job with a six figure salary, the respect and attention of my peers in my industry, and all the rest of it. I have accomplished the things that they wish they could accomplish, and yet, I don't think like them... weird, huh? It is almost as if they fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:15 AM
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I have yet to meet a single man in my life who is “red-pilled” who is also capable of earning my respect. Just because something is popular doesn’t make it good or correct. Using “pilled” language is honestly cringe as fuck and outs you as being socially inept and lacking in introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:23 AM
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No, they just LARP about it because that is easier then introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:13 PM
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You need to be worthy of outcomes. You aren’t awarded anything just by existing. Do you think that the government issued men wives after they returned from world war 2? These were worthy men. If you don’t have the outcomes that you seek, look inward.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:53 AM
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ITT: OP cant figure out why women don't want what he has on offer. Denies that it has anything to do with him personally, and blames civilization itself. Something something Principal Skinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:54 PM
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No. Only on this sub. Weird coincidence, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:00 PM
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We are spending more time living our lives than being rage-mongers on the internet since people in real life actually want to talk to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:45 PM
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Reality: Being a "Nice Guy™" isn't what you think it is, if you are asking a question like this. Nice Guys™ think that by saying the right things and doing the correct things, that they will achieve a particular outcome. The reality is that warm-hearted, compassionate, and truly kind men who are successful with relationships do not think this way. You can be "mean" and still be a warm and compassionate man; these concepts are not mutually exclusive. The outcome is what men of value focus on, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:31 PM
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Amen. The "man-o-sphere" has created a cartoonish version of manhood that many desperate and lonely men sadly cling to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:12 PM
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I have yet to meet a successful, happy man with a family who thinks the way that you do, OP. Men of value simply do not think about women this way or see the world this way. Your mind has been poisoned by RP ideology. When you become a warm, goal-driven, compassionate person, you will attract those people in kind. I love you and I'm cheering for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:44 PM
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You only speak for men who want an attractive women for the sake of it; i.e. men with no actual goals. For men who want a warm, intelligent, competent mother for their children, an average or even homely woman can work for that goal. Your post just perpetuates the idea that men who are unsuccessful in relationships either don’t have goals or have deranged ideas about the point of relationships in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:15 PM
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"I am a woman therefore whatever I say applies to every woman," very well then. Additionally the idea that human even have instincts at all is debated amongst people who know more than the two of us. You are arguing from a presuppositional point that we have instincts, which is questionable at best according to the scientific community. "Someone disagrees with me, therefore they are stupid. " You are very good at Reddit, lol! I'm obviously not based on the outcomes in my life I have been able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:50 AM
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I can feel the pain in your response, and I get it. And your response give me great insight into the answer I was seeking, whether you meant it or not. >Most of the guys on this sub have done more to "improve" themselves than you ever will. Most guys here are muscular, dress well and practice game. This is what I'm talking about. The obsession with these qualities that, in terms of outcome, make no sense to me. These things you list, which are valid, are meaningless if a man isn't warm, caring, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:48 AM
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Giving advice is insulting and belittling someone and calling them stupid? You're really got it figured out heads and tails beyond what I'm capable of, clearly. Look at some of the more measured responses to my premise. This is how adolescents think. >You’re industry probably requires less mental power than that of being a doctor. And doctors are only slightly smarter than the average person. lol teenager detected. I work in the finance industry, specifically commodities futures markets. Stupid …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:37 AM
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Ok, and looking at your post history, you seem cynical and angry; everything I said is still valid. Being a woman doesn't inoculate you from having a bad take about something. You don't possess sacred knowledge by virtue of accident of birth. You accuse my wife of exploiting me (lol you know nothing about this woman) citing some study and that gives you power to invalidate my accomplishments with my family? Who is the delusional one? You sound like a rage-filled incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:26 AM
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What if all the men in her family are cunts? I do see your point however which I think is this: women need better men in their lives, in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:47 PM
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wew. You have a lot going on here. Thanks for the response and informing me of how stupid I am, despite the fact that I am relatively successful in life and have pretty much all of the things that incels and redpillers claim that they want; but, yeah... I'm the stupid one. My mentality is basically the opposite of your own, and yet I have the outcomes that people like you want... must be a total coincidence. I come here seeking clarity on a social ill so that I might take a position of compassio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:44 PM
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You accuse me of being delusional, yet, I have many of the things I want in life... and what to you have? Anger, frustration, disappointment? You claim to know about women, what outcomes do you have to substantiate your knowledge? Link all the studies you want, there are plenty of studies to corroborate what I say as well; the truth is always somewhere in the middle. What benefit has your rage towards women manifested in your life - again, what are your outcomes? I have a large peer group of suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:24 PM
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wew lad. You shouldn't get your information about women from porn and TikTok, for starters; you should get it from older men who have successful and happy families since they clearly figured out how to do it correctly. Happiness and successful relationships aren't about orgasms, my friend; they are about cooperation and common goals. That kind of hits on the nature of my post; trying to figure out the obsession with single-factor (look, mostly) selection that most redpillers have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:29 PM
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Lol my "advanced old age"... I'm stronger now that I was in my early 30s, but thanks. I've made the argument in some of my other replies that the concept of an "easy life" doesn't really exist. Humans are creatures of conflict and turmoil, and where none exists in out lives, we have a tendency to create it. I'd argue that everyone, at some point, has a tough time of it, but I do see and appreciate your point even though I disagree. What separates us is how we react to these tough challenges in o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:20 PM
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Red pill is often confirmed when you're in the casual sex/dating world. If you're in a long term relationship then obviously it looks weird and wrong. I think you are spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:15 PM
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This is very reassuring, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:13 PM
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No, because if they would make a good wife and mother, none of that matters very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 05:00 PM
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I would consider myself socially aware in general; I am well-traveled (have lived in 10 different states and grew up in one of the largest cities in the country) and have many acquaintances outside of my "peer group," so to speak. This is the reason for the post, I have never personally witnessed a lot of the things that redpillers complain about and had a tenancy to just think that these are low-value, low-effort men shouting at clouds. In an effort to have a more compassionate understanding of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:30 PM
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Horrifying. Sad to see they ruined a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:14 PM
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but because they subscribe to futilism and never putting any effort into things Very insightful, thank you. You are absolutely correct at the common theme of blame and lack of accountability. That's the thing I have a hard time understanding; many of these men talk about masculine and feminine characteristics with expertise and flourish, but one of the most principle characteristics of a strong man is accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:13 PM
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The post is real and I am genuine and honest in my questions. The internet has made us all cynical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:09 PM
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Thank you, this is exactly the kind of response I was looking for. I'm blind to a lot of these things and can understand what you are saying here. And yes, I was quite lecherous too, when I was in my 20s. But I feel like it is a phase for most men in my situation and once we hit our career stride in our 30s and 40s, we are just wanting a wife who is a worthy mother and intelligent and cooperative partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 04:06 PM
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You obviously don't; we aren't imbeciles here. My point is that people obsess over these phenotypic traits, when masculinity and your value as a male are so much more than this; any worthy woman understands this. If your theories were correct, and women ONLY selected for height, there would be no men under 5'7" at all; it's a ridiculous presupposition and isn't reflected in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:55 PM
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Very interesting observation, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:47 PM
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This is a very thoughtful reply, and I thank you sincerely. You are 100% correct in what you say about race; I have never even considered it. I have dated white, black, and Asian women, and my wife is actually Mexican; I have never even considered it an issue of any sort since all women have basically treated me the same way so I never saw a reason to differentiate (and I honestly don't care which race she is , as long as she is nice and a worthy partner). My blanket comment about men refers to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:45 PM
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I'm real and this is an honest post. I'm not sending you my LinkedIn to prove it. Hopefully, you can see the sincerity of what I ask and claim in my responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:39 PM
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Wow this was a great response, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:04 AM
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Nope. My parents were trash and I have largely shunned them. I haven't even let them near my kids. I also grew up in an incredibly dangerous city with a lot of violent crime and drugs, but managed to avoid that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:48 PM
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Well, for most serious men my age, casual sex isn't s chief priority; having a family is. I think goals and the type of women you are after have to align as some stage. And for short ugly guys, my argument is that attractiveness and masculinity exist on a continuum; there are other things people to in order to "peacock", such as being especially warm or charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:46 PM
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I don't understand the stories, that's what I'm getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:43 PM
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And yet I'm happy and have a wonderful family and friends and a successful career. I was a 35F and then a 35D in the Army; literally a fucking analyst. One of my jobs was to tear apart the best plans and find flaws within them in order to help the commander and staff think in a non-linear way. It's bold for a person like you to accuse a person like me of being confused when I have something to show for my efforts. You have no idea what you are talking about; why is it so hard for you people to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:42 PM
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If it makes you feel better to think that I am insecure... ok then. A man like me has no reason to be insecure. But, yes, some guy did get under my skin by attempting to convince me that I can never know what dating "really" like because of how I look; insisting that I am blind to the "reality". This sub seems to have genuine and honest interaction on the subject, which is why I posted here. And to be fair, I really don't understand "redpill" doctrine all that well. As I mentioned in the main po…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 09:08 PM
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Probably because I exist in both of those worlds and you exist in neither. I'm going off of experience and you are going off of your imagination. In the military, if you can't think for yourself (especially as an officer or NCO), you are useless. The power of our military is in it's flexibility and ability to adapt to an always-changing threat environment with new information constantly coming in. Same with successful companies; where do you think the new ideas come from? CEOs aren't geniuses, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:47 PM
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I get what you are saying, but I wouldn't call it a 1:1 analogy. Nearly all of the men I know have younger wives because... that seems to be what works. I wasn't purposely trying to leverage my status to get a younger woman; her age wasn't a factor at all, I'd argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:39 PM
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Well, I'm not sending you a link to my LinkedIn profile, if that's what you need. If you can't detect the honesty and sincerity in my responses, that is all on you, my brother. I have no desire to larp in a sub like this where I can see that most people are being quite honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:13 PM
1

To answer your question, I am not very experienced on how to phrase certain things in communities like this, so I simply use care and caution. And on your last point... what? You are projecting your worldview and it shows. Successful people don't follow the winds of culture in the way that you imagine. In my industry (and when I was in the military), independent thinking is rewarded. I would never venerate incels because loathing and self-inflicted weakness is repulsive to me. I would always tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:08 PM
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I'm trying to be kind and thoughtful in my responses and premises. You may see me an an NPC, but incels and red-pill bruhs desire everything that I have. The difference is that they are not willing to put in the work. My colleges and peers don't see me as an NPC, they see me as a capable leader. You just hate to see it because I am not like you, yet, I've had success. Why would you want everyone to be just as miserable and lonely as you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:02 PM
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Your point is spot on. Having other men in your life to learn from is so important. I always had access to older men by virtue of my time in the military. They were much smarter and more experienced than me; the only hurtle is simply asking them!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:52 PM
1

Hah! There is truth to this. I have met the men you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:48 PM
1

I also think that who you attract also intangibly lines up with what your goals are. I feel like most younger guys are just trying to get action, while older guys want a family and kids. Different goals = different women. Am I way off on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:46 PM
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Can corroborate this. I was 34 when I was married and I'm glad I waited. Getting married in my 20s would have been a DISASTER. My wife is also 8 years younger than me, it that is a factor. Maybe the idea of "extended adolescence" has some merit?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:44 PM
1

Agreed. OkC back in the day was very pleasant. You had so much space on your profile to fill in the context of your likes and dislikes, and write in general which gives others big insight into who you are instead of just headshots.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:36 PM
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Lol yeah! It does sound dopey, but I hate saying that I am "white" with all the baggage and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:33 PM
1

Dang, that is really interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:30 PM
2

>Nobody really helps them learn and talk to girls. You hit the nail on the head; I really think this is it. Having strong relationships with other men, especially older men, I think is the key to success with women. I've always had that and I think that is my point of privilege. I could talk to my peers or my First Sergeant about girls and they would always have something helpful to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:28 PM
1

Your last point there is 100% correct. I feel like ability to communicate plays a role too, don't you think? When I wrote a message on OkC to the woman who would be my wife, I wrote a long and funny introduction and included some observations about he from her profile and photos. I'd argue that my skill in writing was more important than my good looks in this situation. Asking my wife about it years later, she'd corroborate that. But this is why I'm glad for the responses because I'm trying to u…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:20 PM
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You are correct: his wife isn't very attractive; she is an average woman. That isn't why he is with her, however. His goal was to marry a motherly, dependable woman to have a family with. In that, he succeeded. Is the goal of the game to get the hottest woman possible? Other feminine virtues exist which are far more important to a man who has goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:15 PM
1

Noted! My goal was to get scrutiny against my point of view. Many great responses so far!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:11 PM
1

Thanks for pointing this out. Yeah, I believe that less suffering is good for society as a whole and we are all connected and responsible for one-another; which is why I try to treat people with kindness and respect. But with that, masculine and feminine archetypes are intrinsic to our civilization; most people who are socially aware, liberal or conservative, would agree with this. In the northeast, I grew up around strong liberal women who were, for lack of a better term... feminine. I don't th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:09 PM
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Good point, but i think that many of the "opportunities" women seem to have aren't actually opportunities at all and are more like fantasies. Women aren't blameless in this whole mess and need to temper their expectations and goals too. Kevin Samuals talked about this a lot and the topic of cooperation & outcomes; and I think he was 100% correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:56 PM
2

I have to say that you are correct; women have always been nice to me since I am tall and handsome, I suppose. But on the flip side of that, I think attitude is a big variable; or at least I have convinced myself that this is true. I know one particular tall and handsome guy who is a total cunt and he cant keep a girl for more than a month. Isn't having a positive outlook on live attractive to women or am I just naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:50 PM
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Thanks! Women are attracted to men in uniform, this is undeniable. However, some of the biggest scumbags I've ever met were also in uniform, so I think it falls in line with some greater common denominator at certain level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:44 PM
1

lol right!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:39 PM
2

Well, I see your point, but you make some incorrect assumptions about me. I had a terrible childhood living in one of the largest and most violent cities in the country and my parents were worthless humans whom I have shunned them as an adult. I dropped out of college just shy of finishing my degree and found success in my industry purely through guile and force of will. As far as your feedback on my height, I simply don't believe that what you say is true. Most women are not this shallow. Grant…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:39 PM
1

I understand that gap in personal experience. I did meet my wife on OK Cupid, but I don't know how different "website" dating is from "app" dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:32 PM
1

Right on. This is an interesting observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:31 PM
2

Maybe. I'm just really confused by all the "red pill" logic even though I do enjoy this sub very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:29 PM
2

This was an insightful response, thank you! I separated in 2014, which I suppose is before app-based dating became mainstream. I did, however, meet my wife on the website, OK Cupid. She told me that she was interested in me because my profile was funny and my responses to here were always thoughtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:27 PM
5

Low-value move, TBH; especially if you have kids. I would never respect a man who does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:18 PM
6

Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:57 PM
21

!00% deserved. Never attack someone unless you are willing to forfeit your own safety.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/22 05:51 PM
1

Body shape/composition. A woman still has more control over that than a guy has over his height, but that probably the closest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:47 PM
-1

Lol who the fuck reads magazines?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:18 PM
1

How does she tie her shoes?
/r/AntiFeminists13/10/22 07:14 PM
2

This one gets me every time.
/r/AntiFeminists18/07/22 05:35 PM
5

Can’t wait to see what these videos are like when we have automated fast food workers. Like, bitch, fight this FUCKING ROBOT.
/r/AntiFeminists12/07/22 10:18 PM
50

Holy shit "Female Delusion Calculator" im fucking dying.
/r/AntiFeminists08/07/22 05:17 PM
1

The derangement and delusion is actually very sad.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 08:27 PM
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It is excellent lolbait. For this reason alone they should keep it up.
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 05:29 AM
4

It’s amazing that we live lives so free of danger and turmoil that we can recreationally get mad about this kind of thing.
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/22 05:43 AM
3

Fucking dude is a savage.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/20 04:32 PM
1

Kc ccc .. kk.. kkkck COMBO BREAKER!
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/20 04:58 PM
3

Ahhhh... Jersey. The Florida of the Northeast.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/19 03:52 PM
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