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The title of this should've been from "handsolo to handsome"
/r/seduction11/06/14 01:46 AM
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Don't be perceived as a potential rapist
/r/seduction10/06/14 04:43 AM
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"You miss a hundred percent of the shots you don't take"
/r/seduction10/06/14 04:37 AM
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If we were to look back in our life, we could have literally dealt with every single situation better, so instead of dwelling on the past, we should learn the lesson from our mistake and move on. So what was the lesson here? You think too much. I've learned that the best approaches I did were without thinking, I just made myself walk there, sometimes I would have nothing to say and I would say: "I don't have any pick up line, I just thought you were pretty and came here to meet you". Sometimes i…
/r/seduction10/06/14 04:36 AM
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I feel you man, at first, I love the really hot girls, but after sometime I realize that they were kind of shallow, empty. So I started finding a balance(specially when I get into a relationship). If you are in a date and you are not bothered to be there, leave. Go spend your time with someone you want to spend your time with. Clubs are great...if you are looking for hot girls, but since you are not, go to other places where you are more likely to find what you want. I don't go to Burger King an…
/r/seduction10/06/14 04:20 AM
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With that being said, no, it is not needy, but it just doesn't add anything to her perception of you.
/r/seduction10/06/14 04:15 AM
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My number one advice: Theory is important, and so is Practice. So, read up materials(specially those which have to do with inner game and motivation) but also remember to actually practice and experience what you are reading about it. Or else, you might as well read a romance novel.
/r/seduction10/06/14 03:12 AM
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As a Brazilian, all the pick up lines I saw were the ones that we use when saying someone can`t pick up. Just saying.
/r/seduction02/06/14 10:03 PM
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You got an upvote for the awkward dork part, that made me laugh
/r/seduction29/05/14 05:19 PM
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"Would you rather experience it and be able to remember it with a smile on your face OR only wonder what it would've been like?" Just my version of that :)
/r/seduction04/03/14 09:49 PM
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A girl must have 4 things: She must be loyal She must be passionate She must be feminine She must be spontaneous That is really all I want.
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:51 AM
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You obviously haven't seen Wedding Crashers
/r/seduction16/01/14 04:02 PM
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Living an attractive lifestyle should be FOR YOU, NOT FOR THEM. Women are simply consequence of it.
/r/seduction12/01/14 09:05 PM
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Kiss her, or you will most likely end up just being her friend
/r/seduction06/01/14 06:12 PM
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In my country, and especially in the social cicle I am in, it is also very frowned upon. To the point, a very selected group do it. I am part of that group and I also know of girls who have interest in joining or like to smoke but don't want to show everyone. So, those girls, I smoke with them and shit and everything is cool, I occasionally get with them, but I don't like because I don't like to hook up with friends. But the ones that don't smoke have no idea that I do it, and that is awesome. S…
/r/seduction24/12/13 05:21 PM
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I am a doctor, I will prescribe you some medicine cause you know, that's how everything is solved in the States. Well, let's see, you will need one dosage of Fuck It just before you make a move on her. You will need 2 dosages a day of a little drug we call Confidence Boost, you take one when you wake up and another one when you go out at night. You will also need some Man the Fuck Up, but that you should take like tic-tacs, every hour of the day. And it would also be smart, although not necessar…
/r/seduction24/12/13 05:16 PM
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This reminds me of Bangkok Dangerous But yeah let your body do the talking, and you will realize with this experience how important body language is and how you can use it to your benefit. Remember: Have fun and make sure she is having fun as well
/r/seduction24/12/13 05:04 PM
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When you "have their shit together" you are basically saying that we should only date women who have the same or a bigger salaries than us, wouldnt that be gold-digging in a way? Also, a lot of women who dont have their financial situation sorted out are amazing, they have their shit together emotionally and that is what I care
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 10:42 PM
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They have little to no control over their physical appearance. Sure, they can wear makeup, do their hair, but that is something they are doing. Also, being cute is so generic. Specific is terrific.
/r/seduction19/12/13 10:44 PM
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I dont like that opener because you are already complementing her, which in itself there is nothing wrong. But you are complementing her on something she has little or no control over. Try complementing her on something she is doing or has done(a lace on her hair, her necklace, etc).
/r/seduction19/12/13 08:47 PM
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We call that putting it out hahah
/r/seduction19/12/13 01:52 PM
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I would never look my wife in the face. If I was pissed and inclined I would have a harem, film it, pack my bags, leave the tape on the bed and go to a hotel. Then I would file a divorce for custody of the kids. She will cheat on him again that is a guarantee.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 07:31 PM
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There are no rules, simply principles. The principles are the same but have to be adjusted to every culture. Example: In my city in Brazil, there is no such thing as phone close, so I've never asked for a girl's phone number with seduction purposes
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 03:18 PM
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Leave, but also remember, you cant go expecting much of an answer ;)
/r/seduction12/12/13 02:29 AM
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I had a male bestfriend and a female bestfriend, they were together, but I liked her, once they took a break and we hooked up. This led to a love triangle for about a yesr, alot of fighting, argument, etc, etc. In the end my male friend left because he didnt like her anymore, and the girl and I continued, after a month she broke my heart...like stepped and did some jumping-jacks on top of it. I was really sad and my male bestfriend took me out to get over her, drinking and all of that. I drank s…
/r/seduction03/12/13 01:08 PM
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Background: I had a long distance relationship with a girl in Canada and I was living in Brazil Situation: I was in a party, near drunk, a bit high and I was talking to this awesome girl, 3 years older than me, very mature, extremely funny, etc, etc. And I started noticing that her interest was exponentially growing, but what really surprised me was that MY interest was also rising. This had never happened before and for the first time I was considering cheating on my girlfriend Decision: With a…
/r/seduction03/12/13 12:46 PM
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Well, we were at my friend's house pre partying, and this girls comes in 3 years older than me and she sits down at the table talking to everyone, then I sat next to her, told her: lets drink a shot. We drank a shot. Then she started smoking, and I shared a cigarette with her. I was kinoing alot and connecting over the fact she was european, i lived there, she spoke french, i spoke french, etc, etc. At one point I took the convo to a sexual level and well, she was asking about my experiences and…
/r/seduction20/11/13 10:12 AM
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Excuse: She is 3 years older than me Why it doesn't matter: Cause you know...she is THREE YEARS OLDER, THAT IS AWESOME!!! Ended up titsucking her in the back of a cab that night :P
/r/seduction19/11/13 11:15 PM
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Actually, I found that it doesnt matter what you do, but how you say it. For example, if I am an engineer and she asks: So what you do? I can say: Im in the process of creating the next Burj Khalifa. If you are a teacher you can say: I am training the kids to become better citizebs, just kidding, actually I am training them so we can one day plan a coup d'etat It matter how you say it, you can also insert a joke to make it more funny. For example, I am a student and I was approaching a 26 year o…
/r/seduction12/11/13 02:42 PM
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You stop gaming with other girls, that is the only difference
/r/seduction09/11/13 10:33 PM
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Any tips on how to f-close a virgin you are dating?
/r/seduction09/11/13 06:28 PM
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There is no such thing as "coming out of your comfort zone too early". The best time to have done it was last year, the second best time is now.
/r/seduction09/11/13 06:24 PM
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When I started this, about 4-5 years ago, I sarged alot using a wingman, I just felt more comfortable, especially considering my best friend and i were learning this stuff together. But there was a point in which we noticed that our style of gaming was too different. He is a direct and I game on indirect. By the time we realized that wingman was useless since we couldn't really help each other. From that moment on we only used each other when we need the other one to sarge the friend while the o…
/r/seduction09/11/13 06:21 PM
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No night is the same. Every night is a new adventure, a new chapter, and that is why I go out, to find out what will happen.
/r/seduction07/11/13 11:47 PM
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This is true, my girlfriend is currently 2 years older than me and its fine. In the beginning she never mentioned, but once we got serious she did sorta jokingly, but the stuff I would say and how I would act showed that age didnt matter, she came up to me one day and told me: I dont even care if you are 2 years younger than me, you've experienced more of life than me in every aspect I can think of. Also, it also might be a shit test, I remember that I would tell girls I was 18 and approach, 21,…
/r/seduction07/11/13 10:49 PM
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read the title, he said maximum of five
/r/seduction06/11/13 08:33 PM
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Be independent of the outcome Kino Always be closing Invest in your inner game, its the most important part of the game
/r/seduction06/11/13 08:16 PM
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I am Brazilian, lived in the US and France, my girlfriend is canadian. Latinas(women born in countries that speak latin-based languages such as Spain, Brazil, Mexico) tend to be more loosen, they are much more welcoming and warm. Kino is much MUCH easier. They are more down to party. And here there is no phone close bullshit, and we 99% of the times make out within the first half-an-hour. So yes, they are also more kinky in a sense. My experience is around brazilian girls mostly, but I also have…
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:30 AM
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So...I will pick you up the usual time ;)
/r/seduction29/10/13 10:22 PM
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Then you aren't exploring it enough.
/r/seduction28/10/13 10:58 PM
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This varies from city to city. For example, in my city there are bars which close at 0-1 am, so the time when there is most people is about 10-11 pm while there are others which close 2-3 am, those you will find that between 11 pm to 1 am is where the most number of people is concentrated.
/r/seduction27/10/13 11:41 PM
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Why are you unattractive? Society doesn't say so, or else girls wouldn't be interested in you. You are saying that. You are making yourself feel unattractive. Chill, accept that you look like this, learn to love how you look, you know that freckle in your face that you hate, learn to love it, like REALLY love it.
/r/seduction26/10/13 07:26 PM
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This is classic. To answer the question on the back of your mind: No, she is not interested in you. But there is something you can do, as a seducer you must see opportunities everywhere especially in a bad situation. She probably has really cute friends, ask her to hook you up. Use her as your wingwoman(without actually telling her). That is good because of two things: * If she hooks you up, well...you gotta a hook up * Woman are jealous beings, if she sees you with one of her friends she might …
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:29 PM
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Just be careful to not fall in the friendzone
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:31 PM
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If you have a gf for a month and havent kissed, I would suggest Kino and sexual escalation.
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:27 PM
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Instead of asking them you could also say: "You seem like fun, I am going X on Friday, you can join me if you want"
/r/seduction25/10/13 03:53 PM
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British. But only native, if a person is faking and I detect it I despise it.
/r/seduction25/10/13 03:51 PM
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I once read about a guy in New York that he was ugly, fat and homeless. Yet, he was only seen dining with beautiful women, like absolutely STUNNING women. Once, a journalist asked him: "How do you get these dates?" He explained that he would stand in the middle of the street and ask all beautiful women that passed if they wanted to have dinner with him. Out of a 100, 99 rejected him, but there was always at least 1 who said "yes". Can you see the persistance of this guy? He couldn't give less of…
/r/seduction25/10/13 03:49 PM
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There is a reason we repeat this over and over again: Be independent of thhe outcome. You can't let one or even a thousand fuck up get in the way of your next approach. It is like having a speed bump in the road, and then just stopping the car and stay there. But you dont do that, you go over the speed bump, it might be painful, it might even take more time than the normal path.
/r/seduction25/10/13 12:56 AM
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Not necessarily. I would just say, don't quit everything just because society tells us it is bad. I love to smoke a joint occasionaly and drink beers with my bros, so I don't give up drugs nor alcohol, as well as they can sometimes aid in my game. Now, masturbation I found that I am best off without it. But that might be just me, so find what works for you.
/r/seduction25/10/13 12:51 AM
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True, in my experience, alcohol can help in some occasions such as a club or a party. Weed usually doesn't help me. If you do a hit or two you should be fine, but when you are blazed out, at least me, take too long to think and cant make much sense out of anything.
/r/seduction24/10/13 10:20 PM
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Started from the bottom now we are here! Seriously though, not necessarily, there have been times which I involved with a 8 then jumped to a 9 then dropped to a 7. It happens. You don't have to have a ascending order.
/r/seduction24/10/13 09:30 PM
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First, stop beating yourself up. You are both the mentor and the apprentice. Imagine if a mentor/teacher talked to you like the way you are talking to yourself. Would you want to change? I highly doubt so. So, ease, acknowledge you have difficulties(as does everyone) and that you are willing to do something about them. Second, you are overcomplicating it, it is a common mistake like: I've to do this, so I can do this, so I can do that, so I can get to there so I can say I had a nice approach. It…
/r/seduction24/10/13 09:28 PM
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Sure. I spent the whole month of July in Portugal this year, in a city where I knew no one I turned myself to the game and it did not fail me. Before I start explaining, it is important to note 3 things: * I told every girl I approached I was 18 * I tried two types of girls: 16-17 years old and 20-31 years old, I found there was a very different response from those two groups. * My primary place of action was (for the people that know Lisbon) Bairro Alto NOW, MY CONCLUSION: For the 20-31 years o…
/r/seduction24/10/13 08:38 PM
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I was in a party and I wanted to hook up with this girl and I knew she was somewhat interested in me so I started talking, used a normal opener, build some connection, escalated the kino. Everything was normal. The turning point was when she was sitting on my lap and started playing with a bracelet I had in my right wrist. I looked into her eyes and said: "you know I a prophet" to which she replied: "Oh really? Prove it" I held my hand open, showing five fingers and said: "In five seconds you ar…
/r/seduction23/10/13 11:48 PM
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The good thing is that what you want to become is often interrelated. *To be more fun/funny: Watch stand up comedy, learn from the best(I love Chris Rock, for example) *To be more adventurous: Stop making lists and accomplish something on that list, or just sign up for a class, learn a new language, find a hobby, do something you always wanted to do *To be more spontaneous: Stand up comedy will teach you alot, but also improvisation classes and exercises, one thing I found that helped me was mut…
/r/seduction23/10/13 11:36 PM
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From South American to South American I can say: Yes. You simply have to adjust your game to the location you are in. For example, I am brazilian and what works is Cocky and funny. In Portugal what worked was more like interesting routines which fascinated them. In France, it was using negs, since the girls were very stuck up. Also, depends who you are picking up, with american and canadians for example, I use a lot of kino because that is not very usual for them and gets them all curious. Regar…
/r/seduction23/10/13 09:13 PM
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Be descriptive, alot. Men are very objective while women are subjective. Why do you think 50 shades of grey is such a hit? Have you read it, it is EXTREMELY descriptive, specially in the matter of sex. Try telling stories with a lot of words that spark emotions(generally good). Like... windy breeze, freedom, liberty, etc.
/r/seduction23/10/13 08:59 PM
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Wear the costume of the Great Gatsby might not be a bad idea
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:41 PM
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Not wrong at all. You either eject on the smallest hint of rejection OR you are going well and you are afraid to fuck it up. It is quite normal, what I would suggest is exactly that: Force yourself to stay until it is uncomfortable, like...unbearably uncomfortable. Do that for 5-7 sets. The first one you will almost freak out, the second one you will freak out too but with less intensity, by the third you will begin to see it isn't that bad, by the fourth you will be accostumed, by the seventh y…
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:28 PM
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If you could give 3 advices on picking up superficial girls, what would them be?
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:55 PM
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If you've got confirmation that she is interested, then just kiss her. And I don't mean literally. Ask her on a date and then kiss her. Also, I've this feeling you are all about asking permission and indecisive, that draws girls away...just saying
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:45 PM
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Im in high school, girl is attracted to me already, but she is grounded and cant go out, so ive to close it in school how should I proceed in order to k-close within the school?
/r/seduction21/10/13 11:12 PM
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Not necessarily, it something you must constantly strive for in the beggining. EDIT: Grammar
/r/seduction21/10/13 10:53 PM
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r/seduction doesn't put enough focus on inner game. For that you should go to r/GetMotivated
/r/seduction20/10/13 09:35 PM
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If it works for you, keep doing it, just don't let it become a crutch.
/r/seduction20/10/13 01:42 PM
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I wish more people knew that, it doesn't really matter what your opener is. I've said the most stupid stuff when opening a set that worked and I've also said(what i thought it was) the most clever opener. The girl will probably not even going to remember what you said in the first 5 minutes you met, and if she does...who the fuck cares
/r/seduction17/10/13 12:36 AM
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Honestly, what I've found out is that there your opener doesn't matter much. Here is an example: When I was in Portugal, a girl had just led a cigarette up, I had never seen this girl in my life, I just took the cigarette off her hand, took a puff, her reaction obviously was of surprise, so I said: "I like this cigarette, what brand is it" and started talking normally. So you see, it is not really about your opener it is what you afterwards. She probably won't even remember.
/r/seduction16/10/13 11:59 PM
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Be careful, I speak English and Portuguese, both fluently and I can affirm something: When you change the language you are speaking, your personality might change. That is not only me, there is science behind that you can google it. I notice it because I have friends who also speak both languages and when we transition from one to another(which quite often happens) they always tell me: Lucas you are so different when you speak english. It might not be necessarily a bad thing, I play indirect muc…
/r/seduction17/09/13 12:51 AM
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