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Yep! I'm much more of a hot weather girl (Phoenix is my hometown) so I'm not crazy about the snow, but right now if it wasn't raining all the time the weather (40-50 F) would be nice. We have loads of cute little stores downtown, it's very "hippie trippy" sometimes but I love Flag.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 10:37 PM
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At a cursory glance (trying to get homework done before I lose myself in Pinterest again), I'm always looking for good soup recipes, especially now that it's actually feeling like autumn. And I'm super into the flavors of Italian food (and the carbs). I'll definitely be lost in that for a while! I did already pin a few cat toy DIYs, my little Smol will appreciate them :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 03:09 AM
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Flagstaff has one of these too! I've only been once, it's a bizarre experience to say the least. Also kind of smells like cat pee.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 01:59 AM
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Oh NO, there's so many food pins, and I want to eat all of them. Guess what I'm doing tonight?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 12:53 AM
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THANK YOU. I love dirty humor within reason, there are many female comedians who I think are hilarious (Mindy Kaling and Ellen Degeneres come to mind) but every time I see Amy Schumer or hear her name, I cringe. When unskippable ads for her godawful romp of a movie Trainwreck were all over Youtube I stopped watching for a few weeks until I was confident they would be gone. We get it, you like casual sex and belching. Cool. Stop telling me about it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 12:15 AM
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His dad is a very difficult person to deal with. I think he's most concerned with his dad giving him shit for it, but I don't know specifics. Thanks for the advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 06:53 AM
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To clarify, if there is a problem I think it's with his dad. From what I understand his dad was emotionally and occasionally physically abusive, as well as being away for long stretches of his childhood (truck driver). Additionally, his dad often openly made fun of me when I was at his place when we dated the first time around. He actually emails his mom weekly, so I don't know that she's the problem. It's always possible she could be an awful person, I guess, but he's never indicated anything b…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 06:51 AM
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I volunteer at a cat shelter over the summer, and it's staffed about 75%-25%, women-men. It's interesting, it's naturally a very nurturing job (cuddling baby kittens, squee!) while also horribly disgusting and sometimes gut-wrenchingly sad (parvo kittens... oh no :( ) If I tried to be a perfect lady at work I would go nuts. Sometimes you just have to get dirty, and be able to laugh about it. Just take a long shower when you get home.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 09:13 AM
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Thank you! Not OP, but this really helps. I naturally have a really sarcastic, observational style of humor and I swear a lot, and my peers have always said I'm hilarious. I get so worried when I think about being a RPW because I feel like I shouldn't have that sense of humor... if that makes sense. My man likes it, so I guess I'll be alright. It comes so naturally, I don't think I could suppress that part of me for long.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 09:13 AM
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I played flute for 5 years, junior high into high school. I loved it :) I wish I hadn't sold mine.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 09:05 AM
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I have thin hair and have kept my hair somewhere between chin-length and shoulder-length for a few years. I prefer it just barely skimming my shoulders, but right now it's growing back out because my hairdresser wasn't paying attention and cut it too short :( I used to have long hair in high school and I looked good with it, but now if I grow it out too long it looked flat and lifeless, even with layers. Maybe one day I'll try growing it out long again. I do like how it takes much less time to "…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 05:20 AM
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I have very thin hair (and some hair loss due to a medication I took briefly, grr) so I keep my hair somewhere just above shoulder length. My hairdresser actually cut it WAY too short a few weeks ago, so right now I'm just waiting for it to grow back out :/ Anyway, when I was younger and my hair was super thick, I looked great with long hair; now, at the ripe old age of 19 with my hair suddenly baby-fine, anything longer than shoulder length just looks flat and lifeless, even with layers.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 05:17 AM
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I love, love, love Bombshell :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 04:58 AM
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My go-to for cute, sexy PJs are cute PJ shorts and a tank top. It's cute but not fussy, and not too hot temperature-wise :P If all else fails, cute panties and one of his T-shirts. It drives my man nuts (in a good way), maybe it'll work for you :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 10:23 PM
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For me, it's a matter of "swearing constantly for no reason" and "a well-placed curse or too". Sometimes you just need a strong word to convey your feelings, but for most things, you don't really. I would just focus on "saving" the swear words for situations that really warrant it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 05:37 AM
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My mom's the same way! Went from a very unique Polish last name to the sixth most common last name in the US :P
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/15 04:00 AM
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There is no greater joy in life than mutual butt-grabbing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 09:24 AM
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I'm in a similar situation with a pretty liberal boyfriend. When I first came to this sub, a few women told me don't directly talk to him about it, just live by the values and watch him grow on his own, with your support :) It does happen, very slowly, but it's real!
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 06:53 AM
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Arizona is just... a struggle. I went for a very informal interview last summer and I agonized over what to wear, because it was the middle of June and easily over 100F. Thank goodness it was the shelter, everyone runs around there in "work clothes" anyway so it's not too bad :P As for guys, hopefully my current man sticks around! I'm quite fond of him ;P
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 10:07 AM
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I think it means, instead of always being alone, put yourself out there and make friends, cause you never know who you might meet. We all need a study break on the regular, though, at least us college girls :P
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 10:06 AM
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I know it sounds conceited, but I'm in a similar situation at university and sometimes I just look around and think "Damn, I look good compared to these women". I know a lot of people don't get why I won't leave the house in sweats, even if I'm sick, or why I always fix my hair, but honestly when you look put together, you feel put together. And I need that. :P (Gotta disagree on the flip flops, though it depends if they're a "nice" pair or the 2 dollar old Navy kind. /arizonaproblems)
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 10:39 PM
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I feel like if my man handed down a list of things I'm not "allowed" to wear I would get out fast, honestly. It crosses the line into abusive behavior IMO, and I don't need anyone micromanaging my wardrobe. That being said, I try to dress cute but not overtly slutty. Finding a balance is hard in Arizona because some days it's literally too hot to wear anything but short shorts, but we haven't been together during the summer so we'll see where it goes when we get there.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 09:44 AM
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Frankly, I'm jealous! I think it's wonderful. You might miss out on short-term fun, sure, but in the long run it's not worth it. If you have a great guy, hold onto him. And be happy :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 02:51 AM
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This was a delightful read!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 05:38 AM
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RPW is arrogant enough to proclaim that all non-RP relationships are fucked from the start. You believe that I am not a "real woman" because I don't want to be a stay-at-home mom, because I work outside the home, because I have dreams and ambitions that extend beyond making a man happy. You believe that my relationship is doomed because it doesn't look like yours. I don't put up with abuse or accept a lesser position in my household, and that is apparently very upsetting. You look down on me for…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 05:31 AM
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This really hit me! My boyfriend plans to go to grad school in Colorado, I plan on following him once I finish undergrad, and my family wants to move there once my brother finishes high school (so, 4 years). My mom's parents lived very close to us growing up and they were the only babysitters I ever had. Papa died first, then a few years later my mom was executor of my nana's will, took all the financial responsibility, planned the funeral, divided up her belongings, EVERYTHING. Her other four s…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 05:30 AM
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My favorite skirts came from Old Navy, I got them on a Black Friday sale for 15 bucks each and I love them :) Old Navy is generally pretty good, they tend to run big though and some of their stuff is way too sheer. I love their vintage v-neck t shirts, they're form fitting and feminine but also the comfiest things you could ever hope to wear.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 02:22 AM
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I've shaved since puberty because I live in a very hot region of the country, and anything that makes you smell less like sweat is a blessing. Ultimately, it's down to what your man likes. I think it's a bit silly to think it's "dirty", but everyone has their preferences, and you should respect his.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 02:21 AM
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I love Adam West-type cursing, I had to adopt it when I worked in a preschool for a bit and now it's second nature :P My favorites are "son of a biscuit/bee" and "oh flapjacks"!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:38 AM
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It'll be fine, sweetie. Maybe not today, maybe not this week, but at some point you'll look back on this and laugh. (I sound way too much like a grandmother)
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:37 AM
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I so wish my school had offered home ec :( We had a few spinoff classes, most notably the culinary program, but the only thing that came remotely close was just 5 months of abstinence-only sex ed. I got the chance to work in my school's on-site preschool though, which taught me a lot about how to reason with toddlers (spoiler: you can't).
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 08:35 AM
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I'm borrowing advice from my best friend-- she gives herself a full day to wallow in self pity. Lay in bed, cry, eat ice cream, cut his face out of pictures, whatever. Then, after a good night's sleep, she gets up and MAKES herself get up and start going about normal life. It's not easy and it never will be, but the best thing you can do for yourself is keep moving forward and pay attention to your self-care. And agreeing with the other ladies here: don't talk to him, at all!
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 11:52 PM
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I think showing your routine a little is fine! Like, my boyfriend sees me style my hair and put on makeup in the morning, but like hell will he ever see me shave my legs, even when we shower together :P It shows him you're human and you're really trying to be as good-looking as possible for him. Plus, you never know, my boyfriend finds it cute when I have my hair all twisted up before bed so it'll be wavy in the morning. Still don't understand that one.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 08:35 AM
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Oh, I would say absolutely. Ever since I've put effort into being more feminine for my guy he's really come out of his shell; he's more protective, more sexually dominant, and more willing to lead and makes plans himself instead of asking me to do it. It's just the perfect mix of asking for my input and taking the relationship where he wants it to go with me happily following :) It takes some time, because men have been conditioned to hide their natural inclinations, but it's so worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 08:32 AM
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Seconding. Please, please go see a therapist! There's no shame in it, and it will help you greatly.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 06:12 AM
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Butt wiggling is the best :) My boyfriend is definitely an "ass man", so he definitely enjoys it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 10:17 PM
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It seems cruel to break up with him because of something he can't control, though. I'm certainly not perfect in the mental health department (depression/anxiety, on medication) either and he supports me through my issues. I feel like it's the least I can do to be there for him too.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 11:51 PM
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I'm in a similar situation. I'm also 19, 20yo boyfriend and I celebrate our six month on April Fool's Day :) He has severe social anxiety to the point where sometimes he can't even talk to salespeople in a store. The advice I can give is never berate him about his mental illness. He can't control it, and bringing it up in a negative manner all the time just makes him feel worse. I've learned this the hard way when I snap at him in moments of anger, and I see how crushed he is. I try to be there …
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/15 07:19 PM
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I have IBS, so sometimes if I eat the wrong thing it's really difficult to keep from being gross. But as far as my boyfriend knows, I don't poop. :P
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 02:29 AM
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Oh, thank you! I'm on break right now, so I have time to look at some of these :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 12:12 AM
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I only started wearing dresses my freshman year of college, and I LOVE them now. Seriously, they're so easy. Skirts, too! If it's still cold where you live, wear fleece lined leggings or tights with them, and you'll still be warm :) I just got a beautiful blue and white chevron-print dress from Ross, actually!
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 05:30 AM
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Three cheers for calling him an asshole ;) Mine "secretly" likes it too.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 05:22 AM
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I almost bought a vintage etiquette book at a tag sale once... I love vintage books! It was more or less unreadable, however, due to fading :(
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 05:03 AM
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Wear sunscreen. Moisturize like it's your religion. Take your makeup off EVERY NIGHT, even if you're tired. Drink water like it's going out of style. Try to get some sleep. I'm 19 and I realize that none of this sounds fun, but hang in there. It'll pay off in the long run :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 07:03 AM
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Oh yes yes yes! I started moisturizing like it's my religion last winter, and it's made SUCH a difference.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 07:02 AM
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I don't see anything wrong with it! I know lots of guys who love athletic women. I would just say make sure you're not too masculine about it (trash-talking, fighting, etc.) what sports do you like? Learning how to sew is just a useful skill to have, though, regardless of gender!
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 11:02 PM
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If he has a sweet tooth like my BF, he'll love it! When we first started dating I was learning how to bake, so every week I was texting him "hey, come over, I made cake/cookies/brownies/whatever". He didn't complain :P
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/15 11:00 PM
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Fellow 19 year old former feminist! Let's be friends :) I really don't have any advice that hasn't already been said. The biggest hurdle for me is recognizing that it's a learning process. You're going to screw up. Shake it off and keep going. There will come a day when you wake up and being feminine just naturally comes and you won't have to think about it :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:44 PM
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Yes yes yes on the first point! Both Lonewolf and I were both told constantly how brilliant we were as kids, then as we grew up and found out we weren't hot shit, it was a real blow to our egos.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:33 PM
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I like what the feminist movement is supposed to be. Men and women should absolutely have the same rights and responsibilities. I don't think many people would disagree with that. I don't like the current mentality, where everyone is a victim and every living thing is a trigger, and men are evil and women are perfect and yada yada.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:27 PM
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I get the "how have you guys been together for so long" and we haven't even been together six months. The only couple I know up here who's had a longer relationship is our friends R and C, who have been dating for four years (and need to get engaged, IMO, but that's a side note...)
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 11:10 PM
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I agree! I don't like the modern feminist movement, but the original tenets are very appealing to me-- everyone should be able to do what they want to do. If a woman wants to be a CEO, she should go for it with all her heart! But she shouldn't put down the woman who wants to be a SAMH, and likewise we shouldn't badmouth her for no reason.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 11:16 PM
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Seconding! I got a super cute set of plates at Goodwill for like $3 on half price day (every other Saturday!), and I've reasoned that a lot of my kitchen stuff for my new place next year will be secondhand :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 02:13 AM
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Her music is definitely a guilty pleasure for me, as long as I can tune out the lyrics. But I can't get past this song at all. Just... so much entitlement.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 02:12 AM
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Hee, I know. He's always been pretty liberal both socially and politically, and I can get that. We also both have tumblrs :P He's very accepting and non-judgmental. I like it about him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 02:10 AM
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I spent so long thinking that there must be something wrong with me because, as much as I want a college degree and a good job, I really wanted to be married and have kids before my 20s were over. Even my mom thinks that's too early (she had me at 35, so...) It's refreshing to know I'm not alone :) I show him as much as I can, and I've gotten a few more ideas just by poking around red pill blogs!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 05:51 AM
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He knows that I'm bi, that I've only had a relationship with one girl (in high school), and that it never got sexual. Since middle school I've done more of a serial monogamy thing, barring a regrettable couple of weeks last year when I went crazy and rode the carousel. In a moment of insecurity I brought up my "number", and he says it doesn't matter as long as I'm faithful to him. Also, my cats are adorable, so :P I can provide pictures of Goofball too though, for the dog lovers.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 04:36 AM
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