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481	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition		loveinthetimeofpuas	/r/seduction	13/03/18 03:50 AM
116	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date		loveinthetimeofpuas	/r/seduction	18/03/18 09:20 PM

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1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date Haven't looked at this post in a while. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Can you give me some ideas on what you'd be interested in me writing about?	/r/seduction	23/08/18 05:02 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Hey man, I'm glad you enjoyed the write-up. Sorry for the late reply but I've been kind of bored by this subreddit lol. For your issues, I am seeing a pattern that you are always assessing if some approach is worth the effort on your part and whether you will get something out of it. This is not a great mindset to have when you're socializing. Instead, think about how you can make that girl's day by approaching her. If a cool, respectful guy approaches a girl, she will likely be flattered and en…	/r/seduction	27/05/18 12:32 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date I think there’s a difference of degree here, though. I agree that if you are a girl in a relationship and are constantly hanging out with another guy, confiding in him, talking about him, and not being as intimate with your boyfriend because of him, then thats a problem. If I am friends with a girl who has a boyfriend, I wont be inviting her to hang out with me one on one. Its always a social event, and I’m always making it clear the boyfriend is invited. Theres sort of a natural boundary that d…	/r/seduction	19/05/18 03:16 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date I see what you’re saying. And I should clarify that I dont care much for looking at game from a Machiavellian lens either. I agree that the ends don’t justify the means, especially when the ends are just getting my dick wet lol. I just mention that side of things because a lot of people are more amoral about game than I am and I try to justify my approach from a pragmatic standpoint in addition to an ethical/inner-game focused one. I suppose I don’t find anything inherently disrespectful or unet…	/r/seduction	18/05/18 01:59 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date I see what you’re saying. And yes, there probably is a part of me that wants to keep a girl I like who happens to have a boyfriend around as an option down the road. Thats not my only motivation, though. If I want to stay in touch with a girl who’s taken it means I enjoy her personality, too, and would be totally fine with just a platonic relationship. Additionally, I know I have enough abundance and self-respect not be constantly trying to get in this girl’s pants or talk shit on her boyfriend …	/r/seduction	16/05/18 04:38 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date Wait, are you asking me or the other guy who replied? I dont think I ever said to hook up with a girl who has a BF.	/r/seduction	16/05/18 01:00 AM
2	6th date/hangout still no sex Well put! Its “pickup conditioning” as opposed to “social conditioning.” The PUA narrative is that every girl in the world loves to fuck random dudes casually and if she denies it, its because she sees you as a “beta male” and is lying to you. She’s secretly getting railed by some tall, jacked dude (often black for some reason lol). Its a paranoid, delusional mindset that continually keeps guys coming back to the PUA and RP “gurus” for more guidance. The fact is, there are all kinds of girls out…	/r/seduction	29/03/18 07:13 PM
2	How to stop women from feeling used? Its probably not the sexting itself, but maybe she feels like thats all she is to you and that you don’t care about her as a person. Its the text equivalent of inviting a girl over just to bang, then leave. Some girls might be okay with it at first, especially if she isn’t too attached to you emotionally and its just a casual thing to her, but eventually it will wear her out and she will feel like you don’t care about her. This, of course, begs the question, do you care about her as a person? An…	/r/seduction	29/03/18 06:53 PM
1	How to flirt with girls in public places? Is it possible (without scaring them)? Your intuition is on the right track. An indirect approach is the way to go in the kind of situation you described. The key to making it work is to TRANSITION the conversation to be about her life and your life quickly rather than gettin stuck on the topic of the opener (directions or whatever). Here is how I do it: (At a bookstore) “Excuse me, this is kind of a random question bit I’m planning a trip but not sure where. Can you recommend an interesting destination?” Her response is kind of irre…	/r/seduction	25/03/18 01:30 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Just drop me a message, man. I’d love to chat.	/r/seduction	23/03/18 03:20 PM
2	[FR] Learn how to talk to everyone and people will be drawn to you. Nice post, man! We often forget the simplest truths. Your post is a great reminder!	/r/seduction	22/03/18 07:58 PM
2	Why Are Hot Girls Hard To Pick Up? It's Not What You Think.. Excellent comment! The video has some truth to it, but its very misleading and when it comes to people and their mindsets there is never a black and white answer. You put things in context very well. Now, how about you introduce me to these sisters of yours?	/r/seduction	22/03/18 07:44 PM
3	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I’m far from an expert but these are my observations, based on my own experiences and those of my friends and acquaintances: Dont get lazy and/or take shit for granted. Take care of yourself and remain the same cool guy who attracted her in the first place. Hopefully you are with a partner who does the same for herself. Keep things interesting. The novelty of a new relationship goes away quickly, so you need to actively work to keep the spark going. Whether its in the bedroom or in your day-to-d…	/r/seduction	22/03/18 05:00 PM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Are you going to steal my kidney?	/r/seduction	19/03/18 04:01 PM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date You’re right, but thats not really a valid comparison, because in your example your buddy is just doing better than you. He’s building both rapport and attraction. How about if you only built rapport and your buddy only built attraction (I think of it as sexual tension but I suspect we mean the same thing). Who is more likely to end up with the girl at the end of the night? Who will the friends trust more to leave alone with the girl? Who will have more time with the girl to get sexual later on …	/r/seduction	19/03/18 03:58 PM
3	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date The jester speaks truth. It is scary at first, just like approaching is scary. Reading some books on body language might help a bit, but at the end of the day you just have to face the fear. Im afraid I dont have any books to recommend on the subject. IMO you just have to go for it. Start small and work your way up: shake hands, fist-bump, hug, hand-hold, kiss, etc.	/r/seduction	19/03/18 03:47 PM
3	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date For daytime: parks, coffee shops, brunch spots,grocery stores, bookstores, university campuses. Sign up on email lists and folllow instagram profiles for social stuff so you get notifications and hear about festivals and celebrations in your city. Art shows, fashion shows,, music, theater, ballet, whatever. Dont bother with street game (its super inconsistent). You want to be in places where girls are not in a rush and have time for a relaxed chat. If there is daydrinking, even better. If you ar…	/r/seduction	19/03/18 11:32 AM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date Not orbiters or fuckbuddies. Im saying DONT explicitly ask her about a boyfriend too quickly before she’s into you because she will say she has one even if she doesn’t (this leads to the classic problem where newbies say every girl they talk to has a boyfriend). If you had waited and kept gaming her than she may not have brought it up once she warmed up to you. As for finding out if she has a SERIOUS boyfriend indirectly like I mentioned, that happens later on and it’s meant to avoid wasting tim…	/r/seduction	19/03/18 03:57 AM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date Play on, playa!	/r/seduction	19/03/18 02:11 AM
5	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date I agree, but then I'm the kind of guy who gets a girl a glass of water after she swallows my cum. It's the polite thing to do.	/r/seduction	19/03/18 01:55 AM
9	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Conversation skills and getting a number that will lead to a date Rawr! Your assertiveness titillates me. I'll see what I can do, but this is my second ever Reddit post.	/r/seduction	19/03/18 01:54 AM
3	Question about club game. A good rule of thumb when you’re out is to always be one step ahead of the environment. Clubs are loud, intense, and emotional places. You need to be louder, more fun, and inspire stronger emotions. Basically you need to be loud, confident, playful, and make the girl feel all tingly right at the open, otherwise the club will blow you out. Have a smirk on your face, get her attention, and shout into her ear. Did I mention you need to be loud yet? Be fucking loud! As for what to say, have fun and …	/r/seduction	19/03/18 01:39 AM
2	How to prevent women thinking you're a player Awesome!	/r/seduction	18/03/18 09:49 AM
4	Approaching a randon girl in school “excuse me do you have Mrs. blah blah blah for English?” “No? Oh I thought I saw you in the period before me. My name’s blah blah blah by the way “ “What are you up to?” Keep it simple.	/r/seduction	18/03/18 09:47 AM
3	Pickup in loud places This is excellent advice! The only thing I would add is that your verbals really need to be dumbed down and not complex in a loud club. The girl can barely hear you, just say simple push-pull type of stuff: “You hair is so pretty” “it makes me feel funny” “I love you” “I hate you” “damn girl you smell like cinnamon” “why are you so mean to me” etc. Basically get used to rambling like this into a girls ear, then pull back and let her say something from time to time (you wont be able to hear what …	/r/seduction	18/03/18 09:42 AM
1	Need to get in the game Think of 5 places where the kinds of guys you are into would hang out. Then go there regularly. Remember that just like you, guys are shy, so you might need to be patient/flat out initiate the conversation, maybe by making an observation about them or complimenting them. If you just spend time around available guys and especially if you initiate conversations, they will get the hint and ask you out.	/r/seduction	17/03/18 11:35 AM
1	fuck yeah! i actually got her number Great job man! Sounds like a pretty solid interaction. As far as how to move things further, remember that text, phone, etc., is all aimed at getting her to meet up with you in person. Its fine to text a bit, even chat on the phone (though that can be iffy with younger girls), but the whole point is to spend time with her in person. Are you in college? Invite her to join you doing something casual: study together, coffee, some event on campus you guys can check out together, etc. Keep things inf…	/r/seduction	16/03/18 12:38 PM
1	fuck yeah! i actually got her number I like this. Stealing it. Another of my favorite “small talk that leads to big talk” topics is where the girl is from, which transitions nicely to where she grew up, childhood memories, etc. I’m not sure how this fits into the acronym though lol. I suppose its a part of family.	/r/seduction	16/03/18 12:30 PM
2	Do you ask if a woman is single? (daygame) First off, you ABSOLUTELY should not ask this question early in the interaction. If the girl doesn’t know you/feel comfortable with you yet she will go with the path of least resistance and say “yeah” or “well, I’m kinda seeing someone”. Now you’re done and that guy might be just some orbiter who she drunkenly kissed once or even a casual hook-up. She just doesn’t want to be put on the spot early on. On the other hand, you do want to know if she is committed to someone else because otherwise you…	/r/seduction	15/03/18 08:10 PM
12	Verbal escalation/turning the convo man to woman My favorite way to show intent verbally is to use what old school RSD guys called “shock and awe”. The basic idea is to playfully blame the girl for making you think sexual thoughts. So you are jokingly playfully setting a frame where she is the aggressor. Its a lot of fun and super smooth. This can apply to any time in an interaction and is a great way to introduce sexuality into a conversation. Here are some examples, from super innocent lines that you might use early on to more explicit ones …	/r/seduction	15/03/18 07:48 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Yeah, I think we are saying the same thing just phrasing it differently/approaching it from a different point of view. The main point is to have standards beyond just a girls looks. This both makes you look more attractive and makes the girl feel special. Win/win. As for the “what else do you have going for you” line, I guess we just have a different style. Personally I cringe at the thought of saying that to a girl. It feels very inorganic to me. If it works for you, though, more power to you. …	/r/seduction	15/03/18 07:23 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I think that a dynamic of you appreciating the girl for more than her looks should always be present in the interaction, from open to close. There are some subtleties worth mentioning though: -The way it is phrased in the article makes it seem like there is also a dynamic of the girl proving herself to you and winning you over. This doesn't happen until later in the interaction, after you two already have a decent amount of rapport built up. Earlier on in the interaction, this just isn't going t…	/r/seduction	15/03/18 07:18 AM
7	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Really? Thats what you took away from my entire comment? One sentence taken out of context? My point is to figure out your attractive qualities and find a way to leverage them. If your looks aren’t up to par, don’t use online dating. If your social skills are truly unfixable and cold approach is consistently not working for you, then join activities with girls in them and meet girls the way most guys do. Some examples: crossfit, improv, toastmasters, CHARITY WORK (these are an untapped market in…	/r/seduction	15/03/18 05:06 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I started cold approach at 20, I’m 29 now. 27’s not too late. If you take care of your health and look decent you will likely be able to keep doing this stuff well into your 40s.	/r/seduction	14/03/18 08:12 PM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I just skimmed that thread. From what I’ve gathered you’re in Ankara and doing street approaches. Street approaches are by far the most difficult kind of approach. Girls are usually in a hurry and they assume you are selling them something. Plus you are doing it in Ankara. Though Turkey is relatively liberal by the standard of other Middle-Eastern cities its still conservative enough that a guy approaching in the street is not generally well received. The only reason there are so many street app…	/r/seduction	14/03/18 08:09 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Just google mens boots with a 2.5 inch cuban heel. You should be able to find something that looks good online and works with your style. I usually wear cowboy boots for daytime or if Im at a dive bar and I have one pair of Chelsea boots for when I’m feeling fancy...	/r/seduction	14/03/18 08:08 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Can you give an example of what you would call qualification? It can refer to many different things. Im not sure what you are referring to, exactly.	/r/seduction	14/03/18 10:15 AM
5	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Thanks man. I agree, being a professional pickup coach has never appealed to me, either. I don't want to insult pickup coaches, because a few of them have changed my life and I consider one of them a lifelong friend (even though we rarely talk anymore lol) but it's an industry saturated with underachievers and conmen in my opinion. When it comes to business, I know I really just need to jump in, fail a few times, learn from it, and keep trying. I turn 30 this year and expect I will be making som…	/r/seduction	14/03/18 05:02 AM
3	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition No anecdotes, I'm afraid. Sorry, man. I've known some weird guys who got laid, but I don't know if they were diagnosably autistic. I will say this, you need to have something. Looks, status, money, personality. Even traits like being hard working, compassionate, a good listener, that are frowned on in the pickup community as being "chody" and "beta" are attractive to a lot of women. You just need to be able to express them to women you are interested. Will you get laid like a rockstar? Probably …	/r/seduction	14/03/18 04:53 AM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition This is more advanced stuff, but I'll touch on it. I find a lot of pickup terminology is confusing because different people use a word to mean different things. The model in my head is basically with every girl you meet you are trying to build both sexual rapport (this can be called sexual tension, man-to-woman dynamic, intent, whatever) and platonic rapport (often called comfort, vibing, emotional connection, etc.). Both of these categories have a dynamic of push and pull (mixed signals) to the…	/r/seduction	14/03/18 04:39 AM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition What you're asking is basically the foundation of good game in my opinion. Basically appreciate her as a person first and a wet hole second lol. Make her feel special. I genuinely enjoy getting to know and understand the person I'm talking to, their passions, their insecurities. Yes, over time, you find everybody is kind of the same, we all want to love and be loved. We all wish we were younger, prettier, smarter, richer. Every person is still uniquely interesting, though, you just need to bring…	/r/seduction	14/03/18 04:16 AM
4	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition It's kind of addictive, to be honest. I enjoy the thrill of meeting somebody new, the anticipation, all that silly shit. It's objectively pointless, but then so are most things in life. This is a hobby of mine like any other. I also play the violin, play video games, and work out. I should probably put more effort into my finances and making more money and I expect I will in the future. Honestly, though, I'm not motivated to do that at this time in my life. This is the first time I've mentioned …	/r/seduction	14/03/18 04:08 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Good guess lol.	/r/seduction	14/03/18 03:11 AM
3	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I'm from India but moved here in 5th grade. I have no accent and an accent probably makes a difference but I have met a few Indian guys who had accents but did pretty well with American girls. They check the other boxes, though. They dressed well, looked decent, had good game (they were interns with some RSD coaches back in '09. As long as you can express yourself well and the girl can understand you, it's not a huge deal. At loud night events and clubs, girls can barely hear anything you say an…	/r/seduction	14/03/18 03:10 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I don't think its as big of a deal as people think, assuming the girl understands you, you can express yourself, and you are otherwise presentable. It doesn't help, but I don't think its worth obsessing over. I've met a couple of Indian guys through RSD (back in 09) who had super thick accents but did pretty decent with American girls. They checked the other boxes though. They were dressed well, looked decent, and had great game, etc.	/r/seduction	14/03/18 03:06 AM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I can tell it's a little off, but I bet most people can't. Not that it matters anyway. The important thing is that you can express yourself well in English and the girl can understand you. One thing I would mention, though, is that a lot of Indian people tend to talk really fast when they speak English. It gives off a nervous energy and if you do that, avoid it.	/r/seduction	14/03/18 03:03 AM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I do day and night game. Not sure what its like in New Zealand, but I find loud clubs to be pretty shitty for pickup. I stick with pubs, lounges, etc., for night game. Daytime I go to parks, coffee shops, the occasional street approach (these are inconsistent as fuck), grocery stores, brunch, festivals, events, etc.	/r/seduction	14/03/18 03:01 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Yeah hopefully I will get a chance to get to that. In a nutshell I number close, then set up dates. It usually takes me anywhere from 1-3 dates to sleep with the girl. I rarely do same night lays (maybe 5). I think all of them have been in Vegas.	/r/seduction	14/03/18 02:58 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Both	/r/seduction	14/03/18 02:55 AM
5	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I've been doing cold approach for 9 years. That's like a girl a month (of course it isn't linear like that), which isn't a crazy number by any means. I meet girls in a mixture of day and night game. Pretty even split, though I can't be sure. There are a few same night lays (maybe like 5) but the vast majority are girls I number closed and went on dates with.	/r/seduction	14/03/18 02:52 AM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I don’t want to insult your game here, man, but if you are consistently getting hostile responses from compliment openers, something about your delivery is likely off. Even if you are a midget with multiple deformities(can I still call them midgets? Probably not) you should get a positive, relatively friendly response from a compliment opener. My hunch is your vibe is too intense? Not playful enough? Think of charismatic, dominant celebrities and how they would say a line. How would Muhammad Ali…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 02:12 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition It worked for RSD Tyler lol. I hadn’t seen a video from those guys in years and I saw one with him a few months ago and nearly pissed myself laughing. I have to admit, though, he looks more distinguished and masculine now. Too bad he dresses like a homeless street magician. BTW the beard is definitely a great excuse for girls to approach you, like socially acceptable peacocking. Good thing you’re making use of it and those are some interesting observations.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 01:49 PM
16	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Primarily white girls. Ive fucked about 10 black girls, 5 latinas, like 20 European exchange students lol and the rest are american white girls. I have fooled around with a couple of Indian and Asian girls but never sealed the deal. Sometimes I find myself wondering why I’ve never been with an Indian girl and if I’m a self-loathing Indian. I dont think thats the case, though. I am self-loathing, but not because I’m an Indian lol.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 01:42 PM
5	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I think my ethnicity has a profound effect on my game, though probably not in the way most people think. The most important thing if you’re a minority (or even a white guy, really) is to identify and discredit for yourself all the common negative stereotypes associated with your race. For Indians I think that would be bad hygiene, being too serious all the time, and being heavily misogynistic. None of these things apply to me and a girl knows that within 5 seconds of meeting me (though I do find…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 01:34 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I lived in India till 5th grade, then moved to the US. Been here 19 years now, so I am basically culturally American, though I still speak Hindi and Punjabi. I wrote a long response in one of earlier comments about gaming as an Indian. I think it is relevant to your situation so I will paste it below. Like I mentioned in the original post, I would also recommend you getting boots with 2.5 inch heels to them. Also, how is your english? Do you have a strong accent?	/r/seduction	13/03/18 01:33 PM
13	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I think my ethnicity has a profound effect on my game, though probably not in the way most people think. The most important thing if you’re a minority (or even a white guy, really) is to identify and discredit for yourself all the common negative stereotypes associated with your race. For Indians I think that would be bad hygiene, being too serious all the time, and being heavily misogynistic. None of these things apply to me and a girl knows that within 5 seconds of meeting me (though I do find…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 01:25 PM
3	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Cool I’ll cover that in my next post. Not sure when, probably the next time I’m drunk and get bored of playing the Witcher 3. So probably tomorrow lol.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 01:05 PM
6	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition You’ll never hear me discount the value of looks. If a girl is repulsed by a guy, no amount of “game” will turn it around. But I absolutely believe there is more to it than just looking good, approaching direct and sexual, and playing a numbers game (or as I call it, Russian Roulette with your self-esteem lol). Unfortunately that is what most gurus are teaching nowadays, whether they admit it or not.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 01:03 PM
3	How to prevent women thinking you're a player Thats a tough knot to unravel, brother, especially over the internet lol. Honestly your outergame problems could be worked on by watching a bunch of videos and reading articles about building comfort with girls, then applying them in your approaches. Thats basically the outer game manifestation of what you’re dealing with. I would strongly suggest, though, that you see a therapist so you can talk to somebody who knows what they are doing about the deeper issues at play. A subreddit about banging…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 12:44 PM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition That is the fun part. Its also hard to explain in a coherent way because the way I conceptualize escalation may be confusing to people. Maybe you can help me. What are some specific questions you have about escalation? What are your sticking points, stuff you are unclear about, etc.?	/r/seduction	13/03/18 11:15 AM
17	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Thanks brother!	/r/seduction	13/03/18 10:52 AM
12	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Thats over 9 years, dude. Its like a girl a month. Pretty achievable in the US if you develop a decent skillset and look decent.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 10:37 AM
2	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Im Indian, so...brown?	/r/seduction	13/03/18 10:36 AM
1	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Yeah they suck now. All the coaches who were any good and gave a shit about their students left: Alex, Todd, and the guy who taught me, Nathan.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 10:35 AM
2	How to prevent women thinking you're a player “People seem to think I’m cold or uncaring” I would bet money this is your sticking point. This is why girls are flaking you. Has this coldness always been a part of your personality or has it developed because of studying pickup?	/r/seduction	13/03/18 10:23 AM
3	How to prevent women thinking you're a player I hesitate to write this because I don’t know what your game is like and if this really applies to you. Saying this to a beginner might be counterproductive. Still, nobody else has chimed and it seems like from your post you know what you’re doing so I figured I might at least give you some ideas. -You most likely need to make the girl feel special. She should feel like you are interested in her as a person more than just another wet hole. You say you have decent rapport with the girls so you ar…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 08:24 AM
8	What’s up with this sub lately though? Its armchair theorizing and wishful thinking run amok. Guys sit around fantasizing about how they can get old, let themselves go, and still find some young girl with daddy issues to be codependent with. Its true that as a guy gets older he CAN get better at interacting with women but he usually doesn’t. Being older doesnt make you more attractive, being more attractive makes you more attractive. Its just that older guys have more time to develop an attractive personality, but that doesnt mean th…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 07:56 AM
40	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Thanks! It sounds trite and superficial and I sort of cringed writing it, but if I’m giving advice I should have some sort of qualifications and unfortunately the best I can do is give my approximate lay count. And I agree with the quality over quantity. I never understood guys hooking up with girls they don’t give a shit about just to say they did. Just go rub one out lol.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 07:42 AM
22	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I wouldn’t recommend this style of cold approach in India. I have a couple of friends who live in Delhi and one in Mumbai who hook up with quite a few girls. People are VERY protective of girls, especially quality girls, in India. Its basically white knighting to the extreme. Your best bet is to live in a decent sized city, cold approach people ONLY to make friends with them (both girls and cool guys) and become part of a few social circles with the kinds of girls you want to date and guys you w…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 07:38 AM
19	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Im glad! You’ve already had a girlfriend at 19 so you have more experience than I did at your age.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 07:25 AM
3	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition I agree. Location definitely plays into it. Canadas’s an awesome place. I’ve been to Toronto and Montreal and had a blast. I live in Texas. I like it, but there is definitely an added challenge when it comes to pickup.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 07:11 AM
10	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Lol its a good way to trick your brains hunger circuits ;) No, its just good to know that if you meet a cool girl you are prepared to talk and, if things go well, fuck. Also I should clarify Im an Indian guy living in Texas. The girls are from the US and Canada, mostly Texas.	/r/seduction	13/03/18 07:06 AM
16	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Lol fair point. I guess I should rephrase that to “the girl should never perceive you as tryhard”. Still, you know what I mean. As for the shoes, the fact is if Im talking to a girl I just met and a guy who towers above me rolls up I’m going to have my work cut out for me with that girl. Blah blah blah abundance mentality blah blah blah game trumps looks blah blah blah just believe in yourself. Whatever, I believe in stacking the odds in my favor as much as reasonably possible and if a pair of s…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 07:02 AM
10	What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the Transition Damn that dude's beard is magnificent! I couldn't grow one that luxuriant. I still think beards in general can be polarizing, some girls love them, some don't care for them. Of course, there's more to life than looking appealing to random girls and if someone really wants to grow a beard, they should go for it, just be cognizant of the effect it has on people on a first impression. As far as how to open, I agree that it is a matter of personal taste and style. You're 100% right that the importan…	/r/seduction	13/03/18 05:30 AM