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An introduction, I suppose?

lucythelumberjack
February 24, 2015
9 upvotes
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Title An introduction, I suppose?
Author

lucythelumberjack
Upvotes 9
Comments 8
Date February 24, 2015 11:49 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2x1u5p/an_introduction_i_suppose/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/an-introduction-i-suppose.166090
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Comments

[–]eatplaycrushEndorsed Contributor5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Why would we want cat pictures? I like dogs, so..

All joking aside, does he know you identify as a bisexual? Have you been with women, or had any intimate relations with a man AND women at the same time? If yes, you need to be transparent and then you'll need to expect that some day he may want you to do x, y, or z that you did with so and so or he might just not like that fact at all.

Stop apologizing with words. Use actions.

[–]lucythelumberjack1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He knows that I'm bi, that I've only had a relationship with one girl (in high school), and that it never got sexual. Since middle school I've done more of a serial monogamy thing, barring a regrettable couple of weeks last year when I went crazy and rode the carousel. In a moment of insecurity I brought up my "number", and he says it doesn't matter as long as I'm faithful to him.

Also, my cats are adorable, so :P I can provide pictures of Goofball too though, for the dog lovers.

[–]eatplaycrushEndorsed Contributor1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My Aunt has a service dog and I would like mine to get certified too. Great dogs.

Just show him with actions what it would be like to be in an exclusive relationship with you for the long haul, show him your loyalty. Words are nice, but actions will speak so much more volume to men. I was 18 when I met my SO so I know how you feel within people not understanding. Hell, even at 22 they don't. I don't think our generation really "gets" traditionalism, although there are outliers. Just focus on yourself and your man, focus on progressing and always looking for area's to improve. Other then that, welcome and I'm glad you introduced yourself!

[–]lucythelumberjack0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I spent so long thinking that there must be something wrong with me because, as much as I want a college degree and a good job, I really wanted to be married and have kids before my 20s were over. Even my mom thinks that's too early (she had me at 35, so...) It's refreshing to know I'm not alone :)

I show him as much as I can, and I've gotten a few more ideas just by poking around red pill blogs!

[–]homo_homini_lupus 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Youre dating a man who says "heteronormative"?

[–]lucythelumberjack0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hee, I know. He's always been pretty liberal both socially and politically, and I can get that. We also both have tumblrs :P He's very accepting and non-judgmental. I like it about him.

[–]vough1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Welcome! Goofball sounds lovely! And so does Lonewolf.

[–]Aine_of_knockaine1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He doesn't necessarily have to know. The whole idea is if you allow men to be Captain that they will step up into that role if they're quality men when women do their part. Don't worry about telling him. Just worry about doing. Your actions will motivate him.

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