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Self confidence is not a hormonal thing. It is in part. I know that from experience. But if it isn't in your case then other areas should be examined. I like BDSM fantasies and kind of special things more than to feeling aroused by random women I mean, those are two extremes. What about just normally connecting with someone you run into in the course of daily life, doing the things you normally do? Being aroused by "random women" may not be you, but equally you're not going to connect with anyon…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/23 03:23 AM
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Then you have work to do. People can change and improve. You're not stuck like that. You just have to make an effort and figure out ways to put yourself in social situations where you're going to feel the most comfortable, or the least uncomfortable if you want to look at it like that. You will feel uncomfortable at first, and you will get over it. This is how it works, there's no way around it. And sexual tension is an energy you build with your confidence. They go hand in hand. As you build yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/23 02:37 PM
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I mean, the fact that he feels the need to constantly tell you how attractive other women find him suggests he isn't as mature and emotionally intelligent as you believe. I would just end the games and say to him "is there a reason you keep telling me how attractive other women find you?" and see what happens. At the least it should reveal more of what kind of a person he really is to you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 10:12 PM
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Also foraging. Learning what grows in your area (if you're not smack in the middle of the city) gives you access to high nutritional value foods at zero cost and effort.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 09:20 PM
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Just prepare for a collapse of sorts within your own community. That's half the battle right there.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 04:17 PM
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Ruling class' interests are government interests. If you look at the past half century or so, you have many prominent figures saying on many occasions that a reduction in human birth rate is desirable.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 04:17 PM
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I think with regards to elderly being creepy, I suspect a lot of them are lonely. Many people in the west have completely forgotten about the notion of respecting your elders and looking after them in old age, not to mention the modern toxic lifestyle making them much sicker than they ever were before. Being old in 2023 must be pretty awful. At least most of those men are pretty harmless in terms of what theyre going to actually do. Its the young men that need to learn how to engage a woman prop…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 07:32 PM
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He clearly explained how it helped him get over mental obstacles, get a better understanding of what's important, and move on from obsessing over sex with women and get chasing his goals. Maybe you didn't read carefully enough.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/23 12:27 PM
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Are you physically attracted to him? Like, I sense that maybe he's not a knockout 10/10, but was there physical attraction there at all on your part before the incident?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/23 06:14 PM
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Glad you found it useful. Even if not regimented, whatever you can do to get blood pumping and toxins and waste being moved out, even if it's just dancing to some beats in your room or doing starjumps, anything helps keep the process going in the right direction.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/22 01:37 PM
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Before you try medication - Eat green vegetables. Raw ones. They changed my life. I found out that most of the time, our bodies are wandering around in a state of malnourishment. I've suffered from many of the things on your list, and I can tell you with absolute certainty that they got easier to cope with when I started eating what nature intended. There's a reason every other animal on earth eats an abundance of green leafy things - high fiber, cleans out our gut from toxins, high pH (alkalini…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 11:42 PM
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Chose the way of suffering that you want so a random type of suffering doesn't auto-assign itself to you. It won't be "automatic". My experience says that someone else in your life will make you suffer for their benefit.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 10:13 PM
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I think a big problem is I was literally taught to debate anyone who didn't share my viewpoint while growing up. That's not the problem. The only problem is knowing how to debate effectively without alienating your audience, and knowing when it is a futile endeavour, and moving things on like you mentioned. Debate is literally the means through which we sift through good and bad ideas and come to a better understanding of things. You shouldn't want to lose that. But if you weren't doing it in a …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 03:03 PM
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Unfortunately a lot of times when I set back though then he ends up getting us screwed over until I step in and do something. That's why you don't sit back but you take it on as a team. I really think for many guys it's a confidence/experience thing, and he'll grow into it. Just approach these situations a bit like you would a job, and if he tries to shy away, just be firm and be like "No, we're gonna sort this out now, let's figure out how". You could do a reset on this mentally, and see it as …
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 12:05 PM
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Simple really. Your assertiveness can help him get on top of that. Nothing wrong with you being the leader there if it's not his natural forte. If he relies on you, and gets worse at it instead of better, that's the red flag. I guess the next test is the neighbours' son. Be firm that you want him to sort it out, and see how he handles it. Work out strategy together if necessary, and then let him execute, build up his confidence. On the last thing you said, "getting better at it on his own", that…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/21 11:43 PM
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Yep. Really you already know if he respects you, based on 2 years of friendship - unless he suddenly becomes distant and stops communicating with you tomorrow. Guys generally don't spend two years with someone just on the chance that they'll be FWB.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 10:05 PM
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So yes he need to reach out too and you mustn't be the only one to do it and organize things. But please don't forget to remember to your reader that it's a balance and that they mustn't go too far, lot of women are sadly already in this extreme of never showing interest... Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 03:04 PM
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Yes - eliminate dairy from your diet, and replace some meat with lentils/pulses. I had really bad skin for ages until I decided to clean my diet up. It dramatically improved in a matter of weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/20 07:08 AM
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Force your way in by finding a problem with the existing project if you can. Don't propose that you then go and sort it out to your superior, say 'X is a issue for Y reasons, I am going to go in and do Z to sort it out'. Stop briefly and wait for permission, but in the kind of 'I'm ready to go and sort this out right now, don't get in my way' kind of stance.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/19 08:21 PM
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It's not about unlearning per se. If you just unlearn one set of beliefs and replace them with another, you've gone nowhere. Do some reading and have a think about what drives the feminist agenda, why you identified with it, and why you don't any longer. Extract the wisdom from where you came from and use it to better yourself, others and your relationships going forward.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 06:11 PM
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You should absolutely grow what you can. Spring onions, lettuce, tomatoes - and cleaner air for your home too. Have a look at this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ja-AaxeLspo
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/19 04:46 PM
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I thought OP had edited and I deleted the original post. Depends what you're opening her mind to. Hopefully it's better stuff than what you wrote. Some people would open a girls legs, and then fill their minds with poisonous but seductive words, mainly bullshit, just to keep them hooked. Sure, I agree that it's a confused post in some ways, but he's fresh from a messy divorce and working his way into this - and you're acting like your way is the gospel way to go about this. And then you just mak…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 11:52 PM
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If they both had a great time, didn't they both win?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 06:04 PM
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Haha I disagree with that last part, depends on what else is going on. Two hands, legs, thighs and mouths can do a heck of a lot in two hours.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 06:02 PM
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I'm a guy and the 'best friend' first mentaity that I thought was the 'right' way to go about it spoilt many potential relationships which had real chemistry in the beginning. For me it's been the school of hard knocks to get what you're talking about here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 04:43 PM
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Well, with Raymond I guess it's the Italian-American thing... Italian women definitely live up to the stereotype of being firey and strong-willed in my experience. But seems that they're very much the exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 10:41 PM
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This is a great analysis. Media Studies students would do well to read this and consider how the narratives on gender have evolved over the past 25 years. Like many shifts it happened over years, and I don't think it was deliberate either - they just saw the potential for slapstick humour with Homer and ran with it without ever really considering the impact on his value as a father. Then they had to expand to him going on crazy adventures as all they ran out of 'normal' family life situations to…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/18 01:25 AM
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I hope she one day gets in touch with her roots. What country did the emigrate from? I'm thinking about this, and kids growing up in Western societies just don't respect their culture - and rightly so. They instinctively sense how shallow it is, sense hypocrisy and bullcrap everywhere, and parents feel like they have to pretend because they work in the system to get by, but pretending just makes everything ten times as bad. There's a whole generation of young people now that are really going to …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 10:29 PM
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The interesting thing is how many people here would make a pass on a girl like her if they were approached? There's a lot of people who want what a girl like her has to offer - then after they see she's damaged in some way they would basically discard her like something you buy in a supermarket.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 07:55 PM
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Props for adding abandonment - it doesn't have to be some awful harrowing story of sexual abuse. What is more likely is the father was't there enough to discipline her in a fatherly way, and the mother thought that material things paid for by the seven figure sum he spent all his time on could replace some needed discipline. Often it starts innocently enough when they're young and parents want to pamper them, and by the time they hit teens it's all gone way out of control.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 07:51 PM
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I wouldn't claim to know your mother (despite the abundance of innuendo I could use right now) - but 'mentally ill' are very strong words to use. Women are not mentally ill. Emotional outburts are normal part of life if you let feelings build up, especially for Women who are more biologically programmed towards seeing things through their emotions.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 07:44 PM
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Right, so whether it is a direct choice or unintended consequence, it is working out as they would have wanted it to. It's the challenge for intellectuals and researchers to go into those environments and still challenge the students to debate these important issues. Elsewhere we just need to maintain different spaces - like this one - to present challenging ideas, and figure out how they work in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/18 10:44 AM
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To all the people crapping on this - just over halfway through, she hit on something worth considering - that capitalists deliberately funded the feminist movement because it makes us the enemy, rather than the capitalists. That's how it became so huge.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/18 03:27 PM
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Reposting this quote from the OP: Thank you. Glad someone got where I was coming from, we rent, everything’s split in half and we adopted the cat. He did have other romantic interests in that time but always had a connection :) Just to add a bit of context we met when he was 11 and I was 13, when I said I liked bad boys I was on about in that teenage way - that I just had bad taste, you can have bad taste and not be fucking every guy in town. I was not out fucking a ton of guys. He has not been …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 04:32 PM
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I guess it's best to stick to talking about our own experiences, rather than judging situations like that. When we don't know the facts it's too easy to let our imaginations fill in the gaps.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 10:06 AM
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Hah it's cool. I was ready for downvotes but I'm glad I got upvoted in the end, because to me it shows that people here don't just want to be alpha-males at any cost, and it's good to know that's not what this sub is about.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 09:46 AM
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Yes that's all true and I empathize with anyone who's actually had to go through that kind of hell. It just doesn't mean it's what every woman, or even most women want. The OP seems to really wanting to see that sort of thing, and that just messes up your judgment and any potential relationships. Either that or just posting for the karma he knows he'd get on here. Here's what I'd want for myself and others - ideally I want to go into every situation open to the fact that I might find a woman on …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 09:37 AM
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This A used-up, post-wall skank who has seen miles of dick and will do nothing for him but spend his money and occasionally give him duty sex with her twat that has been cummed in by dozens of other men. is way too far. You don't think Women should be allowed to sleep with different men before settling down without being called a whore? Or is that just a privilege reserved for Men? Many on here will tell you that experienced women can be worth their weight in gold, in terms of not having to put …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/18 08:50 PM
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Sounds silly, but I thought the same thing on my side. I thought she just wanted me to chase her or just enjoyed the validation but rejected my escalation because she wasn't into me. I want requited physical escalation as it is proof that the other person is sexually attracted to me. If that doesn't happen I'm terrified of LJBF or - even worse - getting led on just because she enjoys the validation. Power to you for being able to understand and say that bro. She might have been playing that game…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 01:59 PM
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Mate, you ended it with 'let's not waste each other's time then'. Now she thinks that the whole date was just about you getting into her pants, and because that didn't happen you considered it a 'waste of time'. Like, her company is a waste of time. She probably thinks that there was no real connection between you - that she was just being played. If you were really just trying to get into her pants and don't give a shit about her, well, she sussed you and that's why she was tearing up. If you d…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 12:47 AM
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