| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 819 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling. | MINDSET SHIFT | lunadelsol00 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:20 PM |
| 192 | Sexist rapper being destroyed by a woman. (translation in the comment) | QUEEN SH*T | lunadelsol00 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 05:32 PM |
| 0 | In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting. | lunadelsol00 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:50 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Oh my god. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 06:40 AM |
| 19 | You did the right thing! ✨👑Jesus christ. I JUST put up a new profile picture on WhatsApp, where I'm alone, replacing the one in which we are together. I thought maybe I was overreacting. I open up reddit and this is THE VERY FIRST THING I SEE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 25 | Do you, ladies!Is it easy to read? When I read cheesy and romantic stuff I just want to have it trickle gently and easily into my brain. But I'm worried this book might be written in an "old" way, that makes it harder to read, given that english is not my native language. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:03 AM |
| 27 | Males pretending to be women so they can get an FDS Newbie flair trying not to mansplain so they don’t get caughtYep. This was on point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 10:06 PM |
| 38 | Other Women’s Subs Are Starting to Slowly Figure Out What We’ve Been Saying All Along About Males In Women’s Spaces. It’s Starting to look a little FDS-y out here.Please, just look at my latest comment. I am having the same discussion with a guy. It's utterly exhausting. (tell me if this counts as brigading or something like that. I will immediatly delete this comment) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:49 PM |
| 15 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.Wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:54 PM |
| 37 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.I am in my thirties and look more than a decade younger than I am. Men often dismiss my opinion because of this, so your comment irked me immensely. You can critique what she is saying. It's fine and welcomed, and I would gladly discuss this with you, but not when you base the discussion on "She is too young to know shit." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:50 PM |
| 42 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.So you are invalidating what she is saying solely based on her appearance... Hmmm.... Where have I seen this before... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:40 PM |
| 250 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.Also can we please talk about how ruthless the new generation of young women is?? This is seriously uplifting to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:27 PM |
| 43 | Sexist rapper being destroyed by a woman. (translation in the comment)The male rapper is from Mexico, a country with a high woman rape and murder rate. There is another comment in this post that gives further details | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:52 AM |
| 17 | Sexist rapper being destroyed by a woman. (translation in the comment)Yeah no shit. I watched the whole rap battle between those two and I am impressed. Never in my entire life will I be this witty. And the woman is saying so many things that resonates with me it hurts. I need to find out more about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 08:50 PM |
| 86 | Sexist rapper being destroyed by a woman. (translation in the comment)I've looked it up. Her name is Sara Socas and she is from Spain. I'm impressed. I've never seen a rap battle. They just make this all up on the spot? Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 190 | Sexist rapper being destroyed by a woman. (translation in the comment)I'm so sorry I have to give you a video without a translation but this one impressed me so immensely. The anger in her voice gave me goosebumps and tears in my eyes.. He says: stop kidding me the most beautiful women are from where I was born Her: So the most beautiful women are from your county then why the HELL are you letting them die? Why do you only value them for their beauty? You don't care what's in their head. YOU DON'T CARE WHAT'S IN THEIR HEAD. You treat them as if they are simply a p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 20 | Queen energy 👑 This belongs here!Or how about she just does what she enjoys? There are women whose hobby is to experiment with make up und pretty themselves up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 09:00 AM |
| 5 | He broke my finger a year ago, and I'm celebrating my freedom and healing with this commitment ring to myself. Long live the rose that grew from concrete!The ring can't get send to Germany. Noooooooo! 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:42 AM |
| 7 | He broke my finger a year ago, and I'm celebrating my freedom and healing with this commitment ring to myself. Long live the rose that grew from concrete!I need the link top please. I'm not a jewelry girl but this ring simply amazed me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:29 AM |
| 23 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴I gotta see the thread. I BET there are people saying she should cOmMunICaTe instead of oVeRreaCtInG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:35 PM |
| 13 | Straight men shouldn't be OBGYNs- what are your thoughts?Yeah I agree. I went to three different female obgyns and they were cold, callous and one of them even rolled her eyes at me when I winced because she poked at freshly operated wound in my vagina. I don't want that attitude when you are having your fingers in my intimate parts jesus christ! I now have found the obgyn of my dreams. A gay older man, who is so sweet and patient and takes his time with me. I dread the day he retires :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:35 AM |
| 9 | Nier Automata's video game take on feminism and femininity. Interesting game if you're into philosophy and existentialismOh my god yes. I love this game. Thought it was another clichee story with good vs evil and shooting stuff. Never expected to be mindfucked this HARD. Unforgettable. Wish I could erase my memory and play it again. AND THE SOUNDTRACK. MY GOD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:51 AM |
| 41 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?Jesus christ. Watch the men shitting on her in the comments, because she couldn't look past such a LiTtlE mIsTakE. They are just subconsciously terrified that women are starting to accept less and less bullshit anymore. Soon they actually have to act like decent human beings to keep a woman. Those POOR BABIES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:58 PM |
| 7 | Please, share your HVM stories/ relationshipsI've gotten together with him right after I discovered FDS. I've therefore put the poor guy through the wringer. We've known each other from working together a couple of years ago. We were buddies, always hanging out and making each other laugh. Both in relationships. Then we've reconnected last year in December. It's so weird dating someone who was a friend. But I've never had a relationship like this. sex is always about me, which is something I had to get used to. It took me a while. Before t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:02 AM |
| 23 | I’m so over OLD. Yes, please scold me for not messaging you first. Fastest way to my heart (translation in comments)It's not the first German Post I see here this weekend. I wonder how many of us there are. Anyone from the Northern parts here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 5 | This makes me feel so sad...Jeeeesus. I feel my chest tightening just reading it. Your poor mom... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:40 PM |
| 173 | This makes me feel so sad...I think this is the main reason I never want kids. I NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER want to be tied to a man like this. When a relationship is over I want to fucking leave and never interact or even see them again. That's not possible when there is a child. Seems like a nightmare to me. This poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:46 AM |
| 15 | Warning from a woman in the military.Jesus this sucks. I'm European and in the Navy, stationed on a ship. I recently saw a thread about how awful men treat women in the US compared to north/west Europeans and posts like these kind of confirm it. Of course there is mysogny here and there but I would never be worried of getting sexually assaulted. I've been on several deployments that last half a year each, in close quarters with men but never feared for harassment. I once considered doing an exchange program with the US but yeah, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Can you please post the link to that thread? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:17 PM |
| 41 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!Pfff I made a deal with myself to never again settle when it comes to looks, so it's the first time I have a boyfriend who is NOT chubby, but someone who works out a lot. It's the hottest thing ever having a six pack and hard chest pressed against your back while cuddling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:41 AM |
| 9 | Imagine being pregnant and not allowed to use a chair. Just when you think you've seen it all. And most people are voting NTA which makes it even worse, most YTA are getting downvoted!? Poor girl.Just read through the comments with hope you were exaggerating. God. Men are the most selfish creatures there is. This is so fucking sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:38 AM |
| 11 | Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheatJesus this makes me happy. I wish you all the best. Really. You don't deserve any of this. And I'm happy you were guided here. Read everything this site has to offer, the handbook etc. Figure out for yourself what you want to make of it. You don't have to agree with everything, but the main point of this sub is, that women generally deserve so so much more than what they're offered. And even outside of this sub many young women are waking up and figuring this out. Your world view will change fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:06 AM |
| 17 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereIt's hard to describe how different our dating behavioura are, since we can't really see each other date. Only a guy can tell the difference. But what surprises me is, that you say, American men don't have female friends they don't want to sleep with??? I have a lot of male friends here in Europe and we behave like brother and sister, no sexual attraction involved at all. My best buddy lives with two gorgeous women he would never date, because they are like his sisters. Well to be fair, one of t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 7 | I am so, so sad for this woman 🥺 literally going through textbook cycle of abuse but her culture & family forced her to stay and reproduce with this NVM. It won't get better but she is conditioned to be excited by so little at this pointThis hurt my soul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Don’t Let Men Dictate Your Life DecisionsCould you please post the link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:30 AM |
| 29 | When you complain about a beautiful woman for using barely perceptible filters in her pics, it would be a good idea if you didn't look like a sex offender kicked out of a Mennonite community yourself.Jesus christ. WHAT? She is fucking beautiful. And that guy... I really, really wish I was a lesbian. Fuck, there are so many beautiful women in this world it's not even fair. Heterosexuality is a goddamn curse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Just began reading Women Who Love Too Much!I'm in this picture and I don't like it. Seriously though HOW THE FUCK DO I STOP DOING THAT? HOW? Is this book helpful? This preface cut like a goddamn knife. I hate this. I hate that my entire mood and emotional well being is dependant on a guy. I need this to stop. I just don't know how. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:41 AM |
| 7 | Don’t ever stray from the FDS rules, even if you want to believe the man you found is amazing!It's the hardest thing to do I think. Problem is, there is such a HUGE ocean of LVM/NVM that it's hard not to cling to a descent guy. Seriously, it's like 1 in 10 million guys I'd even consider dating so when I finally have one worth my affection, it's really hard to remain rational about the whole thing. It makes it even harder when you think about how incredibly tiring and depressing the dating scene is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Divorcing my porn sick husband“Es mejor estar sola que mal acompañada” That's one thing my mom told me that has stuck with me most in my adult life. Also half latina here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:43 AM |
| 10 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesI love this so much. Are there more like these? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:39 AM |
| 9 | This one is an all time low, ladies. Just sad.I just found out recently and I'm 32. My poor man has to endure a lot of suspicion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:34 PM |
| 6 | When you’re fully aware that you’re attracted to men but also fully aware that they can be the scummiest pieces of trash you’re “willing to compromise” with...Pure luck. I have been friends with my bf a couple of years ago. Worked at the same place, both in relationships back then. Then we met by chance last december, while both single. It's simply that. Pure luck. If I ever end up being single, I wont ever actively try to be in a relationship again, because meeting a HVM is like meeting a unicorn. Don't think it will happen again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:37 AM |
| 5 | Am I allowed to change?I think what most people, men and women, do wrong is to be desperate about dating itself. You need to get your life in check, improve it and work on yourself until you are happy to be by yourself. Whatever issues you have, loneliness, no worth in life, no aim; it's NOT going to go away when you have a girlfriend. A relationship partner should not be your therapist, or your only reason to exist. It should be a nice addition to your life, not your crutch. It's hard to unlearn the "without a wife y… | /r/askFDS | 13/09/20 08:45 AM |
| 23 | Remembering the Montreal Massacre - are men as brave as they say?There are brief moments, in which I wish I haven't discovered this sub. Reading about this massacre has made me furious, disgusted, but above all, incredibly sad. It would be so much easier to leave this sub and act as if nothing is wrong, but sadly, it seems to be vital to be informed about how much most men actually hate us. In this mindset it's easy to forget that there are rare specimen out there, that are actually decent. If it weren't for my boyfriend, I think I would have lost faith in me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:31 AM |
| 6 | What do men have to offer other than dick, catching bugs indoors and audacity?I don't want to know how many hate messages she is receiving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:58 AM |
| 145 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂21 years old with a 30yo. This poor woman. FDS should be a class in high school | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:18 PM |
| 5 | I could never repay my debt to FDS. Has it changed your life too?This sub saved me from myself. I found FDS in december and I still cringe hard about the person I was only a year ago. I've met my current boyfriend around that time, too and I think I gave him a really hard time in the beginning. But it turns out he is an amazing guy. Thanks to FDS I'm still on the lookout for any red flags I am missing, or signs of disrespect, and because of this sub I know I will be fine if things go south. It generally changed me from an absolute pickmeisha I was only a year… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Resting Bitch Face is work worth the respite!I have a natural resting bitch face, which has helped me a lot in avoiding being harassed.. Thing is though, that since we have to wear masks, I've been hit on several times in the most creepy ways. Sometimes I even think men don't know you can't see their eyes staring at you when they are wearing masks. Last week only I ignored a guy who kept staring at me in a grocery store and who even had the audacity to nudge me with his cart at the paying line, only to shrug his shoulders when I looked bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 52 | LVM bamboozled me into a shit date where i starved and froze to deathYou have a lot to learn. I've been there. My ex had his friends and me sit outside a pub (some of his friends were smokers) . I expressed I was cold but was too stupid to stand my ground and insist on going inside. He lend me his wooly hat. But when it got colder he insisted on me giving it back to him... We fought a lot those times, but that evening we didn't fight. He was weirded out because he knew I was mad. But I didn't care about fighting because at that moment in my mind we've already bro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Asshole coworkerI love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:43 PM |
| 12 | (TW) Men have no empathy. And there are a lot of comments siding with the boyfriend.True. Things like that make me sooo tired of men. It's not even worth weeding out the good from the bad, because what you gain from a good guy isn't even worth the effort.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:37 PM |
| 24 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻I seriously need FDS. It's the only safe place for us. A place in which your emotions and concerns are valid and not vagued out by gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:15 AM |
| 3 | In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting.I don't think I can edit a title, but I should have put it there, yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 45 | In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting.I kind of want to reach out to these women and introduce them to FDS. It might be exaggerated saying it but I think this subreddit could have saved lives or prevent awful experiences like this woman had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:26 PM |
| 7 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Wow. The second paragraph is a TLDR of my life! Including me being constantly suspicious about my current boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:28 AM |
| 12 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?That is true. Nowadays when I see a guy that interests me, the initial attraction quickly fades because my first thought is: what kind of negative sides do you have? Of course everyone has their faults, but I find myself less and less tolerant about most of them. And it takes so much time figuring them out about a guy. That's why the thought of getting to know someone is just so tiring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 05:24 AM |
| 34 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Turning 32 this Thursday. Only learned it this year. My behaviour changed so drastically, I'm not even ever in the mood of being kind and affectionate anymore. The thought alone tires me out because it's always wasted effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 07:52 PM |
| 8 | pretty muchNumbers 4. and 4a are so fucking true. Only at age 31 and after about 15 sexual partners I finally found a guy who actually gives a shit about my pleasure during sex and makes me crave even more. That's too damn sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:06 PM |
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