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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Divorce, Taxes, Medicaid Eligibility & a Contentious Ex – Need AdviceYeah but we don’t have a final decree yet | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/25 04:04 AM |
| 3 | What’s Likely to Happen to my Ex With These OP Violations?Sounds like you've really gone through it my friend. Don't give up. There is hope. And healing. You got this! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/25 05:28 AM |
| 3 | I’ve spend $8K and just through temp orders….I’m at $30k and only have temp orders which honestly need to be modified and are missing a lot of things that matter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | How often does your ex talk to your kids (on the phone)?While I do have an active order of protection I could easily go before a judge and ask them to modify it by adding “not criticizing, harassing or prying into fathers personal life with the kids.” She challenged the OP, hired a criminal defense attorney and lost. Then tried to use the same video evidence of her abusing me as a justification to pin one on me… I didn’t even get to testify before the judge dismissed it/threw it out. Boundaries backed by the courts can be a beautiful thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Butt kicked in courtI had a similar situation/ruling only I'm disabled and have fixed disability compensation which is meant to cover my living expenses/extra needs (cleaners, landscapers, handyman, respite care for child with autism, education reimbursements for my son) after the ruling I was over 4k upside down on my budget. My attorney advised me to pay the child support but since I truly cannot afford the spousal support and my ex has bachelors degree, a certificate, and is choosing not to work... I haven't bee… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/24 11:53 PM |
| 2 | My Text GameWhat is the post that you're referring to (with the perfect text cadence)? | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 02:36 AM |
| 4 | How much did you spend on your divorce?I'm in AZ going through a highly contested divorce. Can I DM you? I have lots of questions about your experience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/24 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Was granted a Protective Order and I feel horrible about itOh wow, that's next level insanity. I'm glad that you were able to break free. It sounds like it was the best decision of your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Was granted a Protective Order and I feel horrible about itHow was your health impacted and in what other ways did she nearly destroy you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Was granted a Protective Order and I feel horrible about itOh we are mid process into a highly contentious divorce. Forgot to me tomorrow that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 02:28 PM |
| 8 | Was granted a Protective Order and I feel horrible about itWhat's funny is I didn't have to even use that term for you to pick up on it. Simply describing the behavior is obvious enough. She claims I gaslight her because I have purchased multiple books on BPD even though she does "not have BPD" | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 10:33 AM |
| 2 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?Oh wow, it sounds like you've gone through alot just to establish custody. I'm sorry to hear that. What state are you navigating all of this in? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?Started the business prior to marriage. The business is all in my name. She's never had anything to do with it and at times for most of the marriage has had alot of resentment towards the business. Her father was/is a workaholic. Lots of verbal cut downs, anger, jealousy, about it etc. The loan is in my name however we both talked about it and discussed getting it during covid and it was a marital debt, similar to if the business was extremely profitable she would be entitled to 50% of the growt… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/24 12:59 PM |
| 2 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?Wow, it sounds like a very amicable divorce with what seems like a reasonable outcome. How do you feel about the outcome? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 3 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?Oh my. 😅 it sounds like you've gone through hell amd back again. I can't imagine the relief you must feel having this mostly behind you. And how terrible that you had to pay her liar fees. Ugh, that makes me mad for your sake. What state was this in? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 08:31 PM |
| 3 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?She's entitled to 50% of the valuation of the business. We took out a -$200k SBA covid EIDL loan (which we discussed) when we were married. 50% of the loan liability is hers (-$100k) the business valuation is -$200k even though it generates revenue the expenses are greater than the revenue, it's not profitable. 50% of the house equity ($200k) is hers so $100k (equity) - $100k (business liability) = $0. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 06:10 PM |
| 3 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?Classic. Well I guess the proof is in the pudding that you made the right decision ejecting from this marriage, especially if her original attorney was not willing to work with her anymore. How are you feeling/doing now with everything 4years post divorce process? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 02:22 PM |
| 2 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?Good luck with everything. Sounds like you're in the final stretch! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 12:05 PM |
| 5 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?500 bucks must be freaking nice... lol. 20k is alot but sounds reasonable. 120k, not so much. It's just painful to think about how we could have spent this money yet getting out of a toxic marriage is priceless (so they say). | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?Where are you in the divorce proceedings process? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 11:57 AM |
| 4 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?You are 100% correct. That's what drove up costs thus far. I'm 11k in after the initial discovery + subpoena of bank records, P&L, business records etc. But that part is behind us. STBX even listed the business debt on her financial disclosure as marital debt. Also listed her degrees and that she's choosing not to work to homeschool our son even when the state has given us 30k annually for his education (including hiring in home tutors if we need them). BIG legal expenses left are... mediation (… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 11:56 AM |
| 3 | What is your attorneys hourly rate and how much have you paid already?Fortunately the marital business debt wipes out the marital assets (200k business debt + roughly 200k equity in the house). I started the business before the marriage. Last three years has operated at a loss. Attorney seems to think it will be a wash. I want to keep the business because I am disabled and have a team that runs it and will likely not be able to start another one due to my disability. My private disability income is capped till age 67, subject to CS but likely not alimony. Social S… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife?How'd you'd fair with the house, alimony and child support? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Men who pay Child Support - What do you pay per month?How long were you married and how much alimony did you owe? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and Disability: Worried About Alimony in the Face of Financial Struggles (AZ)I have a really good one. Was just curious what everyone's opinion is on how this could go. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/24 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Divorce and Disability: Worried About Alimony in the Face of Financial Struggles (AZ)I'm not trying to get her inheritance. I'm more concerned about it being calculated into the alimony equation. Since I am all of a sudden showing income due to my private disability separate benefits. I'm concerned they're going to pin alimony on me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/24 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Divorced and nofap?No fap doesn't mean you can't orgasm, it is all about abstaining from porn which is mind cancer and a cheap way to medicate and avoid digging into the root of what we're trying to avoid. It's totally fine to M without looking at porn even acceptable in the nofap movement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Divorced and nofap?I'm in a similar place as you. Separated. Struggled off and on through the years with seeking out risque videos on streaming services as a way to escape and cope woth the mental, emotional and verbal abuse endured. My therapist just so happened to release a new book that he had been working on for over 10 years during my marriage imploding. I'm almost finished with the book and it has been my saving grace through this journey. I've had 3 months one stint and now I'm on 1 month this go around. Ev… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/24 02:10 AM |
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