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| 4 | Housewife gets all revved up at the mere sight of her husband doing the dishesI knew right away what this would turn out to as soon I read the word "hubby" in the title... 🤢 🤢 🤢 🤢 🤢 I swear it is the number one indicator of a pickmeisha/LVM kind of relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Weird Red Flags?Girl, same. This guy I used to see for a short while a couple of years ago all of a sudden asked "why don't you have your read-notices activated on Whatsapp?" And I just responded that I don't want people knowing my shit on social media as in when I was active, if I am or if I had read messages. I wanna answer when I feel like it and have the time. When I asked him why he even bothered he said something like "I just want to know if someone's busy or ignoring me". What the...? I barely know you d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Weird Red Flags?Oh my god me too. Brb need to take a boiling hot shower now 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 6 | A new question for your vetting process and general discussionNot only is it an answer indicating lack of empathy, it is also a stupid answer purely LoGiCaLlY. Even if one were to choose the second answer to favour efficiancy, it wouldn't be the case since employees who become overworked become sick in one way or another which will disrupt the efficiancy of whatever work is being done (re-starting the recruitment process to find a new employee, putting in resources to train them, dealing with workplace dissatisfaction, etc). The basic notion that all peopl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:06 PM |
| 15 | Its Scrote-Blocking Season AgainAnd remember ladies... Imagine all the binge watching of porn scrotes have been indulging in even more while being cooped up in their smelly, beige and artless jerk off dens... imagine these being released back into civilization once restrictions ease 🤢🤢🤢 do not fall for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:58 AM |
| 20 | Essay: ”Tinder — How I didn’t meet your father” on online dating and why do avoid it (translation in comments)If you open the article in Chrome the browser will automatically translate. Translation of excerpts from part 1 from Swedish (slightly corrected): […] But the question remains: what happened, between Tuesday and Wednesday? Did he meet a new one? Fall in love with his ex? Cold feet? Did he realize that he, just hours after lying next to me and saying that he had not felt this way for several years, was actually lying and that he therefore could not imagine meeting me again? Who knows?" Diary entr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:54 PM |
| 10 | Where to meet hvm IRLMy friend did this and she found so many new friends there. They've become a tight knit group who meet up on a weekly basis and do dinner parties together, go out dancing and have so much fun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:57 PM |
| 41 | I'm 17 and I am tired by relationships but can't give it upAgreeing with all previous comments. And also, the fact that you are only 17 years old and already acknowledging and seeing patterns of your self-destructive behaviour and also can pinpoint the reasons for it is incredible. When I was your age, I was in a similar situation but way more clueless. Let me start with that you are already your own person. A person is made of bits and scraps of all life experiences, both good and bad, big or small, and our relationships. And our relationships say a lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Feeling a lot of regret and sadness about how little self-respect I used to haveI feel the exact same way you do and I must say it is incredibly reassuring to see that I am not alone. When I get these feelings I try to remind myself of these things. I've changed it to "we" for all of us that go through this. We didn't know any better and we only did what we thought was expected of us in an already sick culture that we are victims of. This was the road we way were taught would lead to love and affection. And wanting love and affection is something every living thing wants. W… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | The characters men put on to impress you.Interesting, I swear I've met like all these types you're describing. Yuck. However, many things about you green flags-list made me confused as of why one would consider those to be green flags. Like isn't he almost too compliant? Or is this considered normal? I guess everyone has different preferences of what's expected in a relationship though. It's good that you're still vetting and I hope it turns out well :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I am against curfews in all forms. However, considering the threat men impose to society, I understand what point Jones is getting at. Rest in peace Sarah Everard, we will continue fighting for you and all women who have fallen victims of these deranged misogynists. Stay vigilant, ladies.More information about the matter: Link to shown article About the arrest of the suspect (a police officer of course) Wikipedia page | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.More and more women are actually doing this! At least in Europe, there are plenty of big houses and sometimes even chateaux that aren't to expensive to buy if a group splits the cost. These are often old and roughed up of course, but renovating and redoing isn't extremely hard and only some parts actually require a professional hiring (plumbing, electricity etc). The rest can be easily done with basic carpentry, gardening and mending skills, plus these are skills you'll require and get better at… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Men who obsess over ”being dominant in bed” and defend their right (entitlement) to be soWow EDMR, I've heard a lot of good about that for treating trauma. Interesting. I'm so glad to hear! Yes. With the help of therapy + shrooms + support from friends, my self hatred started to detach and I realized how all my burnout behaviours was a form of punishment of myself, because my self worth was so low. No one ever noticed that since I am so well functioning and badass outwards lol. Little by little it led to a breakthrough and I realized that I was lovable as a human and surrounded by l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Men who obsess over ”being dominant in bed” and defend their right (entitlement) to be soThank you for sharing your experience, I can't imagine the feeling of hopelessness you must have felt... proves how much of all the talking about rules and safety being just a facade to violate already vulnerable women. I'm glad you're dealing with it and I hope you only get care from now on without ever having to go through abuse again. You deserve it and we all do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Men who obsess over ”being dominant in bed” and defend their right (entitlement) to be soWow, that is truly horrible. Really sorry to hear... Do you feel like you've processed it yet? 💜 I have too experienced similar physical oversteps mid-sex, mostly it's been chokeholds or slaps out of nowhere and when I freaked out they acted like I was the strange one. Been called things during too like "my little whore/slut", or my personal favourite, "you like being my little sex doll" lol. It's laughable but sad at the same time. And I agree, it's a terrible experience but you live and you le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 24 | Men who obsess over ”being dominant in bed” and defend their right (entitlement) to be soIt makes me think it is a form of self-harm and women who feel this way should be encouraged to get help instead of reinforcing the low self-worth with sexually abusive men. I get that it is normal to explore your sexuality and experiment, but there should be room for self-reflecting as in "why am I turned on by this? Why is he turned on by this?" There is a difference in playful/passionate sex with a trusted partner, as opposed to this systematic abuse often followed up by "after care". This is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:10 AM |
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