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I agree with what she has said because in my experience, which has been only with men who exhibit high dominance/DT traits, what she is saying is true. Maybe my comment is confusing, but I just woke up too and saw it when I was like "wow, I really agree with that sentiment" hahah
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 07:41 PM
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No, the part about being on their journey and earning your spot are more common. Sorry for my confusion!
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 07:36 PM
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I actually agree with her fully, but also know it does depend on the type of man. I've only ever been really interested in men with a very high dominance threshold/exhibit signs of DT and have noticed that it tends to ring true for them more so than men who are lesser on those scales whether they're younger or not. They want you to prove yourself to them through the journey, and because of my track record this has been my train of thought with myself and men moving forward still.
/r/RedPillWives19/09/16 07:09 PM
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I have my cos license, I understand clear glazes exist and I do a clear shades on mine time to time, but it does not add much color depth or color tone (maybe I should have wrote it that way) and they are more to make your hair shiny/look healthy. Edit: obviously color glazes will add more depth and tone. I refuse to live without them 😅
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 09:23 PM
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A glaze is a different product than the gloss she listed. If your hair is thick, coarse, etc that gloss will work, but it will probably need to be re-applied because it is meant more for people with not a ton of hair as it is a light weight serum. The only oil I'll ever use on my hair is Moroccan Oil, http://www.moroccanoil.com/us_en/hair-care-moroccanoil-treatment-original-us , because my hair is very thick, coarse, and long. I'm a colored red head too and the type of oils you use won't really …
/r/RedPillWives23/08/16 07:55 PM
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This is hard for me too. I've been working on it. Same as you I can leave it alone, but as soon as he leaves or something comes up I'm reaching for it. It's not even like half of the time he leaves I'm going to do anything that cool or important, it's almost habit.
/r/RedPillWives06/08/16 05:42 PM
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Fall fashion!! Yes, it is almost that time of year isn't it 😁😁😁
/r/RedPillWives03/08/16 01:16 PM
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For rice cookers, mainly American versions, washing the rice a few times makes a HUGE difference. Not sure if you knew this little tip because I never did until I had to make rice every day for someone who is Filipino cultured. 😅
/r/RedPillWives30/07/16 11:41 PM
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This exactly.
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 04:50 PM
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Stop putting yourself down so much! After every single flaw you said you have you just added in parenthesis a neg to your own self. That is never good for moving forward and being persistent to change. It is extremely hard for someone to be genuinely straight up ugly, and if your SO has been with you for a few years he obviously does not see you in that light. Hardly any women I know look silly with makeup on, especially when you learn to do it for YOUR face. It really is only an upgrade. I'd su…
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 12:20 PM
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This is my issue. I constantly am in need to know EVERYTHING to the point if someone close to me has a secret and they tell me.. 9/10 I've known and have been waiting. I've worked on my need to control a lot the last few months and made great progress, but this one seems to be the hardest to maintain.
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 08:08 PM
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They are popular in the US so I know for a fact they will be in most places. Typically they are sold in a case of 4, but if you go to a gas station you can get singles already cold to try. If you're not in the US I'm not sure how big they are, but I know I've seen them on social media in other places.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 04:58 PM
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Bubbly caffeine: Sugar Free Monsters. It has more carbonation then any other energy drink I've tried, and if you know me then you know my severe love for caffeine. The flavors are really nice too.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 03:12 PM
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I can't stop laughing 😂
/r/RedPillWives22/07/16 12:37 AM
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Congrats, girly! Xoxo
/r/RedPillWives18/07/16 01:55 AM
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I can't agree more. I also would hope my partner does this as well. There is absolutely no reason to share anything except positive actions, thoughts, etc to anyone who you are talking to in terms of your significant other. My last long term relationship was hard, but even then I tried to keep myself in check and only benefitted from it. Anything bad, embarrassing, or negative is between US. There is no reason for any outsider to know, they are not in OUR relationship or OUR life. I only want su…
/r/RedPillWives15/07/16 03:16 PM
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After sex when he complains.. Is he complaining about something you have done during sex or what? Most good men who are attracted and emotionally invested are willing to guide their partner on what they like and prefer or what they do not like. That pretty much goes for outside of the bedroom as well. Communication is key in maintaining a good relationship, but from this it sounds as if there is a big lack of it.
/r/RedPillWives13/07/16 07:21 AM
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Well, I will not be watching that. Wtf
/r/RedPillWives11/07/16 09:23 PM
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It is ok to thank them for small acts of kindness This is something I'm huge on for a lot of reasons, but mainly because when you do this you can see the reaction of their faces to know how good they feel every time. Never take anything for granted because their love is unlike any other you will ever get and what you're thankful for you most likely won't receive from anyone else.
/r/RedPillWives09/07/16 03:18 PM
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Absolutely yes. I notice a distinct difference. I am just not as effient over all without it. With it my mind, emotions, and even how I behave physically seem to be much "clearer" as well as easier to manage.
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 09:42 AM
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And.. other dogs aren't capable of this either? Personal feelings aside, ALL dogs have the ability to snap. I've had small dogs attack my pit and she stood there, frozen lol. I've been around plenty of them to form my unpopular opinion, but I've never seen one that has substantial training and time spent with it act anything other than big babies.
/r/RedPillWives02/07/16 01:58 AM
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It isnt only older people. When trained properly they CAN be an amazing family oriented dog. Just like people get trained..a dog can be too I've had one who got to be 13. The most well behaved, respectful, and funny dog I have EVER been around. When she went anywhere there would always be comments about how she's such a sweetie. German Shepherds are more hostile and wishy washy yet I don't see people saying that just about ever.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 07:39 PM
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alphabet soup Hahahah. I wish I could do that crying laughing emoji
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 01:29 AM
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That girl makes abuse look like it's ANYTHING that disagrees with her. If you read my history there have been some serious eye raises from time to time due to how my ex behaved. He is a DT, my therapist agrees, everyone around US agrees, and the point that made me leave was the actual abusive behavior. Not traveling, hell..not even having male friends is something I happily did, but then it became having NO friends. The first part is just basic respect and because you care, that second part is n…
/r/RedPillWives29/06/16 07:48 PM
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Those descriptions are subjective. I do not prefer that fit. I prefer big boy swole. Not Jay Cutler, but that fit is smaller than I am so naturally as a female who lifts that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 06:32 PM
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I met him and it was like every single thing I resented other people for, I was excited to do for him. I wanted to cook and clean and please him. I wanted him to look at my body and admire it. I wanted to talk to him about the things I loved. This hit me hard because it is too true and I have actually seen myself with someone who naturally brought this out in myself. I genuinely loved any and everything I could do to please him, be better for him. I have also seen it in myself where I do resent,…
/r/RedPillWives24/06/16 08:42 PM
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I have seriously long and thick hair. I get asked if my hair is real often...a GOOD dry shampoo will save you for a bit, but I'd recommend getting it washed by a salon if you're too sketched out to do it yourself. They also make dry conditioners. I have used a lot of products and morrocan oil dry shampoo is the best I've ever used. Leaves no residue like a lot of them after multiple uses, they have a dark or light shade option available so there isn't bright white spots, and I want to smell like…
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 07:20 PM
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Needs: Severe masculinity. Very sure of himself. Aggressive personality, not afraid of hustle. Financially savvy and smarter than me. Does not play by the "rules" of life. Can mentally challenge and stimulate me without being afraid of crossing any line. Wants: Likes to lift with me and be active together. Is super into eating good food. Someone who doesn't NEED children or marriage, but may want them. Someone who gets I am a severe entj and sometimes I am so ruthless with my thoughts. Someone w…
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 07:13 PM
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Walks are not dates, especially when the only experience you have had with him is alone and sexual. your kink is the least of your concern. I am willing to bet any man you meet is open sexually and not totally off put on trying new things.
/r/RedPillWives10/06/16 11:27 PM
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You can't force someone to change, no. They definitely have to want it alone. You can try all day long, even if you're right about the changes someone should make to be a better them, but they won't realize it until something hits them in the face...especially if they don't believe anything is necessarily wrong My grandparents would never separate either, but you can't compare relationships from that time period to today's as they are pretty different. People don't care to try, they care about g…
/r/RedPillWives07/06/16 07:59 PM
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You too :)
/r/RedPillWives24/05/16 03:49 PM
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I never said having him laugh in my face was an improvment. He would view me as an entitled brat if I acted that way, which I have in the past and he did find it funny as well as aggravating I'm sure. He is busy, it's clear your husband has been busy, "verbal contracts" for plans especially if someone is busy is not real. Life changes very quickly, plans can happen or fall through.. in the end your personal relationship should be what your priority is, not that the plans didn't happen or did hap…
/r/RedPillWives23/05/16 10:11 PM
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My SO would honestly laugh in my face if I told him we had verbal contracts for our plans that fall through. It is common to celebrate birthdays. My SO and I had plans for weeks for my birthday and guess what? We didn't do those plans. I didn't care either because what I truly wanted was to just be with him and our dogs and I got that. You truly didn't want to be with him, you wanted to be taken on a vacation. This thread reminded me of my old actions and wow, self reflection is scary sometimes.
/r/RedPillWives23/05/16 05:45 PM
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This. My birthday was this last week. We had set plans for about two weeks for my birthday.. we didn't even do those plans. Instead, we ate a ton of food and got ice cream then hung out at home and napped. Things change and if your true intentions were to spend time with your family, which my plans were to bbq at the park with him and our dogs, then what you actually do shouldn't be a huge ordeal if you're already getting what you said you wanted which was time together.
/r/RedPillWives23/05/16 05:32 PM
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It is very odd stuff to people who have any sort of empathy. The way I describe it to people who are "normal" is to picture a toddler having a temper tantrum. Their intent is to get their way right off the bat using poor behavior even IF they don't know at that age they are using a form of manipulation. As an adult, if you have not educated yourself or better yet been consistently involved with one, then I don't believe you would view it as anything except having a huge "wtf" moment because it's…
/r/RedPillWives04/05/16 11:14 PM
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To a normal person who woud see it they probably wouldn't know how to view it as either a tantrum or willful. They have both sides 100%, but the tantrum ends up turning into wllful once they see the reactions caused from the tantrum. It's their fun, they like to test anyone who allows them to use their manipulative tactics to get to where they want to be in the end. If you don't react they will keep going or bring it up at another time again to test at a later date.
/r/RedPillWives03/05/16 03:34 PM
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I had a feeling down the road something like this would happen. I've been around long enough to see how some trp men would act and refuse to understand that while RP theory is the same across the board that men and women should both look for the most positive ending when using it. Their entitlement at times definitely was a reason I went MIA along with my break up that happened. I hope to slowly become more active again. I've missed you ladies and the community entirely. Hope all is well xo!
/r/RedPillWives13/04/16 03:21 AM
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How to spot a beta
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/15 04:44 PM
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You're definitely right. If I was reading this and it was someone else I would be giving the same advice everyone else is and wondering "why the frick is she doing this" yet it's so hard to see through emotional attachment sometimes you have a hard time.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 05:05 PM
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This was really good and made me think. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 04:48 AM
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It's a weird situation. It is a legal situation, but not a serious one whatsoever. Could be easily overlooked if done by the right source. I know you are right, but there is that nagging in me that wants to give him the benefit of doubt that he will come through. I know this wasn't on this comment, but the travel is definitely not mindless. I was offered an amazing opportunity to travel to two states for x amount of time each. It will help me grow and will definitely help me reaffirm who I am as…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 04:46 AM
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Breaking up doesnt mean failure This is something I needed to hear. It has most definitely felt like I failed my "family." This is due to me still being attached in ways (obviously you don't get over this the next day) and because of comments he has made. At least as each day goes by I am more and more aware. I will definitely stay on, and if it wasn't for you guys drilling into me that youth is the efficient time to find yourself and your future SO then who knows how long I would have stayed pl…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 04:42 AM
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This 1000000% Why do you think I came here? I absolutely knew you girls would help me reflect. I have been doing it alone, but I am bias to my situation where as all of you have no reason to be. Thank you, Temp, as always <3
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 02:05 AM
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It's so strange. In everything else he is secure. I just couldn't gain that security from him and after five years you need to know if you're secure or not. You need to know whether you want to move forward in life or not.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 12:42 AM
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Honest truth is I feel as if I owe him that much. Why? I don't know. Maybe due to how he has used his manipulation to steer me into thinking I "need" him despite leaving, maybe because all I really know is him and I'm more so intimidated to go no contact, and on top of that I do know how busy he is and I care too much to let him go home to a house that's filthy because he has no time to do it himself. I think in ways a clean break would have been better, but there are financial matters left to r…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/15 12:40 AM
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I could sleep all day and eat at my TDEE and not gain weight. I could develop a severe disease and eat at my adjusted TDEE and not gain weight. You have to be aware of your caloric intake and adjust accordingly to find what subjectively keeps you healthy and not fat. It isn't rocket science. Not sure why most of the population believes otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 07:39 AM
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It is very, very important for you remain not-fat if you want attraction to be there with your man. It is also important for health reasons as well. Being overweight/having high body fat is never going to be an asset to your health. It makes everything worse.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 07:35 AM
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Bingo. This is 100% right.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/15 07:33 AM
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You feel you're doing your best yet you whine a lot and and seem to blame all of your downfalls on whatever happened to you medically. I gurantee he doesn't care if you pay him back financially or not, what he truly wants is you to stop whining and be persistent, persevere through your hardship, and be the best you can be with the cards you have been dealt. If you're whining and continually using your condition as an excuse you're not doing any of those things. medical conditions do not cause we…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/15 06:49 PM
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This one is for powerlifting, but I do figure as well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/15 06:15 AM
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I deadlift/pull 2x per week, squat 2x per week, bench 3x and each of those days I do accessory work. I generally hit all accessories (different movements for the body part though) twice a week. I also do 40 minutes of cardio per week currently. I have a competition in October so I lift for those goals in mind, but I also genuinely love what I do with everything in me. It has changed my body physically, it has changed me mentally. Stronglifts or SS is like the reddit jerk off of beginner programs…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 04:24 PM
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Nah. FPH would ban people if they were members there and they found them brigading or linking to anywhere. They kept their dislike and jokes in one place. They aren't protecting free expression because if they were many more subs that actually brigade, actually go out and downvote user's entire histories, or actually look into doxxing would be banned far before FPH. Don't like a sub? Don't go there and you won't be "triggered." Funny how easy it is not to trigger yourself.....
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 09:30 PM
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Wow. I just clicked on FPH to see if it's true and Reddit has now became less interesting.. Funny how subs which point out flaws are the ones who are under target. I'm going to guess the IRC, but I have no true idea.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 09:14 PM
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really, were those 3 hours of watching Parks and Recreation that bad? Definitely not :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 08:02 PM
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Why are you getting so irritated? It's the internet, it's just words and it is just how people who have been involved within this community for a minute think of things. Again, who cares? The main point is for men not to come to RPW and act as if just because they are a man who claims to be RP somehow they know it all, somehow we are supposed to take their advice to the core and "learn" from them when they are NOT our significant other... same goes for females. It is the quality of content you p…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 08:27 PM
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I could care less and I am far from butt hurt. As I said, no one cares that you're male.. just stop with the "Male here..hehe I know it all" You are not part of what is considered the RP community. You can be RP, go you, but as it stands you aren't a place where we advise anyone to go. You won't bend a knee? Lol okay cool. Don't expect us to "bend a knee" to any other men besides OUR men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 08:15 PM
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MRP is not a part of the Red Pill community. So... "yea....sure...." Also, where did I say most people who post poor commentary are men? I didn't say that. I said we focus on quality, not that men are bad posters. I see why this is happening now. Your reading comprehension skills are poor and/or you just read then automatically translate it to be whatever you want based on your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:57 PM
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Who cares? You are weird for even caring. We don't care WHO posts on RPW, but this is the same thing as a female going into a male dominated sub and saying HEY GUYS, FEMALE HERE.. like it's going to be any more important then the rest of the comments? Your contribution is important if the quality is legit for THAT particular sub, not if you're a male or female. It's pathetic. Girl here..hehehe. Male here...hehehe. No one cares. What we do care about is getting quality content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:40 PM
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I don't know if it's a lack of confidence.. As far as I know, from my SO being a business owner for the last ten years, it's pretty normal. I mean, my SO does not ask me if he can spend money period, but he does act like we don't have much money most of the time and on that one off day he will act like we are kings. One time I had to ask him why he acts that way because I didn't understand it, I can see what we have with my own eyes, and his response was along the lines of - I know we aren't act…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 07:13 PM
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This is why I point out that respect is one of the most vital aspects. I was being a little over dramatic about just the touch of him. Of course, not like a touch on the arm, but yeah.. that coupled with how much I truly do respect him does get me going, but why wouldn't it? I understand people's needs are different, which points right back at respecting your partner and yourself. If something bothers you too much, if you're faking it, waiting for them to read your mind, and you can't communicat…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 08:56 PM
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My SO was the opposite in this way, he has a very high standard within that. The thing is, there were many things he has done/does that were very foreign to me and my upbringing.. Those things are not what signifies his actual character, his loyalty, or his love for me and our future. This was something I either accepted and saw, or this was something I needed to walk away from due to the resentment we both only saw coming if I didn't accept it fully and stayed. You are judging someone you chose…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 06:06 PM
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especially when in almost every way he's a keeper Jeez. Imagine if he said that about you. "Well, she is almost a keeper in every way." My SO doesn't do foreplay much at all besides BJ's. He is similar to what you described, but get this.. The thought of his mere touch to me is enough to send "tingles" through my body due to his SMV, the way he has positioned his power within our relationship and just within his life in general. How could you not want a man of high value that looks only to you t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 04:34 PM
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. LOL i have so many rediculous stories (like the time we ran into a girl who was COVERED IN ONLY BODY PAINT in the middle of the day who requested his number right in front of me to "reconnect" while chewing gum and smoking a cigarette at the same time).... I mean.... I mean.... who cares? You chose to be with a man who has high SMV. Weird shit happens on the daily to them, and you're lucky you're even aware of it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 04:25 PM
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Glad you could weigh in here
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 12:18 AM
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Ew. This comment makes me cringe so hard that I will not even click that link lol
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 07:39 PM
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I can only imagine it's because unattractive women buy movie tickets. Same reason fat acceptance is huge and there is a "size 22" "super model" out there. It is solely because there is a large audience for that and more people can relate to that versus the latter.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 06:53 PM
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I want to do it all. Well, if you want an actual high SMV man you won't be doing it all so choose what you actually want.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 08:44 PM
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I'm quite surprised by the lack of trust a lot of RPW have expressed here. Yet... Here you are posting about your issue? Let that sink in.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 02:23 AM
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be it thyroid issues, genetics, or whatever. Even with hormonal issues, calories in/calories out still works.. It takes time and experimentation to figure out what YOUR subjective calories in/calories out are, because they're going to be different from the general population. Stop blaming hormonal issues, stop blaming genetics. It is such a simple concept and there are no special snowflakes to where this doesn't work once you understand YOUR BMR/TDEE. Online calculators can give you a decent sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 06:06 PM
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Hey, about your #2! I do weekly prep, well 4/5 day depending, and I bulk marinade our meats for dinners so I can weigh mine and just grab SO's out. I fit in a treat 1x per day within my calories/macros (mug cakes, protein cheesecake/cookies, ice cream) so I literally never have cravings. If I do ice cream or froyo then I plan a day or so ahead just so I know if I need to manipulate that days macros in advance, but this has been a great tool to success in my life. Check out flexible dieting, or "…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 02:29 PM
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I guarantee you this is spot on, especially if social media is involved. Guy is saying it when she's naked and after sex for crying out loud.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 02:17 PM
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It's so annoying. How about they learn about nutrition, huh? It boggles my mind, it's on both sides of fat and thin. "I'm fat because genetics" or "I'm thin naturally" no.. no.. you are fat because you eat in a constant surplus or you are thin because you are never consistently in a surplus.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 02:15 PM
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I don't know if this is really what you're looking for, but this is what I live by in every aspect. The way I look at it is some people pursue being good at lots of things, I'd rather die pursuing being the best at one and that one thing is being me. The best version of me.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 11:35 PM
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I couldn't agree more. Yeah, our men may be picky or they may not, but either way they need to be logical and understand that micronutrients are very important and you will not obtain them if all you eat is bacon and egg pie. This is just part of being responsible as an adult and taking care of your one and only body. Then you also need to look at your SO's day to day and what he responds well too. Responds well to higher carb? Drop the fat intake. Responds well to higher fat? Drop the carb inta…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 08:22 PM
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Yes, exactly what I was getting at.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 01:39 AM
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What I said went over your head. Edit: I never said you should stop being observant of your surroundings. My main point is change should be genuine and come from YOU. Please don't think I would flatter myself enough to think you're writing just for me, I understand this is for a broad audience. Just as you have shared your experiences and thoughts with relative info to your life, so have I.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:26 AM
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I can tell you your last paragraph is subjective. I am very aware of my surroundings and very self-reliant.. I look at MY actions compared to MY actions. I look at how my actions have changed and what other people do is what they do it has zero to do with tracking who I was when I was 18 to who I am today. That is on me, and only me in the end. I am sorry, but this post just feels like something I have seen many times on the RP network. Don't take that the wrong way! It is awesome you have impro…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:16 AM
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Why do you worry about them, though? Who cares? Do you. Worry about you. Worry about your own girl game. The men and women will see the differences in one another through actions.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 11:38 PM
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There is no us vs them. There is you vs you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 11:32 PM
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Deadlifts are more useful for glutes then squats. I wish no one ever heard the term squat booty because while squats are very vital to training, a lot of people who compete in bikini, which focus on ass, don't even use squats during their ON season due to how quad dominant they truly are. They add them back during off. Don't get me wrong, they are efficient and vital to my training, but if you're looking for an ass I would look at them as a supplemental movement to building the glutes vs a prima…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/15 05:39 PM
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I make a huge point to take care of my skin. Cleanser, resurface, vitamin c, moisturize is the daily. I do a masque as well as different chemical peels on my face regularly too. This is ideal for my skin, and I use way less makeup in the end too! I apply make-up daily. Depends on what I'm doing/where we're going as to how I do it. Work? Throw some concealer under my eyes, setting powder, brows, mascara. Out? I do a bit more then that, but I don't ever really wear anything "heavy" and I don't wea…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/15 04:37 PM
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Meh. Yes and no. I don't look at what this user is calling an intense butt workout even an actual true primary glute workout. Yes, all of these movements will hit your glutes, but if you want the best bang for your buck hip thrusts/glute bridges all day. Squats are quad dominant and I find a lot of people don't know how to fire their glutes properly, or what it even feels like, with their squats/lunges which is another reason why thrusts and bridges are more efficient as well because it will tea…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/15 03:41 PM
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Really? Why do you need him to text you constantly to feel secure?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 08:31 PM
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The BMI scale is flawed due to the obesity issue more then anything. http://examine.com/faq/how-valid-is-bmi-as-a-measure-of-health-and-obesity.html/ I love snacks. Get some good almond/cashew/peanut or even coconut butter if that's your thing and it's great for getting rid of a sweet tooth at the same time. Avocados sprinkled with sea salt, pepper. Hard boiled eggs/egg whites. Have some fruits ready to just pick up and snack on (fruit is insanely cheap where I am right now, well cheap to me. 99…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 03:39 PM
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and the two will become one flesh I'm not religious, but I thought that was actually pretty great. It's very true and it has brought us a lot of joy working the way we do.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 05:11 PM
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When I don't organize "this is my work time" and "this is my leisure time" they kind of blend together and I end up taking way longer than I should to get things done (like pausing to watch one of my shows while doing laundry when I could use that time to start planning lunches for the next week, etc.). This was how I was when we first met. I was 18 and I just moved out so of course I didn't know much about much, but I grew into and made a point to become the best at what my SO wants and the bes…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 05:06 PM
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I don't speak about the structure of my relationship anywhere besides here because it is very similar to that article and most people would not understand. Yes, there is love there, but we work well together because I can do what my SO wants me to do and I can jump when he says jump and in return he gives me a life where I can excel in what we agreed upon as well as a life with absolutely no worries besides what I need to do on a day to day basis. I have to be consistent to his standards and eve…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/15 06:26 PM
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I really loved your description of a 1 lmao
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 01:24 AM
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Lol people who are genuinely 9s or genuinely alpha don't need validation from Reddit. Let's all remember that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/15 09:40 PM
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Starbucks isn't the greatest espresso, but it is the only "fast" espresso I can even stand the taste of and I can modify it with sugar free syrups where I can specify how many pumps of it. I have similar financial set up as this commenter and SO just puts a monthly credit on my sbux app this way I don't ask him every single time and I know when or when I can't buy it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 11:44 PM
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Ah. I missed the part of where he/they were that young. I agree he sounds low value which is why I added my last bit to see if it would challenge her thinking or not.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/15 12:01 AM
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Yeah, this is so sad. My SO has a buddy who comes over often and has eaten many dinners with us where I've made everything, set their food out for them, then cleaned up. To me, this is totally normal and something I enjoy doing. He just recently, and finally, ended his LTR with a bat shit crazy girl and made the comment to my SO "You know, that is another reason I don't regret ending it. She never took the time to make dinners like eatplaycrush does for you." I said to my SO "She didn't make din…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 11:25 PM
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He didn't know the real person she was How did he not...? Here are your exact words It's because of a girl he liked for a long time before He liked and had some deep infatuation with some female for a long time and he didn't even know basic things about her? He defended some female he didn't even know more then once to the point you could tell he was getting worked up over it? Why would he be hurt or sad when faced with actual reality especially when he is in an exclusive relationship already? Y…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 10:52 PM
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I am pretty positive this is what she meant. I get it, but at the same time it makes me kind of turn my head. You shouldn't have to constantly be compared to some other women to the point you're hoping to learn how to be more like her in ways. It would be a good observational tool into what he likes, but you should consistently be focused on being on top of your girl game, not the other women's. The fact he defended her so hard, not just once, but multiple times speaks volume in my eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 09:13 PM
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Yeah, it isn't even welcome to Reddit. Has OP been outside?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 04:32 PM
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Exactly. I have said multiple times this is not something I would recommend RPW to do, or a general person to do. Most women who come here are not looking for men who have very little "beta" tendencies, they are looking for a solid mix of the two and my SO does not have a mix of the two. He is extreme, my route was very risky, but it had a high reward. I wouldn't change it for anything, but I'm not going to sit here and pretend it was not risky.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 10:26 PM
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So, your entire point is basically be more valuable then just a night life hamster? I think anyone who comes here and reads the sidebar will already have a grasp that these are the main points.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/15 06:41 PM
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I understand what you are saying, but Without the confidence of self worth, without the idea that you are not only good enough for his attention, but better than any other, to the point he is willing to commit, it becomes much more difficult to submit. You need to already be in that mind frame when going after the type of man I am speaking of. If you're not, it can and probably will wreck you. This needs to fall in your lap, not the man's. It is not his job to show you how special you are, it is…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 07:53 PM
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All of my friends and family did not or do not like my SO. They do do whatever the F they want. The women is the one who is trying to be a part of their life, it is not the other way around for these types of men. My Mom does not like my SO, but you know what is funny? She has nothing except good things to say about him because he built his life from nothing and is constantly coming out on top. He is the hardest worker she has ever seen, and he is an exceptional businessman. What doesn't she lik…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 06:55 PM
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Or the mod post that is one of our top threads about saying "man here" lol I can guarantee 9/10 people did not read any of your comment due to that. I didn't, so just a heads up for next time. All that we care about is the quality of advice given :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 05:02 PM
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No one cares that you're male.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 02:51 PM
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Do you have an hour where you could prep 4/5 days of meals? During my cut I always use a "gallon baggie method" and I prep my snacks, meals, etc for each day in a gallon baggie (obviously everything is separated by other baggies and whatnot lol). I just get a bunch of veggies (asparagus/sweet potatoes/broccoli) and toss them in the oven, cook any lean ground beef/turkey/chicken at the same time and then have them portioned out for each day, tuna packets are a great time saver for a source of pro…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 07:23 PM
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I've used Pete's before. I have a very hard time looking at food as anything besides p, f, c, sugar/fiber so their veggies were all eaten by me haha. Although, I definitely do love pretty much any veggie anyway and never got anything from them that made me drag my feet to eat. It's nice with them because they do take into consideration certain things like if you eat pork or not, if you'll eat duck or not, etc. They also let you customize your order and you can add snacks, extra protein (which I …
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 07:14 PM
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If they didn't put "man here" I am fairly certain we would still be able to tell the difference between female and male comments. They write differently and often times they also include things about their women or about how they would look at the man's position which already shows that they are a male. There is no reason to point it out because frankly, I do not care if you are a male or female as long as the advice is RP driven. It isn't as if RP theory for men and women are polar opposites, d…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 06:38 PM
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This "man here" stuff only makes you look like a beta anyway. If you're a serious male contributer get flair and let that be that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 05:09 PM
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I definitely get my emotional support through actions within my job/hobby. My SO doesn't understand feelings and quite frankly doesn't need to hear if I'm having a slight off day or etc. He is way too busy along with that so when we get together at home I do not want to talk about if I need emotional support, I want to be strong and realize shit happens and time passes there will be a new day where my problem isn't even a problem. With him I hit rock bottom while changing myself to the point my …
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/15 02:48 PM
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As a RPW you are constantly looking for ways to improve yourself. This could be physically, mentally, or emotionally. This could be developing new skill sets that could only be seen as an additional plus. RP is about being aware that you are not a special snowflake and that all people should be ever evolving for the better versus settling and sitting stagnant.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 01:33 AM
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I agree. When I read the title of the thread I immediately thought of what my situation was, but when I saw she was 30 versus 18 like I was or even earlier 20s I knew my advice would not be applicable here. Some men want a women who will stay there and prove herself, but at 30 there isn't exactly any time for that.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 12:55 AM
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I wouldn't say his laugh was like "hahaha" either. It wasn't as if he was laughing at the guy, I would say he was more "hah"ing at the fact someone waited until he was away and trying to test their luck in a place surrounded with people who would go out of their way for him. My SO is who he is and he handles himself appropriately. Before he had me in his life he was much, much harsher. The only reason he is milder is out of respect for what his goals are in his life and our life. As always, you …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 07:22 PM
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We weren't in an environment where he was unknown either. When you are out in those environments men don't want to just have a nice friendly chat especially when they purposely waited for you to be alone to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 05:29 PM
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One time my SO and I went to a Halloween party. We were talking. He turns away for a minute to grab us some drinks. A man walks up to me and tries to talk to me. My SO laughed at him and said "Do you not see she's busy?" and everyone knows or has heard how my SO is so that was that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 04:08 PM
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A natural can get all the ladies, you're right, but not every single one will want to deal with the liability that will issue onto his life. There are naturals that will give you their word that you are exclusive, but you still have to be consistently growing and proving yourself at all times for them. You have to walk on THEIR ice. You have to play by THEIR rules. It is THEIR life, it is not YOUR life. Once you think this way and you are truly on THEIR team, they will see you as an asset. They …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 04:01 PM
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First off.. your username made me laugh. Hahaha. Secondly, I hope your new implements will make being together when you get home more enjoyable for the both of you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 04:47 PM
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You just used it as an excuse. Jesus, with my condition it might even take another 10 years. I might as well give up on the idea of marriage. Who's gonna want a 38 y/o woman when there are 20 y/o women around? I should just retire from the game.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/15 03:03 PM
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Should you let him go? Yes, if you are going to continue to withhold sex from a man who decided to be exclusive with only you in terms of physical and emotional intimacy, you should absolutely let him go. Having sex most definitely relieves stress too by the way. Is there an underlying reason besides your "stress?"
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 09:23 PM
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I understand what you're getting at. We all definitely choose how we live. Despite the fact of my comment on this thread, I choose to be in a relationship that works such a way. If I didn't want it and if I didn't like it then I would have chosen differently. I think what the other commenter is getting at is a very dominant man will act in the way we are describing and it will be his way or no relationship. You ultimately choose if you want that or not.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 09:52 PM
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She either listens or I walk. Exactly. This has been how my relationship has functioned the entire duration and it will not be changing. I am constantly showing him that I am on his team, he is not trying to be on my team. If that makes sense. That is RP.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 08:49 PM
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If you read any of my comments you'd know differently. What I am saying is weight loss, especially when at a high weight, can be completely solved through diet alone. It very well could affect her emotionally and mentally, I am not sure why you are quoting about that because it happens a lot. Changing habits like this are not easy for some. Her first and foremost goal should be taking control of her diet. I misunderstood your calorie comment. I am on mobile, so, crap happens.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 07:34 PM
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Why are you yelling? Maybe I read what you said wrong. Shit happens.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 07:11 PM
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You do NOT, I strongly repeat do not, add in calories from your exercise. You use exercise as a tool to supplement the weight loss, people use cardio as a tool when eating in a surplus so they can eat more crap, they use it on a deficit as a tool to aid in the weight loss. They do not say "oh, I burned 250 calories so this means I am on a 500 calorie deficit." Obese people should focus on diet. First and foremost. I totally agree they should not do Keto right off the bat because they need to lea…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 07:03 PM
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You should not have too. My style isn't over the top either. Since I work within fitness I do wear a lot of that stuff, but I make sure it is feminine since it is such a male dominant world. Lulu is great for that and really only that. The country seems to sway otherwise with that one. When I'm not working I am like you. Lots of dresses, wedges, nice leggings and blouses. It isn't as if I am spending big bucks either, I am a Marshalls dress fiend. I live in a great area so I can always find real…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 03:58 PM
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I agree with this a bit, but it still doesn't mean much. Naturals come in any age because they are just that, and since we are an RP sub I will only speak in generalizations about naturals unless I specify otherwise. I met my SO what he just turned 24. He hung out with his college buddies, how do you think I met him at 18? He was and is unlike any other man, they are out there. Unfortunately, there are many more men the total opposite of him. My real point is that if you come to RPW looking for …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:36 PM
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Why would a natural be nervous about a female? They aren't and that is the only type of man you will ever see me speaking about. A true natural alpha. One that looks at all women as a liability until she proves HER self to him, not the other way around. He will not care enough, so she BETTER be persistent and on her girl game, yes.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:33 PM
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Literally you don't even need exercise to lose weight. Do not recommend random caloric drops either. OP could very realistically eat her stats maintenance calories and drop weight. Starting any type of physical activity is always great, but for weight loss it isn't a deal breaker, especially when you are very over weight. Losing weight is easy in theory, but in practical application it is much harder as we are very mental and emotional beings.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 02:16 AM
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so they can relax and give you their best? She wants to give her best. Why should she have to dress down when she is looking for a man who can absolutely handle any situation? She isn't looking for a BP man who can't handle the slightest pressure inducing situation. She is clearly looking for a man who can handle himself and work well under any type of pressure. If a man can't handle himself and give his best because a female takes great pride in her appearance then are they even high smv? Doubt…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 12:49 AM
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My SO is from AUS and has traveled a ton when he was younger due to his parents. How many times I have heard "they don't have x, y, z there" I can not even count anymore. Figures, fatty US would have all you could imagine ;P
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/15 12:44 AM
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I stated why. Changing too many things at once is often a cause for failure to people. If she's just doing walks, okay I would sway to agree. If she's planning on going to the gym alone or with her SO, no I would again stay by what I said. Bottom line is the caloric deficit, not whether she's doing cardio fasted or not. OP needs to learn how to feed her body appropriately first and foremost. She is 240lbs and assuming she is 5'6 or under that is a lot of weight to be carrying around. If you’re a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 08:01 PM
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Honestly, you are not in the group that needs to worry about muscle loss. You are carrying excessive weight and the primary objective should be to lose it at a steady and efficient rate and this alone is already the most effective way of reducing loss of muscle while on a deficit (not losing weight rapidly by fad dieting/etc). Once you get to a comfortable weight, you can even eat at your newly adjusted maintenance calories and do what is called a body recomp, if you google it there will be plen…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 07:28 PM
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First thing is first. Figure out your TDEE. Do NOT rely on MFP to give you appropriate macros, you can input your OWN macros with them. Especially ever since Under Armor bought them it has been glitchy, on my app somedays it will say I'm over a macro yet online I will be under or on target and this is with me having manually input macros. Once you have a general idea of what your TDEE should be I would honestly eat at your maintenance calories for a week or two to see if you lose weight by that …
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 07:23 PM
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If you don't know how to work out, stick to slow pace fasted cardio in the morning before you eat. I would not recommend fasted cardio for someone who is brand new to working out or even going to the gym. I do IF with flexible dieting because I like to eat more during each meal versus having smaller meals through out the day. I am also an outlier in this as my job/hobby revolve around lifting, but I am consuming 290g of carbs per day currently, yet this is the first time since last year I was th…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 07:07 PM
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that makes it more difficult/awkward for him to bring it up. No, it doesn't or at least it definitely should not.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 09:10 PM
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We established those rules before we decided to be in it for the long haul. It is unacceptable for both of us to do something like that for multiple reasons. If somehow this person could be a great asset to our goals then it would be discussed, but again this person would have to have something to offer. We both get hit on often. That is life when you look great and aren't fat. We just do not take it any farther. My SO is very attracted to me, he does not want to spend his very little time takin…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/15 07:50 PM
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People can grow, no doubt, but from what I have read they have been together for a while and she has not grown in that time period. You want to tell me that a female who is deemed attractive by the general population if she acted accordingly with herself while in a relationship would have this issue? No, she wouldn't because she would be able to see what a liability she is to what she supposedly wants so badly. I stay away from men for this reason because it never fails they want contact informa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 11:07 PM
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I've made it known to him that I feel like I can't rely on him, and that he's not really a 'man' to me. Ok... this and the fact her "ex-friend" that she NOW calls him beat her SO is only showing how much of a liability she is as a life long partner. Bullshit she wasn't playing fiddle on both sides.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 11:03 PM
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Love and respect are not exactly mutual.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 10:58 PM
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I'm not invested either. I just find it amusing how their thought process works. They say women are manipulative, but have mixed opinions on wanting said women to take charge or be an equal if I'm understanding correctly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 02:24 AM
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I think they believe that because despite their feelings, men need to bring things to the table just as a women does in order to have an ever lasting relationship. I don't believe those men have been in the position of experiencing how that exactly works because they either have nothing of real value to offer or they are trying to act entitled to women who are above them in terms of looks because what they have to offer is not enough for the playing field they believe they should be able to play…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 02:10 AM
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I think nothing of that because a real high SMV man wouldn't be sitting around on YouTube whining about anything, especially about a group from Reddit. I think nothing of it because I act how I want to act and my SO is only an influential factor. I act properly to him and our relationship because I actually want to behave that way because gasp I genuinely respect him, love him, and like him.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 01:51 AM
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If you think I'd take advantage of my guy you're crazy, no offense How is that crazy when you are 16 and openly bragging about being "set" for life because of your boyfriend? You haven't experienced real adult life, you probably have not even earned a rightful spot to claim that money as a part of your livelihood either. Also, I see you called us closed-minded and "evil" which I'm assuming was sarcasm, but don't feed the fires when in reality I don't think any of us have a narrow mind or are tha…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 01:09 AM
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You haven't been together for even a year and he's already cheated on you Stole the words right from my mouth.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 04:11 PM
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A man in this caliber will view the relationship the same way as a business, or at least my SO does and this is where my views have stemmed. We met and I was his main plate until he told me I was his girlfriend after 5/6 months one night when I severely proved my loyalty to him. I moved in pretty much right after this as he was not going to be with me unless he knew he was in control of our relationship. How many times he told me "NEXT" as a way to rile me up before I was his girlfriend, how man…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 12:10 AM
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What I am saying is going over your head. I see where you are coming from, but I think your lack of strict RP along with not having experience with such a man is why you can not see what I am saying.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 11:53 PM
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Have you ever tried or been in the situation of going after a very high SMV/aggressive man? This is not typically how it works. There should be a trial period for them. You are nothing more then a liability until you prove yourself worthy enough to be considered an asset of his team. It is not something to take lightly.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 10:17 PM
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the cause of the gap is because of the choices that women make Exactly. It is funny how a lot of the choices women make are somehow oppressing them.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 04:32 PM
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For some reason, /r/RedPillWomen topics are almost always about pursuing a sexual strategy in which risk is attempted to be mitigated while still succumbing to a man's frame. We want our men to lead us and we want to supplement their strong frame. It isn't for "some reason." That is what being a RPW is about.. We do not tell you to do this for men who you are a. not interested in or b. not in an exclusive relationship with. Also, you take a moderate stance? That is literally what we advise to ev…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 02:36 AM
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This. I use it for recreational purposes as well as to help eat more food when I'm in a deep caloric surplus. I am the farthest thing from lazy. If you use it responsibly as a responsible adult there are no issues. The lifestyle part of it is weird. If he is really into that and takes it too seriously I can see that being an issue. If they do not have the funds to be in a better place then they should not be purchasing it in the first place anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 10:58 PM
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Her history has been deleted so I can't view much of it, but from what I've gathered it wasn't his fetish. It isn't about going back in time and changing things, it's about changing your current state of self and actively trying through actions versus trying through words which mean nothing to people in the real world. Your feelings, your words, ha..ha. Your actions show who you really are and what you're actually about. Your actions show your real intentions. This is why despite my past my SO s…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 05:08 PM
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I really like how buying a book, a book, is your justification here.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 04:32 PM
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but I guess actions > words? There is no guessing. This is all that matters. Words are just that. Actions prove. Actions are black and white.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 08:21 PM
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In the end, she would just be another puppet. Using a female as a puppet makes for more talk that is for sure. I understand what you are saying, but..that is really my thoughts on our current president and future presidents as of now. Of course, everyone has their own opinions on it yet this is mine lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 07:31 PM
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Was this response meant for me? Because I dont believe it is since you told me to look at YouTube when I definitely do not need to look lol Also, squats will only supplement nice glutes. RDL's, hip thrusts, SLDL are superior with glutes. There is a reason most bikini athletes do not seriously squat on season and only during off season- squats are more quad dominant.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 12:26 AM
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Oh, you didn't offend me! I was just being funny with my first statement :P If what you're doing works for YOU and you enjoy it, that is really the bottom line of everything. There's a few benefits of lifting.. A big benefit that weight training has over cardio training is that it will completely allow you to reshape your body. Cardio training generally will help you lose weight, however typically this weight loss is going to be a bit of a combination between fat and muscle; therefore what you'r…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 05:56 PM
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I am too, but not only because I work in the industry.. but because it has grown a lot these last two years and I have seen more women lifting or at least trying it out. I figured with the growth it would slow it down. I totally get not everyone wants to look like Paige Hathaway or Dana Linn Bailey but again you can see the huge differences in both of these women who both lift. Paige can squat 225lbs for reps, DLB can hit 235lbs for bench and squat 315.. It's about tailoring your lifting to what…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 05:40 PM
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Yep. Can not tell you how many times I have heard my female clients say "I never imagined my waist becoming smaller!" Well, I have you on a slight deficit and you're lifting. He he he.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 04:49 PM
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That is the biggest myth I wish would go away. Shoo shoo gains goblin, and women who really lift will say the same and have the exact thoughts. It is so hard to become "bulky" as a female, and some females do actually desire that. What may be bulky to you may not be bulky to others as well. Let's just break it down to an ELI5: Women, if diet and training are on point, are only capable of gaining .5lbs of muscle per month. In an entire year this means we're capable of only putting on 6lbs of musc…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 04:39 PM
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I think ours makes sense for us. We do not share accounts. He acts as the business and I act as the bank essentially. His personal account is also attached to his business account whenever you do any online banking. His business is none of my business. We pay all of the bills out of his account, but I am usually the one making the payments online with his card or the information they save on file. I put all of my money into my account along with any money SO may give me. I save as much of it as …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 07:18 PM
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It went way better then expected! My dog had emergency surgery the night before so that was a very long and scary day. I didn't sleep too well since we took her home that night and typically they don't release them back to you for 2 days. I didn't hit one lift how we expected, but at the end of the day a platform will always be there. Life happened and I'm grateful my pup is 100% back to herself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 06:56 PM
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I train people for work and just competed a few weeks ago so that means I started a new training block, but it gradually increases with volume week to week so I'll be hurting here pretty soon :D I lift 4x per week, sometimes I'll add in a fifth if I want to add in more hypertrophy work or work more on sticking points. I do one session of HIIT work a week, one session of prowler pushes and sled drags. Mobility work daily at least for 10 minutes, I find this so boring so I just set a short time wh…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/15 05:48 PM
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I asked because the advice would vary greatly depending on the case. It is possible to warp reality and read a lot into something that is nothing This is exactly why I said what I said. My SO has an ex who they were legally tied so I had to deal with her for a bit when our relationship started and also a bit for other reasons since I can't imagine becoming an alpha widow is easy (she hasn't even been in another relationship and this happened six years ago). I read way too far into it and viewed …
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 04:49 PM
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What do you mean the physical things he likes about you are your face shape and height? He doesn't like anything else and compares you to this other women? If he didn't find you sexually attractive why would he be with you exclusively? He can find other women sexually attractive, but that doesn't necessarily mean he wants you to morph into something else. Unless he has straight up said otherwise or told you all he likes are your height and face shape that's how I see it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/15 02:40 AM
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I work in that environment so I definitely know all about how certain places are like a giant family community with one another. That being said, there are a few couples that have actually met there. There's a few things I want to say.. While I know people meet here and start relationships whether they are intimate or new friendships, it is often advised to tread cautiously when it is romantic. This is a place people are coming to better their own self and if things were to become awkward it cou…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/15 05:26 AM
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send 'em a pic of something you whipped up! Itll get them thinking of you and other things you can make for them This. Do not under estimate the power of food. Do not under estimate how much men enjoy someone who is actually a responsible adult, and by that I mean knowing basic skills while most women have no clue and/or suck because they do not care. Cooking good isn't brain surgery, you just need to learn if you're off.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 08:11 AM
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If your boyfriend does not approve then what is awkward about showing your loyalty?
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 07:05 PM
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Reading your history I only feel I need to say this to you.. This is RP. This is not religion 101. You can take and use what works for you within RP while being religious, but telling me that RP is stupid while you post here only makes you look stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 06:39 PM
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If you were not religious it would not be "God's rules." If you're religious do your thing, but what I said is much more practical to someone who is not religious and wants to play in higher territory with men who could pull sex left and right. Let's go a step further. Most men on TRP want to emulate DT traits, but they typically fail because they are not naturals. If you're a women and you become involved with a DT man or one who has successfully adapted their characteristics then there is no "…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 04:38 PM
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Just as you disagree, I agree with her about not looking at it as a huge issue because there is a difference from riding the train and having an LTR or two then engaging. There are men who will not wait and if you want to be with one of those men then good luck playing by your rules and not getting him. If you want to secure a high SMV male who wants sex then you're going to have to play by his rules and you're going to have to be honest with yourself about how long you plan on doing x, y, and z…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 04:24 PM
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I don't think marriage is the ultimate proof of a great relationship It isn't.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 08:41 PM
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;/
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 10:46 PM
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I don't need to ask those questions when it is completely transparent you do not know much about it by the way you have responded. You're right, I do get involved within things like this because it is part of my responsibility as someone who is knowledgeable in this country that has a 35% obesity rating as well as a 65% overweight rating to point out the obvious and not sugar coat FACTS
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:16 PM
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Shitladys unite!
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:03 PM
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Yeah, again, go back to fat logic. I do this for a living. Sorry, she even said herself she has gained weight. This is not coming from natural breasts, this is not coming from muscle mass (because if it was, she would not be carrying her fat the way she is and it would be much less noticeable. I am 5'4 and get up to 140 in a bulk, never any higher, and my SO would not say I was fat because it doesn't even look like you're a traditional fat person. You look completely fucking different with actua…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 08:03 PM
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Lol uh yes.. I can. Do you know how hard it is for muscle mass to be the reason youre considered obese? Especially as a female? Get out of here and go back to fat logic.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 07:52 PM
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No, it is not okay to be creeping into the obese range. This women is 3.5 pts away from being medically considered obese. With all the fat logic in this world no wonder that man can't feel safe telling his spouse this because it seems so disgustingly normal in today's world.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 07:16 PM
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Exactly. Sometimes if you wanna play ball in the big league you have to take risks and put in higher effort.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 08:28 PM
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It took six months for my SO. Even then, it was still like a trial period. I earned the exclusive title, but I didn't really earn a respected spot next to him yet. He gave me credit where credit was due, but never credit where it wasn't. Do not stop working if you get the commitment, but I think this is a given.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 07:55 PM
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I'm not sure any man I would want to marry would want to marry me after finding out about who I was in high school and college. This sub will tell you that you fucked up, and so will I. I fucked up, a lot. I was not who I am today when my SO met me, and you know what? I proved myself, but he saw my potential which allowed me to prove myself. My count isn't that high, but it's not some goodie good aww shit nor is my thought process on life. I was the top plate, and I worked my ass off to prove I …
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 07:21 PM
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We are human. We can't have it all. This gives no women the right to justify pushing her husband away and prioritizing him last just because they had children, gives no right to justify giving him no credit and acting as if he just helps her out with "her" kids. Sorry, I highly doubt any man whether they acknowledge it or not signs up to have children while fully knowing their wife is going to put him last. What kind of man is that? One that does not respect himself much.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 01:10 AM
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since I know it's not something he would talk about with anyone outside of me. yet here you are telling anyone who can find this forum online that you aren't attracted to your husband and he's only okay, but now we see his loyalty to you is 10/10 while yours is hardly there. I just doubt if this were true that a women who was genuinely enthralled with her SO would be twiddling her thumbs saying "this has to just be what some men go through" versus researching and getting to the bottom of the exa…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 04:42 PM
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And from what I've read (and been told) the actual sex act lasts less than 5 minutes. Yeah, you'll never understand why men and women both enjoy sex, until you experience it yourself, if this is what you truly believe. I would be so disappointed if it all lasted five minutes. We enjoy it and have absolutely as much fun with it in those moments.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 01:08 AM
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An object? No one in this entire thread even came close to describing this.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 01:05 AM
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I think that went over your head. That person used "hooked" in reference of having a man wanting to be your man. If you don't want that then why are you here? You want a toy or what?
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/15 01:01 AM
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So, you tried to go on dates with men out of your league, did never even get a shot at them, and still day-dream about them while you're comparing your husband to your day-dreams? I am dead.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:34 PM
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As /u/Camille11325 said it is very rare for someone who is genuinely an 8/9 to go through those fluctuations. They typically know they are beautiful, they typically love being beautiful, and it's something they don't just say ah fuck it. I rate myself pretty high and I know my SO would as well based solely on appearance. I can tell you right now I would never let myself drop in appearance because I value it, but also because my SO's SMV is high and mine needs to be high as well for him. I also k…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 09:29 PM
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Please let him go find a women who will never say something like this about him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 04:45 PM
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This was terrifying to read.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 03:28 PM
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When I started the relationship, I was probably an 8 or 9, fell back down into 6 category for awhile, but am proud to say I've recovered my 8-ish status I call bullshit. You don't go from an 8/9 to a 6 then bounce back up to an 8 so easily and besides your personal character sounds pretty horrible so please don't think you're even an 8. You couldn't get with the men who have severely high SMV which is why you settled for a beta and have these thoughts. How do you stop having those thoughts? Let …
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 02:13 PM
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My SO does that too. We don't care about doing number 1 around each other, but I make a point to block him out of everything else. He will open the door just to see the look on my face from being surprised and I just yell things like "ahhhhhh" haha.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 03:46 PM
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That's cool, but it's not 100% RP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 04:41 AM
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Look, I think we all would like to be able to show who we really are, but it is pretty unsafe to do in RP territory. ;/ I know I would since it would back up everything I have ever said, but Reddit be cray edit: jesus, team women in full effect. you're average at best. edit 2: you're not even RPW. You just had a giant thread that was linked multiple places just the other day, you have made absolutely horrible comments about your husband via your history, and have said he does the same. Please st…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 03:17 AM
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It could be. You're constantly showing him that you think you look poorly and that you're insecure about it. If you feel self conscious then the man who knows you best will see it. Don't you want to be your best for him and yourself? In any case, I can't say being overweight is the RP or just general responsible thing to do. It just shows lack of self control when it comes to food.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 11:49 PM
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For sure. Same page lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 09:37 PM
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You'd be surprised. Before I moved in with my SO he had one who was slightly foreign and did cleaning on her own so she was basically an independent contractor. Much cheaper. I suggest looking deeper into it if you have only looked at the "professional" services.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 04:56 PM
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I gave him sex whenever he wanted it, I did not wait until we were exclusive. When he "asked" me to move in within six months, it was either I moved in or that was that. I agreed to let him show me how to explore my potential for him, to prove I was an asset not just some pretty girl. We became exclusive after a night where something pretty bad happened and I proved my loyalty. edit: so, in essence, I acted as I would if I were in an exclusive relationship from the get-go.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/15 04:14 PM
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I see your arrogance is showing. Not everyone will be or wants to be married to fitness. Even if you are married to it, not everyone wants to diet the same way you do. There are plenty of valid ways to achieve an amazing aesthetic package, but you seem to lack enough knowledge on theory and practical application to be able to logically see that even the top 10% can eat 70g of ben and jerry's and be on their merry way. People who refuse to educate themselves and spew their own thoughts with no ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 03:15 PM
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No. He didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/15 06:03 AM
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That's cool, and we challenged her to think outside of her own feelings which is what RPW is all about, yet she couldn't and wouldn't take a second to stop and see that JUST because she gets seriously harassed doesn't mean that everyone even thinks that is anything close to catcalling. Somehow, just because she can say "just because you don't live in an area that does this doesn't mean it isn't true" yet no one can challenge her to adapt a better skill set if that is her true situation, no one c…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/15 03:00 PM
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I'm prepared for brutal honesty.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/15 02:41 AM
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This kind of motivation needs to come from within. You need to want to change, to get things done. Any other kind of motivation is just putting a band-aid on, a temporary solution that won't help you out in the long-term. Just ask yourself: Am I willing to work hard for this? The days that really separate you from the rest of the general population are the days when you don't want to do what you need to do, but you carry on anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 08:43 AM
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I'm nice and feminine, I'm submissive towards my SO, but I am definitely feisty and aggressive. I just understand there is a time and place for everything, behavior included. A lot of people within our generation are going to react this way towards relationships. All I see is the total opposite from the majority so I don't really speak about the lengths of my relationship or how I am with anyone besides my SO. I just act the way I am and who I am shows, it's funny how quite a lot of people seem …
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 02:56 AM
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Then why did you come here?
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 06:41 PM
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I love what I do, who I am with and my life That is all that matters on an individual basis. I appreciate you not just shitting all over RP and being respectful with your reply.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 03:43 AM
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Yep. I was 18 and SO was 24. Don't waste your pretty.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 03:40 AM
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You do you. However, that is not what my relationship is like nor is that what I want it to be like. You're not "the only one looking for a partner," but I don't think you grasp not everyone wants their relationship to be set up or to operate how yours does. I am independent on my own accord, but with my SO I am dependent. We are not on the same level, we do not do mutual reciprocity emotionally or financially, but we both encourage one another with their endeavors, our relationship is a safe pl…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 02:45 AM
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My SO owns some businesses. Money is what makes his world go round, not me, not anything else. I supplement that world, as you supplement your fiance's. There were times in the beginning of our relationship where I was insecure about how much he worked because his ex owned the same type of business with him before their split as well as terminated the business, but my SO enjoys making money and providing us with the life we have/want. Why should he have to deal with my insecurities on a female h…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 07:39 PM
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No. It is not like weight watchers. Weight Watcher's is a gimmick and often times the caloric math is terrible. It inaccurately assigns point values to foods based off of their macro's. Actually looking at your own macros and learning what your caloric base is (whether you want to maintain, grow, or lose) cuts the middle man out and is far more accurate. Weight Watcher's does not teach someone how to look at food as food, it teaches them to look at food as points and makes those people rely on t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 07:15 PM
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Hi! I deal with a lot of clients who come from yo-yo dieting, which has made their relationship with food as well as their relationship with their own self image poor. It also can lead to not trusting yourself when you start becoming "healthier" so you revert to the comfortable old ways. The best advice I can give to you is to research flexible dieting, also known as If It Fits Your Macros (IIFYM). You do not have any food restrictions, unless you have allergies of course, yet you still need to …
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 05:12 AM
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Carbs aren't "good" for you? Tell that to every athlete in the world. In a way Keto is "eat more protein" and fat. You are taking one source and depleting it so you need to replace it with fats and/or proteins. Calorie control is the end all, period, for your average person
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 04:54 AM
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I have friends and family, but no one is him. This always gets me. Of course no one is someone else, but you should be grateful you even have some sort of support system because there are people who if they were in your situation would have no one besides their own self to rely on. This person was in your life for three years, you spent a decent chunk of time with them, but you didn't lose everything as you think you did. Are you still alive? The world still revolves and carries on whether you f…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 06:52 PM
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22, F, US, Caucasian. Background? I grew up pretty well off, only one set of grandparents divorced and everyone else within my family has remained married, but this divorce was before I was even born so the "step" grandmother is just a regular grandma to me. My family is sweet, very welcoming, but naive besides my two grandfather's (go figure, both ex navy and ex ford). I was coddled my entire life, floated on by because of my own "street" smarts and appearance. I love them, but they are only a …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 06:06 PM
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It takes time and persistence on your part. Over time his views of what "normal" will change, and he will be much happier they did I am going to assume 100%.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 07:18 PM
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You liked how clingy your ex was? Well, I know a real RP man would never constantly call, text, or anticipate all of your needs because women's needs are a bit unrealistic these days. You seem like you're already forcing yourself to like him, I mean.. you're comparing him to someone else. You should be comparing everyone else to your SO, not the other way around. Your SO should make you think everyone else is a loser to put it as nicely as possible so there is no comparison.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 04:25 AM
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You either just do or you don't. Look, I get that may be hard to realize that you literally just do or don't, but yeah.. it is that way. My SO used to always say that to me when I was changing and I hated it, but that's because the truth isn't always the easiest route. From what you have said it is clear you are with someone who you're going to end up resenting because you can't even drop the fact that HE doesn't know what HE is going to do with HIS life. You two are not married. You know what y…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 07:42 PM
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Yeah.. after seeing she's going into neurobiology I definitely think what you wrote out is much, much more real then I previously thought.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 07:33 PM
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You nailed it. They view him negatively, but the funny thing is my Mom will openly tell me how hardworking my SO is and she will tell other people that too. Out of all the negatives she supposedly thinks it's quite funny she thinks that. They think I'm doing better and they're happy for my success, but they are not happy with the details because although they do have a solid marriage for them, they aren't RP.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 07:32 PM
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I consistently remind him that he needs to figure out what he is going to do, but I feel like he is starting to resent my urging. Stop this. You're not his mother. You are pushing him to resent your urging, it isn't nice or cute anymore to him if it ever were to begin with. How can I just accept that he is doing things at his own pace? Do you trust him or have you just been taking over everything the entire 4 years that you don't trust him and only trust yourself? You just trust. ~~ As far as wo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 04:09 AM
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My SO is more along the lines of a Dark Triad so it was either I do it on my own and I do what he says or I don't do it at all and I go. I will not lie or sugarcoat this, I was not happy in this relationship for the first year. I mean, yes, I had the honeymoon phase and all of that, but deep down I was not happy because I was not happy with myself and changing was honestly one of the hardest experiences I have gone through which did not make me happy at the time. I constantly looked forward, nev…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 08:58 PM
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Thank you, Phantom. :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 04:47 AM
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I understand because I was where you are, lost/broken. I didn't know I was until him because I was so entitled and involved in my own bubble. After a few years I finally did ask what it was because I still don't get it despite how grateful I am, but it was my overall potential he saw within my persistence. I never quit, I have always been aggressive so this only added to my persistence as I used the aggression there versus how I acted to push through the really hard times because changing was so…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/15 04:46 AM
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What's sad about it? That he helped me reach goals that my parents never would or did anything to help? That he started setting positive examples of real life and consequences for me when all my family ever did was coddle me? You don't know me, and you don't know what I was involved in. You're sad for judging things you know nothing about.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/15 11:33 PM
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What has my SO done for me? More like what hasn't he done? I have never posted my full story here, so I guess now is time to open up a bit. We met when I was 18, he was 24. Where we met was very unconventional, and a place RP would never ever recommend and a place I would never recommend. The first words he said to me were actually "What do you want? Go away and come back in an hour." Haha. That is definitely why I went back. I was hanging out with the complete wrong crowd. My own best friend wa…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/15 08:14 PM
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I know with all of this being newer and exciting you feel as if you just found a great secret to life and you're becoming happier so you want to tell everyone, but don't. You need to think for yourself, but blend in. Don't draw more attention to yourself then you need, focus on making your life outstanding. People will always judge anything that focuses on maintaining a positive and healthy life because it takes constant effort and it isn't easy, they don't want to ever have to be put in the pos…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/15 01:01 AM
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Excuse my language, but after actually reading this all that came to mind was "Holy FUCK...." Take me on a date I deserve it, babe and don't forget the flowers every anniversary 'Cause if you'll treat me right So entitled. I get why every peer my age are entitled little twerps so clearly now. I like to have hope and be optimistic, but they are literally being hand held to act this way. You got that 9 to 5 but, baby, so do I. So don't be thinking I'll be home and baking apple pies. I never learne…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 07:10 AM
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lazy/fat acceptance queen
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 11:49 PM
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My Aunt has a service dog and I would like mine to get certified too. Great dogs. Just show him with actions what it would be like to be in an exclusive relationship with you for the long haul, show him your loyalty. Words are nice, but actions will speak so much more volume to men. I was 18 when I met my SO so I know how you feel within people not understanding. Hell, even at 22 they don't. I don't think our generation really "gets" traditionalism, although there are outliers. Just focus on you…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 04:54 AM
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Why would we want cat pictures? I like dogs, so.. All joking aside, does he know you identify as a bisexual? Have you been with women, or had any intimate relations with a man AND women at the same time? If yes, you need to be transparent and then you'll need to expect that some day he may want you to do x, y, or z that you did with so and so or he might just not like that fact at all. Stop apologizing with words. Use actions.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 03:24 AM
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That's what I just said simplified
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 08:03 PM
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A dude is meowing at her. I'm just going to guess he is probably not leaving her better. My SO has made me better then when he found me, but as you said we are within an LTR not FWB or ONS.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 06:15 AM
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Oh, gosh, no. I would never be mean to them for no reason, but it is something I have noticed and am glad you responded so I could think about it more in depth!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 06:13 AM
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You're right. I've never really thought much into it until now, but I have definitely noticed it. I wasn't speaking just in terms of looking for a mate or romantically, but even within work it poses slight issues for me that can be challenging which is why I try to work with more females vs males and this is where I've noticed this behavior the most. I'm sure I have to deal with more interesting "logic" by going about things the way I do, but with even looking at male clients this way it isn't f…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/15 12:17 AM
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I'm in a relationship with a man who is DT so he is very "unobtainable." I have literally been asked how I handle not receiving much emotion, but it really is because he has trained me this way and I receive my emotional happiness from his actions and from my hobby/job. We are a business, I am an asset and he is an asset on different sides of our business, this wouldn't work for everyone but it does work for ME which in turn obviously works for him- yet I would have never known this is how produ…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 08:19 PM
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Even with their apparent transparent state within this everyone can find out the reddit username very easily, especially because this conversation has obviously not ended when it happened months ago and people still try to find her within reddit by saying she has a new name as so and so. Also, I don't trust people who you have to "make promise" to not share information. Why did that person even do this in the first place? To make fun of the user? To be a stand out on TBP Reddit? Really, so, we'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 08:31 PM
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Even with extensive Googling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 07:12 AM
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No worries. I understand what you're saying, but because I know him I see this in a different light. He was manipulating his brother with the love of his own dogs and trying to make his brother look at the deer in a similar light because both are helpless creatures who you are responsible for. You shoot something, you are responsible for your actions and you should not just say ah fuck it and let an animal suffer nor should you just be shooting a weapon at a living creature just because. His way…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/15 05:21 AM
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He did not go through with it, but it is all to get the end goal of control. I do not need luck. Do not wish it. Do not petty my relationship because I do not. If I felt stuck or unhappy or was being abused mentally, emotionally, or physically then I would be more then happy to hear you're little good luck, but I'm not. I'm in a completely solid environment that only pushes me to excel. At 22 years old I have more then most 40 year olds dream of, and I did not have the tools or the knowledge to …
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/15 03:58 AM
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Did you not read what I wrote? He did not hurt the dogs and he was teaching his 17 y/o brother a lesson. You think it's okay to go out, shoot a deer just because you feel like it, then let it suffer because you couldn't guarantee the shot AND then you did not respect the life enough to go track it as it's bleeding? It is our duty to respect wildlife and to be a responsible gun owner/user, is it not? Good thing I'm with him and you're not since I can view his actions outside of my fee fee's. I ha…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 10:22 PM
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My past posts deliver very little as a whole. My past posts show nothing besides the fact I am very dedicated to constantly progressing, moving forward, and never sitting idle while allowing life to float by. My past posts show that I accept my SO for who he is and I accept that I can only change myself, my past posts show that my SO has done nothing except change my life for the absolute betterment. He has turned me from a weak cowardly little girl to a productive, emotionally strong and able f…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 09:26 PM
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Oh, I totally understand, but I do not think all DT men look at people and/or animals who are more helpless and view them as "stealing candy from a baby." My SO needs to be stimulated mentally constantly, and I know "weaker" people are not as stimulating. I know he is DT, he has been this way since his childhood. I know he does this with people, I know he did/does this with me. I don't think there is a set in stone way, but from what I have experienced first hand is that DT men are not weak, the…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/15 07:32 PM
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I don't know. My SO is DT and while I fully know he absolutely loves controlling others and doing whatever he wants, I know he would never do that to mentally disabled people. He is very big on people understanding life and consequences. He doesn't need to prey on weaker people, or manipulate people who are at a disadvantage, he can take on people who are more equally capable. My SO has a similar story about school and wanting to have his own table and you know what that story is? "I would tell …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/15 11:28 PM
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Yep. This, or something very similar, was posted within the last week on FPH's sub. Now, some of these prices are a little skeptical, but it is still a very relevant page to look at. People can downvote me on this, but I literally have to have this type of information readily available for clients and this means I have to look into grocery store's options from very low end to what my household is grateful to enjoy.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/15 10:42 PM
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?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 03:16 AM
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This is a issue I have. You can buy very cheap options of veggies, fruit, meats or you can buy "normal" priced/higher end. People like to blame food, but I'm sorry that is not the real blame for obesity. Calories in, calories out, period. People do not want to search for cheap healthy options, but they are there. People do not want to learn how to properly fuel their body. Even still, the reason it is healthy has nothing to do with affecting how much weight you lose, maintain, or gain. People ne…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 01:49 AM
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Do not listen to people who tell you negative thoughts about CF. If you have done your research on the facility, the coaches, and even go further and look at their long term members you should be able to make a safe decision. The issue lays with people who are all about "RIGHT NOW" and do not look at trainers/etc the same as they do doctors as in they do not research credentials/reviews/etc then the other issue is how embarrassingly easy it is to obtain a CF lvl1 cert the same as it is easy to o…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/15 01:41 AM
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Food isn't the main issue. The issue is the lack of education surrounding food and nutrition within our society. Every single person has a different portion size and it is up to that individual to respect their body and to actually care about their long term health to learn their BMR, TDEE, and how to properly eat for long term HEALTHY sustainability. Saying the food is the problem is like fat activism for obease people, yes, blame the food not the people l o l
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 05:19 PM
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Just like with anything you need to filter the information and do more research until you can judge yourself what is fact and what is not. Unfortunately, it is true, when you have very little knowledge on the subject at hand there is a ton of information you will read and not readily know it is false, but once you have a grasp on the theory you will be able to filter the selections easily. Either way, in my eyes, there is no excuse. You do your research when looking for a new doctor, so why woul…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 05:16 PM
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Fitness is easy. I literally do not have enough hours in my day to learn everything that is available for free via the internet that has to due with health as a whole. What is hard is learning, people do not want to learn because it is hard, people are lazy. The human body is brilliant, we can do so much, but society is perfectly content clocking in day by day and not exerting their brain further to develop new skills, new knowledge, etc. No one is saying every female needs to become super aesth…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 04:23 AM
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Yes, that is quite a large problem.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/15 11:43 PM
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You do not need friends to vent too. It is not a necessity for a positive and progressing life, friends are more like a reward for life. You should think of that this way so you don't beat yourself down for not having anyone to vent too because it just honestly is not efficient or essential. Being able to control and handle yourself entirely is the absolute key. Vent to yourself, get a journal and write down your thoughts, get some items that you can squeeze very hard, take a breath before you e…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/15 05:11 PM
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Uh, my SO does find it attractive that I take my sport seriously and that my bench number is absolutely solid for my weight. YMMV, but don't neg athletes just because. This story is a bunch of shit.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 06:18 PM
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I work in a male dominated field, my hobby is masculine despite the surplus of women that are actually involved as well - and it will always be male dominated. The one thing that sticks out about me in this setting is how feminine I am, but I was raised to be extremely feminine as my mother works within the beauty industry. She definitely did not make me exactly who I am today, fact is I enjoy being feminine so I make a point to do so because it picks me up. I enjoy that other people can point t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 06:10 PM
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Essentially you don't even know when you are dealing with a dark triad individual unless you are close to them for a long time. Which is exactly why very few people can actually speak on this subject and why even fewer see it play out within real life. Also, just because someone is in a relationship with a DT does in no way mean they ARE being abused. You need to be emotionally and mentally strong, you need to be constantly adapting, moving, growing, constantly trying to be five steps ahead then…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 04:31 PM
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Do you think a self-respecting RPW will give freely of her love, emotional support, physical affection, etc., to a man who shows no promise of committing to her? Yes. I did and I was very persistent which did lead me to my favorable outcome of being in an exclusive relationship with my SO. I did not know about RP five years ago, nor would I say I was as RPW as I turned into, but I blindly followed my SO while he told me there was no chance, he didn't want a relationship, etc in the beginning. It…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 04:18 AM
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you have to put up with inconvenient behavior such as demanding commitment no. that is nothing a real RP man would ever do. you do not get anywhere by making demands, period.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/15 04:08 AM
2

You do not need to bleach virgin hair (very very dark/black virgin hair is slightly different, but still does not always require bleach especially if you go to someone who has the correct tools and knowledge) if your hair really is natural and untouched. I just never recommend box dyes as they are truly something funky and a colorists worst nightmare.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 10:09 PM
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my family is a big weakness of mine Yeah? Are we supposed to give you sympathy or something? My SO and my parents, actually my entire family besides one set of grandparents, have not been in the same room for a solid three years now. You know, I have a really taboo thought on how family works once you commit with someone, but it works. Your parents are now extended family. Your significant other is your immediate family. Who comes first? Always your immediate. Even if my mother got cancer tomorr…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 10:00 PM
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Why is the only option at this point for him medication and therapy? I am assuming it is because you have tried everything else to get your anxiety under control and it has failed which led him to this point, but you don't view it the same as he does. What spikes the anxiety? Have you figured out what "triggers" the onset of your episodes? If your anxiety is hard on him then why would you not be jumping to go see a professional, or a few, to get different opinions or options per his request? He …
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/15 11:43 PM
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Oh, so they want to censor the internet basically in a way so that THEY are happy? What a surprise! my god... This only proves they live on the internet, err I mean reddit and tumblr, and not in real life.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/15 03:53 AM
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Congrats!!! This is wonderful :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 05:57 PM
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Same thing we did for Christmas actually, and what we do for every other holiday really except different food. For Christmas we bought 10lbs of standing rib roast. We cut off some ribeyes and grilled them the night before and then got the rest of the roast I infused some unsalted kerrygold butter with fresh thyme and rosemary then dumped it all over the roast and coated it in coarse sea salt. It was to die for so we decided we're going to do the same thing so we can eat for days. I'm going to ma…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 05:54 PM
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My SO is naturally basically DT. He carries on much further with mind games then this and it is my job to learn the ropes and learn how to pass and understand them for what they are. He is exceptionally smart and when he says things about marriage as OP's SO does he is only doing it to watch my emotional response because he knows actions speak louder then words ever will and he wants to ensure he is with someone who isn't bothered by not ever getting married. This SO doesn't sound juvenile. Natu…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 04:58 PM
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You can pass the tests if he is who you want to be with long term and accept him for who he is. every day of my life I am tested by my SO in multiple ways. He wouldn't be with someone who didn't pass most of his tests and he wouldn't be with someone who was too weak to handle the constant testing either. He is who he is and this took me a good two years to really come to terms with. We have discussed our plans relating to marriage and we do not want to get married, but my SO will still do exactl…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 02:44 AM
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You'll never understand it unless you're with an extremely dominant man or a man with DT traits. No offense, but I just had a similar convo with someone about those type of men not being the "ideal" RPW men so we don't speak much of them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 02:38 AM
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Fat logic is strong in people and until they finally reach that "aha!" moment it really won't click. From everything you're saying though you married into this with no gurantee he would work on his weight. You married him which only confirmed you're absolutely okay with his weight and dietary habits. Now, after the marriage, you are just realizing you're unattracted to him because of things you pretty much ok'ed with marriage? It just doesn't work like this. Imo, facts are the best source for mo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 03:31 AM
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Not if you're genuinely unattracted, no.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 03:25 AM
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I never said it didn't interest me. I just said personally we wouldn't use it. I also said ymmv lol
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 08:46 PM
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No problem. tl;dr: express your thoughts if they are legit, but he has final say.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 07:28 PM
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I agree. Thanks for sharing, anyway, though!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 07:21 PM
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your edit is the ONLY answer.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 07:20 PM
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That guys fiance is in the wrong. Also, everything is going to be judged whether you like it or not. My SO's brother was the best pound for pound fighter in our state. The last fight I watched he literally had a KO within 13 seconds. Once he moved across country with his SO he trained at El Nino and then worked for another really well known gym. He was even offered a contract, but fell into real estate which ended his fighting career as the pros outweighed all cons. His SO was only ever supporti…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 07:18 PM
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If your SO is into things like that, sure. If not then no. I personally wouldn't. We live in America and my SO was born in AUS. He is extremely knowledgeable about the world, but we aren't very cultural as it is and with how heavily he has an emphasis on how he prefers things it would be way more likely for him to dislike this then like it. Obviously, ymmv.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 06:57 PM
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Yeah, a rod of iron to hold over her head so she knows there are actually consequences to her actions. This women clearly has had no discipline in her life.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 06:38 PM
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She doesn't sound like much of a prize, anyway. 17 partners at 19? Your insecurities were only a piece of her issue. I'm willing to bet what really happened was that she was talking to other men who in her eyes had higher SMV then you. Not only that, but if she already slept with 17 others she probably doesn't know how to have a real relationship and at this point would need a severely dominant man to put her in her place and try to keep her there, but frankly she isn't even worth that type of m…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/15 06:16 PM
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I'm not sure why this is even being discussed. This is the only RP answer. It really is on her if resentment develops.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/15 05:58 PM
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I say self proclaimed because it definitely came off this way. You said yourself that you like to party and sometimes your personality is too "party girl." I highly doubt he is the only male who thinks that if you do come off this way. My SO used to always say "So, do you want an award for being the best of the worst?" to me when I would say "but I do x, y, and z" as a justification as to why I fell out of line in other areas. There is no excuse for not being the best person you can be for yours…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 07:23 PM
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I have male friends and I like to party. My behavior is admittedly sometimes a bit too "party girl" This is not RPW behavior for one. I am pretty sure if you weren't some self proclaimed party girl he wouldn't check up on you as much as you say. No wonder your friends think what they think, they're the average feminist who have no idea what honor or loyalty even is for a dominant man. You aren't showing him much respect by actively pushing his buttons, by being friends with males, or by being a …
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 06:52 PM
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Let me tell you a story. The very first day I stepped into a gym I actually had to stop the session early. I went to my car and I threw up in their parking lot. I'm sure I was embarrassed at the time since I was young and I remember it to this day, but it didn't stop me from accomplishing what I wanted or going back because it was awesome. No one is worried about you. Focus on yoursef and make sure you have a program when you go so that you're not just bouncing around randomly which can make ner…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 04:52 PM
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Don't be jealous. I got lucky that the first time I ever got really into fitness that I found something that just clicked really well. You just have to find what's right for you! There have been some other really great options in this thread for being active. :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 04:42 PM
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Exactly. This relates to how Phantom said the change from eating like a horse to eating like a bird, it's not easy and in many cases that's just severely unheard of because why in the world should you stop eating as much as you did when you didn't have a medical disadvantage? Is it easy to cut calories? No. Do they think that it's easy for athletes to do? It's not. It's part of our cycle which pushes us to do it and stick through positively, but it's not easy for people who are even used to doin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 11:52 PM
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Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 10:59 PM
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I read FPH and I saw over there that "model" has now been signed with some company. They posted screen shots of some of the comments and thankfully there were people who didn't understand it because she looks unhealthy, not healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 10:58 PM
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Sure, maybe at your typical globo gym that's the atmosphere, but typically when people go to independently owned gyms (be it a crossfit box, PL gym, a real BB gym, yoga, etc) these people are going to be much more engaged since there are coaches around and the sense of community is much tighter versus a globo gym. This definitely helps members to have more fun and everyone is very uplifting in this environment so everyone is always on top of everyone to stay positive because being negative withi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 10:38 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to write that out. I think you hit the nail on the head with eating like a horse then having to change your dietary needs afterwards can be..challenging. I know this for myself as well and this is a big part I spend time on with overweight clients. I feel if they really understand everything I put in front of them their success chances increase because then there are no "I don't knows." I also agree working out should be positive, do what works for you and I couldn't b…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 09:28 PM
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Really nicely put. It has to go hand in hand for me to really respect it. I don't hate obese people just like that, I dislike the ones that take no responsibility for how they got there, are delusional, and extreme hypocrites especially when you put science in front of their faces. Genetics is the worst excuse of them all and then there's the blame on a medical condition when in reality weight gain from an actual condition is more rare then you would think. Most people do not adjust their calori…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 08:34 PM
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Fashion models cater more to what a female believes is an ideal image and the ones posing with cars eetc are more about what grabs masculine attention IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 08:15 PM
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I'm a competitive lifter and I take on clients who compete to those who are actually serious about losing weight and body fat. I also go over their nutrition individually as of 2014. Yes, you understand exactly what I mean. My job is very athletic and I don't expect the regular clients I have that have no interest in competing to train the same way I do etc I don't expect anyone in my life to do what I do because this is not only my hobby, but my JOB. What I do expect from those around me is to …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 08:10 PM
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My SO has Asian in him and we eat white rice almost like it's our job. No fatties here. Shitlord household forever. Your comment is so spot on. FPH has shown me a lot of hypocritical views and delusions I've never wanted to see, but did enjoy heheh
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 07:46 PM
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It's not a good idea, period. I don't like obese people and I'm not afraid to tell them or anyone that. Give me science if you want me to be more understanding about your fat movement, but until that day ever comes my views will not change. All I see is an extremely weak mind and that is the most unattractive thing to me whether you're a man or women. The clients I've had that started severely over weight and are more stable now will happily tell you what a positive difference it has made in the…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/15 07:41 PM
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No worries. I enjoyed reading it because you really captured what I was saying. :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 08:52 PM
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No, it doesn't. I view his affection and his care by his actions, not petty things that have no actual value to the betterment of our life. Being emotionally supportive isn't what I even view as affection, and for the standard person it shouldn't be the top sense of affection. My SO can't have a weak minded significant other and this includes being emotionally weak. He is who he is and it was my job to learn and become better if I wanted to be with him, not his job to coddle me into being better…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 07:19 PM
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I gave you advice. Stop being dumb, start actively thinking before you speak, and go out of your way to be respectful. Work on yourself by actually doing something versus just saying something. It will be hard at first, but you'l notice day by day your mood will increase and you will feel less stressed out as everything starts getting better day by day, whether it be just you getting better personally or that combined with your relationship getting better daily. my SO has never really given me e…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 07:04 PM
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This is messy. You're 30 and act like a child. You have no respect for your spouse, yet you expect respect just because of what you have been through? In your defense? No, this is your problem. Stop justifying your behavior. It's not okay, despite anything that has ever happened to you. Quite frankly, no, you don't deserve anything. In my mind you haven't even earned your place, but this is completely based upon how my relationship works and how most RP relationships work. You can either choose …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/15 06:44 PM
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If you need marriage to confirm your relationship with your significant other then you shouldn't be allowed to get married in the first place. That is what marriage has basically turned into, along with the main focus of attention being on the wedding itself. That is a huge turn off for me, when anyone asks me about marriage it is always "is he going to ask you?" Like, why is it even his job to do this as if he's some puppet? Meh. It's just not for everyone, and Phantom's link definitely sums up…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 06:03 PM
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What HHL is saying is true. My SO and I do not want children. Our plans require us to be child free, but there are also no plans of marriage. In reality, marriage doesn't mean anything besides a piece of paper to us since we have no plans on children or signing many binding contracts that would make marriage seem almost more of a hey, why not? This does not mean our team is any less valid then a married couple, well not in our eyes and that's frankly all that matters is what we think as a unit, …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 05:58 PM
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I couldn't at first either, but it becomes the norm and you think nothing of it. I'm no where near as close as I was with them before this relationship so it's been about five years, but I see them at least once a month (we also live a bit more then an hour away from each other). Things will never get better, my family has said and done some really snake like things towards my SO and put their nose in places it never was supposed to be and likewise my SO has said some really negative things towa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 04:41 PM
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My parents and my SO haven't been in the same room for about three years. Yes, it sucked before, but you eventually get over it and learn that it's a pretty small detail if you can handle going to family functions alone and etc. Honestly, it showed me a lot about how my parents really wre.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 02:25 AM
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I think you may have missed my edit. again, we have had threads like this before where our members point out multiple reasons this could be happening with their SO. So, you haven't looked far enough to see that if this is the first time you've ever seen a thread like this. There have been comments stating "how long have you been together" to get a bigger picture of the relationship so there is more potential questions to ask the OP, but fact is I don't think anyone here is trying to diagnose any…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 06:46 PM
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No, I was stating facts so no one else reads your comment and automatically assumes that carbs are evil because frankly working in the fitness industry it is as if I should tape this to my forehead because 10/10 people don't know how fats, carbs, or proteins work within our bodies or their functions. I was not diagnosing anything, but fact is I could fill my carb content with snickers and have the same body composition, but internally would not be anywhere near as healthy as someone who had one …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 06:05 PM
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Look, an average American diet rich in carbs leads to bad things just as a diet that is extremely rich in protein or fat would as well. If you control it, just as you SHOULD, you'll be damn fine. This is more of a very small issue to this problem, BUT again some people do respond better to higher fat diets and some respond better to higher carb.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/15 04:49 PM
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It is not worth anything because that question isn't exactly a question you need to know the answer too. I get where you're going, but ultimately you don't know if he actually may see her in a different light from other women or not despite him dating multiple people. Either way, he asked your SO and your SO agreed to which that question once more proves to have no relevance. Look, the more you keep talking about it the more lack of trust you are showing. Your SO is not in any type of awkward po…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 07:41 PM
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You know, I didn't even think that far because all this screamed to me was lack of trust in her SO's ability to make decisions under pressure, but this is a good point that /u/FleetingWish has brought up.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 07:00 PM
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My SO has a long time friend who he does some business with. One night we stopped at his house so my SO could pick up something up and I decided to be nice and friendly with his girlfriend, who lives with him along with her two children and his son, because I wanted my SO's business time to go smoothly as I know this women is very insecure and crazy. I instantly regretted that decision when we left because his buddy texted him saying his girlfriend is flipping out. This guy comes to our house of…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 06:45 PM
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That women probably has no idea any of the details that you know. All she probably knows if that she has been invited out and has a place to stay with the guy she's been seeing on and off, so that's really not your business. Your SO is the one who made the decision so he has to live with it, again as you don't live in his condo with him, it isn't exactly your business. I am sure your SO can handle himself and can make decisions under pressure that are logical, I am sure if your SO was put off by…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/15 06:10 PM
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Thanks. That's my first point ever, but I'm not sure what that even really means :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 11:13 PM
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I just said last week this isn't fatlogic, but here we have it again. If you have to lose 20 lbs you aren't average. Being overweight isn't average. I'm so sick of this logic that an average female is chubby, slightly overweight, or even obese. Nah, the average female has enough self control that she can at least control her diet and take care of the body she has. If you're seeing pictures posted that are similar to your body and men and/or women are saying it's unattractive then they're not kee…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 04:57 PM
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Point blank, I am someone who thrives on it. I enjoy it because he enjoys it, but I also enjoy it because we are so compatible in this area that there's never a time I'm thinking "oh, man, no." My SO is not gentle. I've been sore more times then I could count, and I'm sure everyone is different, but I don't think what you're experiencing is at all normal and I doubt you would even know since you said you see no point going to the obgyn since it was too painful. That isn't a good reason to ignore…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/15 05:41 PM
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If he has been like this even prior to marriage then she should have thought about her feelings before she agreed to become married. I am quite positive he shows his affection by being the bread winner and taking care of their livelihoods. Some men just do not "connect" with feelings/physical affection well. I would suggest pointing out that love language book to her. I don't have a link to it, in sorry, so I hope someone else will post it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/15 08:59 PM
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That's exactly how I feel. I look at everyone from the start with positive intent. I enjoy talking and learning about people. You really never know if that person could potentially teach you something really valuable or if that person will say/do things that in turn make you thankful for the way you do you. I commented on one of her comments saying "humble much" and was giving her a hard time, but the more and more I read she isn't very humble at all.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 09:58 PM
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A lot of this didn't sit right with me. Social media is taken advantage by some for their careers. You know, to increase financial growth for the team. Yet, then we have you here who actively blogs and posts here saying to avoid it. Reddit is part of social media too, as well as blogging. the no tv thing? If you can't handle watching modern day television or movies without it affecting you in some way then you're not ready for a highly dominant man. That is just sad. Is there better options you …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 07:41 PM
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A ton or those people could improve by simply not being weird. Guess what, though? There is always room for improvement, period, and that even includes surgery. There is no gray area here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/15 03:55 PM
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Which is what I said, but in a short statement. You don't need to be a genius to understand that logically, but you do need to think outside of your own feeeeeeelings. I extended feeeeel since OP did as well, cuz, ya know, that's logical.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 10:46 PM
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Bad genetics? No offense, but this isn't fatlogic. I have not seen many ugly women that have been totally unable to improve their physical appearance, be it in their face or their weight. There is always room for improvement, period. I didn't read everything because you blaming bad genetics just turned me off. Not being rude, just being real. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 07:31 PM
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I had the same feelings as you. My SO is self made, has a huge network of people, has much more experience then I do and he definitely had a different lifestyle from what I had. I only had a Cosmetologist license and was involved athletically when I met him, I was concerned about the same exact things you are, but over time I realized it did not matter at all and those other people who ask about what you do don't matter either. What matters is specifically how the man views you, nothing else. My…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 07:01 PM
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Don't be sorry. I don't know for fact there has been an actual post here about it, but it's been addressed within the comment section many times so if you're pretty new it's possible to miss. What's going to immediately draw him in is your aesthetics. What's going to keep him engaged is you, what you have to offer him in a supplementing way, what he views your potential as, and how well you have your "girl game" down.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 06:37 PM
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With as much as this is posted here and TRP, your education is not and will never be the key to a man.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 06:27 PM
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Hahahah that gif
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 12:31 AM
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My SO is a do what I say or don't do anything at all/next. He has pictures of his ex and he has pictures of me. as another user said: I have taken nude pictures, mostly because I feared getting old and wanted to have some memoriun that I was hot at one time this is interesting because a while ago someone here and I had a PM conversation about me coming across my SO's exes pictures. She made one of the best points, he's going to get old and why shouldn't he be able to keep these pictures to remin…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 12:28 AM
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Lmao. we just watched something where a women said "go make him a cocktail then shut your whore mouth."
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 10:22 PM
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This was not my exact point. When I first spotted my SO I did not think he was cute. When I first was getting to know him I would not classify him as cute. He was something completely different, something I could not even describe. It lit me up in a more fearful way then in a way my teenage self was around "cute" boys/men. My SO is very, very dominant so I don't find much about him cute in the ways I find my dog absolutely the cutest. I view him as incredibly appealing and attractive because of …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 10:19 PM
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True on the unlikelihood of finding women similar to or better than me Well, damn, humble much? ;) Just giving you a hard time, BUT as a 22 y/o who was born in the US and raised here you are not anywhere near the average American female in our age range. That is very unrealistic for typical behavior. Source: I used to be the opposite of what I am today and I see it on a day to day basis.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 06:50 PM
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Yeah, I don't know if that was suppose to be like a bit of a joke, but when a female meets a severely high dominant man or one that is genuinely DT you will not be putting him in the cute category. You won't even know how to describe him if you are the average female with zero RP knowledge be it from the internet or how you were raised, but you'll know you want him and you'll also be more frightened by it then "aww so cute hehehe."
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 01:10 AM
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Besides the point I would never refer to a man, most definitely never my SO, as "cute" this was a good read. Cute, to me, is for females and animals lol edit: so, do DT men fall under your alpha category as well?
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 06:57 PM
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Haha, yeah. I thought that was hilarious. She's been speaking about the booty pic epidemic more and more. Glutes and hammies are a beautiful part of the body and progress pictures sure do help people, but I really cringe at how people go about it and need so much external validation. IG is a dangerous slope for most lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 06:08 PM
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Totally understand. My SO is a ghost and he worked pretty hard to maintain that. I even barely have pictures of him so the IG thing for me was a very big deal. I am happy he has lead me in the right direction with it, though.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 04:41 AM
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Hahaha. I learned from my SO and Dana. Only the best.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 02:27 AM
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Of course. I think you'll enjoy her. She is purely fitness oriented and all about being modest/her family. I mean, she will not even post a picture of her booty, period, and really doesn't understand why everyone's so "thirsty" as they say. She gets a lot of flack, but you should see how loyal her following is because for every one negative comment there are 50 telling that negative commenter to pretty much F off and the way she responds to them are very well thought out responses that will only…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 02:24 AM
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:) hehe
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/15 09:05 PM
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She's wonderful. Even before we decided to make me an IG for sponsor related reasons I followed her because of how closely she relates to RPW. It hit real close to me as she made he following by just being a genuine women that loves what she does and adores her family. As far as the comments, thanks! I know I can come off aggressive, but I think it is partly because of how over the years I've handled the tests from my SO so I know you need to be able to remain calm when rattled in this life. I'm…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/15 06:04 PM
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This is exactly why I mentioned Michelle Bishop to her. She has a blog, she moved across country to marry her husband that is in the same field and she is seriously RPW all around. She embodies everything you mentioned in this post while being in the top tier within the fitness industry and remaining as modest as she has isn't easy for most females that have access to an iPhone and IG.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/15 05:25 PM
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I have a lot to say on this subject as my field actively looks for sponsors and well in today's world you need a strong social media following to even be considered, but what I do have to say is there are two kinds of people on IG. There's Jen Setler's and then there's Michelle Bishop's (Mshelllll). I would much rather be the type of influence that Michelle has as she is REAL and strong, has a very loyal following and NEVER sacrifices her personal bits for that following. Her personality has won…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/15 05:00 PM
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I come off that way so I see if you're tough enough or not, if you're really thinking out of the box or not. I'm actually very nice and enjoy helping a ton. I just want you to think independently from your family and as someone who dealt with it and went through some pretty dark times with my family because of my relationship it's very close to me to rattle people in similar situations to see if they could handle various outcomes it potentially could have. To this day for social gatherings my SO…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 07:50 PM
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Nah, I'm not taking it personally at all. I'm laying out a completely different aspect then you've thought about or even heard about. I'm not confusing respect with dependency anywhere. My parents were disappointed and hurt, they would not speak to me for months because they did not like my SO, period. You are the one who stated it would change your entire life to move to a new city to live with him in another comment so I was just stating it's not like that is some totally impossible feat. I sa…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 07:34 PM
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I'm not trying to come across as harsh, but this is a big decision not JUST for you, but also for him and I just don't view how you come off as if you're thinking about his wants and needs. I don't care if you didn't say you never have the intention of living there. You stated that he would like to sell that house and buy one in the future with you, but that room he is possibly building specifically FOR YOU could be turned into something that has the potential to add more value especially consid…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 06:54 PM
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This is something I will never be able to get. When you become married your parents are now NOT your immediate family, your SO is. So, that means they're an extension of your family. Edit: I get you're not married ATM, but you should consider this greatly. He has been rushing to finish his home. DING DING DING. He offered to make a special room for you. He is straight up telling you he's ready with his actions. What was your response to the room he offered for your hobbies? Better be a no if you…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 05:47 PM
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Lol. That is not RP at all and if this is a real RP man he doesn't need or have to wait.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 05:42 PM
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I'm going to have to agree and say you need to chill out and wait. From everything you have said just the way you come off seems very "oh chit. I'm getting older and well, I don't want to live with you but I want to marry you!!!" Even if those aren't the facts you have definitely given this presentation with words.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 05:26 PM
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New year, new trolls.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/15 01:59 AM
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That's true. That's not exactly what I meant by not being beneficial lol sorry I'm on my phone. Short version: pay all except one in full. Pay last card down to a low balance (think like ten dollars low) before it closes. Pay rest as soon as statement closes. You want a card to show some balance each month, but you don't want to carry a balance. That site is a great tool. I think if you or anyone is interested in learning about that stuff it will be helpful. I didn't know there was a frugal sub …
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 07:53 AM
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remind him to pay off his credit cards in full at the end of the month. I am sure you have done research on how credit scores are calculated, but this actually isn't always the most beneficial way to a high and good score. I highly suggest you check out creditboards.com. Situations are subjective, but the algorithm for every single person is the same. Anyway, this post was excellent and it is a very rewarding trait knowing you understand finances for yourself and for your families future! I just…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 06:32 AM
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I owe you gals a lot and since I started here a lot with me personally and within my relationship has changed for the better. Thanks for all that you do here and thanks for never pointing me in the wrong direction. This year is going to be such a good year and I hope it's like that for everyone here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 06:03 PM
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I agree, but what I don't agree with is how he went about it. Maybe I'm just very used to my SO stating exactly what he wants or does not want, but to me a real high value man isn't going to tip toe around the subject. He will let the women know there is someone else and why up front. Acting as if nothing is wrong and having a wife consistently question your test levels would be more of an annoyance versus straight up telling her what it is that he's lacking. we also don't have children so of co…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 08:39 PM
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I have no advice for what you're going through as it is totally out of my league, but I'm very sorry to hear this. Be strong for yourself and children, xoxo.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/14 02:17 AM
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I am quite shocked I view this so differently then all the other comments, but then again my SO has owned an auto repair facility for the last 9/10 years so I have seen the way his techs are and I have seen the way he is. My SO specializes while his techs do everything else, but let me tell you.. after being in the auto industry this long he doesn't just do easy jobs for people who can do them theirself just to help them out, there has to be something he can gain from it. Your story would not ma…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 04:29 PM
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If she is also a tech then why did she not do her own brakes? Brake jobs are easy and easy money, so she wasted his time by having him do something she could have done herself? Techs get paid by the hours of how long a job takes even if they finish it quicker OR take longer, in most cases, not by the hour so potentially he lost out on other work that could been financially better. I think it is an issue that he was spending more time with another female that isn't his exclusive girlfriend, espec…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 09:58 PM
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Man, those shoes must really bother her. I wonder what these people do where they even have the time to be bothered over things like that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 03:11 PM
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No. We discussed ultimate deal breakers. We both don't want marriage and if either one of us did then why would we waste anyone's time? There is no issue discussing and finding out the ultimate deal breakers for both sides, but the way you put it makes it seem like that's insane to do.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 05:19 AM
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That is so strange. I brought up my definite deal breakers within four months of knowing my SO and look at this... I'm still here five years later.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/14 04:37 AM
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What? Again, everything you listed does not require that much concentration nor is it as important as knowing exactly what is going on. You need to talk to him. What's more important? Playing board games or knowing exactly where you stand and where the relationship is headed? A man who genuinely cares is not going to dismiss legitimate concerns from his women just so he can watch tv, play video games, whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 07:53 PM
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Now I'm starting to understand a bit more. I don't believe a women should be with a man where she can not offer complete transparency too, but I also don't believe a women should be with a man where her transparency is met with no thought or care. I personally don't know you or your boyfriend, but in my gut I don't believe this will turn our to be a happily ever after. As we both know men aren't oblivious and they know when they see potential in their partner and when they don't. Their age is al…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 07:20 PM
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Still does not make sense. If you have stated to him that you would like to take your conversation to the next level and he has shown no interest then why are you still trying? Men aren't oblivious. Why are you afraid of following through? In a relationship there should be TOTAL transparency. Having a fear only screams that this relationship has not been consistently moving towards serious commitment because you do not respect or trust him to be vulnerable or even with what you want out of your …
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 07:06 PM
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I agree with this far too much. If there is more fear rather then total transparency, which is actually very calming, then things are off.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 06:55 PM
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You say: I feel like I am failing because I have expressed my desire to talk more too many times only to then say: I amm also scared to initiate these talks because I have no idea how to introduce these kinds of topics So, which one is it? You contradict yourself throughout the post saying you have brought it up multiple times, but then you say you haven't as well? I'm confused about that. It's okay to know ultimate deal breakers such as wanting marriage, children, and the likes but what's not o…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/14 06:53 PM
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I feel like what you quoted would apply if there we no discussions on what the exact expectations you will require out of the realtionship, yourself, and your significant other while living together short and long term. This should be standard practice in any relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 08:39 PM
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What do you mean? OP stated they have been together for over a year. Maybe this is just me, but the way she worded everything definitely sounds like they're exclusive and not seeing any others. Do you mean you wouldn't advise someone to live with their significant other unless they were indeed engaged/married?
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 07:45 PM
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You're sort of wrong. We treat our relationship like a business. This ensures each party is doing THEIR part to run the business efficiently and if you fuck up you're fired. Either side. Maybe for a man "like you" it won't work, but for extremely dominate men this is almost the only way to be with them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 07:25 PM
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I don't know too much about child laws, but I do know laws tend to favor females. He wouldn't be just losing the women, but what about the child or children that they acquire in this "no marriage and having kids" relationship? Do you really believe that the women would not do everything possible to hamster and really cause a shit storm with the children's custody arrangements? So, yeah, I don't really care. All I'm saying is don't expect to find a serious RPW type female to have children with if…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 07:18 PM
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So, if you view it as a risk then what exactly is wrong with women viewing you as a risk? Kids and no marriage is a giant risk, just like marriage is to you. Good luck there.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/14 05:40 PM
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We bought a ps4 last Thanksgiving and ended up selling it December/January on Craigslist to some super excited dude because frankly there were NO games for it at that time and we knew the prices would drop so might as well make a small profit then get it again later. We definitely like the Xbox one, but we still like the PS4 better overall. Knowing my SO he will probably try and get one for our winter activities. The Star Wars game he got is only single player, but I do know they have co-op star…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 07:17 PM
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That's awesome! Honestly, this is the first game we have played together in a while. We just got an Xbox one since our ps3 stopped reading discs (apparently an easy fix though) so we picked up d3 and a star wars game he was interested in. Other then this we have played a lot of COD, pocket legends on ios/android we played for a while, and that's been the extent since we have been so busy. I've been looking for a new game for us to play because winter is typically when we have the most down time …
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 06:39 PM
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The change makes a difference for me too now. I actually save a ton of change every month then roll it so I can pay for little things for my training that's not being taken out of our direct funds or this last month I bought several nice cheeses (goat cheese with lavender and fennel is to die for fyi) and cured meats and we did a "kings food" night with all of that and red wine. It also helps since I seem to be cursed by purchases that will break bills poorly and ever since my SO I'm pretty OCD …
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 05:03 PM
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We just finished Diablo 3 last night and I made a point to stay behind his character so he would be leading, versus our characters being all over the place or together. I also picked a Wizard while he chose the Crusader so the characters supplemented each other very well. I'm the one who has played the other Diablo's so there were times my experience of understanding the game helped us, but I didn't suggest things unless he started getting antsy. I also keep a ton of change in my purse because h…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 04:56 PM
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Whoa. The comment was deleted, but I am so glad I missed it from what you quoted.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 09:24 PM
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Hahahah hahaha I shouldn't be laughing, but all I ever see is severe resting bitch faces everywhere so it just clicked far too well when you said women seem to think being a moody bitch is funny
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 09:37 PM
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Maybe I should have not said listen to their bodies because I didn't exactly mean it in reference to intuitive eating. I don't even do that. What I meant was they need to learn the facts on nutrition and learn how it responds with THEIR body by educating their selves and by listening to their body. My main point was that counting calories is a giant trigger for many ED people.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 09:33 PM
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Thanks for the correction! It's been a while since I hopped onto MFP and when I did experiment with it the macro option wasn't available. This actually makes me more inclined to use it rather then having a post it note stuck on my laptop 50% of the time with my macro count. most of it is user submitted which is why I suggested the USDA tip. Even the USDA website has the information as well for people who read this and don't want to use MFP.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 05:23 PM
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I know your comment is coming from a good place, but please don't advise people to visit a sub that is called "1200isplenty" because this is so so so subjective it's almost scary. 1200 for someone who is 23 at 5'4 and 130lbs is only 100 calories over their projected BMR, and your BMR is only an estimate of how many calories you'd burn if you were to do nothing but rest. It represents the minimum amount of energy needed to keep your body functioning, including breathing and keeping your heart bea…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 05:10 PM
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MFP has pros and cons. I don't use it because at this point I do it all in my head or just write it down on paper, but I also don't believe you can set your own macro ratio on MFP. That may have changed from when I used it. A huge pro is that if you search the item followed by USDA (banana USDA) you will get the exact nutrition info rather then some of the rather weird entries there are for tons of items. It's good for its purpose of tracking, but I wouldn't take their macros or their weight los…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/14 04:58 PM
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Really? So, a red pill female is a female who when someone says they will be landing at 2pm and they are relying on you to pick them up, you actually don't arrive there at 2 and you leave at 2? I literally clicked the video and skipped to that part somehow. This proves she isn't red pill, not even 1%. That isn't funny. Being reliable is a giant key to a relationship and to your own self.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 08:07 PM
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If you guys are just starting to build your credit then I highly suggest going over to creditboards.com and learn everything you can. There is a set algorithm for credit scores and it gives you the tools you need to know so you can reach the highest fico, reach good ratios, etc. There is also a search function there where you can see what card or loan will pull what.. so, for example, if you want to get a new line of credit from discover, an auto loan, a store you can see which credit bureau the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 06:48 PM
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I just giggled.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 09:48 PM
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Yes, newb gains are real, but they're not some holy grail. It doesn't last that long, it is very subjective per individual and includes a number of things from age, genetics, etc. I would never advise a newb to not think about their diet and to not take advantage of newb gains, which would be eating in a slight surplus unless you're overweight.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 03:53 PM
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The inches are fewer because there has been fat loss. The inches aren't fewer because muscle replaced your fat. To create muscle you need to eat in a surplus and train for the purpose of gaining muscle or recomping. Cardio is good for heart health, but that's not how you develop strength or "tone" anywhere. It's supplemental to aesthetics.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 09:45 PM
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For one, muscle is not magically replacing fat to where your weight stays the same. This is not how it happens and this is even further from the truth considering you are not lifting for strength or aesthetics, but focusing only on core. Women can only gain up to a lb of muscle per month and this is if their diet and training is on point. Boobs are mostly fat. You're going to lose them when there is fat loss. Fat loss and weight loss are slightly different, although go together. I train for a li…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 08:41 PM
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I knew when I met him that I wanted his commitment, his trust, I wanted to be his, and honestly that is part of my motivation for even "swallowing the red pill", and I know I'm not alone in that here Exactly this. You just need to know what's best for yourself, not even entirely but somewhat, and what you want out of a relationship. I just don't want others to be alarmed that if they fall into a similar scenario as I did that it's not worth it because in certain cases it can definitely be. It's …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/14 03:10 AM
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I disagree with your thought on "it's not worth it to give it up if he won't" wait. Obviously, within context because not everyone's situation will be like mine lol. I didn't wait, my SO wouldn't have given me the commitment if I didn't play exactly by his rules because being able to jump when he says jump, or shut up when he says shut up is absolutely vital to him personally and to his life. This man has done nothing except change my life for the positive, he is a giant reason I am where I am t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/14 02:25 AM
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I'm not sure what you may have missed. I did not disagree, but no one who commented when I left my comment had a different scenario. My SO and I spoke about serious deal breakers while I was still his "plate" such as children, marriage, and what we both expected. If one of those had missed his mark then I wouldn't have made it even into his life, period, but because my SO also knows women say things just to get what they want he was not going to give me exclusivity with him within a few weeks as…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/14 12:31 AM
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When it comes to getting official, are dominant men really willing to do so without having had sex with a woman? I think this is very subjective as one dominant man may not be willing to do so, but another may very well be willing. The ladies here all had SOs who were willing, but I did not. He looks at time as the most valuable part of his life and frankly he is not willing to waste time on people, or anything, if it isn't exactly his way and that's just that with him. He also did not offer exc…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 10:01 PM
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I'm not sure how that's a guilt trip. That's being transparent. That's being a real man by letting the female know she became involved with him when he already told her his plans before becoming attached to him. My SO was planning on moving out of state when he met me. If I was not persistent and if I did not show my potential then he would have went, and that's just the truth of the situation as it is for OP as well. If she did not show persistence or potential he saw fit for his life then he w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 12:21 AM
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This is a good idea! I was at williams sonoma Monday and spotted they had individual kits for peppermint hot chocolate and salted hot chocolate, but weirdly it was not salted caramel which is something my SO enjoys. My mom bought the peppermint one because she says it's delicious, but homemade will always beat store bought even if it's williams sonoma quality. Anyway, my point that I was trying to get at is that I'm positive there will be some good recipes for all types of hot cocoa kits and if …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 12:13 AM
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I never said humble bragging wasn't alright, especially in this instance because this is swell, but I honestly think when females just nit pick the quantity and point out things like "I did four loads of his laundry" it just rubs me the very wrong way since my SO has ingrained into me to never give a F about quantity, it's only quality that matters in our house, and because it's much more common for a women to hold over the man's head that she did 4 loads of laundry so she is special because we …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 03:27 PM
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This is real great and all, but this is how I know you're humble bragging about yourself Also while he was asleep, I did his laundry for the week (four loads) Not saying this information isn't somewhat useful for people who this isn't already normal too, but for someone that it is that is what this post feels like. I don't care how many loads you did because that does NOT matter. What matters is the quality of care, not quantity.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 02:32 PM
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I initiate like all day long. I act very excited about it and my SO loves that I'm like this. He initiates as well, but he isn't as playful as I like to be because well, he's the man and that's not his job nor does he have the time. When he's not working he's almost night and day different with that and becomes extremely playful to the point I'm running away ;) lol honestly, if it's only been positive keep at it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 08:47 PM
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See, I am like halfies with it being a luxury and then viewing it as more practical. In some instances, it is definitely more of a luxury. You aren't out in the world dealing with all the massive BS, you're somewhere safe and quiet where you can literally do whatever you please. This also means that a supplemental income for the family isn't needed, and today that isn't an easy task. Then the practical parts of it are abundant as well. It will always make more sense to me to be a stay at home mo…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 01:05 AM
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My SO does not want to have sex with other women. He looks and judges their faces/bodies, sure, but we have a commitment where the rules we agreed upon do NOT stray. We would not be in a relationship if my SO or myself acted like this man has. You need to stop trying to find millions of different ways to justify his behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 11:41 PM
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My personal issue right now, is that I am livid with his boss' actions right now. I understand the mistake was made, but the fact that this will effect my Fiancé's chances of advancement in the job angers me. He goes above and beyond professionally, and he is the most deserving of advancement compared to the other employees in the business. In fact, there is another employee who made a similar mistake, and had the gall to blame other people instead of taking the personal responsibility for it. H…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/14 08:34 PM
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I don't know why people are saying they're sorry for you. You are the one who made the decision to remain in a constant loop of ups and downs, which can also be chemically addictive for us but that's an entire different story. He is not deeply in love with you. He's only protective and concerned because you give him everything for nothing and he doesn't want to lose that as he realizes other females will not likely do the same and he would have to actually commit to get those perks. He tells you…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 09:35 PM
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That sounds like you're going to have the best weekend ever. Six deserts? Jealous and hungry :(
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 07:59 PM
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No one has a dating app on their phone when they are perfectly happy with their SO out of respect. He definitely doesn't respect you within an LTR frame. Work really isn't the greatest place to be spending time checking out other women near you. It's work. You're there for one purpose and that purpose is not recreational. We don't value fake exclusive relationships. That's just being a plate he doesn't want to lose so he just plays his game even harder.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 07:47 PM
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Not sure why, but this didn't go to my mailbox. You took absolutely no initiative to understand and properly strive to prove they meant nothing and that he means everything. You're lucky he didn't break up with you the first time he brought it up and had it shoo'ed away because you could not take a step back and logically think why this is an issue. I fully do not believe that even non RP women are clueless about having male friends with LTR's, I believe they solely enjoy the constant shit test …
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/14 08:40 PM
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How many times did he have to express concern for you to finally cut off communication? How much longer after that did it take for you to actually understand why his concerns were valid? You say it has been six months since your last contact with either of your exes, but I feel like there's something missing to make him just jump up and leave after he has been watching your actions for the last half year. I feel as if he did not see much effort applied to the situation and not much progression v…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/14 03:09 AM
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We still have no idea what we are doing for thanksgiving. I'm only allowed to cook for one of the holidays, besides deserts and a side, and since my SO is picking this year I'm really thinking he would choose Christmas since that's pretty much our tradition along with buying two giant standing rib roasts.. am hungry now. anyway, last year I had some great success with different recipes! They are all dairy free, except the whipped sweet potatoes BUT grass fed butter seems to go over much better w…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/14 07:15 PM
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Honestly, if you are that concerned about people saying hello or sup baybay to you then you don't have enough going on in your life. Every single time I leave the house, if I go anywhere else EXCEPT my gym, I get "catcalled" by men AND women. Explain the difference between a female and a male saying the same things to me? Explain to me why I've straight up had females ask if they could go so far as to actually touch my hair. I have never, ever, had a random man ask me that. The females I encount…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/14 06:19 PM
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Mmmm. Brussels and bacon!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 01:00 AM
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This is pretty true. I've been thinking heavily for the past few months on writing a post about how my life has evolved from before/when I met my SO to current day. There was a post recently on TRP about the men and women who are involved in the more "exclusive" lifestyles and it hit home really hard because that used to be us, but now we are focused on our family together and growing for our ideals in life. There is ways to avoid the CC even with men lining up out of the door, which I'm sure is…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 06:12 PM
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I'm going to second the why did your relationship end if all of this is true?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 07:38 PM
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Didn't you know? Women absolutely adore letting any and every one know about their life.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/14 05:35 PM
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Their voices make me cringe. No thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 09:42 PM
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This made me feel really good inside while reading. Thanks for taking the time to write this out and be so informational about the different aspects that have improved. I hope you have a beautiful llife together :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 08:58 PM
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If you don't know by now... I love survey type deals and will do them forever :) 1: How did you get moving this week? Started a new training block last week. So. Much. Volume. I'm used to a lot of volume, but this training block is brutal. I love it and am adjusting great, but it's a lot of work mentally especially when you still have accessory work to do after. 2: What was your go-to healthy food item or meal? Really all I eat is bro food and ice cream. This week for most lunches I had sirloin,…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 06:58 PM
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No worries. I only assume it was that because my SO and from memory a few ladies here also declare it as blow job week. I literally wouldn't know or understand it any other way anyway haha
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 07:05 PM
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Uh, of course all food is not the same, but a calorie is a calorie. As I said in my comment you can take carbs from ice cream or carbs from fruit and have the same body comp result, yet you might feel like shit eating ice cream versus fruit. I think I'm just really tired with people shaming carbs. We must take a look at why low carb diets are so popular in the first place. This is mostly due to low carb diets getting such great results very quickly in terms of overall weight loss. Notice that I …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 06:59 PM
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I read it as "it's blow job week." That makes more sense then to leave a blank for his name to me anyway lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 06:02 PM
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So, you're eating all carbs along with little protein and little to no fat? I just solved your mystery. You need to read on the basics of weight management and the basics on fats, proteins and carbs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 04:44 AM
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This is true, but also make sure to do what works for yourself because I respond way better to carbs versus fats body composition wise. Paleo is not the end all be all diet. What OP should do is learn about REAL nutrition, learn the differences between fats, carbs, and proteins along the impacts each have on the body internally as well as for body composition. Also, carbs don't just magically convert into fat. There have been studies showing this is actually much harder for the body to do. Carbs…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 04:31 AM
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You can't really bullshit me when it comes to managing weight. You can still gain weight eating healthy. Overall, a calorie is a calorie. I can take 36g of carbs from ice cream or 36g of carbs from a nutrient dense source and attain the same body composition either way, but internally sure you may feel better from fruit versus ice cream. Point is, you gain weight by eating a surplus of calories and that's that UNLESS otherwise specified by your medical care and this involves testing. So, since t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 02:47 AM
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Then look at what you're consuming. Calories in versus calories out is going to be a large factor here, especially because you're having trouble being physically active again. You need to give your body nutrient dense fuel and rest so you can heal, but be proactive about it as well. It just came off troll like because at 20 years old your life is pretty much just starting and I guess I had a hard time believing someone so young would think they're at "the wall." I'd also suggest speaking to your…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 01:33 AM
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Is this serious? I'm going to assume you're not trying to be a trollolol. Make changes. Look at your diet, pick up an activity that will get you active, work on yourself. Why have you let your standards slip? You're 20. Be a bit realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 01:23 AM
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I couldn't believe she even had the audacity to write that so nonchalantly. As if that's completely normal.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 05:30 PM
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I know. We just watched the newer x-men movie and I actually really enjoyed it so that girls a lame
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 05:28 PM
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Spot on. Ultimately it didn't work in her favor so she points the finger at anyone else besides herself. This is far too common behavior
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 05:26 PM
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I went out with a guy I recently met. No manners, no chivalry, he couldn’t look me in the eye and have a conversation. He was dressed like a slob and he mumbled too much. Finally we went back to his house and he suggested we watched a movie. He wanted to watch X-Men which shouldn’t have been a surprise to me. The next morning he said he couldn’t bring me back to my house because he had to go the opposite direction for work (at least this one had a job :) so I ended up calling a cab. Am I serious…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 01:04 AM
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Being vegan would never and will never occur in this house. Eating a vegan meal is a joke and I would probably get banned from cooking. Steak and steak then more steak, chicken, duck, etc. do not force your SO to eat weird diets or foods. Heck, a basic vegan meal wouldn't even have enough protein for me in it and I'm a female so I can only imagine how much harder it would be to ensure your spouse is getting a significant source of protein without eating more quantity. Hmmm, 8oz of chicken or cup…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 04:11 PM
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This is me. To a T. Or was should I say now that I have it figured out pretty well. My SO hates when the time comes, he hates the two weeks before mostly actually because that's when I apparently forget I'm a person because I am a small demon. BC is going to work differently with everyone. I could not take any type of pill I've ever tried. They were a nightmare. Eventually I ended up getting Mirena just to help eliminate any pregnancy. What helped my outbursts has been lifting, diet, and truly u…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 04:01 PM
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You answered for yourself! Your SO mentioned he would like it. Also, you would be very surprised to find many people who do pole for fitness/hobby aren't your typical striperella. They're regular people who just found a path of fitness that they enjoy. Some of the crap they do I'm pretty sure I'd die.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 05:47 AM
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Lmao
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 01:34 AM
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You just posted another thread on hypergamy yet never responded over there
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 12:56 AM
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Is this like spam or what lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 12:54 AM
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If you don't know how to belong to ONE man then don't have a child with them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 08:05 PM
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Please. "Letting him know" is just a different phrase for "I tell him what's happening." So, I really see no issue with him not mentioning anything to you because fact is you don't ever ask or mention with him, you just tell him how it's going to go. Removing your ex as the priority is essential if you actually want your relationship to grow. As I said, he's a man who was fully aware what consequences and how much of a liability children, marriage, and even potential divorce were for his busines…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 07:39 PM
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I can understand why he said that he didn't think you would get it. Look at your own actions. You can hardly understand when he expresses to you that you should put your foot down more with your ex. Firstly, yes they're your children, but they are not his nor do RPW put their children's or ESPECIALLY exes WANTS before their spouse, their NEEDS are different. Your ex is a big boy, he knew the consequences children would have on a business and you shouldn't be rushing to save HIM, another man, tim…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 07:06 PM
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The Rules advise rarely returning phone calls and other such hard-to-get dating methods. Yeah, good luck rarely returning a very alpha man's phone calls and other crap hard to get dating methods they probably suggest. You won't last very long. There will be another female who isn't afraid to give herself to him, which means responding accordingly and being open for him. That's what I got out of the wiki page you linked. Sure, it says men enjoy being the aggressors and happen to treat women bette…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 06:03 PM
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Yeah, I figured which is why I told her I'm pretty sure he only mentioned the relocation thing as a test.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 04:14 PM
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I'm just confused given your post history. A month ago you posted elsewhere about a man. Is this the same one or a different one? Either way, this is a completely new relationship. Him telling you about being considered for relocation imo is a test of how willing you would be to give yourself to him. Work on yourself because nothing negative can come from that. It will also show him your potential to be a good wife, mother, and person. I'm not saying you're not a good person now, but by not taki…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 01:17 AM
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He seems really into you how? Are you exclusive? Also, what lead you to being where you are now without a husband? I don't mean that in a rude sense, like did you focus on work etc? Work on your weight. You are older then him and men do not age as we do. They age like delicious fine wine. You need to be proactive about aging as well as possible physically not only for other men, but your own heath as well.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 08:40 PM
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Yes. Along with the fact that in my experience and from what I've heard when you first start dating you are in such a "honeymoon" stage that doing your own thing doesn't really exist because you wish and choose to spend as much time as possible with that other person. if he's truly dominant and alpha she won't last long. They need to know that you are theirs and that's that.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 05:47 PM
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Uh, yeah, I'm sure you should not worry yourself with what sounds of petty drama and attention seeking. I don't know what field you're trying to get into, but I think I can safely say there isn't a field which applauds someone investing time into something or someone that is a waste of time and that is not an asset, as I said. If your goal is to get the cert and make quality connections, not just he say she say they have connections or have a network of connections, then that should be the main …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 10:37 PM
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You're over thinking this because frankly you're there for a certification, not to make friends. If the goal was to be seen as an asset to whatever you're going into so you could use him as a good recommendation or whatever then worrying about only yourself and doing what you're supposed to do respectively is the only worry you should be having. Thank god certifications and school don't last forever, you know?
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 10:22 PM
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It does not imply that really at all. When we say we are looking for a good man it is purely subjective to the individual, but the basis is a man who is stable within life and has the qualities we desire and what we view as "good" qualities. When it is said that RPW want a good man it does not imply that men are bad, or others are bad, it implies that we are looking for a man who we view would be best suitable for the type of relationship/family life we would like to have.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 06:58 PM
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Next.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/14 03:34 AM
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I agree. I can't believe I just read that. I was replying, but you got to it before me! Haha Is he in the severe hate and grieving stage of RP or what? Golly.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 07:53 PM
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Since the comment I was responding to was deleted I shall post this here. From someone who actually lives in this state I can say I meet far more people in relationships for a sum of years versus married relationships that have even been married longer. Sure, maybe that is just my luck in meetings, but eh even MI marriage laws turn me off. In our social circle there is one marriage and it was only because of their religious beliefs which involve families blessings heavily. Not everyone is bad an…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/14 06:47 PM
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I agree. We don't have children or plan on them, but in our home we both have a designated room which we are free to do whatever we want with. When we were picking paint colors out he kept asking "are you sure you don't want purple or something? This is your one chance!" Haha. Anyway, our house is neutral and cozy to both of our likings but both of us having our own spaces to what our individual wants/likes are has been really very great for both of us and has definitely benefited me as well.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 06:33 PM
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I'm also licensed and have been involved within the hair industry from an early age thanks to my mom. I've worked in a salon as well which means I have used quite a lot of different clippers. I cut my SO'S hair and funny enough we purchased new clippers for him about two weeks ago which are very lovely. I recommend to look into barber forums and watch barber videos on YouTube to hear what they have to say about different ones and which work best for each type of hair. There's certain ones you wo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 04:51 PM
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The peanut is a Wahl product hehe
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 04:27 PM
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That is my point. Dealing with the consequences and going about your life as you would is how you move on from it. You do not know how to act in a relationship within two days of a breakup, which you admitted you had faults leading to the break up which I also read as you making an impulsive decision since you also say yourself it was an idiotic decision. there is no magic for getting over a loss. It comes in time with things like that. At 20 years old I 100% get why you feel the way you do, but…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 12:35 AM
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First of all you're asking how RPW deal with an issue, yet you yourself didn't even handle the relationship in an RPW way. RPW think about decisions that are to be made, especially ones that have the potential to substantially change the presence and future. After that happens the part of accepting and living with the decisions you made arise. Then you carry on with your life. There is no wishy washy behavior, whi check you demonstrated by speaking to him because now you have suddenly realized t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/14 11:10 PM
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Hahaha, yes. Thanks for that chuckle :) Happy Halloween!
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/14 08:17 PM
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Of course. I highly doubt an RPW would view it in a way to be bad again then balance it, but because of my own surroundings when I read sentences like that I definitely automatically translate the answer I gave lol. :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/14 07:12 PM
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Fit Friday. 1: How did you get moving this week? I think I only know how to move. I don't know how to just sit still. Training has been going amazing, but also upped food intake which typically goes hand in hand. 2: What was your go-to healthy food item or meal? I eat healthy by default and only really save treats for deserts. For lunches this week I had lean grass fed beef with egg, veggies, white rice. I purely look at food in terms of carbs, fat, and proteins so besides when I'm eating with m…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/14 04:45 PM
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Agreed on ski socks. Last winter I purchased two pair of Under Armour ski/snowboarding socks. They're pricey at like 14-16 per pair, but holy crap am I in love with them and plan on purchasing many more this year. I originally bought them for lifting to keep my feet warm, but they have a nice very suttle compression as well which is just another plus.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/14 02:48 AM
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Every single person in your life is a total stranger at some point. My SO was a total stranger when I drove myself an hour away to his home the first time we ever hung out/went out together. I wasn't the first female he has ever asked out either. He is smooth as well. So what? That is part of him that was attractive to me and intriguing obviously as it is to you. Just be smart and safe at all times during life. Also, this is the kind of crap men hate. Dont agree to a date AND give out your perso…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 06:47 PM
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This all the way. This is exactly the type of crap men are tired of dealing with.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 06:40 PM
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No argument here. I was just trying to explain why this article was written as it was.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 11:45 PM
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My SO does speak to me like that. He tells me when I'm being weak, when I need to be strong, when I need to "woman up" literally. Out of what I just said it is very sad that is all you took out of it because I explained my reasonings so they would be clearer on WHY this article spoke a certain way.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 10:44 PM
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No offense, but what I said has nothing to do with you being a man and living in such a harsh and dangerous world. Really? Grow some balls because for realistic women life is still not all roses and sunshine despite any easier advantages we have unfortunately gotten. Once again, really, no offense, but what am I supposed to take away from this? Even men have this problem, but let me tell you I've met 90% more females that have an issue with food then I have men because we are not wired the same …
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 10:33 PM
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The females who compete in bikini, figure, etc often do fall into fatal eating habits which is why he speaks about it as so. They completely wreck their metabolism's, develop eating disorders ranging from anorexia to rejecting a food because they truly believe eating it will make them explode into fat or how about when they chew up food then spit it out so they can just taste it, but without all the added calories? There is so many issues related to food in the fitness industry, especially in th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 05:26 PM
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we as an industry need to understand and accept that it’s okay for a woman to desire a slender physique that isn’t overly ripped and muscular. We can’t be prioritizing our values over those of our clients. Yes. As someone in the industry this happens a lot, I admit I've done this as well. Our train of thoughts are hard to break, but it is about accepting all bodies are focusing on progressive betterment mentally and physically overall. This is why a lot of people tend to coach in a specific atmo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/14 07:48 PM
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I like this answer the best so far! Heheh
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 08:06 PM
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This.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/14 05:51 PM
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Eh. Seriously depends. My SO had a cleaning lady when we met. She continued to clean his condo, but she never cleaned his closet or did his laundry. My SO also would buy clothes, wear them once, then toss them on the floor/in the trash because that is how much he will literally not clean. His walk in closet, well, you couldn't even really walk in it. One day he left for work and he left me there. I decided since I spend mostly every night over there (at the time) that I would take it upon myself…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 03:46 PM
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No, it actually doesn't. I've had many peers come to me and say that the book was too much for them for totally different reasons. I have had peers come to me who are much better hands on learners and they can't take the information from the book and apply it themselves. It doesn't reflect poorly on me whatsoever. I've read the book, multiple editions, and can read through it just fine. Not everyone learns the same or can take in information in the same way. What may not be confusing to some may…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 11:35 PM
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I can obviously only give opinions based upon my relationship and my own thoughts, but I know far too well that if my SO saw me loving (not in love, but the friendship love) another man, supporting him, or providing for another male in any way he would lose all respect for me because to us these are sacred and intimate actions saved for one another as WE are the team, the business, and the other male friends/female friends are in no way an asset to the dynamic. I'm sure some men could see where …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 05:45 PM
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Maternal instincts. For both younger and older male friends, I enjoy supporting them, loving them, and providing for them. Do you really think your SO will be oh so happy when you do this for other men? It loses all meaning and any source of being looked at as special if you do it for everyone else and not him exclusively. So, what's your point in a relationship? There isn't one. May be adding to why you're single currently. I have at least 3 male friends for whom I'd drop everything and fly acr…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 04:14 PM
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For someone with absolutely 0 knowledge, yes, I do believe parts of the book are going to be difficult to understand: I never said it was a bad book because I believe everyone who is into this lifestyle should read it, but yes I'm "fucking serious."
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 03:56 PM
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I know first hand training IS fun, but I also am not just starting out trying to learn how to do everything properly and efficiently, which is the goal of every type of lifter despite having fun or not. She will not understand 99% of the satire there at this point and is probably not interested in it as she is literally just starting out and trying to learn. I don't understand why you and everyone else that came from that sub over here act as if we are attacking you. I know for a fact if I was m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 09:21 PM
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There isn't even any hate? You are the hater for posting in your sub a screen shot of what I posted to you. You're THAT insecure? I don't believe it. Did you read none of my other posts here explaining WHY those are my thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 09:12 PM
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That's fine, but if you're an RPW you are probably not crippling with insecurities and xxfitness would be a better suit. You can safely post over there, even with insecurities, and you can even send the mods there form check videos for privacy if you don't want to post them on the sub. The sub you all are praising has a ton of comments that are just a fitness circle jerk with jokes. There's some content there, but for someone who actually wants to learn it's best to go somewhere else where they …
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 09:09 PM
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My husband's family and I have recently gone through some really tough times trying to be an extended family. Oh my. Same here. His parents and half sister just moved here within the last three months, but his half brother has been living with us for the last seven. He was supposed to move in with his family when they arrived, but I honestly don't blame him for wanting to stay here after being around them, seeing their house, and tasting their mom's food. Needless to say my SO has been doing lit…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 09:02 PM
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That bothers me too. Her children will be hungry within an hour, they probably don't have a solid lunch at school, so then their last meal is dinner where they have to depend on the parents to provide a better source of macro's and nutrients so they can develop properly physically and mentally. If she looks at their breakfast as good enough then I can only imagine how she looks at their dinner choices as well.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 08:10 PM
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Agreed. There are far more stable and reputable subreddits for fitness goals then that place. It will not be beneficial to OP whatsoever
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 07:59 PM
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The correct word is not some fancy related fitness term. It's what is actually correct. Toned is not. We need to get away from the word toned because it helps no one and does not even describe the end goal of what each different individual would like to achieve. Muscle mass is tone. There's so many ways to reach a fitness goal or to get started, but facts are facts. I've never seen a new lifters right or left side just give out then they get slammed with the bar and fact is that shouldn't happen…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 06:19 PM
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All Pros Simple Beginner Routine: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=4195843 This is the program recommended to most beginners who are more interested in aesthetics over strength. You will still gain some strength on this program, just like on SS you would still gain some aesthetics. IMO you might want to try SS for at least a few months, the strength progression is much faster and you won't get another chance to get those fast noob strength gains again. After time on the program, re…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 05:07 PM
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They are arguably the most efficient lift and should never be taken out of a program (unless injuries etc), but the squat alone will never develop the glutes better then the other options I listed as it is such a quad dominated/posterior chain demanding movement. I am not sure why a squat booty is the thing right now, but I promise you all of the women with those glutes do a lot more then just squats.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 04:51 PM
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DL is deadlift yes! GHR is Glute ham raise. Here is one example and here is another. Good morning examples: here this link also includes a link for seated good mornings. Here is another, but because good mornings don't require a ton of weight I highly doubt you need to learn supermans or anything before moving to good mornings. I don't consider them more advanced, they are very very simple. I include them in all of my classes as part if our warm ups with PVC and when transitioning to a barbell n…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 04:42 PM
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Toned? Really? No offense, but if you're well educated in fitness you wouldn't be throwing that word around. I have never seen a properly educated new lifter drop the BB during bench because you either have safety bars, a spotter, or do "the roll of shame." Your right and left side will differ, but it should not be a night and day difference. If that's the case, use DB's to catch up your lagging side. Personally, I think you were inexperienced with benching and your fight or flight didn't kick i…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 04:24 PM
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Calories needed directly after a workout to reduce recovery is a myth. What 100% really matters is the caloric/macro total of the entire day, sleep, stress levels. Jamie Eason is a nice lady and all, but her programs are also designed to SELL the supplements that sponsor her more then anything else unless you're directly paying her. It's better off for OP to do SS, SL 5x5, ICF, All-pro, strong curves, etc. You can't build serious muscle on a deficit. You have to eat in a surplus at some point in…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 03:48 PM
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Starting strength is great, yes, but for a complete newb it will be very difficult to read and understand A LOT of what's being said. It is also a strength based program and that may not even be your ideal goal. Step one: Pick whether your interests are more aesthetic, endurance, or strength based for lifting and then that will allow you to see what programs are best suited for that goal. If you are looking for more aesthetic based, SS isn't really the greatest vice versa. Now if it's strength t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 03:44 PM
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I've been lifting for six years AND I'm not always quiet when I lift so I'm not exactly sure how that's manly because this IS part of the process for many men AND woman who lift very heavy and revolve their life around training. There is nothing wrong with it. Some “experts” claim that you’re not breathing properly if you grunt because the only way you can do it is by holding your breath and exhaling forcefully. That’s the EXACT reason why grunting is the natural thing to do for MANY on a heavy …
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 07:16 PM
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As others have said... You're in no way ready for a healthy and stable relationship with anyone, especially an RP man. The fact you're completely aware of your downfalls shows you are acknowledging them, but I also wonder if you're lying to yourself about what a real RP LTR is like if you are in the position to always be looked at as a liability for a man. You need to work on yourself before considering entering a man's life. I would be using that as a motivation if I truly and HONESTLY wanted i…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 08:10 AM
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Yep. When I heat something up like leftovers I use my stove or oven depending on what it is. The flavor tastes way better versus microwaving and my SO has even commented on how he appreciates this so I've just never stopped.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 07:57 PM
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Every time you post anything about how you cook or what you make I get hungry haha!
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 03:59 PM
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No offense, but a rice cooker and a microwave are two totally different appliances and a rice cooker does way more then just cooking rice. I haven't used a microwave in over a year so I may be bias, but my rice cooker is used daily. You can even make pancakes in them and have it switch to "warm" so when you wake up you have pancakes!
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 03:58 PM
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It would really depend on what was exactly happening. I would speak to my SO before anything else. It isn't as if I wouldn't help them, I still love them, but my SO's thoughts are much more important to me. I also know that if something terrible was happening that my SO would allow me to be there for them as well as help them IF my help could be productive to their well-being and/or other parts of their life. What you mentioned and what I've experienced are similar. Last Christmas my SO took abo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 09:11 PM
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I don't have children so I will not speak to that part, but parents? No. I fully believe parents become extended family after you become one with your spouse. They do not take priority over anything in my life, my relationship, or over my SO. I didn't think this way when I moved out of their house and in with my SO, but over the years it's became very clear to me that those are my true feelings on those relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/14 08:22 PM
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If you hated it that much you shouldn't have married him and you should have let him find a girl who would laugh at his farts or just ignore them as if nothing even happened. Man, some men deal with a lot of crap... No pun intended.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 01:13 AM
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Is this even real? Do you act completely disgusted when you fart? 10/10 would bet you don't. Hate to break it to you, but bodily functions are natural. Be concerned over things like Ebola, not farts.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 01:11 AM
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Don't get drunk. You can drink, but don't overdo it. What? You're telling me getting coffee wasted is a bad idea? :P
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/14 06:42 PM
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Reading this is like looking at some clients I've had and it always breaks my heart. While you have only aided this lifestyle for decades it sounds as if you have come to the realization of what's going on while it sounds as if he truly has to overcome the emotional and mentally challenging aspect of getting healthy, which IMO is harder then physical activity because it is pretty true when they say "where the mind goes the body will follow." I have a few suggestions. Definitely discuss this with…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 08:27 PM
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You don't feel satisfied by quantity, you feel satisfied by quality While I do very much agree with this at the same time I have issues with this statement. There are so many individuals where this is not the case and they only feel satisfied by quantity because they are so used to binging daily that it's now ingrained into them mentally and emotionally so this outcome becomes a hard habit to break. The best thing would be to figure out his caloric daily intake that he is consuming currently the…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 08:03 PM
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What people like or dislike is not my business nor is it "really stupid" if that is what they prefer and vice versa. I'm very confused by everything you just said because what is "alpha" to one women may not be "alpha" to the next. Every women in RPW does not have an identical relationship and our spouses all have different qualities that attracted us to them. A lot of women here have only sexually been with their one spouse so you're indirectly shitting on them when you say this as well because…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 07:49 PM
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K. You tell that to all the men over at TRP who's ideal IS a virgin. As I said before, which clearly you missed, it's always going to be subjective and I don't really care about your feelings towards it in this way when TRP deals with extremes it is the virgin who is ideal over a higher partner count, always.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/14 06:22 PM
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I'm just telling you what TRP prefers in general. It is always going to be a case by case standard, but RP does not preach to find a young female who has been handled by multiple different men. I don't care what you like or don't like because this is factual.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/14 10:28 PM
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Wrong. Earning respect is how you make actual "friends" with people in the work place. Gossip doesn't earn respect.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 06:23 PM
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Exactly. You are there for one reason and that one reason is your income. It isn't lunch hour at school where you sit and talk to all your friends about this and that, which I would say is quite common.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/14 06:21 PM
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Yaaaaaaayyyyyyy :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/14 05:34 PM
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There is also no substitute for being the only man your women has ever been with sexually. There is no substitute for teaching her exactly how to pleasure you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/14 12:08 AM
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You think sleeping with one man is going to sway a man of value especially if what you're saying is genuine about yourself and your upbringing? You're not a lost cause. It is ideal for men in TRP to want a female who is a virgin, but in today's world it isn't the most common factor to find among women RP or not. Many RPW are made by their men, myself included, and I was not a virgin when I met my SO and he will judge me on any and everything. In my opinion, you sound as if you're on the right tr…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 03:16 PM
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Maybe you'll have an answer then! This winter I would like to invest in an espresso machine or a good coffee maker as I've broken two cheaper ones this last year somehow. Do you recommend any and do you have a light roast bean you would recommend for pulling espresso?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/14 02:31 PM
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#dontbethatguy I seriously couldn't hold in my laughter. What man is going to wear those? I can't believe my eyes
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 11:40 PM
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I'm pretty sure they have an RPW flair and you don't so tell me why again you're unsure they are here? You are missing it. A man doesn't just get butt hurt because of a serious life altering situation such as that. There's more then what she said that happened, especially in a relationship that was only SIX short months.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/14 12:02 AM
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Oh, wah wah. You are taking none of the advice given here or replying with anything constructive on how YOU can take steps to get to where you want to be even after many of us have shared our thoughts. Yes, you're damaged, but that does not mean you need to let it run your life.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:35 PM
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Faking some confidence... You don't fake anything for a potential husband. You need to be as transparent as possible, period. I get where you're going with that, but you seem not not really understand men aren't idiots who just magically can't see fake women pretending to be something they're not. It's very clear to them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:32 PM
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You know what would make her more secure? Lifting, eating more nutrient dense foods, and consistently thinking about positives rather then drowning in what seems to be negatives while progressing. Do not get me wrong, I love makeup, but receiving validation on your looks does not mean the person will TRULY be less insecure. That comes from inside and you can't eat makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:25 PM
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This isn't good advice whatsoever. Attracting a man is about appearance, but that is not what makes him stay. More makeup is not the solution to the problem being presented.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 11:17 PM
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You should definitely remove this photo. Our sub gets trolled A LOT and it would be in your safety interest to remove it so you are not exposed. You definitely aren't ugly (from what I can see. Picture is a bit dark and you are sitting/bending oddly which hides some of your physical appearance. So this is purely based upon a dark picture that even shows little of your face.), but you also seem to be ignoring many of our main advice and questioning which is on your mental health. No one cares if …
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 10:39 PM
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What ended your single short term relationship? The depression and child hood issues are a big part of why you aren't succeeding because even you yourself say you have a hard time being positive, more then once just in different ways. You have to find peace within yourself. Working out and diet are huge into supplementing progression for this, but you mentioned you are doing those things already. What else are you actively doing to help yourself with those issues? The fat loss is a great thing. …
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 05:08 PM
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I am in love with coffee/espresso so I really appreciate this reply! I weirdly do like Starbucks espresso because it is bitter haha! But I don't enjoy bitter black coffee that has the foldgers taste to it, as I don't know any way to explain this. I think I will start trying lighter roasts of coffee as the cooler weather comes and I don't make/get espresso blended with ice. Do you have any brands or beans for lighter roasts that you'd recommend looking into purchasing?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 04:53 PM
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Remarried?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/14 02:47 AM
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Hey, thanks for clarifying because like I said I read about it a while ago. I think it's fair to say many espresso beverage consumers [wrongly] associate it with darkly roasted coffee. More than a few times I've dispelled the misconception that espresso is a roast type, not a brew method. The only issue is that many people have a way harder time pulling espresso from a very light roast versus a darker roast at home which is why I definitely believe this is the general train of thought for it. It…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 09:02 PM
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Espresso beans are a much darker roast versus many coffee beans and are usually steamed differently (I think that's how they phrase it. I don't remember precisely as I read about it a while ago.) While you can use coffee beans for espresso if grinded finely enough I wouldn't recommend it as it won't be the same. I prefer espresso to coffee, but I also enjoy a good cup of coffee. The same coffee bean will taste differently if you brew it in different methods, use different types of water, which i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 03:09 PM
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I was just letting you know this post was not useful for RPW and did not bring any value. We speak about what we need to be doing for ourselves and for our partners regularly. We are a sub that is all about self improvment with the key point being about our relationships. be advised it is not wise to post in subs who criticize red pill and the users while being actively involved with red pill subs. I'm not sure if you thought you were being clever by being passive aggressive or not so just a hea…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 04:32 PM
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Nah. This post was irrelevant even for new comers. We speak about this far too often for it to be missed. Many posts on the regular include variations of "I'm fit, but am working to drop the last few lbs" as well which would be apparent if you have been reading RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 04:11 PM
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As soon as I saw him across the room I grabbed my best friends arm and pointed at him, haha. There was some magical draw towards a complete stranger and it made my feelings weird, I couldn't understand it so naturally I was curious. Then he said "what do you want? Come back in an hour" which I did and the rest is history.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 03:12 PM
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This post doesn't really provide much of anything for RPW, but you are also very wrong. Stop eating bread/cereal/sugar and take the time to care for your health and body. Eat colorful, NATURAL food and the rest will take care of itself. There is nothing wrong with eating bread, cereal, or sugar in moderation. I eat ice cream frequently as in at least 4 nights a week. I also look at my macros daily which allows me to KNOW what I'm eating. It's true nutrient dense foods are better and much easier …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 03:05 PM
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The mind is a very powerful thing. You have to train it. Train yourself to not even consider any offer can be better. Train yourself to not even think of men in terms of their shopping list qualities. You are blissfully happy, working every day to maintain that happiness. This is too true. When I read OP's thread title it definitely hit home and reminded me of my old selfish ways. I didn't really invest years into men or give them a serious thought, but as soon as they started genuinely caring I…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 10:40 PM
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For sure! I get samples from Sephora all the time for products to make sure I actually like them or to practice with a new product, but their return policy is very awesome even if it turns out awful in the end. NYX is so cheap and even if you buy it at Ulta and hate it you can take it back, even used, with receipt! Ulta has a ton of drug store brands so if that was the route I would try to shop there because of the return policy and the points (they rack up and they turn into actual dollars to u…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 01:11 AM
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Brushes: You do not really need to spend hundreds on them. I have cheap Real Techniques brushes and then I have a few nicer brushes from NARS and MAC, but I reach for my RT brushes more. Sonia Kashuk's anniversary brush set at Target is an awesome deal and the brushes are very nice, you literally get all your essentials plus some for 40 dollars. Makeup: I don't use drug store brands besides NYX. NYX Milk is great for an eyeshadow base so the shadow doesn't crease and it turns up as it's true col…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 10:40 PM
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You have to be careful with some of those stands. Some have classes to educate about the products and application while others only care about sales. There's been a lot of photos I've seen online of women going to a booth to get their makeup done and....yikes!
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 10:25 PM
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I don't need to defend myself on this sub. I'm also not "in LA." My life is very isolated besides my athletic training because I am in fact not hideous and my SO does not prefer for me to have a plethora of people in my life for this very reason so that explains EXACTLY why I have never heard of it. Having an athletic job is already a stretch to him. I don't care what you say. I don't need to read the game because I am not constantly looking for validation on my looks to see if a man used a pick…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 06:49 PM
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He isn't your SO when eight days ago you said he ended things with you. You're his plate. He's speaking to other women, like his ex fwb, because that's exactly what you both are to him, nothing more. If I was busy as hell with something and my SO asked me to do something that would take no more then 10 mins then I would because I respect HIM and he knows 10 minutes isn't going to make or break my work. I'm going to assume and say the same for you because homework is not a life or death situation…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 07:45 PM
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Besides, even if what he asked wasn't all that urgent, if it's something that would have taken 5 seconds to do, and was something you should be expected to do, say for example, cleaning up a mess you made yourself, then you could have stepped away from your homework for 5 seconds. This is all I thought when I read OP's post. Even now that I read that he wanted a "sexy video" my opinion on that still stands the same as if it were a mess or not. Homework is stressful I'm sure, but flirting with yo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 06:45 PM
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I'm flattered for him you think he would go out of his way to provide credibility. Sadly, this is not the case as I've already said. He legitimately did a poll.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 05:44 PM
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Not when it is easier to typically jump on the man hating wagon. We do NOT do that here OR accept that type of behavior here. At RPW we do not advise women to stick to being a plate if their TRUE end goal is more, which in MOST instances despite what the female says is very true. Edit: Please read OP's response. You will see she has said she can't actually deal with non-exclusivity, as I said.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 12:08 AM
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This is awesome and made me smile many times.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 12:03 AM
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Nah, I've never head of that before and I genuinely hope people don't look at me as a naive idiot because that to me wouldn't even be considered a pick up line...especially not a good one. That's embarrassing if that's what it was, but considering he actually came in with a sheet that was tallied with who asked and what their answer was I do not believe even more so that's what it was. I'm pretty good at reading people because I'm very observant. If I felt he was trying to bait me with that in t…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 11:58 PM
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I'm at work right now but I'll take a look when I have time to watch something!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 06:15 PM
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Hahahah
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 06:14 PM
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Hah. I go to a gym that has a small volume of members because we are there for specific types of training. This isn't a big box gym where that is more inclined to happen and my SO has been to my gym many, many times so everyone who is aware of my presence there is aware I have a serious relationship. I would like to flatter myself, but I can't even.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 06:12 PM
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I don't find it weird because everyone has their own style of life and it isn't as if this gym has a high volume of members I train at specific times and there is generally the same rotation of members so while we may not speak there isn't any weirdness between any member, ever.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 06:23 AM
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Why does that matter? Also, no. We were aware of one another's first names and that is all.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 03:39 AM
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Haha!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 07:10 PM
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I saw a funny joke on Reddit front page yesterday I believe it was.. "How many feminists does it take to change a light bulb?" "That's not funny." Get it? They don't find anything funny and are never happy with anything.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 06:28 PM
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This was very well written and excellent. Thanks for posting. There is a lot to read here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 08:41 PM
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Well, if that isn't disrespectful. She can't explain her actions because she isn't even thinking. She's acting on her emotions only and that is why she is where she is. While this may have happened over Webcam I'd say she would do the same.exact thing in real life as well because it isn't that far of a stretch since Webcam is still.face to face. If she needs that much constant validation then there are definitely some issues with her. If she finds it this easy to lie about this type of stuff wha…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:50 PM
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Sounds like you married the wrong man because you went into this thinking YOU could change him when in reality you can ONLY change yourself, you can not change someone. If he is into BB then you need to relax. While many people enjoy training with their spouse, many do NOT. I am someone who can not stand it because of my personality type. I need to be 500% focused on me, my lifts, my programming for the day, and my goals. My SO is a distraction for many reasons but mainly because I want to have …
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 09:00 PM
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Shit happens. Perhaps when he told you "its just two months", that is what he thought This is spot on and I can't tell you how true your words are.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 12:29 AM
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I am very blunt and I don't think many people enjoy it, but honestly I know what it feels like to have an SO work more then anything else. You either stomp negative feelings out and learn to deal with this life in different ways or you simply can't handle it and need to walk. I'm blunt because those are the only two options. If this is what you want long term try to navigate your thoughts to positive ones only. Negative thoughts turn into negative feelings and so on. You don't sound clueless and…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 12:22 AM
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Um, all of my decisions were made within the first six months of us dating. That showed me he was serious and also showed him I was serious so to me that is just an excuse. You either stay and carry on forward, stay and be miserable, or respect him enough to say this isn't the right relationship for you. You are the one who said in your post he has talked about it and even brought the subject up again so yes, I'm going to assume that he is working towards having a life with you and my comments w…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 08:34 PM
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I can't last until the first of the year. This is all that stood out to me. It's fine you're honest, but you need to be honest with him about it so he CAN find a women who has no problem waiting it out for the end goal of starting a life together. Sometimes you HAVE to wait if you want something bad enough. I did it and was it fun all the time? No, but I am now where we finally wanted to be within our relationship and personal life's so it was most definitely worth the loneliness I endured to ge…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 07:52 PM
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I'm happy to hear he did the smart thing to do for his work life and for your guy's life. That girl has a simple mind, just remember that. Best wishes.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 07:54 AM
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You left out quite a bit in your post, but I read your other comment which gave a bit more insight. That man should be fired for missing work over fighting with his girlfriend and actually being dead serious with acting as if that is even some sort of excusable reason for showing up hours late. My SO is a business owner and I have seen the way he treats his employees when they want to not take the job seriously and..well, sometimes they get fired depending on how valuable their skills are to him…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 07:42 AM
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Phantom, as always I agree with you. you have given no alternative way to get negative feelings out. This is really childish mentality. You as your own person need to find healthy, consrructive, and productive ways to omit negative feelings and no one needs to tell you ways to do it. There's millions of ways: working out, arts and crafts, playing with your animals, taking a bath, going for a walk, writing down your feelings, etc. You should have transparent communication with your SO so that if …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 01:26 AM
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My SO and I are both ENTJ's. It was difficult for me at first, but I've learned to work it well in an RP relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 01:11 AM
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He sees every comment, every creepy PM You shouldn't be getting creepy PM's and if you are that's your own doing because in my time with Reddit I have never received one because I do not wander to where the chance of that happening could happen as I respect my SO. Not saying you don't respect him, but I don't exactly see it. Your Reddit name is a joke between the both of you, yet he doesn't even have a Reddit account, and it's definitely more of a sexual name for a Reddit name.. I also don't bel…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 05:47 PM
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I can never understand Internet tone. :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 06:03 PM
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My addition wasn't meant to downplay the poison within the gaming industry, if that's what you took from it. The industry I am in has a ton of issues exactly like this and I see people turning a blind eye with females on a day to day basis, obviously a bit different context in the day to days. I'm not as involved in the gaming industry as much as others here are so my thoughts come from another industry and what I view.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 06:01 PM
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Ok so the scandal was that an indie game developer tried to make a choose-your-own adventure html game, but wasn't getting much attention. She wanted it on steam, so she fucked five industry guys to get favorable reviews, and to get it green-lit on steam. Her boyfriend finally went online and told the story because he didn't like her cheating on him. The rumors include: she doxxed herself (with fake information) to get media attention, faked her website getting hacked. Every major news outlet/di…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 05:20 PM
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I took it. You can't choose multiple answers, but you definitely included enough options since you can't! I agree that you should publish the answers when it's all said and done with!
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 11:29 PM
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Let it go. My SO's ex that he dated for quite a chunk of time has the same exact name as I do. Sure it was weird at first and when his side of people would say "oh, the old A?" Or "the new A?" All in all, a name is just a name. If he wanted to be with her I am sure he could be and would be.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 03:51 PM
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You do know a huge part of athletic training is mobility work? There's so much more then purely lifting although it isn't shown. Athletes don't just strictly lift.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 09:02 PM
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Well, I work in the fitness industry and we recently decided I will start competing in 2015 in weightlifting oriented comps. So my life is strict when it comes to a lot of health related things. As for food, I'm not allergic to anything so there is absolutely no reason for me to cut out foods or to avoid certain ones. I don't eat fast food because it's gross, but I eat wings and pizza weekly no problem. I watch my macros and weigh my foods. I try not to go over 50g of sugar a day, which can be h…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 05:48 PM
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ItThat's not true, actually. My SO is the one who makes the real money, my money is simply petty compared to his especially with our recent shift in plans for me. The money is ours as a whole, but that does not mean I can go spend hundreds of dollars just because I feel like it. It has to be discussed. I simply make him aware if I'm going grocery shopping or need to make a purchase since he is the one who takes the financial responsibility. It's not the fact we would jump on someone for claiming…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 03:18 PM
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This is a really good point. OP, you need to do some reflecting.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 06:39 PM
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From the other comment that you're speaking of and my comment you also chose to ignore anything else we said to you and only picked up that we both feel you don't believe in him/are starting to resent him more so. Once again, while my SO is a man and he is our provider that didn't mean he had to pay for all of my certs over the course of 4 years to help me get to be where I am financially today. He saw the value of it, he believed in the potential I had, and he steered his team towards a success…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 05:40 PM
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I don't know what to say when his mom or my mom asks if he "has a job" yet Well, this is just me... My parents are not my immediate family. My SO is my immediate family. The day we agreed to do this was the day that decision was made. Sure, it took me a minute to adjust to not telling my parents things, but they don't know much about our relationship now besides we are happy. I'm pretty sure you should try it out because your finances and your relationship are no one else's business besides you …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 06:59 AM
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Our relationship is more than me being his willing whore, performing sexual acts outside my boundaries. Other women (and obviously men) will never be a part of our relationship. Agreed. The first part was almost humor to me personally. The second part has more insight as to actual frustrations I'm sure men are having, but all in all unfortunately things have to be written in extremes to be noticed these days or get any sort of response.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/14 12:55 AM
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It is a bit too general in some senses. The basis of it is be feminine, be supportive, and most importantly respect your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 05:20 PM
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The best first step would be to read all the material in the side bar located on the right hand side. There is a TON of information there to help guide new comers. Other then that read through the threads posted here for more information. Is there something or some things that you specifically need help addressing? Congrats on your marriage!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 05:10 PM
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No, sorry, I didn't lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 12:14 AM
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Wut? Longer hair takes much more to keep beautiful financially versus short. I know this personally and from working in a salon. You get charged more for a cut, a color, etc with long hair. You use more product with long hair. This ends up costing more.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 09:47 PM
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This don't strictly apply to women although they probably do this much more, but my SO has a buddy who complains and says how stupid his girlfriend is. What's worse is that my SO's 17 y/o half brother has been staying with us while his family moves here and my SO's buddy has said things to him, a child, about how irresponsible and dumb she is while actually telling him storied of what she does. What does that say about YOU? It's pathetic and gross.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 04:01 PM
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I had literally just turned 18 when we started hanging out and he was 24. We met at a strip club, imagine that! Obviously I don't endorse going to a titty bar to find the girl of your RPW dreams and no one on my side or his side thought we were being serious about each other long term especially given our meeting grounds. He moved me in within the first six months of our LTR and we have been progressing ever since for almost five years now :). We have no plans of marriage or children, but if we …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 03:52 PM
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Meh. My SO broke me because he saw I had potential to be a very well developed individual if I could adapt the correct thought process and learn specific rules of life. Difference is that I agreed to it because although I was not RPW, I was not an idiot and could imagine a life where I had everything I could ever want. Some women see being "broken" or "trained" as a bad thing just because of the word itself, but if only positives come from it then you look at it differently even though you do hi…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 08:27 PM
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Are you even out of your small home town yet?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/14 03:59 PM
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It also makes the situation worse for the women who is doing it as well. How can you calm down and relax the hamster if you just keep going and going? You can't. Learning to step back and be supportive helps both parties involved in the end as it helps the man to be more motivated while allowing the women to not engage in an emotonal war inside her brain. At least it helps me in that way. I know I can't be alone lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 12:36 AM
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Jeesh. I'm sorry you actually had to take the time to even write this because you would think as a sub so focused on self-improvement and realizing our actions that this would 100% be common sense. Why post here then post on anti-RP subs? Is that what you do in real life as well as in you're wishy washy? Eek. Do I agree with every post or word written over at TRP? Nope, but I'm also not a man who is more so focused on spinning plates which they are. I still enjoy reading them for insight into ma…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/14 12:30 AM
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Haha. That would never happen. Even when I get up in the middle of the night to switch laundry or use the restroom either he comes to find me or he will ask me where I was/what was I doing. That is our time together as we are both pretty darn busy these days and we enjoy it very much, especially when our pup comes in the middle and lays with us. We both look forward to it every day However, we have separate rooms for getting ready. I have a room that has my makeup station, dressers, hair stuff, …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 01:25 AM
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This hits home really hard for me. We finanlly decided in 2015 that I will start competing in weightlifting. That means my days are filled with training, eating, training, sleeping. He owns businesses so at least we can do the majority of our own work during the same hours and have dinner together nightly per our discussion. Making a plan for this type of schedule isn't an overnight process or a one discussion type deal, it takes time and you have to really go over every fine detail to make sure…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 05:34 PM
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The women who are here already know that we need to be worthwhile beyond offering sex. I agree. I also don't think this post is really that great considering we do speak of what our hobbies/interests are besides our relationships quite a lot already. I'm not sure if OP missed that or just is annoyed by personal experiences in life which made him (assuming male from comment I'm replying too) act upon posting. Having genuine interests is important for character building in your self, but it's also…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 04:36 PM
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Eh, that wasn't my exact intentions. My thought process went a little like: Feminists always say they don't have to be pretty FOR anyone, but yet they go out of their way to post selfies to try and prove that they are in fact pretty to the entire world. I said it was funny to me because well, it is. When people try so hard to tell you they are one way, but don't even know theyou are showing the complete opposite is quite funny.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/14 04:56 PM
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Where in the article does it say she is divorced? Maybe because I'm on mobile it doesn't show, but in the article itself when I read it and just skimmed through it again to see where it was I couldn't find it. Not saying it doesn't say it, but I'm genuinely curious. I don't believe it was worth pointing out because fact is this article is about what she did while married, not after. Her being divorced now is a product of her own doing and is a great example as to why men don't want to marry.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 11:11 PM
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So what? How does that make it any better? She was seeing Fred while married and pregnant.. She was taking her and her husband's daughter on lunch dates with Fred letting him say 'that should be my child" just no disgusting. Now that they're divorced she has the balls to write some cap story? L o l.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 10:59 PM
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Ew. I totally understand her connection with Fred as I do feel that way towards my man, but what the F! She got married, had babies, and went out to see this man while married AND pregnant! What a shrew. She should have done whatever to make her relationship with Fred work if it was that important as she says, not marry an innocent man only to take HIS daughter to lunch dates with an old lover and stay in contact with him. Did her husband even know? I highly doubt he knew how much interaction th…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/14 10:57 PM
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Despite the whey blends in this it is definitely more of a casein type protein powder. The taste is definitely there. My only issue is the high fat/carb content versus other casein's that have 1g fat, 3g carb, and 24G protein where as MM is 6g fat, 9g carb, 16g protein for one scoop..also the fact you can get a higher quality casein (as in ingredients) for the same price. This recipe OP posted already has fats and carbs in it so the MM may be a bit overkill for this. Edit: on my phone so it like…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 07:07 PM
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We have a verbal contract for many things within our relationship. Before we even entered into an LTR we discussed this. The answer is we don't deal with it from either side. He cheats, I leave. I cheat, he leaves. There is no room for infidelity in our partnership and quite frankly that is more of a liability in both of our minds then anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 06:56 PM
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Exactly. I read some of the comments on the tweets and that is exactly what men were saying on some of the selfies as well about their inside being ugly not necessarily their appearance, but those comments were met from white knights and angry females. Ha.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 07:26 PM
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Casein protein is a slow digesting protein. Amino acids are released into your blood stream over time. Depending on the individual they can absorb casein protein for up to several hours. This slow rate of absorption suppresses protein breakdown and with that the slow breakdown will allow your body to absorb protein as you are unable to eat at regular intervals/better for prolonging a hungry appetite. On the other hand, whey protein is considered the highest quality natural protein. It has all ni…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 05:44 PM
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Yes! I do this, but I will modify it and grab inspiration from the quest bar flavors because we both really enjoy them only when they're warmed up, but they are more expensive then doing it yourself. Protein powder is great and all, but if you want to help him not become hungry as quick you should be looking into using casein protein versus standard whey then experiment with adding that into bars/etc. Only mentioned that since this recipe does call for protein powder.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 05:10 PM
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I am really glad you took time to yourself and started to sort everything out. Congratulations, really, because that isn't easy to come back from on such a positive foot like you have from the sound of it! Sounds like you're taking the right steps forward and I hope you continue for yourself, but also for current/future relationships of all kind.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 11:13 PM
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I think you did fine. This is a newer relationship, but just as happywifelife said my SO is the same way in regards to repeating himself to assure me because I should already be assured the first time he says it. He also hates asking a question to be met with another question such as "what do you want for dinner?" "What do you want?" So, keep that in mind as well. Good luck on your future together :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 04:09 PM
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The day my SO looks at being the leader as a burden is the day hell freezes over.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/14 04:04 PM
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Contact management of the store or demand to speak to a manager while in the store. I do not put up with bad service in stores or at restaurants simply because they are working for ME during this time as that is literally their job being in sales. My field is sales oriented and I don't care if my client is a raging feminist.. I'm not going to disregard her questions towards what she could do to potentially reach point a, b, or c just as that salesperson should have remained professional and dire…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 10:38 PM
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I saw that last night and thought it was really sweet. Luckily I saw it when it didn't have 100+ comments so I missed out on that. I did however see the user who really dug back in his history to say something about him posting in gonewild. Who cares? Thankfully a few other users also said who cares and one even said her SO posts comments on gonewild time to time, but I doubt she got a response back because feminists only care about making a big deal over petty things. It's sad. This guy obvious…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 03:35 AM
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This runs in my family. My grandmother and father both had it, but thankfully they caught it very early so there was little treatment needed. I wish you both the best in this situation and am very sorry to hear this. We are all here for her.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 10:02 PM
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See my edit lol! I took you totally wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 09:45 PM
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My SO doesn't deal with decorating. I hung our curtains, I hung our pictures. I didn't know how to the first time around, but I used tools such as YouTube and the internet to figure out how. For you to say "I will be doing more than him once he's gone" is not exactly true. You're handling the house, great, but he's going to be busy as well striving for the betterment of the life he wants to build with you, right? The last thing he needs before he leaves is a list telling him what to do when he's…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 09:35 PM
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I'm confused. If there is something you really need him to do then just ask him for his help? Why does there need to be a list? If he plans on building and hanging things then he is already showing he has no problem helping you out while you're away at school, but if it's something you can do by waking up earlier or staying up later then I don't think that's exactly fair since it doesn't seem as if you're going to be doing much around the new place while he is since your free days are going to b…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 08:55 PM
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He didn't pressure shit. She put herself into that position and then she put pressure on HERSELF by being in that environment. He offered an invite to his tent. How is that pressuring? She went and fully knew what he wanted. She's been on RPW for too long and should 100% know this. She went fully knowing he was not going to just want to cuddle. Be real.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 04:04 PM
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I like crop tops, but I was definitely wearing them before she started going insane. Now crop tops are brightly colored or see through or mesh and I'm not about that. Just give me normal colors that are feminine and pretty, not over kill. She is over kill. I can't even stand it or her or her damn hair that made probably millions of females say "OOOO SHE CUT HER HAIR SO SHOULD I"
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 04:01 PM
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I see a ton of Miley Cyrus wanna-be's everywhere. I'm going to definitely assume she would wear one of those dresses you linked because I can totally see this becoming a big trend. It's getting harder and harder to shop in person for this reason because at least online they have more options to choose from so I'm not totally stuck. Help us all~
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:50 PM
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If I were you I would feel and want to do the same things. I don't think he could even be slightly upset at the sight of a good meal made by his women or grocerys that will get him more nutritional benefits then ramen has lol Although, if my SO told me not to do it then that means not to do it despite how I feel about it. I don't know your SO or how you two work, but just keep that in mind so you don't accidentally over step.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:48 PM
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I see these are AU websites so I suggest sabo skirt since the shipping is cheaper to AU versus USA. I love them, the quality is very nice, I can't express how much I love all of my pieces from there. I'm 22 so you are in the same age range as I am so you may like them. I just now read you said not too expensive, but I don't really think they're that expensive for the quality you get along with style, but places like Windsor, Pacsun, Bebe, Forever 21, and Express are along the same price/cheaper …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:34 PM
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Really? You can't figure anything out and I can with just your reply here? You don't know what he thinks about his sex life with you? This shows me there is a lack of communication in this area. It you can't even be certain that you're pleasing him and be certain that he definitely thinks that as well then there is an issue. Despite how small or large it may be in this situation as you really have given us absolutely no information other then *I do everything right/everything I'm supposed too"
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 04:20 AM
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Awesome. Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 06:47 PM
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Care to share the coffee maker you bought? We plan to do a few freestyle camping trips when September starts and this would be very valuable for us. Also, ribs! I made them this last week too. Him and his brother were dead after and named me the smoke master lol. Can't ever go wrong with piles of meat.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 06:25 PM
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Smoking all of our dinners lately. The other night I smoked ribeyes then finished them on the grill, last night was smoked burgers stuffed with blue cheese and bacon, then we also have had smoked ribs this week as well. He's a huge fan of smoked food. He's a huge fan of my food in general, but I think he can see/taste how much I love my smoker and using it. That's the main way I show my appreciation because I love feeding him. He's been in a pancake phase so every morning he gets blueberry panca…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 05:45 PM
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Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 05:34 PM
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Thanks for sharing that info. I didn't know that!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 05:34 PM
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Yeah, take a moment to reflect on yourself. If you even took the time to read then you would know he isn't ignoring you for no reason. You're not a special snowflake.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 03:51 PM
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It's one thing explaining something to someone who has read the material and doesn't get parts of it but explaining everything to someone too lazy to read the available information is a waste of our time. Exactly what Lady_Motido said. It's not hard to understand if you have actually read all the readily available information on this side bar, but also TRP's. Keep in mind that a lot of the population over at TRP are not concerned with LTR's so always keep that in mind while reading before jumpin…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 03:39 PM
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My SO just turned 24 when I met him. He already was in business for himself and very successful. The two females I mentioned are also not with men who let them run the relationship nor do they run wild. It's not impossible. You just have to be willing to put in the work when you get the smallest chance to be with someone who DOES offer what you want. It's not impossible was my point, and others as well. Edit: you're right which I agree with, but my point was that it's not seriously crazy unheard…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 10:04 PM
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Wait until you move out of your small town bubble because in all honesty all you have to go off of is what's around you now from what I've been reading in your posts. I'm 22 and have been in an LTR for the last few years. My best friend is 23 and has also been in an LTR for the same amount of time practically as I. An old friend I used to be close with, who is also more submissive/feminine, is a year older then I and getting married. So, you can't exactly use age as an excuse. You only have expe…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 08:01 PM
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I've been lucky since I got to grow up with a mother who is an esthetician. The only face products I use come from Skin Authority or Eminence. For the public it's pretty pricy, but even if I didn't get a discount I would still purchase it. The quality is great along with how long the products last! Their clear skin probiotic moisturizer (eminence) is one thing that I really can't go without. If I run out I definitely notice with my face. This product does not contain SPF, but a lot of their othe…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 01:25 AM
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I agree with this so much and am happy this was posted over there, but what really did it to me was: She wants to tell you what bothers her because once she sees how you don’t think it’s a big deal, she won’t be as anxious about it. I can't even explain how much this holds true for me. I'm not exactly an anxious person, but I have my worries every now and then. When my SO confirms my worries are nothing that I need to worry about it makes everything so much more peaceful in my mind. Thanks for p…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 07:36 PM
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Her story was already bad, but when you just flat out call it as it is I don't know how anyone could agree with her. If she posted what you just summarized it into I have a feeling some responses in that thread may be a little different, although not much unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 07:16 PM
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It definitely makes my SO feel very good. I can see that look on his face. It also makes me feel very good that he feels that way and he's able to accomplish whatever he puts his mind too, but also because I can help in many ways without being a liability. I take care of our home life, but that doesn't take all day long and we don't have children so I have even more available time besides my part time job to do whatever he may need me to do. The one thing he told me was that if I ever was a liab…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 04:16 PM
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This. Do this. Help as much with his business as you can. Do NOT be a liability to his business. If you can't do something, don't know how to, or try to deviate from what he says to do then don't bother helping him with it. Be an asset. My SO owns businesses. He started with nothing. It wasn't easy for him, but he made it. He has absolutely no time and he has been in business for the last 9 years. So, be prepared for that as it's not easy. Make sure he has food to eat and water to drink as with …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:48 PM
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That's not what I said, but ultimately he is the only one who can change his attitude on the situation. My SO doesn't really tell me his insecurities because he is very emotionally shut off. He is not a typical man. When he has a bad day I listen and am the supportive role, but he doesn't want anything else from me in those moments. All you can do is exactly that, be the support system he needs and wants. The rest is up to him. He has been through a lot in his life as you say so he has already o…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 09:34 PM
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Cock carousel
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 05:30 PM
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What TRP is saying is going way over your head.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 05:14 PM
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Hi there! My SO dropped out of HS, did a few classes in college, and now owns a few businesses of his own. He had a very bad family life growing up (his own mother wouldn't even buy him a winter coat or cook food for him so him and his full brother had to watch their half siblings eat kind of bad). The difference between the two of our spouses is that mine never once doubted what he is capable of. He built his life from nothing and all of his business is word of mouth, there is no advertising. H…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 04:58 PM
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Holy crap lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 04:45 PM
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We don't really fight much. We pick on each other, but that's our personality and this is how our relationship is. Besides, it's playful fun. it's either solve the problem or shut up. Listen to the solution or shut up. There is no grey area. He thinks fighting is a waste of time and I definitely agree. That time is wasted on nothing productive and that's one of both of our biggest pet peeves. Have a problem? Speak as a respectable adult to your spouse in your normal voice. If I have an issue I n…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/14 03:55 PM
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Very nicely put. I agree with this 100%.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 10:24 PM
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Yes! Get one. Try looking for more independent/small businesses versus larger cleaning services. When I met SO he had a lady cleaning his 3 bedroom, 2 bath condo for 80 dollars. She cleaned fair enough to keep him very happy, but of course I wanted her out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:29 PM
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Yep. This exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:24 PM
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I seriously can't even believe you came to an RP sub with this expecting anything remotely positive or thinking we weren't going to tell you your GF is just another typical CC female
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:58 AM
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She's has three three year long relationships so my question is what went wrong in each of them for it to last three years then be disposed of? That's the last type of girl I would consider for an LTR if I were a man. I would also probably spit out in laughter after she told me about her "flings." It's immature and a shit test to see how much wiggle room she will have to do whatever the fuck she wants in the relationship based upon your answer. It's not cool, it's not cute, it's more along the l…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:56 AM
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Her posts are getting repetitive. We have all said to her the same thing before.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 06:53 PM
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Also, NYX is super cheap and some of their products are awesome! Their butter lipsticks and glosses, HD conceqler, and their primer works well too. And sephora will give samples of anything in their store and often times the samples last a while so it's pretty awesome. That way you actually can use it and know for sure it works/you like it versus once and being unsure
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 05:58 PM
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Of course. I love makeup, but I'm also very active and we are always busy so learning how to balance that and learning how to be comfortable in my own bare skin around him wasn't an overnight thing and I don't think it is for majority of women so I'm happy to give my view! With more time and as you establish more trust within the relationship it comes much easier and more naturally. Good luck and you'll be fine :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 05:09 AM
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I'm not sure I have tips. I use nicer quality makeup (urban decay, nars, cover fx, etc) so I can avoid having any malfunctions. Especially because I do frequently help him with errands for his business which consists of driving all day with very little opportunity to stop and seriously check myself out. Urban decays setting spray is real nice and lasts a long time. I do not wear makeup for those activities if he says no. I ask beforehand and he either says yes or no. I know this seems a bit off …
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 04:45 AM
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I also run to the bathroom frequently to check my appearance. Is this going to appear too insecure of me? I like looking at myself, but no way am I going out of my way as you suggest you're doing to check up on my appearance for the day as you suggest. That, personally, shows a red flag that the individual can't even be content in their "costume." Which is how I view it at that point. If there's a mirror available or I'm using a bathroom then there's the proper time. There's a time and place for…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 04:18 AM
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Her career she wants in ten years. I was just kind of throwing other questions that have the potential to have a large change within 10 years because she wants it now instead of waiting so you could really look at all aspects on of this is beneficial for the family unit or not. I know how her mother is and that's exactly how typical Filipino households are. She never learned how to keep a good house. She had no examples and no responsibility.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 07:23 AM
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I know exactly what she's saying. It's not about the education. My SO is part Filipino. His mom is full. She is crazy and definitely an extreme version, but all of the other women I've met have only been tamer versions. I'm just curious if you have been to her families house and what you thought about the cleanliness and structure of her home life? Most homes that I've been too aren't a giant mess, but they certainly aren't even above average jobs of home keeping then let's not even discuss the …
/r/askTRP18/07/14 01:22 AM
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Yep. What a lot of people are missing is the big impact her culture of being Filipino also adds to this equation. Filipino men are generally not the leaders of a relationship, but the women are! She has seen this her entire life and it is embedded into her culture. Good luck. Also, in ten years who realistically knows what's going to change within any work field and within education itself. A man who can't even answer that for himself is in serious trouble.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 11:09 PM
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she'll feel like she succumbed to a filipino stereotype of young girls getting married and not finishing their degrees and therefore being "failures". You do realize what they are really saying is "you can't get married to an outsider and run the show" She is Filipino. I don't have anything else to say except you did NOT weigh that heavily enough before YOU married her and decided to have a child with her. Her culture explains this. You want to ignore that, but it's very real. She cares about wh…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 11:05 PM
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Amen
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 05:28 PM
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Yep. He left out a very big piece to why she is the way she is. It'll never change so he's going to be stuck with this attitude and outlook on life from her forever.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 05:15 PM
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I would be exhausted if I was your SO. He constantly let's you know he wants you yet you seem to constantly question him on it. You're shit testing him. He knows you don't like drugs and it upsets you, he respectfully asked his buddy not to say anything about them around you because it bothers you, yet you get mad over it... You see a FB message that is doing absolutely no harm and yet you get bent out of shape. My SO's buddies sometimes send him pictures of girls they've hooked up or will tell …
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 01:58 PM
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I've been around a lot of Filipino families that grew up there then came over here to America and the wives are always the ones who run things. I've never seen a Filipino husband be a true captain. This is from my personal experience as well as my SO's. I used to wonder why he complained so much about filipino's, especially the men, and I know why after all the interactions I've experienced now. Edit: point being is that I believe the issues stem from her culture more then you'd like to think
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 09:25 PM
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I do 100% of the house work, but compared to what he does on a daily basis my life looks like all fun and games. Before me he would buy new clothes, wear them, throw them away, repeat. So, he does not clean anything. Out of everything that he does for me and for us.. I could care less about anything he does while he is in our home. If I actually need him to do something for me then I'll ask when he has time, once, that is that. Or if he's here and I'm not going to be I'll leave a note on the whi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 05:48 PM
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I love muscles, but I think that's obvious. I don't however like muscles that are too much aka drugs. My SO has 3 tattoos. I don't even really notice them. They're not super large and they are part of his life. He got each one during certain times of his life so it's never been an issue. If he had a pretty boy chest piece with gay wording just because then it would be an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 02:50 PM
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she insists that I subbordinate to her. I'm not reading any more of your post. This speaks volume.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 03:57 AM
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She can't read your mind. Don't be afraid to speak up on materialistic additions to your wife's appearance if it isn't working for you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 10:03 PM
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As someone who knows women who get them done and knows women who do it within their job, there is different sizing available depending upon what the client wants. Fake eyelashes look pretty fake. Eyelash extensions on the other hand can be beautifully done. There's also different shades of color so it can tie into the rest of your appearance. My advice? Look into eyelash extensions by someone who is very reputable and experienced. It's costly for a very good reason, but well worth it for women w…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 09:35 PM
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And yeah, he kind of pressured me into it I don't care if you added in parenthesis you admit you fully gave into the pressure. Say THAT then. Don't say he pressured you into it because YOU are the one who went to his tent. He didn't drag you in there and pressure you to go into the tent to do anything. You put yourself in that position. You put pressure on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 04:24 PM
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Now I just feel bummed out. Pity parties are never attractive nor productive. You feel bummed out over your own actions that were only in your own control. If you were truly following RPW advice then you wouldn't have gone to his tent thinking "oh we're just going to kiss and cuddle awww." We have discussed far too many times this EXACT scenario. What did you expect? also feel like it's hard to find a dominant, amicable and attractive guy who actually wants to date and not just mess around You f…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 04:20 PM
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Hahaha I laughed
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/14 05:38 PM
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I agree with this, but I don't agree with giving out "partial credit." You either get credit or you don't and this piece does not deserve any. I don't get credit for being half right or half assing things. That's a pretty big part of why females are the way they are today.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 05:46 PM
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She's a teenager who is engaging in this sort of activity? Like, how old? 18/19 is still "teen" so I'm kind of hoping she's at least one of those ages by this story. I started my RP journey when I was 17 literally just about to turn 18 so "too young" is not real- unless you mean she is mentally too young. Of course men don't want to have anything to do with her. She dated a beta, but instead of being mature and respectful about ending the relationship that she chose to enter she went off and rod…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:45 PM
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There is two TIGI products. One is Rockaholic and I like it a lot, but it comes out white/grey so you have to really get comb/rub it into the hair. The smell is alright, not bad not great. They also have a dry conditioner as well in this line which is nice as it's made for the mid-strand versus scalp. It's a nice conbo. The second is called Oh Be Hive! and it's a matte dry shampoo. No color, I personally think it smells good BUT it is a bit over powering at first. It also adds volume to your hai…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 05:30 AM
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LOL that picture! There's times I definitely have to wash my hair earlier then I would like too, but I have so much hair this length of time seems to really help not dry it out. My SO prefers my hair to be straight and honestly it's so much easier to handle and dry shampoo when it is straight. I'm not Sideshow Bob, but I am very wavy and it goes insane after a few days in it's natural state versus straightened. I have a pretty neat flat iron, imo. A lot of people in reviews seem to have issues w…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 09:58 PM
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That line is also the line I quoted because wtf. It is so cruel.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:14 PM
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He married me and he made a vow to love me for better or worse and it seems very petty and immature for him to complain about a lack of sex when I have given him everything else. Wow. I don't even know what to say except this is totally disgusting to me and very, very sad. I love our intimate times together and I know the other ladies here love their times with their men as well. It's a way to connect that is unlike any other way. Those people are not in a relationship, they are simply a busines…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 05:48 PM
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You can prevent a lot of other hair damaging causes. People are lazy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 05:27 PM
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Oh. Damn. Okay. Link up a storm. Did you miss my edit? Did you miss the part that I know it can't be repaired? Did you miss the part where I said there is a surplus of ways to minimize it and go about it in an educated way? I'm going to bet MOST people DO NOT CARE about the educated way of doing things.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 05:23 PM
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So, my comment stands as you just have to know how to treat your hair when using heat products. Also, if you use appropriate heat on your hair (which most reliable heat tools have settings you can choose from) the issue becomes even less. I've been around hair my entire life and I've also done hair. Heat is not the main source to bad hair, lack of real care and lack of education on heat styling tools or products is. That first link only really backs me up a bit because most of it is basic knowle…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 05:15 PM
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I work in a gym and work out regularly. I still only wash my hair every 7-9 days depending. Put your hair up while you're working out, wear headbands, and invest in a GOOD dry shampoo (I love both of TIGI's). I also blow dry and straighten my hair weekly. If it gets out of control during the week I'll run my flat iron over it some more. I make sure to throw Moroccan Oil into my hair daily and this is all I need, and all most people need. They have one for thinner hair which is not as thick of an…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 04:44 PM
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I highly recommend you don't heat-style your hair. It completely kills your hair and dries it out, no matter how much you deep condition. Also, it will make your scalp produce more oil to counteract the dryness. With everything else that happens to hair on a daily basis this isn't as big of a concern as you'd really think it is. Knowing how to take care of your hair and knowing which products are right for the job makes all the difference in the end, not how you manipulate the style. Can you ple…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 04:35 PM
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It definitely was! :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 09:01 PM
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Exactly. There's no need to worry about what he's doing or how he's going to do it when there's another task that can be accomplished. I could have called all around and found a spot as he did, but as you said he took the lead and I focused on another task for our evening. I took a TON of pictures because I already planned on doing a photo album/getting nice frames for our house and putting photos in them. The post card idea is a good one too! I only saw a few post cards at one spot while we wer…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 06:03 PM
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Thanks, Temp. This place has been a great tool for me and you ladies have been awesome as well. I definitely don't look at map reading negatively, but it's not going to be easy I'm sure switching from "turn left, turn right" to a map and compass. He said we can go back in two weekends if I learn so I'm going to try to learn as quickly and efficiently as possible!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 05:38 PM
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I don't see it as the main prerogative whatsoever. The main prerogative is my relationship and even IF a child was in the picture that's still the way it would be. We do not have children nor do we want them. My SO runs a few businesses and barely has time to spend with me as is and I know for a fact he would want to have much more available time to give to his child despite me being able to handle the majority of it. The time he does have off he doesn't want to do anything except relax with me …
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 03:21 PM
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I seriously hate hate hate all low cut pants. I'm constantly stuck in leggings, skirts/dresses, or high waisted shorts. The only issue right now is it seems like everyone wants to dress like Miley Cyrus so it's been confusing. I try a lot of things on and immediately think LOL.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 06:12 AM
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That's awesome. Congrats :) My SO's brother fights and he had a fight with a broken hand, hit the guy with his broken hand, guy went to sleep in about 12 seconds. It was..interesting lol. His focus was more bjj versus boxing though. It's definitely intense to watch when you actually know the person fighting! Take care of him!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 10:03 PM
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My SO doesn't mind me wearing high-waisted shorts, he in fact LOVES when I wear them. The only other aspect of my life besides him is fitness so they fit me very, very well (literally the only fit of shorts I find comfortable) and don't look trashy where as we have both seen them look very trashy on other females. He is also really into 80'sish style clothing which for me is awesome lol You have to dress for your body shape. Some women can rock certain styles and some just can't. I definitely ag…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 09:40 PM
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why should you care that he is left out of the group that you are in Exactly! It isn't like they planned to do this together or anything... Maybe we need to define what together means since that part is going over everyone's head. He didn't say it because she is better or likes the activity more, they planned this together with another couple and not separately.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 06:58 PM
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This post isn't about the act itself, it is definitely about her ability to reflect, show she has respect, and that she could apologize without hamstering justifications for her actions. I am sure if they planned out a PR cycling ride he wouldn't have said anything and then this would be a non issue, but it wasn't and she showed her ability to be selfless and stop herself. It doesn't matter if my SO wouldn't care or if I wouldn't care, that's not what this is even about.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 06:23 PM
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I thought this was really lovely! Great job.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 06:01 PM
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The problem does not involve the weights. There is also no "toning and weights." Toning equals having enough lean muscle mass to support your frame. Your problem is diet related and the only other thing it could be if it's not diet is medically related. When you eat at a deficit with weight training added you lose weight more aggressively then if you did not weight train, if you eat at a surplus with weight training then you build muscle, but with building muscle you inevitably gain fat as well.…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 06:09 PM
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Get on a beginner linear strength program. That's all you need at first and this will allow you to learn the fundamentals of lifting as that is what these programs are there for. You will see differences with noob gains despite eating at a deficit or a surplus, but after that stops women can only gain about .5lbs of muscle per month with a surplus (it's about 50/50 fat and muscle gains). You could also eat at maintenance and do a slow recomp after the noob gains end as this will allow you to gai…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 03:41 AM
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If my feelings are actually hurt I don't act any differently towards him. I will wait until he has time and tell him that I need to talk to him and that's usually cue for something of importance. He is actually much more likely to listen to me when I approach him respectfully versus letting my feelings effect our reality, which he absolutely hates. It also helps me think it over so I have a chance to figure out why it bothers me and I'm not just wasting my time or his time by not being able to e…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 09:22 PM
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I've been reading through the comments and there's thankfully a lot of people who do disagree with the harsh comments, but there's still harsh comments nonetheless. I am also confused by my reaction to her and her work. It's a mixture of jealousy, admiration, and disgust. Jealousy because I want the skills she has now without working as hard as she did for them, admiration because I can spot quality, but disgust in that this is the triple-threat version of Cosmopolitan magazine This comment says…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 08:56 PM
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Exactly. Just relax a little bit. You married this man and started a family with him because to you he is a good man that you trust. Just take a breath and gather your thoughts before you snap back at him whenever something like that arises.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 06:56 PM
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Firstly, bite your tongue. He is the provider for your family and if he wants to have the last say then he should very well be able too. If he snaps at you it's most likely for a reason so you should actively be trying to take a step back and think about what the actual issue is and how you can fix it or attempt at making things better. He has clearly compromised more than you know as he accepted you when you weren't even attractive to him, but he still provided. That's definitely a compromise a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 06:19 PM
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Thanks for making me smile with that one.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 09:21 PM
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Finally my SO is closing his business and stepping back from other business related things and taking that weekend-Wednesday off! I could maybe cry just thinking about it because it has been so long since he has had any sort of break and I just want him to relax and enjoy his only days he has off. We're going camping up north and we plan to be on the boat the entire time, eat a lot of food at all the places, go to a cherry festival, and lots of me hitting on him and making him as relaxed and res…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 09:17 PM
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It depends on what they kind of look like after each use. They're really cheap here so I'll typically throw them away or grind it up in my coffee grinder and then put it in a little bowl on the kitchen bar or living room table. You could also use vanilla beans too, but I just like cinnamons smell better.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:49 AM
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Or add some vinegar/apple cider vinegar to your dish washer as well for along the lines the same thing. I do this frequently because our dish washer is a bit older and this seems to give it a boost. Incase you have one and never though of it!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:35 AM
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I thought when we moved into our most recent house that it smelled weird. Like you it wasn't necessarily a bad smell, just kind of "off." I would boil orange peels and cinnamon sticks to make the house smell good, I would look into diy carpet fresheners as well (I use baking soda mixed with lavender then I'll vacuum it up - beware this is not the best for your vacuum and I have to spend extra time cleaning my vacuum afterwards). Candles. Everywhere. I have a bad Yankee candle obsession (recently…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:30 AM
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2)he's been ordered to lose weight by his recruiters so he's been eating rabbit food. It's a shame because I do love cooking/baking for him and I'm quite good at it. You do not have to eat rabbit food to lose weight. This is going to only add stress to his life with everything else going on. I highly suggest for you to look into flexible dieting (iifym- if it fits your macros) and figure out his TDEE then eat in a deficit for weight loss. This way he can still eat foods he likes, but have a bett…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 07:43 PM
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So, I'm confused.. If this was such a common theme in his women (loud, feminist, older) what made him keep going back for more? What "wonky" roles are you describing in his past relationships? He is not RP obviously so I'm wondering does he now know about RP? If he was RP before then he wouldn't have allowed women to put him into "wonky roles" and I highly doubt he would have been cheated on five separate times. Fidelity is very high when it comes to RP LTR's for each side. So for you to say it …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 10:19 PM
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Yeah, six months is not a lot of time. I can't see how they could have known each other much longer either since she says he was married for seven years prior to her. If I were her I wouldn't get too involved with a man I barely knew that had five serious relationships where the female cheated each time. That's a red flag to me that despite those women behaving badly that he is missing something essential to a functional LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 08:44 PM
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What's your history? You don't have to for details, but a generalization of it will help at least. Does he know about this history? And are you sure it's actually history and not anything that could happen again? Why did all of his spouses cheat? Yes, people cheat, but to have it happen that many times repeatedly tells me something is off. Either he does not have good frame whatsoever or he picked damaged women and thought he could change them, and you can but without a very strong frame that is…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 08:02 PM
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Yes, pink to the big flair would be a nice cute touch. :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 06:23 PM
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That's her daily grind, that's what she's supposed to be doing. Relationships take work, not tit for tat which is exactly what this sounds like. Just to be clear is he taking care of his duties? Has he ever been affectionate in the ways she now wants? If not, it's quite possible that his actions for her and getting things done is his form of affection. She should also stop looking into other relationships then comparing them to her own.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 05:43 PM
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It definitely isn't RP Fun fact: In many states, if your child starts to view him as a father figure and you two eventually break up, you can sue him for child support. No, he does not have to legally adopt you your child either. Look up laws such as “equitable doctrine of estoppel” and “psychological parent doctrine.” If it was RP that wouldn't be there and certainly not as a "fun fact." Of course, a lot of those things are just basic things to do so it will fit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 05:21 PM
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Does she not see how that's hypocritical? She's waiting it out, but why would that make him actually want to show her any effort? As Phantom said it's easily possible he shows his affection by providing for her and taking care of the bigger issues. This is where it's hard for females to actually think rather then listen to their feelings because they would rather have the affection they want and omit the fact that if he is providing etc that it isn't affection..when that's the realest affection …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 05:15 PM
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My mother is the breadwinner and has been for a pretty long while now. It makes much more sense and has made much more sense for her to be rather then him, but he has had jobs and he is also now finishing his last year of pharmaceutical school! My mother adores my father and is very proud of him. It has been proven in their relationship that she is the one who is better with finances. I know this for fact, my dad knows this for fact, she is just a genius with numbers and their budget. He is the …
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 04:55 PM
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As someone who did nails it's weirds me out not having them look nice at all times. I like them not too short, but not too long. Long enough to where it doesn't interfere with lifting. I prefer gel polish, but every couple of months I like to give my nails a break and use regular polish or Vinylux (7 day polish) so I can also change the color more frequently. I keep them a soft square as this is the shape that tends to hold well and prevent breakage. I give myself a manicure once per week for re…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 04:36 PM
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Well, I'm confused. I do see him as someone I'm sharing my life with and I don't see how looking up to him is weird when it's because he makes me want to be a better person? We are not equals. We do not have the same role in the relationship and it has been proven many times through out our relationship that this is what works for us to excel.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 11:33 PM
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I'm with a high dominance man and I'm not bullied. I do however view his law as the law I follow, but this isn't exactly "worshipping" him because he has a penis. I follow the rules because I respect and trust him to lead me down a positive path as the leader of our relationship. Quite honestly, he is well educated on how to get far in life and has done great things for my life not only for the betterment of our future together, but for my life on an individual level as well. I don't look at him…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 10:00 PM
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Honestly, I would tell her those things before she was 17 and definitely before 18. The way society is and the way things are now have made it so they already know these things without you even telling then at like 15, 16. I don't blame my mom for what I did when I was a very young and pretty teenager because ultimately I was going to do it, but she could have stopped me or warned me. She didn't. Who did? My SO when he found me. Don't be that mom. I'm not saying she was a bad mom because she was…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:38 PM
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Perhaps tell Graveyard-Shift or Nagger that if it bothers them, please tell them so yourself This
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:24 PM
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Yes. I am the same exact way. If I think about some of the ways I acted years ago I recognize that it was a complete disaster. Now I've learned to take the time to reflect on things and it has made my life much less stressful honestly. It's a great gift
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 05:15 PM
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our goal is to help advise the one posting on our forums of the wrongs that THEY made and the ways THEY can improve to not put themselves into these predicaments again. This is one of the biggest issues. Some who post here, not all of them obviously or it would be a war zone, are too lax on their self and refuse to look at the picture from OUTSIDE her own feelings to really look at it and say "well, I could have handled this better or did this differently. If I would have acted differently would…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 04:36 PM
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Frequent activity and a good diet will take care of a lot of these issues as you age, but I know my mother has Botox done time to time and she definitely looks amazing, not bad at all like a lot of poorly done Botox jobs are. You have to have someone who is very well trained just like with anything else if you want it done correctly. I'm in my 20s. I eat correctly, work out consistently, sunscreen and moisturize daily, don't smoke, hardly drink and when I do it's never in serious excess, don't s…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 03:38 PM
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You came to RPW. You got rp advice. Yeah, I'm awfully harsh and honest. You don't get that from many people. Go ahead and try, but I wouldn't get my hopes up if I were you and I wouldn't waste much time at all. He's had girlfriends which clearly shows he isn't afraid of talking or asking a girl he is interested in out.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 11:14 PM
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We need an auto-commenter for Dana so she doesn't have to re-type the same response over and over and over. But really, she is ignoring your advice and only accepting the "well maybe you can get him if you do this this and this" advice. If he hasn't already asked you out, girl bye. He's in college, trying to live his life, let him do his own things to provide him happiness. If you were on his radar then you would know. You don't become "his unicorn" for some guy that isn't even interested.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 07:38 PM
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if you find yourself with a highly dominant man you don't get to choose anything you don't get to encourage certain behaviour you don't mold him into the man you want and I really believe a lot of women couldn't actually handle it long term I highly doubt most could. Many women, even RP type women, would be afraid of a highly dominant man. They wouldn't understand what he is or why he is the way he is. I have endured quite a bit from my relationship that would send the average RP women running, …
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 07:15 PM
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About the gambling thing there is nothing you can do. My mother is the financial provider for her and my dad as my dad is finishing his last year of school, but my moms mom has a gambling issue along with many other issues that have caused her to lose out on her own money. My parents are very open about it with each other and they help her, but they will not supplement her gambling habit. The thing is that my mom goes over my grandma's bills monthly so she can actually see what she needs/doesn't…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 06:54 PM
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If you know this much about him and he hasn't noticed you in that way already then the chances are very unlikely for it to happen.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 10:21 PM
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You can easily use weights as endurance training. There are three different general types of weight training: strength, hypertrophy, and endurance. If you like cardio then do it, but if you don't like it then it really isn't needed. People ignore strength training from the fear of getting too bulky, which is a giant myth. People have no concept of what their bodies will look like and women also don't understand that the average amount of muscle they can put on (if their diet and programming are …
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 07:34 PM
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I feel differently. I don't believe my SO would cheat. He has too much pride in his character and what he stands for. He has too much invested into his own life and our relationship. I know people cheat and it happens, but I relentlessly trust him. I also know my own worth which probably makes it easier for me to think this way and have absolutely no doubt Don't stress yourself out! This means your wedding is getting closer and that's exciting for the both of you. He just wants to chill with his…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 06:43 PM
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Lol wtf
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 06:34 PM
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The difference between the men who don't cheat and the men who do is honor. The ones who cheat have none while the ones that don't actually value that quality in their character. If my SO wants to go to a strip club, fine. If my SO wanted to go out, fine. If we decided to get married and he wanted some type of party, fine. I trust him to care about what's best for me at any given time. That's not naive, that's real trust. Even if he ends up at a strip club so what? It's an entertainment venue. I…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 06:26 PM
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Yeah. This is why I'm 22 and have had one genuine female friend since I've basically been with my SO. I dropped all other friends because of this exact reason. I may be young, but I am not mentally young and I could not stand being associated with people who have the complete opposite values and goals. I care about my family and being financially successful in our unit, but they care about hooking up and wasting away their youth with that type of stuff and partying. I feel very lucky to be where…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 05:54 PM
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You have openly said you have never been in a relationship before so I'm assuming, correct me if I am wrong, you have hardly any dating experience. So, wouldn't online dating just to be able to experience being around men, determining what you ACTUALLY like/want in real scenarios, and just flat out using it as a learning process actually be beneficial? Everyone has to start somewhere and I'm sorry to tell you that I doubt you'll go on one date with one man after you get yor job and then that's y…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 05:21 AM
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This is a five month old relationship. She is going to do whatever she wants to do and you acknowledging that you're going to let this slide, that it's fine you're still there, is letting her know she can take advantage of you in the future. She should be trying to show her potential and prove herself, not the opposite which is exactly what happened.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 08:22 PM
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Oh, I know. I know slow and steady is the proper way, but I also know a negative attitude that never seems to have anything positive to say and is always making snide comments about herself is going too far. That's detrimental to becoming more secure with yourself and the process of losing weight. It's nothing to pout over. You should be happy you are trying to better yourself instead of playing the "poor me" card often. Do you get it lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 07:11 PM
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Lift heavy and the only type of cardio I do are variations of sprints (prowler, sled, hill, reg). I can control everything through diet manipulation. I also work on gymnastic skills on my non-lifting days. Tip: you should save cardio for after lifting. When you lift you typically use glycogen as fuel. By lifting first you can burn the majority of your glycogen stores. After a lifting session your body continues to burn additional calories. It occurs at a much higher rate after intense lifting th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 06:59 PM
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That's what she wants. Magic. I have spoken to her privately through messages and explained to her exactly what she needed to do physically to lose weight and increase muscle mass to increase her SMV from that stand point alone which is one of the biggest factors since your appearance is the first thing that will even attract a man to you. All her posts are the same poor me scenario over and over.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 05:08 PM
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I don't like to deal with irrational immature things like this Then why are you asking for advice? Next.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 03:28 PM
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It is never hopeless to take care of yourself from a health perspective. When you're healthy inside it also reflects physically. That's just emotions talking. I don't know. To me it seems as if he has decided that you're just a plate, but with extreme exceptions because of the children. He is going to continue to cheat on you if he is so turned off by both looking at you physically and the thought of you mentally. That's just the cheating part of all of this, though. To regain any emotional inve…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 05:01 AM
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I am really sorry this is going to be my reply as I know you specifically asked for people who don't see much hope to comment, but from this reply my entire perspective on your story has changed. You failed to mention this important piece to the puzzle in your above post, but I'm my sure if you said it in the other thread? If not, this information is a bit important to let everyone know. A cheating man is not a good man for a marriage/LTR. We don't condone cheating or make justifications that it…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 02:46 AM
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I highly doubt it is the equivalent to 25-50g of protein powder that is in a shake.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 11:22 PM
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No one even replies to her posts over there so I have a feeling many others feel the same towards her sub. She has less then 10 entries and two of her first entries were just Occam's LTR series (sorry if I spelled your name wrong!) which we reference here time to time AND it's over at TRP. I think TRP and RPW would work greatly for relationships just fine, but over at TRP there needs to be some type of break through. I have read many threads over there about LTR's and marriage that have not only…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 05:13 PM
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Besides, spitters are quitters. Haha, yes.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 05:03 PM
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Same here. My SO even told me at the start of our relationship that if I ever did anything that was a liability to his business/ability to make money then that was that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 04:01 PM
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I better call my SO and tell him that he should quit his job, money means nothing, and that it's okay he should go see a therapist for all the shit he has seen over the years. It's okay hugs
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:36 PM
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people need to realize this world is filled with a ton of different personalities so become stronger that way when you do get rejected (even if it's by being called a grandma and saying you're dressed in a pillowcase) you can see it for what it is then move on. Why get mad if you are truly content with your own image and this is practically still a stranger? Yeah, you don't. That's the thing. I'm young and I don't dress super super conservative. I like showing off to my SO and I intend to take f…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:27 PM
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How long were they together before you came into the picture? Has he always acted in these ways during the last 6 months? You say his ex tried to come between you two, but he should be shutting her down. You can't ignore the fact there was another women in his life before you. If you do, you'll just end up ruining the relationship for yourself. She has a significant part in his life now only because they do have a child together. Also, it has only been 6 months and it doesn't sound like either o…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 05:06 PM
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Get over it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 08:34 PM
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Oh, so you're going to hold an internet grudge because I have my own views? Get real. I also don't care if you down vote me or not. This is the internet. I'm not going to cry if I get down voted, ever. Did I say I would use a switch or anything on my own child? No, I didn't, but it has been a method that has been used for generations and my point is now suddenly it's such a damn taboo? Just as being in a traditional relationship is now such a taboo? I'm sorry, I just live in too much of a realis…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 07:55 PM
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Lol k. Did you even read my posts? Did you even read how there is not anger or a riled up adult involved in the correct process? This is the same mindset as the people who claim regular rifles that have kits on them to make them look different or just a plain rifle are assault rifles. Good thing I don't plan on having children since I wouldn't be a fit parent for disciplining my child if they put theirself/others in danger, showing absolute disrespect with full opposition. Yeah, a child who is i…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 06:30 PM
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Read what I wrote in the thread. Using a switch with the intention of harm is not okay, but I'm sorry there are instances where you don't hurt the actual child at hand when it comes to spanking whether it's your hand or a switch or a belt e t c. This women has clearly stated that her husband did not harm or leave any marks on their son whatsoever. There was no abuse. My family has used spanking for generations, there have been other users in that thread that have confirmed they were also spanked…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 05:07 PM
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Who the hell even has time to make multiple reddit accounts to spam a sub with? They don't realize how pathetic that even reads
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 03:54 PM
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Jesus. My IUD better behave. In all seriousness, congrats on the start of something beautiful :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 03:51 PM
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My approach is harsh. My SO's approach is harsh. Who do you think I learned it from lol? Yes, a lot of this is now very natural and I can really understand it, but he has had a lot of input in my life. I'm harsh for my reasons. I look at my peers and see how weak they are, men and women alike. Honestly, there's been a few threads over at TRP on how you establish a women's SMV, but I don't believe there is one method for every person as a SMV is subjective. Women don't make the rules about SMV, m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 03:47 PM
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Deadlifts and PC's you don't technically do a squat. It looks like it, but your pushing your hips back instead of pushing your hips down. A set up for snatch is much more like a squat versus a clean. I don't know much about your physical health, but I really recommend looking into stretching techniques and doing things to help strengthen your posterior chain. You know your injury better then anyone else and will know what feels right and doesn't feel right. Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 05:04 AM
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If you're that new to lifting focus on compound lifts, don't go everyday because there isn't a proper lifting program that calls for lifting everyday.. The closest to that you'll get are PHAT and variations of a split, but splits are generally better for intermediate/advanced lifters as it is more to bring up lagging muscles. 3-4 days a week, compound lifts (with pull up/chin up and dip work too) will be much more beneficial to a new lifter. Even after that you still want to incorporate compound…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:50 AM
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If any of you watch game of thrones... I feel like we need to send all of them flying. Maybe when they hit their head... Nah, too much hope.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:46 AM
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Mines just a made up motto. Eat to live, play like you're 5, and crush everything you do in life. I lift too so I can appreciate your humor lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:42 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA Edit: out usernames are similar. Whey cool ;)
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 04:38 AM
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I'm a huge people pleaser, but I am also very dominant. I require a high dominance man, but not because I don't respect him enough to make him happy or because I need constant checks for him to enforce his role as my captain. While I don't think that was how you intended for it to sort of sound it kind of did lol My SO is who truly made me who I am today. I was always a people pleaser, but not submissive. I have now learned to balance my dominant behaviors in my day to day life while being submi…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 01:22 AM
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Stretching, compound lifts, self massage with foam rollers/etc, yoga, and when my SO cracks my back that seems to be a benefit to the posture as well. Push your shoulders back when you walk, make an effort to sit up straight rather then lounge around, look into strengthening exercises for your posterior chain.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 08:23 PM
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After Memorial Day, I noticed so much skin on social media that I half-yelled a warning to him as I ran out the door one morning. It’s summertime, honey! Beware the beach pics and half nude girls on Instagram! And like that, he was in solitary confinement from all virtual community for the next two days. I'm sorry, they have beliefs yes, but does she need to act like a mother to him? and like that is what she used. Maybe I'm reading that negatively as someone being motherly to their own husband,…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 05:00 PM
1

Do you have any apps you'd like to tell me? I have a white board on the fridge, but as I've been working lately an app that I could use on my iPhone or laptop would be much more realistic.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 04:43 PM
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I'm not sure what was said since the comments have been deleted, but they failed to understand that I was using spanking as a serious form of discipline, not to take the lazy way out and have it as a common go-to method. Where I failed to understand that's what they assumed, along with many others. I wasn't raised in a family where that was just the norm, you got them when you effed up big time. I'm not apologizing for my stance and beliefs because everyone has their own ideas on life, but I do …
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 04:18 PM
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Yes lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 03:23 PM
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I said I spoke too soon on the subject because they were comparing spanking to be just as bad as hitting your child every time they did anything wrong, but that's not what anyone in my family was ever spanked for, they weren't spanked from lazy parenting but your reply has me confused? There aren't going to be any studies related to that, of course. It's only going to be about spanking a child every single time they do anything.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 02:41 PM
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I agree. If I had a child and they let's say spilled milk on the floor... Well, obviously I'm not going to go over there and spank them. I just don't think it's right to take it out completely or to judge people who do it because it is the only thing that will make a point in a state of danger, disrespect, etc. Although, if the child does something repeatedly over and over and it is not a positive that they're doing it and defying your power as a parent then a spank is probably warranted there a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 12:59 AM
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Weird. My mother is not a hippe nor is any of my older aged family members. I agree, it's not for everyone, but I'll do my research and see if I can find a proven study with ample evidence besides the basic "think of it like hitting." I'm not going to punch my child alright. I actually don't have children nor do we plan on having them, but we have outlined a discipline strategy if that ever arises. We have rules that have consequences. Spank in our house would be for dangerous activities and ful…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 12:33 AM
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What's the exact difference? 18th century? I just gave you a real life example from less then 30 years ago. I need facts. Maybe you can show me a study that shows it's really horrible to spank your children now versus 30 years ago for me to be a bit more open minded. Until then... I'll keep watching all the ridiculous children out in the world along with peers of my age group who are a complete disaster from a lack of discipline, whether it be spankings or not.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/14 12:03 AM
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Man, I'm irritated every time I read that forum. I laugh at their selective copy and pasting skills because that's all they have. Don't let them get to you. We stand behind you and are here to help resolve issues, unlike them just pointing and saying just leave every step of the way. The issue is people don't LIKE anything that takes work, anything that isn't the easy way. This is the exact opposite of both.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 11:55 PM
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Strange how using a switch or belt was not out of the ordinary less then 30 years ago. So ya I guess fuck my grandparents too considering my mom (41) and my uncle who is younger then her both experienced this as a form of discipline. They were not abused by the methods and they would never tell you they thought it was abusive either. Obviously if you take it too far then there is an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 11:45 PM
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Yep. Unless he specifically states otherwise then let him deal with it. The only reason I go to my extreme length is because this was a request from him. If I did it without that then I probably wouldn't be in this relationship
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 11:19 PM
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Does he blow up like this frequently while he is home? Or is this just kind of a once in a long while deal? Don't get me wrong, I understand your points, but you can either work on submitting to this man while he is home then being dominant in your own day to day or the relationship will eventually blow up/continue to be chaotic. I highly doubt most people would enjoy being woken up to by their women jumping on their bed. Unfortunately, my SO is the financial provider and not waking him up would…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 09:49 PM
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I saw that too. Funny how I even added in my long post that abuse is not okay specifically for them, but they still highlighted something I wrote that was directly before their highlighted part acting as if I suggested abuse is just fine and dandy~
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 09:35 PM
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That's good. Hopefully the advice here will help you long term.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 09:27 PM
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I couldn't imagine my dog going through that. Hugs to both of you :( if that was happening to me I know for a fact I would be more on edge so that definitely could be contributing as unfortunate as it is.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 08:58 PM
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Agreed. She will have to be the one to change her ways if she truly wants peace within an RP relationship. He may be high dominance, but other RP men who are not will still not accept her trying to take control either. In the end, it's all on her.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 08:21 PM
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And if you want to make this work, I suggest developing some ability to distance yourself from your emotions, and behave according to a disciplined set of standards. To be with a high dominance man you have to learn how to separate yourself from your emotions. He may have not handled it the most pleasant way, but he wasn't directing those words towards her as it was towards his own anger and the situation he was in. If he didn't feel controlled and as if he didn't have support then I highly doub…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 07:39 PM
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How is this relationship not RP? I understand you would never marry a high dominance man, but how does that relate? Are you saying it isn't RP because she doesn't fully trust her husband? Which I agree with or she wouldn't be constantly nagging and trying to have control, but that doesn't mean he is not RP Edit: I think I just answered my own question haha. He is RP, but the relationship as a whole is not since there are two people fighting for control.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 07:18 PM
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I couldn't agree any more. Practicing selflessness will get you far with this type of man and also you'll be more relaxed. It's not like I don't have my places to apply dominance in my daily life, it's just not towards my SO.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 03:41 PM
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Why do you disagree with how HE disciplines his own son? He is the man of the house and should be able to discipline in any fashion he likes, besides abuse obviously and it's sad I have to add that in so blue pill doesn't take what I say and run off with it. Did you not discuss discipline procedures with your husband? And you act as if it's okay for your child to keep coming out after you've already put them to sleep multiple times? Just because he does that with you and you have patience? Your …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 03:15 PM
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Wow. I didn't even get it until I re-read it 13 hours later hahaha. Crap.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 02:21 AM
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<3
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 09:18 PM
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Selective reading/hearing/everything. Go figure.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 07:54 PM
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I'm not responding anymore to him. I gave him my thoughts and that was that. It's just stranger that he pm'ed two of us on top of everything else, but I'm done judging this lol. They both can take the advice or ignore it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 07:23 PM
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Agreed. The other user actually messaged me and I told him to stick to what he said as well. I called him out about posting more then once, which led to his PM, because of his authority. They both received good advice, him in TRP and her in RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 07:16 PM
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Once again, it never offended me. That's just down right weird. You're trying to better yourself, listen to the men here. Why do you think us women will have a different answer for you when discussing RP LTR's when we all have the same thoughts? You want a female opinion? Leave.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:56 PM
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Over and over again, two times. That's two times too many. How much reassurance do you want/need? You look weak. You already had a plethora of men tell you to get out of the relationship so WHY did you want women's views when YOU ARE NOT A FEMALE? Please, re-think your logic. I highly, highly doubt men who post here about their relationship issues will then also run over to RPW and get their advice because guess what? The advice will be the same in theory, but different since we cater to a femal…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:45 PM
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You asked TRP and less then 5 minutes ago you tried to post over in RPW about the same exact thing. Don't play stupid here. You keep asking the same thing over and over, but if what you said to her is what you meant then there isn't exactly a reason to post again in RPW. If you meant what you said to her then end the relationship 100%. In her mind, she thinks being a plate for you has the potential to save the relationship most likely. The only way I found your username and this thread was becau…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:34 PM
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Now this is just weird considering your boyfriend posted in TRP and just tried to post here also.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 06:29 PM
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You do realize your girlfriend posted at RPW already, unless you are really her too? You already said to her Update: He called me informing me we can "either break up and never talk again, or we can continue to just have sex and nothing more (Friends with benifits). So why do you have questions? An RP man sticks to his words.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:27 PM
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I met and began my LTR when I was 18 and truly letting go of my past and understanding that I am now creating a family unit with him WAS hard to understand fully, unfortunately because of the way society handled things to which I was brought up around. That still doesn't excuse her actions just because 18 is hard, which I hope you understand. Every age is hard. All we can do is hope she takes the advice and doesn't stop learning to better herself. She tried to post 3 days ago here about fighting…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 06:12 PM
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No, it's never acceptable. In her mind when he offered that option it translated to "he's still willing to have sex with me so I can probably save the relationship if I choose this option" rather then taking what he said as it stands where that truly means you are a plate and nothing more.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 06:08 PM
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Update: He called me informing me we can "either break up and never talk again, or we can continue to just have sex and nothing more (Friends with benifits). I didn't make a decision. In her update she said she hasn't decided what she was going to do so that definitely does not indicate in any way, shape, or form that SHE wouldn't become his plate. Her mind, when she heard that from him, went to "if I can be his plate then there's still a chance!"
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 06:04 PM
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Okay, I lied, I just read the update part in your post. You obviously need to let him go and let him find a women that he deserves while you work on yourself. You're 18. You aren't truly RPW acting and thinking this way. Being single will give you time to enforce these ways of thinking into your actual life and will give you time to work on your skills mentally, emotionally, and physically. RPW don't do "FWB" aka be a plate. The fact you did not make the decision to end it because you don't put …
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 05:46 PM
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I didn't even read any more besides you texting some other dude you missed him. What the f do you think?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 05:38 PM
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You say he takes them as a reward for improving himself as a man? What does that mean? He likes them to completion only then? Not attacking you, but I'm just genuinely curious because your entire reply is so foreign to me lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 01:43 PM
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they are on the same team. Seems as if everyone who doesn't understand us also doesn't understand that either. They assume it isn't a team, yet it is a dictatorship. They have selective reading skills.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 06:00 AM
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That is exactly what I just said, but within different context. Know your place was what I left it at lol. Not sure if you were just backing up my thoughts or thought I was suggesting differently.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 06:25 PM
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This is why I asked if there were any other reasons he ended the relationship besides moving. I wondered the same thing. Her story doesn't add up to her surroundings in some scenarios I played out mentally lol
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 05:54 PM
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When I first joined Reddit I had no idea what that sub was, but I would always see it referenced. One day I decided to go to it and I immediately threw up in my brain. I just..can't.. Yuck.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 05:38 PM
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Marathon training doesn't equate to being very physically fit. You have good endurance at best, but overall fitness is about strength and endurance. Men don't exactly give a sh** what type of training you do, but they do care about the way your body looks. Marathon training isn't going to build lean muscle mass which is what creates a conditioned shape when you are lean(low bf%). If you look at examples you will see mostly marathon trainers as very, very slim with very little lean muscle mass, o…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/14 05:12 PM
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The one thing that never ever fails is my SO saying "show him/her your muscles." For some reason he is down right obsessed with showing them off to anyone we come into contact with that we know. We went to a baseball game last night and we ran into one of his old business partners who he stills sees, but I haven't seen him in months and the first thing he said was "show name inserted here your muscles." Then I flex my arm and get the same reaction as every other time and it see him just smiley g…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 10:39 PM
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I actually think calling her fat is a good example. Fat is ugly. Her behavior is ugly. Relate the behavior with something ugly that will make her think twice if you have already told her that she was acting childish but she didn't take that seriously. Some women have "selective hearing" so using hamster trigger words is another avenue to explore if it gets to that point. My opinion, of course.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 04:00 PM
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What changed after the baby? Were you open and willing to his kinks before the baby? It's a kink. It doesn't change his day to day life with how he handles business, if it does then there's a problem. There is a missing link I feel like. In order for him to step up more there needs to be respect, you need to step yourself up.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 04:46 PM
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Yeah, take away a mans porn that has nothing to do with the actual women. Ok.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 04:40 PM
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I said nothing about selling yourself short. Did you not read where I said "no one should have to settle on either side"? No, I'm assuming you didn't since you felt the need to reply giving me an example with an eBay listing. I don't care how old you are. There will always be someone who has more youth, more fertility, and be more willing to learn new ways for a captain. I'm 22 and even I believe that a 19 year old has a bit more to offer a man I would go for, if I were not in an LTR. That is my…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 04:27 PM
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It's so screwed up I just laughed out loud at your comment, but that is literally the thought process
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 01:33 AM
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This isn't even just for NY. I think this is advice for everywhere. #6 especially. Women seem to have a hard time coping with the reality that you do age and along with the aging process it isn't only physical, but internal as well. Of course there's ways to help the process in both ways, but women are creatures of now now now!!! So I doubt many of them care about what will happen to their bodies 10+ years from today.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 01:31 AM
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I really liked your reply. Welcome to RPW :). I agree with what you have said. It will very unfortunately suck the intimacy and emotion right out of the act. As another user commented it's going to basically be as if you should carry around a consent form and check off what you're willing/not willing to do then sign it to be safe. It's sad. I'm on a phone right now but I'm going to read the article you linked later!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/14 01:26 AM
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There's a protest in our major downtown area today against MRA. They have a petition that's 3,000+ for a hotel that is hosting an MRA event later this month to basically cancel it because they are "women haters." So, the MRA raised money for extra security at their event later this month and said that "feminists should have to pay for that" which really ticked the feminists off here lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 04:58 PM
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That is why I said move on and don't waste whatever time you have to find happiness. No one should have to "settle" on either side, but your age will come even more into play if you expect a, b, c, d, e, f, g, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 04:07 PM
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I don't know what you wanted to hear from us, but your entitlement to have a list of things you want from a man while you're 33 is a bit ridiculous. So, you've been a career woman and lost out on most of the high value men. This guy doesn't sound the greatest. He doesn't sound very high value because if he was he wouldn't have waited behind the internet for so long to meet you. Who knows,, maybe he has some problems, but after all this time you don't know much about that so stop wasting the time…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 03:27 PM
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Feelings suck sometimes, but dealing with the reality of situations is what makes you a better person overall. Don't know how old you are, but don't invest more into this and waste whatever pretty you have.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 09:10 PM
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It's always possible for a man to "captain up" to whomever he thinks is worthy despite how they were with any prior female. Also, by the way you worded you going on dates you say YOU asked him if he minded which doesn't exactly mean he was encouraging you to do so. I'm not exactly sure why you haven't discussed this in person, before you started going on other dates which only made you less serious, to clarify what it is that you may have had or if there was nothing more. My opinion is to move o…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 09:04 PM
1

In a way I agree with you, but it's sad they have to go this far to prevent false accusations of rape.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:03 PM
1

Yep. Gross.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 02:12 PM
1

Agreed. It actually if anything makes it more difficult to be protected IMO
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 02:08 PM
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Me neither. The consent has to be ongoing as well throughout the entire sexual act. How are you supposed to make sure of that? Record the act?
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 02:07 PM
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The shaving thing is a good skill to have despite having a man or not. It's a lost art and so much better then typical shaving. He wouldn't let me come near him at first, but he enjoys when I do it now. It's not every time, though, as he is very busy. Blowjobs whenever is possible. Car, morning, night, if I visit him at work in his office. Those are always nice. I go above and beyond with my cooking/baking. He eats desert every night, sometimes for breakfast, so I keep what he likes fresh and re…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:14 AM
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I agree 1000000%. As with the whole jay-z incident I can see why Beyoncé and him just stood there and he didn't hit her back because their life is under a microscope and any/everything will be taken then blown up because of their celebrity status. They would be painted in a horrible light for doing what's actually right. Of course to normal people who think this way if we saw jay-z slap her we wouldn't think anything of it because the sister hit first, but you know that's just an insult to ALL w…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 12:21 AM
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You're being paranoid, in my opinion. I personally enjoy watching other females flirt with my SO. It's more so entertainment to me which I would rather have versus anger or anxiety. It constantly reaffirms his value out in the world, not just to me because obviously to me he is high value. When this happens I usually just smile and silently laugh. I'll touch him more closely in front of women who do this and if never goes too far. If it did they would know, but they wouldn't hear it from me as m…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 03:09 AM
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Are you asking a question or making a statement about what needs to be done? Because everything you say is formed as a question?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 08:46 PM
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Yes, you are. All your responses revert to your modeling or whatever else you do. You need a reality check.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 06:57 PM
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So awesome. The coolest!!!
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 06:54 PM
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I don't care that they are different. That is 100% irrelevant. You know? How are you even getting auditions without having those two things properly built up? I don't see that being realistic or you even being offered actually good jobs that make any of your thoughts logical still. You have proved with your replies he isn't important.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 06:50 PM
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You don't have a portfolio that is suitable to show agents? How long have you even been modeling then? Stop using your auditions as an excuse. You seem to have missed everything I have said and only care about your "auditions." Your problem is you care too much about your "auditions" and not genuinely about him. edit: If you're always late to places don't expect much out of your "modeling" career. You can't even show up on time for your significant other so how do you expect to show up on time f…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 05:00 PM
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Or if I leave the apartment a mess or im late getting back or late going somewhere. I read this on your askTRP post. What you're doing wrong 1)Leaving the apartment a mess. CLEAN IT. Learn to be productive. Learn to stop being a floater. He works a lot, do you think he wants to be the financial provider and clean up after a messy girl? NO. He wants someone to support his role as the breadwinner. 2) You're late getting back from places. You need to work on this. You need to call/text him when you…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 04:57 PM
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I only dance with other guys when he'd rather like hang out with his friends in a booth or something. its just for fun, you know? You are aware this is horrible, right? You justify that behavior with him hanging out with his friends in "a booth or something." Let me tell you.. My SO and I used to go out a lot when we first met. He knew everyone, everywhere. There was many times we went out so he could actually collect money from people and I would be left to look after myself for an hour or so w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 04:43 PM
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I haven't been made fun of for it, but to been pointed out. The people I work with know me and know my voice is not a reflection of not being able to take me seriously so my reputation with that part of my life helps, but I have had people who when they first meet me question me because "you sound so girly, you look so girly." To me, that's a compliment! There is such a lack of "girly" today.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 03:48 PM
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Right. That's the problem, though. Complaining is so much better then fixing because that part takes actual work.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 03:44 PM
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She has videos for men? LOL! That has to be for entertainment purposes.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 03:43 PM
1

I avoid it too. So when I run across it I'm always mind blown. I really like to live in my reality. As someone else pointed out she had other videos in which she says something about saying yes often means no when consenting for sex. Really? There are no gray areas. I'm not sure why they try so hard to find a loop hole for the simplest things, it has got to be exhausting.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 04:55 PM
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I'm always behind on videos because I rarely branch out and watch cringeworthy feminist thoughts lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 04:23 PM
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I had no idea she had more videos. I thought this one was bad enough. I thought the same thing when I read he had a rude, but empowered, 2-year-old daughter. That's not something to be proud of.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 04:21 PM
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Good job and I'm happy you found something like this! I also hope everything else is going well for you too.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 03:45 PM
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I never said you shouldn't work your abs? I said this programming is terrible advice. I said it is directly linked to lower body fat, which is fact. Having a strong core is one of the most fundamental assets to an overall strong and healthy body. Having abs show is low body fat, working them makes them stronger/larger. If you're not in a low enough BF% then your abs will not show. You should still do core work even if you're body fat isn't low enough for them to show. I never said that. You can …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 04:11 PM
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This isn't promoting a good thing. This is promoting a bad thing. I would never recommend this to ANYONE, EVER. Having abs is purely the result of having low enough body fat. Everyone has abs. When you work out your abs you only make them larger so they are more defined when you have a low body fat. This will not magically give you abs and is terrible terrible advice. My advice? Lift heavy, eat enough to support muscle growth or a recomp, work on mobility. Women can't gain serious muscle in a sh…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 03:40 PM
1

For the last probably five or six years mine has been the same, if I stray from it I can tell and it makes me cringe. Morning: Wash face with Skin Authority Daily Cleanser, use Skin Authority Oil and Acne Control afterwards on my entire face, moisturize with (this changes sometimes, but this is my #1) acne probiotic moisturizer by Eminence. Night: Remove make-up with Coconut oil, same steps as above afterwards. About once a week I will do a mask then every 2-3 weeks depending on how my skin look…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/14 02:13 AM
1

I realize that more everyday. It's sad.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 06:36 PM
1

Walk a mile? Ha. Let me laugh at you for a minute because my life at my age is very strict and there's a lot of shit that happens. He was emotionally abusive? If so, you would have known or saw signs before you married him, like you said you saw signs early on. Telling people not to look for potential in a mate is bullshit because that's exactly what my SO saw in me in the beginning PURELY potential nothing else, saying you can't change someone is bullshit because why would you want to change th…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 06:32 PM
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Lol! I stopped wearing my retainer when I first started sleeping over heavily at my SO's in the beginning because I was a bit embarrassed, but then I put them in one day and they were tight on me so I changed my tune pretty quickly. I would definitely try oil pulling before whitening!! I use coconut oil and while maybe it's not the funnest part of my day, my teeth and general mouth health has definitely improved.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 05:46 PM
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My SO owns businesses and there have been really rough times because of it... There have been times where I've had to work because my skills are able to bring in a nice cushion of extra cash. Sure, it wasn't IDEAL, but you don't run from problems once you have decided to commit to a man. Your last biggest lesson is such a slap in the face. No wonder my SO feels the way about marriage that he does. Women like you. Why would you even get into a serious relationship with someone you wanted to chang…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 05:43 PM
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I got pretty lucky in my childhood with my mom working in the beauty industry as a licensed massage therapist, esthetician, and nail tech. I've always used top of the line products for skin, hair, and nails. Because of her I also was the only student who was selected for my High School's Cosmetology co-op so by April my Senior year I was licensed as a cosmetologist. From all of this and working in salons I really don't need someone else to color my hair, someone else to wax me, give me facials, …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 05:36 PM
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HAHAHA. We saw this a while ago. I have no words for it besides she needs to be treated like a 5 year old because that is the age of her psychological maturity.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 06:32 PM
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The only time I am alone doing an unrelated business activity is if I am with my parents/family. Otherwise, we do everything together as that is the way he prefers it. His friends know that if he is going somewhere then I'll be there too. It's just the way he is. Of course there's activities that he may not want to do with me or I may not want to do with him, but those are the times we say "I'll be here for x amount of time then we will do something together." If I want to go get a facial or a m…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 05:48 PM
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So they complain about men, but then want to draw more attention to their bodies so they can only complain more? Sounds about right.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 11:10 PM
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No, I mentioned in my thread the feminists were using it as a "poor me," about how TRP was mentioned, and I mentioned the Obama administration first. Maybe it came off that way, but I put other examples in there. In my world, yeah the administration would do something like this, but not everyone believes we are as doomed as my household does so I'm not going to fuel arguments over the topic when this is not a political forum. The entire point of this is to focus on how easily manipulated the pop…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 05:04 PM
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Yep. The first thing I watched QUICKLY mentioned how he killed some males, but when it got to him killing the females it was some extended part of the report. It's sickening.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 04:41 PM
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Yes, but the administration, despite the president, will always use situations like this to gain an upper hand and to have more control in certain situations. Just as the feminists use situations to try and turn things to play on their side well. Just as the media uses situations to control the masses with information that isn't 100%.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 04:40 PM
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You said "the world fucked me over" but it didn't. You are the only one who has control over your own life while you are an adult. Why did you force a man to marry you when you clearly had issues and it is clear he wasn't planning on asking you for marriage? What do you do all day long at your in laws? Sit around and think about how bad your life is? You can not possibly be fully recovered from all of this and your relationship is not happy or healthy. I think the best thing for you to do is sit…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 11:53 PM
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I knew there was missing pieces.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 11:32 PM
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I don't disagree with any of this and I'm not giving him too much credit as I said he is not the end all of these problems. He is just a puppet in the entire equation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 11:19 PM
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Before I even read this I want to say I read the title and my face cringed. Now that I've read it I still am in the same position. I would feel like that was a slap in the face as well because he chose you to be his wife, not his mother. Did you two live alone before living with the in-laws? Was he still a mommy's boy if you two were living alone? I can't imagine getting the needed privacy while living with a significant others family and I would imagine it would get old after a while, as in you…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 10:16 PM
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I see the side of your thoughts and of course it appeals to HIS base, but with his opposite base and after what he has done during his administration it is an opportunity for him to push for gun control further in my mind. He says he will do a, but then he does the complete opposite of a every time. He caused the gun market to sky rocket and you could barely even buy ammo for a while and still they've enforced strange limits like "3 boxes per person" at some of my local stores. We were selling b…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 10:06 PM
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Yes. I agree that article was worth the read. It was an opportunity for stricter gun control, for more mental health care, for feminists. It's quite sad how the mass population can not see through the lines. Edit: All of those quotes should be read then re-read by people who don't understand the background motions that take place. It doesn't "just happen" as it is very well stated in that article with valid points backing each piece.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 09:03 PM
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Lol I meant ice as in crushed ice to put in drinks, but ice cream yes ice cream.. You can never go wrong with that! Maybe even if you're feeling a little frisky make homemade ice cream for him and his buddies.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 06:24 PM
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Why would the quac turn brown or bad in a few hours? I make quac and it lasts for days. It turns brown from a lack of acid so use lime juice to prevent it from turning brown and put it in the fridge.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 06:21 PM
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Plenty of ice so they don't have to drink warm drinks as I'm assuming they won't want to keep putting things in the fridge/freezer and pulling them out, nice cigars, plenty of non-breakable cups for his get together, if the other men plan on staying over so they don't drink and drive make sure to have extra pillows and blankets so even if they sleep on the floor they're not too uncomfortable. As for food, shredded buffalo chicken dip, steak bites, sliders, chips and homemade dips, finger foods t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 06:17 PM
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These brands are solid. Otherwise, NARS, Make-up forever, and Urban Decay are other great and LONG lasting (product wise and wear wise). The urban decay naked's are spectacular for eyeshadows that compliment each other very well.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/14 05:08 PM
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Hahahah!
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/14 04:58 PM
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My SO and I have spoken about what if this happens to him. The only thing in life that is guaranteed is death. I am sorry for your loss because I can imagine how much your heart hurts, but you need to be strong for yourself and for him. I doubt he would want you sulking around unable to do things because of his death, I doubt he would want you to be scared, and I do think he would want you to celebrate the life he did get to live out and enjoy rather then mope around and think only about the lif…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/14 02:09 PM
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He thinks marijuana use makes people dumb? Look at the drugs he has taken. Those make people dumb, those kill people, those ruin people's lives. Please link me to a reliable source where it gives me HARD EVIDENCE that marijuana brings individual IQ level down, link me to an article where marijuana killed someone. Yeah, he is just weak. He puts marijuana, which is actually very beneficial in usage in so many ways, because the drugs he took made him dumb. Let me know any responsible marijuana grow…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 06:46 PM
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I think she is very unattractive. Her wall has hit. She just thinks she's hot shit
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 05:25 PM
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Bcp as in birth control pill? Lol wut
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 03:51 PM
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Unfortunately, I've been around endless drugs. Not that I've done them, but they are just everywhere. Coke is probably one of the most disgusting forms of drugs. You have NO idea what you're getting, what they're cutting it with, who manufactured it, etc. I don't know where you live, but with the Mexican Cartel invading America like no other there is even more concern with it, really. People who frequently use hard drugs are abusing them so for you to say he didn't abuse it isn't truthful. Espec…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/14 02:12 AM
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This is so full of nonsense. Your future man will not enjoy you wanting to keep some other man as a "friend" in your life, especially when you have had feelings for him in the past. I don't even understand how you're so hung up on him when you know he is not interested in you if he's spinning plates and speaks about another female. Feelings may be feelings, but you also need to learn how to logically decipher if your feelings are valid/realistic or if they are just that feelings. Are you a natur…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 10:29 PM
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The works shower cleaner is like magic! And it's cheaper then all the other ones too. I read about it a few years ago online when searching Pinterest about this problem. That with a combination if magic erasers is awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 07:48 PM
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Strange. Both houses we lived in were not built after 1993. The house and land are a piece of money to them so them not caring is kind of stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 04:17 PM
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Is it uncommon for people to have a water softener or something? We have hard water here naturally and we did at our last house too, but they both had softeners and always having softener pellet salt in there made the water soft. Maybe ask them to invest in a softener system for their house considering that is only an asset financially to them versus them potentially ruining many things by the hard water stains.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 01:42 PM
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Yes. The ones specifically for the bathroom are. The normal magic erasers I'm not sure about as I haven't tried those. You'll need more then one, but they work
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 03:49 AM
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I get you see your husbands brother in a bad spot, but it's really not your place nor your business. Especially if he has not said anything to you directly and has only been telling his brother things then your husband relays it to you. It doesn't matter if you're in the same boat as her or not, it is "J's" job to put her in her place. It is not yours. It is not your husbands. For a man to give up a job that pays significantly more then a petty 11$ an hour, especially after taxes, that's weak be…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 10:54 PM
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Wax, wax, wax everything.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 04:10 PM
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What do you mean "work it out sometimes?" There is nothing to work out there. You simply leave each other alone to complete your individualized tasks. You working late has nothing to do with leaving him alone when he needs to work. It's not some crazy concept. I read you're in an open relationship so have you ever though why his alone time is so important? Space is important, you're right, but I just think there's some red flags there for you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 01:08 AM
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Lol wtf. That makes more sense now
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 07:05 PM
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Map your run is NOT your body. Just like MFP's suggestions on how many calories you burn is not correct. Just like treadmills and cardio equipment at the gym is not correct in telling you how much you burned.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 04:04 PM
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Ok, Aaron gave you that and it is just bad advice (sorry, Aaron!!). For a person who can't even tell me WHY you're adding 300 with excercise and then subtracting 300 when you don't excercise you shouldn't be using a calculator that ASKS YOU how much fat you're looking to lose each week, it should not even ask about how many carbs you're consuming. That is crap. Even people on KETO use TDEE's and adjust accordingly. Sure, use the calculator if you have some knowledge in weight loss while preservi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 03:45 PM
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To me your story is weird. Sure, he is a musician, but what...he can't go in another room without you bothering him? You can't shut up and leave him alone in the same house so he CAN get his creativity flowing? Yeah, I just don't know. My SO is very busy and definitely works better alone, but there are other rooms in our house and there's also this thing called the car that I can go take and leave the house if it ever came to him needing that much space. You mentioned you live in NY so there's a…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 03:35 PM
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Calculating your TDEE has been made very simple by online calculators. The most popular one is probably www.iifym.com You can also do it manually which is the best way in my opinion because then you're education yourself on how to find your TDEE without relying on another source besides yourself. This is also based on a mathematical equation that is not always 100% correct for each individual so it will be in the general area, or it could be right. To figure that out you would eat at what is you…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 03:23 PM
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You can not ask people if they eat the same caloric intake as you do considering 1) they may be older or younger then you 2) they are probably not your height or weight 3) they do not do the same day to day activities as you do 4) it is so individualized. I highly doubt you need 1000 calories a day to lose weight. Even females who are 4'7 do not start on an 1000 calorie deficit, sorry. Also, you're using lean cuisines as a reference, but those are extremely high in sodium which can cause more wa…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 03:22 PM
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Hey there! My thoughts on BMI are that it is really strictly reference only. I actually view it the same way I view a scale. Here is why.. BMI has very little, almost nothing, to do with body fat percentage of the individual. BMI is mass in kilos divided by height (meters) squared. It is based on sedentary people who are untrained (underdeveloped muscles). People can have a low BMI with a high body fat (think skinny fat). Majority of strength athletes are in the overweight (25-30) and obese (30+…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 02:39 AM
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I'm not the one who said one thing, but meant another. I am very able to articulate sentences and have a productive conversation. What you did was take what I said and changed it offering what you translated it into. Not exactly what I said at all. It's not cultish. How is stating that we want relationships with no bullshit cultish? How is stating that we disagree with what feminism has done and is doing? Are people who disagree with us a cult too? Considering I've been with my SO longer then TR…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 12:42 AM
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Maybe that's your definition of closed minded, but I am pretty sure you're just average which is why you lack common sense. How does no bullshit translate to closed minded? Hmm? How does pro bullshit relate to open minded? I'm pretty sure a lot of us here are very open minded with an array of things that we are assertive towards, respected for, and so on. You're right, we are closed minded in the fact that feminism is dirt up, down, and every way you look at it. We're closed minded that being la…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 12:18 AM
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See, I'm not going to read anything you replied with out of the fact you can not read what I said how I said it. Did I say, I'm sorry, TYPE out "Just because we're extremely right?" No, I didn't. Although, in OUR world views we are extremely right. Just as you think you're right in have an equal relationship. If this does not apply to you, if you disagree with it, move on have a nice day. Don't mock, or try to change what people say. I'm not a person who says things, but then what I say means di…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 12:05 AM
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Whoa. Who says we are not assertive individuals that aren't treated with respect or dignity? I'm not sure how you got that out of reading here, but then again I'm not sure how anyone who trolls here doesn't grasp it either.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 11:33 PM
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How is RP closed minded? Just because it's a no bullshit policy?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 11:26 PM
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I don't think they were mocking me at all. They genuinely were oblivious to food and nutrition in general. It would be mocking if I was just doing some fad diet and didn't have the skill set/knowledge I have in my opinion. This is definitely more typical behavior of overweight/unhappy females because I don't see overweight men playing cry wolf as much.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 10:42 PM
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Yeah. Just be honest and it saves every a lot of trouble. Edit: my SO has a buddy who does that. He comes over here and tells his lady he's working because all she does is bitch, bitch, cry, then bitch some more. They aren't married, but she lives with him and he also provides for her two children and his one child. I honestly feel for him every time he is here and his phone rings over and over. You can see it on his face.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 10:29 PM
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A lot of people get confused by BMR and TDEE. I'm going to explain what each one is in this comment so maybe others with a similar question or others who have no idea what these terms mean can know. BMR (Basal Metabolic Rate): The amount of calories you need to consume to maintain your body if you were comatose. TDEE is the combination of BMR, TEE, EAT, NEAT, and TEF so it is essentially the number of calories burned throughout the day while taking into consideration activity level. TDEE is the …
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 10:13 PM
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I want to watch that!! Haha. I actually did watch that in real life when I was working in a salon. The women there thought I was some food snob, but they were eating hamburgers with cheese slathered all over it along with more cheese sticks or like you said a salad with a ton of cheese and ranch dressing, but don't forget my liter diet coke! They would relate me to "eating like a bird" and I was just like ok lol have fun not understanding basic eating skills while you continue to complain about …
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 08:30 PM
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So, if you'll barely see him ever again then why not start now? Makes no sense
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 07:20 PM
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You're welcome! :) I figured this may help some people who may be unclear or confused on the first most important step to controlling weight loss.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 07:15 PM
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Cheating is just weakness to me. Why wouldn't you or couldn't you tell the significant other that you cheat on that you have issues or even have feelings wanting to cheat?
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 05:41 PM
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Yeah, but that still does not mean that the man should not be actively searching for back history/information on this individual before committing for any length of time. That was my point. Liars like that always have slip ups and then when confronted they lash out to try and protect their mountain of lies that they worked so hard to maintain. A man should always know more then the female tells him with the way things are today.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 04:47 PM
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I didn't ask you what you do. People who just pick a random caloric deficit are prone to hit plateaus harder and have a harder time losing body fat over a healthy period of time. This isn't broscience. Your height, weight, age, and gender play a role in calculating a proper deficit, maintenance, and surplus. If you just guess you set yourself up to lose muscle mass and/or more strength then you should on a proper cut and considering muscle is what creates our shape as we lean out that is NOT the…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 03:33 PM
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Hi! I am sure since you have an AI you already know, but there are a ton of awesome AI references online for the Paleo/Primal diet! I hope you feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 03:05 PM
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How is he even that high of value at 19? Doubtful, no offense. Maybe our versions of "very high value" are different in ways, but in theory I doubt it. This entire thread is you trying to justify your relationship with him when you already know the answer. Stop giving yourself away to a man who isn't even interested in you. When a man that is comes along and sees you paying for another guys stuff, how do you think that's going to work out? You're just setting yourself up for failure.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 03:01 PM
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I use MFP as a reference tool only. I write everything down with pen and paper correctly. I don't care what anyone says, MFP is not completely accurate. I've seen entries in there that are so off if you just use it that way, and generally people do. I'll add in my own entries each time, but a pen and paper is the safest way. I don't mind that my clients or others use it because it does have some motivational features and offers a community so if it helps them reach their goal that's all that mat…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 02:40 PM
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MFP is not accurate with how many calories burned through excercises so you will never 100% know, you also do not add back those calories incase you do. Also, not everyone should aim for 2k calories a day. That is the recommended caloric intake stated by the government, but it also says in fine print below that it varies per individual. You should never eat below your BMR and for maintenance you should be eating your TDEE.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/14 01:12 AM
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It's definitely a noticeable difference for me, but everyone is different. It took me a lot of trial and error to figure out the best macro's for what I do and what I want. Yep. I'm a PT, but my focus with clients is powerlifting then bodybuilding along with some weightlifting depending on goals. I have a few certifications, but it took me a bit to collect them all since they are pretty pricey and I wasn't going to settle for anything less then what my SO and I both decided was the best. Edit: I…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 08:24 PM
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For diet: I do iifym with IF (intermittent fasting). On training days it's high carb, lower fat, and a moderate protein intake then non training is lower carb, higher fat, and high protein. When I was paleo I developed a bad habit of how I saw foods and it really was not healthy. I still think paleo ideologies are great, but I'm not going to live a life without whatever I want. For training: I weight train, body weight movements, gymnastics, mobility, etc. anything that will aid in my lifting I …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 05:45 PM
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I read this the other day. TRP posts the best redditlogs of women AND men being retarded. We are living in idiocracy. Literally.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 12:09 AM
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The entire point of RP is to embrace our roles, women embrace their feminine side and men embrace their masculine side. Why would an RP man try to hack away at the feminine features by trying to change her to behave as a male friend and vice versa? Or am I reading your question wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 12:01 AM
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This is a great response. Especially the last part about your percentages being off between fat, carbs, and proteins. This can make all the difference in the world. Which is why I highly suggest counting macro's and adjusting them to your individual body. You can definitely still eat treats, but you need to have full self control over food before you dabble in fitting things like pizza/ice cream back in. With counting macros, this is easily done. It has also helped thousands and thousands of peo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 06:01 PM
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This. This x 10000. It's sort of clear she had to have made a fit over going on vacations with her family without you or just in general for you to even have to say "you can't go on vacations without me." If she thinks you're controlling, you don't think she's going to say that to her own mother when she's in a destination which could be hours from you? You don't think her mom is going to use that to fuel a fire and encourage her daughter to behave poorly while away because "you're controlling" …
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 05:07 PM
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You should not be using MFP to tell you that information. It is not accurate. Also, you do not add in calories that you burn from workouts.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 02:02 AM
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I agree. I don't think you're going to be self destructive just because you're around her, just as I was not. Just don't let her trick you. If she can easily trick a man, she can easily fool a friend who genuinely loves and cares.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 01:53 AM
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Eh. I just genuinely can't believe that a person who can't even be honest to people they are spending intimate time with, investing feelings with mutually, and lying to every single man about it doesn't have other issues. She is a liar. Just because she doesn't tell them doesn't mean it isn't a lie. Just because SHE ends the relationship doesn't EVER make it okay. Your justifications are really sad. My friend was a great friend. Her family and my family are close, our moms work together, and I d…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 01:41 AM
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Are you under 5 foot? Because even females who are 4'8 don't start at 1200 or 1300 for a caloric deficit. You also just answered your own problem: "it adds up to like" to like what? You don't know exactly what it is in grams or calories.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 01:29 AM
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That's bull crap that the OP says you won't get an honest answer. I had a friend who was the exact same. Finally, one of her boyfriends asked me and I couldn't lie to him. He was putting money, effort, and his time into her. Our friendship ended, but I'm not the one making justifications for my best friend being a pathological liar.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 01:09 AM
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How is this kept under wraps? My SO knows things before I even think of telling him. He knows things about my childhood that I never told him, but he's spoken to me about it. That must involve countless hours of lying and more lying to keep the lies going. With every man, not one has found out? I do myself have to ask, why is she your best friend? How do you know she isn't lying to you about a wide array of things?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 11:12 PM
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That's disgusting behavior. You're in RPW. I'm not going to make someone here feel like crap. I have clients of my own that I genuinely care for and would defend if anything like that happened to them around me. People who are serious about fitness do not tear others down, they help them up. They try to help them anyway they can and influence positivity, not negativity. You have to remember that these people are typing from their keyboards, they probably have no idea how to help you or they woul…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 11:08 PM
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I wasn't being condescending. Your lack of security, with me taking personal time to give you well thought out replies that are helpful with accurate information, shows that I am not being rude to you. I said good luck because I genuinely meant it. I'm not going to waste my time tip-toeing because you refuse to listen to advice that could potentially really help you out. You don't like lifting weights, but you don't like your body as is now. Lifting is the best and most efficient way to get to w…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 11:02 PM
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Did this current boyfriend know of her cheating past? Well, considering she must have cheated with him? That's his bad for even dating her in the first place. Sure, use her, but don't date her.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 10:52 PM
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What you just said makes no sense. Skinny fat is also the HARDEST thing to fix. You can easily eat at maintenance calories while lifting to slowly recomp your body. When you get skinny fat the only way to build muscle is to eat in a surplus so you WILL gain fat as well during that time. It's inevitable. You then eat in a deficit to lose the fat. You can not eat in a deficit and build muscle. You eat in a deficit, while lifting, to reduce body fat and preserve any muscle you already have. You hav…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 10:47 PM
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My eyes burn.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 10:43 PM
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This video might help a bit. Don't worry about the guys on that forum, take what they say and disregard it. Many of them have little insight on how to properly help a female or another male. The top female posters over there are usually really great with answering questions and keeping those people at bay, but you may want to try to only post in the general female bodybuilding forum, not the misc, fat loss, or general chat area's as you will not get the type of answers you need or want.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 09:27 PM
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High fat, protein, then low carb is also relatable to Paleo which more people are aware of then Taubes. I use the barcode function too along with weighing, but I was mainly saying restaurants are sketchy so be careful and carbs are not as evil as people are lead to believe. We are in a country full of people who are truly uneducated when it comes to WHY you're eating a carb, a protein, or a source of fat. Many people don't weigh so using only MFP's barcode scanner and such can lead to those hidd…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 09:04 PM
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Carbs are not the devil. A female on a prolonged low carb diet can have libido issues as well. It's simply because we were never taught HOW to eat. All we know is "Oh, that looks so good! Who cares!" What you're referring to is along the lines of Paleo, which is a great weight loss plan or a plan for people who actually have allergy issues with food or just don't know where to start. Many restaurants do not accurately count their carbs, fats, proteins, or calories either. MFP is a great tool, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 08:47 PM
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You gain 1-2lbs when you start lifting? Have you considered you gain water weight... It comes off within weeks, depending on the individual. BEGINNERS can lose fat while gaining muscle, but after that you can either eat maintenance, or eat in a surplus (gain muscle), or eat in a deficit (lose body fat). Muscle is what supports your fat and if you don't like the way you look it is because you lack muscle to support YOUR body fat. If you don't lift, you aren't engaging your muscles or helping them…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 08:30 PM
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May I ask what the trouble with posting on bb.com is? I haven't had issues ever and the only time I see them being sort of snippy is when a user totally blows off their advice then still asks the same question and because there has been a giant influx of "how do I get a big booty" on there too. Are you weighing everything in raw form versus cooked? And in grams? A cheat meal is not going to cause a dramatic stoppage of weight loss, the most you get is added water weight. The links I provided are…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 08:14 PM
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Next. It is not her IUD so do not make excuses for her/try to justify her reasonings. I have and absolutely love my Mirena IUD. If anything, it has increased my sexual desires for my SO. While that may not be the case for everyone and it could possibly be just placebo in that effect because the amount of hormones it even releases is very small.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 07:29 PM
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I didn't say you said that. I put extra info in there for people to not become confused as if carbs were not important lol. My main point of my comment is that you do not need to only eat "lean" proteins. Just as you don't need to only eat "clean" foods to reach a goal. Obviously, make good decisions most of the time, but there is no reason to cut out bacon, sausage, pizza, or the most important: ice cream.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 04:21 AM
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Vinylux goes on and comes off as regular nail polish would so it is an entire different product then Gel polishes. There are no lights, nada. Just make sure to seal the edges of your nails with each coat to secure the polish. It is also the same price as OPI, etc, at the beauty supply store for me and they should sell it for the same price they sell OPI brands in a salon. I haven't seen it anywhere outside of a salon or licensed beauty store unfortunately, but the polish is really great. They al…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 04:15 AM
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You do no way in heck need to only eat lean proteins to get the results you want. I eat pizza, ribeyes, ice cream and can still manage a cut by following the BASIC rules of weighing and tracking. Yes, you need more protein to build, but you need carbs to build. Training days for me are way higher in carbs then protein and my off days are higher in protein and lower in carbs.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 04:09 AM
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You don't need a trainer. If you're not losing then it is as simple as you not tracking 100% properly. There is no what if's, and's, or but's about it (unless a medical condition is involved which is realistically a small fraction of people). How did you calculate your maintenance and then how did you calculate your 1600 caloric deficit? What are your stats? Without that, I can't even assume what your TDEE would be nor could anyone else who may read this who may be educated in this field. I have…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 03:31 AM
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I can't argue with that. Thanks for your answer :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 12:24 AM
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You are the one who wrote OMFG OMG etc nonsense at TBP... So, I was mocking your inability to articulate a thought provoking notion. All you did was run there because you saw something you don't understand to create an emphasis that this is all a fetish game when it's actually real life.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 07:14 PM
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Oh. No problem. I think that one just really triggered me because it's just such bull and they act as if it is so insane without ever doing their own research before they run to TBP to gather information that doesn't even make sense. Now I know not to post things from there though, but it makes sense lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 07:12 PM
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So much issue that you ran to TBP instead of asking one of us, who genuinely understand the concept, to collect uninformed and MAINLY feminist views on the subject. So much issue that you didn't bother to open up your browser yourself and do some research on this concept to see how not weird and how common it actually is. Yeah, you make a lot of sense.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 07:09 PM
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Ooooooh, that hurt so bad. I'm crying and going to run off OMG OMG LOL
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 06:55 PM
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I'm sure your husband is miserable with an ugly shrew anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 06:52 PM
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Get out of here. Do you even know how stupid you look and sound by posting to TBP and saying "GUYS GUYS OMFG THERE IS AN RPW AND I JUST FOUND OUT!!! THEY TALK ABOUT THEIR GUYS TUCKING THEM IN AT NIGHT LOL OMFG OMFG" What, are you 12? LOL OMG OMG OMG OMG fuck off. This sub gets a lot of crap already, but when you go after one of our own I'm not going to be nice.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 06:51 PM
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You are aware even our air is infected? You're worried about nail polish, which is actually not very harmful whatsoever when applied and used appropriately. They also make relaxers, hair color, without chemicals in it, they even have organic nail polishes. They offer things that don't have those chemicals in them. Your excuse for not using these items makes absolutely no sense, on any scale, which is what I am implying with my relations.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 04:56 PM
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Lmao. And do you know what kind of chemicals they put in your food? How about the fluoride they put into your water that you drink? Do you eat fish? Did you know radiation IS on the rise and you're ingesting it, if you do? Out of all of the things in this world your gripe is nail polish.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 04:37 PM
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What?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 04:26 PM
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There is a polish that I recommend for my clients who have the problem of not being able to change colors as frequently as they would like with gel, but they still want at least 7 days worth of wear without chips. It is called CND Vinylux. IMO, the top and base coat is the real deal with this line because I have used this base and top with regular polishes and it has worked just as well, but some of my clients if I use the entire system (base, polish, top from Vinylux) they have gotten a bit lon…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 04:23 PM
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Shellac and Gel Polish are the same in theory, but manufactured by separate companies. Yes, you soak off the OPI Gel Polish as you would Shellac. If this application is done correctly the damage to the nail bed will be minimal. I wear Gel Polishes 6-8 months at a time before I give my nails a break, but even then they don't need much because of the care I do take.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 04:18 PM
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May I ask why you think that? Just stating what you think without explanation doesn't exactly help. Edit: I'm a "college age" female and I have frequented the many university's here in my state. I am very observant of my surroundings and so is my SO. Maybe it's here, but when I've been in those environments with my SO's brother's girlfriend by ourselves, we have been approached or noticed. Same goes for when my SO and I go to dinner in one of their downtown's that has an adult side with actual n…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 03:35 PM
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Gel polish will help with that habit. I had success with a lot of my clients who chomped on their hands by getting them to switch and listen to me lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 04:18 AM
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Ask then if they even lift and if they say no then you'll know why. They ain't ever experienced dat pump~ On a realistic note everyone's individual preferences are different. A while back in the RPW IRC chat we had this discussion. An RP man asked a group of us which look we preferred the most out of about 6-8 different pictures of men with different body types. A lot of our answers were different and there was one that I for a fact remember said she preferred skinny guys and also gave her reaso…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 01:28 AM
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Shellac/Gel Polish is literally just a gel overlay. I prefer OPI's Gel Polish line above all else, but I will never put that crap on my toes. My SO just likes my nails to be done and that isn't hard considering I've worked as a nail tech before. I'm not into designs and all that stuff. Just polish. Edit: I agree about people looking at you differently when you're well kept. I look at every single females hands that I come into contact with lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 11:25 PM
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Um, are you lost? The only man that has the ability or right to treat a woman as a child is THEIR man, not other men. Of course if another man treated me as a child then my SO would be furious. I'm not his. Also, you're misunderstanding. Higher value and more attractive woman need this more then a lower value or not so attractive woman in general. It really depends on the female and how the man has to handle her and the relationship. I'm treated like a "child" quite often. I think this goes over…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 05:20 PM
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Strong? So you can easily carry 60+ pounds around for a min? Or mentally strong as in you can keep your emotions in check despite day to day struggles? Smart? Guys don't care about you being smart initially. Capable? What do you even mean by this? Cooking, cleaning, maintaining high personal standards? And you're in shape.. Well, do not ever stop including healthy activities as it only adds to your life and your future significant others. What gets me is that if you're pretty and you haven't had…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 05:18 AM
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I didn't say anything about being ashamed with connecting with others via the internet. I said to check your emotions before using the internet. There are a million other people who could potentially respond and not being prepared to read bad or good is not attractive. The ladies here who know me a bit know that the IRC chat and this forum have given me a lot more confidence in being as young as I am with this frame of relationship, which is very strict. A debate is great and all, but I think yo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 05:04 AM
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You seem to have a lot of doubts when we are taking into consideration your relationship is only 2-3 months old. That is something that you need to think about.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 03:30 AM
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You're not trying to be a RPW. You're trying to justify your feelings. Guess what? I am someone who has NO social media outlets EXCEPT Reddit and Pinterest. He is absolutely right it lowers your value, especially when you are just okay with letting 200 strangers see your oh so "personal diary." You had it way before you met him? Is that supposed to make it okay? Does he have any form of social media outlets? I am going to guess no. You seriously need to join his team and stop acting as if you're…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/14 02:21 AM
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People get offensive when you go through their history, but sometimes it can really be useful in figuring out that persons thinking process.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 09:06 PM
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Well, I just read through her history and she has admitted to being bored of him. Are you writing this letter to convince yourself this man is what you want? I mean with the way you worded it and it was really more so about you with the combination of you admitting you're bored along with your relationship is mostly physical that wouldn't surprise me. Although, it's been what 2-3 months? It should be very physical, but if you're seriously feeling boredom then it don't think you have much hope.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 08:52 PM
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Fat people who complain about things like this, when they have NO medical condition, are simply ignorant. Being around overweight men and women and working with them to change their life's I have seen too many success stories and progress that even they didn't think was possible because they are just too uneducated about fat loss and building muscle for THEIR individual goals. We have become so numb to the foods around us and take it for what it's worth. People have become so lazy that weighing …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 08:31 PM
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My SO is weird when it comes to things I personally make for him. He will save EVERY last thing. I forgot about 3 years ago I cut out a heart and wrote some cutesy stuff in it then put it in his wallet. He still has it in there and pulls it out time to time, but the writing was in pencil so you can actually hardly see any wording anymore from the wear. While some men may be not like that, it can mean a significant amount to others. Of course if my thoughts did not show in my actions the signific…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 08:17 PM
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You clearly misread everything I've said. What you just said was my interpretation of "internet feelings" basically. If a random person said the same thing to you in person you wouldn't act like a total asshole, but most people will in an online environment. You also misread the real life thing as in we do not hang out in real life. The internet is not real life. It is a tool that we use to supplement or in many cases hurt our real life.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 05:43 PM
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Uh, yes. I would. The type of relationship my SO and I strive for will only survive if the both of us maintain our highest versions of male and female "game" for each other in a relationship. I fully expect the same respect from my SO. To us, that is a part of respecting each other. Letting each other know if something is bothering us so we can maintain the level of happiness we get out of each other physically, mentally or emotionally. Am I going to be mean or harsh about it? No. I can handle t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 05:39 PM
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OP, teeth are a big deal naturally to many people. Mouth hygiene is very important for good health in humans, dogs, etc. What is not good is you nagging. Ask him for a day that he has ample free time to go to the dentist, if he even wants too, and schedule the appt for him so he doesn't have to deal with anything else besides showing up. Maybe invest in better home tooth care products, which is something you can buy and just set out for use. We do not use any fluoride in our household so the den…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 03:59 PM
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Please. This is the internet and I am quite sure that people who post on RPW aren't involved in REAL life. The internet is not real life. We speak our opinions and if the reader can't keep their emotions in check while reading THE INTERNET, it's embarrassing anyway you want to word your little "there are no robots."
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 03:09 PM
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I miss you guys :(! I'll be in there when my duties calm down!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/14 03:39 PM
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He isn't directly in your circle of friends if he lives 800 miles away. That is just another excuse to use. If I remember correctly you have extroverted personality traits? Which explains a lot with why you literally feel the need to see him and tell him this, but I highly doubt it would go the way you have visioned in your head. Also, you inviting him to things that supposedly if he was directly in your group of friends other friends could do only SHOWS that your SO is not #1. If your SO isn't …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/14 03:38 PM
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I come off pretty harsh in a lot of my comments, I guess. I don't care because I'm not exactly being rude, just honest and eliminating girly tendencies. I'm not responsible for anyone's feelings except MY family unit, but it seems as if you can really hurt people's internet feelings when you are blunt lol. I also agree with Temp... 6 months is like you barely know this person. Most of us are over 20 years old so realistically 6 months out of your entire life is nothing if you look at it that way…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/14 03:09 PM
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If you SO was genuinely more important you wouldn't even be asking this question.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/14 03:05 PM
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So, your SO isn't comfortable with you even seeing this other guy 1 on 1, but you plan on seeing him? Just stop talking to him and disappear.. That isn't hard ESPECIALLY with him living 800 miles away.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/14 03:04 PM
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This comment made me crack up. Are these people even real? Yuck.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/14 02:52 AM
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They're just jealous. Boo, you whore.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/14 02:49 AM
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Nah. I was agreeing with you and disagreeing with Aaron's thoughts, but I have a lot of actual insight into that environment which makes it much more realistic rather then just saying "women who are really fit are red flags generally" and leaving it at that lol
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 04:08 PM
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My SO would rather me be in awesome shape then knit him anything. I still carry my other feminine skills and do what is needed to do to maintain my side of the unit. Just because you're in really, really good shape doesn't automatically raise red flags. Fitness brings out a ton of positive traits in people that they had no idea about prior. You learn so much about yourself and you grow. There are knitters who aren't loyal just as there are fit girls who aren't loyal, but what's strange to me is …
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 03:45 PM
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Squat, deadlift, OHP.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 03:29 PM
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What stuck out to me was the fact she isn't a citizen yet and all the awkwardness you could actually see.. So imagine what's going on behind the scenes with them if they're showing THAT to the public. Is she using him for citizenship here? Either way, that sucks. I could not imagine living my life like such an asshole.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 03:01 PM
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Haha have a laugh: 28 Things You Only See At Planet Fitness The tootsie rolls are captured in one of them. That place is insane. It is the type of gym to open, but morally I could never open one lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 11:20 PM
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If I'm not going to make eye contact with you and I knowingly avoid it then it's because I think you might speak to me and I don't want to give any hint that I am approachable. It has nothing to do with my confidence. It also depends greatly on if they are introverted or extroverted along with if they have high confidence or low confidence. I don't see someone with low confidence or being an introvert naturally being able to walk up to a man of interest and striking up a conversation where as so…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 05:13 PM
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Yes.. He also did this when he was working too and I found out from his workers. He isn't the smartest when it comes to preparing food :P I don't know your condition, but I hope things get better!!
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 04:42 PM
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Yep. My SO making cereal is the same way. He once left pop tarts in the oven for like a half hour and the smoke alarm was going off. I wasn't home at the time of that event lol. I just am like a shadow and after he's done I swoop in and pick up/put away everything. I get nervous when he's in my kitchen.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 04:36 PM
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I do this too. I have a whiteboard on my fridge and it has made my life easier. He doesn't use it, but if I need some type of job done that I can't do myself I'll write it in the color blue on the whiteboard instead of black so he knows it is specifically for him. Your story while it's not funny did make me chuckle because I thought I was the only one who went insane from seeing cabinets left open!! I have no idea why but that is my biggest per peeve lol. Luckily, I have ample time so I don't ma…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 04:23 PM
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Yeah. This is old news. My local PF asked me to put a shirt on when I had a tank top on and I was there with my friend who can't afford a real gym trying to help her figure out ways to get the best bang for her buck considering they don't have a real weight room or squat racks. PF does not market to fit people. They do not make their money on them. This is why big box gyms have a huge amount of cardio equipment because that IS the draw and they take advantage of how uneducated people are. To hav…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 04:07 PM
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Are you only using machines for your workouts? I know you squat, but are you using a barbell? Advanced lifters tend to over develop the glutes which in turn make the hips wider so for these people (who already have a solid amount of leg mass) they are recommended to stop squats for 2-3 months if they want their hips to look smaller. There are also different variations of squats that can target different muscles to help aid in the illusion. You could also work on your shoulders: your shoulders ma…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 03:54 PM
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Oh, so you actually didn't stop a helicopter. Okay got it lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 02:58 PM
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I'm a very straight forward person and most people take me as coming off harshly. Where did I say your SO should dump you? I said I feel sorry for him, and I do, I know EXACTLY WHAT ITS LIKE FOR A MAN TO DEAL WITH MENTAL ISSUES IN A RELATIONSHIP. I was a complete freak when I met my SO, but doesn't mean I still didn't feel like shit. I didn't use my issues as an excuse, which I'm not really saying you are but sort of because you're seriously worrying about what other men think per YOUR wording. …
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/14 01:45 AM
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You sound like you truly have body dsymorphia. Of course people are going to see you from the front, but they also see you from every other angle. Jen Setler does not have a big ass in real life, it has been confirmed by many many people. She also does not do real lifting because she is extremely unproportional for claiming to do so. She is extremely good at knowing how to pose. You can also create illusions with your body by building in certain areas to create what you want so you should do som…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/14 09:07 PM
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Considering helicopters are literally in the sky and can hardly see an ass, how did you stop a helicopter? Not being mean, just genuinely curious?
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/14 02:58 PM
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I used to be like this before I started getting really into lifting. I 100% had body dysmorphia issues. Guess what else? In HS I developed having panic attacks over weird things out of no where and lifting also cured this (I mention this because you specifically asked us to be nice to consider your anxiety). You need to work on being truly content within yourself to achieve a sense of comfort. If your SO likes your body that's really it. He is actually the true judge, not you, as harsh as that m…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/14 02:28 AM
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I was excited to see answers and read old ones as it seems there are basically no other/very few entj's on this sub. This really interests me lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 05:46 PM
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Just took it again because I never saved my results, but I already knew I was an ENTJ. Entj Extrovert 67% Intuitive 25% Thinking 50% Judging 78%
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 05:13 PM
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I do not feel comfortable giving out details of my mans sex life without his permission so all I can say is to experiment, listen to him tell you verbally or listen to his breathing/body languages. If what you're doing is working, you will know. We don't have boundaries in our sex life and never have, we will try anything we want as we are extremely comfortable in knowing we both like the same type of sex.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/14 04:16 PM
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Eh. I'm a snob, but I hate manic panic. It's not going to hold well with daily use from a cleansing shampoo. You can also train your hair to not be so oily which is something you may want to look into if you want unnatural colors. For bright colors, if you can even get/find it being unlicensed, I only use Pravana VIVIDS and they also have a pastel line which is very nice. These colors don't come out easily at all.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/14 11:09 PM
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Express sends me coupons like this about 2-3x a month lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/14 04:11 PM
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As Dana already said, which I am going to give you the benefit of doubt and assume you also already know, he will still jack off. It's positive that you finally let go and learned to logically think about this situation then spoke to him respectfully about it, but if you think he's going to end jacking off when he wants too it think it's a bit of hopeful thinking. It's HIS body, not yours. Do not harass him about it when it does in fact happen, do not get weird, it's completely normal. Think abo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 03:50 PM
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I just spit water out of my mouth, but I wish people would understand this
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 09:31 PM
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Software? No.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 03:56 PM
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I mentioned sex toys because it can definitely be a way to play with each other more then just the usual stuff. It doesn't necessarily mean that's BP suggesting it from that stand point. I didn't exactly say "use sex toys so you get turned on for him" because I meant as a unit, together, you experience it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 01:51 AM
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Quickies can be extremely fun and a start to a very good day/night. We love them because you can do quickies in risky places like an office, car, etc. We also use them at home from time to time too. I'm not sure by what you mean when you say he doesn't know the meaning of quickies because IMO they are valuable and definitely have their place in a sex life. The only time I don't feel in the mood is if I've experienced anger around the time. When that happens it doesn't exactly take much for me to…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 04:56 PM
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Depending on the weather I like to wear leggings, skirts, or dresses out. I prefer longer skirts/dresses, maxi style. I have one pair of jeans that I use for cold weather activities because I really can't stand jeans and they don't even fit me well anyway. If I'm around the house I'll wear a tank, sports bra, yoga pants, or workout shorts that are spandex/compression material so I can show off more of my assets at home. My lifting attire is pretty standard for a girl I would say.. Typically comp…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/14 03:12 PM
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This exactly. They are selling the "lifestyle" mantra to you because they have figured out what makes customers tick: tits n ass.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 03:13 PM
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My point was that you can't stay ab lean all year round and build a ridiculous amount of muscle because muscle growth is .5lb a month spread throughout your entire body with proper food and training, surfing is not exactly 100% resistance training. Typical bikini girls, yeah, this would be the same. There is a huge surplus of girls wanting to do bikini lately. If you look at top bikini competitors, which could include drug use, they are pretty jacked because they've been training for years and t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 03:11 PM
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I think it's very subjective per individual. Do you make a living off of surfing? Do the men you know make a serious living off of surfing? If the answer if no then it is not a lifestyle, it is a hobby.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 09:34 PM
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100% agree with the way you put it there. It goes for anyone in that sense and it can really be anything that they do well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 08:28 PM
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Oh. For some reason I read it in my head toned differently! I thought you were saying it's possible for women to pack on the muscle they worry about when they actively try to build. Sorry :( I kind of suck at internet interpretation, but it also can just give the OP a gauge on the amount of muscle that can also be obtained with really spot on training/nutrition for the total body per month to make her realize she won't get too bulky like we both stated.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 07:59 PM
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That's exactly what I meant lol I didn't mean to make it seem as just that stuff made the zen like confidence. My SO doesn't surf or lift because he has other interests, but he def has zen like confidence. We always say he has Jedi powers.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 07:52 PM
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In the first year or training women can gain 1# of muscle per month, after the beginner gains start atopping it's .5 a month. Even with women who actively try, like I do, it's still a struggle. It does NOT happen over night and never will. Women have a very warped idea of what weights do and how eating for a specific goal even works. People who drink protein during workouts have a reason for it. There is some bro science behind it and it works for some people. It isn't necessarily for their food…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 07:29 PM
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I'm kind of confused by your post. I have some things to say, though. I have been lifting consistently for years and for a women sure I'm probably buff, but I am not huge by any means. Women do not get bulky unless you are taking drugs or eating in a massive surplus forever because guess what? We do not have nearly enough testosterone. I highly doubt your arms are that bulky from not weight training them. You are not the first female to grow so quickly because it just doesn't happen unless you h…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 07:23 PM
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That's not exactly why you see people in the gym with protein shakes and while protein is a main factor, carbs are actually more important for growing in a lot of senses. Protein powder is generally not even 160 cals a scoop.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 07:13 PM
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I agree. She is either one of many plates, he has abused porn rather then using it for entertainment purposes and in turn can't enjoy what she's doing so he just watches more, or he's just keeping you around because he simply can. If he had low T I don't believe he would laugh at you for crying over this, but instead try to fulfill it in different ways to help BOTH sides if he wanted to be your man for good.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 05:28 PM
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Even at 31 twice a week is not exactly normal, which is why I asked what you thought DESPITE age. When you are having sex twice a week and both of you, as a unit, do not feel confirmation from it emotionally or physically it sort of is a dead bedroom because there aren't positive emotions/feelings surfacing from it that help grow a genuine bond. You sitting here saying it's not a dead bedroom when a man is laughing at her for wanting MORE from him sexually is not the best answer considering it's…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 05:18 PM
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For a man in his early 20s you don't think two times a week is infrequent? Even despite the age, you really don't? Can I ask you why those are your thoughts?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 05:00 PM
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At six months I wouldn't even consider that a real/serious relationship. You are not stuck, it's six months of your life and the only way you'd even maybe be stuck is if you screwed around with your finances and let him ruin them, but legally? No. It's just you trying to justify your feelings. You were given the same advice last time to leave so did you really think it would change coming back again? You are not going to get anything here to justify your feelings so just stop trying to and you w…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 03:03 PM
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I am confused. You want him to be obsessed about it too? He isn't a girl lol. A common trend I see is people deeply seeming to care about what others outside opinions seem to be when in reality those opinions are nothing and have no asset to you actually accomplishing this goal you seem to want so badly. Personally if I were a man and my GF wouldn't shut up and just rambled about moving in together constantly I would start being annoyed, but I'm not a man and I'm not your man so I can't act like…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 01:30 PM
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I must have misunderstood then so I am sorry for how I worded that, but either way it's also good to take a step back and think about what you DO offer someone else when you're thinking of what another person potentially has to offer you. Those skills do have masculine traits, but it is all on how you handle and present yourself with the use of those skills. I don't see how a man could logically ever look down on a women for working out(unless they start to involve drugs and get all crazy with i…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 11:42 PM
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Homeschooling doesn't really lead to social issues. That is the parents responsibility to teach the children PROPER social standards versus letting them run free in a school with hundreds of other hardly watched over children. Like Dana said, don't be weird. Personally, home schooling is the best choice because at least you can dictate the learning experience where as public and private schools sort of teach children whatever they want.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 04:34 PM
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You obviously haven't found the man who will show you that you're wrong. What do YOU have to offer to a man like that, though? As far as it seems you don't have much. Men aren't going to think it's super attractive to be independent because it just shows you don't care about adding someone else into your life because once again you're independent, remember? I've been weightlifting for a bit over 5 yrs now, can do way more work on a range of vehicles besides "changing tires," and I also deeply en…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 03:30 PM
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The green card thing is still very abundant. My SO is not an American citizen and no one in his family except his 13 y/o half sister is. His dad has been married multiple times and he actually just married a Vietnamese women for this very reason. His mother met an American man in Australia, she is Filipino and was born in her country, but then she married the American man to move her family here and it's never even been an actual family.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 04:44 PM
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Running three completely separate businesses that are all successful and bring in high profits, realistic about every aspect of life so much that it's changed everything I ever once knew, so mechanically inclined it's sick, the smartest person I've ever known, the way he can manipulate anything and anyone to work towards a profit is downright genius. He has absolutely no fear and no emotion towards anything that doesn't involve our personal life and his ability to utilize that as an asset to me …
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 04:39 PM
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Lol if you're posting about it and saying in your post that you won't like it then I'm not sure what you want to hear? It seems the responses you've been handed are spot on with what I assumed you'd get and you're still having trouble deciding? It's pretty damn easy. If it's going to cause you to have internal anger and resentment then no, if the thought of it already makes you uneasy then think about when it actually happens. I highly doubt from this post and your comments that you could actual…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 04:20 PM
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As far as regular nail polish on your nails.. I don't have an issue with it chipping on me (depending on brand) for at least 4-5 days and it was typically the same for my clients. You need to make sure the nail bed is oil free, lightly buff, apply base coat (I only use CND), two coats of the posh (I only use Essie or OPI), and then a top coat (CND). Let dry for a good 10-15 minutes then apply cuticle oil (CND) and let soak into the nails. It will take a solid hour for the paint to fully set. Mak…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 04:39 PM
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I didn't know what I wanted until I met my SO. Now I have a severe issue of holding in laughter when I'm in public just people watching and etc or if someone tries to talk to me because my SO is so realistic while everyone else seems to be just striving for the norm/brainwashed. Very natural alpha/stronger traits versus naturally weak/beta. As an extrovert I need someone that does NOT break and has no issue controlling the environment even while away. Successful personally, but also financially.…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 04:18 PM
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I wish we had an RPW local reddit group lol I can only imagine all the tasty treats we would all make each other eat. Sorry this did not answer anything you asked :P
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 04:06 PM
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We looove smoked Gouda. That sounds delicious.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 04:04 PM
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This. How old are you? HS aged means very little to me as if you're a senior then you will be graduated in like a month and RP men seem to love 18/19 y/o's, but if not then you still have great timing to work on yourself as much as you can since, I'm assuming, your parents support you. Focus on upping your SMV, learning how to present yourself (makeup, clothing, posture, are your nails and toes painted? Everything), getting educated with things that will actually be an asset to not only your lif…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 04:02 PM
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As far as braces go, maybe look into dental/orthodontic schools in your area who offer these services for a discount because the actual students are doing the work versus an orthodontist who is done with schooling. It's a win win on both sides since they get experience and you get a discount, but be assured there WILL be people on site with them to make sure everything goes the way it should lol
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 03:38 PM
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Easiest part of this week was my calorie deficit intake along with meal prepping. Weighing everything and putting them in gallon ziplock baggies for each day so I KNOW exactly how much I can eat day to day because if it isn't in the baggy I can't eat it. Cardio sucks, but I don't think I'll ever learn how to really love that part of fitness. It's challenging mentally for me so I appreciate that, but yuck. The weather seems to have finally actually broken in MI. Hopefully it will be true and I ca…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/14 03:32 PM
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I'm really not sure what I'm saying that is making it seem as if I have BP tendencies. Is it because I reflect back upon my individual situations and saw that change is possible because I went through it personally? Which is why I know it is not impossible, that is really all I was saying. It's not a tad BP to say that a man who does, yes I'm sorry, have more alpha traits then beta traits will have an easier time molding this type of person. Every man is different and it's kind of weird you woul…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 06:02 PM
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How do I sound BP at all? I WAS what everyone would consider BP. Now after years I'm the total opposite. I wasn't implying that you were actually male, but it is the man's responsibility to mold a RPW if he chooses to seek high attractiveness out of his partner because 99% of the time they wot be RPW. Why would they be? If we're talking about legit hookers, drug addicts, and the like then obviously no. I don't see how society would help with making a women anything similar to RP? Friends, assumi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 05:18 PM
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I'm not going to trust you on that because I have first hand experience of being untameable then being knocked on my ass and put in my place. It all depends on how strong YOU, the man, are.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 04:55 PM
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I agree with Dana. If you want a beautiful RPW, you're going to have to make her one. Where I met my SO is the last place on earth I would ever tell anyone to go because you will only find pretty girls, but no RPW's.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 03:07 PM
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Second Aldo heels/everything. Great quality for the price.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/14 02:52 PM
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That's how I read your post by just thinking of the women who have no self control and just eat, eat, eat.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 05:59 PM
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Ah. That was my issue. My SO views me as that too. I simply had to let him know that because of the lack of people in my life that I can relate too I just need slightly more encouraging words from him time to time. My SO does not have time for me, period. He would be better off without my in the business sense and even I know this. The time we get together is very sporadic. That doesn't mean he doesn't adore and love me because everything he is doing is so he can retire early and be with me the …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 05:44 PM
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Funny you mention this as my SO and I just went out to dinner with a family he grew up around and his friend is dating a very fat and ugly women. She actually asked my SO how to cheer her boyfriend up and he told her to give him blowjobs and etc but it's so bad apparently that he can't even accept those from her because the way she looks. He has also told my SO multiple times that as soon as he has enough money he's leaving her. He is like a 1 to me physically anyway so what you're saying about …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 05:36 PM
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My SO also trades so I know how that goes, but he also owns his own high end vehicle business as well as another side business that I actually take care of during the day now because it became too much. Are you two living together and how long have you been together? He wouldn't work so hard unless he wasn't trying to build a better life for the both of you. In terms on motivation, what do you need help being motivated about? The ladies here have helps me a lot, specifically the IRC chat more so…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 03:52 PM
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He definitely didn't know about RP anything until a few months ago when I ended up joining Reddit after him because he found RPW, not TRP. He wouldn't read TRP. He has very strong alpha traits and struggles with his Beta traits, but as an extrovert I appreciate that because it keeps me in my place. So, to the standards yes he is pretty strict RP.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/14 03:09 PM
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I grew up within a family that wasn't necessarily "feminist" views, but definitely wasn't RP. I feel like they just made it work for their situations and took advantage of the best options for what life threw at them. They never taught me to be a whore or to not embrace being feminine. If anything they demanded me to be feminine lol I didn't exactly choose this for myself. My SO chose it for me. He met me when I was going through a bad phase and the more he was around me he saw the potential per…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/14 12:15 AM
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Recipe for your Cadbury creme egg cheesecake? My SO would die.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 06:18 PM
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That's great that you got others into lifting and are supportive of your grandmother, I know how important it is as well, but comparing a female to a male in any sense, especially strength, is obnoxious. I believe she squats and curls that much, don't get me wrong because if she has been doing it consistently then those numbers aren't even high for someone who has been taught proper form and is pretty consistent. Either way, an untrained average male could start a beginner program and bypass her…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 10:11 PM
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I don't view it as an issue whatsoever. As others have said it is the most optimal strategy for men and has the potential to lead him to the women he views as worthy of an LTR. A man can have sex with a lot of females, but when he actually does find the one who is worthy it will make him want to settle down and ditch the rest of his plates. You have to think of how rare RPW women truly are so the odds of them finding one within the first few plates is unlikely so why shouldn't they be able to sp…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 03:50 PM
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It's a rash that you get when your skin is rubbed raw basically with any mixture of sweat, small amounts or large.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/14 03:27 PM
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Lol or did you mean for the Rice Krispie treats?
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:17 PM
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Sure! I just kind of made it up and it's actually very easy. He liked these a lot last summer so we ate them a lot. I make a corn and black bean salsa, or even buy an organic version, season ground chicken w/ sea salt, pepper, salt free fiesta lime seasoning, add coconut oil to a pan then cook ground chicken through, add corn and black bean salsa to chicken and simmer (longer the better), and that complete the chicken. Then I'll chop up the toppings which vary depending what we feel like, but st…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 04:15 PM
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Sit ups help when done properly. I would say majority of people, myself included because I hate them and they give me monkey butt, don't do them correctly for every rep. I wouldn't even worry about the scale if it causes negativity. Changing your lifestyle to make room for fitness is already mentally/emotionally challenging and it doesn't get any easier. Worry about how you look in the mirror and how you feel in your clothes. If you're brand new to lifting you will gain muscle and lose fat depen…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 03:10 PM
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I didn't end up planting flowers since the weather changed and it will unfortunately be snowing tonight. This should be the last frost so I'm hoping this week I'll get to do that. Today is the first day of adding cardio back into my programming, besides warm up. I am not looking forward to it at all. I'm going to eat at maintenance then start moving into a deficit, but I'm also adding creatine so that should be fun with the puffiness the first week. My SO has started to take his stack and he is …
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 03:00 PM
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You can make your facial features look older by properly applying makeup for that purpose. YouTube would be a good place to start with that if you're unsure on different makeup techniques.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/14 02:42 PM
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You have gotten good advice here so I suggest you take it and use it. You guys have barely had sex during your relationship so there is obviously a deeper reason for that. I read you have had many talks with him, but does he ever give you the exact reasons and tell you what you can do to fix the problem? If he does and you do what YOU think is going to fix it instead of what he told you to do then there's an issue there. If he can never give you an exact reason does he potentially have health is…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/14 03:08 PM
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I kind of think you are missing the point. I'm 21 and people assume I am older generally because of what my life is, but they aren't saying they assume I'm older because I look old. It's more of a compliment because you, unlike people in this age range, have a solid foundation and aren't floating around. All you can do is enjoy your life process and take care of yourself the best you can during each phase. Proper skin care routines, sunblock, working out, eating healthy, etc. Focus on the presen…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 08:11 PM
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Oh. My needs usually are mechanical issues that I would probably hurt myself if I tried to do somehow lol. If I have small issues like opening something I'm pretty sure I just say "hey, can you help me, please?" I've never really thought of it because I'm being genuinely nice to him and asking for him to help me when it comes to small stuff like opening a jar.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 10:13 PM
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We set up a system where I just will write on a post it note or the whiteboard in my kitchen the things I need him to do because I can't or for him to show me how to do something. I use it more for me so I don't forget to ask lol. He will just come home and see it on his own so that eliminates actually asking and coming off in a negative way towards him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 09:46 PM
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He lied to you repeatedly so he is obviously a good liar.. How are you sure he isn't lying about other things? You aren't. I would be upset too. That's fine you have zero interest in other men, but this guy doesn't sound like a man at all really- more like a boy who does not know how to sit HIS women down and tell you he's going to have sex with other women. If my SO wanted to fuck someone else he would, but he would make sure to tell me before it happened and that's a fact. He doesn't want too …
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 08:58 PM
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I'm not disagreeing what an actual leader would do, but you can't throw away facts that add to the situation at hand or make justifications for them. I also agree he is probably hiding more then that, especially if he was so careless with pictures of the situations.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 08:33 PM
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She offered him a one sided open relationship. She already planted the seed. She plays a role in this too despite the fact he did the act.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 08:25 PM
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Why wouldn't they? Give a girl a ring and she shuts up, but she still gives you whatever you want while you are still doing whatever you want. No consequences for him. He's not actually married.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 08:17 PM
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He CLEARLY VERY CLEARLY does not take pride in YOU if he cheated. If you were a good women like you say, run.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 07:51 PM
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My thoughts on this are simple. Social media accounts are a liability anyway you want to look at it. We both do not partake in any, except Reddit if you can even truly call it social media. Being a "ghost" and being unable to be searched online or have very limited information on them is a blessing that more people should really think about.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/14 07:34 PM
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