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In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting.

lunadelsol00

August 25, 2020
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Title In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting.
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lunadelsol00

Upvotes 0
Comments 57
Date August 25, 2020 10:50 AM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ig9snv/in_the_thread_in_which_a_woman_probably_was_raped/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/in-the-thread-in-which-a-woman-probably-was-raped.1195699
https://theredarchive.com/post/1195699
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You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.

819 upvotes
February 7, 2021
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Sexist rapper being destroyed by a woman. (translation in the comment)

192 upvotes
February 5, 2021
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Comments

[–]understatedalways291 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

“Apologize to your rapist.”-Every LVM

[–]LevelTurbulent41 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I shouldn't be surprised anymore but it still shocks me every time. That's exactly what they do.

[–][deleted]167 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

what the actual fuck

THIS

IS

RAPE

I know rape is a loaded word, but we need to normalize women using it to describe their experiences.

[–]Equipoisonous83 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You can’t rape an incapacitated woman just because you gave her a ring. What the fuck is wrong with these people?!

[–][deleted]57 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

some men don't believe in marital rape, even in 2020 🤮

[–]NihilisticBuddhism11 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

They’re the same males that think a wife is their personal slave.

[–]CassieGreen858 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

They legit feel entitled to sex whenever THEY want just because they put a ring on her finger; fucking disgusting.

[–]Lavender_flow145 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Also I read the OG thread before it was deleted. The husband is 100% raping his wife when she sleeps (she is on heavy sleep meds) and she is going around second guessing herself. NEVER MARRY a LVM ! They will literally rape and kill you. Stay woke.

[–]lunadelsol0045 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I kind of want to reach out to these women and introduce them to FDS. It might be exaggerated saying it but I think this subreddit could have saved lives or prevent awful experiences like this woman had.

[–]Lavender_flow23 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

too true. They need some FDS in their lives. We all do.

[–]mandoa_sky9 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

i honestly think that we should

[–]FurryBellyButt0n107 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Story time with TW bc sexual assault:

  • I was temporarily prescribed Ambien for an acute medical issue that impacted my sleep for a short duration of time. My doctor warned me of potential vivid dreams and side effects so I communicated them to my NVM because I would choose to cease the meds if this was my instance.. I vividly remembering "dreaming" that I had sex with my NVM. I told him the next night my "dream" and he ADMITTED to "having sex" then cried to "play victim" because he "didn't mean to assault me because I seemed very lucid and he was 100% sure I was consenting and able to tell him yes." I remember sharing this with a newer therapist and they SIDED with this POS despite me SHARING that the reason I told him that info was to be mindful and observant of how the meds would have affected me.

Covert sexism is so embedded in our systems, including medical and mental health realms. Victim blaming, especially with "medical conditions" that impact the ability for a woman to "provide" sex to a man is often questioned or if it could possibly be assault, men are treated as "victims" for "not knowing." We need to call it out for what it is. It's assault. It doesn't matter.

[–]Hostileovaries11 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Oh boy. The sexism in medical systems begins even before patients become involved. Particularly as it involves Ambien

[–]luvsphatty2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Disgusting! This was hard to read. Especially your therapist’s reaction. Men can never hold each other to the standards they have set upon us.

[–]FurryBellyButt0n2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It's true and if a therapist ever victims blames or justifies the mistreatment you are enduring from a partner, it's important to remind ourselves that WE OWE it to our personal well-being to try another way to find a therapist that can give us a space supportive place where we can openly share our experiences and process them.

NGL, it was challenging to try again but I did find a better practitioner that was trauma informed and it made all the difference, yet I could totally see this experience really turning anyone off to seeking support for sure. But we deserve to feel and live our best lives!!!

[–]samarsharqi98 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

What a fucking cesspit

[–]Kompottkopf90 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

i dont often search up reddit users who got their usernames leaked from crossposts, but daym did it feel good to do it and report that

[–]Buckley9279 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She should abort his spawn and ghost, any contact through lawyers only.

[–]Fitncurly33 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Agreed—abortion and divorce and start life over somewhere else where she doesn’t have to see her rapist anymore.

[–]Hipster-Aurora-12 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She should divorce but why is it her child's fault the father is a nvm freak?

[–]herdcatsforaliving18 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It’s not the fetus’ fault, but it’s also not the mothers fault and she doesn’t deserve to be tied to this pos for the rest of her life.

[–]Buckley920 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It's not, and at the end of the day it is her choice, and if the laws were significantly different, I would maybe advocate her keeping it. But under most laws around the world, she is tied to the rapist until her child reaches eighteen, especially if they were married, and especially if there are either no marital rape laws in that state/country or the rape apologist judge just disregards them.

In my case I'd skip the country, head for China and pick out a job where free childcare/tuition for my kid was included, but not every woman has this option.

[–]Lavender_flow73 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

These fucking disgusting assholes are insane. "you are a bad wife". WTF DID I JUST READ?! Wtf is wrong with these sociopaths. Seriously. He raped her, and this asshole in the comments are blaming the victim. And people upvote and give rewards. I hope this asshole gets smited by god or something. God what an awful awful person. I am not even a Christian, by I will pray to all the gods and mother nature for this asshole to feel some holy wrath.

[–]ninetiesbaby1630 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

A lot of people emphasize God’s perfect mercy. But they conveniently like to forget He has perfect justice. Rape, on top of being Prima facie evil to anyone with a working conscience, is also a blasphemy and desecration of a sacrament.

[–]Fitncurly15 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I’m not Christian either but my take is that since so many males on this site are incel losers, most likely the Gods have already smited this asshole and he’s all suicidal and has a shit life—no one with a good, fulfilling life makes misogynistic comments on a website.

[–]oddweeknd18 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

no one with a good, fulfilling life makes misogynistic comments on a website.

This is a "just world" style cope. Misogynists have all kinds of lives. Men with good, fulfilling lives do way worse than make mean comments all the time. Some of the wealthiest men that run this world are misogynistic, racist terrorists that don't care how they obtain their wealth. It sucks, but we have to put our big girl panties on and see the world for what it is, instead of hiding behind copes and fairytales. That way of thinking gets women screwed over.

[–]sweetpotatocupcake6 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Very true and glad you mentioned this.

[–]Fitncurly2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

No one says they’re fulfilled though—that’s just money or power, not happiness and wholeness. Those dudes also kill themselves all.the.time—how are they so fulfilled? One can be wealthy and suicidal too...

[–]cannibae54 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Males shouldn't be allowed to give relationship advice. Disgusting. Fuck that guy, fuck those sub mods, and fuck the males who enabled that depraved shit.

[–]daisy_072028 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

They're literally greenlighting rape. These sick fucks need to be permanently banned.

[–]FluffandRainclouds2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Or they are telling her he is hysterical, lying, and it never happened. Lose-lose scenario no matter jow you spin it 😔

[–]everythingandlove40 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

My gosh, I want to puke reading that. 😢

[–]throwRAwhatisthis29 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Translation: “I would have done the same thing if I was your husband. His behavior is justifiable because I want to justify my shitty self too.”

I swear the internet is going to make the world population plummet. Does this make YOU want to rush and have children or even marry someone?! Men are single handedly killing the human race with their violence, sub par sperm, and telling on themselves so we can be warned.

Birth rates are gonna plummet. Every day I become more and more disgusted by men. Guess I’m a sexist ass bitch!! Come at me scrotes with my “hate speech.” At least I won’t be raping you while you sleep, dead-dick.

[–]suspended_animation_12 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I feel the exact same way as you do. I will not bring children into this world. It's just not happening

[–]throwRAwhatisthis10 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Which is so fucking sad. I’m sure you’re a lovely woman that we could use more of in this world.

LVM and LVW genes are gonna change the gene pool for the worst. (At least proper beliefs and values won’t be passed on, is what I mean.) and then the cycle will continue.

[–]AyemHerself22 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

The fact that RA mods lock the post, but allow comments like THAT to stay up for 12+ hours, tells you everything you need to know about that cesspit of a sub.

Incel subs eventually get banned for excusing and glorifying rape. I wonder what it's going to take for admins to start looking at these "advice" subs that want to give every rapist a pass.

[–]sashimi_girl21 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

That thread was horrifying. I hope she can get to a safe place.

[–]chatrebelle20 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

In the patriarchy, a women does not deserve empathy or the benefit of the doubt for 'not giving sex' To Her husband but a rapist does

[–]virtuelnizeka15 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This LVM is straight from Blood Orange

[–]pqrsthrowawayyyyy12 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This was a horrifying post. The woman had little to any realization of THE EXTENT of what her husband had done. And the comment section was disgusting.

[–]lakeluna12 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I hope that reply isn’t a woman...I really hope it isn’t

[–]chateauduchat12 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This shit makes me want to speed up my tube-tying process and sleep with one eye open

[–]thatslikemy4thaccunt11 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

And they call us the toxic ones ffs. Disgusting, really.

[–]jeanneeebeanneee10 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

"You're basically forcing your husband to rape you, you should work on your relationship and stop being such a bad wife" haha ok. And yet we're the crazy/unreasonable ones for promoting self-love and encouraging vetting out predatory men. Cool cool cool

[–]Villanelloh8 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I remember a thread a few years ago about a woman going through menopause so was never in the mood for sex and asked for advice on how to keep her husband happy after she woke up in the night to find him raping her . Other women commented on having the same thing happening to them and it just made me lose all faith in humanity. Like somehow men have made a woman-only life stage all about them and give themselves a pass to rape women in their sleep. I mean what the actual fuck

[–]chaoswitchery7 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

TW in the title please :)

This story makes me so angry and the comment ugh, so many men lack empathy and awareness.

[–]lunadelsol003 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I don't think I can edit a title, but I should have put it there, yes.

[–]sleeping_pretty7 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Notice how this random guy created a story....like he was there???! Conceited and delusional. Hope she can abort and divorce!

[–]Lagaceta20206 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This is so disturbing 😑🤢

[–]Hipster-Aurora5 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Victim blaming wasn't enough, these lowlifes are pretending she's the crazy one and trying to bring race into it too for no reason other than their inner rapist is feeling defensive https://ibb.co/tbNJ5wN

[–]Novemberinthechair4 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

What. The. Fuck.

[–]RadicalCardiganCorgi3 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

He posts in unpopularopinion and conspiracytheory. Nuff said about this crazy rape apolegiser his character. Also 22 upvotes? (Wouldn't mind if those female indian woman protecting groups would "find him") and men are wondering why woman these days don't tolerate them anymore. Rapists.

[–]ItsMeSavannah2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

“iT waSnT rApE yOU dIDnT dO tHe SeXThIng!!1!”

Jesus the length these reddit nerds go to

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[–]little_pill1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Any shit ass loser can log into their alt account and give themselves gold. What a turd.

[–]Hahane-8 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

the wording of the reply makes me believe it's a satire

[–]Villanelloh7 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Even if it were satire (which I doubt) it is neither the time or place for it. This woman needs serious helpful comments to get her out of this horrible situation

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