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I think Im strong enough to get past that, Im more concerned on how she will feel and how fucking with his ex (me) will destroy her smv (actually making it easier for me as now I dont see her as a LTR option anymore).
/r/askTRP08/07/17 11:31 PM
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Yeah, the thing is that when I pass her comfort test she does a shit test which is acting mad I just ignore that then, or argue about how it is not cool to act like that.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 11:26 PM
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Good analysis. It all really depends in how strong I am, I guess I will test it today, we are going to see each other in a couple hours, if I cant deatach emotionally I will just end it. If I remain stoic (which will be easier as I dont see her as ltr material after this proposition anymore) I think I could make it work for a couple of months.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 11:23 PM
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Stupid things, so stupid I dont even remember, but it was annoying.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 09:20 PM
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I was the one ending it.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 09:19 PM
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I edited it with more context, and yeah the sex is in my top 2.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 09:18 PM
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The thing is she is doing it with the excuse of not wanting to be "alone" taking advantage that his bf is away. The tone of the conversation is different from lets have a coffee to talk about things. AWALT.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:04 AM
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I also believe in trusting your gut feeling, but its not rational, it could very well be that Georgia logged from her phone, thats the simplest scenario. If you didnt fucked up already and showed your hand to her, to calm your Guts I would check their fb Messages or texts, if they are friends like she says there should be some interaction.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:44 AM
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Report back
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:41 AM
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Wtf man, if he wants some support here let it be.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:15 PM
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I think it is the opposite, it clears my head and I usually leave the gym with a positive mind.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 12:10 PM
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I dont know the theory of nofap but seems bullshit, I would just say that keep doing it but not everyday, or at least just once a day, theres really nothing wrong with it, its only bad when you do It too much, like all in life.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 03:58 AM
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For science, I wanted to buy a dildo of my size.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 03:55 AM
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Not really true tho. There are a lot of people willing to help, there is also weekly ask anything thread and people are eager to answer questions from newbies.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:41 AM
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Thats interesting, didnt even know that there was a job for this, I thought that the marketing department did that
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 03:40 PM
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Its Computer Science, sorry. Oh Interesting.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 06:29 AM
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What do you do for a living? Is it something related to CS?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 06:11 AM
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Its funny how we often laugh about hamstering but this is one of the major hamstering I have read on TRP (from a man). Not telling her is selfish becuase it damages her feels? Lol, dont try to rationalize it by applying some shitty moral point of view, if the girl was the one doing the cheating NOT telling the guy would be selfish. Just own it and say that what you did is inmoral. And Im not talking from a moral highground I also cheat and never disclose it, I know is inmoral, but dont try to ha…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 01:31 AM
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Hillarious but pretty possible.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:06 AM
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I upvoted you, but you are missing something, he could have all the fame, status, looks, preselection, etc but if he was a beta in the relationship, all that doesnt matter, you dont know how the dynamics of the relationship were, so I think is too soon to tell we are fucked and theres nothing we can do, because maybe, he was a beta. So I will keep lifting improving myself and dont get married.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 04:02 AM
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Nah its just the reality vs the made up "reality" that many guys fall into
/r/askTRP12/09/16 03:53 AM
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Just fuck her
/r/askTRP11/09/16 06:42 PM
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Im in the same situation and always take girls to hotels, you dont propose just lead her there when the time is right. It also helps that in my country exits lots of hotels that are paid hourly and they are created just to fuck, anonymously.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 06:16 PM
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It is different to say what you are saying than saying that studies mean shit, if someone believes that there is really no point in arguing. I really havent seen deep into it to say they are terribly made or well made, but all the knowledge we have, I think, points to that direction: It is of best interest for women to only procreate with the most alpha since it is a huge investment of time (1 year pregnant plus all the time the baby needs to live without much care, especially because in the pas…
/r/askTRP20/08/16 03:07 AM
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I understand but it is still as close as we can get to the truth, thats science, it could be skewed but it still is the best tool we have right now, and it has proven to work and advance us as a civilization. Even if you dont believe the statistics you can at least analize the data and think if it makes sense to you, if it doesnt dont believe it, or provide another one that is better. For me, it makes sense, and align with other studies about our Evolution as species and natural sexual drives. A…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:38 PM
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Alright then, studies dont mean shit, theres nothing left to argue with you.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 10:15 PM
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I completely understand your points and I agree to some degree but please dont continue to spread the myth that having a highg n-count is irrelevant to the future of a girl, there are studies that confirms that It lowers the chances of a happy life with their future LTRs, it even increases the likehood of a divorce the more sexual partners she had. And interestingly enuogh it only seems to affect girls, which is not weird since we should be able, by nature, to procreate with diferent women, whil…
/r/askTRP19/08/16 09:30 PM
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This is common of envious people, they see normal acts as a threat to their egos, and are always resentfull and envious of minor things, its a toxic trait that I alwais try to keep my distance because it is a ver powerfull feeling that can make people act really bad. So op, you should read about how to get rid of this feeling asap, and also see these normal acts with differents lens, maybe use it as a fuel to better yourself or to make friends but with "admiration" not hate.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 03:07 AM
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Would still be advertising if many people asked you to say the name? ;)
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 01:38 AM
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Yep but you are also missing my point, sometimes shit happens and that doesnt make her a shit person by default, I agree there are many stupid single moms but most of them just had bad luck, we have to agree that many men dont want responsability. As someone said before me, your point is dont have sex before marriage?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 07:44 AM
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Yep thats true, but my point is that it doesnt make the mother a shit person if she wants to (or think she can) raise the child without the father. Again Im only in favor when shit happens, you can get a girl pregnant without knowing, nor her, and you could decide to run and that makes the woman a shit person?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 07:40 AM
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Can I ask why is not okay to be a single mom? Serious question. My pov is that it is okay unless you did it on purpose, there are many women that get pregnant by accident, a lot. I can even say that most of single moms got pregnant because they didnt know better at the time and didnt use protection or the guy trusted in his ability to pull or she was drunk, etc and the guy just obviously ran. I do understan that it is not okay if she does it to lock up the guy, but here seems to be no mercy for …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 07:40 AM
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Dump her, or downgrade her to plate status. Also, you basically saw her cheating (with you) and then decided to LTR her, I dont know how you didnt saw that comming, its not AWALT, it was just really stupid decision on your part.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 07:55 AM
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Again, it is not about that, lets say I already read her and know her enough to know that she is not with me for the free food, I would still not pay for it, or if I do she pays next time. Not to screen not because is cool, but becuase I dont like to invest more in the relationship than she does. Also if yo do this often she will see you as a BB, you just have to fuck her good and she will be happy.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 11:51 PM
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Its not about being cool or not, I personally do it for screening purposes, if I dont pay and she is cool about it, that tells me that she is not there just for the free food but actually for me.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 09:09 PM
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High quality shitpost
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/15 03:25 AM
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Can you post a pic of the shoes?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:58 PM
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lol butthurt much?
/r/askTRP28/10/15 10:03 PM
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Is this satire? Are they "professionals"?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 05:50 PM
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Thanks for your reply and all the links man
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 12:40 AM
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Sorry didn't specify my question better, but your answer helped either way, as for examples I meant which specifics business to look for, so I can have an idea on what to focus, but now that you answered I guess most companies focused in technology fits the examples.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 06:49 PM
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Im interested, can you provide examples?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 06:16 PM
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Decide what you want here man, if you only want a plate seeing each other more than once a week is a no no, that's your mistake here. I bet that in the future you may come as too needy to her. Do not see her more than once a week unless you want something more. If you want an LTR I don't think it will work up, she is not as invested to make it work.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 11:45 PM
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I'm just arguing the point in which you say it's not true that you just don't remember what happened unless you are almost in alcohol poisoning, in reality it is actually one of the effects of alcohol. I do agree that not remembering doesn't mean that you are unconscious and can't consent.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 03:03 AM
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I also thought it was bullshit, but a friend of mine who is also a red piller (natural, doesn't know the existence of TRP bc of language barrier) told me that he went on a party and forgot what he did at the end, is important to say that he wasn't unconscious, he has been told that he actively kept trying to pick up many popular girls in my campus. I guess that to some people alcohol has this effect of losing the capacity to form short term memory. Edit: Actually, a quick search on wikipedia con…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 01:29 AM
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I would disagree, having an asshole personality (but socially adjusted and funny) does work, women actually find that attractive. It means you can challenge her, tease her, make fun of her, but it has to be calibrated not like the bitchy asshole masked as "alpha" that we sometimes see on reddit.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 12:26 AM
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That last part was interesting, some people really need to learn this, many "ugly" people I know are ugly just by the way their hair looks on them. Looking forward to your next posts, even if it is not something new it is something that is important to be addressed here.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 12:19 AM
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I couldn't help but read ALL your post in a gay tone, not like it is bad, but was funny. Good advice tho I think it will help many people.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 02:49 AM
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And what do you do?
/r/askTRP01/08/15 04:46 AM
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Yep
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:12 AM
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You are right and answered something similar in another comment above.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 06:17 AM
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You are actually understanding all this very well, and yes "we talk like that", but there's a reason to that: Many people here wished someone did that to them in the past, but no one has, and learned the bad way. And thats the best way to learn, failing hard. Personally I havent commented anything about this yet because I know that you only have to advice once, more than that is a waste of energy, and then let them fail (if they decide to not follow your advice) and just then, after crashing, th…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 05:24 AM
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True, I know and as I said I planed to bail just before she sent me that text. But something interesting I experienced is that here, that short interactions over text, doesn't work most of the time, I'm thinking the society put too much importance to text game that is something a girl expects and wont go forward if you don't do that, it sucks because you have to invest more time in a girl; just mentioning it if someone else is from a different country or something.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 05:03 AM
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This is A game right here, will keep that in mind next time.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 04:52 AM
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Yes I only want her as a plate, she has a nice body and fucks like no one but unfortunately does not qualify for an LTR. Exactly how I saw it too man, I can say I have enough SMV for her (just because we fuck and the way she texts) so it was more likely a comfort test than a shit test. But anyway I just followed the route of the shit test and said something about my others wives would be upset as mentioned above, mixed with some comfort and affection, followed by changing subjects and it worked …
/r/askTRP24/07/15 09:25 PM
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Yep thats a good point, but I always use protection.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 09:12 PM
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You got it man! Used a combination of the two in a set of back and forth texts and now the situation is deflated and the frame set just as I wanted, thanks.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 08:58 PM
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The best way is not completely legal, it involves spying her cellphone with software created for that.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 09:23 AM
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There are parts in your post that are repeated. Also, paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:16 AM
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First time is always like that, you will really enjoy sex by time.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:53 PM
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Im surpised no one mentioned the fact that the higher the lay count in a women the least likely it is for her to be happy in marriage (or in an LTR), ie: more likely to divorce. While for men, it doesnt affect at all. Come on, isnt that study on the sidebar? This is one of the most important knolewdge you wanna have from women.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 11:19 PM
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Exactly this. Havent have sex three months after my last ex. But I couldnt care less, after this dry spell she is now a plate, and have two more. To the point I fuck every week. Just dont focus on her and live your life, have some male friends to hang out, enjoy life and girls will come.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 05:14 AM
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Can you post a pic of your beard?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 07:10 PM
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Happened to me also, for me rapport is very important, also happened to two firiends of mine who are not into trp, they said, it felt so easy. I think is normal to certain types of people. How to fix it? Dont know yet.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 05:37 AM
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Lol thanks for re assuring my thought. I was afraid if she will be crazy or not.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 09:13 PM
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Thanks for the advice. But can you elaborate on how to misdirect? Edit: words
/r/askTRP03/11/14 08:48 PM
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Thanks for the hard analisis, you are right in many aspects, I even upvoted you, but I have to disagree in some. No. You even said FWB. To answer this and your last question If her reason to flake was something outside of seeing another male, would you have gotten pissed off? I hate flacking, I got mad when she said she couldnt make it because she didnt warn me with time, I later found out it was with this guy. Also, its not about the girl, Is about my ego, especially if the reason is another gu…
/r/askTRP27/10/14 10:37 PM
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Thing is she contacted me a minute ago, too soon or I should not care. I dont even know if Im overreacting.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 07:40 PM
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She messaged me a minute ago: Baby... What would you do? Read my response to dukechaz to undertand the point I want to make it clear. Keep in mind this just happened last night. Yes, this is the only plate Im fucking, another one is on the go, but nothing yet.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 07:38 PM
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Yes, luckily Im not really emotionally invested in her, I just love fucking her tho.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 07:32 PM
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Geat short post, I liked the second half. Edit:Words
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 05:31 AM
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Exactly, big as one. It seems that you just recently lost the vcard, you cant stop bragging and thinking about it. Congratulations? is that what you needed? Well done.
/r/trpGAME08/10/14 07:00 AM
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I have the sensation that you are a clueless virgin who doesn't understand sarcasm. Edit: words
/r/trpGAME07/10/14 08:19 PM
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10/10 Pro advice right here.
/r/trpGAME07/10/14 06:17 AM
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I dont think it would be a good idea. It could backfire at you with social consequences, she is in your circle of friends, so just let it be and dont take it seriously (girls are very savvy when it comes to burn one person socially). IF she insists just say you are not interested in that kind of relationship, "lets just be friends", and move on, but never feed that friendship and it will eventually die.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 01:41 AM
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This story gave me goosebumps. Congratulations to you kind sir.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 01:32 AM
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That's worse. What the fuck. Losing frame. And loosing time with this girl. An LTR is that, a LONG term relationship. Always ask yourself, do you want this girl to be your wife or the mother of your children? If not, next her. If you think this girl might be a good wife, I personally would call her on her victim play, and if she continues, dread game. What bothers me the most is how she acted as a victim. But you did bad on continuing the "debate". I will make her obvious that this kind of behav…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:13 PM
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Been there, ditched my girlfriend because of that. Firs of, sorry for my english, what comes next is a wall of text on my best english possible, so dont expect much :), but this girl taugh me some good lessons related to trp. Almost exactly your case, you and I are very similar, at the middle of the relationship I demanded sex, more meet ups, etc. She lied to her parents, friends, sisters, cousins, uncles, everyone, to be with me. So maybe she is lying to me too? Started suspecting about her lyi…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 08:56 AM
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I dont consider this a shit test, she really wanted something else, and keeps saying me that she loves me, etc. She is also too dumb for even make a shit test imo. But its fair, maybe wasnt the best reply for me. Thats why I asked what would you do.
/r/askTRP
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Can you elaborate on why never plate an ex?
/r/askTRP
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I dont care if im a plate of her too, im not like a girl who feels used after sex, better for me so shes not clingy. The thing that concern me is the respect she has of me. I dont know if I will overreact and seem remorsefull if I keep ignoring her to make it clear that she cant just do that and nothing happens. Or to play it cool but risking my reputstion making her think that she can do that and nothing really happens. Or should l appeal of her intelligence and know that the warning was very s…
/r/askTRP
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Name of the app?
/r/askTRP
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You may be tempted yo try again and ignore everything here. But I have been in almost the exact same situation, but she was texting her ex one week in the relationship, so there was less to loose, but I still gave her another chance because she promised she will earn my trust back. Fast forward to 4 months I couldnt deal with the drama of not trusting her even if she didnt do anything wrong, it will always be in the back of your head, you wont be happy with this girl, I realised I will never be …
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