lovesickmale Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How often/many do I approach?	lovesickmale	/r/seduction	30/08/16 10:07 PM
1	How do I gett over approach anxiety?	lovesickmale	/r/seduction	29/08/16 09:59 PM
0	Approach anxiety or approach excitement?	lovesickmale	/r/seduction	30/08/16 02:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How often/many do I approach? what do you mean?	/r/seduction	30/08/16 10:29 PM
3	My theory on the dating game as a whole. This is literally amazing. As someone who is just getting into this kind of thing, this analogy has really shifted my mindset on the opposite sex. I would get so obsessed, so quickly. To add to this analogy I was the kid in PE class at school, who took playing sports with your friends too seriously. It means people don't want to play the game with you, and your always left at the board waiting for their turn.	/r/seduction	30/08/16 09:39 PM
1	Approach anxiety or approach excitement? thanks man thats a great way of looking at it! I know after I have done the approach, even if it goes bad, I feel relief and good about myself for having the stones to do it in the first place. And you're right, I am excited about approaching women, however there is still the voice in my head coming up with a million and one reasons not to haha	/r/seduction	30/08/16 09:31 PM
2	Approach anxiety or approach excitement? thanks for the advice man... so you recommend I just focus on overcoming the anxiety directly rather than reframing to excitement?	/r/seduction	30/08/16 09:30 PM
1	How do I gett over approach anxiety? I never thought about it like that i suppose. I guess I fear being with my friends in a social situation and a girl coming up to be and being like ' weren't you that weird guy who came up to me on the street?' However your completely right, I don't remember a single one of the charity guys or even people handing out leaflets, regardless of weather I do give them some change. Thanks man	/r/seduction	30/08/16 10:11 AM
3	Should i approach on campus? Your going to have to take this shit seriously man. Speaking from experience being known as the 'pickup' guy isn't a reputation you want as an introvert. If your more equipped to deal with tough social situations, being known as the 'pickup guy' can be useful, as it will turn many women on if you handle the white knight bashing well. However if your anything like me, you want to spend a good amount of time (start with 20 hours of focused effort) outside of the city/town your living in. Anonymity…	/r/seduction	29/08/16 09:52 PM