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7

It’s much more discreet these days but back when i was 18 and had an Android, i had an app on my phone specifically to store them, on their own separate home screen page, and my gf saw me scroll past it one day and it doesn’t take much deductive reasoning to figure out what it’s for 😂😂😂
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 10:29 PM
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There were two instances where I’ve had girlfriends and they’ve discovered a stash of nudes on my phone or figured out i had other options. Both times, their attraction went WAY up after these discoveries.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 05:28 PM
1

Awesome. Thanks for corresponding. Good post, have my upvote
/r/seduction16/12/18 01:04 AM
1

Where is the post??? I see nothing but a title
/r/seduction14/12/18 02:41 AM
1

Snort an adderall
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:26 AM
14

Yes. You should even get her a box of chocolates and write her a love letter too. The more, the better.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:34 PM
1

Idk if this has anything to do with it but I’ve been a lifelong athlete and am a pretty tall dude. Benching twice a week has helped too. I really don’t care what the rest of me looks like as long as i have a big chest, arms and abs
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:36 PM
1

I’d say I’ve put on a decent amount of muscle for only having lifted for 5 months even though I’ve lost weight overall. If these are noob gains then so be it i guess, but i look 10x better than i did 5 months ago and am much stronger. As for my lifts: Bench - started off barely being able to do 135 for 3 sets. Am now doing 155 5x8 with relative ease. I imagine if i maxed out it’d be somewhere around 200. Squat - started 135 3x8. Now at 175 5x8 and max 225. I don’t deadlift because I’ve never don…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:22 PM
1

I’m 6’4 and I weighed about 196lbs when i started lifting 5 months ago (skinny fat). Since then i dropped to 190lbs by lifting 4-5 days a week and eating roughly at maintenance. Some days i was at a surplus while other days i was at a deficit. I’d say i lost ~2-4% of body fat during this time. I can show pics for reference if that’ll help any.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:56 PM
3

What exercises do you do for it?
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:53 PM
9

No idea if it aligns with TRP but I’m an atheist. Grew up in a catholic house, went to church when i was told to as a kid but now that I’m old enough to have my own beliefs that’s the belief i chose
/r/askTRP04/11/18 02:12 AM
1

I too have a tendency to compare myself to others, and i would admit that that’s my biggest flaw. While doing this can be beneficial and drive you to succeed, obsessing about this can seriously stunt your growth and development as a person. Take for example myself as i mentioned above. Some of my close friends graduated and have landed awesome jobs right out of college making double what other people make. Hell, my one buddy makes triple what i make. But you’re forgetting the other side of the e…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 11:51 PM
3

I agree but its very unlikely that OP is able to keep her around just to bang if she's branch swinging. As an orbiter, yes. As a sexual partner, no.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 07:16 PM
20

Can’t demote her if she’s already demoted him
/r/askTRP01/11/18 05:37 PM
2

The writing is on the wall my friend
/r/askTRP01/11/18 05:37 PM
1

I’ve noticed that Ashwagandha gives me a subtle boost in libido
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:16 PM
1

162,000 but I’ve had it since it came out
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:01 PM
2

Pick a number, any number!
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:25 PM
3

Don’t necessarily have to “ignore her”... if she texts it’s ok to reply but i wouldn’t carry a full fledged conversation over text. Couple replies then carry on doing something else
/r/askTRP28/10/18 05:19 PM
1

I’d say it’s a combination of communicating covertly, cleverly and with the proper tone. I’ll give an example that i used recently that seemed to work: Finished making out with a girl and proceeded to tell her straight up “You’re a good kisser” and she responded by telling me “you’re not so bad yourself”, to which i said “i wonder what else you’re good at” with a nice smirk. Building sexual attraction and tension is the only way to keep girls interested.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 05:13 AM
1

Birthday suit
/r/askTRP28/10/18 04:32 AM
7

Yep. Texting is a sure fire way to drive the interest of any chick straight into the dirt, even if you aren’t saying BP shit. Screams over-investment
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:47 AM
2

My T levels are on the low end of normal (300ng/DL) yet i am able to grow a beard. It’s genetic I’m 23 FWIW
/r/askTRP26/10/18 04:06 AM
2

No. They sleep around even more than that
/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:19 AM
22

With a small loan of one million dollars from my father.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 07:15 PM
4

This is prime age. Right before they hop on the CC
/r/askTRP20/10/18 11:06 PM
10

I’m failing to see why this is an issue
/r/askTRP20/10/18 10:42 PM
3

How close of a friend definitely plays a role here. If he’s apart of your inner circle that’s kinda shitty. Anything else is ok in my book and shouldn’t be a big deal
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:39 PM
1

There’s no way this doesn’t work.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 03:09 AM
1

I seriously don’t know if that’s within BMI range or not. Is it?
/r/askTRP19/10/18 09:34 PM
2

In my opinion I’d try and pack on as much muscle as possible and re assessing after a few months.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:37 PM
2

What are your dimensions?
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:19 PM
1

The two are not mutually exclusive..some of them have stuck around and have continued to be FWB while others are so dead set on finding a boyfriend as if their wedding is tomorrow that they taper off.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:33 AM
10

I usually just walk up to them and grab a hand or arm. If they’re into you they won’t mind
/r/askTRP18/10/18 06:16 PM
1

I’ve had girls that I’ve lasted 5 pumps with still be into me after I’ve “fucked” them by just not giving a damn, and have ended up banging them on many occasions after this. So my guess into your situation is that you’ve displayed some sort of needy behavior or texted them too much. As soon as you reveal any of your feelings or anything even close, or reveal BP traits, the mystery is over and her interest evaporates. I’ve been guilty of doing this too. It’s possible that your sex game isn’t gre…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 05:57 PM
11

The average looking ones always want to seem to date exclusively date a week after you’ve known them or fucked. I.e the “beta” of females.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:46 PM
12

I’m sure OP has HB9’s knocking on his door begging to fuck but he just can’t seem to interest himself in them.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:25 PM
1

I’ve found that no fap actually decreased my libido. There’s nothing wrong with 1/2x per week
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:24 PM
4

Never ever call a girl out for something like this. Even if you did, why would you want to hand her the opportunity to reject you on a silver platter? You already know what the answer is going to be. NEVER give any woman the satisfaction and ego boost of telling you she isn’t interested if she’s been ghosting you. Just let it be.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 11:21 PM
6

I’m not sure if I’m misinterpreting what you said, but Never ever ever make plans for the next date when you’re on a date. Makes you look like you need to tie her down because you’re afraid you won’t get the chance to see her again.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 11:20 PM
2

Get tested at your doctor. Only way to find out. Blood work will also uncover anything else that might be going on.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 11:17 PM
7

I recently took 2 20mg of viagra and it definitely worked. After a night of drinking i was rock hard as soon as i started making out. It does desensitize a little bit too. Only thing that sucks is that it makes you feel a little flushed and gives you a stuffy nose.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 02:35 AM
6

“How long have you been having that problem?”
/r/askTRP07/10/18 10:03 PM
1

Nope. Send her packing. This is not worth it.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 12:12 AM
14

Millionaires go to nightclubs all the time. Not sure where you’re living. But it’s quite common in America. Even if that were true, not every man reading this is going to become a millionaire. Probably nobody reading this post is. So it’s sortve falling on deaf ears.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 12:33 AM
3

Borat. Lol. It is the funniest movie i have ever seen by a country mile.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:32 AM
6

Idk about you, but getting old and being tied to a vag that hang like sleeve of wizard sounds pretty terrible.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:05 AM
1

I actually realized that i always had good game before i came across TRP. I pulled HB7-9’s with rather good consistency, in the initial approach, but my main trouble was with maintaining them. Each time id immediately assume that whoever was up next was going to be my next girlfriend. None of them ever ended up being my girlfriend. This mindset is a sure fire way to push them away no matter how good looking you are. When i reflect on my pre TRP successes i have an n-count around 25. (I’m 23 FWIW…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:36 PM
4

Even with some of my close friends this seems to be a waste. My one buddy in particular has everything in his life in order but is terribly blue pilled when it comes to women. He could pull some serious tail if only he’d realize girls don’t want a guy that takes things slow and wants to date them after 1 date, amongst other things.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:22 PM
2

So does this mean just eating at maintenance?
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:00 AM
2

It’s a slippery slope. That can happen even if a chick is the one ripping her clothes off to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 01:30 PM
2

Absolutely. My mom has always been one to complicate things. My dad just goes along with it because he doesn’t know any better.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 02:02 AM
3

Got it. Thanks
/r/askTRP27/09/18 09:22 PM
5

I tried going to it thru mobile but it said “i don’t have access to this webpage”. Any idea?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 08:53 PM
1

That’s what I’ve been telling my mom to do. She and my dad had to move my sister across the country to California and took my sisters car..so my mom and dad took a train back instead of flying.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 07:33 PM
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Hahahaha. I’ll be damned if i listen to someone tell me about my own father who has extreme little man syndrome and is in marriage counseling. That must genuinely fucking suck man. Better you than me.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:13 PM
2

In retrospect It’s a good thing blue pilled experiences happen. They’re the main thing we learn from. Always gotta Go back, review the film, and see where you can improve.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 05:03 PM
1

No man is 100% alpha in every aspect of his life. If someone says they are, they’re lying. That’s basically the same thing as saying unicorns exist in women. They don’t. He’s beta in some aspects and alpha in others. Not debating that. It’s a lot different when you’re 53 and married vs when you’re 23 and single and have a whole subreddit at your disposal.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 05:00 PM
2

It’s been a long and treacherous road but I’m finally starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 02:11 PM
6

“This ones different, man. Take it slow with her.” -blue pilled me
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 02:04 PM
3

I’m only 23 and i already have about 4 friends who are married or getting engaged. It’s sad to see
/r/askTRP27/09/18 11:27 AM
15

The best (or worst) part is this has happened to me like 3 other times. I’d have a nice collection of fucks with HB9/10’s under my belt if the old pussy ass blue pilled me didn’t think “this one is different” or “they aren’t like that”. Girls just need plausible deniability. “It just kind of happened!”
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 11:25 AM
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My parents have been married for over 30 years. If there’s one thing I’ve noticed about my dad in the time that I’ve been old enough to understand and analyze their relationship, it’s that he’s happiest when my mom isn’t around. When he’s out on his kayak early in the mornings on the weekends..(when we used to go on vacation) when he’d take his beach chair down and sit by the water every morning hours before my mother would make her way to the beach..when he and i are able to spend some quality …
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:11 AM
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I once went over a HB9’s house (probably the 2nd date) and when i got there she was wearing a robe with lingerie underneath. Halfway into the movie things get intense and she goes “i really like you but i think we should wait for sex..” Guess who failed her shit test? Me. Guess who didn’t get laid that night or after that? Me. Guess who got ghosted? Me. Yeah. She really wore that shit because she wanted to wait. Ahh... blue pilled me was so naive.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 11:13 PM
2

I’ve never really thought of it that way in regards to the fucks but it makes tons of sense. Even in my super blue pilled days i landed a good amount of lays but then would cut them off after that for fear of them getting attached after one fuck and having to let them down. Boy was i missing out. Texting is necessary to some regard. But full blown conversations via text are a big no no. Learned that the hard way too many times. She doesn’t give a shit about the dream you had last night or what y…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 10:59 PM
12

More men need to realize this especially about texting. You texting her is not doing a damn thing except giving her validation, like you stated, and driving their interest directly into the ground. I can’t tell you how many potential plates have broken because i texted them too much. Even if you aren’t double texting or spilling your feelings out to her (hint: nothing dries her pussy up quicker than telling her how you feel thru a text). Logistics only.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 08:00 PM
2

The relationship needs to be on a man’s terms. Not hers. Either you’re gonna do it or she is. Someone is always in control.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:38 PM
2

That’s exactly what he did. He would subtly flirt with other girls, not exactly in front his girlfriends, but they knew he did. He exemplified dread better than anyone i know. The girls were too insecure and got annoying about it eventually so he cut ties.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 03:04 AM
3

Most people will obviously tell you “abundance mentality” but the problem here is that you don’t have abundance if you have oneitis. So you can’t just pull abundance out of thin air. It will take time to develop this and put your oneitis behind you. After you do so, then you can build abundance to prevent oneitis from occurring again. What i found very helpful was ramping up my workouts and reading. I felt empowered by doing both.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:37 PM
3

Well then tell her you’re good to go. No need to make it a game
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:28 PM
3

Whatever you do, do not say “hmm I’m not sure about Thursday, i might be busy” or anything of that nature. She offered a day to reschedule. If you say this it’s going to seem like you’re being a try hard and she will know this. Plan for Thursday and if she flakes again then don’t waste any more time on her.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:53 PM
8

Just don’t get attached. Minimize investment. Oneitis can set you back weeks
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:43 PM
7

3 x whatever number she tells you. My one buddy started seeing a chick who told him she’d been with 9 guys. The very next week, the same girl was seeing my OTHER buddy who is not friends with the buddy i first mentioned. 2 guys in 2 weeks. It’s definitely more than 9.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:30 PM
7

Most girls go out to clubs with the sole goal of attracting a guy who will dick them down. True of girls that go to college bars as well.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 07:53 PM
5

The Rational Male. Seriously.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:36 PM
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A good buddy of mine has dated HB8-10’s just about his whole life. Each time he’s dated one, he more or less did everything you outlined above and i always wondered “how does his gf not get mad/leave him?” And each time, the relationship has been under his terms and he’s walked away when she started giving him too much trouble or when there was nothing left for him to get out of it. It’s as if he’s swallowed the red pill his whole life yet he doesn’t even know this exists. Now i realize it was b…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 12:09 PM
0

I tried taking a weight gainer for a few days and got nearly physically sick each time. Shit is terrible.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:57 AM
-1

Probably sounds harsh but better you be the one that does this than them.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:18 PM
2

This is the routine I’ve been follow for 5 months. I don’t have a “6 pack” but my abs are definitely showing thru. Will be glad to send photos if you don’t believe me. Lower back isn’t where i want it to be but i just attribute this to the fact that that’s just how my body is designed. Some areas lose fat before others. It’s different for each person
/r/askTRP23/09/18 08:06 AM
3

I don’t deadlift at all. It’s not pointless, but you can still make gains without doing it. Here’s my routine: Monday - chest and tris Tuesday - legs and biceps Wednesday - shoulders and back Thursday - legs and biceps again Friday - chest and tris again I do abs probably 3-4 days a week normally cable crunches and decline sit ups and AB roller. Cardio one day a week or both days of the weekend if you’re feeling ambitious. I was skinny fat, followed this routine, and so far it has gotten me to w…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:54 AM
6

“Lacking success” on online dating apps isn’t exactly a shortcoming. This post is case in point of that.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 02:15 AM
6

Tinder and bumble are a black hole. The only thing girls use them for is validation. These guys who claim the regularly pull HB8-10’s on tinder are flat out liars or don’t know how to evaluate girls. The average girl on tinder is like a 4.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 12:57 AM
1

I usually do next day and it works pretty well. But after this I’d text strictly to set up a date. Otherwise they will eventually lose interest.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 01:21 AM
2

Where i am from yes. People look at condoms more as an inconvenience...not saying i condone it but there is something kind of off putting about throwing a piece of rubber on your dong every single time your about to slay a horned up bitch
/r/askTRP14/09/18 10:59 PM
1

Texted her yesterday to try and see if there was anything left. Didn’t get a response. At least i know where i stand and can move along
/r/seduction13/09/18 02:06 AM
3

I can concur that NoFap absolutely kills libido. I’ve tried it twice, for the exact same reasons you have, and during each trial i felt like absolutely nothing would make me horny. I was in a very similar situation recently. Was seeing a girl for ~a month. Got head by the second date, 2 weeks later i went to her place after a night out and couldn’t get it up because i drank too much. I was absolutely crushed, lost a bunch of confidence, and she definitely noticed. (Sidenote: if she’s gonna suck …
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:03 AM
1

As it relates to routine, i find it easier to go every day. M-F is usually strictly lifting. One day on the weekend I’ll do ~30 min of cardio and some auxiliary lifts. It’s just the way I’ve become programmed. I’d find it way harder to go 3 days of the week and i feel like it’d be easier to skip out if I’m only going 3 days. But that’s just me.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 02:47 AM
5

It’s all in your head. Realize it is you, and not them. You are too outcome independent on your interactions. Additionally, you are too obsessed about their opinion of you. Realize that she is a girl and that her opinion doesn’t fucking matter or change anything about you. If some random person on the street just walked up to you and said “i think you’re a little cunt bitch with bad hair” would you care at all? Probably not. So why obsess over what any girl thinks of you
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:12 PM
2

Perfect. Thanks brother
/r/askTRP29/08/18 05:47 PM
2

Take it from me and a girl i was pursuing for the past month or so. Met her thru a mutual friend before going out to a bar one night. Entertained her and gamed her up all evening. K-closed and got a number. I book a date for the following weekend. It goes well and we continue to see each other the next few weekends. All of a sudden, i get oneitis, she becomes more and more distant, replying to texts more late and sometimes not for a few days. Why? Because i was texting her in the first place. I …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:08 PM
1

Well, she’s since broken the radio silence and sent me a long text apologizing how she hasn’t texted me in days because (insert bullshit excuse) and is sorry that we weren’t able to hang out. Now what?
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:01 PM
1

Do you think it’s best i cut my losses even if she tries to further reach out?
/r/askTRP27/08/18 04:31 PM
1

Everyone has got to start somewhere man. I was 140lbs soaking wet when i first started. It’s just one of those things you have to stay consistent with. Once you start going for a few weeks you will care less and less what others at the gym think of you because you will be focused on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 03:52 AM
2

I genuinely appreciate this input and advice. Thank you.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 02:44 AM
3

From what I’ve learned in the little time i know her, she’s very sweet (famous last words) and always feeding me compliments. I get no signs that her past affects her, but it’s hardly been that long. It’d probably be worse to say oneitis is starting to take root and I’m doing anything possible to keep it from spreading... i swear mentally unstable/traumatized women just have a nose for me. Or the other way around...
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:29 AM
2

Have been seeing a girl for about 4 weeks now and I’ve gotten zero signs or red flags that she’s crazy, but she did indicate that her last boyfriend physically abused her last time i was with her then proceeded to tell me she really likes me a lot. Coincidental timing that i stumbles upon this comment. So I’m assuming i should jump ship...?
/r/askTRP22/08/18 01:06 AM
1

I have two other girls that I’ve been engaging with during this period though i haven’t fucked either, so i suppose the girl in reference is not a plate and thus my oneitis is growing more than I’d like it to. FWIW, in this girl’s last relationship, she was physically abused pretty bad. She opened up about this last i saw her then proceeded to tell me she liked me a lot. Not pinning the blame on her, but would this be a red flag/is she damaged goods at this point?
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:30 PM
3

Depending on the area where you live, chicks use tinder strictly as validation anymore. They do it for the mental masturbation to know a guy swiped right and approved of them, rarely with the intention to ever meet up with whoever matches with them.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:47 PM
3

Absolutely get one. I’m in the Same situation as you, age and everything. I pay for everything except housing because I’m still at home. Start out just by putting your gas on your credit card. Might not be a lot but it still slowly builds your credit. Higher credit rating = lower interest rate when you go to apply for a mortgage, etc. I’d recommend a good “starter” credit card. The Chase Freedom or Capital One Quiksilver are both good options that don’t have an annual fee and no interest rate fo…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 03:22 AM
7

Likewise. Drunk me seems to think I have a six-figure income.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:04 PM
6

I tracked every single one of my expenses that related to alcohol/going out/food and it was the eye opener that made me start being more serious with my money. The one month I tracked, I spent ~$260 on Ubers/lyft/alcohol/food that I otherwise didn't need.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 08:03 PM
6

I think you missed my point - the example i used, the limit of the CC was only $1500.. so i am assuming your CC limit is probably higher and thus your revolving utilization doesn’t exceed 30% at the end of each month. Also, this only affects your credit rating if you carry that balance month to month instead of paying it off.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 11:22 AM
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A very thorough post and one that i think everyone should read. I think if anyone does a hard look at their budget and expenses, they will find an area they can cut back on. That’s what i did this past month. Literally started tracking every single purchase down to the nickel. Additionally - for credit cards, a good rule of thumb is to keep your revolving utilization UNDER 30%. For example, if you have a credit limit of $1,500, do not keep spending once you have reached $450 (30% of 1500). If yo…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 03:59 AM
4

Not a good habit to form. Any good job will eventually require a drug test.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:38 AM
6

Delete Twitter and Instagram off of your phone. This is what i did and have found it effective. I still have my accounts but i just removed them off my phone until i learn to moderate my time on them better and do other productive things first and foremost
/r/askTRP20/07/18 03:37 AM
8

Say nothing
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:09 PM
-1

“Sounds like you have an eye for talent”
/r/askTRP17/07/18 03:26 AM
7

This was the final straw for me before swallowing TRP.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 11:17 AM
12

No need for ever showering I’m sure!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 02:55 AM
1

Dior - Sauvage is the only stuff I’ll wear anymore. It is an incredible value too. I got a 2 ounce bottle for Christmas and i still have about half of it left
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 02:53 AM
17

I’ll tell one of my own old examples: Once went on a date with a girl and when i went to drop her off at her house i made out with her. She made fun of me and claimed my pre kiss line was awkward (shit test) which i failed miserably. Developed horrible oneitis. She distanced herself. I sent her flowers a week later because it was her birthday. Found out she went out with another guy on that night.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:46 AM
1

Really no posters? I have two but they're both framed and not just slapped onto my wall with a thumb tac. They're both music oriented and not for a video game or some shit.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:50 PM
2

Like you, I wanted to donate plasma because I thought it'd be an easy way to make extra money. I went one time and never went back. I felt like a lab rat and very out of place from the group of people that were in there. I was also extremely thirsty hours after I donated. In my opinion it really isn't worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:46 PM
9

It depends on what state of sleep you wake up in and how many deep sleep cycles you get. The optimal is 4-5 deep sleep cycles, which usually takes 8 hours.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 02:24 AM
2

Wow. Sounds exactly like mine. My dad had to work 2 jobs to make ends meet while my mom sleeps in 4 days a week, watches TV and doesn’t clean. Then tries to pass off working part time 3 days a week as a reason to say “our money”. After seeing my dad go through this I’ll never get married.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:58 PM
25

I wish i had this problem. lol
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:21 PM
2

I’m just speaking from experience man. I used to comment on girls snap stories when they’d post themselves half naked and I’ve accumulated 0 lays from it.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:50 PM
6

Doesn’t work. You will come off as a beta orbiter and give her the validation she’s looking for, which 100 other guys are also going to give her. Don’t do it
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:46 PM
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Would it be worth pursuing a girl who is a virgin and is supposedly saving sex for marriage? Buddy of mine's girlfriend has a friend who is into me, but when I asked how she was he told me she was saving sex for marriage. She's good looking, probably a HB7. Some chicks say this but may have been surrounded by beta orbiters their whole life and haven't had a guy who was able to break her frame and drop her panties. "I suppose theres only one way to find out," but should I save myself the hassle a…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 02:40 PM
1

A buddy of mine has found that sunflower seeds help curb some of his urges and keep his mind distracted from it
/r/askTRP12/04/18 07:21 PM
4

You used to not give a FUCK about discretion...
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:21 PM
1

I saw an endorsed contributor compare it before to skydiving. Would you go skydiving if, right before you leapt, the instructor said, “Wait! Only 50% of the backpacks have parachutes”..? I sure as fuck hope not. I am 23, and i understand that the culture of relationships aren’t anything at all like they were when my parents got married. And even then, i regret that my father married my mother. Sure it sounds contradicting because if he hadn’t then i probably wouldn’t be here, but when i realize …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 04:14 AM
1

and not exactly. he said "following sports is for kids." A lot of people make their livelihood because of sports.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:51 PM
1

Well you could say that for just about anything really. It is certainly not bad in moderation.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:50 PM
3

Yep. As long as a hobby doesn't eat into your productivity theres no issue. I play video games a couple hours a day after I manage to get done everything else that I need to.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:49 PM
0

Yep. Can definitely sense a bunch of neckbeards on this thread.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 06:49 PM
4

I obsessively follow a sports team and also "workout myself". There shouldn't be anything wrong with watching sports as a genuine hobby, especially when people like me, or anyone else for that matter, grew up playing them.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:59 PM
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Or do fantasy sports. Ive won a good bit of money doing that, as im sure many people have
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:56 PM
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What is wrong with watching sports? If you get genuine enjoyment out of them, just like you would a movie or any other television program, then who cares? If you are trying to create this illusion that watching them is a waste of time, then isn't doing ANYTHING besides self improvement or working on your career a waste also? Growing up playing a sport translates into an interest for watching them. I personally like the roller coaster of emotions I get from watching my favorite NFL team. You shou…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:55 PM
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I think that is just the nature of apps like Tinder anymore. Some girls use it strictly as an ego boost/dop hit and thats it. They swipe right on a certain dude in hopes that he already swiped and they get their validation. For every girl that replies to my messages, probably 3 of them don't or stop replying after a few exchanges. I don't care. I don't want to jump through a shit ton of hoops just to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:37 PM
2

When i benched on Friday i focused on breathing and noticed it did help. I still got a headache, but it wasn’t at all severe enough to deter me from benching.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 02:27 PM
10

I think the shit where you eat thing has exception to this. I’m same as as you, have many friends who are bartenders, and know chicks who bartend and everyone fucks everyone. It’s a temporary gig for most people. Who cares? Good stuff. Edit; same age as you*
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 09:23 PM
1

I think pre workouts are just another ploy for money anyhow. All they are is sugar and caffeine. 2 things u can get anywhere else
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 05:27 AM
11

Good: won my march madness pool for the third year in a row. Money will be used strictly toward savings. Started cycling onto creatine; i drink water all hours of the day now and am hydrated Bad: started getting exertion headaches while lifting and took a day off yesterday to try and see if that assists the matter at all. They are a real pain in the ass and are causing me to cut my workouts short. I get them during compound lifts like bench, squat, and overhead press, and then they will taper of…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 05:44 PM
1

Water intake is pretty substantial. I recently started cycling creatine so im drinking most, if not all hours of the day. As for sleep, I get a good 6-8 hours a night. It is never less than 6. However, I usually wake up still tired just about every morning.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 04:01 PM
1

Almost positive. I’ll go into the gym feeling totally fine, then when i do lift anything remotely heavy, it comes on outta nowhere
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 01:08 AM
2

Will definitely try and do both. Thanks for the advice!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:36 PM
1

I don’t use pre workouts at all, have tried before and i would get a really strange crash after I’d lift and be depressed/anxious for a little while lol. My body has an oddly low tolerance to caffeine. I get like that even if i drink too much coffee
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 11:36 PM
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Is anyone here familiar with exertion headaches from lifting? I’ve been getting them this past week and have had to cut my workouts short each time. I’m not doing any crazy amount of weight that i can’t handle, but i notice they’ve came on when I’ve benched, squatted, and did overhead press today.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/18 10:39 PM
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I’ve always felt that the gym is a strange place to try and game up women. I’ve never approached any girl there who i didn’t already know. I’m only there for about an hour at a time as is, but i would feel very strange approaching a chick out of the blue in between her sets. If you see her outside of the gym, then you’d have a basis to approach her and stroke up a convo.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:10 AM
1

Ahhh okay i see where you’re coming from now. Sometimes it’s hard to interpret tone on the interwebz. Anyway, i was about a sniff away from totally ruining my life because of that shit so i hate to see anyone justify using it for any reason
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:28 PM
2

You must’ve missed the part where i said “don’t do coke in general.” Pure coke is practically non existent. And like you said, non excessive amounts wont prevent an erection. But there’s the problem in and of itself. The fact that anyone would advise doing coke to help last longer like the jackass in the comments is terrible for too many reasons to list.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:54 PM
1

I played sports just about my whole life and played college baseball for a couple years so i always had an athletic build although i was still skinny. My problem was that after i stopped playing I’d lift for 3-4 months at a time then get bored and quit and look like a sissy again
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 11:42 PM
1

When i measured a month ago i was 16%. Right now I’d say I’m probably 14%. That’s just me going off the eye test and comparing what i am now to what i was a month ago
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 10:32 PM
1

im about in the same boat you're in. im also 6'4 but about 190ish pounds. I was having difficulty deciding whether to cut or bulk, and just decided to eat at a slight surplus and lift heavy as possible. im less skinny fat than I was a month ago, and Im starting to get a decent figure
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 07:39 PM
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Week 5. Good: Seeing great gains in the gym. I am roughly the same weight I was a month ago when I picked back up with lifting, but I am definitely stronger and can see some subtle changes to my appearance. Looks like im recomping a little bit. Diet has been remarkable Paid off last few expenses for trip to Europe in summer. Bad: Been a slow week with gaming. Was sick last weekend, didn't feel up to it to go out to the bar when I wasn't at 100% and sounded like a 70 year old chain smoker Was try…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 03:17 PM
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Cocaine???? Probably not Do not do cocaine if you’re trying to combat PE. Don’t do cocaine in general. You won’t even get hard. Coke dick is a very real thing. I’ve experienced this firsthand too many times.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 12:21 AM
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Making eggs sounds like the least amount of fun I’ve ever heard of, please do not go do that
/r/askTRP29/03/18 03:22 AM
2

This is the first wedding I’ll be apart of in my life so your input here in greatly appreciated. Before this if only been to 2 wedding receptions in my life. Thanks for the advice. Definitely going to go this route.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 09:21 PM
2

when this happens I replace 'rp' or 'bp' with 'red pill' and 'blue pill' respectively and it seems to work.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 06:21 PM
5

Well thats my question. Would I be better off bringing a plate or just winging it and seeing what the field has to offer at the wedding?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 04:58 PM
5

She might be a catfish. And even if she were real I’d never take a flight just to meet a match on tinder
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:06 PM
12

What's TRP's take on bringing a plate/date to weddings? Buddy of mine is getting married in a couple months and I am groomsman. Id try and go after a bridesmaid, since they're the most vulnerable ones there, but most of them are in LTR's or aren't above a 5.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 02:02 PM
1

Yep, they’re the most vulnerable ones at the whole wedding
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:44 PM
2

Ill let all my dumb friends make that mistake and then just get drunk for free and bang the bridesmaids.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:36 PM
2

And a HUGE financial burden lol.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:26 PM
1

I can't comment on shingles, but I wash my face with every morning and night and at any extra time that it feels oily (im part Italian, so this is quite a bit)
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:09 PM
2

I don't disagree with you, but I am saying there are people who get married for the reasons I stated.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:52 PM
1

"I can't fold a fitted bedsheet." Seriously. Being funny helps. I once said this as a weakness and I got offered the job.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:33 PM
4

I would go see a dermatologist man. They know your best course of action better than anyone on the internet. When I had horrible acne a few years ago, I tried every OTC product you can think of. Wasn't until I went to the dermatologist that my acne started disappearing.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:31 PM
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Man, I can't tell you how many times the whole "breakfast" ordeal has sent chicks running in the opposite direction for me. Looking back on it I just want to kick the shit out of my old self. Needless to say, I didn't proceed to have relations with any of those chicks who I so badly wanted to have a cup of coffee and a waffle with.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 05:39 PM
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Because society tells us so. Because it’s the “norm”. Both of which are terrible reasons.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:47 PM
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With girls it’s possible. But youre making a comparison between yourself and a girl. It is not at all linear like that. I have over 1k followers and there’s a shit ton of girls with higher SMV than me with less followers. Girls naturally have a higher SMV by default Edit:
/r/askTRP25/03/18 08:40 PM
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Basing SMV off of how many social media followers you have is a terrible idea
/r/askTRP25/03/18 06:35 PM
2

Nope. You did fine. If she wanted you to go down on her and you did, that’s kinda entering her frame. If i go down on a chick, it’s on my own terms. If i catch a bad whiff then it just isn’t happening.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 09:29 PM
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I think texting for logistics only really only works after you’ve already fucked or one whose SMV is much lower than yours. There seems to be a discrepancy between old and new RPers with this. You don’t have to text them all day, but if you come off as too forward it’s going to seem like you only want to fuck (which you do anyway) but the chick is going to pick up on this and ASD will kick in.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:52 PM
2

To be honest, I never really lacked at approaching or gaming. Before I discovered TRP I had success going up to chicks and hitting it off. But the ensuing time after was always my downfall. I would text them for days after I met them and always convinced myself that "this was the one"..and id be wrong every time and scare them off. As for game itself, I just keep the conversation as light as possible, make fun of something she's wearing, initiate gentle touching, and then try and move it to the …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 07:19 PM
1

4th week in. Good: Went out for St. Patty's day and did a pretty good job of approaching and gaming women. I got entirely too drunk, but by the end of the night I talked/gamed/danced with about 5 different chicks. got a couple makeouts and numbers but no f-close - gotta crawl before you can walk I guess. one of the chicks I gamed up is a friend of one of my previous plates. she didn't seem to mind this too much, though because we danced and made out. maybe I should try this more often productivi…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 05:03 PM
13

Ive had PE for the majority of my life due to horrible past masturbating habits. These encounters took place mostly before I even began swallowing the pill. If you finish quickly, so long as you play it off cool the chick won't really care, at least in my experiences. Ive sent them on their way, didn't contact for a couple days, then set up another meeting with no problem. Im not advising you do this every time, but alcohol can help. There are times im not able to finish when drunk.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:23 PM
0

I was asking a rhetorical question Einstein. I know this. I was emphasizing my point of why chicks just use tinder for that sole reason.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:15 PM
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I’m not buying that. So why are they even on the app in the first place or why bother swiping right? That’s literally the whole point
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:18 AM
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I’ve been trying to use it the past few weeks and it seems pretty dead. I get a good amount of matches but when i message the chicks they don’t respond or unmatch me. Pretty sure a good percentage of chicks just use it as an ego boost anymore Edit: I’m 23 fwiw
/r/askTRP23/03/18 01:11 AM
1

As someone who worked in the STEM career services office at my university, I can tell you computer science has one of the best job outlooks, demand, and salary for entry level college grads. Their starting salaries are among the highest of all undergraduate majors. Make sure to explore and apply for any internship/co-ops as you can. This will greatly benefit you by giving you experience before entering the job market. It'll also bump up your starting salary some if you have prior experience.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 05:58 PM
3

Im just here for the scraps.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 07:08 PM
1

Since you put it that way, you're fucked if you do and fucked if you don't I guess
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:57 PM
3

My only issue is that my mom is a lunatic and has a problem letting ANYONE over our house without a month's notice. I've snuck girls in after a night at the bar before and its worked...most of the time ill just fuck at their place but man does it suck not having my own space at my disposal because im sometimes reluctant to try and escalate since I live at home. feel like if I did live on my own, the amount of ass I get would increase tenfold
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 02:22 PM
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IS RP'ing possible when you still live at home? Go ahead and berate me, I know im a grown man (23) and moving out is currently #1 on my priority list. Just graduated college in December and currently trying to figure out what direction to go in next. I have a job but im trying to decide on whether to go to grad school or not. Really not trying to take on more debt than I already have from undergrad. Anyone have experience on landing chicks while still living at home?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:41 PM
5

I’m in the same dilemma. I sure as fuck don’t want a wife. Being tied down to one, aging pussy for the rest of my life or divorce. I’m not interested in either option. I’d like to somehow have sons. Maybe do what Ronaldo does (if you have the money) and get surrogates.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:00 AM
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Most of the time i usually never have any trouble. Then other times, whether it be because i am too drunk or into my own head too much, he doesn’t wanna stand up. Then again, hard to find any guy who’s batting a thousand
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:48 AM
2

An erection Edit: it appears someone beat me to the punch
/r/askTRP19/03/18 09:16 PM
1

The important part is I’ve been in the gym for the past month. Some days I’ll eat surplus and others I’ll eat at a deficit. But you’re right that the results won’t vary too much
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 05:59 PM
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Thanks for the reply man. I may just need to lift weights in general to get a nice base and then evaluate after a few months. Problem is i always quit lifting after a few months, but its going to have to be different this time around.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 05:37 PM
2

Yes. Don’t be a mute
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:28 PM
2

3rd week in the books. Positive: successfully gamed up a couple girls at a party last Saturday. Escalated with one enough to get back to her place only for her to have lost her key to get in (whether this was LMR or not who knows, but she was only about a HB6-7 so she blew her chance, not me) Gym 5/5 days. Staying very consistent with this even when I have a busy schedule as opposed to making an excuse when I have a busy day like I used to. Going out for St. Patty's day tomorrow, so going to wor…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 02:00 PM
4

Like you, I'm very much at a standstill as to whether I should cut or bulk. Im 6'4 192lbs and not sure much muscle would be showing through if I cut, but Id hate to put on more fat in the process of bulking because im currently ~15% body fat. Id love to be 200-210 just with much less body fat.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 01:35 PM
1

You need to read “How To Get Laid Like a Warlord” in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:30 AM
3

Tony Soprano
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:18 PM
1

Let it go brother. If she texts back, great. If not, there are millions of other chicks that have what she has. She is not special.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:55 PM
6

Don't put on a front man. You don't have to post a snap story or Ig story or IG pic to seek validation. Thats what girls do. Its very easy to tell when people post just for the fuck of it and are in desperate need of attention. Instead, post stuff you genuinely feel is interesting and is worth relaying to your followers.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 01:14 PM
3

10+ sentences = oneitis. Come on man.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:17 AM
1

I don’t post that often. Maybe once a week or so. If I’m at a party or something funny happens, then yeah I’ll post, otherwise i don’t really like posting because i don’t want to give off a vibe that I’m trying too hard to get attention. Other ways to go about doing that. Plus you’re kinda more mysterious that way. Sometimes it’s better if people don’t always know what you’re up to
/r/askTRP13/03/18 03:03 AM
2

Never once in my blue pilled past has getting a woman flowers ever worked out for me. So its a no from me.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:55 PM
3

Honestly man you just gotta feel it out. If any chick catches your eye at all that means full speed ahead. Don’t wait. Go up to her and shoot your shot. Talk to her, find a couch over in the corner or something, and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 01:07 AM
2

What is your current BF % in that picture?
/r/askTRP09/03/18 08:47 PM
6

Maintaining frame, handling shit tests in a MUCH better way, being more relaxed in my approach, and basically just not giving a fuck about the outcome of whether or not I get rejected.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 08:02 PM
2

Game other women. Onwards and upwards. If your post about a girl is 10 sentences or longer, you have oneitis. You're better than this man. This chick probably isn't bothering to give you a second of her time yet here you are writing about her on the internet. Have some respect for yourself.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:45 PM
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Positive: Been to the gym every weekday for the past 2 weeks. even talked myself into doing cardio last Saturday. planned a trip to Europe with my friends. originally I was out on the idea, but after crunching some numbers I found out id be able to afford it. have had sex twice in the past week with 2 different girls, and hung out with another one on but didn't fuck. Wouldn't you know it, TRP theories are actually working. Hopefully can keep developing plates. planning to go to party on Saturday…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 02:11 PM
1

I guess that is where the discrepancy lies then. If you fap for a long time, say 20-30 min, and then bust after that time frame, your mind will adjust accordingly over time. However, if you were like me, whacked it once a day and got off in 3 mins, you’re gonna develop PE when the time comes for sex.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 01:34 AM
1

Definitely not. Jerking off every day is 100% not the answer. Source: i used to jerk off every day and couldn’t last for more than a minute. This is because when you do it this often you train your brain to blow your load as quick as possible. This is also a great way to get ED. I would suggest edging. You have to get used to the feeling of stimulus without popping your cap. Not sure if you’re a drinker, but a couple drinks used to help me last long. Not enough to where you can’t get it up, beca…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 12:52 AM
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TLDR man.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 12:45 AM
26

I was playing a game without the rules, instructions and blindfolded. If there was ever a line that I've read since discovering TRP that related to my blue pill past, this one trumps all of them. I have lost count of all of my blue pill examples that have driven women away and was always left wondering why in the fuck it never worked. Then I stumbled upon TRP and everything became clear as day.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 08:51 PM
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If it’s for logistics, waiting 10 hours to reply might not do you any favors. Maybe around an hour or so and obviously be direct as to not waste your time. Get to the point so you know if she’s about it or not.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 01:35 PM
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It’s a common TRP theme not to text at all unless it’s for logistics. If she’s taking that long to text back I’m going to assume her interest is low. But for the sake of answering the question, I’d text back the next day or not at all.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 01:30 PM
2

That’s more or less what i did. I stood there for a sec after i said it, she didn’t say anything, i walked away.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 10:29 PM
1

Thats the vibe I picked up from her which is why I walked away. She has a reputation for being pretty snobby - daddy is super rich and she lives a pretty lavish lifestyle because of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 08:42 PM
7

Slowly learning this as Ive started swallowing TRP. That was just an example from my old full blown blue pill self.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 08:14 PM
1

Would you recommend a diet like this for someone with my dimensions? 23, 6'4, 192 lbs and about 16% body fat. There was a time ~2-3 years ago when I was in the best shape of my life, weighing about 178lbs, and id like to get back to that and then bulk. I have an awful gut right now that I need to get rid of.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 06:04 PM
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Handling a shit test: Ive read the sidebar material relating to shit tests and it has helped me tremendously. However, there was one time in my past in particular where I cold approached and got truly stuck and failed. Gave her a bad pickup line and her response was: "Is that seriously the best pickup line you have?" (in a very condescending tone) If something like this were to happen again, what would be the best way for me to go about it? When it happened, I ignored and walked away. AA, DA, et…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 03:46 PM
21

As long as you aren't like Logan Paul, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 03:42 PM
3

I am assuming you're about 22 years old. I am 23 but I had a similar problem in high school. I was your exact height and 140lbs soaking wet when I graduated. I was a multi-sport athlete until my sophomore year of HS then played college baseball for 2 years. Gained about 20lbs my first year of college, and 50lbs total leading me to ~190 right now. If your metabolism isn't slowing down as you get older, you may have a hormonal problem. another explanation could be that it is taking longer because …
/r/askTRP07/03/18 03:36 PM
1

If I had a reliable/steady access to LSD id be more than willing to try it out for myself. For reasons you stated, it is much safer than adderall too. I recently graduated college and toward the end of my last semester I relied upon adderall heavily to complete my assignments. I also did a research project on LSD for my pharmacology class. it is slowly being integrated and tested for its medical use, and a huge misconception that people have is that its addictive and disastrous.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 02:37 PM
1

Very interested to know about the microdose of LSD. I can definitely see how this could help with creativity, but am wondering about any effect at such a low dose. Ive used LSD once - took a half tab of ~60ug and had a very pleasant and enjoyable trip. Though I did find it pretty difficult to conjure up coherent sentences and talk effortlessly.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 02:20 PM
3

Thats what snapchat is for. just don't overdo it.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:45 PM
3

Ive only recently gotten Better at shit tests but it would depend on what she's saying. you could ignore, but on the flip side, since she shit tested you thru text, you have more time to articulate a proper response.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:34 PM
3

the few times that I've ghosted women that I lost interest in and began to feel bad about it, I just remember the 1000 other times that it used to happen to me. Thats the way of the world and TRP. I became a better man because of being ghosted by females when I was super beta.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:28 PM
1

very fair question. Theres honestly no reason to outside of the times I occasionally post pictures. Sometimes ill post 2 within a week, other times ill go months like I initially stated. The only time I post is when I genuinely feel like something cool has happened to me that I want to share with my followers. Otherwise, id say I waste a lot of time on the app. I could say that I keep it around to like pics and make my presence known, however I know there are other ways to Go about this that pro…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:16 PM
1

I wouldn't call it social suicide, but it may greatly hinder you. Im about your age. That just seems to be the way the world works today. I would not use it for validation however. A lot of girls like to use it for this purpose and it is blatantly obvious. I post a picture on instagram every couple months which basically conveys how busy I am doing other things rather than stopping every 4 hours to take a picture, yet still doing something interesting.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:21 PM
1

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:47 AM
7

Yup. My guy put it perfectly and it’s common theme on this sub. There’s nothing that one girl has that you can’t find in another one.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:56 AM
27

You need to detach yourself. This isn’t a LTR and she is clearly not the type for that if she’s pulling shit like that. You’re too invested. That’s your problem man. Plate or next.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:40 AM
3

Had a similar situation happen recently. I did manage to make out with her but when I’d try some kino and try grabbing her ass she hated it. Save yourself the time by learning from the time i wasted. Next
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:24 AM
1

Thank you for putting it this way. After considering this and coming to the realization that I took the time to actually post about it at all in the first place, I answered my own question.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 09:23 PM
1

You can only do it as amicably as possible, and if she has a bad reaction then thats because of how she is wired. It may not be possible. She might burn the whole bridge herself, and if she does, oh well.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:37 PM
2

I played baseball all of high school and for a few years in college. I play in a men's rec league in the summer time as well as a slow pitch softball league. Ive recently also taken up bocce and its surprisingly a lot of fun and pretty competitive. Next on the list it to teach myself guitar. I got no clue what your past consists of, but rec sports in general are usually a good option.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:53 PM
1

Thats generally what I was going to offer up. Honestly id rather her not reply at all so that I don't feel compelled to reply and can just put it behind me. I know I don't have to in the first place, but I'm still internalizing the RP concepts one day at a time. I seem to be having trouble with the curve of soft nexting a girl who shows low interest, then she'll reach out X days later and its like a lose-lose situation.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:46 PM
6

Really needed this. A similar situation to yours caused me to begin RP ways recently. 2 weeks in, and I’ve been loving the process the whole way. Thanks for this, OP Edit: just would also like to say that if this situation i mentioned didn’t occur, i would have never stumbled upon TRP. That was where i drew the line in the sand. If my oneitis hadn’t gotten the best of me and that female hadn’t went cold, I’d still be my old beta blue pill self.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 04:53 AM
2

Likewise. Good luck my man
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:10 AM
4

There’s nothing wrong with ignoring chicks to an extent. I have this same problem. I feel compelled to always answer a girl I’m trying to fuck and i end up texting too much, i get oneitis, and the girl goes cold. Hate to make it seem like it’s a game but it really is. Texting them non stop has literally NEVER worked out for me. So the only way around this is to reply for a little then stop when the conversation gets going and you can tell she’s engaged. Then she’ll wonder why you stopped replyin…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:05 AM
5

What you’re doing wrong = not having other women as options. Abundance mentality my friend. She flakes and you either: A) attempt to make plans with another female B) have backup plans, such as hanging with friends C) doing something productive that improves your value (lift, clean, laundry, study etc) I used to have this problem quite frequently and I’m still fairly new to TRP like you. There are times when girls flake and still offer a date to reschedule only to have that fall through too. Sof…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:57 AM
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I’d like to emphasize this comment here. If you’re smart about who you have sex with, condoms should not matter. To me they’ve been more of a nuisance than a convenience. I haven’t used a condom in probably 2 years. Might my luck run out some time? Sure. But I’m not stupid. I don’t blow my load inside chicks. Nor do i have sex with girls who I’m not comfortable with, question whether or not they’re on birth control, or feel might have an STD. If you pull out of a chick but some of your jizz some…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 06:47 AM
1

Reading the sidebar. Learning not to give a damn what my friends or girls thought about me (to an extent). Letting go of my fear of rejection
/r/askTRP03/03/18 06:12 AM
2

"They're all pink on the inside." "A wet mouth is a wet mouth."
/r/askTRP02/03/18 08:30 PM
9

She's not the one, she's not special, its just your turn. I have never been in a LTR so take what I say with a grain of salt - but I would just deflect any of those statements and diffuse any talk of that sort of stuff whenever she makes it. If marriage is a goal of yours, keep in mind your thoughts from your post. 21, lifting, soon to be doctor. you are the prize. she should be afraid to lose you.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:01 PM
1

That definitely crossed my mind before I did it yet I proceeded to do it anyway. She then posted them to one of her social media accounts, probably as a way of showing off and attempting to boost her SMV, all while at my expense. Additionally, my former blue pill self would do things like this as a "last ditch/Hail Mary" to assess whether or not it was worth it to continue pursuing the girl. Needless to say, it has never worked, and whoever the girl was at the time would go cold on me shortly af…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 04:51 PM
3

Swallowed TRP about 2 weeks ago, so I will start from then and go forward with my progress. I have seen big improvements and changes since doing so. Also, I am 23M. Before I swallowed TRP: - took an old classmate out for drinks, escalated to K-close in my car before dropping her off. she poked fun at my awkwardness proceeded to develop oneitis for said female her birthday was the following week, so I had flowers delivered to her (berate me, I know. I now realize how dumb this was for me to do ev…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 03:44 PM
2

Had the same issue as you man. Slowly fixing it with abundance mentality and just doing my due diligence of TRP literature to reaffirm that I don't need outside validation. My want to text females constantly has never gotten me anywhere. Ever. So I constantly remind myself of this so I don't keep doing it. And of course, as other commenters here have mentioned, stay busy and do things that improve yourself.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 03:00 PM
1

I think you misinterpreted what i said. Re-evaluate what exactly? OP asked for advice and i gave my 2 cents. I don’t drink a 6 pack every time i talk to a chick if that’s what you got out of it. But nonetheless, alcohol can be helpful in some regard. I spit better game when I’m drunk. A lot of guys do. In the meantime, I’m trying to get my game as good sober as it is when drunk. that’s why I’m here on TRP. That’s why we’re all here.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:44 PM
1

Find a cheap local college and go with that. I lived at home during college to save money and not have to pay rent (kinda sucked) but it goes quick. You may not have one, so if that’s the case then maybe look for a campus job at wherever you end up that does work-study and can help knock some off of your tuition. Edit: also, after your first year, if you get good grades then apply for scholarships. Go to your schools financial aid office and apply for anything you are eligible for. I actually en…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 12:10 PM
1

“Rule #27 - don’t overdrink. The machinery must work in order to close.” I would say find the balance between having a nice buzz and the point where you start getting sleepy. This has always proven most optimal for me. I normally can’t last more than a minute without alcohol. (It helps if she’s drunk too). I’m 6’4 and about 190. For me, I’d say 6 beers or 3-4 mixed drinks is enough to settle my nerves.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:52 PM
5

"Nice"
/r/askTRP01/03/18 06:59 PM
1

Im 6'4 and about 190 right now. Recently swallowed TRP and hoping to get to about ~200-210 by putting on muscle and losing the pudge I have (kinda skinny fat rn because my diet was awful). Looking for the same results you are my friend, good luck.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:54 PM
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True but i would be careful with this. If you sit there in silence the girl will probably think you can’t conjure up anything interesting to talk about or keep her engaged. Girls already keep conversations going so you have to be well equipped with responses if you want to get anywhere. At least that’s my takeaway from my experiences.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:04 AM
1

I’d kill to be able to go for 10 min non drunk
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:21 AM
3

They don’t. Not me at least. Newly swallowed TRP and that’s what brought me here in the first place.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 01:20 AM
1

Genetics matter but not as much as you think man. I’ve seen it first hand. A kid i played baseball with in high school was 120 pounds soaking wet. He put on over 100lbs of solid muscle with nothing more than his determination, a great diet, and protein supplements. That’s it. I’ll even show you if you don’t believe me.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:18 AM
1

...then why are you even here?
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:14 AM
5

I would not do this. Do not say oops. She is shit testing you. See the first comment/reply. Try any of those
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:12 AM
1

Honestly that’s not a bad way to be if you’re gonna adopt TRP. I’d rather be that way than show too much emotion like my old blue pill self.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:02 AM
1

Sucks man. Hoping to get my own place within the next year.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 01:03 AM
1

If I could go back in time and slap the shit out of my blue pill high school self, Id do that and then kick him while he was down for good measure. The only way you should be thinking to date in high school is if it is on your terms. This situation does not appear to be that way. I went through your exact situation in high school about 5 times over man. Talk to other girls. She will take notice and flock back to you.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:42 PM
1

If she didn't offer a date to reschedule id soft next her man. You got other plates anyway. If you really want to see it through, text in a couple days and try to plan another day to meet. If she says no or doesn't offer again, you know where you stand.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:35 PM
2

If you aint freakin, we aint speakin.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:15 PM
2

Im not here to thwart you about your drug use (okay maybe I am), but Id cut that shit out immediately if I was you. I know this because I WAS you. Used to bang this chick about a year ago and the first time I tried I couldn't get it up because I was coked out. Luckily she gave me another chance after that and we hit it off pretty well. Haven't been around that shit nor desire to touch it since. I think you may be over analyzing a bit. You basically answered your own question. She wouldn't ask if…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:01 PM
1

My mother is very similar to yours OP. And like you, i also love at home for right now so i am constantly dealing with her interrogating me over just about everything. She is negative by nature and always assumes the worst will come of just about any situation (real example - told her i was going on a Euro trip with friends this summer; she replies by saying “no you aren’t! Planes are dangerous and something could go wrong and you don’t know what it’s like over there). I am going anyway, but tho…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 12:36 PM
3

I’m gonna echo what this guy is saying here. It could be a) you lack abundance mentality or b) you’re developing oneitis. Ive been guilty of developing the latter and becoming emotionally invested just like you, but this is countered by having options and gaming up multiple women. It takes some practice to be able to tell yourself to not care about the girl you are invested in but it will catch on and become easier to avoid once you have options.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 12:20 PM
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Relatively new here and I’ve only begun to swallow TRP, but from context of what I’ve read so far this sounds like a shit test to me. Not sure if you’ve read any of the sidebar but I’d say you handled it the way you should have by ignoring her complaints. It can be a challenge to get a girl like that under control by gaming her unless you’re experienced, but it wouldn’t have been a bad idea to since you gotta start somewhere.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:51 AM
1

2 days late here, being new to TRP, but no worries man - best of luck to you. If it makes you feel better, I would consider myself totally blue pill all my life yet have somehow bagged 15+ chicks, yet I can't last for more than 30 seconds unless I am drunk. Just keep banging left and right till you build some stamina and good luck.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:58 PM
1

Depending on how she received you during your initial contact, a call wouldn't be a bad thing so long as you come off as confident. However I would make sure to call at a time where you KNOW for SURE she is free. if you call and she doesn't answer because she is busy, this may signal to her that you have bad timing. That is why texting Is usually more convenient and something I would side with - however Im totally new to TRP.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:01 PM
2

I am a new guy attempting to swallow TRP and like you, I struggle with laziness. However, today I am renewing my gym membership after not going for ~2 months. What helped me is constant, positive, self-reassurance and the strong desire that I NEED to improve my life. Also, having discipline is absolutely imperative. "Doing something you don't want to do, when you don't want to do it." When I was going to the gym, there were days I would feel sore or tired and skip out. This time around, I will n…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 04:39 PM
1

I would wait until she offers a date since she pulled the whole sick excuse on you when you were supposed to meet. As a guy who has constantly dealt with flakey women, Ive since learned to disregard the ones who flake and don't offer a counter when doing so.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 04:16 PM
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