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I know exactly what you mean! I worked retail for way too long and often dealt with the same bouts of stress and anxiety. It’s really important to mentally separate yourself from work when you’re not there. Establish an unwinding routine you do when you get home for the day. For me, this was dropping all my stuff at the door and jumping into the shower to wash the day off. I’d dress down, pick up the stuff I left at the door and watch a bit of tv before having dinner or focusing on anything else…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 05:05 PM
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That’s not what happened here lol I’m not even sure I believe the post is non-fictional, but I’ll go ahead and say I’m a Grace. I WFH and am rarely seen outside of a tee shirts and pj pants, maybe bf jeans. Almost never wear makeup. I shower daily, moisturize all over and love perfume. I get dressed to the nines when we go out or have people over. That said, I get as much attention from my man as I did when I worked on-site and was constantly made up – he can’t keep his hands off me! I enjoy the…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 04:51 PM
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A lot of people don’t realize they’re depressed though, and it’s heavy wishful thinking to assume depressed people regularly say it a lot and get help. Also if treating depression was that easy, depression wouldn’t be such a serious issue lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 04:34 PM
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This was so great to read!! Wishing y’all many more years of fun Valentine’s Days and a beautiful union!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 05:14 PM
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Listen, to put it very bluntly, the reason why he may have reacted this way seems irrelevant when the bigger picture here is that he clearly does not like you, and you clearly do not like him! Maybe he was trying to sleep with you and got frustrated with waiting, maybe he is a loser who is very bad and inexperienced at negging, maybe he started off interested and quickly lost interest after spending time with you. You sound like you need to reevaluate your own actions before you dig into his. Yo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 09:19 PM
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Did you read the post?? She’s 19 and in school. She likely doesn’t have time to work and even if she DID, no 19 year is going to go out and nab a job that would compete with an engineer’s salary. There would still be an unequal balance if he expected her to pay 50% even under those circumstances. Likewise, he can’t say he supports her being a SAHM in the future if this is how he views their finances rn. In fact, if he’s aware of the fact that she’s using the allowance her PARENTS are giving her …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/22 05:08 PM
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Actually I think I’ll continue to enjoy the house he bought us! 😁 What will you and your wife be up to on this lovely New Years eve? ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 05:25 PM
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Lmfaoooo 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 06:49 PM
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Yes, all of this. Their quality is so poor and the pieces are uncomfortable. Also, like you mentioned, the aesthetic was so ridiculous. VS stopped being relative when I got out of high school. If they’re moving towards more muted colors and styles, then it just sounds like they’re moving towards a modern style.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 06:15 AM
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Definitely not at 19! My best friend was a virgin until about 25/26 and found it started to raise eyebrows in men she dated. She was waiting until she found the man who would be her husband, but eventually slept with a guy she’d been dating for a while. After her first time, she said she didn’t get what the big deal was and now has a good laugh at ever wanting to wait until marriage. Sex means different things for different people. You’re a young woman who values sex as emotional and sacred. The…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/21 06:25 PM
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If you’ve done a pretty solid job of being anonymous, delete the account and go. Please don’t do anything that you’re not comfortable with. It sounds like your boyfriend is aware of what you were up to, and is alright with it. He will likely be just as alright when you tell him it was not what you thought and is leaving you unhappy. I did online sex work for a couple of years, and there was no OF, and it was only the beginning of popularizing multiple income streams in the industry (paid private…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/21 06:55 PM
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I have also wondered about this. I am curious as to where in the world that would be happening and think some of these anecdotes may be slightly played up or not entirely genuine. I live in a very liberal city, am part of a very liberal social circle, and STILL get inquiries all the time about when my boyfriend and I will be married and have kids. We also get a lot of pushback when we say we want no part of either. I believe that the nuclear family and monogamy is still very much the rule, not t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 05:50 AM
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That’a fine, but the welcome post is 7 years old, and I’d venture to say that between then and now, the two subs have evolved into completely different communities. They have different goals, and in the long term, they doesn’t seem to align. There has been several instances on this sub in which it has been directly stated or strongly implied, by regular contributors no less, that the women on here aren’t necessarily seeking RP men. At least, not the type you’d find in the men’s sub. Hell, I’ve s…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 09:23 AM
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I second Vina!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/20 01:13 AM
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Alex Gaboury on YouTube has some great, low effort styles for beginners that look like they took some skill and time! Also, and I know these aren’t cheap, but it’s been worth the investment for me, the Dyson air wrap complete set has been a life changer!! I use it every time after I wash my hair because it cuts down my styling/drying time. I dry my hair and style simultaneously and I can get it done in 30-40 min (I have thick long hair and it can take 40 min alone just to dry!)
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 08:41 AM
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I’m pretty sure they were speaking in general terms. People are giving you answers to your question, and you seem intent on relating them back to you. Are you sure you’re not projecting?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 06:50 PM
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This is an unpopular opinion because it is willfully ignorant lol big, quality pieces take a substantial amount of time and planning. Someone with a full sleeve didn’t get that done in a day, and it takes great communication skills and transparency with your artist to create a sleeve that will connect and fit to your body. My boyfriend is about to get his sleeve started at the end of the year and has been consistently communicating with his artist for almost 6 months now. On top of that, tattoos…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 05:59 PM
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This is a matter of preference. Tattoos don’t send the same message across the board. People may get tattooed for cultural reasons, personal reasons like commemorative pieces, or simply because they love a design so much they want it on their skin forever. If the level of attraction you feel towards someone with tattoos degrades if they’re heavily tattooed, it makes no sense to date the man who’s inked from neck to his ankles. It might not affect your attraction towards a man who might one on hi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 05:46 PM
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As many people suggested, getting into hobbies would be the best way to do it once you’re out of school. It seems that you’re not opposed to using apps or websites to find people though, and I know things are weird with Covid right now, so if you haven’t already tried it, Hey Vina is an app with the purpose of connecting women to form friendships.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 08:29 PM
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I love flats for this reason! I’d look for some that have some kind of memory foam or gel inside so they’re supportive. Also sandals are great seasonally appropriate, causal footwear. Also if you look up alexandrasgirlytalk on YouTube, she makes great videos for tapping into your femininity, and as someone who also enjoys being dressed down, I found a video she has on how to make a simple tee shirt look feminine really helpful! Edit: spelling
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 08:26 PM
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I have cream colored walls (like a lemon syllabub or condensed milk shade) and light colored wooden dressers that compliment the wall color nicely. To contrast this though, I have dark grey colored bedding and dark grey blackout curtains. I also love spooky themes and most of my decors shows that! I have a few hand carved and hand painted skulls that my best friend and brother have brought back from trips to Mexico. I have coffin shaped makeup containers and keep my brushes in wine glasses that …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 03:33 AM
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Hmm, are you in the US? What is your age range? Off the top of my head, I’d recommend Express and New York and Company. Both run pretty good sales and have similar styles to what you’re searching for. GAP offers basic staples which are always good to have in the closet. Any of those brands are going to sit around the price point you can invest in right now.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:27 AM
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I’m very similar to you in that I’m quite messy and disorganized, and growing up my mom would always say I don’t “see” the messes right in front of me. I’d have to agree because I contribute my own mess and don’t realize how bad it gets until it becomes a source of stress. One thing that has REALLY helped me is the “10 Minute Rule” which I actually learned about from someone on this sub about a year ago. For 10 minutes I focus on tackling my mess, if even just a portion of a room. This keeps me …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 06:55 PM
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I love planners and haven’t heard of Tools4Wisdom, I’ll have to check them out! Thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 06:15 PM
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Are you anti-Amazon? If not, they have really cute matching pj sets. Even something like a baby doll is a sexy form of nightwear not as forward as a matching lace bra and panty set. It’s guaranteed to get to you quicker than a Shein order, and as someone who’s bought sets from both, Shein is very hit and miss, leaning way more towards the miss side. The quality is very cheap (understandably you get what you pay for) and I’ve had instances where the expectation vs reality of what you get from the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/20 08:46 PM
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I think your question needs a little refining. What do you mean by “swear at them”? You’re asking if women are attracted to men who swear... during sex? Arguments? Out of habit? These are all different circumstances. My boyfriend and I swear during regular conversation, it’s not unusual for us, especially me. That being said, he’s never sworn at me or called me out of my name during an argument. That would be out of character and unacceptable.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/20 07:46 PM
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I’m sorry for what you experienced, as no one deserves to be violated that way. Unfortunately, it sounds like your husband is a rape apologist. Even if your husband sincerely forgot what his teammate did to you, which I personally don’t believe for a second, that would be a red flag in and of itself. What kind of man would forget such a serious conversation, one that puts the woman he claims to love in such a vulnerable position? It would surely be of the upmost importance to any man with a prot…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 05:14 AM
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Well, reading comprehension and the content matter of OP’s post would suggest the reason she’s feeling this way is because her husband “forgot” she was raped by his former teammate and then proceeded to invite her rapist to their wedding for appearances. Anyone in a healthy relationship, especially in a marriage, understands that keeping the emotional connection strong is necessary for happiness and longevity. For women this means her man makes her feel protected and cared for, and he’s not prov…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 05:02 AM
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I like Uniqlo for affordable and durable basics. For higher end stuff at a discount, Nordstrom Rack and Depop!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 04:27 AM
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This is so funny because I feel the same way! I have plenty of tattoos and have never had any issue except the occasional “oh damn” thought to myself over more sensitive areas, but I get my brows threaded and I’m ready to fight lol that being said, I do get waxed down there and find it to be uncomfortable but tolerable. Yes, it becomes less painful over time as the hair comes in slower and less of it so there won’t be as much and it won’t take as long! I’ve shown up, checked in at the front desk…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 10:21 PM
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I’ve been looking for some decent slips at a reasonable price! I’ve never actually worn shape wear, and I’m wondering if these tend to have a “flattened booty” effect? My tush is my boyfriend’s favorite physical asset of mine lol and I wouldn’t want to take away from that, but I’m beginning to wear more form fitting dresses and skirts. So a seamless look would be appreciated. Great timing with this post, thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/20 09:49 PM
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If your sizing is consistent, and you don’t mind buying before you try (though I think there’s now an option for you to try on at home before purchasing), Amazon has a wide variety of inexpensive and cute dresses. I have a couple on my wish list that I know I’d be able to dress up, but still wear down at home when I’m just hanging out with my boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 05:29 AM
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After going through your post history, I’m genuinely curious as to why you’re interested in respecting your abuser? According to you, the two of you are currently in counseling to help him with the fact that he verbally and emotionally abuses you? And you have been in counseling for 3 years (for the same issue)??? In your post about a short term solution which involves getting away from him for a couple days when he doesn’t apologize for abusing you, you 1. express relief/joy at the opportunity …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/20 04:25 PM
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I grew up with a lot of hip hop as I spent a lot of time with my cousins and they’re all older. It’s still my first musical love, but at around 13 I “discovered” heavy metal, and I’ve been a metal head ever since. There’s a few other generes that I occasionally listen to when my mood requests it, but rap and metal are by far my top 2 most listened to. My friends listen to a lot of reggaetón so I get my fair share of those songs in too!
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 06:45 AM
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What do you mean by force him to do things? You can’t make anyone do anything, and if you try, you can’t be upset when they’re not happy about it. The idea is that you can only change yourself. The masculine in him will be inspired by the feminine in you, but if you’re not even doing that for yourself, why should he? If you want him to become a high value man, you need to first become a woman who deserves one. You say you were both toxic in the beginning, could it possible that you still are? I …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 02:19 AM
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I read in the comments that marriage isn’t necessarily an end goal for you, which I understand because I personally relate to. What this means though is that he’s a boyfriend and not a husband. A man buys the house, but a woman makes it a home. If he’s uncompromising to the idea of turning it into a space for the both of you, and I think he’s made that quite clear with the bins you need to keep your stuff in, then that’s okay because it’s not necessary for the progression of the relationship for…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/20 02:55 AM
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I recently made a white chicken chili for dinner and vegan chocolate zucchini cupcakes for dessert! Both were a big hit!!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/20 05:01 PM
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I don’t think it’s really for anyone to say. I don’t make it my place to judge, and I find more people would live peacefully if they were to just mind their business. There could be a million reasons why people post selfies. I would consider myself active on IG and by that I mean I use it constantly to check in on my favorite brands to keep up with new products, reviews and (most importantly to me hehe) discounts. As for the content of my account? My last post was a month ago with a couple of ph…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 10:14 PM
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Are you seeking to change his mind because he would be paying for it or? Personally I’m in my late 20s and I love preventative Botox. I also use tretinoin because my insurance covers it. I find my boyfriend doesn’t actually notice the difference when I get Botox unless I point it out. There are alternatives to Botox, though they won’t work as fast. That said, as others suggested, you should look into retinol. A solid skincare routine plus the tretinoin have plumped up my laugh lines and other ar…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 03:05 AM
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Not sure what all the anti-social media sentiment is about lol but I see social media as a resource. I use it to stay updated on brands I care about and support. I also use it to find and save recipes, outfit ideas, look at pics of dogs lol and it’s the best way for me to stay connected with my friends and “in the know” with personal interests. I think it can be used as a creative outlet and for connecting with like-minded individuals. It sounds like you enjoy using it to express creativity, esp…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 02:26 AM
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My doctor didn’t use those words, but yes, one of the reasons I went to go see her is because after dealing with this for so long (since at least 2017) I suspected I might have PCOS. I do have other symptoms to support this, such as irregular periods, A LOT of mid cycle bleeding, acne, and wild mood swings. Also a lot of aching on the sides of my pelvic coinciding where my ovaries are, during ovulation. It leads my dr to believe I’m experiencing the growth or bursting of cysts or fibroids. I gen…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 04:29 AM
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Don’t be embarrassed! Even small symptoms are worth evaluating because something serious maybe underlying (not saying this is the case for you, just that there are no “dumb” symptoms) you can find a doctor, especially one that specializes in women’s health and let them know that since puberty, you’ve experienced a bloated or fuller stomach. The doctor should be able to help you narrow it down. Just think it doesn’t make sense that an active, health person is just big in one area for “no reason”.…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 10:29 PM
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How long have you been experiencing this? If you workout and have healthy eating habits, could this be narrowed down to something hormonal? Not sure if you’ve reviewed this option with your doctor yet, but hormones could be playing a role, and you could be holding on to water weight as a result.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 07:24 PM
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I think Jessica was really the only prime example of this. She’s in her mid 30s, and the standards she was upholding a potential partner to didn’t seem to align with the quality of woman that she is. Amber is obviously badshit crazy, her commentary had my boyfriend and I in stitches lol but Lauren was a lovely woman as was Kelly. Giannina has a bit of growing up to do, but I could understand where she was coming from on certain issues. It’s also important to keep in mind that this is just a real…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 01:58 AM
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I love her videos. She seems so sweet and her advice is always useful, especially the practical tips one might overlook. Also, her hair somehow always looks amazing haha
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/20 05:25 PM
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Do you have advice for staying motivated to do physical activity? I guess my phrasing has been very gym-centric, but I’ve tried yoga, barre, Pilates, ballet, HIIT, lifting, and kickboxing. I felt like I was just going through the motions, and I couldn’t wait for it to be over. I did end up telling him I’m going to start going back twice a week for 30 min, but I imagine it’s going to be this same process all over again. I have been very upfront since we started dating about my disdain for working…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 05:28 PM
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The advice on being more tolerant was requested because I have always been short on patience. I’ve been very respectful in expressing my opinion on this matter to him because I understand that he met me at a time when I was still willing to suck it up despite frequently being in a bad mood pre and post workouts. The hikes were unexpected, and admittedly, I was unprepared. He has asked me to reconsider, and I’m willing to work out twice a week for half an hour at most. If I find this is still too…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 02:03 AM
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It just felt very freeing. I liked that it was an activity I could do alone, at my own pace, and I liked the rush of riding through the streets. I live in a small town and it was an easy way to run errands in the summer or get some wind through my hair in the evenings after the sun had gone down. It’s not really an activity that’s possible to do in the winter though as the weather conditions make it difficult to ride and degrade the quality of the wheels/board.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 01:53 AM
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Sorry, I should specify. He expressed he was looking forward to doing things this summer like bike riding and hiking but is concerned about my physical capabilities after seeing how I was unable to keep up on the hike. He asked me to reconsider going back to the gym. This is the frequency at which I said I would be willing to try again.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 01:50 AM
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I’ve never pretended, just as I’ve never enjoyed it. He’s known from month 1 that I find it akin to a chore. After my inability to keep up on the hike, he’s become concerned about my physical capabilities as he’s admitted he’d like us to do things like ride bikes in the summer. He’s afraid I won’t be able to keep up.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 12:46 AM
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Once a upon a time ago, I was heavily into skateboarding, stopped after college, and now that I’m closer to 30 than 20, busting my ass off a board hurts a lot more haha I’ve yet to find a physical activity I enjoy nearly as much.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 12:39 AM
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The hike does seem to have a triggered a concerned response. I understand where he’s coming from, and he’s expressed sadness at the thought of me not being to keep up with activities he is looking forward to us doing together once the weather warms up.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 12:36 AM
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As much as I disliked it, I was very consistent only because at the time, my priorities were pretty much work and the gym. Once we started dating and evolved into a committed relationship, I found that I could not balance all 3 at once. The gym was the easiest aspect to cut out and I was happy to do so as I didn’t enjoy it. My gym offers over 60 classes with the membership so I’ve tried many of the things you mentioned but none of them were fulfilling enough to continue. After a talk today thoug…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 12:27 AM
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Thank you, I hope we find a positive resolution for this as well!
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 12:15 AM
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Hmm, I harbor no resentment as this is really the only issue we have, and it’s a very recent one. Wanting kids is a dealbreaker for the both of us, and there’s no wedding in our dreams lol so hopefully we’re all good on those fronts. We’re in line with our other goals and interests, and we’re very open with our communication, but I have a strong personality and am used to people backing down much quicker than he does. I’ve agreed that I will attempt it again with his help, as he’s agreed that I …
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 11:29 PM
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I understand the satisfaction you must get from reaching your fitness goals. It must a very rewarding feeling, and I can see the pride emanate from him as he accomplishes another one of his. Not long after my post, he sent me a fairly lengthy text explaining that my lack of progress during our hike genuinely saddened him as he looked forward to us having fun and being active this summer. He’s always known about my disdain for working out but thought it could be an area he could help me grow in l…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 10:50 PM
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I do eat pretty clean, and he enjoys taking walks so more often than not, I’m willing to accompany him when he asks. As I replied to someone else, his relationship with weight and fitness is on the opposite side of the spectrum from mine. He was once nearly 300 pounds and now weighs about half of that. It had a huge impact on his social life and self esteem. I’m respectful of the sensitivity of the subject that fitness and weight have to him, but I’m running out of ways to politely decline. I’m …
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 10:37 PM
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As I don’t believe this issue warrants ending our relationship, I will likely try the route of attempting to workout with him first. I have recently broached the subject of this newly found difference in lifestyle having a devaluing effect on his, but he wouldn’t have any of it. I will let him decide if this is a deal breaker in the future. Thank you for your input.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 10:33 PM
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I’m not trying to make excuses. I’m being upfront about my lack of desire to exercise, even when confronted with the possible health risks. The value of the benefits would be subjective, in my opinion. He’s pretty adamant about us going to the gym together a couple times a week so after reading a lot of these replies, I think I will oblige him so we can stop making it the subject of conversation, and he can witness firsthand how much it’s not for me.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 10:16 PM
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I imagine it’ll have to be one of those things I just suck up and do no matter how much I hate it. As it stands, I don’t consider myself to have lied or be unhealthy. I was genuinely active in the gym as often as I said I was. I never pretended that fitness was something I enjoyed. One of our very first conversations on the topic, I openly admitted to hating every second of my workouts. He admires it’s not his favorite thing, but it’s worth doing as he’s very satisfied with how he looks. I don’t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 10:06 PM
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Yes, I’m aware of the impact on my health by not exercising. I’ve tried various classes and routines and found them all unsatisfying. I wouldn’t say I live a sedentary lifestyle as my full time job requires me to be on my feet most of the day. I also eat pretty clean and drink copious amounts of water. I join him for walks when he asks, but I do rarely exert myself physically as my lifestyle doesn’t require it, and I was definitely unprepared for such an activity.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 09:58 PM
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He admits I do eat pretty clean, and I’m usually down to take a walk with him when he asks. Sometimes I believe that a consistent gym routine made such an impact in his life, that he feels it would also be just as advantageous for me to apply myself, but our struggles with weight and body image are not nearly the same. He went from roughly 300 lbs to ~165. I’ve been 105-109 for years. I will talk to him a little more in-depth though, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 09:16 PM
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I know, and I do feel like my annoyance isn’t justified as I was a completely different way when he met me. I try to bite my tongue as much as possible due to this fact. I imagine that if I go back, it’ll just be one of those things that I have to grit my teeth and get through. My post history shows I’ve asked for advice on better ways to get cardio in, lift, etc. When I did go to the gym, I did actively tried. Lifting, barre, yoga, HIIT, ballet, machines, etc. I couldn’t find anything to motiva…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 09:11 PM
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I hadn’t considered the difference in seasonal activities. Thank you for pointing this out! He has offered to help me stretch at the gym if I go 3x a week, and I’m considering taking him up on the offer just to appease him. He’s very good about enthusiastically trying new things that I like, and I generally reciprocate, but this is the one thing he hasn’t managed to get me to budge on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 09:04 PM
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I’m not unhappy or depressed? I’m not sure where you got that idea from. Also he stresses the fact that he enjoys the gym because he looks so good, which is why I put an emphasis on the physical aspect of it. He doesn’t bring up the other health benefits until I verbally mention that I like the way I look, but I’m aware of the importance of exercise for all its reasons. Also I think I should explain the vacation a little more in depth as I’m now realizing how it sounds. As a group, we were not t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 08:58 PM
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That’s what I’m deeply afraid of. He’s says he’ll drop it when he senses me getting tired of the conversation, but two days later he’s back at it again. He’s been reiterating how he was upset at my inability to keep up during the hikes because he envisioned us being active during the summer. This point confuses me because he’s a gamer and when he’s not working out, at his job, or hanging out with me, he’s gaming. He’s vocal about hating sports so I couldn’t imagine he had a list of activities he…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 07:32 PM
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Your Lie in April (made me cry like a baby!) and Nana
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 07:15 AM
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It’s on Hulu! :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 07:14 AM
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Start with the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/20 09:07 PM
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I can relate! My boyfriend has hinted that he would find it hot if I made eye contact with him while I go down, but I can’t bring myself to do it. I guess I just don’t understand the appeal of it, and that makes it more uncomfortable to follow through with doing. Personally I close my eyes and turn the enthusiasm up to compensate lol
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 05:16 AM
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I definitely suggest you check NY&C out :) they currently have a lot of sales going on and a variety of colors and silhouettes. I don’t even normally shop there as I always thought they were too “mature”, but I popped in during their friends and family event and left with some new cute styles! I was also pleased that they catered specifically to my size (I’m on the opposite side of the spectrum from you and required petite! Haha)
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 06:48 PM
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How would you describe your aesthetic? New York & Company has a lot of looks that range from office to night out. They also have a Tall selection which you may benefit from!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/20 04:47 PM
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Me too! Which is funny because I’m not religious by any means, and when I first started to watch Milena on YouTube, I thought her videos were too embedded in her faith to be relatable to me, but I find their podcast to offer really great relationship advice regardless, and she just comes off as so genuinely sweet.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 06:40 PM
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As For Me and My House
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 03:30 AM
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Going over your post history, you seem incredibly obsessed with your husband’s infidelity. Your husband does not sound like an alpha whatsoever so I’m not sure what leads you to believe he is, but then again, we are only strangers reading the information you gave us. Based on what you have provided though, the most RPW advice does seem to be for you to leave your global and not submit to a shitty man. As another user mentioned, you’re simply rewarding his shitty behavior. There is no incentive f…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 07:52 PM
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I love her!! I’m surprised she doesn’t get mentioned more often. I also enjoy listening to her and her husband’s podcast!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 04:13 AM
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I just briefly scrolled through their accounts, and they look awesome! Definitely boho-chic, I can only imagine the good vibes your home must give off 🤗
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 01:39 AM
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You’re right! Guess I was little too excited and forgot to include that info lol I’m very open with my tastes, but tends to gravitate towards rustic styles, French modern, and some luxe (or at least the aesthetic of it, I don’t have the big bucks for all that lol)! At home, bedroom and wardrobe wise, I like a lot of year round “spooky” looks. For example, my makeup brush holders are repurposed wine glasses with silver skeleton hands holding them that I got at Marshall’s. The lamp on my night sta…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/20 01:27 AM
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Seems unrealistic. If your goal is marriage, being a girlfriend allows a relationship where you form a bond with your potential future husband, and allows a period of time where you’ll struggle, love, and experience life together prior to tying the knot. If you’re just dating around, there is no time for that serious bond to form within a committed, monogamous relationship. Also what man in his right mind would propose to a woman he’s only been dating, without ever having formed a genuine relati…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/20 03:37 AM
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Eyebrows frame the face so tinting them might be ideal if yours are sparse or light. I have dark eyebrows and still tint them every once in a while just to sharpen them up and make them look freshly done! Chapstick, like someone else suggested makes your lips look plump and hydrated. A solid skincare routine is important. If your skin is happy and healthy, makeup isn’t as necessary to make you look alive! I rarely wear makeup and to compensate, I make sure my hair is always done. Find a style th…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/19 12:32 AM
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I’m also beginning to think this. There’s no way anyone could be this obtuse to a concept that’s now been explained to them by different people, multiple times, unless it’s on purpose. It’s too bad money can’t buy common sense!
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 11:44 PM
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You bought a $400 gift for the mother of the man you only recently said you felt was too soon to exchange “I love you” with? Within your budget does not equal within reason.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/19 08:45 PM
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I love her!!
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 04:58 AM
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“Exclusivity” within FWBs allows a man access to you sexually at his liking without having any of the risks/ responsibility associated with committing to you via a real relationship. I’m all for consenting adults doing as they please, and I don’t tell anybody how to live, but if you’re looking for commitment, it’s a pretty ridiculous to settle for this.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 01:16 AM
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I think it’s more about the effort than the interest. I’m actually the one into sports while he could care less for them. My two favorites are football and MMA. He’s bored to bits and pieces by football, but he’s accepted invites to watch UFC fights with my friends and I at the bar. He gets into it eventually and enjoys having a beer and wings with me, and while I know he’d never go out of his way to watch a fight night on his own, I appreciate that he’ll accompany me and not be a buzzkill about…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/19 06:42 PM
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Personally, I find porn and masturbation within a relationship to be alright, as long as it’s not an addiction. My SO and I have discussed it before, and I think we both agreed I actually do it more often then he does lol sometimes your partner isn’t available for sex and sometimes you just have to get off without the whole production of having sex. We’ve also talked about watching it together and are open with our preferences. The idea of my man watching other naked women on a screen doesn’t bo…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 12:01 AM
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I think that’s definitely too soon. I’m in a relationship, and we do send them back and forth, but not before we were officially committed to each other. In a scenario like this one though, that’s no trust or intimacy, so it doesn’t seem like a good idea at all! Edit: oops, a typo!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/19 08:27 PM
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Haha I was wondering if someone would suggest this! It seems strange, but it’s true! 😂
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/19 11:30 PM
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I always recommend aerie! They wash well so I don’t have to replace them too frequently. So cute and comfy, and the 10 for $35 is a steal!
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 12:54 AM
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I'm sorry you're experiencing these emotions. It'd be wise for you to look for free or low-cost therapy services in your area. While you may research healthier coping practices on your own, your outbursts deviate quite far from "the norm", and you may not be able to overcome this without therapy. Nothing is impossible, but you'd definitely be delaying your own recovery without seeking the necessary resources/services.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 09:29 PM
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This is beautiful. Thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/19 09:19 PM
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Have you considered a reduction? Or maybe articles of clothing that create a silhouette of wider hips to help balance your bottom half with your top more? That way you create the illusion of a more hourglass figure
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 10:10 PM
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I don't wear dresses very often because I feel more comfortable in jeans or leggings, but yes, I do also notice I get a lot more positive attention when I wear dresses that flatter my shape. It's a good boost to the confidence for sure!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 10:08 PM
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I would say these are all great qualities to keep building upon! Personally, I'd say financial responsibility is important to have as well. Try not to accumulate debt, make sure you save up, and have a strong understanding of how basic finances work. I'm always baffled at how many people in my age group (mid to late 20s) are financially irresponsible! I think making wise decisions with your own cash would lessen the worry of any high income man who believes you may be take advantage or plan to b…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 03:20 AM
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A lot of people act like love and money are mutually exclusive, but I don't believe this is true. If you want a higher income man, you have to be a woman who deserves one. Meeting a rich man shouldn't necessarily be hard, you simply have to be present in the types of environments where they are. If your baseline for a partner is that they have to be rich, focus on developing yourself into a high value woman, and then find a high income man that you build a genuine connection with.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 02:24 AM
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I'd really appreciate something like this!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 01:39 AM
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Ballet!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/19 09:40 PM
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Love this simple yet helpful list! Also "throw up your smoothie" is hilarious hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/19 06:02 AM
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I think this varies from woman to woman. I also feel more attracted to men who are kinder in temperament and able to communicate their emotions, and physically I love guys with long hair (and beards) too! One of my two top love languages is acts of service so the aspects of masculinity I'm attracted to would be men who do things for me like heavy lifting or fixing my car. It all comes down to preference. The world would be very boring if everyone was a cookie cutter version of each other. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 03:55 AM
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Achieving the perfect high ponytail! I can't stand to have my hair down all day while I'm at work. I think many women believe a high ponytail sits at the crown, but unless you have a perfectly angled face, this isn't very flattering. Following your natural cheekbone and having your ponytail sit at that highest post "lifts" the face and gives the illusion of a sharper profile.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 02:12 AM
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Hmm, on the one hand it's better to be safe than sorry. For the first date, she could take precautions to ensure her safety, such as sharing her location with a close friend. Though this is advice I'd recommend to anyone. It's ultimately up to her to vet him well enough. On the other hand, it's really not all that strange for a grown man to not be caught up in social media. My last ex (this was 4-5 years ago) was in his early 30s and had no social media accounts. He thought it to be a complete w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/19 03:58 AM
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I second aerie!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/19 10:24 PM
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I wasn't actually trying for it, but I'm a regular there, and am well recognized by the employees. I've been in conversation with them while guys shopping around have jumped in. I've also had guys start conversations in reference to the books I'm browsing. I've been asked about music tastes before because I love collecting those coffee table books about the histories of my favorite bands. Like I'll usually stock up on them and it probably looks funny to see such a small gal hauling off these big…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/19 12:53 AM
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I think clubs and bars are going to be as broad and general as it gets, but seeing as they defeat your purpose, you're going to have to get a little more specific in your search. I second the bookshop option, though. I have a B&N card so I go quite often, even just to browse, and have been approached by guys there before. I've suggested in similar posts before that joining a group or club related to your interests is always beneficial because you'll be in the process of becoming a more well-roun…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 11:15 PM
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Hmm, these seem like dumb, careless comments made by your friend, but they don't seem intentionally hurtful. Is this specific friend prone to saying outlandish stuff often? Personally, I'd never ask my friend to act a certain way around a new man I'm dating just because they are who they are, and I can only change myself. Though when I'm bringing someone new around my more eccentric friends, I usually give the new person a heads up about a friend's personality just so they aren't caught off guar…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 06:52 PM
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So I was recently reading a study that showed very little difference in muscle growth between low rep, high weight exercise and high rep, low weight exercise. I'd have to look for it but I can send it to you if you'd like! I recently started focusing on upper body more, and have been doing upper body rowing for my arms and back and rope pulling for my arms as well. Not sure if this is something you'd enjoy, but if you have access to a punching bag, I highly recommend using it! I started doing so…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/19 05:31 PM
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As mentioned, simple jewelry, light makeup and done up hair make a big difference! I tend to do my hair in soft, loose curls a lot of the time and it instantly adds a more feminine look. Invest in an effective dry shampoo! It'll do wonders! I also recommend wearing athleisure styles that are designed to be cute and comfy. Beyond Yoga is a brand I love for this purpose. If that's out of your price range, then Aerie is another I'm a big fan of that offers cozy yet stylish pieces at a more affordab…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/19 04:19 AM
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Don't have them. You shouldn't feel obligated to, and carrying on your bloodline is not a valid enough reason alone to become a mother, especially when you consider all the physical, emotional and psychological effects becoming a mother has on a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/19 03:34 AM
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ONE MILLION DOLLARS Dr. Evil pinky
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/19 01:11 AM
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I remember your original post. You had stated that she did not know who you were or the details of your relationship. It was by awkward occurrence that you two happened to be in the same space after she had consensual sex with your boyfriend, who you admit agreed to also not use a condom. Are you going out of your way to bully him as well? Or is this hate reserved only for women you harbor resentment towards due to the actions of the man you're assumedly still committed to after all this? I'm no…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 12:36 AM
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Wow, this is awful. Your actions scream insecurity and severe lack of maturity. If you were unable to refrain from being a bully towards this poor woman (let's be honest, you had no intention of being her friend) then the least you could've done was kept this update to yourself. Yikes...
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/19 12:21 AM
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I've met some great ladies in my ballet class! I guess hobbies will vary based on your personal interests. I also hike, which is a lot of fun and a great workout, and you can meet people that way as well. I'm also keen on trying fencing, cooking and pole fitness classes soon. Remember it's never too late to start something new so pick anything you've ever wanted to try before and just go for it! :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 11:11 PM
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This is a great opportunity to expand on your hobbies because you'll be sure to meet men who share your interests, and that's a great jumping point! Join a wine and paint class, rock climb, fencing, any interest of yours that isn't heavily gender specific (slim chance the man of your dreams is at your local knitting group lol) will either introduce you to potential men or people with similar values you can befriend, and hey, they might know a guy!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 02:15 AM
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Relationships between two well-rounded people should be mutually beneficial. This sounds like it gave him all the benefit and power while allowing him to shirk his responsibilities as a man in a committed relationship. Also, referring to women as "toys" should've told you exactly how he views women, personally I would've been disgusted. Maybe it was the feels that made you think you were somehow above these other women, but I'm not really seeing how you treats you any different than he assumedly…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/19 12:04 AM
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What about your face makes you think it's not beautiful? I do agree with what someone said, working out and getting in shape is so important and beneficial even when you're already thin. I'm 5'2 and 105 lbs and had no muscle definition prior to joining the gym. I've been going for about 2 years now and get complimented on my progress and am falling in love with the way I look more and more all the time! We can always make ourselves better and should be striving to do so!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 02:51 AM
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I understand where you are coming from as I felt the same way when I was your age. I am now in my mid 20s, and I can tell you that while you can opt of a relationship for the rest of your life if you so choose to, the active anger you carry in your chest will exhaust you eventually. I wasn't sure if this sub was for me when I first started reading it, but it has definitely become a tool set which I've used to become a more feminine and skilled woman. It has also helped me understand the fundamen…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 03:49 PM
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I'm in my mid 20s and sometimes wear bows to tie my hair back. My style is edgier/alternative so this adds a soft touch to my outfits. I get compliments when I do it so if you can incorporate them into your style, then it won't hurt to try! :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/19 07:29 PM
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I have to believe this is a troll post because even spending 10 min reading through this sub or the sidebar would answer your question as to what value a woman can provide a man with. Also, the idea that if a woman isn't found objectively attractive enough to attract a partner then she should die made me bust out laughing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 05:31 AM
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Have you outlined all of these issues to your parents? You mentioned they were offended when you suggested selling, but do they understand why you suggested this in the first place? Their intentions may mean well, but you say they bought you this house when you were single, and it might've been fine then, but it's clearly not up to standard for your family of 2. This space definitely doesn't sound like it will be optimal when you decide to grow your family. If you explained to them how much unha…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 05:39 PM
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You have more than enough comments here telling you to give it time and that you'll change your mind. I'm in my late 20s and have never wanted children of my own, not for a second. Do I hate children? Nope! I simply don't have the patience or energy for them. I think kids, especially babies and toddlers, are innocent lil sponges observing the world around them as they grow and learn and take it all in! My best friend had a baby less than a year ago, and I love cuddling her daughter and making he…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/19 11:14 PM
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I agree with some of your points, but I do think you have a very black and white way of looking at things that isn't entirely applicable to the real world. The idea that you can marry for love OR money is simply not true, same goes with marrying a man your age or ending up with an old fart, or that if you choose to be alone you're a crazy feminist/cat lady. Personally, I've never wanted marriage or children and opting out of dating men has made me happier and carefree. Overall, it has increased …
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/19 08:23 PM
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Yes! I use the thick and full shampoo by Nature's Gate
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 05:42 PM
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Makeup: It usually consists of foundation, a single eyeshadow color, winged liner, and mascara. When I have extra time I throw in some cream contour. I also fill in my brows where they're lacking (damn my teenage overplucked phase) but most of the time I keep them threaded and tinted. Skin care: I do a moisturizer, a hydrator, and cold pressed Rosehip oil in the under eye area in the AM. In the PM, it's the same thing but I add a glycolic acid toner and a lip mask. Retinol once a week. Hair care…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/19 06:17 PM
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I understand how you could feel unattractive at your current weight. When I was a teenager I ranged from 80-95 lbs throughout high school and no one ever flirted with me either. I'd say being so small at your age gives you an advantage because as you grow up you'll have an easier time aging more gracefully if you start taking care of yourself now. As you have a very high metabolism now, having an effective workout routine will be handy especially when it starts to slow down. I'm currently in my …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 10:36 PM
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I have over 10 tattoos and can say that a lot of men still absolutely consider them to be unladylike. Personally, it hasn't deterred me from getting any of the ones I have, and there's plenty more of them to come. All of my tattoos are a part of me, and I couldn't imagine myself without them at this point. It's not uncommon for people to cover self-harm scars with tattoos. If you do decide to go through with getting one, please do your research on artists and quality of work. There is much truth…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 01:12 AM
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They may not be exclusively lingerie, but aerie makes comfortable and affordable undergarments that are super cute for everyday wear! They're pretty much all I wear, and many of the bralettes are padded or come with underwire. I also like that their site has a review section, and you can get a good idea of how it'll fit/feel from reading those.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 11:59 PM
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I'll be using my own 😊 at one point, I was very into using containers and boxes to store things, especially important documents, so I have a bunch of empty containers at the top of my closet to utilize!
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 05:52 PM
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The KonMari method was invented by Marie Condo and is basically a very specific process of tidying up your living space. I heard about it a couple years ago when my brother used her book to declutter his stuff. She recently got her own show on Netflix if you wanna take a look at how her process works. The book goes much more in depth though.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 06:25 AM
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I'll be using the KonMari method to deep clean my closet and room! I've been overwhelmed by the amount of stuff I own, and I know getting rid of what I don't need (I plan to donate) will decrease my stress.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 03:09 AM
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Personally, I haven't noticed a difference in treatment from men. I started developing acne in my later teen/earlier college years. Nowadays, I do still get the occasional breakout, mainly when I'm PMSing, but changing my diet and better skincare products have helped a lot. I have quite a bit of hyperpigmentation and some small pitting on my lower cheeks leftover, but I'll be taking care of that soon as well. I mainly think that if the condition on your skin makes you self-conscience, it'll show…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/19 02:31 AM
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Like others have mentioned, I think where you live influences the frequency of occurrences. I imagine women who live in cities get it more often than those who live in more rural or suburban areas. Personally, I catch men not-so-subtly checking me out all the time, but I have a pretty intense bitch face, and it doesn't usually result in being approached. If I do get cat called, I ignore it because I feel like most men who are going out of their way to call out to a woman in the street are just t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 09:19 PM
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Powder foundation as opposed to liquid or cream for everyday wear limits the amount of breakouts I get. Liquid highlighter before foundation gives your face a more natural glow, and I love Farsali's Jelly Beam illuminator for this purpose. The Cosrx snail essence is excellent at keeping my skin plump, soft, and even toned. I apply it twice a day. Mario Badescu drying lotion for spot treating. For hair, I use a sulfate, paraben and gluten free thickening shampoo. I wash it once or twice a week an…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 02:53 AM
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Yes, these all seem like superficial reasons to want to end a relationship, but as you speak of them, it seems like you don't respect him. It's probably considerate that you do break up with him so he can go on to find someone who will appreciate his positive qualities better.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 01:34 AM
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Honestly, the idea of a body count or n-count is something I've only ever heard of online. Personally, no man has ever asked me how many people I've slept with, and I'd never ask a man. I've asked male friends before if they ever asked their current or previous partner for hers, and none of them ever have. I think it's more about the impression you give off. There are certain traits/looks a woman might present that would lead men to deduce that she's promiscuous. In my experience, it hasn't been…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/18 04:25 AM
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You're young, and seem a bit emotionally immature right now. It's nice that you have all these things you'd like to do, but at the moment, they're unrealistic. Instead of pre-planning the wants you'd spend your money on, focus on the needs. You need to learn how to support yourself. No high quality man is going to invest in a woman who is financially reckless. If I were looking at this as a man, I'd think you were used to living off your family members and looking for someone to financially supp…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 12:59 AM
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Post-AM skin care routine, I apply sunscreen, spot conceal if I need to, and apply a powder foundation. I bronze up because my skin tends to look flat with matte foundations. Then I fill my brows, sometimes eyeliner, sometimes not. Then a coat or two of mascara. I apply the Nooni apple butter lip mask the night before so my lips are soft in the morning, then I reapply during the day. I definitely recommend this lip mask, especially for any of you who find your lips dry out/crack during the cold …
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 06:33 PM
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I would start by smiling more often and becoming more concious if your rbf. It's something I struggle with myself as I have an intense rbf! I also struggle with making eye contact even though I'm a very confident person and don't have problems with conversation. I've recently tried smiling more and being warmer in my approach to people, and you'll see how crazy the difference is in how others will react to you. I tend to do to this in small interactions like when I'm greeting clients (customer s…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 02:17 AM
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You brought up that he wants you to meet his family this weekend. Honestly, if you do so, you'll just be giving him reason to believe that you're willing to further invest in his bullshit. Block him. There's no downside, and you seem aware of the fact that he isn't serious about you two so no better time to act than now.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 05:40 PM
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So you acknowledge that most of what you're struggling with is a result of low self-esteem, and honestly this takes some time to overcome. You are in a good position though because everything you mentioned about wanting to change is something you are completely in control of changing. The braces and acne will take longer than you'd like, sure, but it'll be well worth the wait. In the meantime, I'd suggest you fake it til you make it! Compliment at least one thing about yourself everyday. Exude c…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/18 01:06 AM
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I started following her on IG after finishing the show, her posts are incredible! There isn't much on her official website, at least not that I noticed on mobile, but I definitely look forward to seeing more from her!
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/18 12:42 AM
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No problem! I was trying to search any previous/upcoming seasons and came across the book! I thought it might be useful to add just in case the show isn't someone's cup of tea but the baking ideas might be 😁
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/18 12:40 AM
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Aww, I'm bummed people bullied her away! She comes off as very kind. Haha yes, some of her creations were more complex and offered little instruction (the chicken pot pie?!) but the cake replica of the house was amazing. I'd never have the patience for that! Well, I was trying to see if there was anything online about another season, and I'm wondering if the next one, should there be one, will be Thanksgiving or Christmas related. We'll just have to wait and find out!
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/18 12:38 AM
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I love resistance bands! I started off using them at the gym and recently purchased some of myself own after noticing that the ones at the gym were being stretched out more often that they were being replaced. Tricep dips are a great suggestion! Thank you! You know, I've actually never considered it being my uterus as an option! I have read that women tend to have a more difficult time losing lower belly fat due to our bodies wanting to store it for protecting the uterus in case of pregnancy. Ho…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 11:28 PM
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This high weight, low rep stuff is good to know! Is there an ideal set of reps/sets for maximum effectiveness? I usually do 3 sets of 8-12 reps.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 11:04 PM
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Thank you for suggesting all these exercises!! I'm already a big fan of deadlifts as I see such positive results from doing them, but I'm definitely looking to expand my circuits to include a lot more. Will be writing all these down to try, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 10:50 PM
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I guess it's more correct to say that I do have a smaller frame. It's generic as my parents were also very slim at my age! I'm trying to consume ~2000 calories to up my weight a little bit, but I'm currently at around 1600-1800 a day, which is host enough for me to maintain my current weight. I'm actually also a big fan of planks and yoga 😁 I'm just looking to do something a little more intensive in regards to my arms because my mom's side tends to gain weight in their upper arm area, and it see…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 10:48 PM
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So typically I have a smoothie for breakfast, and when there's time for a packed lunch, I tend to do chicken with either rice and vegetables or tossed into a salad. For dinner it's pretty much the same story, though I might substitute the chicken for red meat. I've been wondering if the problem might be that I'm having dinner too late? I head to the gym directly after work, which means my last meal of the day is at 9:30/10 and I usually to go to bed after.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 10:41 PM
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Love this! My style is pretty alternative as well, I love band tees and ripped jeans, and I really enjoy decorating my jackets with spikes and studs. I have been told for years by my non-alternative friends that I come off as very aggressive right off the bat based on how I look! Recently I have been working on ways to make my aesthetic appear more feminine, such as tucking in tees to create asymmetry and flatter my body shape. What you said about complimentary colors came right on time though! …
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 02:48 AM
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This is more of a personal preference, as some people are devout to their religion while others are not religious at all, and may or may not look for a partner who believes the same.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/18 06:14 PM
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All great suggestions! Thank you for this! I've been known to bite the skin around my fingers as well when I'm trying to avoid biting my nails, keeping my nails and fingers both looking neat will hopefully prevent any urge to chew them up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 02:45 AM
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Agreed, it was completely unprofessional! It deterred me from going back to a salon, but reading how well acrylics worked for many of the ladies who commented here motivates me to give it another try! This time I'll definitely be researching places ahead of time!
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 02:43 AM
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I have never heard of these wraps! Just quickly searched them now, and there's so many cute designs! Thank you for recommending!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 04:50 PM
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Keeping a nail file in my bag is such a simple solution I hadn't even even thought of! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 04:48 PM
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This is an awesome suggestion! Thank you, I'll start this today!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 04:33 PM
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I'm glad to hear this worked for you! Since you also bit yours down so short, did you apply the acrylic nails yourself or get them done? I had a set on a few years ago, and the tech at the salon I went to told me he wasn't sure I even had enough nail to make it work. He also called the other nail techs over, they blatantly laughed at the condition of my nails. I won't go back there, but I'm wondering if the short length made it more difficult to apply? I've had trouble keeping press ons applied …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 04:32 PM
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You know, I've tried this before and I've thought about it doing it again! I'm just not sure if I currently have enough nail for anything to stick lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 04:27 PM
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