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Dude if she's in the mood and finds you mildly attractive. Your interesting. Nothing to do with all that other shit. Whatever they've been brainwashed into thinking what is attractive that's what they will go for and find interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 07:14 AM
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I think you misunderstand the point of my post. Which is for the average male, dating and the economy is not benefiting them. And the reason dating isn't benefiting them, is because there is a cultural shift in the way most women view and value men. You're talking about yourself and what you value, but that's not representative of the average woman. My conclusion is based on 20 years of dating short and long term relationships included. Data and experiences millions of other men are sharing. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:30 PM
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We live in an romantic economy were where a good percentage of women trained to either be alone, Take advantage of mass simping and think relationships are about pleasing them. In all honesty, when it comes to long term relationships, the average guy is fucked. If you are average physically and financially, your chances of finding a good long term partner is very low. Below average, you're pretty much fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:05 PM
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I don't think men are moving right. It's more so they are rejecting what the left has become. Think about it. It's easy for women to be educated and get great paying jobs. And so, a lot of men see that as women no longer focusing men's resources as a requirement to settle down. With two incomes, the living situation and dating situation would be better for the average guy. It just makes sense. On paper. Well that didn't work. Instead, women have pretty shit on the average guy. And are mainly try…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:47 AM
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We sould ban dating apps and social media apps like Instagram should only be used for business browsing and advertising. That will fix issues on both men on women's side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:37 PM
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Sure, tell that to multitude of dudes who are attractive who can't get a date much less sex lol. This is one of the dumbest takes ever because the evidence flies in the face of every single word you wrote. Idk maybe if women were like men, where if they find some attractive enough, they'll consider those men. That's clearly not the case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:35 PM
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That bullshit and you know it. That benefit by proxy arguement falls flat in the face reality. Women actually have more safety nets than children. Feel free to look at both government fed and state safety nets and non profit organizations available for women. Versus men and children. All that other stuff is incoherent nonsense. If a woman is homeless, thats choice on her part, Because of the vast amount resources available to women to literally make their lives comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:31 PM
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Yes it is. Because if it was just from the lack of sex. More men would pay for sex from prostitutes...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:23 PM
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Yet he’s okay with using the woman’s body he professes to love. Yet, she uses her man's time, resources, protection, dick and even life. But she professes her love. Psychopathic and abusive unless they pay for her service from a consenting customer And only a self loathing narcissistic and sociopathic woman would consider star fishing in the first place. You women straight up do not have any moral or victimhood grounds to stand out. Because women use men more than men use women when it comes to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:22 PM
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I mean most men pay for it one way or the other. Either through dating or prostitution. The difference is that a guy actually wants more than sex from a non prostitute. While the other just want sex with no strings attached. My god how can so many men here be excited about using an unwilling and unexcited woman's body for use as a cum dumpster? Didn't you claim you loved her? First, wtf does this have to do with my ultimate point? Second, some dudes like star fishing idk. But let's not talk abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:26 PM
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We live in a gynocentric society, were women have more rights, privileges, get special treatment, with little to no responsibility or accountability for their actions. While having a ton of safety nets available to them. They already have a ton of power. Also, I never said I was tired of men maintaining society either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:18 PM
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Within the context of a relationship if there is an obligation and expectation that exist where one party expects loyalty, fidelity, time attention, resources, affection and commitment to maintain that relationship. The sex is a expectation and an obligation, unless both parties agree that sex is not a thing for them as a couple. I'm sick an tired of this bullshit narrative where people minimize the use of sex as form of bonding, and paint it as some chore or something you just do because if fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:15 PM
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I'm sorry, but I call bullshit. We as adults, can easily tell the distinction. And most of this conversation is usually had within the context of a relationship ( romantic or sexual)...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:01 PM
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Man there is a litany of reasons. However, I think it's a situation where these women are making bad mating decisions, with little or no real consequences on mass. And when you look at the statistics of children raised in single mother households over that past couple decades and how these same raised in those households behavior it's sending society in a downward spiral. As a result, the quality of men and women in the dating market drops by a ton. The other aspect is that men who work hard who…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:22 PM
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And no fault divorces and separation should be shameful. Yet, you find that people who are married in long term relationships to be happier... Than serial daters and those in situationships. The problem was never marriage. Marriage was never even about being happy or romance. It was about pooling resources and commitment towards a agreed upon goals, while maintaining as stable environment for family. People tend to be happy or content in stable environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:53 PM
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No but you're going to be lumped in that group. Folks who go clubbing and drinking tend to engage in a lot of adult activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:17 AM
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Mine curtainly didn't. I'm a flirt and I have a silver tongue. Non of which I gained from middle school interactions. It's funny because those same immigrant parents tend to stay married longer and have more fulfillment than their Americans born or raised kids who decide to not adopt their parents ideals. The ones that adopt the ideals or family culture tend to end up in happier romantic and marriage situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:42 PM
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I think a lot of men have given up on long term relationships in general. So guys will date and get involved, but the long term commitment is not there. Considering the quality of women out there, have significantly dropped. I don't blame a lot of guys. Now when I say quality, I'm more referring to mindset and the mental states of a lot of women and them really just not understanding men or making any effort to do so. They don't have any base respect for them selves or their bodies. So I don't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:03 PM
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Not much of an explanation... How does each of those things affect men and women specifically? There are countries that have those same traits, but don't have an extreme relationship and birthrate problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:04 PM
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Mid 30s, I do want kids. Reason, I believe in legacy and contributing to the human experience by producing good, respectful and responsible humans. Who I have kids with is extremely important to me. That's what concerns me the most. And honestly, most of the females I encounter and have dated in the past are hyper individualistic, there are vain, they are selfish and not nurturing. Those are the people who probably shouldn't have kids but tend to have them anyway. And as a result, raise kids tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:58 PM
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No man wants to be involved with a low self esteem woman. Why? Simple. We don't want to deal with the bullshit that comes with it. The stupid jealousy, constant need for attention and validation while wallowing in self pity. This is a false narrative being spread to make it seem like men have an issue with well adjusted confidence women. No, it's bullshit. And this post is bullshit. Guys that mess with low self esteem women would normally smash and move on. Or keep her around as a source of inti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:44 PM
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There is no purple, black, yellow, or pink pill. And Red pill is part of the system of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:15 PM
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I wish I could up vote this a million times...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:11 PM
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Find other women. The truth is that the behavior and mindset is conditioned into them by feminists and simps. The time you waste dealing with them, you can spend looking else where.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:13 PM
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To be fair most modern women don't grow up past 20 mentally speaking. Even in their 40s is we're talking to 20 year olds. So it's not crazy difficult and depending on the conversation it can be annoying as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:06 PM
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I'm curious as to why the mods allow posts like this. Mainly because this post is painting a false picture of a group of people. Specifically stating that they loathe women... Which is objectively false. And people who have no idea or understanding of RP. Will see shit like this, and think it's true. Thus spreading this toxic lie. The Mods need to do better at dealing with inflammatory posts and posts that demonizes people because they share different beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:39 PM
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I think people misunderstand what it is means to settle. Because no one is going to be perfect in every way. Settling just means finding a partner that have traits that are most optimal in maintaining a long term relationship. It's not that complicated to me. It s prioritizing your needs over your wants in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:29 PM
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I think the core thing we need to fix is how men are valued in our society. Truth is, men are seen as disposable and not worth the time and effort. Especially boys of color. The other thing is highlight traits men have that is valuable outside of money, dick, sacrificing their lives for war and getting demonize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 03:01 AM
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I agree, the RP at the end of the day just highlights how the current systems in place affects dating and mating experiences of men and women. It doesn't say how each individual relationship is supposed to be. People should go with whom they are compatible with and be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:48 PM
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Most men don't have standards if they are just looking for sex. However, if hes looking for more yes most men have standards. Most of which has nothing to do with the women's looks, and more so focused attitude, personally, sexually, femininity and level of respect. Honestly, for a while I found myself hanging out or going on dates with women and turning them down for a relationship or just never let things past being an acquaintance. It doesn't take me very long to tell whether or not a woman m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:36 AM
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I mean, you're assuming those are what most women in the western hemisphere value. The fact is they don't. They don't value good character in a man. They'll look at your lifestyle, your income, your looks, other women being interested in you and whether or not you're a push over. Before they consider your character. There is a reason why you'll hear a lot of women complain about a guy they are with (having sex with) but will never leave them. My advice is only become friends with women you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:33 PM
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I don't get the point, he obviously knew the spoon wasn't real because the matrix is real. And I agree everything on the Internet isn't real. However, it's a tool. And how we use the tool be helpful or hurtful. Anyway, it was great chatting. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:33 AM
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Yes, those communities always existed. But what I'm expressing is that the concept of the TRP is about waking up. And waking up doesn't dictate a specific path the awoken person should take. You can see the system and you can fight against it, fight against its agents, fight against its philosophy, participate in the system or even monetize it. That's my point. I mean there are BP huslers has always existed. People have always monetize movements, religions, dogmas and ideals. It's a part of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:22 AM
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It's not. Mainly because concepts of MGTOW existed before rollo was a thing. All Rollo did was monetize on a phenomena of men going their own way and co-oped the reasons why men were walking away to sell books, mainly focusing the interpersonal aspect of things. Not the systemic aspect of things. Where the concept of the Red Came from the matrix. It wasn't specific to male and female dating and mating dynamics. It was much bigger than that. It focused on the various systems of control that exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:25 PM
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And what is RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:51 PM
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As Red Pilled man, I completely agree with you. Podcasters and the media both monetize the concept of the RP. And even bastardized it and what is really is. Which at base in the human relationship dynamics, is just a realization of male female mating and dating preferences and how the system/powerful manipulates that to their own benefit. That's it. It doesn't give any particular instructions on how to treat men or women. However, even in the matrix trilogy. It was exposed that the red pill is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:37 PM
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In think a lot of the issues with dating comes down to access and idiology 1) I would ban social media apps (only use them for sfw business). Social media at this point is doing more harm than good to our society. It destroys people self image, promotes toxic looks amazing, pushes people to fake lives and lifestyle. The other issue is that it give people direct access to folks where under normal circumstances. It also prevents simping, caused the inflammation in the dating market. Men should nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:24 PM
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This and ban social media outside of business use.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:25 PM
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You've established a false dichotomy. Both can be true. Womens standards can be high, while men can be desperate. Also, it's either you're lying about being a dude. You haven't been on the planet very long or you're interaction with women is extremely low or non existent. If you were to sit 5 generations of women. And ask each of them what they valued in their men and their husbands. They values will be very different, therefore their values will be different. This is mainly because the economy …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:02 PM
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Lengthy but well thought out post. I'm conflicted. I'm inclined to generally agree with you. However, I've been seeing the trend of women being rude and disrespectful in black subculture. And their attitudes towards men and other women. For example, the stigma of black women (most of which are feminist) being rude and aggressive is not a stigma. It exists and they are socialized to be this way. This behavior seem to have come into existence once black women adopted feminism. And honestly, you'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:56 PM
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Nah, I said the lack of fear. As in they have no fear of retaliation. Everyone should be respectful and stern when they are turning people down. It reduces the risk of issues taking place. It's like term "have a healthy fear". Where you consider the possibility of escalation of any situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:17 AM
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I consider myself to be a good man. Goodness is a practice. In that your actions and mindset is geared towards living an a way that is socially healthy, considerate, respectful and working towards the greater good. While understanding that it is impossible to be perfectly good. Being mindful that most people will exploit that goodness. Being good doesn't mean being kind or gentle. And being good is not a valued trait. So a balance is needed. Learning to walk away from those who will exploit or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:04 PM
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Well Idk know whether or not people are happy or not behind their keyboards or phones. The women I know personally most of which are married and very content (the single ones are too) don't look down on child free women or men. Though, they see them as being selfish. But that's about it. They all hope their kids never become child free though. Though, I think the more interesting question is how men view other child free men. I don't see that question gets asked alot. Personally I don't care if …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:43 PM
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Probably the same reason some women look down on women who are single and child-free.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:52 AM
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Most of those women don't step out. Because they are intelligent enough to know that there are more of her than him. And other women want him and flock to him. If anything, in the given example it's the man that usually cheats not the woman. The second that man learns she steps out he'll replace her. She also knows this. So if she loves the lifestyle her man offers her, she's least likely to risk losing it. I don't think you give women enough credit when it comes to them dating men of means. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:53 PM
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The only circumstance I'll see a man who is a 3 looks wise, going after an 8 female looks wise. Is if that man has a lot of money and power. And he projects it. And they can do that and be successful because for most women attraction is not just physical, it's about how a man make them feel, his lifestyle and resources. Which the most men who are 3s do not have. I think you should replace "so many" with "a small minority of unattractive men" to properly represent reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:53 PM
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Huh???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:15 PM
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The answer is simple. Women (particularly westernized ones) are becoming more and more unempathetic. A lot of them weren't raised male figure in the house hold, and their mom's raised them with no discipline or respect. I also think it's a lack of general fear of retaliation. Like man to man, there are certain things we will never say to each other because thing can get physically instantly. Basically consequences. The typical woman is not taught that, and don't understand or care about boundari…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:43 AM
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Why not call them dirt bag women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:35 AM
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Actually, that part about women dating men is wrong. Women are even more materialistic and hypergamous. Also, marriage was never about love. That's a recent phenomena. If you feel that it benefits your man, then good for you and him. But what happens in you're life is not reflective of what happens in every body elses. So no, the average male doesn't benefit at all from feminism. Women in the west don't pick men based on character. All they care about is dick, money, lifestyle and getting simped…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:44 AM
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Is this comment for me? It doesn't address the point I was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:39 PM
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It's a shame where you live prenups aren't honored. However, where I live they are. At least in the US most states will honor a prenup. And my friends and family who had prenups signed didn't lose any of their assets. Marriage has its uses socially and economically. In you're case even if its someone you trust, I wouldn't get married. Or even consider pooling resources. Or if I intend to do so, I'll move to a location that does honor them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:52 PM
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Under normal circumstances one could argue that it's who you pick that's important. However, the court system, divorce laws and female centric bias definitely makes it a net loss. Personally, I think every single marriage should automatically come with a prenuptial agreement. Unless both parties decide to not have that. Every child birth should be followed up with a DNA paternity test. Men should be able to sue for paternity fraud. Women should be prosecuted for paternity fraud. I think alimony …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:24 PM
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I don't think you get the point of the post. It's not necessarily solely about what the woman does for the man. Or some random guy does something for her and she should fall in love. He's frustrated with mating value system that exists. Where men in Western societies are mostly valued for what they can provide. Money, lifestyle, social credit, sex and kowtowing. His perspective is informed by the fact that since women have equal opportunity, rights, make their own money etc (Basically no more ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 02:53 PM
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I'm starting to wonder if the people who make these posts actually think before they post... The more I read this subreddit, the more I'm convinced that both the men and women on here are freaking clueless about the opposite sex and their nature. I don't know if it's low effort into actually getting to know the opposite sex. Or if you folks are just inept. Anyway, I'll be grabbing my popcorn and going through the comments. I'm sure I'll lose a few brain cells reading the responses but I guess it…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:06 AM
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Seriously, women are not out earning men. Please stop spreading bullshit. Stop buying into the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:48 AM
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Again, you miss the point. I gave a reason why no woman is out of a millionaires league. The simple truth is that the nurse that turn him down, he can go get a bartender chick or a social worker or model that looks better. It's no skin off his back. Why do you think those guys don't care? Shit I've done that before and I'm not millionaire. The nurses know that doctors are going to hit it and quit it anyway. Whether the doc looks good or not. Also, it's strange to compare men and women looks wise…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:26 AM
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If you're a multi millionaire, no woman is above you're league. If one rejects you, you simply move on to another that looks equal or better. Also, men and woman are sexually dimorphic. Meaning what attracts (or what they value) in both sexes are different. Men value youth and beauty. Women value access, security and resources. There are more beautiful women than millionaires and thus, the beautiful women see a man with a lot of resources as her equivalent or someone worthy of her beauty. Hence,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:01 PM
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Yeah, there are a few that pay. I didn't deny that, but in the north east, especially in NYC most of those dudes don't pay. No need, most of the chicks are trying cuff one of them. And they know that. Also most of these chicks have great jobs and work in corporate. So most of the chicks they pick up aren't working girls. Plus, a lot of lodges and lounges don't allow working girls in their establishments. You know, mitigating risk and reputation an all. I mean entertainers, athletes and lucky mil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:31 PM
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Lol, no. Most of these dudes don't pay these women. They'll only pay when they travel outside the country. It's not about what I believe, it's what I see almost monthly. You think it's delusional, but for these guys it's a reality. One could argue that they spend significantly less on women than the everyday dude. See, what you fail to understand is that they offer a lifestyle and potential that 99.9% of men will never have. These women want to be apart of that lifestyle. Hence why they readily …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:25 PM
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Yeah... This post is nonsense lol. As someone who works with and for millionaires. The good looking broke guy and is not even playing on he same level when it comes to women. A matter of fact, they don't even see women the same way. One man's purpose is pussy and the other guys purpose is doing wealth. Here's an example, I have a client that owns an apartment on billionaires row. He doesn't even live there, it's a real estate investment. But when he's in NYC, and he picks up a chick he simply ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:33 PM
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Funny because it's true. A matter of fact, those guys don't even really date chicks. Chicks flock to them, they use those chicks and then move on too another one. And some prefer to pay certain chicks leave. The mindset of average looking millionaire versus a broke hot guy is very different. And they see women very differently. The only millionaires that don't engage in either lifestyle are old money, "hidden millionaires" (They are rich but they don't show wealth) and the ones who became rich a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 02:10 PM
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Even if it causes some problems, it works a vast majority of the time. the checks aren't just mating and dating related. Well you did. Did I complain about the length of your responses? It's content of your responses. To me all I see is laziness. And the lack of thought outside of talking points. So In short all you're saying to me is " plane crashes are problem. Yes, they are rare. But we should get rid of them"... It's like you can't see the bigger picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:40 AM
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Really? Have you not given your response any thought? Or are you just responding to respond? Well the answer is simple. If the trait wasn't not built into our biology the homosapien sapien species (us humans) would not exist... Honestly, I could expand on this but I don't see the point. I'll explain further down. That point has nothing to do with women who know men are typically successfully married. The checks being eroded away is the problem. Not biology. You missed the point. Lastly you misse…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:55 AM
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Reach what goal exactly? You don't even know or acknowledge the the fact that you're ideology is a tool being used to subjugate you... You don't understand the history and it's purpose. You can't even acknowledge the detrimental effects your own ideology have brought about for women, men and children. What was were more respectful, respectable and good mannered women. Who were fit, feminine, friendly, empathetic and family oriented. What was, were more men were will die, suffer and even risk the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:28 PM
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Subjugation by which men? The guy that works in McDonald's? The dirty miner? The shoe maker? First of all. Women, particularly Western women are still subjugated. You are more unhealthy, you are dependent on social programs run by men, you are employed by men. Your wombs are used to bare children by men with no commitment or resources. You are Less attractive physically, emotionally and intellectually. Your relationship and sexual values have plummeted. You are more stressed and depressed. You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:41 PM
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Men wanting more women is not a problem. It's literally baked in our biology. That's like saying the problem with women is that they they want men who have resources, tall, protective, neurotypical, powerful and handsome is a problem... It's literally baked into your biology. Those are things that will never change. You don't understand us and what we truly value. And that's okay, I wish women would make more effort into actually getting to know men as they are, versus looking at things solely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:23 PM
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The problem with the modern day femist or feminism is that they do not understand how men give respect to women and how women command respect from men. As a man, I respect a woman who respects her body, mental health, submissive and feminine. Not this over sexualized bullshit we experience every day. Also, the over sexualization of women and young girls are done by women. Women allow their daughters to wear literally tight clothing (including mini dresses) to school or to go out. They encourage …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:47 PM
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You literally just proved my point... Did you read my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:19 PM
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They spend an insane amount money, time and attention on women (ungly to average to beautiful) without getting anything in return. And thus, inflated the price and reduced the value of the resources non simps have to pay or offer to find partners. Time, attention and money are the most valuable resources men have that women at all socioeconomic levels value. If the value of those things get lower and lower for women, it just means women will ask for more while offer less or nothing in return. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:35 PM
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Men don't compete for women. Men compete for resources, which can be used to get women. Well, that's how it used to be. Now we have shitty simps...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:00 AM
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Why are these posts becoming so much more prevalent? Why is that no takes the obvious into account? The obvious being attraction for men and woman are not the same. Physical attraction is not the end all be all. Infact how they pick partners and even who they fuck. Is never solely based on physical attraction.Yes, most women don't find men physically attractive, because 90 percent of men are not beautiful. They are masculine in nature. it doesn't mean they don't find most men to be overall attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:28 PM
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What do you mean by attracted? You mean physical attraction, emotional, financial or social. Because women don't just look at looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:22 PM
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Men and women's attraction doesn't work the same. A large part of female attraction is based on their environment and what's available to them. So, if she's in an environment that's at the bottom of Maslow's hierarchy if needs. What she finds to be attractive versus being in an environment where she's at the top will be very different. Attraction for women is not just about looks and feels. A matter of fact it's my impression that it's 30%. A woman will most likely put up with a mid shitty cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:18 PM
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For me it came down to goals and values. We didn't share the same long term goals and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:36 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:29 AM
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The multiple straw men, putting words in others mouths, the rape mindset, the blatant misandry etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:11 AM
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The comments in this thread... I'm surprised this hasn't been locked yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:49 AM
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For a man that has as much success as you claim you don't seem to under women. I'm not saying that to be facetious. First off, just because a woman makes good money it doesn't mean they don't care about what a man makes. Women in general prefer a man who is doing better than them in almost every way. They are literally wired to do so biologically speaking. Because if you were right, those women would be settling down with the guy that works at McDonalds. They would be fine with being the breadwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:16 AM
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Being in college (especially a good one) is considered a demonstration of wealth. What you fail to understand is that the earning potential and the thought that you are well off enough to go to college in of itself is attractive to them. Hence why they'll fuck you over the dude working at McDonald's who's probably more physically attractive. You might not think they don't think long term when they hook up. But you are wrong. It's like women who go around thinking that men can get sex as easy as …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:49 AM
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I didn't go to college (I decided the debt wasn't worth it and choose technical school instead). Dating in my early 20s is definitely not the same as my 30s. And in my 20s as a well paid technician dating was good for the most part. However, I wasn't smashing chicks left and right. Most of the women I dated were average and I played numbers game. Now in my 30s I make way more and have access to more women than when I was in my 20s. A matter of fact, I don't date as much despite having more acces…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:30 AM
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Lol love this comment 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:15 AM
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Most of what is spoken about here I've already known for years. However, I've learned that most both sexes seem less and less interested in learning about each other. It's sad but true. I don't see how folks want to fix dating without understanding what the opposite sex values and why they value those things or traits. I mainly see this in most of the women here. The men here (especially young men) are confused and seem to think attraction for men and women are the same. The future doesn't look …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 03:41 PM
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I would say about 90 percent of men settle. The only why you as a man is not going to settle is if you have a lot of the resources the women in the area and culture value. You now have the pick of the field and can pick the woman you desire. Settling inherently isn't a bad thing. It's a practical decision. It's better to get what you need versus what you want. And what you need in a partner typically doesn't come in the same package as your wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:45 PM
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I think it comes down to a few things and what the womam values. For example, if she's bored (in general) being able to make her laugh goes a long way. Some woman its how intelligent and well spoken you are. Others it's literally just projecting wealth. Some women you need multiple things going for you. For them, the need for sex is not the same as men. Attraction for women is not the same as men. I'd advise taking those things into consideration. Then there are those women who like sleeper dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:45 PM
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You know what, my apologies. You drew a parallel between them and folks that exploited the RP community for their own personal gain (like Andrew Tate). It was really annoying when people associated Tate and others like him as representatives of what RP is, and the ignorant masses took it as gospel. Only difference being most of the men eventually got cancelled while the women are largely ignored. I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:13 PM
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You clearly have no fuckin clue what being red pilled is... If you think the concept of being red pilled is misogynistic you're a part of the problem. Misandris folks (men included) are literal man hating garbage people. Being a misogynist or misandrist doesn't mean someone is red pilled. It just means they hate a particular sex for whatever reason. Stop spreading bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:01 PM
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To me, this comes down to eroding men to mere husks that are subservient to the whims of women and the powerful. Men having standards of any sort, will result in them taking the initiative to enforce said standards. For example, if the most powerful people in a country keeps robbing most of the men in the population of the resources, power and women. The men will retaliate. They can't take away men's standards through force. So they use women to so. Either by raising unstable weak men in single …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 05:43 PM
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Depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:32 PM
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The men who they want in their age group don't want them. And it's mostly not because these women are physically unattractive. They mentally, socially, practically mand emotionally unattractive. Anyway get your practice in bro. Women love preselection and experience. Once you realize the truth, put your pride aside and take the pill then put your experience and knowledge to good use. To find a woman you actully want to be with. A man in his 30s and up typically, value certain things in a partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:13 AM
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Don't get married or have them sign a prenup before you get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:02 AM
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Here is the thing. Those men who do very well are not getting the attention because they are most likely not showing off their wealth. Which honestly, is the right thing to do because they will attract women who will ruin their lives. A lot of dudes do not learn this lesson. But never lead with your money when it comes to women. Let her like, love, respect and want to be with you for you. Not what you have and can produce. It's hard, but even men have to be selective of who they date. Which mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:41 AM
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Men aren't constantly in a state thinking about sex all the time. However, having no "release" can result in a lot of men being aggressive and frustrated. Blue balls doesn't help the situation. It's like a build up type of thing. Once that build up takes place, sex becomes the itch that needs to be scratched. For a lot of men, the look of the woman or her situation doesn't matter because they want that itch scratched. After it's scratched, they come out of the trance lol. And ask ". What, where,…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:51 AM
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It benefits specific men in society. Mostly popular, powerful and wealthy men. How? For one they get have sex with out putting in any effort whatsoever. Normally regardless of the resources available to you as a man, some courting and "hard to get" would take place. Why? It's because there were stigmas associated with promiscuity and the results that come of it. Also, pregnancy was actually something women had to be careful of. Now, non of that is the case. Women have been trained to only value …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:24 PM
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Lol look at my comment history... I am definitely not "panhandling for women". It's that I am giving my understanding of female nature and what he could consider. Take for example, it's perfectly fine to have female friends. But never take dating advice from them. However, listen to the shit they say and share with you about their dating experience along with the decisions they make. Why? Hunters are successful because they learn the habit of their prey. Which includes understanding habits and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:07 PM
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I am not underestimating globalization. Yes, on average they are same in terms of freedoms rights etc. Except how they value men... Which is the ultimate point. Most women in the US especially in Urban and suburbs locations typically only value men for dick, money, lifestyle and attention. The way how they largely perceive men and approach men are different. Trust me, if was the case where those women where like American woman in anyway, those countries and yours included would be dating and rom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:53 PM
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No. Why? You learn and do the bare minimum to find a partner. Most men aren't confident pickup artist. Most men don't have game either. What they are is brave enough to approach, overcoming disappointment and learning from each encounter. Be nice, be respectful and be considerate. Sometimes a woman will reject you simply because she's having a bad day. 95% of your approaches will be no. I mean, simply asking her if she'd like to grab coffee and chat for a bit is a modest approach. That percentag…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:05 PM
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Bro you don't live in the US. Pretty sure the woman in your country don't think like the women here. Notice that a lot of RP content are focused on women living in the US and the UK? Exactly. Those women that are picked on the show, their mindsets are very close to the every day modern woman in the US and UK. With my dating experience and the experience of millions of men in these countries in urban and suburban areas, there is a prevailing mindset that most of the women have. That is detrimenta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:42 PM
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Hyper individualism and social media access are the main drivers of this divide.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:31 PM
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Yeah... It was for her when she realized that he's never going to marry her. She realized she's just another chick he was smashing. And was unlucky enough to get pregnant. She thought bearing his child would somehow change him and his mind. It didn't. I know plenty of women that held thought, all of their hopes were crushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:40 AM
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We did the "I told you so" and got her to hold herself accountable and fix her life. She's a RN now. We made sure the dude spends and gets time with his kid and pays whatever agree support (every child needs their father in their lives). So far he's been pretty responsible. No issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:26 AM
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Why would the male celebrity date a fan? When they can skrew but and bolt multiple fans... A man in the position and access to a lot of women will most likely not settle any time soon. He's going run through as much women as possible. Also, consider this. Men always date down. Why? Because the woman wants better than herself. And if a man can get her, and there are way more women of her value or caliber out there. So, then that man is settling for her. Women want to be settle for, but they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:20 AM
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That's like saying male and female mating preferences aren't a thing... These "generalizations" aren't random social constructs. The preferences most men and women have for a potential mating partner is grounded and Informed by their biology. There are exceptions to the rule of course. Extremely small amount of exceptions. And you might be one of those exceptions. People can't change there biologically informed preferences. They exist for a reason. And you should probably consider looking into w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:04 AM
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Yeah, if he tried that me, my brothers, her brother, Uncles and a few cousins would make that dude wish he wasn't born.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:51 AM
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I have cousin I was close with, years ago when we were in our early twenties. She got in a situation where two guys were into her. One guy was an older party promoter around 12 year older. The other was a grad student in university majoring in engineering. Looks wise , I think most women would find both equal. Now, the student really liked her and asked her out. She went on one coffee date with him. And called him boring. All he spoke about was how he liked her, how much he can't wait to start h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:50 AM
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Talk to fisher man. Ask him how he catches specific fish. He'll tell you the does and don't. He'll tell you about the tools you need to catch specific types of fish. I think this comes down to a lack of focus. Either due to an overflow of information, emotions and rhetoric. Pick a type of woman you want, physically and mentally. Figure out the traits that will suit you long term. Depending on what those are, you then focus on approaching those types of women. Yes, that means "catch and release" …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:30 AM
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The only situation where I see assertive men considering assertive women is if they are in a "50/50" relationship. Or when they are running a business with their wife and the wife has a lot decision making power. Basically, at work she's a beast. But home, she's submissive, feminine and loving. Thus men only want a "challenge" when it comes to work and business. Typically if a guy is assertive and dominant. He doesn't want that type of behavior in home from another person. Mainly because people …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:27 PM
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I'm already discussing that. Not interested in mudding the waters over nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:33 PM
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What if I was demonstrate that's not true. Would you change your position? I held this belief for years until shown otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:30 PM
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Most men, love is the last thing on their mind when picking a female partner. If anything respect is more fundamental than love. Physical attraction. Femininity and beauty beauty is more fundamental than love. Sure the hope is to develop love between both parties. However, other things need to be in place for that to be considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:28 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5120613/ You're saying I'm misinterpreting my sources... All I've seen you've done so far was pick a quote from on of the sources that you think goes against the claim I made. That's fine, but simply picking out a single quote without an explanation doesn't suffice. Because your making a claim by pick that quote and would be nice to have an explanation. Regardless I responded. And gave more context and a deeper explanation as to why I think I'm right.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:23 PM
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Thank you for responding. Can you take a look at a few of these links or even the conversation between me and this person and let me know what you think? Linklink Honestly, a lot of what I said to this person is what I would say to you. Now, are you basing your assessment based on your anecdotal experience? Or are you basing it on studies, research etc? I don't care whether or not you have access to studies or if it's just your own assessment and intuition. I'm just trying to find the grounding …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:22 PM
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My stance in general about men and women? Well to be Frank. I personally don't have a ridged stance on this issue. Mainly because man are better at some things and women are better at some things. All of those things are important to maintaining our society. What changed my perspective on this was when I did a few IQ tests. I scored 120-125, little above average. Honestly, I'm no genius. I did well enough in school. I'm a technician and artist and I do well at my job. I love analyzing shit and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:13 PM
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The avoid these jobs because they are not competent enough and not interested in becoming competent enough to complete the tasks that are demanded by those jobs. Please stay on topic. Last warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:55 PM
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Oh yes, but notice what it says "combining analytical and intuitive thinking" it's not saying women are smarter than men. Nor does it fly in the face of any of the evidence presented. It's highlighting how female brains process things. I'll give an example, you'll find that it's much easier for women to deal with comprehensive abstract ideas and concepts. It's also the reason women are more socially aware than men. More emotionally aware than men. Easier to learn languages and have better risk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:53 PM
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Interesting. Do most men want a dominant woman to lead him, protect him, die for him, provide mental and physical support. Do most men care about how much a woman make? Her socioeconomic level? Her social status? Do most men want stern woman that commands his respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:27 PM
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I never even brought up anything like that in my post. Please stay on topic. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:12 AM
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One more clarification question. Are you saying that women on average possess the same mental capacity and fortitude as men, and it's because they are sapiophobic that hinders them from getting into STEM as much as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:10 AM
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Sure here are few sources http://www.boysadrift.com/2007Giedd.pdf https://www.livescience.com/41619-male-female-brains-wired-differently.html https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2005/01/050121100142.htm http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/jnr.23864/full https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/1454958 Those are few.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:47 AM
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So in short, and correct me if I am wrong. You're saying that it's misogyny is or was being conditioned into women and that's why they don't participate in male dominated fields and interests? And not physically capabilities (average brain make up etc)? I want to respond. But I want to make sure I understand what you're ultimately saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:41 AM
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When it comes to mental aptitude. While personally I don't think IQ tests determine overall intelligence, problem solving and creativity of individuals. There is some correlation to being successful while having a high IQ so, I guess we can start with that. The typical graph people cite whenever they're trying to demonstrate men and women being equal. It's a qualitative study that basically says " Males have more geniuses, but have more dummies' '. While females have less dummies and less genius…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:31 AM
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Actually, women don't. Don't work as much hours as men. And they tend to avoid mentally and physically taxing jobs that require a lot of concentration while being under pressure. Yet still you'll see talking heads, womanists and feminist claiming the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:37 AM
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I would say the idea that men and women are equal physically and mentally. That men and women look for the same things in a partner (fundamentally). Women are less abusive, emotionally, physically and mentally Women work as hard as men. Women prefer good or nice guys Women are not responsible for their dating decisions There is a patriarchy Women like men that are respectful A promiscuous lifestyle is healthy for women Women want equal rights and representation Women are more responsible Misandr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 01:12 AM
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Those two charges are justified because the video evidence demonstrated nothing he did was intentionally or even malicious. The jury actually did their job by not convicting him of those other "crimes". So sorry he doesn't fit your angry, narcissistic, abusive blackman narrative. Sure you didn't... Lol 😂. Why didn't you specify the charges he was convicted of then? You're full of it. You know you meant all charges. You brought the money in the conversation. I didn't. What? It bothers you that he…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:04 PM
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No, they did not. He got slapped with 4 charges. 1.aggravated harassment 2nd degree (intentional and is a crime) 2. Harassment 2nd degree (intentionanl but not a crime) 3. Assault third degree (intentional) 4. Assault third degree (unintentional or reckless) He was found guilty of number 4 and number 2 So again a little googling goes a long way. But then again I don't expect any better from a potential narcissist on the Internet. Lol that man is worth millions he'll be fine. And he'll make more.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:40 PM
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Admit to what wrong doing? He literally did nothing wrong or criminal. The charges are equivalent to running past someone and knocking them over. No more than a damn speeding ticket. He did the right thing by not coping to plea that will be on record for something he didn't do. Which was what the prosecutor wanted and didn't get. Majors is fine and will eventually get acting gigs again. No doubt. But folks like you are part the problematic system. You listen to the bullshit the media spouts and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 07:14 PM
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Lol you clearly don't know rich people. Old money or new money. Majors is in the situation he's in right now because of the Internet and the stuff he's seen. Also, you honestly think that his ex is as or more successful than him? Seriously, the levels of mental gymnastics you people will go through to justify stupid states made. First off, it has nothing to do with being rich. It comes down to competence and due diligence. If Majors was a competent man outside of his talent he would never consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:45 PM
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Sure because rich people don't use the Internet and don't listen to anything anyone ever said... Also, notice I specifically said to not ascribe to any specific ideology? I guess reading comprehension is no longer a thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:39 PM
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I highly suggest you actually look at what he's charged with. It says assault and harassment. But if you look at all of the charges, you'll see that two different assault and harassment charges was brought up against him. What he was charged with are both " unintentional" charges. They probably won't even be on his record. The charges are what a person who is defending themselves or accidentally hurt someone would be charged with. They caused harm but it was not intentional. So, it's clear given…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:09 PM
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I often wonder the mental health of people the make stupid and vapid responses that have absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand. A comment like yours is prime example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:15 AM
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I think most modern men are idiots when it comes to dating women. They have no discipline. Refuse to learn anything about female nature and refuse to stop simping. Also, the red pill is a part of the system of control, like the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:34 AM
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Yes and no. If a man doesn't project his wealth then he is no more attractive than other dude out there from a woman's perspective. I know men who are worth hundreds of thousands and millions. They dress normal. Drive normal cars. Own decent home. And don't boast about their money (which is smart). So merely being rich doesn't do much unless you project that wealth. The thing is that if you project your wealth, you'll end up attracting the type of women you don't need in your life. Most of which…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:23 AM
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I don't think you understand what men mean when they say men reach their prime in their 30s. It's not about looks. It's about experience and resources. Looks matter but it's not everything, most women don't find most men to be physically attractive. However, it doesn't mean they find men overly unattractive. There is a guy like you out there that falls in the same looks level as you and is not single and or dating regularly. The difference is comes down to hygiene, social skills and resources. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:53 PM
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I mean do they not understand that these types of men have money too? Also, let them wait? Cool he'll just go and smash other chicks in the mean time. To me, this is just women being lazy. They don't want to put the effort into actually learning about men to properly filter the men the claim they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:34 PM
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Wouldn't know, don't do dating apps. Now if I asked a girl out (irl) and she rejected me. But couple days later she asks me out. Well it depends on her reason for rejecting me in the first place. If she has a good reason like mourning a family member, or just got out of a relationship then I'll understand. However, it's just some bullshit like, I was just having a bad day or I didn't like the way you dress or some stupid shit like that. Then hell no. I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:20 PM
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You do understand that its not "human value" but relationship and dating value right? Just saying...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:34 AM
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It's less about beauty and more personality traits and reproduction. A woman turning thirty doesn't automatically make her unattractive. What makes her unattractive has more to do with her life choices in her 20s and how she chooses to address them. Western women do not understand their value anymore. Because they've been convinced that their value is tied to what the have or success. Which is not the case when it comes to dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:28 AM
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Some dudes just love sloppy seconds bro. It is what it is. Simp culture is ruining dating too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:43 AM
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To me this is not rocket science. If you have a female friend and you like her. Let her know. If she doesn't like you then keep it moving. You don't have to invent your time, money or attention. There is no point in maintaining a friendship only to suffer emotionally. If you don't want to be friends anymore just tell her the reason and peace out. Or have a female friend you don't find to be attractive at all. The fact is, for both men and women. It's probably better to consider a friend for a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:56 PM
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Men in general approaching women is not the problem. The two main problems are simps and female access. Women tend to have an Entitlement mindset and so they pick, choose use partners based on what they think they deserve. The issue is that what they think they deserve is not based on building or earning anything. It's what she feels. So, if she's a 4 and a top 30 percent man pump and dumps her. Or she gets a bunch dumb simps following her in Instagram or her only fans. She now thinks she is ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 08:05 AM
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Meh, just go find one in another country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:08 AM
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1) Again, I didn't change your premise. I addressed it as a saw fit. If I change the premise of your claim, that would be a straw man. And I would be addressing things from a power perspective. Which I was not doing. Please move on... 2) It's not "some relationships". Most relationships are not formed with power dynamics in mind. And yes a power dynamic will obviously manifest given male and female nature. No matter circumstances and people are going to be obedient to someone or something. Even …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:40 AM
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I didn't twist your premise. In fact I pointed out the premise you are basing your inquiry on is false. It is false because people don't form relationships based on power. They base it on feelings they have for each other and achieving a goal or goals together. The leader follower dynamic involves cooperation and collaboration... People can be obedient and collaborate. Leaders and followers work together all the time. It's been happening for thousands of years, and have yielded in great results.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:46 PM
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Alright let's address the premise this question is grounded in. Power. The leader follower relationship dynamics is not power based. It comes down to roles, capacity, competence, sacrifice and responsibility. Because even in a "50/50 collaboration" both parties are going to be obedient to each other or contract they agree on. And so, the premise is a gross distortion of the leader follower/ supporter dynamic. But to answer your questions. 1) Biologically speaking, men are built to be leaders. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:07 PM
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I don't think you know what you're talking about to be honest. Or even understand what red pill is...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:45 AM
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Really now? Then how is that you didn't grasp the simple fact that I was not being literal? In my first post I stated a circumstance where a wife has a job but also have decision making power, example being when she works for a family business with or for her husband. Possible citation bluffing aside. I don't care about your degree. My point is that this conversation is pointless. The nitpicking is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:29 PM
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Question, in every single circumstance. When you are making a statement, decorations or asking a question. Do always say "almost" or "most" before the subject? I can very sure that's not the case. Since you do the same thing, that's you have lied in every single circumstance when you have made a claim, statement or ask a question without adding the "most or almost" qualifier. I'm going to be frank. You're wasting my time. No adds those qualifiers all the time, because it's already understood tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:11 PM
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Sure, but what's your point? Do I need to state the obvious that there is typically an exception to the rule in almost every circumstance?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:49 PM
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No, most jobs are people doing what they are told. And they get paid for doing so. That's not making decisions on how the company is run...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:14 PM
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Actually, plenty of women get allowances and they are the ones who make most of the decisions when it comes purchasing goods for the house hold and themselves. Wives who do decide to take an allowance typically do so because they have extremely bad spending habits. At a job, her boss has literally no obligation towards her. She has no decision making power in how the company is run either. Where with her husband she does, maybe not in everything but she does make important decisions. So women sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:21 PM
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Actually, a little hoe phase doesn't help. This is my thing. People are emotionally and romantically lazy and entitled. Being married doesn't mean you shouldn't try different things. I know plenty of couples that married young and have great sex lives. Why? It's simple, when they go bored they found ways to spice things up and explore. There couples who actually learn different ways to please each other. A hoe phase was never needed, if anything it reduced the quality and value of most women fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:54 AM
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This question doesn't make sense on so many levels... For men to enjoy being sex objects, they have to actually have easy access to sex. Which 98% of men don't have. Sincerely, if you think women do not enjoy being seen as sex objects then you're delusional. Get her an ideal man that has it all and can give her everything and see what happens... Most women want to be seen as sexy aka an sex object, for the " right man" Most women are offering sex without commitment. Most women have triple the am…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:26 AM
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This post is bullshit for a couple reasons. Most men take the women they can get. And it's the women who pick those men. It's demonstrated that women on mass are dating and having sex with the same men. There are women men will have sex with, and there are women men will settle down with. If you pick men that are using you for sex and companionship then that's on you. Y'all don't know men. It's clear that most of you women do not understand men in general and the types of men that are out there.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:38 AM
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Lol only a woman would think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:57 PM
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I would say, 60% of women are dating 40% of men. I think that number makes the most sense. Especially considering most men are not in relationships and have not had sex. While most women are in a relyand have had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:49 AM
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Can we stop with this femist bullshit? Seriously. The reason men are lonely is because of women. The average man still makes more than a woman. Owns more property. Has less debt. More financially responsible. Contribute more to society, but women consume more. Yet, you find that most women over value themselves on the dating market. And as a result you have a situation where more heterosexual women are in relationships (around 20% more), yet the amount of men who are single and sexless are way h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:09 PM
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No.its not a coincidence. Promiscuouswomen tend to have a host of psychological issues, commitment issues, bonding issues and pleasure issues. Fact is, most women do not really grow up untill it's too late. Their only experience with men is basically being used, abused, disrespected and manipulated. By the men they pick. And usually those men are garbage dudes. And so their only perception of men will be limited to those shit men they get with. You'll also find a lot of them later in life talkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:24 AM
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The First part of this post is bullshit. No man is out there expecting pornstar sex from a virgin. Also, being a whore doesn't mean you offer good sex. Being slut doesn't mean you offer good sex either... Good sex comes with practice. And staying fit, having an open mind and willingness to learn. Like a lot of things. Whether you're slut or whore or only been with one person, like everything else it's practice. And you don't need to fuck hundreds of people to get good at sex. Men know this, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:11 AM
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I mean, hypergamy is a thing. And strong or weak it is, is dependent on the society and circumstances the women live in. In Western societies, most cultures are gynocentric and ultra focused on the development of females. Basically, the females do not have any real environmental pressures, but the hypergamous nature remains the same or gets stronger. Hence why a woman in the West that is average looks wise and economic wise will look down or show no interest in men on their own level. If there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:56 AM
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For the same reason women are not attracted to broke men. Biology. There are two types of attractions for men. Sexual and relational. I think 40 percent of men will fuck fat women if they are horny enough. So there is some sexual attraction. When it comes to relationships, it's different. Men tend to look at things from a long term perspective. If she's low on the physical attraction scale do you want to wake up to that everyday? Are there other things about her that make up for the low physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:44 PM
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I don't see a reason to ask. Just go do it. It's guaranteed a woman knows that her child is hers. Not the case for men. Paternity tests should be free and mandatory at birth as far as I'm concerned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:29 PM
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Love posts that start with false premises... Like seriously, most guys from early on in their lives accept that possibility and made peace with it. Shit you'll find that once a percentage of men reach a certain age after dealing with various women. They literally prefer to be a lone. Because it's not worth the stress and nonsense. Men aren't scaring women about being alone. They are telling the truth. It's clear women have a way harder time dealing with being alone and being mentally independent…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:17 AM
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Is that supposed to be some kind of comeback? You don't know the field I work in, you don't know the life I live but you're here making stupid comments like the you just made. Seriously, if you don't have anything to say on the topic just STFU. Shit heads like you come here caping as if it's going benefit you in anyway. Bro, caping won't get you any pussy. Especially on reddit. And disrespecting random strangers definitely wont do it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:06 AM
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Its just you. Pretty much all of what you've stated have nothing to do with being Red Pilled. Being Red Pilled is not a conservative or liberal social ideology. And you actually pay attention to what red pill folks say, you would see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:13 AM
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The day men decided to move on from women, is the day women are fucked. Listen, all the rights, lifestyle, infrastructure, home and utilities you enjoy today is grounded in two things that motivate men who built it all. Money and Pussy. The attention you get (wanted or not) will become non existent. The protection you enjoy on a societal level will disappear. The empathy will disappear as well. See, this is the problem with the tradcon and modern woman, you all look at things from your own perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:32 PM
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That's fine. That's expected of them. They are hypergamous just like any other woman. However, they actually have way more to offer than typical Western women.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 05:46 PM
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Lol you are wrong on so many levels. Then why is that these women keep pursuing these men they are hooking up with knowing those men are fucking other women? Why is that these women get jealous? Why do they catch feelings when they get pumped and dumped? You literally have millions of women who are and were in "situationships" chasing the exclusivity carrot being hung in front of them by dudes who using them as tools of pleasure. Nearly 60-70 percent of women are saying they in relationships ( f…
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 05:05 PM
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I agree, but the reason women have a poor understanding comes down to 4 things. 1) Entitlement 2) The simping epidemic 3) the lack of any form of criticism in our society. 4) not understanding how men pick partners.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 04:36 PM
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You're looking at things from a personal perspective. I'm approaching from a societal perspective. The statistics don't lie. Women are sharing men, some know and some don't. It is what it is. And just like you have delusional men who think that these women will all for sudden want them for who they are versus what they have. Those delusional women who are expecting exclusivity from men who can have as much women as they want will long term result in them getting used up and tossed aside. Well it…
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 04:32 PM
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I read your responses up to this point. And I appreciate your honesty. These men need to see most western for what they are. I wish I could pin this comment. They are living in delusional state expecting to be seen as equals, treated as equals and loved as equals and most importantly being picked based their character. Most western only care about what you have and what you can give them. Plain and simple. I accept it for what it is, and make my dating and mating decisions based on that. And the…
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 04:20 PM
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First of all your assuming this person cares about men in the first. Or even care about the path the society she lives will eventually lead to.
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 04:10 PM
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Well, what do you expect when those "good" wives get fat, ugly, and don't put out? We can play this game. Fact of the matter is that no one should take a promiscuous person seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:09 AM
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Yes, a few times actually. I've done it before. I've also protected a woman from human predator. Though, in the recent years I've changed my stance on putting my life on the line for women nowadays. I've grown to see that women take this trait in men for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:21 PM
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Never... they scream and run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:19 PM
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True, men get to practice on those women, so when men want to settle down with non promiscuous women. They have a ton of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:18 PM
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There are multiple subreddits that are dedicated to farming men for attention. And men are dumb enough to give those women attention. Even though they are not meant to do that. Fact is, it's no different than dating websites and Instagram. Its just way more watered down with less confident women. But at the end of the day, it's just there to farm men of they're time and attention.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 01:24 PM
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Its simple, dating single mothers basically reinforce their behavior and how they pick partners. Basically, there is no consequences to their actions and decisions made. Think of it this way, if every woman is forced to stay with the man she decides to have kids with, they would be picking more carefully and wouldn't be as promiscuous. The men who date single mothers, most don't really care about having actual relationships. They care about sex and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 08:49 PM
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Oh shit! LMAO 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 04:29 PM
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LMAO 🤣 bruh
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 04:26 PM
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Men who just want to sleep around don't care about body count or virginity. They just want to have sex. Most men are not like that. The majority of men want relationships, and a promiscuous woman typically brings a a litany of issues due to living a promiscuous lifestyle. Those men prefer Virgins because paternity fraud is a massive issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:01 PM
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Please tell me, how is that I see women and their vaginas as commodities? Also, why aren't you commenting on my opinion on mens value? Did you read the full post? Because if you're going to accuse me as seeing women as commodities, then I guess I see men the same way as well. But if I grant you that, why no comment about the part about the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:54 AM
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Well since you refuse to address things in it's proper context. There is no point in having the conversation. Take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:51 AM
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Honestly, if I see a woman and I have time and in the mood I would approach. I tried dating apps and the experience is soul destroying for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:47 AM
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Hookup culture became mainstream starting in the early 2000s. However, that culture existed but mainly under niche circumstances. And certainly wasn't glorified. All social media and dating apps did was take those phenomena and made them wide spread and trendy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:46 AM
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Clearly I'm not talking about human value... Did you read the post? Or is it that you don't get the context of the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:07 PM
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Saying it is not as gross as them actually lowering their value. Cool they can embrace all the sexual freedom they want. As long as they accept what comes with that and don't blame men who have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:21 PM
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I'm curious, when you read "woman's value" what do think I mean? Also, why aren't you concerned about a man's value? Which I also stated dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:44 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:42 PM
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I personally don't use dating apps. I tell all of my family and friends to stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:41 PM
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Seems like one of those stupid rage posts... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:02 PM
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The two of what exactly being different? Emotional intelligence between men and women? The men you depend on (spouse vs boss)? Let me just put this out there, I'm not one of those people think women are useless, or women can't be leaders. Or women don't have to deal with personal or societal issues. Its my impression that our society is becoming more and more unempathetic and selfish. Both men and women respectfully. I'm seeing that be reflected in the relationship dynamics between men and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:37 PM
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Its extremely rare women do those jobs... Hence me saying men because the vast majority of those jobs are done by men. So let me get this straight. You're perfectly fine with being dependent on a man or men you don't know, that pays you for a job. Who doesn't give a shit about you on any emotional, personal or even human level. Where if you're sick and can barely take care of yourself will not be there for you in a physical, mental or emotional capacity. Or even when you're distraught and requir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:46 PM
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You depend on men everyday. The tech you use, the power, plumbing, police force, army, oil, power & road infrastructure. Its mainly men that maintain and run all of that. Chances are you work for a man. Or group of men. Either way you're dependent on men. Its not about being dependent, I'm not judging you for your choice. I'm just saying the money doesn't make you independent of men or your male spouse. I didn't say you said dick, money and companionship is all men have to offer. Chances are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:50 PM
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Lol just means thousands of women a f#&king the same men. I thought women wanted monogamy? Shit is funny. Robot girl friends are on the way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:30 PM
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Interesting... I don't know about women having less power in relationships and that makes it hard for them to leave. Considering divorce and relationship statistics... A woman regardless of her financial situation can end a marriage for no reason and there will be no consequences. That stuff about having less power to leave doesn't fit reality. If anything, men have less power to leave because they typically have way more to lose financially short and long term. Also, men tend to have less acces…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:24 PM
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I'm curious, why is the 50/50 financial contribution so important to you? Is it power thing? A control thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:05 PM
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I don't get the impression most women are desperate for relationships for various reasons. And if hanging out with friends and family is enough for you that's cool too. However, some people want more and they are proactive about it. It doesn't mean they are desperate. I personally don't think these are extreme, but we can agree to disagree. No one should ignore red flags. However, everyone has red flags. It comes down to what you're willing to tolerate. Some people might not show red flags for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:06 AM
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🙏 thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:00 PM
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I updated the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:26 PM
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Interesting I'll do that and flush it out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:08 PM
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I agree. That's a fair outlook. The trauma is difficult and a lot of people don't seem to have proper coping mechanisms and support. Which is a major issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:17 AM
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Not everyone occupied just one single category. There is overlap. And some express more in one category than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:13 AM
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If that works for both of you guys that's awesome. I'm thinking of doing a post on men. I don't date men and not interested. But I have male friends, family, colleagues and acquaintances. All of whom have their preferences which are also inform by their personas, life style and up bringing. And we all talk about our preferences etc. A matter of fact I am going to make a post for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:10 AM
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That's pretty cool. Sorry it didn't work out. Its good your not jaded. It allows you to learn from your experience and give you the mental and emotional space to find a partner goes with what you want. I also think it's awesome that you guys are planning and working together towards a better future. So congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:05 AM
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Well get out there and date. Just make sure you know what you want and date with intent. It will save you a lot of headache and even heartbreak.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:00 AM
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She didn't say they get bad sex. She asked why they hate sex or not interested. I corrected her and gave clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:57 AM
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Totally understandable, but it seems you have good support. In the end that's what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:12 AM
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Interesting, can you list the most prevalent to the least prevalent (Strong to weak)? I'm curious. And if you have a category to add. I'll add it. Its just what I've personally dated and experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:11 AM
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I wouldn't say these are personality boxes or categories. More so preference categories. Also, you're not limited to just one. You can be a mix. And if you want I can add one you think should be there, just give me a description. So regardless of categories or category you fall in. How has your dating experience been in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:08 AM
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True. The point of the post is to not make any moral or ethical judgements of these people that fall into the categories listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:57 AM
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Damn I'm sorry to hear that. Sometimes you have go through a few therapists to find the right one that can help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:54 AM
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Nice! Congratulations. Let's say my friend had to go through therapy. Her husband actually refused to date her unless she did. And he went with her to support her. She had some pretty traumatic experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:47 AM
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No, not a person. People. People I have interacted with, had relationships with (both platonic and romantic).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:45 AM
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That's interesting. One of my friends fall into those categories. Dating was hard for her at first but she eventually found the right guy and are happily married and building and empire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:43 AM
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Well, I dated them. Some of them I was in love with... And these descriptors are not personality assessments. Most of these women interacted with are decent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:41 AM
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I added the but, because of the being complex doesn't mean we don't have preference or behavior patterns. And yes, women pick partners for all sorts reasons preferences etc. It doesn't mean those decisions are random. They are informed by a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:39 AM
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Please give me more to add. What I have here is just what I've experienced. So, if you have types with descriptions I'll definitely add them. No, I love women. Also, I didn't explicitly go out of my way to date these types of women. Just happened. Also these options aren't good or bad. Like everything else there are pro and cons. And there is overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:35 AM
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I understand that stereotyping is an issue. But that's not the purpose of this post. Its just based on my experience. If you have more types and a description I would happily add it to the list. The purpose was to address women who actually dating. And I think that's fine. There is more to life than dating, mating and romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:30 AM
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The post was not meant to be a positive or negative assessment and description. To be honest most of the women I've dated have not been terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:26 AM
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I don't think all 5 fives hate sex or not interested. It was my impression that the ultimate goal is paramount to everything else. The few I dated and are friends with love romance and sex. But they have issues balancing that out. Especially if they're partner or husband is a focused as them. It comes down what people value at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:22 AM
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Escribing categories to what we observe in a phenomena in a specific context is perfectly fine. And we do it every day. The context is dating and how some women in some circumstances inform how the might pick partners. My goal is neither to flatter or demean. These are anecdotal in nature and is in not descriptive of every female. Also, I do not see people as NPCs. Hence, me clearly stating that humans are complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:17 AM
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That interesting. Thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:07 AM
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That's not the intention. But our preferences can lead to that. Which is unfortunate. However, its I added the "down sides" to highlight how having certain preferences may be taken advantage of, abuse, used or be some kind of detriment to the person if they pick the wrong partner. Some guys go after specific women not necessarily because of preferences, but because they want to take advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:06 AM
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Being not trying to reduce women to merely a few categories. These are just what I've experienced dating and having relationships. I'm sure there are many others I haven't interacted with yet (dating wise). If you have any in mind, please share. I'll even add it to the OP. Also, it's not a personality assessment persay. Based on what you share you seem to be are career supportive type of woman. And yes, in my post I acknowledged that women can have multiple traits and human beings are complex. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:01 AM
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K... Can you point to me where in my post I even remotely suggested that? Or are you that one or two persons who see a title and make shitty toxic comment just because you can,?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:50 AM
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That's interesting. Have you considered that maybe the you're more into the rush that comes with an emotional high? Versus an attraction based preference. I'm assuming you want some kind of stability. There are a lot of men out there like that. Those guys though, aren't the settle down type. If they do, those relationships can get very abusive (both partners abusing each other). Most men seem to prefer stability despite them inviting chaos in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:42 AM
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Fair enough, if you don't mind sharing. What personality types do you go after or find attractive? Also, have considered others?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:32 AM
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I've have 4 long-term relationships ( ones that last at least a year), don't remember how much i just dated without getting involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:28 AM
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Gotcha, this just based on my personal experience. How would you describe yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:25 AM
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That's interesting. Its true most guys looks come first, but it's not the be end all. A lot average guys will have no issues dating an average or slightly woman. Especially if she's fit. Also, the guys age is important. After a while some guys focus a little more on personality, good sex and a woman that's shares his vision and goals. Obviously the type of guys you go after is important. If you are average looks wise, but want men with above average looks wise and socioeconomically. You're going…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:12 AM
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I wouldn't recommend that. I've never attempted to wife a thot before. I don't know guys who have attempted to wife up that type of woman. The ones I knew in the past didn't show any interest is becoming a wife. I don't know, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:53 AM
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As a man, I do listen to older women when it comes to dating. Most of them are either married or widowed (mostly older family friends and family). However, I never ask for advice. I just listened to their experience and opinions about the women in my generation. Funny thing is, because of what I've learned from them I've become more picky about the women I choose to date. But I also realized how fucked we men are. I mean a few of them pretty much told me I'm screwed when it comes to mating choic…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:10 PM
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This☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️ Then again the red pill turned out to be just another system of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:15 PM
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Still don't make a difference. A very large percentage of those women still use state and government programs to pay for those kids while getting child support. Basically double dipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:47 PM
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Hmm this is interesting, I recall married couple where both partners are having issues getting orgasms. They went for help with the issue and it turned out that the wifes constant use of vibrators for years, oral and penetration couldn't give her an orgasm. And the husband had porn addiction issues (his wife is not seen as attractive as porn stars, so he couldn't orgasm. They were both still using both sources of pleasure in their marriage. Anyway long story short. The got some kind of therapy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:54 PM
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Your mistake was thinking that it's even possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:55 PM
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Probably depends on his looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:43 AM
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Keep fishing, you'll get a catch eventually.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 04:13 AM
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Well, it would be nice for men to pick better women. Problem is not a lot of them exist... In all seriousness. Yes, a lot dudes are not picking properly and a majority of the reason why they don't pick properly is literally because all they care about is getting p#@sy. At least when they are young adults. If they have that mindset in their late 20s and 30s. Then they clearly have not grown up. Then again we live in society where access to sex for some men is crazy easy. And access is extremely h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:55 PM
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If you're an average guy, stay away from dating apps. If you have friends that is considering going on dating apps. Convince them to stay the fuck away. That shit destroys men on so many levels.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:12 AM
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Nothing! And to be frank it makes sense. Being More competent and responsible. They also tend to make more and are financially secure. Maturity is key for a a lot of women who don't want to date around. And the level of responsibility, patient, income and consistency needed will most likely not be found in a guy in his early 20s if said female is in her early 20s. All of these comments about older men wanting mess with teenagers are bullshit. And it's extremely rare you'll see anything like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:57 AM
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How do you approach? When do you approach? Looks wise are you fit, average, overweight or obese? Are average looking or ugly? What's your finances looking like? What have you learned from your encounters? Do you have female friends? How do you take rejection? Failure rate for average and below average men are pretty high. Even the most successful dudes have been through it. Women do not approach dating the same way us men do. They take way more into consideration. Shit even their moods have to b…
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 07:14 PM
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Can't or won't?
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 02:19 PM
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Seriously no man on here says that women should no have jobs. That is a false narrative being spread shitty women to muddy the waters in an important conversation. What men actually say is "YOUR JOB OR CAREER DOES NOT ADD TO YOUR ATTRACTION OR MAKE YOU MORE VALUABLE". We don't care. Women have always worked for thousands of years and men never had an issue. Men still don't have an issue. Its clear you either aren't reading what men say, or you're only focused on what shitty women (and men too) s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:18 PM
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I don't know what you mean by women doing everything men are doing. It paints the picture that women of the past were less competent or something. Despite their circumstances. Finishing school and getting a job is base requirement to participate in society. Its expected of you. Also, the quality of women have dropped significantly. Women are fatter, riddled with mental issues, have a crazy amount of debt, are no longer virgins, more promiscuous and have no idea how to maintain a home. Women do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:25 AM
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Hit that nail right on its head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:58 PM
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Fist of all, never approach women when they are chilling with their friends. You're literally setting yourself up to get mocked. Whether they find you to be attractive or not. There is a thing where some women actually get a kick over rejecting guys. She flattered that you approached but it's now an opportunity to show her friends that she's too good for you. Also, when you approach one it's like you're telling the other ladies that you don't find them to be attractive. Its stupid but some women…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 02:55 PM
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I think the difference comes down to who's willing to not settle for less. Guys are way more prone to settle and be happy with who they end up with. Women (at least in the West) seem perfectly fine with being alone. Certainly more willing to end relationship and move to another mate. Especially considering that is very easy to have their sexual needs met (not with toys). The need for attention met through social media and dating apps can be met since there are billions of simps waiting to give a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:56 PM
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I disagree with your premise, as being the only reason women initiate divorce. However, I won't argue that there is a financial incentive that allows for women to be more comfortable and more readily file for divorce. Listen, a woman can divorce you for things that have nothing to do with you. It could just be that they are merely unhappy. Also, yes women are out performing men when it comes highschool and college attendance graduation. However, it's not necessarily an indication that women will…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:47 PM
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Well they are certainly aware, however the men they chase typically just use them and send them on their way. Or lead them on with the "relationship carrot" and promise of a greater lifestyle while using them. Those women normally waste 5-7 years chasing those dudes and when they realize they are being used and are in their 30s. That's when they consider average guys. Seen it, have female friends who did that. A lot of them flirt with the idea of dating even me (who I consider average). I tell t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:11 PM
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I'm moving to the Balkans ✈️🛩️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:40 PM
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Those average looking folks are the ones that get married the most anyways. Considering most men and women are average looking...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:33 PM
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Well one would assume they are at least content. You're right, but you need to pull the woman first in order to marry her...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:09 PM
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Not necessarily, women find most average looking guys physically unattractive. Most men who are married are average or slightly below average... So no, it's not some extreme exception. As I said, attraction for them doesn't work the same way it does for us men. If you're a RP you should know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:48 PM
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Honestly bro, when they say women find majority of men unattractive they are not lying lol. But it's not necessarily based on looks. They tend consider a lot more than us men like persona, wealth, hygiene, social status, time you have for them etc. Looking good is a slice of the attraction pie for them (probably 20-25%). Where for us physical appearance takes up 60%. We consider and value different things. It doesn't matter how blue or red pill a guy is. Or how good he looks. If a woman doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:31 PM
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I would say yes, but women in general don't just look at physical appearance like us men do. They take a lot more into consideration. To be fair though, urban Western women tend to focus way more on looks, money and social credit/power. Ideally they tend to focus on what they can get out of a man. Versus when they can offer. Where other parts of the world women take a lot more into consideration. That's probably why their marriages tend to last longer. Other women will play hard to get to feel a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:12 PM
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Get a billion dollars and see what happens... This post is bullshit.
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 04:32 AM
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Most men don't care about whether or not they are sexually desired. It's more so they want a partner to have sex with. While they try to find a partner to have sex with they need sex. Therefore, legalized prostitution will alleviate a lot built up frustration in a lot of men. Sex and masturbation are two different things here. Let's not muddy the waters for no reason.
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 05:45 AM
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Ask the same question to lonely women. The answer is most likely no. And it'll be the same for men. Men want companionship. Lonely and other wise. Sure sex is included in that. But it's not just about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:34 AM
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I think it's fine. It's better mentally than being a chick who is ran through and has all sorts of trust, hate, attachment and emotional issues. I hope you find a good patient guy to settle down with who doesn't have any or much experience. There's good chance if you guys focus each other your relationship will last.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:13 AM
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You're talking to them right now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:09 AM
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Was that an attention post? Why share it here?
/r/AllPillDebate15/07/23 04:08 AM
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I think women prefer more experience men. Age doesn't matter as long as he pleases her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:08 AM
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I got sucked into that culture. And I realized quickly that it was a destructive and costly lifestyle. I wanted more for myself and so I disengaged. I don't engage activities for quick gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:33 PM
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Taking a red pill is seeing a system for what it is (though is just another system of control). What you do with that knowledge is completely up to you. I hate that the concept of being red pill is now tied to this dating and mating stuff. When it's bigger than that. Anyways, self improvement is not a "pill thing" . Just like any situation, you have to put yourself in the position to get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:04 PM
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All other needs met and being equal. I'll pick the semi-attractive girl with a lower body count. From my experience dating chicks with high body counts... They are a huge no no for me personally.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 07:08 AM
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I think competent men should lead in a relationship. Leadership typically comes with a lot more risks and sacrifice than rewards. It also comes with responsibility. Not just in the sense that man is ultimately responsible for everything that happens in that house hold. But from the perspective of wielding power. Like holding his followers accountable, while assigning responsibility to the followers, listening and Knowing when to seed power permanently or temporarily. The most important quality i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:01 AM
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It depends on the circumstances. If there are bad medical issues I'll be patient for a while. If there is a functionality issue, then me and my spouse need to have a conversation about a potential third wheel. Anything outside of that stuff (may trauma stuff) I'd say month or so. In a relationship it's not just about me, nor is it about only me and my needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:44 AM
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Your first mistake was taking dating advice from a woman about approaching them. That's like a grass eating prey teaching a predator how to hunt... Listen, for a lot of women is not that they don't want to be approached, flirted with, cat called, treated nicely or anything like that. It's just that they want it from guys who they find attractive. Attractive not being limited to physical appearance. Then there are their moods. Which changes ever couple hours. There is also the social credit aspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:32 PM
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It's true, most typically men would have sex with a 1... If you want a relationship and you're a 2. There might be a few things you can do. Fitness and having a nice body is key for a lot of men. They would rather date 2 (in the face) with a really sexy body. Than a 7 who's 5'5" and weigh 300lbs. Personality. If you are a sweet, loving and considerate woman, you can catch a man's eye. If you're feminine, nurturing and most importantly respectful. You'll catch a guys eye. Go Hunting. Sometimes yo…
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 07:18 AM
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You're complaining about something you have no control over while ignoring what you do have control over. I'm not addressing exceptions I'm talking about the rule. If the country is predominantly black or Asian the majority of people in those countries will prefer what they identify with. Which are the people who look like them. Regardless of what the media pumps out. Even in the US, the typical black male have always preferred afrocentric features. Fuller lips, bigger or shapely butts, wider hi…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 06:18 PM
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It is nonsense. Bitching about a fact of reality will not get you anywhere. The beauty standards will always be set be set by the majority culture and ethnicity based on whether you live. Also beauty standards have changed and evolved over the years. And there is plenty of evidence to show that. That's the part you clearly didn't read in my last comment. So again, you can either take responsibility for yourself and figure shit out to get your results or just keep bitching. Hint bitching won't ge…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 05:53 PM
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This post is nonsense... First of all, if you live in a society where white people are the majority or the ruling class then the beauty standards will most likely be grounded in what they prefer. However, where being thin or tits on a stick was popular. That has changed drastically. Now you all you see are white women wanting fuller lips, bigger butts, wider hips, darker or tan skin and Asian looking eyes. Non of which are European. If men aren't picking you, especially the men you want. Chances…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 04:47 PM
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Well there's a host of reasons for this. Main one being they have options. So, for women it's not hard to attract a potential partner. Especially with simp culture. That aside, maybe considering moving to a different location. Or if you're dating online, stop and go out and meet women. Sure most of your attempts will end up in failure, but learn from each experience. And dude, if you need to travel to find your partner then do that. You're first mistake was thinking they require a personality or…
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 06:39 AM
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Ban dating apps, Instagram and only fans. Outside of the fact that most men nowadays are raised with a single mother and the various issues that comes with that, when it comes to character. The access for women to the top men is too easy. And so a good amount of them get ran through by those men. Hook up culture makes it even worse. Because women are told that they can live like men sexually speaking. And that is a lie. How women picked partners have changed too. Women used to take a holistic ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:05 AM
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Even though women usually have a more overall perspective when it comes to attraction. For example, looks wise a guy can be a 3 or 4 but is healthy, successful, competent and charismatic. She'll consider him. That's still the same for countries that are not influenced by western culture. In the west, because of social media and dating apps. Women have access to way more men and the best amongst them. And so, they no longer have to settle for what's in their area or sphere of influence. They can …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:36 AM
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Lol someone's sharing their man, lmao!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:18 AM
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That's a women problem. Not a men's problem. They pick who they sleep with, they choose to not use birth control, they decide to have unprotected sex (no way a man is going raw without a woman's consent) and if they get pregnant they choose to carry that child to term. So if they bipass all of that stuff and have kids for a man who didn't want to have kids with them, or a man who they know was a poor pick. That's on them. A majority of men and women were raised in single mother house holds. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:37 AM
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Then you probably need more female friends... Feel free to you know. Ask women questions and learn stuff about them. A woman being bubbly doesn't not mean she's into you. She could just be like that in general...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:34 PM
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What rewards do you expect by merely being nice or courteous? Wtf are doing 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:14 AM
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That's bullshit. And whom ever say shit like that are jaded bullshiters. Feel free to smile at any man. Smiling at a typically translate to " She's cool". Not " She likes me and thinks I'm hot" wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:49 AM
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Yup. I've grown to learn that female attraction and sexuality is way more complex than men. For better or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:44 AM
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OF exist because guys will bang anything that has a vagina. Doesn't matter if they are Cute, pretty ugly, gorgeous or perfect. Fat, skinny, fit, hulkish or obese .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:28 AM
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So the study is basically saying these Asian women are at a higher risk of abuse etc, because they don't make as much money and the most the men who marry them are uneducated? Wtf is that? There is not even lil bit of correlation between those things. Did no one go over this before it was published? Also, what about the Sweden's two years deportation rules? Where swedish women forced the gov to implement, forcing Asian women to remain married for two years, and if they don't stay married they ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:40 AM
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It depends on the man. If he's modern male who just wants companionship and to have fun. Then he'll pick the second option. If he wants a genuine long term relationship that leads to marriage, then he'll pick number 1. Since most guys prefer long term normal relationships. They'll pick the first option. Also, there is a difference between women men will get in relationships with and women they'll just smash. If he's just smashing her past doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:15 PM
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Most men are dominant in their own way and express dominance and masculinity in different ways. Unfortunately most men grew up in single mother homes. And as a result are not structured, very emotional, selfish and irresponsible. These men don't see themselves as leaders and stewards. And if they want to be those things, they don't know how to. Also, being man is not contingent on a woman's feelings, views and desires. It's grounded in being competent, productive, brave, responsible and reasonab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:36 PM
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Awwe thanks. I see posts like this all the time. I feel bad because it's obvious a lot of guys are suffering from RP rage and loneliness. And they don't seem to understand that rage and hatred is actually making things worse and making them blind to other women out there. Its to the point where they can't see other opportunities and what needs to be done to get results. It's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:34 AM
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I get it OP. But honestly, men should not harbor any hate towards any women. Men should focus on bettering themselve to the point where they go anywhere to find a partner. The money earned is just the first step, but getting information and traveling also opens a ton of options. Like a lot of guys, I got rejected, but I learned from every rejection and gained perspective from female friends I have no romantic interest in. And I made adjustments. With that it became easier to get approach and get…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:48 AM
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One of the things you should look into when it comes to women are who they pick. If a woman doesn't want a respectful man or find them attractive. I don't see any reason why a respectful should feel bad, or even care since she's not worth what he has to offer. Also there are women who love respectful men and appreciate them. Guys should move go to other places to find partners who will appreciate them. Whether it's in a different neighborhood, town, city, state or country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:51 AM
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I don't think black pill is actually a thing. It's either you're blue pilled or red pilled. It's either you're eyes are opened or they are closed. What you choose to do with the information you receive is up to you.
/r/AllPillDebate26/01/23 07:44 AM
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No. Because you're masculinity is not contingent on those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:08 AM
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Most men who don't care about a woman's body count tend to be guys who just wanna smash. And those guys are relentless in their pursuit of p****. And it's the same for desperate men. However, Most men who want a more out of a woman tend to care about that body count. This is because women with high body counts tend to come with certain issues men don't want to deal with. So no, it's not ", specific type of guy" that has an issue with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:07 AM
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I agree, dudes need to earn that p$#*y 😸. But men's time, attention, affection, security, money, resources and companionship is not free. And women are not entitled to any of those things from any man. Yes, when in danger and need help they ask for a man's help. House burning down and kids in that house and a bunch of men are around, expectations are for man to run in and risk his life for children who are not his own... But he gets nothing in return... I could go down the list of shit women exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:18 AM
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Okay, but I don't recall addressing the divorce rates, but who files in relation to my bigger point about what men value. Also, college educated doesn't mean necessarily mean those women are working. However, they are most likely to marry another man that is college educated and earns a good amount (women don't date down). Versus poor folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:51 AM
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I recall reading a 2015 Study that stating women file at a rate of 70 percent and college educated women file 90 percent of the time. Maybe they did an update or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:57 AM
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I haven't fully read the studies provided (will finish later). But from what I can see so far, I'm curious as to which men they are questioning. Representation is important. For example, if they only question men who live in Urban locations and university campuses and only in the USA. Then the I find the findings, to be incomplete. I'm concerned because it's make the assumption that all men value the money a woman makes. Versus things, femininity, fitness, co-operation, respect and fertility. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:33 PM
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My question is why does the OP thinks Red Pill men can't find partners or are unattractive? Does him/ her think people become red pill because of those reasons? Seems like malformed question...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:21 AM
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I mean that women possess certain traits that they do better than men. You're right in the sense that women can be superficial and materialistic. However, there is a biological component to that. For example, women love access to resources and value social credit. As in there is a hierarchy. Now I'm not a woman, so how a woman gets to the top is not fully realized to me. But the little I know is that women can be very ruthless. Ruthless men will kill. But ruthless women will literally treat peop…
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 06:27 AM
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Sorry you had to deal with shaming and manipulation. Men tend to be more straight forward and value respect very much. So typically if you're respectful to men, they'll show you respect. And sometimes you have to command respect too. However, how one does that might depend on the walk of life and situations. I think women have use to society out side of reproduction. Do you think it's possible to change your mind on this view? And yes, living as a man is tough. Living easy mode only exist when y…
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 08:24 PM
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Gotcha, thanks for clarifying. With this knowledge and the conclusion you came to (women are useless). How does that make you feel as a woman? Do you want to be useful? What are some of the things you now appreciate about men, that you didn't before being Red Pilled?
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 05:16 PM
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Thanks for responding. Understanding these things when it comes to what men value in female partners. Does it make it easier or harder to date and find a partner? When you say women are useless, do you mean from an building and maintenance aspect? For example building homes, buildings, machines, engineering and maintaining security. Or do you mean completely useless. I'm not sure if you're being hyperbolic or not. Not sure if you are single or not. If you're not single just ignore this question.…
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 04:43 PM
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If you don't mind me asking What is the reality that you see after taking the red pill, in relation to dating, relationships and what men an women value? It seems red pill rage is just comes with having your eyes open. But please share, what do you see?
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 02:21 PM
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It depends on the man and what he values. Simply put if you're a man that values access to multiple women, casual relation and relationships. Then a woman with a high body count won't bother you, Because the issues that come with a high body count won't affect you. And even if it does you'll just move on to the next chick. As a man that values marriage, family, mental health and self respect. I am not interested in a woman who has a high body count. A few reasons: Pair bonding- I found that wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:25 PM
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Those guys tend to be more out going, have more social skills and don't care about being rejected. Keep approaching eventually one will bite, so It's a numbers game. Most good dudes are just average or have below average social skills. Women like the feeling of being liked, they like the projection of power (that's why bullies have girl friends), since he's an aggressor some women feel he'll be a great protector and they like the social credit that comes with being with that guy. Obviously there…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:53 PM
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I think it depends on how much of recluse that man is. If he doesn't go out or interact with people. Their is a good chance he's not dating. It doesn't necessarily mean he'll never date, because some guys see women as a distraction when they are ultra focused on Thier goals. A guy being outgoing, confident in his social skills have a hire chance of getting women. For obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:46 PM
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This is crazy. I think most men that want to start a family, will not be interested in artificial women. However, a large percentage will most likely gravitate towards artificial women probably because they'll get one that matches their preference. Men in sexless marriages will also take advantage of the availability of artificial women. Men care more about physical looks when it comes to initial attraction and sex. When it comes to companionship most guys just want peace. So men will take more …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:27 PM
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Well, I hope whatever case they build against him is solid. Because if it's not and he goes free. He'll most likely sue them for millions and get a bigger platform. Personally, I don't care for him. Not because of the message, but because of the fact that he's using that message and participating in an industry exploiting lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:25 AM
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Yes when it comes to dating and marriage preferences. Most black men are not self hating, even the ones that exercise their options. A matter of fact most men prefer to date within their ethnicity dew to visual familiarity. What you and millions of other western black women do not understand, is that it's not your skin color that puts you at the bottom of the dating and marriag preferences. It's your attitude, non family oriented, entitlement and Egos. The reason Asian women are prefered, is not…
/r/AllPillDebate22/12/22 02:53 PM
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You seem to get it mixed up. Guys who want casual sex do not shame women who have or want to have casual sex. They actually prefer women who are promiscuous in nature. Some of those guys are the biggest feminist you'll find, why it's simple. The more promiscuous women become the more access to pussy they have. No, obliviously they don't want kids, relationship or monogamy. Men who shame women for living a promiscuous life cares about women when it comes to Thier dignity, ability to bond, ability…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:51 AM
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Maybe start by asking for or advice on something. Start a conversation, keep it respectful. It would help a lot if you're a regular at the gym too. Also, If she's in the middle of a work out don't approach, especially if she has on head phones. Just pick your moment, don't flirt just be friendly. If she likes chatting with you that's good. Just keep engaging. If she cuts the conversation short. Keep it moving and go back to your work out. It's most likely not going to be a one day thing, but con…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:13 AM
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I'm in my early 30s and 20 year old is too young for me (23-24). But if I have to choose, I would rather date a 20 year old that looks 30. Less jaded, less shitty experience with men, most likely no issues when it comes to reproduction, have a better capacity to learn more and easier to bond with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:53 PM
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Dude they are literally every where...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:20 PM
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First off marrying someone because you find them to be attractive or pleasant is a very shallow reason to get married. That will lead to a very quick divorce. Then again, as the woman you can only gain from a divorce. Secondly, marriage based on love is new phenomena. Marriage was about families coming together to pool resources and protect women and children. It was never about love. Lastly, you do not know these women and their mindset. Chances are, you're not going marry bum on the street or …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:59 PM
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I think it's disrespectful to say these women don't have standards. And associating the lack of standards with poverty is gross. Having money and access to resources as women do not increases your value. Also, Bringing up standards is funny to me because a large percentage of western women have way less to offer men. But somehow has "higher standards". The fact is that men will go where they are appreciated. It doesn't matter whether the woman is rich or poor or even location. Also, have you eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:22 AM
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If you're a man, and you build your life with pussy being the main focus. You're doing it wrong. The sex as a reward thing online creates more simps. And the more simps we have in society, the harder it's going to be for regular hard working guys to find partners. So no, sex should not be treated as a reward. It never was until recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:58 AM
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It is natural lol. You even see similar behavior in our evolutionary cousins and ancestors before modern humans. Hypergamy is grounded in biology, you have not demonstrated the contrary. Until you find evidence contrary to these facts, you're straight up talking nonsense. Women didn't just wake up one day and as collective decided how they pick their partner. It's baked in to their biology based genes inherited, which use to survive environmental pressures and increase chances of reproduction. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:41 PM
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Did you know of her being promiscuous? Does she have behaviors you would associated with a promiscuous woman? If you don't see the sign, then don't waste your time and energy thinking about this stuff. Just focus on forming a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:19 AM
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What makes you think a blue pilled man won't treat you the same or worse? Smh...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:46 PM
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Our values wouldn't match up. There's a high chance she'll have issues bonding, there is a high chance she will have issues that require consistent visits to a therapist, I will most likely not be her last, my family will lose respect for me, My colleagues would lose respect for me and most of my friends would lose respect for me. Her choice of lifestyle is a reflection of who she is. I think one of the most risky but greatest show of love a woman can give a man is access to her womb. The opport…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:58 AM
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Nope. Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:50 AM
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Yeah, at least they build families, build wealth, build communities and maintain the society that allows you to hold the views you have. Instead of sitting at home with feels and entitlement and contributing nothing to society....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:40 PM
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No it's not. Even before we got civilized. Women always preferred the men who are top of the food chain. Best hunter, provider, best protector, best farmer, ruler, best soldier, most wealthy, most influence etc. Women have always dated up. Obviously most don't get the best, but most settled with men who were better than them. Men on the other hand date down. Typically anyway. I agree men should not settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:18 PM
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It's called hypergamy... Deal with it or don't.. up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:24 PM
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It's not a grind. I like how you keep twisting my words lol. Who said anything about the relationships being hard? So disingenuous. And I agree. Unrealistic Selfish, lazy entitled prople should remain single...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:39 PM
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Compatibility is subjective. Empathy goes without saying. But those do not make relationships work long term. Also, I am addressing things in terms sex, affection, attraction and companionship You're logic makes no sense. Earning and entitlement are two different things. Words and their meanings don't change based on how you feel. Every healthy long term relationship, almost every single couple will tell you that it's WORKING TOGETHER and PUTTING IN THE EFFORT. You rarely hear empathy or compati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:55 PM
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There is need for telepathy, when people openly share their experiences. Whether it's in person or with studies. Also, I am not suggesting transactional relationships. Most relationships are not 50/50 anyway. It's about putting the effort to please each other and keep up the attraction. Cause again, you are not entitled to sex, love, affection and attention. My words were clear, please do not twist them. Both men and women need have to put the EFFORT in to maintaining a relationship and attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:56 PM
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Maybe for you, but the rest of the planet doesn't think that way. Sure it's not completely this direct trade, but no one is entitled to sex in a committed relationship. Same way you are not entitled to love. It's conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:58 PM
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I'm just going to say it. In a committed relationship. Sex is not special in that. It's not this rare commodity that expire so you have to be stingy with it. As man 4 times a week good. That lady needs time to rest. Now, for all those folks talking about mood. What if she gets "in the mood" once a month? Or no longer gets into the mood without you putting in the effort, hmm? Anyway, a lot of men are lazy when it comes getting their woman in the mood. No foreplay, no teasing, no exploring, no bui…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:37 PM
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Promiscuous women being no good for relationships was never a complaint. It was more so an observation and pointing out the phenomena men experience. The complaint is " if she gives it up easily and quickly to other guys, why should I wait and invest more when they haven't for something used?" That's why men use the "used car" analogy. I have yet to see a sensible response to that question or complaint from blue pills. Also, I don't see men complaining about low or no body count women making the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:32 AM
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That's you most men don't share your opinion for various reasons. Also, it's not about seeing them as dirty. It's more about self respect, promiscuity, paternity and yes, bonding. Especially considering paternity fraud is a thing... You female partner being a virgin is the only way for a man to guarantee paternity (yes dna testing exist, but most folks don't have access). You might not like facts about how sex affect women and their capacity to bond and maintain relationships. But it's reality. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:31 PM
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Some how you're personal experience trumps millions of men's experience? Also, the article is referring women who are already in love. Being in love doesn't mean she's in a relationship. So the article doesn't support your claim. Doesn't have anything to do with it. Fact is men experience this phenomena with women and they see it as being unfair, stupid, or nonsensical. Instead of addressing the situation, you're making it seem like it's this ultra rare thing that almost never happens. That's bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:51 PM
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There is no danger in being Red pilled. Being Red pilled just means you're seeing the dating world for what it is. What you choose to do with that information is up to you. You can use it increases your chances of finding a partner or you can use it to self destruct, or you can use it to justify existing hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:29 PM
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First thing is most women find most men (even average men) to be physically unattractive. And most men who have the confidence to approach above average women (looks wise ) are average. The below average or ugly men will not approach because they know the outcome. The only situation an ugly dude will approach the most attractive women are 1. They have a ton of resources and influence. Or they are very new to dating. I don't see men in mass getting any mental help from their spouse. Why? 1. Men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:11 PM
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No. Low value Men don't go around being fat, broke, and ugly while approaching the most attractive women (8-10). Much less think they are entitled to sex or companionship. Ran through and damaged women go around asking for more from men, including more resources, be their therapist, be taller, more dates, chiseled fit, more entertaining and more patience (wait longer for sex). Plus, women choose who has sex. Not men. So if they are picking men who will only have sex. Then it's their fault. Pick …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:10 PM
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You're half right. Yes, they are getting a worse deal. It's not a matter of them being afraid that woman is not attracted to them. It more has to do with how she sees or treats her body. Guys see that as a reflection of character more than anything. Women value love and men value respect. It's insulting to ask for more, while offering a "used and abused product " (BTW I hate that analogy). Which is what women are doing. Examples being, more attractive men, men with more resources, more "game" an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:48 PM
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Is it? Why is it that men don't like this treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:58 PM
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No one likes to be lied to, is obvious. So I didn't feel the need to address that part of the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:48 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:35 PM
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And that's the issue. And thats also difference between men and women. A man has to actually put in the time and effort to get to know women. Whether he wants to get laid or looking for a meaningful relationship, rich or poor. That's not the case for women. You guys make no effort to understand the opposite sex, but are quick to insult, dismiss or even shame them for things you have no knowledge or understanding of. But here's the kicker, women want men to understand them and consider their feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:31 PM
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Nope lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:20 PM
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Most men will respect "sexual free" women's decisions, but only from the view of possibly wanting only sex from that type of woman. When it comes to marriage and relationships, no go for most men. Just curious, have you ever asked men why they have the views they have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:59 PM
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Have you ever wondered why men hate this behavior and decision making?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:54 PM
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I think most woman wants the best guy ever. However, attraction for women are not like men. Not even close. Hot or ugly chick's almost never approach a guy. One thinks she's too good and the other doesn't have the confidence or tools to do so... For them it's not just physical. It comes down to social credit, them being entertained and being treated like princesses. And yes, the typical woman would definitely want a guy with 666 setup. However I think you're view is limited to western urban and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:48 AM
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That doesn't exist...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:31 AM
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Invest more of what feels? They get sex, companion, taken out on dates, have the man pay for this dates, gifts, guy probably have to deal with drama and other annoyances. So, what exactly did the woman invest? Sex and feels?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 12:38 AM
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I don't see red pill men clobbering over those type of women... Mainly because most blame those women for being a bad influence on women. But let's say what you're saying is true. I'm going to keep it simple. There are women men will sleep with (short or long term) . And there are women men will marry and settle down with. Glorification (simping) is a mating strategy a lot of men use. Just like some who lead with their wallet or looks etc. Most men red or blue pill will most likely pump and dumb…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:58 AM
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No, there are plenty of men that will not only date you. But marry and have kids with you at your current age. Sure men have preferences, but most men it's not just about age and looks. If your pretty, respectful, feminine and caring you'll definitely find a partner to settle down with. Also, please keep in mind that dating you doesn't mean a man wants to settle down with you. You need to find a guy that dates with intention to settle down. And you have to make that clear from the get go. And lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:40 PM
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How is understanding female nature and the fact that we live in a gynocentric society (to name a few) a bad thing? Being redpilled is just having your eyes open to the world as it is. What you choose to do with that knowledge and view is completely up to you. Women tend to not care about the male dating experience. Once redpilled, it's either they become more empathetic towards men and boys. Or they monetize that knowledge. It just depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:34 PM
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There are always exceptions to the rule when it comes to these dynamics. I would say men claiming that woman are the orchestrators of current dating situation for men. That's not true, It's other simp men in power, Simps and dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:51 AM
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They are disposable. Women don't actually love them for who they are. Being a good guy doesn't get you the girl. He's just free meal. Society lied to them about women. The lie that Marriage is a about love. Society incentivizes women destroy marriage. Those are some of the reasons I've heard guys suffering from redpill rage, say that set them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:43 AM
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And men were always expected to provide, protect and care for his family. While his wife gives no sex, doesn't keep up her body too keep his attraction. But he is expected stay faithful in a sexless marriage. Not only that, that woman is more likely to destroy that family and take the children away and be rewarded child support, lose half assets, and has to pay alimony...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:38 PM
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Yup, at the end of the we are entitled to nothing. You have to put the effort in earning everything. Sometimes, that includes high self esteem and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:03 AM
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Marriage was never about love anyways. It was used to pool resources and bind families get more wealth and leave a stable setting for the next generation. The romantization of marriage actually ruined marriage. Mainly because people stopped being practical about how they picked their partners and focused feels... Men prefer stability and respect over love anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:02 AM
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No dating apps, simping and unrealistic woman are lowering men's self-esteem... But to be frank. Selfesteem issue is an issue the individual should fix. Especial men. Blaming others definitely won't fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:52 PM
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Well, let's hope you don't raise one...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:23 AM
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I don't think you need to ask that directly as a man. I think when you outline your short and long term goals and how you're going to achieve them. Then that question is implied, because if she likes you and wants the same things in life she'll simply respond with how she could contribute or list her goals that align with yours. She'll tell you what she brings to the table over time verbally and through her actions. Let's say you take a more direction approach. And ask the question whichever way…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:58 AM
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Nah I'm good. I'm not a chimpanzee. And I don't men should use the mating strategies of chimpanzees... Because human women do not have the some mating requirements as female chimpanzees... I'm sorry, but I think women respect men who actually try and learn. Versus using another man as crutch to get them or get with them...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:56 AM
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Another man hating post... Calling men predictors because they prefer a younger women who are not jaded, don't have a 100 bodies and not riddled with trauma. This is comes off as a butt hurt post...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:44 AM
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Beauty, femininity, fertility, good personality and being peaceful. In short, women don't have to do anything other than exist to get most of those traits. Being feminine and peaceful requires work. Physical appearance and fertility require maintenance. It's a simple question. Yet I'm reading these comments and all I see are folks demonizing, making gross assumptions and call men incels...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:36 PM
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Because no fault divorce is a thing and there is little to no consequences to ending a marriage for women. In some situations there are benefits to ending the marriage. Eventually, the marriage rate is going to plummet. Men are realizing that there are more cons vs pros when it comes to marriage. I'm curious as to which states have the most marriagesnand the most divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:03 PM
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That's not what you're saying directly, but that will be the results. Simps are dudes that pour resources and time into women without getting any results. Money is not going to help long term when it comes to social development and getting to know women. The life style, hair, looks, trinkets, will not help when it comes to your ability to get the type of women you'd want. How do you think "dating coaches" actually get their skills? Cold approach. Not leading with material, life style or wallet. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:25 PM
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You seem to forgeting a few things. Most women work, have an apartment, can afford their lifestyles and have the pick of the field. The ones worth their salt most likely won't care as much about your money long term... While others will just use you. Your suggestion, is to breed more simps. Who are huge part of the problem men are facing today in dating. Also cold approach doesn't work for socially lazy dudes. The point of cold approach is to learn from each experience. The broke dudes who keep …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:07 AM
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With all due respect. No. While those things are good to strive for as a man. Cold approach a helps to develop character, sharpen social skills, allows you to actually get to know women better. The more you know, the better your chances. Also, basing your post on mainly on online dating interactions is a flawed approach. Because how a woman will treat you online and in person will be different. Approaching in person takes guts and confidence for most guys. And women love those things. Swooning a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:48 AM
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With average income and lifestyle. If he looks good and knows it and can talk to women, Then it's easy. If he's average, but knows how to speak to women, it's okay. If he's average but doesn't know how to talk to women it's hard. If he's ugly, doesn't know how to talk to women it's very hard. Women are very social, even introverts. So if you are socially inept, but you have nothing else going for you then yeah, you most likely won't get a number much less a date. What makes it even worse, is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 08:16 PM
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Ontolofloxin is a hell of drug...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:54 AM
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Sure, dating is one thing. But dating for long-term or marriage is another. To each his own. Everyman has this limit. You just didn't hit your BF limit and that's why he pick you. Just because he's fine with whatever number you give him. Doesn't mean he doesn't have a limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:54 AM
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Being redpill just mean you've seen the world or system for what it is... It's not a specific ideology, but ideologies can manifest by seeing the truth. You can be a liberal or conservative or a fence sitter and be redpill. Just clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:38 AM
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I think most women want to be married. But they don't want to be wives (wifely duties). Traditional women are pretty hard to find. Especially ones who are humble and submissive. My dating experience has been ok for the most part. I met two women who were a really good match. Mom loved them too. 1st one ( 2 years) I wanted to propose, but she passed away (cancer). Couple years later the second one infidelity (3 years), at that time I was working over time to buy a custom made engagement ring, pha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:56 AM
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I know this is an unpopular idea with women. But having a male (dad, bro, cousin etc) vet a guy you have a romantic interests in definitely helps. I don't get the impression your standards high, I get the impression that you want a good life for you and your partner. Much respect to you for giving him time and a chance. For all I know he might be a really good guy. However, just keep in mind that if he wants to stay in that position forever. It's probably best to move on. Will I stay in the west…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:13 AM
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Interesting mindset. Do you think men's preferences are inconsequential and doesn't matter? I think it would, because most men prefer women with low or no body counts. Especially men who want to settle down. The men who don't want to settle down, depending on how high your body count is. Will determine how much time and effort he's willing to put in dating you and waiting for sex from you. With those things in mind, it will drastically affect the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:28 AM
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Oh yes, very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:21 AM
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To answer your first question. The answer is simple. Average women simply do not want average men. Maybe it's where you live, the men are bums. But most guys have their stuff together. I have my stuff together but can't find a wife For example, I live in NYC, I'm a traditional man that wants a traditional wife and family. Chances are, I'm not going to find that in NYC. So, I plan to purchase a home or condo somewhere else and move soon to find what I want. Can't find what you want ? Improve or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:05 AM
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Most men are not high value and will never be. The number of single HVM is miniscule. That being said, the percentage of middle-class to upper middle class men is decent. It's my impression that most men end up middle-class by their mid thirties to forties. And sure, I think it's perfectly fine if an average man looks and income wise to criticize and question an average woman's standards. Why? Because most women are average, but somehow think they are above average and therefore ask for more or …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:15 AM
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Yes, just make sure they are women you have no intention of having sex with or dating. You can learn a lot from women about women. Just be careful, because women can be very jealous and catty. So advice might not be optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:22 PM
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It's not about being a mystery. Its more so, women are not like men interms if what we look for in partners. Men are pretty simple and straight forward. Attractive (most likely fit), feminine, nice, respectful and submissive. For women it's not that simple. From my experience, what women want in partners change based on relationship experience, sexual experience, prefer romance, some prefer resources, some prefer fame, some prefer power and some prefer looks. Not only that, women want the best a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:39 AM
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Any studies or statistics? Just asking out of curiosity. I'm inclined to agree that rural women are probably not as promiscuous at suburban or urban women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:08 AM
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1) It's biology. Men care about a woman's looks, youth, reproductive health, attitude and femininity. A woman's money, fame and even social status doesn't matter when it comes to attraction. 2) If a man says that he finds a woman's money, fame etc to be attractive or adds to his attraction to her. I probably wouldn't think it's real. 3) Because Lizzo is not physically attractive to most men. And that's what men value in women. Men and women are different and want different things in each other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:06 AM
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Technically men are the catch considering women mainly date up (a man who is doing better than them). Women being told they are the catch is a recent phenomena that is pushed by men who use the "empower" mating strategy. Some men use this strategy because it enchants women, which distracts them from focusing on the things that matter when it comes to picking a partner. Like Competence, resources, soft skills, ability to lead and being honest for example. So you are the catch. Now just maintain y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:57 AM
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That's a good question. From a man's point of view. There are quite a few things that will come to his mind. 1) Will I ever be enough? Some guys will ask that question because women tend to compare partners. And women tend to want the best. So, if you're not her best sexual partner then there is a higher chance she'll cheat or leave eventually. That's another reason virgins and women with low body counts are ideal. 2) Respecting ones body- Sexual promiscuity is seen as a way of not respecting yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:53 PM
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Virgin women are a myth! Like unicorns lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:22 PM
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I largely agree with you. What I'm seeing in the comments are women shaming men who want a partner with a low body count. Men and women are different and we want different things from each other at base. Instead of trying to understand why that's a preference, and being respectful. All I see is childish name calling, disrespect and shaming. Man or woman, if someone wants to live a promiscuous lifestyle let them be. And those folks should be together. For men and women, those who do not want that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:29 PM
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Oh I understand what you're saying now. I'm pretty stern myself, however I'm a gentleman. My general interactions with women is that of a man who respects them and treat them with dignity. Now, I won't tolerate any disrespect and if a woman is aggressive then she'll be met with aggression if I'm pushed too far. Especially if I'm walking away. With the example I gave, yes in the past women dinner with men. However, there are certain things a woman just would not do or say to man. And a man is exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:20 PM
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I don't see a connection with modern weaponry and being manly. Manliness is was never solely based on aggression and willingness to use a type of weapon. It's always been about competence, bravery and wielding power. I'm not sure why you have the impression that feminism (which advocates for more female privilege) would suggest men are not kind and gentle. Men understand that freedom and power comes with responsibility. And men understanding they power they wield, was fine with making society sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:49 PM
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Feminism, equality, bad attitudes and the lack of respect for men. Chivalry was grounded in the understanding that women being the weaker vessel still deserves respect, protection and dignity. So long as they offer respect, softness and submission. A very large sect of society (both men and women) no longer think like that or see each other in that light. And there are some that want what comes with chivalry but doesn't want offer anything in return. That's my take on why chivalry is largely dea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:06 PM
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I'm sure you've heard the thing "You attract what you are" which to me is bullshit. You attract whomever likes you. I don't think you've only dated Chads, not at all. Because chads aren't the only type of guys that attract a lot of women. Again remember you pick these men. And you're not getting the results with your current approach. And you should consider changing your approach. Sure, let's say you find a guy with those qualities. What then? That's does not mean you'll get the results you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 11:11 PM
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That sounds like a you problem... And you might need to get counciling for that mindset. Also, it's bothersome that you think that just because you reject a man, the situation will turn volatile... Most men are chill dudes who will just go about his business if rejected. Especially if you're being respectful when rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:37 PM
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Sorry about your experience. The men you want are out there. However, those men are pretty busy and focused. If you want a certain level of stability, you'll probably have to consider a more mature guy (30s). Or a guy who's just a normal dude with good character. Those guys are typically not stand out, they are not as charismatic or even up there in looks. They are average. Cause the reality is, average people end up with average people. Also, you have to pick a lifestyle to work towards. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 07:12 PM
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Yeah, remember. Females have a reproductive window, and it's a small one. They born with a set amount of eggs and by the time they reach their mid 30s most of their eggs are gone. Not only that, they have less bone density, less muscle mass, smaller brain (size wise) and in their brain their neural connection are faster than boys. Some speculate that the current environment and great nutrition allows females to mature faster. But at the same time, slows male development. For example, if males ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:43 PM
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Physically, yes they do. Mentally no. As for the mental part. From my experience, some women well into their 30s and 40s have relational maturity of a 20 year old. And then there are some that eventually mature and while they mature their taste in partners seem to change as well. I have my speculation on why this is the case though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:37 PM
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I read the link, that's pretty damn interesting. I learned something new today. Thanks for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:14 PM
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Thanks I'll definitely check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:10 PM
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Short answer is no. For relationship and mating purposes your education, your house, career, wealth and power does not increase your value to most men. When it comes to initial attraction, non of that helps you attract a man. If anything it hurts you, if you lead with those things. You're beauty, youth, femininity/submissiveness, good character, reproductive ability, and health (mental and physical) is more important. Now, after you've met the above requirements, depending on the guy. That's whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:57 PM
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Yes, but the Roman empire never pedalized female sexuality... Sure they loved sex and were open but never took it for more than what it was. Yes Rome has had a ton of male prostitutes, but the main customers were other men (believe or not). Here's some things interesting. If you're a well off roman citizen, politician etc... If you were caught receiving vs giving you would be shamed, your reputation would be destroyed. It's crazy, look into it. I'm not familiar with those matriarchal societies. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:52 PM
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Sorry it makes you sad. Just focus on being a good responsible woman. There are guys out there who focus more on your character and trust you're being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:59 PM
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I don't recall any point in history men valued female promiscuity... Sure, there might be miniscule exceptions. But considering the main goal of men are to pass on His personal genetics... It would make sense to that female only engage in sex with him. And she being a virgin, Because that was the only to guarantee that child would be his. This is even shown in how female biology. When Oxytocin (love hormone) is released it has a bonding effect to her partner. Technically women are not build to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:40 PM
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When it comes to contributions to society, womens main value manifest in form hyper consumption (Capitalism love that). Also, p**** pedalization has always existed and female lives have always been valued over male ones. That was mainly due how men saw women interms of reproduction, passing on culture and sustaining culture. That's why in the past when one tribe takes down another, all the men and sometimes boys are killed. And the girls and women are left alive. In the current climate, gynocent…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:26 PM
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Understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:51 PM
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You know, there was a point in history when guys didn't assume the body count of a woman to be high. Hook up and thot culture culture changed that. So that's one of the main reasons why guys are going to assume a womans body count is high. Also, there is no more shame in having a high body count. So a lot of women are pretty open about sharing. Maybe not directly, but at some point they do share. Also, keep being good. Keep respecting your body. Keep being responsible. There is a guy out there w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:33 PM
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With respect that's nonsense and not reflective of reality. People's preferences can change with age and experience. That includes men. As teenage male and a male in his early twenties, his focus is mainly going to be on a woman's looks and to have fun. As he gets older and wants to settle down, other qualities and traits start to matter and becomes important. Because most mature males eventually understand that looks alone will not maintain a relationship and attraction. Same with females. Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:52 PM
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Good luck lol. People assume that about me. I'm definitely not a player lol. It's hard to kick that stigma
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:58 AM
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Don't know about the broke part lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:55 AM
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Looks wise I'm okay. Height I'm 6.1. I'm a technician & graphic designer (IT industry). I'm a romantic (I write poetry), I love to cook, well spoken, respectful, very handy (I love to fix and build stuff), super into philosophy and sciences. And most importantly, I practice goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:54 AM
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My impression is that it depends on a woman's emotional maturity and what she wants in life. There are women who haven't emotional matured past 18 emotionally and relationally. So, those women might be hyper focused on looks, stuff, and social credit. Vs a woman who is more mentally mature. Looks don't matter as much as personality, emotional intelligence, competence, leadership etc. It just depends on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:46 AM
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Lol shes only having sex with who she's in a relationship with. Maybe it's the way I worded it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:33 PM
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To my knowledge a promiscuous women is basically a woman that sleeps around a lot or have multiple relationships at the same time. Believe it or not, a lot of women are pretty open about their " interactions". There is no shame associated with that type of lifestyle or behavior anymore. So it makes sense. How does it work against a woman's best interest? It depends. If she just wants to have a fun life without the intention of settling down, then it's within her interest. However, if she wants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:04 PM
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Women have always been attracted to men with power, influence and fame. The only thing that changed is that access through the internet and social media. However, there are women who are attracted to competence and hard work. Men that like to build. Women prefer quality and men prefer quantity. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:14 PM
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At no point in mainstream red pill, you see men and women say that sexual market place is fair when women have less rights... I've been engaging with red pillers for years and never heard that. Also, why do people in this subreddit paint this false picture of what the sexual market place is? It's literally not just about sex or controlling women. It's about the dating and relationship dynamics between men and women, with the focus on considering what they both value in each other. The point of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:34 AM
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They said the same for Roe... Where there is a will there's a way lol. Kidding, they make too much money. Plus, they'll probably just pay off politicians anyway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:56 AM
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I wasn't suggesting it dating apps do anything illegal. I only suggested it because it ruins the dating experience for most men and it prevents them for developing soft skills, confidence and the opportunity to learn how to approach a potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:07 AM
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That's true. And honestly too much men have bad characters in how they view women. I blame the hook up culture (which women started), because giving guys sex without them actually earning access (like being responsible, earning affections, showing he's a hard worker and a decent person), will just result those women getting hurt, the men will now feel they don't have to put the effort in and women will have problems pair bonding. It's a shit deal for everyone. Its sad that people don't see benef…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:34 PM
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I don't think the solution is complicated. As a society we need to temper the expectations of both men and women. People should focus on dating on their level. My other fix is... Ban dating apps. Here's the thing. People dated what was available to them. And if they wanted more, they had to put more effort in it. The apps prevent that and It destroys the confidence and social skills of men. It sets unrealistic expectations of women through false validation. When the most attractive guys are exer…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:11 PM
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Think of the matrix. The red pill is basically opens ones eyes to reveal what the system or reality we really live in and are apart of. Red pill is not a movement, but movements have formed from being redpilled. Examples being manosphere, passport bros, redpill rage, mgto and, tradcons. Incels are not red pill, mainly because they live under the delusion that they shouldn't earn relationships and sex. Anyway, The idea of redpill is to understand the system and why it's gynocentric and how to nav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:34 PM
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Personally I don't disagree with you. However, have you considered that maybe the guy has the "equality" mindset? Listen, equality in every aspect has been fought for by women and men who supports that idea. That idea means getting rid of gender roles. And honestly, this is a consequence of those ideals. His mindset is not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:57 PM
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From a man's point of view, women are born with value. Men have to create their value. Women want the best quality man they can get. So, as far as I'm concerned. Men should earn their way and better themselves. Part of that requires actually approaching women and interact with them. Sure 98% ok f the time rejection will take place. But each in person rejected allows for that guy to learn a lesson and adjust. While doing that men should work on themselves. Be fit, be clean, be respectful and be f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:05 PM
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Moving the goal post I see. I'll take that as a concession on your part. Anyway to your other point. Exactly!!! Now you get it! Preferences and values. Those are not just limited to physical appearance, sex and reproductive capacity. The idea is understand what else the opposite sex have of value. Everyone has their ideal person, but most people take what they can get for the most part. However, the more you have that the opposite sex value or desire in a partner. The better your chances. Only a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:17 AM
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I'm not sure if you lack comprehension or something. If you were poll men ages 35 - 50. With all things being equal with women ages 24-30 vs 35 - 50. The men will overwhelmingly pick the group of women who are 24-30 . It's not saying exceptions don't exist. So again you're not making a point. By the time a woman is 30, there is about one chance in two she will ever get married and at 40, only one chance in five. By the time she is 50, the chances she will marry are just one in 16, and after 60, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:19 PM
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That happened to me twice lol. Eventually I understood that it was the bonding, being there for each other and having shared values that sparked my interest and made me want to stay long term and fell in love. It was not sex or even dating. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:03 PM
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There far less millionaires than younger women. And you are correct that for majority that millionaires are unattainable. However, it's not as bad as man in his 40s dating a woman who is in her late twenties early thirties. Those are not the same. Also, no one said all of a woman's options will dry up when a woman hit the wall. Most, not all. Then explain to me why you don't see men in their 50s dating and marrying women in their 35-49 age range mass? It's simple men value younger women. Sure th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:10 PM
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I think dating apps and social media is the main driver. Idk I advocate for my brothers and friends to stay off dating apps. It destroys their self esteem. At least when you approach someone in person, you can learn from that experience and adjust. It helps to build social skills and forces us to try and understand the each other. Dating apps take that away. Then there the unrealistic expectations... For both men and women. It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:30 PM
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You're point was not proven. Here's why. In general men value youth and fertility in women. Not saying a guy won't sleep with a woman in in her 30s . But if all things are equal between two women except for age. That man will most likely pick the younger woman for sex, dating and relationship. Hence the fact that women, once they hit mid thirties. Most of their options dry up. Men prefer younger women (yes exceptions exist). And yes, women will always have more luck in dating... Because in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:33 PM
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If you find them to be offensive, then that's unfortunate. However, those terms are descriptors used highlight certain types of people in the dating world. Hitting the wall- It's simply a point in a woman's life where her dating options drop dramatically. What's offensive about that fact of reality? Alpha widow- These are women who have slept with or date an extremely attractive, powerful or popular, guy. But after that only wants men in that category and won't settle for less. What's offensive …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:48 AM
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What language specifically? SMV just simplify what a man or woman have to of value to potentially partners in relation to others. Whether they are looking for sex, relationship or marriage. It doesn't just focus on women and their sex organ and reproductive capacity. So your description this is gross bastardization of what these concepts are. Do you know how I know you're being biased? Because the SMV also apply to men. Why? because there are certain things women value in men. If you think sitti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:21 AM
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The sexual market place is literally a metaphor. And it's gross to paint a false picture of it. Also, the purpose of that mataphor is to simplify the sexual and relationship dynamics, with what both men and women desire and value in each other (at base). It's not dehumanizing women or men. Human males and females experience sexual dimorphism. Simply put, we don't value the same things in each other ( simplified explanation). And the sexual market metaphor helps us to at least get an idea as what…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:39 AM
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I think the problem is the other way around. Below average, average and slightly above average women over value themselves. So they don't even see average guys. This is most likely dew constant validation received on dating apps and social media. And also an over abundance of options available to them for sex. I mean if a guy is 8 and he dms a woman who's a 4. As far as the woman is concerned, that's validation. Even though there is a 90% chance that guy just wants to smash and keep it moving. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:50 PM
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I don't use dating apps. I prefer to just approach. But to answer your question. If she's a 5 (average or higher) and not over weight. I'll approach and try my luck. I don't have an preference when it comes to ethnicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:43 PM
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