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It's a nonsense. We don't look for the same traits. As a woman she is extremely cute. Though the guy herself is cutie a bit that's not what I seek in men. I like them more manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:18 AM
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We all chose what's going to be attractive to us. If guy is virgin over 30 yes I'm not much into teaching him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:03 AM
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Before I felt as I was alone while I was with him. Now I'm alone and full of potential. There's the world wide open. There's so much potential for me to find someone better.
/r/askFDS11/03/21 05:38 PM
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I suppose it is but I like the sound of it, double "ck" that sticks into ears. edit just like yours tch tch in witch bitch. Me gusta
/r/askFDS09/03/21 11:41 AM
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I had this before. What I did was cuting off my friend. Well, my ex would definitely go for her if we had continued going out all together. Twelve years forward I'm sory I didn't let things evolve between them and cut both of them off. If I were you I would first tell in calm manner what bothers me and if he continues to talk to her cut him of (or you could just stay silent and let things evolve). And she is most certainly NOT your friend. She's intentionally grooming him and investing lots of e…
/r/askFDS08/03/21 01:42 PM
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I suppose this is totally true. I just feel like I can't really believe my own eyes. I have so much trust issues now that I don't feel like dating anytime soon. Not just that 12 years with a narc monster didn't teach me any single lesson but I immediately fell for the same bullshit. Just this one was more sophisticated. God that's cruel to compliment a single mom that much and then go to into silent mode. Very insensitive, disrespectful and selfish to its core. How I was so wrong. It's a pure lu…
/r/askFDS04/03/21 08:07 PM
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That's true I suppose. I'm trying to develop some other format and standard to choose a guy than acting hard to get. Cos I am hard to get. I barely register 90% men on streets and on dating sites. I would not consider a date with them. I get easily bored with their arogancy. I just want to meet someone who emits sincirity and warmth of a kind like Robin Williams had. And when I recognise that I'm overwhelmed and don't feel like playing any games. I want to posess him from very first moment. Thou…
/r/askFDS04/03/21 07:50 PM
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but what FDS is pushing so that you recognize a man who truly loves you will make effort for you. Yes. That he listens and get to know me.
/r/askFDS04/03/21 05:45 PM
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I did that in the end. I burried everything. Don't feel like going twice with a narc.
/r/askFDS04/03/21 06:38 AM
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Thanks. I managed to find it.
/r/askFDS03/03/21 05:00 PM
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Is there a pdf of it somewhere?
/r/askFDS03/03/21 04:54 PM
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Okay thanks. I will.
/r/askFDS03/03/21 04:37 PM
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As much as I don't like to be ghosted I don't like to ghost either. I have some hope that with a right feedback a person can work on himself. I went that far to be straightforward with my ex in moments of being totally beaten down. No, there's no hope for him but I satisfied my wish to be the truth teller.
/r/askFDS03/03/21 04:34 PM
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No, I mean, I would only send him the message that I don't feel like swallowing my pride again and repeating the same mistake all over again.
/r/askFDS03/03/21 04:00 PM
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I thought of redirecting all of this passion and admiration I typically feel for men who I find attractive towards myself. It's just a pity I can't divide into two persons and fuck myself. But that's fine. I have a dildo.
/r/askFDS03/03/21 11:08 AM
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The ones who are in touch with themselves are probably aware of this and fight against this urge to use pornography. I mean, it's not good for brain. There are even no fap subrredits.
/r/askFDS03/03/21 11:01 AM
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I was raised by pop culture and I liked the song "Let's talk about sex" ever since I heard it in my early youth. I had thought of myself as pretty open. I used to tell my ex what I want. He was more stiff. I taught him in some way doggy style. He was insecure before that. Although I was a virgin and he already had sex experience. If I'll have a lover in future I might dominate unless he's bit like me. Wonder how that would turn out.
/r/askFDS27/02/21 05:20 PM
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They do. I chatted with three guys and they are all like... I prefer natural look, yada yada... well. It's like people are desperate. On both sides.
/r/askFDS27/02/21 04:39 PM
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I'm introverted and I was unimpressed with what I saw. Tons of profiles, all look alike. It's pretty pathetic to see hundredth description in a row that's trying so hard to come up as unique but it's far from that.
/r/askFDS27/02/21 04:37 PM
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Veni, vidi, vici. I was for few days and deleted my profile. I think everyone there feels, if not fully aware, then subconsciously that it's degrading.
/r/askFDS27/02/21 04:35 PM
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Yes, I would like to. Book 'Why does he do that' was extremely helpful eight months ago when I finally managed to make my ex leave our home. I got reference on the other subredit.
/r/askFDS26/02/21 08:24 PM
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A therapist might be a good idea, if you're not already seeing one. I tried therapists and they su**ed. Sory. I know they play huge role, they help people, but I didn't feel like it's helping me. I function well. I need to relieve my daily stress through something that's less destructive than tons of tobacco. I read sex is good for that. After being overloaded with touches from my kids, I feel primarily as a mom throughout the day, but I need to feel like a desired woman to get my battery filled…
/r/askFDS26/02/21 08:13 PM
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Actully I was alone for too long. Me and him didn't have any affection, we were like roomies. I felt alone for every day almost since we started living together. I'm alone for enough. And I wasn't into dating to get myself someone to live with but someone who would be my lover. Like my person, but not in my home. I want to erase the fact that I was only ever intimate with my abuser, the idea that my body is ugly. I was always very sensual and liked a thought of having a lover, prior this mistake…
/r/askFDS26/02/21 07:36 PM
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Maybe I need exactly the advice that won't suit me. I don't have other means to test my reason and decisions.
/r/askFDS26/02/21 07:10 PM
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Are you saying that you like to flirt and joke with men you're not that interested in, but you have met a man you are interested in, and you don't know how to respond? Yes and no. I'm not good in flirting. Actually I have pretty poor social skills. Idea of classical flirting makes me cringe cos I feel it's reserved for players, the ones who know how to play the game with words and expressions. I don't. I just recently observed some flirt today at park. It's too advanced. What I typically do is a…
/r/askFDS26/02/21 07:07 PM
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Texting whatever pops in my head. It can be irony, random q and tease. I want to have him in bed. What's old?
/r/askFDS26/02/21 06:57 PM
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Gosh I like this one so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:14 PM
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This almost seem as if I wrote this, minus games and therapy. Huh, I wish I have an answer. I also want all these things but I suppose it doesn't come easy. Maybe I'm not destined to be loved by anyone. I would not be the first person in human history, would I? I know this isn't helpful but I hope for both of us to find what we are looking for.
/r/askFDS13/02/21 08:43 PM
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I went for the guy I liked and he turned out to be a real monster. Maybe there's something in guys that don't attract us fatally?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:33 PM
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