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Red Pill Theorylozboss/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 07:01 PM
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Why you knowing are blue pill as a man i'll have no idea. Perhaps it will take an event for you to finally unplug. Feminism is detested because feminism nowadays is not about equality. Its about Misandry and giving women an advantage over men (therefore not equality). Redpill men do not opposed equality if genders. Anybody who tells you otherwise is lying or simply projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:43 AM
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Why is this tagged "Debate" when it's just a Misandric rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:38 AM
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That was a raw read mate. I'm sorry you went through that. It's always a bit heartbreaking finding out the other party is going giving everything. If its any consolation, I think a lot of us understand the reasons behind your decision. I'd have talked to her but in the end probably the same decision to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:30 AM
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I think it's three things, speaking as someone who has a top job and earns significant compensation. I've dated a lot of women in those circles, lawyers, bankers, private equity folks etc Frame. A high value man generally controls the frame. It's very hard to do that when dating a hyper successful woman. You end up fighting all the time because it's a constant struggle to maintain the frame. This can be exhausting and a lot of men simply enjoy having more peace and being in a dynamic that natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:31 AM
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While this is fairly Red Pill 101 from OP a few points: It's not as simple as you make out to see. The matrix is complex and the vast majority are still 'plugged in'. If it was so easy to unplug then Red Pill (the reality) would be the normal. The bitterness expressed is less about the reality that was hidden and more accepting a much tougher reality that is and the regret st not having seen it sooner. The bitterness comes from the fact that men and women love differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:16 AM
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No. Single mothers just have a low SMV and high value men with options therefore don't waste their time with them. It's society that runs this rhetoric that we despise single mums. We just see them as low SMV, which frankly, they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:05 AM
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I dont think there necessarily is on the whole. Sure a minority think that and tbat minority can be vocal. Just like Blue pill feminists on the other side can be a vocal group. OP is referring to not being someone's settling option. Although I personally believe you drive your own value, so should never accept being a safety option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:59 AM
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Of course you hate the term. It puts accountability on women for a poor choice in father and damaging her children's prospects and failing to provide a family for that child. I'm not saying dad's who run away aren't wrong. It's not mutually exclusive. I'm saying that women need to be accountable for having children with deadbeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:49 AM
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What OP is describing is the Bluepill reality we are fed as we grow up. The bitterness comes with discovering that the truth is far different, when you take the red pill and refuse to be part of the Illusion. Usually this is an event which sparks this. A failed relationship, a cheating girlfriend etc. This is where the association of bitterness towards women comes from. It is usually a woman who has hurt you and caused the crack in the matrix through which you see the truth (to use the common me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:25 AM
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I'm not hard red pill but I agree with this post. The thing that annoys me in today's society is the Liberal media's demonization of men for wanting what all humans, regardless of gender, should be aspiring to have in their relationships. You have a right to be wanted for you, to feel desired beyond the safety and security you provide. Don't let anyone tell you different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:23 AM
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I think you're missing the point completely actually. You've missed tbe point around mentality shift and actually your comment does highlight his point well. You are trying to down play his valid want to be desired by painting it as a generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:14 AM
2

Don't ever shit where you eat. Stop dating colleagues. It rarely ends well.
/r/seduction27/02/22 06:32 AM
3

You need to pull back and date other options. Let her show interest. If she fades away all together she wasn't interested. She barely texts you and you're talking marriage. Put it into perspective.
/r/seduction26/02/22 08:32 PM
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Not attitude, its holding people to a basic stabdard of manners. Its polite to offer a reschedule if youre the one to cancel. It's not a shit attitude to expect someone to show you some basic manners and if they don't then you not interact further with them. It's self respect. Sorry that you find the thought of that repulsive.
/r/seduction15/02/22 09:03 AM
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Shouldn't ask for a reschedule. They should offer. If they don't then you next them. Offering a reschedule when someone cancels on you is simpy and Beta behaviour.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:23 PM
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Good lick bro - you're not listening and not grateful for the advise. Carry on coming across as a desperate guy who gets no action. I'm sure that will have the ladies flocking to you. Seems to have worked well so far for you..... Why bother coming on these boards when you don't want to change.
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:19 AM
1

It's not easy. But you have to be happy in your life without someone, only then can it be taje it or leave it. This isn't a therapy session but ask yourself WHY do you so desperately need to pickup these women.
/r/seduction06/02/22 08:10 AM
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Abundance isn't just about having lots of options. It's about not caring for the result. When you care for the result your body language and persona changes unconsciously.
/r/seduction06/02/22 07:57 AM
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Its because you're gaming. You've not worked on yourself and built an abundance mentality. If you were self confident and had an abundance mentality you would not care about interactions. You'd just be natural.
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:48 PM
1

Honestly- just because a guy us high value doesn't mean he'll want a relationship with good looking air heads. Casual sex sure- but often you'll find that they are looking for a spark beyond the skin deep. Just back yourself with humility and focus on just enjoying yourself.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:18 PM
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Next her. And learn about paragraphs. Nobody likes reading a block of text.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:15 PM
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Then you bail as that's low quality shit right there
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:10 PM
77

Fucking lol
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:09 PM
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No this is a beta move. Don't do this.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:53 PM
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Good work bro. Tahe the shots and you'll hit some. Can't score without it. Now don't bother with future conversations with her anymore. She's got nothing for you bro.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:48 PM
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Ghost her. Why you giving her your precious time. Leave the past in the past. Telling her off won't change if she's a disingenuous dickhead, she won't learn. Don't waste your time.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:43 PM
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Honestly read the actions. Next her. You deserve someone who is invested in you. Focus your energy there.
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:59 PM
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Conversations should be natural. Example: You've been discussing something with the boys, like you do. What's a worse shot to take: Jager or Black Sambuca So you open with: " Hey, I need your input, we're discussing what's worst, x or Y - what you think"? Just use what's natural, involve girls in your banter and follow up after her answer with an Intro and ask her who she's here with. " We're planning on playing some Fives, you ladies fancy joining?" Let her recruit her friends, let your boys wi…
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:42 AM
1

Good luck. Advice for later in life: Keep women and work private. Mixing the two only leads to problems and exposes yourself.
/r/seduction26/06/21 08:33 PM
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Just chill and don't come on too hard. Pursue other options. If she declines the number again then bin her.
/r/seduction26/06/21 08:29 PM
1

Your family are retards. Sorry OP.
/r/MensRights20/11/20 08:28 PM
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Next her. Or don't contact her and if she hits you up you say she owes you breakfast at yours.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:28 PM
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Only your place.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:28 PM
8

Hair transplant? Seriously. Why go bald.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:44 PM
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Sry wasn't clear. I meant it refers to more than just women. That for me is a huge point.
/r/seduction09/07/20 06:39 AM
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OP missed the biggest point. To be truly successful in anything you have to become a polarising person.
/r/seduction09/07/20 06:18 AM
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He wants your ass OP. Lube up.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:17 AM
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Get back on the horse. You can't go somewhere without taking steps. You've already started, persevere. You'll find yourself again. The past is the past- leave it there.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:15 PM
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Why not just try to date and convert some girls who you're not that into? The marginal 6/10s. Blow off the cobwebs with them and if you mess up then no drama because you didn't really care. Of course if you were truly red pill you'd not care anyway regardless of who it was.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:10 PM
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OP if you've had sex with her and you're no longer having sex: Its clearly your technique. Otherwise she'd want to have sex again.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 07:52 PM
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Stop beating yourself up - you know from the military there are plenty of people who will do that for you. Learn and move on. When you make mistakes in drills you learn from them - apply the same mentality. I've seen far worse. Now square yourself away and focus on the task in hand.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 10:06 AM
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Why have you not blocked her and deleted her number?
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:41 AM
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Mate congrats to you bud. Honestly. But this show's no matter how high value - you can slip. You missed the red flag and made the wrong assessment that she's high value. It hurts to be betrayed, especially by someone who has zero bravery to say it straight. Delete her number and block her. Never look back. She had her chance and blew it. I'm not sure why you've not done this already.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:39 AM
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How is being a second choice a win? Sorry but if a woman has interest she'll talk to you even if she has a bf.
/r/seduction27/05/20 04:33 PM
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Next her. Anybody saying otherwise doesn't have a clue.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 02:05 PM
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Mate you need to lock her on social media. Time will change things. There's no special pill. You'll think less and less as time goes on until it's once a year at most.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:49 PM
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Good post
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:45 AM
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Lol how to get trapped by two different women at once.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:53 AM
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Day dates can be tough to convert. Many women use them as they know it won't leas to intimacy.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:45 AM
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End it. If you can't emotionally detach then you physically detach. Her heads in the past, you don't need that.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 06:44 AM
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Stay in your frame. If they wanna shit test let them, you never move into their frame. Stop worrying about it and stay powerful.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:13 AM
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Time to eject this girl OP. Do it before you get cheated on.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:12 AM
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"I don't have time to argue with the mentally subnormal" then walk away.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:20 AM
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Stay strong young king. She's low quality. Delete from your life and never look back.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 07:19 AM
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Betas for following her in first place. But why interact in any form with girls with boyfriends if they aren't your mates - total waste of time. Hopefully her stream business dies.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 06:37 AM
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No shit OP. Smashing high interest girls is easy mode. Your game is trash. Work on it and you'll be able to pursue.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 11:11 AM
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This isn't abundance mentality OP. This is stage 10 Oneitis. Do not go back down that hole. Leave it for other poor fucker to die in.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 04:47 PM
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That's the definition of oneitis - when have a single plate you are attached emotionally to.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:47 PM
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Bluepills in here my man. At least you get it.
/r/seduction04/03/20 02:01 PM
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Terrible. Spin plates. Don't oneitis from the start.
/r/seduction04/03/20 12:52 PM
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Hard next. As others have said - it's oneitis and she clearly doesn't value you. Ghost her.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:20 PM
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RSD was always Beta
/r/seduction25/01/20 03:39 PM
2

Just some text exchange with a girl. He was chatting a lot and then she was giving him one word answers. Deleted it when he realized it wasn't a win but instead a girl showing low interest and everyone ribbed him for it.
/r/seduction25/01/20 03:37 PM
1

I'm coming back from an injury and I'm heavier than I'd like. How do you suggest dealing with being a little more self conscious at this time / less confident? I guess this is useful to the guys who are looking to get into shape for the first time as well.
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:45 PM
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Low interest - soft next. If she comes back then book a date and execute. If not then no loss.
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:42 PM
1

There's a problem here: You are extremely insecure. People making fun of you shouldn't rock your body confidence. Work on that, you shouldn't be dating until you understand why you were insecure before this and why some random girls opinion in you causes you to doubt yourself.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 10:48 AM
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No Fap and no sex for thirty days. Don't masturbate and don't watch porn. There's a whole sub on it. Masturbation and porn aren't you're friends. Had a similar issue not so bad - just lay off porn and masturbation and get a good lotion and apply twice daily.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:58 AM
2

Next her. No idea why you Just didn't nut in the condom then flush it - like normal sex. Why were you obsessed with some porno money shot ending?! Most women won't let you facial them / spray on them first time you get intimate.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:52 AM
1

Three choices: Dump You cheat too You stay loyal You'll never know if she cheated. If you're worried already then you don't trust her - which isn't a good LTR sign. So LTR will probs die anyway.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:29 PM
1

Don't be phased by it mate. Mate sure you don't fail the shit test. Ignore it as if she's talking about the weather / act bored. However, afterwards I'd often next/ ghost these plates - they are low quality.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 09:24 PM
1

Is she hideous?
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:28 PM
1

Is "sets" some PUA nonsense?!
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:27 PM
2

Says thanks but no upvote. GG bro. Anyway just take it easy. Dating takes practice, so doesn't matter if this one doesn't end in fireworks.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:24 PM
2

Agree 100%
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:22 PM
1

OP : First step - stop posting on this sub and never come back.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:18 PM
-1

PUA is shit. Avoid. Rollo Tomassi - Rationale Male Mark Manson - Models
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:16 PM
2

Was this a brag thread. Fashion matters - no shit Sherlock. Nobody cares how many instavalidation followers you have. God this sub is going to shit nowadays with these shit posts.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:14 PM
1

Take her on a fun date before.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:12 PM
3

Agree here but no Biggie to delete them. If they aren't in your life anymore then get rid. Especially if it helps him kill the oneitis he's developed in two dates. OP - stop developing oneitis after two dates and one kiss. If it was meant to be you'd have kissed on first date.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:08 PM
1

This. Delete number if she doesn't respond in a day or two and next her.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:05 PM
1

"I want him to tell me he wants me" Stop being needy and insecure - massive turn off. That's probably 80% of the problem. Other 20% is that he's probably got other options he's prioritizing. Same advice to guys - kill your oneitis and start seeing other guys. Get some options.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:04 PM
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PUA is shit. It's fake confidence and learned approaches, not building a self confidence that lets you do this naturally. Look at mystery getting oneitis etc
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:01 PM
1

Go get some decent pictures of you with your team out? That's always great to show social proof. I play rugby and I meet loads of women, male sports isn't an excuse. Where do you live? Have you tried casual touch mixed rugby? Loads of girls now play that. Expand your social circles, take up a hobby that women also do. What do you enjoy bar sport?
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:55 PM
1

Dude firstly- if you had options you wouldn't be jealous. Go cultivate options and forget her. You can meet forks anywhere, especially with Tinder etc nowadays ffs. No excuse. Secondly - don't be angry at the emotional tampon bit, just refuse to be it. No need to be angry. "Sorry, not really interested".
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:53 PM
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It's about context in a LTR. You have to keep things fun and exciting. When things become routine the sex dries up. You also sometimes have to break the barrier and make it move up the notches. If you're kidding grab her bum etc. However, if she's really not interested in sex and never initiates with you then you've got a far bigger problem and she's not the one for you.
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:50 PM
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Good work mate. Getting back on the horse is always tough. Remember to keep lining up dates with lots more women, options is key. Coming up to the date: Don't over text, just enough to make sure she doesn't flake on you for another dude. On the date: Let her talk, asks questions and listen. You gain little value from talking and telling her your life story. You want some mystery so she has the curiousity to go on a second date. When you do talk be flirty and set the tone early in (not right at t…
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:44 PM
9

Women always on their phone dude, don't be ignorant.
/r/seduction14/05/19 09:00 PM
1

She sounds low quality to me, lots of drama over nothing.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 06:56 AM
1

Do you do MDMA often? TRP isn't a supporter of Drugs. There's a number of reasons why TRP opposes it. Agreed about stepping on toes- go have fun and do what works. Personally I would feel that the plates are your social proof and merely helping you meet more people (including new potential plates)
/r/askTRP17/10/18 07:31 AM
2

Next them. Focus on potential plates who have high interest. They will either get back in touch (if they do you propose a date and no chit chat,) - if they still fuck about-face hard next
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:19 PM
2

Trying to bring you back into orbit. Ignore her. Only respond if she calls or texts and if she does you simply make a date. If she doesn't want to date you never speak to her again.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:18 PM
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This is why low SMV fatties think they are a 8 rather than a 5. Cuz noobs like OP show them love.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:16 PM
3

No lessons are wasted time. We make mistakes to learn.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:14 PM
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Don't overthink it bro. Head with the new girl and if that doesn't end up being a bang then you can always booty call the other one. Or ditch the first one to hang with the plate. You overthink things. Go, have fun and realize you don't owe anybody
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:11 PM
0

Neither. Drugs and TRP don't go. Drugs are a crutch.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:26 PM
1

What's the point of this insanely long post where you fuck a variety of low SMV chicks OP?
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:24 PM
1

Hard next.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:22 PM
1

Next.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:19 PM
0

Ban this troll
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:18 PM
1

End this. Hard next and no contact. Alpha Widows are never happy.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:16 PM
1

Mate we are here for you. Just leave the past in the past. It's an anchor holding you back. Tomorrow is a new day. Focus on your successes. Focus on what went well. Climb the mountain a step at a time. But do it by not carrying your emotional baggage with you step 1 is feel good about yourself, get in shape and feel good. Step 2 is re-entering the worl d as a new man
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:10 PM
4

You don't have enough going on in your life - simple. You watch loads of porn because you don't have multiple plates wanting to fuck. You get bored when you stop videogames as you gave no other interests to fill the time. Alcohol is your crutch for social anxiety. You wouldn't need it if you either on self game. Just my 2 cents on the limited info you gave me.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 09:03 PM
1

Yeah they are getting zero pussy. Low SMV guys trying for pity fucks. You don't need social media phrase to fuck loads of chicks dude. Focus on the dance plan. Ignore social media bullshit. It's for bluepilkers, orbiters and validation whores
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:59 PM
1

NEXT.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:57 PM
3

By getting rejected and realising it's nowhere near as bad as you realised. Your life hasn't changed AT ALL. By realising that when you go for it and are sucfessful- good things happen. Same logic as a bungee jump or sky dive. Go for it.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:54 PM
1

Soft next her for a week. Take the frame back. Fucking basic my guy.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:52 PM
1

Get home when you need it. Don't chase it. Focus on your improvement. I'd suggest to you to do your CFA level 1 asap. Will open lots of doors career wise for you at your age.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:51 PM
1

Well it's pretty obvious. Most people who post on here need help with the women side. You can help with the lifting on the fitness subs or BB.com. Self improvement is pretty simple. Practical application of game isn't.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 08:49 PM
1

Soft next. She may be a plate, not a LTR but still don't reward shitty behaviour. Hit up one of your others girls for sex. If you don't have any then that is a far bigger issue you should be thinking on.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:23 PM
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Pipe down kid. Go act big when you're actually a red pill. Not trying to be one. Have some humility and take some advice. Don't be a defensive child.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 05:13 PM
1

Posts on AskTRP. Gets advice. Ignores it. GG. Never come back to this sub.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 04:58 PM
1

A typical good date has 3 locations, the final may be your close location (home, her home etc). its something that keeps the date fresh. Activity dates are also a great choice. Kino early, escalate throughout the evening, don't discuss coming over until that awkward moment at the end of the date when neither of you wants it to end.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:34 AM
2

Mate don't go gaming solo in nightclubs. You automatically get branded as a wierdo. Bars are a better idea for solo game. Better still look for large bars that also have a small dancefloor. Meet them at the bar then escalate on the dance floor.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:53 PM
10

Fairly sure sex tourism is about paying for sex....
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:44 PM
1

Don't live at home. Isolating yourself further isn't a good idea. Gave you tried meetup groups? There's even an app. What about a sports club? All good ways to build a social circle
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:30 PM
4

Mate you've got delayed ejaculation. Basically all the years of furiously beating it has destroyed your sensitivity and your motor neurones. Keep up the nofap solid and you'll soon get a good sex life back.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:54 PM
1

Lol wtf- why you so mad at his typo bro?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:52 PM
2

No. She is playing games. Next her. Everyone here is forgetting the main truth: you should have abundance. So one plate dropping doesn't affect you. In your case you have zero abundance.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:49 PM
1

They are there with their dicks out? Wtf
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:39 PM
2

Troll post?
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:36 PM
3

You were a dick and was surprised she doesn't want to see you. RP isn't about being a dick. Even negging isn't about being a dick. You're whole aim is to take a girl out and show them a fun time. Be smart, be funny, be cool, be sexy. The rest happens without you needing to think on it. Being stoic is not letting individual setbacks hamper your mindset. Chalk this one up to a loss and move on.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:34 PM
2

Look mate, I'd go with the walk but end with a drink. If the walk goes shit and you're not feeling like she's DTF- you can jet. If it's just first date bangs you're looking for then walking should be between places on a date. Rule of 3.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:31 PM
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Be busy with something else. This is why people say "focus on yourself and your goals" You've clearly not got enough going on in your life that you've got the time to worry. Focus on you and achieving your goals. If you've not set those goals yet then that's step 1.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:29 PM
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If she's attracted to you she'll take the risk of dating you. But it's on you to ask her out. Also if you're heading back to States in a few months why do you care? She is nothing more than a bang. You can't have a long distance LTR. Personally it sounds like you've got oneitis before you've even started. I'd just bin it and work on your abundance mentality. This sounds very blue pill to me right now
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:27 PM
2

This is why PUA is fucking nonsense.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:21 PM
1

Only way you solve this is by getting out there and meeting/talking to people. Meetup is a useful app for this. The issue you have is you've developed only one part of yourself. Which arguably is the easiest one to master.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:14 PM
0

Why are you shitting on your own doorstep? Leave Work/Study away from game. Stop going to all these parties and go to parties with new social circles? You're good at networking but you're still stuck in the same pool. That's rookie.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 06:09 PM
1

Any tips on keeping motivation. I've been buff in the past but recently put on weight with the new job and long hours? ​ I can usually do it for like a month but slowly tails off. Maybe it's impatience for results. ​ I know they say: 28 days for a habit to form, 90 days for a lifestyle change to form. ​ Also - Fasted Cardio for pure BF loss? ​ Great post.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 02:26 PM
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Good Luck buddy. Glad you found TRP early and the focus on yourself is a keen differentiator that will take you above your peers. ​ Only feedback i would say is that you need some formatting. This was a long wall of text. Your contributions are valuable but far less so if people are put off reading it.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 02:20 PM
4

Good work- get defensive. Nice bluepill rage bro. Clearly strong frame. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 02:16 PM
1

Why are you on TRP if you do PUA? They aren't even linked. One is about being a fake (like Mystery and his cringe) and the other is about inherently becoming a better man.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 02:10 PM
7

Cool Story - needs more dragons
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 01:58 PM
4

Do something no other guy has done with her before. Be exciting and spontaneous, do not be boring ​ Yeah.....good luck with that. Chances are she's done it or something like it before. Unless you're a billionaire of want to drive 2.5 hours to nashville which is asburd for a first date. ​ I love these theory posts thats have no practical relevance. NEXT.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 01:57 PM
-1

Probably still takes MDMA as its become his crutch.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 01:49 PM
5

Are you seriously promoting drugs in TRP? We talk about building yourself and you are talking about Crutches. Thats why we don't suggest getting drunk/high on dates. To build on your game. ​ Take this nonsense elsewhere. Bluepills need drugs to be confident and outgoing.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 01:48 PM
1

What kind of dancing do you do? Shuffling? like: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0fk5L1ifbo or just grooving
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 01:26 PM
2

In another episode of "stating the obvious"
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:54 AM
2

Like everyone else has done on this Sub. GG. Keep it up though.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 07:53 AM
2

Agreed. Cuck deleted his username anyway. Probably because he's shitposting TRP and then getting butthurt over feedback.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 11:08 AM
80

Wow salty. Part of improving is taking criticism on the chin and not being blue pill defensive. You failed on this one bud.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/18 07:10 AM
1

Sounds like Excuses OP. Excuses are the refuge of the weak. If you were Redpill you'd know that.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 08:29 AM
0

no tl;dnr OP? In answer to your question: not many, and those that do have a multi year LTR are ok on the surface but if you know them their LTR is a mess (one or both parties cheating, both insecure etc)
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:25 AM
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Why are you even asking this? You're obsessing over whether a girl you NEXTED will come back? Oneitis much? Move on and don't care, if she gets back in touch she does. Some do- some don't depends on the individual and situation they are in.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:21 AM
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her boyfriend Why u wasting your time with chicks with BFs? You got no other options? You're really that desperate to pursue taken chicks? Most likely you'll be a backup to her BF or you'll be an orbiter if you stick at it. Eject yourself from this situation pronto.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:19 AM
1

being Red Pill doesn't mean being a cheat in a LTR. I'm probably a piece of shit already Yup. Sort out your morals.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:15 AM
1

You stop the Junk You Start Nofap (see the subreddit) You start exercising and lifting. You start dressing better. You start pursuing new hobbies. You BUILD yourself a life.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:14 AM
1

You start with yourself. You build someone you are proud of. You do what you enjoy (sport etc), you lift and build a body you're proud of, you build NEW friendships with people who give back. YOU BUILD A LIFE YOU ARE PROUD OF. You slowly start bit by bit to love yourself more.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:13 AM
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why would you date someone like that dude? This is a huge red flag.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:11 AM
2

1000+ fbook friends Clearly not her 'friends' but random FB people perving on her. She's an attention whore. Question answered.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:10 AM
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did you OP? it's still terrible.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:09 AM
2

This guy has it down. +1
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:08 AM
3

Then don't eat them and tell her why your aren't. If she gets upset- then she gets upset. She'll learn. That fact you're stressing over this means you've got bigger problems with your mental mindset and relationship dynamic.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:07 AM
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Im an alpha fuck gym rat with game Why you asking us then oh Lord of the Game? GTFO.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:03 AM
2

Ha ha. Wow. Truth really does hurt doesn't it?
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:30 AM
3

True. However, if you are looking to someone to 'fill a gap' and can't be happy being single- that's insecurity. Which the poster here is showing.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:40 PM
1

just No Contact her and pursue others.
/r/seduction04/12/16 04:39 PM
1

shes using you as an orbiter for attention and validation. 100% of women do this.
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:32 PM
1

yup- more likely shes not interested or looking to move you into being an orbiter.
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:31 PM
10

well sorry but it's the truth. If you're not happy with being alone and you need someone to make you happy- then that's a BIG issue. If that's the case- they need to work on THAT before the whole seduction thing. Relying on someone else to be happy is beyond stupid (and emotionally damaging)
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:31 PM
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wow taking the truth hard bro? I'm not trying to insult you- I'm giving you the harsh truth so you see the dangers of relying on external validation. I honestly see why you're alone now. Anyway good luck.
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:26 PM
1

Yup.
/r/seduction03/12/16 07:29 PM
1

ok so you can't write properly. If a girl ignored your text, then waited to respond at 3 AM WHEN DID YOU TEXT HER? If it wasn't early morning then chances are shes just responding while drunk and bored- not because she's horny.
/r/seduction03/12/16 07:28 PM
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so you're trying to fix your insecurity by creating a fake life and looking to strangers for validation? Wow- great idea. How about working on your game and yourself? Especially since you're clearly cut up about being single (which is frankly pathetic sorry) -CRAZY idea i know.
/r/seduction03/12/16 07:20 PM
2

this belong in ASKseddit not here. In answer to your question- no, not a booty call. It's only a booty call if the convo is initiated at 3am etc
/r/seduction03/12/16 07:17 PM
1

Humble Brag. GG Op.
/r/seduction03/12/16 07:16 PM
5

OP- it's about confidence. If you are awkward with it then they will be too. Confidence sells the act. You have to realize that touching is a human interaction and if this offends them.....well then they can f*ck off frankly.
/r/seduction27/11/16 07:03 PM
1

Models by Mark Manson. Great book teaching you the basics. Also- I'd suggest "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi. It will help you understand gender dynamics. I'd steer clear of the PUA stuff- it's mostly trash.
/r/seduction27/11/16 07:01 PM
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number she said she doesn't give it that easy, IF she wanted you to have it- she would have given you it. Social media for models is a way for them to build their orbiters. DO NOT add her on FB. Let this one go OP. Nice try but there simply wasn't the interest there. (PS. there is no such thing as a 10, so cut that out)
/r/seduction27/11/16 07:00 PM
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Ha ha you mad bro? Clearly someone hasn't read any of the red pill material about ego/laws of power or anything to do with alpha characteristics. Go ahead and brag dude ha
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 08:49 PM
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Nope, not really context is it. Just another Humble Brag on TRP. If you wanna stroke your ego online be prepared to be called on it.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 01:32 PM
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You either didn't read my post or are twisting it to suit your purposes. Try again. The Intent is to Pursue Women, not a LTR or Marriage. IT DOES NOT MEAN you won't end up in one. However, you shouldn't enter into dating with that as your intent. Hence you fail to understand a key redpill foundation. Nice try though.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 01:30 PM
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True he needs to up his value. But also false that Dread always takes care of itself. Sometimes you need to enforce it. But I get your point.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:18 AM
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some of it not undeserved No need for the brag. Leave it out. Otherwise an amusing post.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:14 AM
3

Then get rid of her. End of. And stop being Beta Bucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:13 AM
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I am writing this for the younger guys on here who are looking to pursue LTRs Ok I'm going to address this rubbish right now as I see it too much on TRP. You don't pursue women with the intent of a LTR. You date multiple women and constantly see if they qualify for your exclusivity. Even then you stay single for as long as viable. Pursuing women with the intent of a LTR is BLUEPILL. Red Pill men pursue women, full stop. Exclusivity and LTRs are a woman's worry. This is not to say you don't end u…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:06 AM
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Your Mum did it right- you needed a kick up the ass. But this post is just a humble brag in disguise. Getting a bit sick of seeing these on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:02 AM
2

Next her. Full no contact and forget about her. She's trying to make you an orbiter. If she wanted to go on a date with you she would have. Sorry dude.
/r/seduction23/11/16 11:30 PM
2

OP I'd dump this broad. Damage is done and seems like you're her Beta Bux
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:47 PM
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purple-pilled at best Why you posting on here? Get out with that bullsh*t
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:30 PM
1

If shes gone quiet then it's dead for the moment. If she gets back in touch then you need to take it easy and back off a little. But from now on- she initiates everything. Don't chase her at all.
/r/seduction22/11/16 02:00 PM
1

You Know- its obvious if a girl is into you. You can do tests like dropping contact and seeing if she reinitiates.
/r/seduction22/11/16 01:54 PM
0

I have and I believe I'm the shit lol I honestly believe I am cooler than like 90% of guys out there lol Nope. If you were then you wouldn't need to tell strangers on a board. A true Alpha doesn't need to tell others he's an Alpha. Just a bit of advice.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:26 PM
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this. /Thread Closed
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:24 PM
2

She's either interested or she isn't The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, they must inspire you to say “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them. The Law of “Fuck Yes or No” also states that when you want to get involved with someone new, in whatever capacity, THEY must respond with a “Fuck Yes” in order for you to proceed with them.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:23 PM
1

Text game is one of these things people have created. It's not game. It's just a means of contact. You should just keep aloof, tease them and keep it light and short and sweet. Don't subscribe to anything else- it's bullshit.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:21 PM
2

Great post- Models by Mark is good. Although: then she might be the one Nope. There is no "One". One OF a Million, not One IN a million. Don't subscribe to that bullshit- it's disney.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:19 PM
1

Liked you post but this: you stay friends with her NOPE. You stay civil but not friends. As XXL said- pursue other women and work on you. Forget her. In 6 months you probably will have some many options if you improve on yourself you'll forget all about her. Oneitis is dangerous- kill it off now.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:17 PM
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What did I do wrong ? You blew off your friends for a phone chat with her. That doesn't sound like a man you'd be attracted to. What should I do now ? Ignore her ("Next Her"). Delete her number and snapchat and Go chat up other chicks.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:15 PM
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Everything I've read seems to point towards the fact that people get into seduction so they can start meaningful relationships with women they like. Nope I met a wonderful woman I really liked two years ago and started to learn every thing I could about seduction. Oneitis ALERT The other night we were drunk I said we should get together for Xmas and she said she wasn't sure but she held my hand and said she felt comfortable with it, and that we have an awesome connection. A day later i asked aga…
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:09 PM
1

Vodka Soda Lime is my tip. Once you've had one or two beers.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 04:02 PM
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Good work OP. But the drinking/social is one of the fun parts of Rugby. In regards to Lesson 1- this is dating. So how do you avoid that when that's women in general? This is what women do- you're saying just don't date?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 01:33 PM
2

Good post OP. Patience is a key virtue of a successful seducer.
/r/seduction20/11/16 09:56 PM
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OP this is stupid. LJBF means you are friendzoned. Which means to her friends you are 'friend' rather than a potential suitor. Make friends with girls who you haven't dated and have no sexual interest in.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 09:39 PM
1

I don't follow MGTOW but I see their point. Why engage with women apart from sex? You Give, they Take. Men provide- Women take. I think this entitlement is a big issue but it's also evolutionary. As Rollo talks about in Rational Male.What is the benefit of a LTR? To men? Nothing. A family perhaps if you want that- other than that not much. As a Man you'll always give more than you take, if you let it be that way. Redpill is about waking up and changing the dynamics and taking back a measure of c…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 05:33 PM
2

Number 2 is hard when you're in monk mode and working on yourself. Really hard.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 05:23 PM
0

Fair. Just noticed I got downvoted? WTF. Who is that butthurt by my comment lol?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 03:58 PM
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laugh then "Don't be mad because you're ugly" or "and you're so ugly, but i tolerate you" verbal executions let people know you're not one to be fucked with. Do it with humor and you won't come across butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 12:34 PM
1

I get your point but there is nothing in this post to help others? To contribute. It's self centered.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 12:30 PM
1

found it a bit old and dated. Needs to be updated.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 12:27 PM
1

No Rational Male? No Mark Manson's "Models"? No Corey Wayne? Hmmm nah.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 12:26 PM
1

weight or fat loss? Weight Loss is no good. Fat loss is the target.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 12:18 PM
1

new subReddit? Redpillmeetup or redpillfriends lol
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 08:38 PM
3

Then who are you left with bro? As i said i don't believe in isolation.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:20 PM
2

I think you miss my point but I appreciate your input. The reason i'm focused on RP friends is the programmed bluepill friends often don't understand or are so ingrained that they mock RP lifestyle- hence the frustration.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:19 PM
1

Whats to guarantee these people are Redpill? UK based here.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 07:23 PM
11

Beta Bucks Hunting. I'd rather have nobody into me than to be a Beta Bucks and have a HB9 as a wife.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 06:54 PM
2

Now me, Id been pretending to be Alpha as fuck for awhile That's not Redpill. This ins't PUA nonsense where we pretend to be men. It's where we strive to be men. So stop pretending and be a man. Go get yours and leave after.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:05 PM
1

"Unfortunately, no one can be told what the Matrix is. You have to see it for yourself."
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:02 PM
2

Good Luck OP. To quote Morpehus: "There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path". You first read before any sidebar stuff should be the Redpill bible: The Rational Male- Rollo Tomassi
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 07:58 PM
2

Thank you OP. Too many people on this sub preach about being some sort of Robot. In truth- however Redpill we are, we always seek some sort of long term companionship. That's human. It takes a long time and it's hard to invest without letting that affect you. In the end being Redpill is about living for yourself. Which is truly hard if you're a giving person naturally. Chin Up bro- you may have degraded but don't beat yourself up too much.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 07:50 PM
2

His book looks like self help nonsense. Will have to investigate him further.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 05:05 PM
7

As Rollo says- leave the trash where it belongs- on the curb. Don't go sifting back through it. As humans with emotions it's very hard to fully break a bond you've built with someone on the first go (unless you're mentally abnormal BPD etc). It often takes a failed attempt at rekindling something for you to learn the lesson for the future. Whilst you can be told- to truly learn something many have to try and fail- it's human
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 10:47 PM
2

OP making out that he's Captain RedPill superhero then going on about Marriage and building a life together in some sort of bullsh*t Bluepill fantasy. Smh. Hopefully these responses have woken you up bro.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 11:41 PM
1

Rollo, Good to have you here. Shame that SoSuave is now useless. Simple one: How do you get over the bitterness/anger at women and have something fruitful in a LTR? I'm two years redpill yesterday and I seriously detest women and their actions.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:41 PM
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Good post- but I'm not interested in "being their escape" or their "emotional dumping ground" - that's Beta and Bluepill. Rest was spot on.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:54 PM
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The party animals, socially outgoing folks, people with lots of acquaintances, and a social circle are actually happy people. Don't agree. Most party girls i know are mentally very f*cked up. Insecure and constantly unhappy- the happiness is a front.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:56 PM
1

Why are you on here if you're Bluepill. Until you transition to a Red Pill state of mind and change your actions then you'll continue to have unfruitful relationships and you certainly won't be able to train any women successfully.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:54 PM
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Then don't tell them what you do? Just be vague. Change what you're doing or continue experiencing the same outcome- basic logic theory.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:46 PM
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this is a problem for any expat and asian countries. Only trick is to focus on dating other expats and non asians
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:45 PM
2

Sorry OP but this is terrible. Always lead and be masculine in your approach.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:40 PM
3

Good advice but letting go of anger isn't a case of 'Just doing it'. It's the hardest part of the Redpill transition and some never truly let go (MGTOW). I would caution being too easy on yourself- only through constant self review can we improve.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:34 PM
16

Where was her empathy? Women only Empathise with each other. Where was her loyalty "Hypergamy doesn't care" (Rollo) What makes her think she deserved a guy like that in the first place? All women are entitled. The feminist imperative teaches this. Hence why you see the landwhales demanding their potential men be 6ft 2, jacked and rich despite looking like a blob themselves.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:27 PM
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I'll never again be a backup plan This. never accept second best for yourself. Good work mate- keep at it. The Improvement never stops. I liked how you pick your battles- but this should also fuel you to better yourself. If your SMV needs improvement- then go improve it (but only for yourself).
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:24 PM
1

You did the right thing. It could have been 100x worse when she inevitably cheats on you or god forbid traps you with a kid. Tell you Mom and Bro that it's your relationship, not theirs and you weren't happy. They should want you to be happy. Breakups are always tough, especially BPD. Take one day at a time and focus on you for 6 months (no dating or rebound). I'm the end your happiness matters, it's super tough now but it will get better. I just wish I'd known about red pill at 22 years old. Al…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 08:38 PM
1

This is giving up. There is more to SMV than looks. There are plenty of lower looks high SMV guys out there with hot women. You simply have to play the game differently. If you pursue- you do not show abundance mentality- one of the cornerstones of redpill.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:43 AM
3

Then you have missed the point of Redpill and if you think that then Bluepill has moulders you to believe this
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:41 AM
1

Sorry OP but don't agree. Yes some people are NEXT trigger happy but pursuit is not the way of the Alpha. If you follow red pill theory you realise that no woman is special or inherently different from another (merely they vary on 1-10 hotness scale and their low-high quality). When news start on red pill living they are told to filter because it's new- and that's right- learning to not waste time on low attraction women is something that all the big red pill authors teach (Rollo, Corey Wayne et…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 10:25 PM
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Dude i read all of this and I'm sorry. I'm glad for you that you realised what a poisonous family you have. I'm sorry that you feel like you're alone. I'm also in the UK- on me if you want to chat/text. Nobody should stand alone. Keep on it- the best success is always revenge brother.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 10:04 PM
2

Thanks for the support yourself. People seeing how Red Pill helps encourages contribution. I used to be a SoSuave member but that's gone to shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 09:58 PM
0

Chin up OP. Women can be scum and most are but don't got MGTOW- that's not the answer. Red pill will help- but it's hard, the anger/bitter stage can take a while to get over. Take some time to focus on you and work on yourself ready for a new start in college. Happy to chat more- just pm me for details. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 03:42 PM
2

Good job op. Drop the drugs- you need to learn to do this sober. That means drugs or "Dutch courage" Believe me that too much porn can ruin you in the bedroom. Go nofap for a month. No touching or porn watching.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 03:37 PM
291

This is competition anxiety in action. If you have a hot girl on your arm then other women perceive you as a catch and high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 03:23 PM
1

Clothes are a big deal in the short term. For dates the chinos + button down casual shirt for example. Try a new hairdo (go to a proper salon and get some advice)
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 03:19 PM
1

Its how you act. But in the end don't be aiming to bang 8+/10 if you low SMV. I personally just focus on myself while I'm improving
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 09:06 AM
1

There's a simple quote on this: "Strength through Adversity"
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:36 AM
7

OP, I commend you. But I share one hard lesson I've learned- YOU CAN'T FIX ANYONE (don't even try). When you see red flags- avoid, don't be the Saviour. You may not like to think your actions were but in a way they were.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:23 AM
2

true but I think a lot of hate is focussed outwards- in particular the one woman who chated/disrespected/friendzoned you and made you turn to Red
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:13 AM
2

Thanks for sharing, The hardest part of a LTR is remaining objective in your views and actions.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 10:12 AM
10

Why did you see her if you've moved on? Why didn't you hard next her before. Breakup 101 dude- you go ghost and they don't exist anymore.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 11:18 AM
-1

Hit a Sport, even if you're not the best at Football etc. Chicks dig sports.
/r/seduction05/09/16 11:14 AM
1

True. Thanks for the advice. I'm actually feeling full eating 5 small meals a day and struggling most days to eat 1800kcals. My protein is high but fats low and carbs ultra low. I'm trying to add some fats to my diet, At present Eggs, Semi skimmed milk (in scrambled egg and omelette) and guacamole. Any other suggestions? I seem to have stalled after week 1 and haven't lost since Monday. Although I did have two pints of lager yesterday for a friends promo drink (first time I've drunk in weeks).
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 09:25 PM
1

True. Thanks for the advice. I'm actually feeling full eating 5 small meals a day and struggling most days to eat 1800kcals. My protein is high but fats low and carbs ultra low. I'm trying to add some fats to my diet, At present Eggs, Semi skimmed milk (in scrambled egg and omelette) and guacamole. Any other suggestions? I seem to have stalled after week 1 and haven't lost since Monday. Although I did have two pints of lager yesterday for a friends promo drink (first time I've drunk in weeks).
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 09:25 PM
1

I'm trying Keto- but if you have an off day (you have carbs in a meal like a birthday) doesn't it just yoyo you back? I'm about 10 days into keto and I've only lost like 8 lbs (4 kg). That's with working out with HiiT and some weights. :(
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 07:04 PM
1

Thanks for this OP. After Injury I'm up 50 pounds from BF of 10%. Mostly Drink and a shit diet. I've cut carbs out and honestly this has helped but i find it hard to hit the protein macros and calories (i'm like you I need to eat about 1800 to lose 2lbs a week). Good Luck with your progress.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 06:59 PM
1

Yeah no sweat dude. Just make sure you don't fall back into it- it's very hard. But I'm happy for you that it all seems to be going well. Currently I'm on the hard rode to get fit again so i Can pull the models!
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 06:01 AM
1

Good work OP but your definition of abundance mentality isnt quite on the money. It's not simply the other side of the coin to the soulmate myth. It's simply knowing you CAN have options. This then leads to the numerous positives.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 07:06 PM
4

This is true. Women give zero fucks about your hard times but expect you to be there to be their rock. It's quite a depressing state of affairs. So much for "behind every great man is a great woman"
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 09:49 AM
7

Great post- weddings are indeed cringeworthy in the amount of bluepill behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 09:57 AM
1

I understand speech. I've had some experience of them. My point is not the way you say it but the words. I just don't feel it truly highlights what you're trying to get across. I prefer the strong response of "sorry i'm not interested in being just friends, bye" and then moving on. draw lines in the stand and establish a foothold.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 09:42 AM
2

"That's called social grace" Is english your first language? This is a very awkward turn of phrase and I believe most women wouldn't understand this phrase and your intents.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 10:00 AM
6

Block and then delete her number. Friends on Facebook? Defriend. Instagram? No anymore. Don't waste your time with game players. Pursue women with a high IL (interest level). Don't waste time with game players.
/r/seduction20/03/16 09:17 PM
2

Monk Mode. Focus on yourself and your goals and then when you're over it (probably about 6 months) you can start to spin plates. Suggest in the meantime you read 'The Rational Male' and complete the transition.
/r/seduction20/03/16 09:14 PM
1

My #1 Issue right now is: How I get over the bitterness of the red pill? How do you respect women when you know they are subconsciously hypergamous and have a backup man and orbiters? Especially when it gets to the LTR stage.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 01:01 PM
1

You're deluded. You WILL catch ONEITIS again. The very way you speak about her confirms it. Wake up dude- you strike me as a good guy. The fact that you're in touch with your EX, who is in another relationship, and doing things for her means: YOU'RE ALREADY IN THE FRIENDZONE. I've slept with me ex- sure. When she turns up at 4am drunk. Then I kick her out in the morning and don't reply to her texts the next day. She had her chance and blew it. Lesson 1: Being someone's friend (which you are) doe…
/r/seduction11/03/16 08:03 AM
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Good point. I think I can stop catching the feels again. And as for the couch, I mean, I am her ex-boyfriend after all. I don't think I'd make her sleep on the couch since she'll a guest in my home. My couch sucks! And it's only for one night. Deluded. You will get oneitis again. Oneitis for an EX (bad point 1) and for someone in a relationship (bad point 2). You'll sleep on the couch? OMG you're such a beta. YOU ARE BEING USED. HAVE SOME F*CKING dignity. I don't say this to insult you- but in t…
/r/seduction11/03/16 07:59 AM
1

OP I'm going to harsh but you need the truth is this. You're waking up. You're into the bitterness stage of the redpill. I suggest you investigate this. You also have to learn that women should not dictate your interactions or self worth. They clearly have done. You need to work on yourself- you have some serious self loathing and insecurity.
/r/seduction10/03/16 04:51 PM
2

as she drops her dog off for me to watch while she takes a weekend trip to see family You serious? You dog sit for you ex? You let her stay over for free without the promise of sex? Cuckold much? You had oneitis- you start banging her again and you'll get it again. You aren't emotionally independent of this situation. I think you need to eject your EX from your life and stop being a friendzoned bitch. Alpha Big talk all you like but you're her cuckold at present.. Not trying to offend- just bein…
/r/seduction10/03/16 04:49 PM
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God I hate on this Dubreddit how everyone claims they get HB9s Post a pic to back up this chapter of your autobiography or don't post. No proof from 99% of posters on here.
/r/seduction06/03/16 10:32 AM
1

I'm using it as an example- stop being so literal. Fine- don't take my advice- be like the bluepills. I tried to help you.
/r/seduction31/12/15 08:48 PM
1

Attractive women know you're approaching them because you're interested. Corey Wayne: A compliment from someone she knows comes across as ingenuine and weak. It does nothing other than lower her interest level. You actions tell her you're interested and find her attractive. Stop putting yourself with all the Betas who do this. You only need to look at an attractive girls OLD profile messages to see how many guys say this- the one who doesn't stands out as an attractive confident alpha male. Lear…
/r/seduction31/12/15 05:07 PM
1

What is it with these opening with compliments? Does nobody know the basics of game anymore? Great post otherwise but you're making a rookie error.
/r/seduction30/12/15 03:15 PM
3

Opening with a compliment-NO NO NO . Compliments from people she does not know are WORTHLESS. You immediately put yourself in the same bucket as the horde of Betas trying to gain her favour by complimenting her. Read Corey Wayne- you need to go back to basics school
/r/seduction29/12/15 09:44 AM
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You're rationalizing to protect your ego. What message does this send to society? to anyone who knows you and this girl. That you're friend material, not boyfriend material. Never accept a lot less than what you want. Doing so lowers your value.
/r/seduction28/12/15 05:42 PM
2

Soft No Contact. So you can read the messages, no need to block but you DON'T reply.
/r/seduction28/12/15 05:40 PM
1

The Game is still there, just a different channel here that is Online. That online channel is the most shallow one there is. Looks get you the first date and your game gets you the second.
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:38 PM
1

Agree that Tinder is a just a crutch for those without the confidence to approach. Why you'd use Mystery Method OP I don't know. PUA is retarded. You're far better building a better you and being genuine. Read Mark Manson-Models. PUA stuff always gets found out.
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:34 PM
0

I'm trying to understand this OP but the english is awful. Can someone give me a hand?
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:32 PM
0

Why would you accept the friendzone? You will ALWAYS want more- she doesn't. Its harsh but true. Just be work colleagues and treat her like everyone else that you HAVE no interest in. Have some respect for yourself, don't become another orbiter.
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:30 PM
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Two options: Hit her with SOFT NC- Go Ghost for a couple of days. Ask her out and if she dodges then go full no contact and delete her number.
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:28 PM
1

good Post OP. Anger is a tool, like all emotions. It is useful when applied correctly. If it's the only thing you feel it will destroy you in time. In moderation anger can be a useful tool.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 10:58 AM
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Great job brother. Remember in the dark times when idiots are rude to you for approaching these moments. Models is a fantastic book- wish i had the time to read it again.
/r/seduction20/12/15 01:32 PM
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I find the bonus amusing. You slam others OP for handing out advise yet act like an oracle of the redpill yourself. Some of the thread is good, some is bullshit. However, your hypocrisy is the funniest part of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 10:31 AM
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Awful Blog. Rollo is a true hero. The Rational Male is a life changing book. It's not about Redpill or BluePill- it's about understanding our base instincts and programming.
/r/seduction19/12/15 09:29 PM
1

It is the dating normal. Mainly because of the commoditization of the dating scene (tinder etc) and mainly because angry AFCs react so badly to rejection so women just ghost men rather than have the guts to say what they think.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:34 PM
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You know who gets offended by these terms? the Beta males who don't like admitting they are. Instead of realizing they can change this.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:31 PM
1

Don't worry about approaching. Use Tinder if you're too scared to approach in person. Just date and build your self confidence- follow the advice in the book. Try things out. I'd even date women you just find 'ok' looks wise- a great start to get into it. Get some lays under the belt.
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:26 PM
1

Disagree- it's designed as a manual- dressing, escalating etc. Provides practical advise and Book of Pook is too complex for starters. It's also written in a fun way that is good but I think starters need a 'DO this, buy this etc"
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:24 PM
1

Good Post OP but you are still placing far too much of your confidence on Women. You have the pussy on a pedestal. What happens when you DONT have these women texting you? You're seeking external validation. The REAL solution to your problem is to be confident in yourself and happy enough that you are happy without ANYONE texting you and that their texts only ADD to your life rather than completing your life.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:49 PM
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Ok I'm going to suggest a book- I rarely use a Book but you need it. Don't take that badly OP. Mark Manson - Models. It's a great book and teaches you everything you need to know. Read it- cover to cover. It's not PUA nonsense, it's real life and will also teach you how to escalate properly with women.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:45 PM
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OP you're getting very defensive. Look at the replies to your post. I get you- WE ALL agree with you that a lot of women, HELL most women are total sh*ts to men. But you won't change that-you just need to stop getting so overly emotionally attached to other people's perceptions of you and letting that affect you in a negative way. Is that Easy? Hell no it's not. But that takes building your confidence and realizing these scumbag women you're encountering will never have fulfilled relationships w…
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:42 PM
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You won't change society dude. I've been there too- the women hating and being Jaded. FOCUS on you. Stop being defensive and listen to the advice in this thread. You came here for help- so listen. These are low quality women, you need a strong filter and a great self confidence otherwise the 90% of women who are dating scumbags will bring you down. I treat people with respect but sadly ghosting/ playing games is the standard nowadays.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:38 PM
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Not a high quality man who is an alpha male. BETAs sure- but you're not a BETA are you? So you don't put up with their low quality bullshit
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:34 PM
1

I don't know if I'm being too much of a pussy to make an aggressive move, but I don't want to mess things up between us since she's a good friend. You put yourself in the friendzone. EITHER be a MAN and act or continue to be a friend and stop complaining that you're in friendzone. If you want this girl then act and if have to be willing to lose her. Her loss if she doesn't want you. Also- Oneitis is never healthy and frankly you need to cultivate other female options.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:31 PM
1

Sadly dude if shes not initiating at all she's not really that interested. When a woman is interested she will text you. I suggest Corey Wayne's book- he talks about interest levels and reading interest. You are better spent finding a new plate to date, someone who appreciates you. Go soft No Contact with this girl. If she doesn't get in touch then shes not interested. Test her interest.
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:29 PM
1

if she didn't answer she's not interested. Sorry bro. You can send her a message in a couple of days with something New. Perhaps something playful or something funny that might make her laugh
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:25 PM
3

You need to be more chill- have fun sure dude but in my view you sound like a club attention seeker/hunter. This doesn't bag you the women. You also need to be more chill- going for gold is fine but realize that being more chill and gradually escalating is the better success rate. Also be aware- A girl wants to have fun, she'll make out but it's a public place- she wants privacy to get dirty with you- most girls won't get naughty in front all of their friends. Slut shield! PM me if you want a ha…
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:21 PM
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