First things first. I am not a professional fisherman. I do have buddies who fish and I go fishing with them every now and then. In this situation women are fish (analogy).

I see a lot posts and comments men make about the complications associated with courting or dating women. And not understanding them. I am by no means a dating coach, I am not rich (I do okay) and I am probably a 5-6 looks wise.

Now that's out of the way. To help guys, I like to use the fisherman analogy. As a fisherman, you need to focus on your bait and lure, Actually approaching women in real life and practicing. Now, not all bait work with every fish. And so, pick the type fish you want to focus on catching. Pick a type of woman you like. Some will bite some won't. And even when they bite, the catch is not guaranteed. But eventually with practice you'll get a catch. So feel free to practice and learning about women with female friends. Tell them your type, and ask for information. When you approach, mostly you'll get a no. That's okay, but Each yes and no is a learning opportunity.

Fish have their favorite food (bait). Find out what it is. Same for women. Not all women are the same, and they all have different things they want in a partner. Depending on age and experience. So again pick they type of woman you want focus on catching. While you do that, also focus on bettering yourself. Physically, mentally, emotionally and financially.

Now with enough practice and success, you'll be able to try catching different types of fish. Maybe the type that you like initially wasn't for you. Same rules apply, same process.

Now, if you've worked hard or got lucky and have large boat and you cast a large net, good on you. You can catch a ton of fish, even the ones you don't like. However you now have the pick of the Field. Congratulations. However, I recommend using your resources to get that rare high end fish. The most prizes one. You've made it. Cool. Question is, do you want the best woman available? Or do you want to mess with as much women as possible? Because that money power, charisma, looks etc that you've worked hard to develop. Is now attracting more women than you need. So as a man, make up your mind about what you want in a woman communicate that.

Lying is a shit move. And women will respect you when you are honest about what you want. If you want just "fun" make it clear. "If you want an relationship" make it clear. Women love and respect men who know what they want. Also, having good character is important. A from my experience, a woman's Respect is more important than her love.

Anyway, hope that helps some of you. It's not easy, but if you're average. With effort and learning. You can get dates, sex and even a relationship.

Happy fishing gentlemen.