I asked this on other subreddit and got myself banned. Though I was drunk. Will rephrase it.

First, disclaimer, I'm not a misandrist.

I had fun for short time on dating sites. If I like a guy so so and I match him I'll send benign jokes, nothing rude but, enough for myself to get entertained.

On the other hand, if I like a guy over my ears... I'll just chose my words wisely not to show off as dumb.

Anyway... I had two dates since beginning of this year. This is something new for me cos I hadn't been on dates much. The first guy said he's not for relationship (which fits me, cos I'm not either, and I said him so) so I just stopped texting him cos I wanted us to meet again. There was never next date.

The other guy I saw fit me well cos I studied his content on social media. His mind and body is hot, but if I didn't see what he's into I would've never knew he's that hot in brain. When he speaks he's pretty still and doesn't say much. His mind is what turns me on far more than the body. I mean, I like observing guys on park running but I could not get so obsessed with anyone. He's totally my wet dream. Anyway, I can't really decipher him.

Today my dilemma is do I just slide into trol mode with him to see how that works out cos obviously sustaining myself from interaction doesn't lead far.

On the other hand, he's not much into texting. And I said I'm not into phone sex.

I can wait, but I don't want to. I would like to at least fuck with his brain when I can't with his body.