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You are not ugly. But hard to tell what the problem is without meeting you.
/r/seduction24/05/19 09:32 PM
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I want to open more, but I am bad at observational comments. I have to start somewhere though. I was in a bar tonight, but only sat with my friends. Lots of good looking girls. It just feels weird going over and saying hi. I know it's not about words, but more about energy. But my energy is normally not that great.
/r/seduction21/04/16 10:42 PM
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You are right and this is what I wanted to hear. I have motivation, but I never seemed to get started.
/r/seduction21/04/16 10:40 PM
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Yes, your problem because you choose to follow a routine.
/r/seduction15/04/16 04:49 PM
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I would consider it throwing away money, but some people have lots of money and believe in that stuff, so...
/r/seduction14/04/16 03:54 PM
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Yes, I think daygame demands a high level of social intelligence, being able to make observational comments and tune into the atmosphere. Otherwise it can get very strange fast! But of course noone becomes super-social right away, you have to pracice some way, and life should not be without embarassing moments. So where do the single women go to? Yoga classes, dance lessons, book clubs...? I was thinking about starting giving out compliments as I walk around, one a day, then take it from there.
/r/seduction13/04/16 12:59 PM
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You have some good points. I am not sure what I think about it though. I tried some daygame, probably less than 100 approaches, and hours and hours spent just walking around getting courage (not a really great way of spending my time I would say). I just felt a bit drained by it, and like I had tried my last option without any success. I had too high expectations from daygame. I thought that stating my intent clearly would change everything. Chris Bale says in one of his videos that most guys de…
/r/seduction11/04/16 11:41 AM
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Yes, I think so to. I have motivation by being single and unhappy with it, and I never watch porn anymore. However, I find it hard to just do it. I do try to socialize more than I used to by going to meetup groups etc though.
/r/seduction11/04/16 11:35 AM
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Yes, it looks like that. I think inner game is by far more important, your hair style and ugly voice can be fixed later and maybe even doesn't matter that much.
/r/seduction11/04/16 11:34 AM
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True:)
/r/seduction10/04/16 11:07 PM
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At the same time: I have never succeeded with a woman while having the intention of going out to meet women (except internet dating). I think maybe it's better to focus on your goals first. Women are everywhere. I just want to get started talking to women when I am out and about doing my things. It doesn't matter if it's the streets, a café, an event, a bar... But that was the main reason for my post, if there's any idea of "practicing". I know from experience practicing quickly becomes boring a…
/r/seduction10/04/16 10:56 PM
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Yeah, it's stuff like that that makes me doubt if I want to talk to women I outside bars. I want to, I just don't wanna be one of those guys.
/r/seduction10/04/16 10:53 PM
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I don't like this whole structure thing. You are talking to human beings, not robots. That's why I stopped doing daygame myself. However, I want to speak to women everywhere, but not like an organised, planned activity totally lacking spontaneity and authenticity.
/r/seduction10/04/16 07:15 PM
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Well done doing it. I want to do it as well. Any advice on how to get started? I think you should be proud of yourself. How old are you btw? Just curious.
/r/seduction02/04/16 09:14 PM
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Paying for unlimited swipes.
/r/seduction28/03/16 04:05 PM
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I do have hobbies! I spend most of my days outside the house. But social circle is not easy to create in a big city if you are working freelance. I like to get to know someone over time, not be a madman chasing girls in bars and on the streets. Nothing wrong with that, but I find it better if I can take it slower.But I don't have that luxury in my life now. Where do you live btw? If you are in London and want to be a wing some day, let me know. I think cold approach can work of course, but still…
/r/seduction25/03/16 09:27 PM
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Real life... Well, what if you live in a city and don't have a social circle, and daygame and nightgame takes tons of courage and you probably have to do it yourself? I mean, nothing wrong with pushing yourself, but the problem is when it's so hard every time you have to walk around for hours to get the courage. With tinder the intentions are clear from the beginning.
/r/seduction25/03/16 07:43 PM
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Tinder can be great. I went from zero dating life to lots of dates fast. But after they started with that membership thing all the girls got so picky, I don't get many matches anymore and my matches hardly responds. I have a friend who's always been good with women, he told me the same happened to him.
/r/seduction25/03/16 12:06 PM
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Just touch her.
/r/seduction25/03/16 12:05 PM
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No, not say pretty eyes. But I often get the feeling you have to be extremely specific, like saying "I love how the baby blue bag match with your eye colour" etc, it's weird to notice so much if you have seen someone on the street for five seconds.
/r/seduction23/03/16 11:41 AM
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I can see that. I should maybe have made a separate post about this, but I don't get the thing about specific compliments though. I mean: It sounds a bit serial killer like to say something like "I love your deep green eyes" instead of just giving a simple compliment. Any thoughts on that? If is see someone on the street, I find it hard to give a very specific compliment.
/r/seduction23/03/16 12:45 AM
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Thanks again for your answers. It's very helpful for me!
/r/seduction17/03/16 12:59 PM
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Interesting question. Depends on the girl I suppose. Would you really be with someone who doesn't accept that you haven't had a girlfriend? A lot of girls (and guys) are insecure, and will be scared of by it, no doubt, but confident girls wouldn't mind if the connection is there. But I know, I have struggled with the same issue, and I am older than you. But building a relationship on lies is no great idea.
/r/seduction17/03/16 12:58 PM
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First: Thank you for a very good answer. I have noticed exercising is good for the confidence, it makes it easier to meet someone when you feel good about yourself physically. Do you think it's possible to be too forward with women, too clear with intentions? The guys I know who are good with women (by that I mean they get into relationships with women they are attracted to and have a connection with, not just anyone) seem more relaxed, more chilled than I am when I try to seduce someone. I did …
/r/seduction16/03/16 01:23 AM
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It went all right. Good conversation, got a bit drunk. But never saw her again. I should have done more, but I learned for later tinder dates.
/r/seduction14/03/16 09:33 PM
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That's more than I have ever achieved. For me every 10th-14th day seems best. Good to get some release sometimes. How does it feel for you?
/r/seduction13/03/16 10:29 PM
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Do you think it's all right for a man aged 31 to try to seduce girls as young as 20? I think my ideal age is around 25 though. I didnt really think about my age before turning 30, and I still look a little younger than my age. I want to do daygame, but not go out with the boys specifically to do it. I tried it and it wasn't my thing. Any advice for how I can do it when I am out and about? the best dating advice I have ever got was from an older woman I was friends with when I was 20 (she was 27 …
/r/seduction13/03/16 10:12 PM
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Stop watching porn, masturbate every second week. There you go!
/r/seduction13/03/16 10:08 PM
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Thanks for your answer. I think I am pretty brave, but I don't have great confidence when I truly need it. I have a friend with no ambitions in life. He sits at home (at his dad, he is over 30!) all day watching TV, no job, but he is good with women. I try new stuff in life. It feels strange. Would you recommend doing daygame if you are more than 30? I see mostly younger guys doing it.
/r/seduction13/03/16 12:23 AM
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I don't know. I think a guy can build up courage to do very brave things. But what really matters is the confidence you have in the important situations. For instance it's easy to do daygame if you work hard to get that courage, but for me it's hard to keep the confidence with girls over time. What to do about that? I just freeze up if I sense that someone likes me. I go around thinking about what to do and say, and I feel giving some compliment won't work.
/r/seduction12/03/16 11:04 PM
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True, true. That was just an example, a very generic one.
/r/seduction03/02/16 12:06 PM
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I know what you mean. But sometimes it's hard to be very specific if you just started chatting with someone, and talking about her nice handbag might just seem like you are a gay guy who's very into women handbags:) But I know what you mean, and I agree. Being more specific is good, and also talk about inner qualities. I just find being direct difficult anyway.
/r/seduction03/02/16 12:05 PM
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I think many daygamers do this here in London, as it's so multi-ethnic and full of tourists. Assumption stuff, "you look like you are maybe Italian".
/r/seduction02/02/16 01:01 PM
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Yeah, it would be great to do it when walking around doing other stuff. In the street you don't really get a good feel of a girl often. It's often when I sit in the tube for a while I start to notice someone and want to talk to them. But public transport is high risk. Super markets and stores might be good. I have just lost my balls a little, been so long since I did daygame at all. Probably once the spring comes, I get the motivation back. Only the hardcore daygamers game during winter.
/r/seduction02/02/16 12:58 PM
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Why do you prefer to daygame alone?
/r/seduction01/02/16 05:44 PM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction01/02/16 12:45 AM
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Can you describe the difference between those two? Sounds like the same to me. What do you think about daygaming alone? I think if I start out again, I will try to do more by myself.
/r/seduction30/01/16 10:37 PM
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Also, I stopped porn a while ago, it's not good for you I think. Maybe limit masturbation too, it will create massive motivation.
/r/seduction30/01/16 10:36 PM
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Yeah, sounds good. I know what you mean. Sometimes you really want someone. Those times I should just act on it.
/r/seduction29/01/16 12:59 AM
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From I limited experience I found it hard to get the girl to stay, maybe since I got nervous and the whole situation was just a bit weird. It's a lot of pressure. That's why I try to find ways to do daygame that's more relaxed.
/r/seduction29/01/16 12:58 AM
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So what do you talk about before then? They will know why you came over anyway I would suppose?
/r/seduction27/01/16 11:16 AM
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Ok. So you mean introducing yourself first?
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:58 PM
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Sorry, what does SOI mean?
/r/seduction25/01/16 01:56 PM
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Aesthetics and social status is doable, wealth harder.
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:44 AM
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What does smv mean? No, I am not ugly, but my pictures are not the best maybe.
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:23 AM
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They are all...ok. Happn is hopeless. The technology too. But maybe I am ugly. Most ugly people don't know they are ugly;)
/r/seduction24/01/16 09:30 PM
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You have a point. Daygame became a chore for me, not any fun. "Hey, I just saw you blablabla". If its real, I think it must be awesome, but going out talking to hundreds of women with these lines just seems strange to me. The only issue I have with what you are saying is that it's not so efficient to meet women through your social circle. Getting new friends takes time too. It depends on your lifestyle of course. I don't meet that many people naturally. So a good solution might be meetup.com. It…
/r/seduction12/01/16 12:16 AM
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I absolutely agree.
/r/seduction11/01/16 01:48 AM
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Cool, let me know when you come here next time if you want to try some bars.
/r/seduction09/01/16 11:11 PM
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I meant I have tried it for daygame. I am more interested in nightgame now. I haven't really done that actively.
/r/seduction09/01/16 10:57 PM
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Thank you! I might write to you later when I create my profile. I have an ok cupid profile from before, but I have hardly used it. Tinder used to be really good, had lots of dates. Some were bad of course, but I had some magic nights:) Too bad they started charging, it really changed a lot. Interesting what you say about indirect openers. When I did daygame I only did direct openers. I got some numbers but no dates out of it. Usually it was like this: I go "hi, I saw you, you are really cute/bea…
/r/seduction09/01/16 09:52 PM
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I forgot to mention meetup.com. I haven't done that for a while, but it might work. My feeling is it is full of lonely foreign women.
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:56 PM
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Luck is part of it for sure. Its important to get out a lot.
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:56 PM
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The question is: How do I make daygame work? But OkCupid is best if you pay, right?
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:55 PM
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Why not Ilford? :)
/r/seduction05/01/16 11:55 PM
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