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m0rphing/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 09:26 PM
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Red Pill Theorym0rphing/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 11:44 PM
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It doesn't. Confidence or a lack of it comes from within.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 07:24 PM
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This is a good post because it highlights the difference between being nice to someone and needing to be nice to someone. Believe it or not there is actually a difference. You can not give a fuck about someone and still do something nice for them. Hell, you can even like a person and do something nice for them and still not become emotionally dependent on them. What? No way! Did he really say that? Yes, I did. I know that might be a shocker to some of the guys here. If you're a whole person who …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:55 PM
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In addition, many famous long distance runners are/were 6ft+ No doubt. Being small only gives you a slight edge in distance running. You can still overcome that if you're tall.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:33 PM
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Our hunting strategy involved a lot of running before we started using traps. Even with traps we still used running a good deal, just less than before. Humans aren't fast runners but that's never how we caught our prey. We simply chased it for miles and miles until it got exhausted and couldn't move a muscle and then we stabbed it with a spear. We have the greatest running endurance of all the land animals on the planet. No animal can outrun us over long distances.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:29 PM
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Being able to run fast to get food for a girl isn't going to help much when a stronger taller male near her can just beat you up and take it from you lol You can get food for yourself. And if you do bring food back to the tribe and some big fighter type guy trys to KO you and take the food, you just run away and you never give that motherfucker any more food, and he can get his own or die. Fighting someone who is a good hunter and pissing them off isn't a good strategy. Another point is that in …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 11:40 AM
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Yeah no worries, I'm doing fine. It's an interesting topic of conversation though. I think if it is true that taller men are more attractive, it is probably a fairly new sexual selection, in maybe the past few thousand years. I think that since our entire history pre-technology involved us having to run long distances to catch our food, shorter men would have the edge back then. For anyone interested in how important long-distance running was to our ancestors, this is a fairly entertaining read:…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 02:44 AM
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I'm trying my best not to hamster. I already conceded you might be right. I just have trouble actually believing it. Maybe part of the reason is because I've had equal success with girls taller than me and shorter than me. Could be I'm an outlier. It's definitely true that a lot of guys seem to complain about not being tall enough, so maybe there is something to it.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 02:18 AM
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I agree about jawline, facial features, muscles, shoulder width. I'm not seeing the height part being an advantage. Many long distance runners agree that being taller puts you at a disadvantage because you generally have to move more mass and thus you run out of energy faster, and they have more problems with heat dissipation as well. See https://www.hillrunner.com/jim2/id109.html. I guess I've always thought of height differences as something the tribe needs so that each man can have different …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 02:10 AM
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Could be true. I usually have a good read on what's attractive. I agree that a good jawline is a killer trait. I've always heard people talking about how girls love tall guys, but from my experience they like it more as a status symbol and they want a tall guy for a boyfriend, but when it comes to who they're going to fuck, they don't care. Maybe that's some kind of hamstering my brain is doing because I'm short, but that's what I've got. Like what does a tall person even offer? Being able to pi…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:53 AM
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Am I the only short guy who doesn't think tall guys have an advantage? I don't feel threatened by a guy's height, it just doesn't phase me. His shoulder width on the other hand, that's a physical trait I can respect.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:42 AM
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I think if you don't feel confident or like you have value as you are, you probably shouldn't be putting much focus on approaching girls in the first place. You should be figuring out why your self-esteem isn't good and trying to fix that. I don't think there's much value in trying to game yourself into thinking you have self-esteem when that's not how you truly feel. That never worked for me anyway. I had to do things to improve my health and confidence in order to actually feel like I had valu…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 12:10 AM
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To me this sounds like mental masturbation within the ego. When I get pushed away I just acknowledge that she wasn't into me at the time. Could be something I did wrong, could be she doesn't find me attractive, could be she wasn't in a good mood, could be she is awkward and she fucked up, could be a million reasons. I don't care why. All I need to know is whether it's on or not, and then I continue accordingly. Why torture yourself with all these thoughts about how high or low your SMV is now or…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 11:11 PM
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Good post. The importance of male friendships isn't talked about enough on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:24 AM
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When you really think about it, it's hard to know what one should use as a validation tool. Money? Sex? Your physical appearance? Prestige/respect? Do those things really matter? Sure they might give you a momentary rush, but do they bring you fulfillment? The truth is that in the end you really can't validate yourself through the ego. None of the things you try to do to make yourself feel worthy ever actually work. Either you feel whole as you are, without doing anything, or you don't. It is a …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 02:12 AM
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And women cannot resist being a slave to dick because of the sex drive they have. Men and women are slaves to each other, just as nature intended for the benefit of our species. Many guys have no idea how insanely motivated an ovulating woman becomes when she thinks she has a good chance at getting pounded by an attractive male. There is almost nothing she won't do. Honestly I think a woman with a pussy swollen red and dripping wet has a higher sex drive than I will ever have, and I'm no slouch.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 11:51 PM
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I was going to blast you for posting this, but at least you got the flair right. Nobody cares about some girly article.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 10:48 PM
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"some women won't cheat on their boyfriends even when their relationship sucks." Won't isn't really the right word. Maybe don't is better. Just because she doesn't cheat on her boyfriends doesn't mean there isn't a scenario in which she would. She just hasn't encountered that scenario yet. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 10:03 PM
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Newsflash dude, you are an asshole. And not in a good way. Stop calling people out who are obviously beta. Don't kick a man when he's down. Be strong yourself but when you engage with beta dudes just be nice and friendly to them. Make them have a good time when you're with them. The proper way to help beta dudes become better is just to be a role model for them to look up to. If you want to call people out, find other alpha, masculine dudes, and fuck around with them. They can take it and dish i…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 02:33 AM
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When you don't fuck a woman, it isn't always because your game didn't work. It doesn't always mean you failed. Sometimes you screw up and it's your fault. And sometimes you do nothing wrong and she just wasn't in the mood, and there is nothing you could have done to fuck her apart from outright raping her. And when you do fuck a woman, it isn't always because you played some strong game. Sometimes the woman is just in the mood to get fucked, sees a fairly masculine guy, and is going to be recept…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 04:55 PM
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This "men's issues" stuff is a dead end. If we had forced circumcisions or something draconian like that, there would be some merit to talking about it. All I'm hearing now is disgruntled men whining about women.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 02:45 AM
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Sex is never meaningless.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 11:18 PM
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My advice is to sleep with another girl while she's gone. Then you won't care what she's doing (which is 99% going to be fucking some dude in Cancun).
/r/askTRP26/11/17 11:16 PM
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Not your buddy's fault. It seems like the girl liked him more than she liked you. Or at least, that was true in that moment. Who knows what could be true 5 minutes later? You made the mistake of thinking the girl was yours just because you talked to her. You felt like you deserved her. Like she owed you something. And so you were upset when she showed signs of liking your buddy instead. It hurt your ego. The truth is that at any moment anyone can lose interest in you, and you will never be able …
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:49 AM
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I had my first girlfriend in grade 5. She bought me a bunch of candy for Christmas. I got her nothing because I didn't feel like buying her shit. She broke up with me and I was like "Meh, whatever." and then we continued to fool around anyway for years after. And I enjoyed eating every last bit of that candy.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 03:20 AM
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Actually women have always been fucking betas and they do so for a good reason. They just fuck them when they're not ovulating, so they don't get pregnant with a beta's kid. They are programmed to actually want to fuck betas some of the time (when they're not ovulating. and even then only sparingly). They need to do this because they need to give the betas a reasonable doubt as to whether the kid is theirs or the kid is some alpha dude's. If women never fucked betas, no beta would ever sign up t…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 12:53 AM
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You broke frame big time. You exposed yourself as an insecure bitch who was actually worried when this girl got flirty with another dude. Look, I know this isn't something most guys learn these days, so I don't blame you too much. But now you must learn the truth. No woman is ever yours. She will always leave you eventually. If it is her time to go, all you can do is wave goodbye and wish her all the best. You cannot control what a woman will do with her life, nor can she control what you will d…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 11:37 PM
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You joke back at her. "If that's your way of offering me a belly rub, I accept."
/r/askTRP24/11/17 11:00 PM
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Understandable. I used to think like you also. And then I took off my self-imposed chains and lived free.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:56 PM
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I always assume the threesome will happen. Why? Because even though it doesn't always happen, I have had a lot of threesomes using this strategy that I would not have had if I didn't assume they were going to happen. The first rule of threesomes: the girls adopt your attitude towards threesomes. If you are hesistant about it, they will be too. If you think it's the most natural thing in the world, so will they (after they exchange glances like "OMG this guy is for real")
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:43 PM
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Is the friend hot? If you don't know, ask to see a picture. If she's hot, then accept that fucking date, game the friend, make the first chick jealous, get them both heated up, get them to make out with eachother to relieve their pent up sexual frustration, and have a threesome.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:30 PM
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Fuck Jenna and Fuck Kate, and don't go exclusive with Kate right off the bat. If you're a high value dude, Kate will beg you to become exclusive after a certain amount of time. If you play it right, she may even offer to be exclusive to you yet allow you to fuck other girls (I know, why would she make this offer? But it's something girls do). That is probably an offer you want to take. Not that she's necessarily going to be true to her word, but the fact that she'd even make the effort is a good…
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:19 PM
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Sounds like this girl should get herself a beta bitch that she can boss around. Maybe offer to introduce her to someone you know who might fit the bill. And then you can fuck her on the side when she's looking for tingles and she can have her little puppy dog who will love her forever. It's a win-win scenario. Oh, and somehow try to take advantage of those rich parents. Get her to take you shopping and "forget" your wallet, etc.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:10 PM
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You shouldn't have sent her that last text. It was a shot at her because your ego was sore. Just because she doesn't respond to your invites doesn't mean you tell her you're breaking things off. It's not like you were living with her or something, no need to end things. You simply fuck other girls instead. She will probably come around again at a later time. And if not, no problem. She fucked you, what more can you ask from her. No woman will fuck you forever. It's just your turn. Yet the better…
/r/askTRP23/11/17 10:18 PM
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Yes it was a shit test and you failed. "I'll gladly buy us both drinks with your money." smirk. Anything that shows you're not going to do shit for her for free.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 08:03 PM
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No this isn't true. Whether she sees you as a "friend" or not depends on how you behave and her perception of how sexy you are. It is true though that guys who are really sexual usually make moves on girls soon after meeting them. Usually, not always. Remember that you're not asking her out and hoping she says yes. You're doing cool things, inviting her along, and not caring if she comes or not. This makes all the difference.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 06:37 PM
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Not important. What matters is whether this guy is doing what he wants and getting what he wants. If he is, it doesn't matter what people say. And remember that having lots of people talking about you, whether it's positive or negative in nature, is going to give you power. It all depends on how you respond to the attention. There's a reason why people in media say "all publicity is good publicity."
/r/askTRP23/11/17 04:50 PM
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It's an ego check. She's seeing if your ego is fragile enough that minor insults like this get inside your head and break you down. Seems like they do. She's doing you a favor by showing you your own weakness.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 04:13 PM
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What does DEERing mean. It's not in the glossary in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 03:09 PM
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Both the OP and /u/UrsusG have provided strategies which work to some degree yet are not the best strategies. You don't play games. You notice that she plays games like the girl she is, and you laugh. You disregard this. You wait until she responds to you, and if you're at all available to meet her, you respond fairly quickly and set up a meeting. This will probably consist of her going out of her way to meet you wherever you were going to be anyway, but you make the offer. If she's horny she wi…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 02:55 PM
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It's even more contrary to male nature to commit to one female.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 12:30 AM
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This girl is no different from other girls except she has good mental health (kind of rare today) and an uncommon value system passed down to her (presumably) by her parents. But you're wrong to think she's a virgin. The chances are very high she is not. It may be true she isn't fucking the guys she's dating. But the probability is very likely that she has fucked or will fuck a guy she isn't dating. I once met a HB8 girl who was 17, from a conservative family (lots of siblings), Christian, and l…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:11 AM
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So, did you try to meet her that night and fuck her? What are the logistics? There's not enough info here for me to get a good read on it. But right now it's smelling pretty gay to me.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:56 AM
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Do whatever you want. But if you ask me what I would do, I would fuck the plate AND the LTR chick. And on top of that, I would also fuck any other chicks that I find along the way. I don't understand whenever guys say they want to just commit to fucking only one girl for a while. I'm a simple man. If I see a hot girl who is down to fuck, I fuck her.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:46 AM
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Bros before hoes applies when you're in a relationship and the woman is trying to keep you from seeing your friends. It does not apply here. The correct course of action is to smash her pussy into pieces. And if your buddy gets mad you just say, "Hey, you can fuck her too if you want, I'm not the jealous type."
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:36 AM
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Absolutely you should spend your time where you think you'll have the most success. Trust your instincts hardcore and they will lead you to the promised land, always. When in doubt, trust them even more.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 12:21 AM
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God no. I feel a pang of weirdness sometimes while sleeping with women older than me, but never younger. I'm mid 20s. Once a girl turns 16 or so she's basically done developing. They're all the same to me.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 12:10 AM
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Of course you don't know what Machiavellianism is when you're 5, but you can live it without being aware of the word.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 12:01 AM
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You're not supposed to watch the movie. You turn it on and then you start having sex. It's just an excuse so she can say "we only watched a movie" and somehow convince herself she's not lying. If you actually watch a full movie with a girl who has come over to your place, you deserve whatever ill consequences befall you. You can watch a movie any time on your own. Her being there to watch it with you doesn't make the movie any better. So there's no point in watching it with her. She's there for …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:32 PM
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Once you rise above the herd of sheep you will start to more easily identify other people who have also done the same. It isn't necessarily an isolated existence. Although it is true there are fewer people you can relate with, you will find that there are more people than you first expected.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:25 PM
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I'm a male and I've been practicing Machiavellianism since age 5 too. It's not just the girls who are doing it. The kind of shit I got up to in elementary school would probably astound some of you, and some of you would be like "yeah I did the same shit." Women have a pussy so they get an advantage right off the bat. But once you overcome that initial advantage of theirs you will be forever above them in the game of power. 99.9% of women have no tools in their belt once you demonstrate that they…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:16 PM
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Tinder, bars/clubs in a college town, music festivals, friends of girls I'm sleeping with, friends of my male friends, in one case the sister of my male friend. I've also walked around campuses a few times even when I'm not a student there, and picked up a few numbers and one same-day lay from doing that. Helps when you have something to do so you're not wasting your time if none of the girls are biting, like hitting up a restaurant on campus or meeting a friend.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 06:50 PM
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You say she's dumb but you're a fucking idiot yourself. Break up with her, let her cry about it and move on with her life. She probably won't take it as badly as you imagine. Every young girl gets her heart broken, it's like a rite of passage. They deal with it.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:22 AM
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Newsflash, you can still fuck college girls even when you're not in college anymore. I've been to many a dorm room even after I dropped out of college.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:14 AM
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She sounds like a big slut. Invite her to your house or take her somewhere in your car and fuck her. Maybe give her a beer first. She probably won't even give you any resistance. If you're not comfortable with doing that yet because you're anxious about it or whatever, then just take her on a date and make out with her. Bring condoms just in case. If she's just being a flirt, she'll probably turn down your offer to hang out or insist that other people come along. If she agrees you're probably in…
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:08 AM
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Never say never.
/r/askTRP21/11/17 12:00 AM
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That text from her is too gay for me. Like way too gay. This chick is nuts. I'd not respond and wait until she gets in contact with you again like a month from now or whatever (she probably will, crazy ones usually do) and then re-evaluate.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:58 PM
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"Hi, I'm socially retarded." That should work. Dude, if you don't know how to have a conversation with someone you've got a long way to go. Good thing you're going to a party because you need the experience. Just do what your instincts tell you to do, you'll probably fuck up or do something awkward, and then you'll learn from it for next time.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:43 PM
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Whenever you're terribly desperate for affection, that's when you stop even thinking about women at all and go into what's called "monk mode" where you only improve yourself. You can come out of monk mode when you no longer need affection. That's when you can start gaming women.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:35 PM
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What are you talking about, chit chat or are you doing logistics? If she's giving you the runaround on your invitations I'd probably wait like 1-2 days to respond, not 45 minutes. Maybe even a week. Maybe I'd get bored and forget to respond at all. Depends on the scenario.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:31 PM
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I don't think you did all that bad actually. Except instead of "why then" I would've said "lame" or "that's no fun". Unlike most people here I'm actually not against fucking your ex, assuming you're still attracted to her sexually. So long as you're just using her for sex and you're not going to get all caught up in her frame and shit like that, it's fine. Maybe her boyfriend sucks and she wants a good dicking from you now and then. I say why not. Just don't text with her and waste your time hav…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:11 PM
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Stay with this girl for the non-sexual benefits she provides and squirt your frosting upon other cupcakes.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 10:52 PM
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This man gets it.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 09:40 PM
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She's not yours and never will be. Assume things are already over between you and her. Assume you will never fuck her again. Then find peace with that situation. Let it go. At any moment you can lose anything you thought you had — and the truth is that nothing is ever yours in the first place. All things are temporary. No matter how much you want to hold onto something, you never can. Any attempts to hold on just make that thing fade away faster. You will always be alone. Even when there's a jui…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 10:16 PM
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Him: "I threw them in the oven." You: Place hand on his shoulder like a father "That's not how mommy taught you to make friends." Smirk and walk away Then forget about it and go enjoy the party. When someone does something like that it's because they are feeling insecure and want to lash out at somebody like a rebellious teenager. The proper response is to treat them like the kid they are and teach them a lesson, like a father would.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:59 PM
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Honestly the best solution would be to find a cure for your Asperger's, and I'm being completely serious and genuine about that. There probably is a cure for it, it's just hidden from the mainstream. Similar to how RP ideas are hidden from the mainstream.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:36 PM
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Seems to me from what you've said that you're entering orbiter territory. You're not quite there yet but well on your way. The proper thing to do was when you noticed she wasn't enthusiastic about the initial invite and started to give you the runaround, you just drop her completely right there. Engage her again later at a different time, like a week later or so, and see if her mood has changed. Never invest in a woman when she doesn't show enthusiasm.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:31 PM
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The key to approaching is actually learning to let go and submit. Sound gay? Let me explain. If you are attracted to a woman you will feel a natural pull to walk into her vicinity (or if you're already near her, to talk to her). The only way to naturally approach women effortlessly is to recognize this natural pull, accept it, and give in to it. Approaching them is just a matter of letting the magnet pull you in, it's not something you do, it's something you let happen. If you find it really dif…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:00 PM
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"I'm sure that seeing her again will bring back old emotions so I'd like to have a game plan to stick to." Uh, you don't need a fucking game plan. What is this, football? Storming the beaches of Normandy? She's just a harmless girl. If she is going to make you have a panic attack just by being in the same room as you, you're fucked up and no plan is going to save you. Just treat her like you would any other girl. Hell, if you still think she's hot and would fuck her, might as well game her again…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:53 PM
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This post sounds gay as shit.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:35 PM
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Don't worry, you'll get over it.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:33 PM
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You don't small talk over text. Even when you have an LTR. Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:25 PM
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You wait until there's some chemistry going between you, as in, she is giving you signals that she's DTF, then you come up with some excuse to get into a secluded area with her, and you fuck her. If you can't do it right then, invite her out with you to something on that same night. You have to strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:57 PM
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Every woman is a slut when they get a good chance.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:45 PM
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All I see is that you had a girl interested and enthusiastic to be with you and you didn't try to fuck her. Why.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:39 PM
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The correct answer is your buddy recognized she was horny and escalated quickly. You took too long. When a girl is down to fuck she will fuck the first alpha dude who escalates on her hard. And just because she's making out with your buddy doesn't mean she won't fuck you, either. When you saw her doing that you should've joined the party and went for a threesome :)
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:36 PM
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You're going about this wrong because you're trying to think about what to do. The correct answer is to not think, but instead to feel what you want to do. Where do you want to touch her and when do you want to do it? Do you want to grab her and throw her on the bed? Do you want to get her on her knees to suck your dick? Listen to your instincts.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:32 PM
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There probably is something wrong. Healthy guys like to have sex with hot girls.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:29 PM
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No need for the "I have no interest in you." You get the message across much better by simply not responding.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:25 PM
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How can you not meet girls? They're everywhere. Especially in school. If you're not meeting girls when you're in school it's because you don't want to meet them and are actively trying to avoid doing so.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:16 PM
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Assuming by "ask her out" you mean "covertly offer to fuck her" then yes, I will do it as many times as it takes (or until I lose interest in her). If by "ask her out" you mean try to take her out on dates to become her boyfriend, then no, I don't do that.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:14 PM
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You're thinking about this all wrong. Women are either DTF right now, in the moment, or they're not. If you get the signals that she's DTF you should escalate and take her to a private location so you can fuck her. If she's not DTF then you ignore her, act aloof, string her along until a later date/time when she is DTF and then you do what I said above. You do NOT think about "why" she does things. Men do things for a reason. Women don't exist in that realm. Forget everything you thought you kne…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 05:10 PM
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"Ending things" like this is a shit test. She is not ending things. If she was ending things she would just never contact you and not respond to any of your texts. She's simply trying to make you into a beta bucks, which is a natural thing all girls do to every man who's ever slept with them (and any man who shows interest in them at all). You refused to become her beta, so you passed the shit test. She doesn't want to end things, she just wanted to check on your frame. You are still alpha fucks…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 04:58 PM
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This guy knows his shit. Listen to him, OP.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 04:42 PM
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Don't worry, you don't have to look good if your frame is strong enough. Frame is almost as important as physical appearance.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 02:05 PM
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Props for owning up to it, I respect that. I've been in a similar place to where you are. I can't help you much, as the work is yours to do. I'll just say a few words. Women can't make you feel better about yourself. Any problems you have without women will still be there with women. Women don't improve your life, so don't count on them ever making you any more content with yourself than you are when you are all alone. You are stuck with yourself, and if you want to improve your life, it will be…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:30 AM
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Do you feel like you are missing something? Only you can answer it.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:28 PM
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Agreed that there is sometimes utility in an LTR, but you still have to fuck other girls. The man's desire is to spread his seed far and wide, not to fuck only one chick over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:26 PM
3

You will never be able to talk your way into making a girl satisfied with you. Remember that. When you are OK walking through life alone, and realize she will never stay with you forever no matter what you do, you won't worry about what to say to a woman. The answer to your question is it doesn't matter, say whatever you want. It's not going to make a difference what you say. It's who you are and how you behave that really matters when it comes to what makes a woman attracted to you. Sometimes I…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 08:04 PM
5

Only you can answer that question for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 07:14 PM
0

I think you should quit porn.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:46 PM
2

The only way to fuck this girl is to not care about fucking her.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:44 PM
1

Doesn't matter, do what you want. It's fine to cum in two minutes. Just be chill and if she gets mad be like "don't worry, there's more."
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:32 PM
1

"stay safe" You don't want her getting an STD which she then gives to you, so encourage the use of condoms. She doesn't want an STD either so it's in everyone's best interest.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:28 PM
3

Yeah you can be redpill with low testosterone, meaning you can understand and agree with the things we talk about here. But you will have a HELL of a hard time putting them into practice if your testosterone isn't fairly high.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:23 PM
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You are hamstering this big time. If you want to fuck her, fuck her. If you don't, don't. Fuck another chick instead. Rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:19 PM
1

It's not oneitis if you have feelings for many different chicks at the same time. But you can still be acting needy and desperate even if you're seeing multiple women. That's an inner game problem you should work on. Fuck what society tells you you should do. Society isn't you. Society isn't going to be there for you when it's your turn to die, it's not going to take a bullet for you. It doesn't give a fuck about you and only wants to extract as much from you as it possibly can. Only you have to…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:15 PM
2

You may have to actually walk away more often, not just threaten to. Like go out and party with other women. Hell, fuck other women. That's what I'd do anyway. Figure out what works for you.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:12 PM
2

Shirtless pictures are fine, you're on tinder, you want to convey that you're sexual. Delete all of the stupid bullshit lines that you think make you seem like a bad boy. They don't, they just make you look desperate. Put your height and maybe something like "well endowed" or "fun girls only." Just be simple and to the point, no bullshit.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 04:44 PM
3

"Are there any steps I can take to help her get in line and realize her place in our family?" The alpha has options and can walk away. If she knows you have options and are more than willing to walk away, she'll get the message that you're the alpha.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 04:33 PM
10

You got mad because she wasn't into the sex with you. It hurt your ego. This tells me you use women and sex for validation of how good of a man you are. You have some soul searching to do, because you're not in a healthy place.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 04:30 PM
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Yeah, this is pretty basic TRP stuff. Physical attraction is number one. Other stuff matters also but to a lesser degree. Frame is probably almost on par with physical attraction.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 04:22 PM
8

You're using an LTR to improve your social skills. This is not something most people need to do. You're an outlier. For normal people who have good social skills, getting into a committed LTR is going to waste your time and lock you down to fucking only one girl. Not appealing.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 04:19 PM
1

You can't ignore a girl after she initiates. If she initiates you have to offer her your dick. Don't be desperate or anything, just make the offer. If she doesn't bite, no biggie. Her: hey what's up :) You: i'm killing it. Her: that's cool :) You: you should come over to celebrate.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 03:20 PM
0

Seems like you did fine, and it's OK to try again. Make sure she gets the message that you're not interested in her unless you're all up on her body getting hot and heavy. If she tries to pull the personal space thing again just lose interest and get bored, get up and go eat some food or whatever. If she asks why you're not paying attention to her tell her you don't like to waste your time, or say something softer that gets the same message across. If she doesn't get the hint tell her she can go…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 03:06 PM
2

MattyAnon gave good advice, listen to him. When it comes to "being exclusive" you have two choices. Either never agree to it (just say no when she asks), or lie and say you agree to it (chuckle and be like, "yeah, sure") but then fuck other girls anyway. Both options are good and I use both of them with success. Also, girls will always flirt with and hang out with other guys. Always. If she's fucking you and not giving you a hard time, that's all you need my dude. Let her do whatever she wants w…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:48 PM
1

This is good advice. If you're fucking a chick and she's going to be seeing other guys (she always will), you should at least make sure she's doing it safely so she doesn't put YOU at risk.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:43 PM
1

You fucking idiot. She wants to go to a secluded location (just you and her with no one watching) and get fucked by you. She doesn't want to kiss you in public so people can start to think she's cheating on her boyfriend.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:36 PM
0

I understand this situation completely because it has happened to me many times. Here's the straight up truth. Some times of the month she is horny to be fucked by an alpha (that's you) and other times of the month she wants to fuck around with betas and try to secure their commitment. When you fucked her in the hotel, she was in alpha fucks mode. When you invited her out a week later, she was in beta bucks mode. You have to let her be who she is going to be. Get good at taking her temperature t…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:23 PM
1

Yeah, you pretty much got it right. Except society kind of is tolerant of male polygamy at least somewhat. Yeah you can't get married to multiple chicks but you can set up a soft harem and that works pretty darn well if your game is on point. And for hypergamy: she wants the best male to fertilize her egg, she doesn't care who provides for it. She'll accept provisioning from almost anyone.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:16 PM
1

This girl is your friend. Treat her like a friend. Don't try to fuck her, you dumb shit. The time for that has long passed. You made her your friend, so own it. Try to fuck other chicks. If this chick wants to suck your dick one day, then let her, but otherwise just let it go and be her friend. And if you don't want to be her friend, why did you treat her like a friend in the first place? If you want to end the friendship just stop talking to her.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:13 PM
1

There's nothing you can do to keep a plate around. Get over it. In fact, you should probably do the opposite: encourage her to be free and see other guys. This way she knows you don't want to be her chat buddy and you're just somebody for her to fuck when she's horny.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:09 PM
2

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:27 PM
1

That's not out of the ordinary. Some of the time women act like bitches. It's nothing personal. Their moods change throughout the month, they aren't like men who are always feeling the same. You did the right thing to drop her off at her house. But you did the wrong thing to worry and think that something was wrong. Nothing is wrong, this is completely natural. You have to have multiple women in your life so you can hit up the ones who are in a good mood while your other women are in a pissy moo…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:17 PM
1

Unless you are somehow using your gaming hobby to earn lots of money and fuck lots of hot gaming chicks, yes you should stop. Spend all that time on something that will actually improve your life and lead to fulfillment.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:12 PM
3

Don't be angry at your dad. He taught you a lesson. He taught you what happens when a man doesn't act like a man with his women. Learn from him and do better for yourself.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:09 PM
3

Never agree to be exclusive. That was your first mistake. Do not be faithful to one woman, ever. You don't know whether she fucked someone else and you may never know. In fact, no matter what you do, you will never be able to know if a girl is sleeping with only you or with other dudes. The answer is to not even care. No girl is yours or will ever be yours. She can do whatever she wants to do. What I would do now, is still see this girl (to fuck, don't act like her beta bitch), act as if nothing…
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:04 PM
1

Either end it, or stay in it and start fucking other girls. Your call, both are good options.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:53 PM
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Her reason to be with you is to get fucked and maybe hang around a little to bask in your glory. And other than that her reason to be with you is to do stuff for you like cook and clean and all that. She doesn't need any more reason than that. Women are simple creatures, they are satisfied just to get fucked and do shit for you all the time. And when they're not satisfied with that, they can get lost until they change their mood and come back for some more dick.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:47 PM
3

"I notice it too.. I've been feeling different lately.. and it gets worse around the full moon.." Lol, don't take any of it seriously, OP. You are right to make jokes about it. They're being weird by bringing it up. But also understand that people are uncomfortable around things they don't understand. If you change too much you might scare them and cause them to start distancing themselves from you. That's OK, people change and grow apart all the time. It's a natural part of life.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:41 PM
1

OP, you have been seriously misguided. Whatever you learned about how to deal with women is wrong. How do I know this? Because you are considering what she is saying. A classic beginner mistake. You're all like.. "hmm.. she told me she wants me to lose my control sometimes.. what does she mean? what does she want? she's so mysterious and confusing.." But this isn't how you are supposed to deal with women. You are spending mental effort thinking about a woman, trying to get into her head, empathi…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:32 PM
2

Looks fine to me dude. Own it and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:11 PM
1

I think you should understand that you're not supposed to actually watch the movie, you're supposed to be playing with her body. If you understand that you won't worry about which movie to put on, you'll just pick one and then get to fucking. Or you can just 'forget' to put on a movie at all.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 09:07 PM
1

Why would you want to give her anything else besides dick?
/r/askTRP17/11/17 08:48 PM
3

You either don't respond, or you say anything in the ballpark of, "Great. Come over and celebrate." (In case you're an idiot and need this spelled out for you, you are covertly communicating that you want to fuck and if she doesn't want to, she should leave you alone).
/r/askTRP17/11/17 08:43 PM
5

If we're talking objective superiority here, 6'3 or 6'4 might not be the optimal height for survival and reproductive success on earth. It could very well be 5'11 or 5'4. There are way too many factors involved to be able to know. It's a crapshoot. And as far as what women are attracted to, they don't have a fucking clue. In western cultures they get excited about tall guys because that's what everybody else is excited about. What's actually hardwired in women isn't an attraction to tall people,…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 08:16 PM
1

Height doesn't matter as much as you think it does for getting laid. Weight is far more important than height (not being underweight or grossly overweight).
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 07:58 PM
1

I'm completely serious here: try probiotics. Either the pill/powder kind or by eating fermented foods. It works to improve your mood and increase positive thoughts.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:29 AM
0

I have news for you. In life things will happen and you will never get to find out why they happened. The only way to lose is to keep on wondering, when life doesn't owe you an explanation. The way to win is to not even wonder why in the first place. Expect that every girl will flake, not respond, fuck you one day then be totally cold the next, fuck your best friend, tell you you're ugly just to fuck with your head, cut up your dick and put it in a dumpster (ok maybe not that one), etc. Expect i…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:08 AM
4

Ask them to your house for drinks. Both of them, at the same time. :)
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:43 PM
7

What do you mean, what is there to do? Go apologize to her, buy her a couple gallons of beer, tell her you'll never stand her up again, and offer to not only be DD, but her personal taxi service whenever she wants.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:40 PM
3

Dude you have a great chick on your hands. Go fuck other girls! And bring this girl along for the ride! Have threesomes! Get your girl to find you other girls to fuck! The possibilities are endless my friend. Stop being a cuck about this and enjoy yourself you lucky bastard.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:36 PM
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Lol, I haven't had a girl tell me this yet, but if one did I'd find it totally amusing. I'd be like, "Wow that's nuts. Hey, why don't I just hire someone to rape you for real? I bet that would be even better." and I'd have a pretty gnarly smirk when I said it. I dunno man, maybe just get more rough/dominant with her in bed as a starter. See if that does the trick.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:24 PM
1

Lol, you got yourself into this OP. That's what you get for talking about kink. If you weren't ready for something like this you shouldn't have brought it up. Personally I have no clue why you aren't cool with doing it though. Is it a surprise to you that she wants to fuck Tom Brady? Like did it shock you that she wants to fuck other guys that aren't you? If a girl brought that up to me I'd be like "yeah I don't blame you, he's hot." Relevant post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7d…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 11:03 PM
1

Friends make plans to see eachother next week. Fuckbuddies say, "come over now". You tell a girl you are doing something either TODAY or TOMORROW and she should come. Do not say let's hang out next week. Today or tomorrow. She knows what that means, you're horny and want to fuck. If she responds by saying anything other than accepting your offer, don't respond to her. Repeat the process a week later. Eventually you'll either get her at a time when she's down to fuck, or she'll lose interest tota…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:53 PM
2

If your day was great, say it was great. If it wasn't great, lie and say it was great. "Great. Come join me to celebrate." "What are we celebrating?" "Me" And if you aren't in the mood to have her over to fuck, don't respond.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:22 PM
1

Fapping once a week is fine. Don't watch porn as porn will mess with your head.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:16 PM
1

If you want advice you have to use paragraphs.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:03 PM
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No girl is yours. Not even in an LTR. Your expectations of what a girl is to you are not calibrated correctly. If a girl is with you now, do not expect her to be with you one minute from now, one hour from now, one day from now, etc. As soon as you get involved with a girl, at the same exact time also end things with her in your mind. She is not yours, you are not hers. You will never "be together". You may come together temporarily sometimes, but then again you might not. It all could end at an…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 10:00 PM
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"Do I have to maintain frame with my female friends and my mother?" The more you do, the more it will benefit you. Good things come to people who maintain frame. Even if they aren't fucking you, they can still do other favors for you. Your mom can buy you shit and get your clothing dry cleaned and hemmed, your friends can set you up with parties and other females to potentially fuck.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:38 PM
2

This girl fucked you and hasn't caused you any trouble, I see no reason to harbor any ill thoughts towards her. Did you feel bad before you fucked her? If not, why do you feel bad now after you fucked her? Because you thought after she fucked you she would worship you as a god and stay by your side always and lick your balls on command?
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:35 PM
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She was on her period, that's the answer right there. Women are crazy and emotional sometimes. Just disregard it and act as if nothing happened. Keep on doing your thing, business as usual. This will happen again, by the way. And again. And again. Not just with this woman, but with every woman. Get used to it. You're not fucking up, they're just emotionally volatile creatures. My personal strategy for these situations is what I call "playing rhinoceros". Why? Because rhinos don't understand Engl…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:19 PM
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This girl was never yours, so you never lost her. In fact, no girl will ever be yours, and you will never lose a single girl because you never had them in the first place. You will always be alone. No one will ever be yours. Nobody will ever make you happy. All you have, is you. Sometimes there is a pussy hopping up and down on your dick, sometimes there isn't. Sometimes you're at a bar feeling up a girl's ass, sometimes you're not. Sometimes a chick comes crying to your door begging for forgive…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:55 PM
1

I would try something like "I'm here to work and you're distracting me, please focus." whenever she tries to chat your head off. Working with women is almost always an inconvenience and usually it's a huge pain in the ass also. Might have to just leave that job tbh.
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:42 PM
1

This woman isn't your superior, she's your co-worker, so you're not obligated to do anything for her. If you're not already saying "no" whenever she asks you to do something for her, do that. If she twists what you say, then hardly talk to her except for things that are absolutely necessary. Just do your job and tell her to do hers if she starts talking too much. If this woman was your superior, it would be a tougher situation, as you kind of have to do what bosses ask you to do. But if your fra…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 08:20 PM
2

Of course you say yes, assuming you're free that night. Otherwise give a counter offer, but remember that you should try to strike while the flame is hot if possible. This chick could easily have been on her period and feeling pissy, but now she's not and she's down to fuck. Girls have fluctuating hormones all the time and this makes them flakey, they're not like men who feel the same constantly. So you accept, but you have to get her to do something for you to show she's serious this time, like…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:58 PM
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Ask yourself, do you really want a BJ that much? If so, you have to be willing to give up the pussy and walk away in order to get the BJ. If you're willing to do that, here's what you do. Stop going down on her. Every time you see her, go for the BJ (put your dick up to her mouth). If she doesn't do it right away, fuck her a little then stop and go for the BJ. Still no? Get bored with her. And I don't mean just pretend you're bored, actually be bored with her because she's not doing what you wan…
/r/askTRP16/11/17 07:50 PM
2

I don't see why you would want to ignore my hilarious and original text game examples, but you have a good point there. In-person game makes things easier too. Lots of girls to choose from and with some practice you can pretty easily determine which of them are "on" and which aren't for that night.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 03:37 AM
2

Nah I feel you dude, I don't get butt hurt. That's kind of the whole point of my original post. Even when I get rejected I keep on going, because rejection isn't about you a lot of the time, it's about them. I didn't emphasize this in my post but when I'm running this game I'm sending these texts out to 4-5 women at the same time. I usually just check to see which ones have responded and then send out another round of invites to those ones. The ones where they haven't responded to my first text …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 03:25 AM
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It matters. It's not everything, but it matters. Their behaviour changes over the month, dude. Pay attention and you will see it, I swear to God this is so real. But there's also "the pill" to think about, which throws a wrench in things. This theory doesn't apply to women on the pill since that completely changes their hormones.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 02:58 AM
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If they don't text back at all, fuck 'em, that's just rude.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 01:50 AM
1

I used to do okay with girls but I would always get confused by them and start to question myself when they were so inconsistent. Then I understood this about them and it improved my success rate and made me feel more confident. Everything I do with women is viewed through this lens now. Women are cyclical and their hormones determine their behavior.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 12:48 AM
1

I think you're probably a smart, decent guy who's at least somewhat attractive and you get by pretty well by following the standard societal norms regarding dating and all that. I may have misjudged your beliefs, but I think you've also misjudged this subreddit. We understand love exists. But we don't think love is the end-game that should be pursued, the highest ideal to aim for, like most people today believe. Instead, most of us like to have a lot of sex, usually with multiple women. So we do…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 09:21 PM
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Why did she come to "chat and go with you to a store?" Did you just feel like you needed some emotional support or what? I'm getting mixed signals from you OP. You have a plate over for a chit chat and a bit of shopping as if the two of you were sisters and then you're pissed at her when she starts unloading her emotional word vomit on you? What did you expect? Either have her over to fuck or don't have her over. If she knows that's what you expect then she won't try to hang out with you when sh…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:51 AM
2

Don't apologize. You were wrong to ask her opinion of what she preferred, but then you were correct to hold frame afterwards. Forget this incident and put it in the past. Simply man up and start acting more alpha from now on. Be a leader and make decisions for her while asking for her input much less if at all.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:44 AM
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Uh, the competitor in you wants to go and practice fighting other battles so you can hone your skills and attain victories. The needy loser in you wants to not give up on this. Think about how you should spend your time. Should you be gaming new girls where you have a blank slate and as good a chance as any at scoring a win, or should you spend your effort on trying to convince a girl who you've basically already lost with to change her feelings and start liking you? Are you trying to convince h…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:35 AM
1

Nah, play it cool. Think for a minute. If she is going to cheat on her bf with you, she has to at least make up a story for herself that doesn't paint her as a complete slut. She can't be too enthusiastic and she needs a cover story. If you demand an answer she will have to say no or dodge the question. Instead, help her along in writing her fantasy story. "Actually I wanted to show you my new puppy he's really cute." And if she bites for that say, "He's pretty cranky during the day though so it…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 01:25 AM
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Of course you go for the lay, what are you, stupid and/or gay? "We're just sleeping this time" is her practically telling you she expects to get laid. She's setting you up perfectly here. All you have to do is smash. Congrats.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:36 AM
2

Haha, that's a classic. I don't know what to tell you dude. I think you have to follow your gut on this one. If it feels really weird and creepy to you, put a stop to it. If you can find it within yourself to let it ride and enjoy it, then let it ride. There's no wrong decision here so long as you do what's true to you. Maybe the next time she tries this shit you grab her, restrain her, and fuck her while you hold her arms behind her back. Maybe stop and ask her to beg for it. Flip the script on…
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:25 AM
2

I think you should drop her. She's monopolizing all of your time and suppressing your urge to fuck other girls. She's making you feel like she can meet all of your needs. But the truth is she can't, and you know it deep down. You have to understand opportunity cost. She might be a decent girl to have around, but not at the cost of all the other girls you're missing out on by giving this one girl all of your sexual energy. Let her go, be free.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 12:06 AM
1

I don't think books help much with anxiety. Anxiety comes from your body being fucked up. Maybe try yoga or taking some magnesium or something. Some people do alright with prescription drugs.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:50 PM
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Ghost and forget about her. Improve yourself and game other girls. Maybe one day this girl will come around but probably not.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:47 PM
2

I guess you could be right and she's a crazy murderous bitch. Very unlikely though, and also hard to tell that just from OP's post. He'll have to use his best judgement.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:38 PM
2

The workplace is a tough subject my guy. I think every dude struggles with that at least a little. I think it's OK to flirt at work but do it in kind of a dismissive, "you can't have me" way, and don't escalate things. It's not worth losing your job over some pussy, unless you want to lose your job already, then go for it.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:36 PM
1

Yeah she sounds a little wacky. Good plan to let it simmer. I think you got her hamster spinning at least a little. Wait until she corrects her mistake and tries to enter your frame again. In the meantime consider her a write-off and game other girls.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 10:33 PM
2

"How do I effectively turn this girl into a GF in the most red pill manner possible?" You keep sleeping with her and eventually she will ask YOU for exclusivity. If she doesn't ask for exclusivity, you just keep fucking her and enjoy it.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:38 AM
12

The super upfront game will only work instantly on new girls if you're really hot or have major social proof. If you're pretty average you will need to use your dominance, charisma, and outcome independence to get them attracted, which takes a little more time. But in the end, you shouldn't put a lot of time and effort into any one girl. Keep it in the back of your mind that you're trying to put in the least effort possible while also keeping her engaged. Treat it like a game. If you go too aloo…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:32 AM
4

What the fuck is wrong with you, my young dude? Should you buy her something? No, you should not. This little bitch hasn't even put out yet and she's already got you considering giving her gifts! It's fine to acknowledge that it's her birthday and it's also fine not to. It doesn't matter either way, just don't make a big deal out of it. If you wanted, you could tell her she should come out with you to do _____ to celebrate her birthday. Fill in the blank with some cool activity you'd like to do.…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:08 AM
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If you're not interested in other girls, you're fucked. What if she dies tomorrow? I guess you'll go without sex forever, since the only girl you're interested in fucking is now dead. Stop lying to yourself. You're just hoping this girl will sleep with you if you commit to her and tell her you love her. That's not how it works pal. Read up on the basics of TRP. Read the sidebar. By the way, dating a girl for months without having any sex is a huge rookie mistake.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:50 AM
3

No your reaction wasn't the best, it was pretty bad. But if this was your first time getting rejected like that then it's no big deal dude. That exact scenario has happened to me like 10 times, and the first time it happened I didn't do much better than you (I didn't leave but I was still really awkward). Now when I get rejected during a kiss I just find it amusing. I usually say something which is objectively true yet still maintains a solid frame, like "That was pretty forward of me." and smil…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:37 AM
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The only time to say "I love you" is when you're fucking her and she says it first. Then you can say, "I love you too babe." But other than that, forget it. Some guys can get away with saying it other times, but from the way it sounds, you are not one of those guys yet. Don't do it. What you should do is continue seeing this girl but stop taking it so seriously and also try to start seeing other girls at the same time.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:23 AM
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Tell him to go fuck himself, you'll do what you want. And then do it. If you're a legal adult where you live, he can't force you to do anything.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:20 AM
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This one is simple my dude. You leave it up to fate. You tell her you're moving out there on your own, you don't want anyone living with you, and she can do what she wants. She'll ask you "but if I come can we still see each other?" and you say the truth, which I'm guessing is "yeah, sure, but I'm not promising anything." And then you stop talking about it and go do what you said you were going to do. If she keeps pestering you, you tell her you don't want to talk about it any further. If she pe…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:16 AM
1

First try telling her to stop contacting you, if you want to get in touch with her you will reach out. If she keeps pestering you after that, just stop replying to her messages. If she shows up on your doorstep one day, tell her to go home and shut the door in her face. If she breaks into your house, call the cops. Why do I have to spell this simple shit out for you?
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:08 AM
5

Get roommates. Live in somebody's shitty basement. Get away from your parents and start proving to yourself that you can take care of your own goddamn life you sack of shit. You're 27 years old. Time to become a man. Forget about fucking women, you need to take care of yourself first.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:46 AM
10

Maybe they're not actively being hoes but they still dream of fucking Chads and will do so when they get a good chance. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 01:42 AM
5

If you put it that way, the answer can only be hell yes.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:21 AM
1

Uh, the only way ANY man views any woman who is remotely attractive is through a sexual lens. You are doing it right my friend. In fact, you should probably sexualize women MORE than you currently are. You WANT her to pick up on the fact that you see her as a sexual object. If she's really old or ugly just pretend she's a beta man and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:14 AM
2

"Sure, actually let's make it two months. Mark your calendar." Then let it go until she picks it up when she's ready to stop being flakey. The key is to amuse yourself and make it clear that she's being ridiculous. And in the meantime forget her and game other girls, of course.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 01:02 AM
6

Either move out and get a job or finish your degree and then move out and get a job. Stop fucking suckling from mommy's teat (assuming you're living at home, if not then disregard that part). And with the girl, yeah maybe you're not going to fuck her but you don't have to be a bitch and sit there all embarassed about it. Straight up tell her that you think your parents only invited her over because they wanted the two of you to hook up. Ask her how she feels about being set up like that. At leas…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:52 AM
17

Sounds like a good plan. She cooks for you, you fuck, you leave with your belly full and your balls empty.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:40 AM
11

If you think you have to "not be a dick" then you're going about this all wrong. Nobody cares if you're a dick. And anybody who actually has self-respect doesn't care if THEY act like a dick sometimes. Being a dick sometimes is a normal part of life. Everyone does it. That doesn't mean you just cuss people out for no reason like a nutter. It means you say what you want to say, the truth, and if it's harsh you say it anyway and let it ride. Bottom line, you need to become OK with being a dick.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:35 AM
4

Congrats, you are entering the big boy world. In this world you have to actually prove that you deserve to be a big boy by fending off other dudes and deflecting shit from women. When you're a little beta bitch pussy boy, nobody even bothers to test you because they know you're so weak that you'll just cave immediately and probably cry. When you start to become somebody with a backbone, people begin to test you. That's life. You either pass the tests or you get shoved back down into being a bitc…
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:16 AM
1

You have to decide what you want to do with your job. If you like your job, stay at it and ignore this bitch and go slay some other pussy. If you don't like your job, find a new job. Whether you fuck her or not isn't important. More important is you having a job that you're satisfied with.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:07 AM
16

No, don't ask that. You should not be trying to enter a relationship. And it sounds like you haven't even hung out with this chick at all in person. That would be the first step. Invite her out to something. "Hey I'm going to do x on Friday, you should come."
/r/askTRP13/11/17 12:02 AM
2

Just wait a few days then be like "I'm gonna do x tomorrow you should come over." or whatever lame ass excuse, it doesn't fucking matter. Bitches don't care, just give her a reason to come see you. If she really wanted to get laid but fucked it up by getting wasted, she will want to make it up to you. Either she'll come over or she'll try to set up another time. And bonus points if you make her do something for you to make up for her fuck-up. And if not, whatever. I hope you don't care about thi…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:47 PM
1

I think you just need to continue where you left off. Have her come to your place, set the mood, and then fuck her. You almost did it anyway. She probably knows that you expect her to give up the pussy. Inviting her out to lunch is too slow for my tastes. What do you want to do, fuck her or feed her? And yeah, don't get really drunk yourself, and if the chick you're gaming is getting drunk either find a way to put a stop to it or find another chick for the night. A little alchohol to get buzzed …
/r/askTRP12/11/17 10:42 PM
3

You get the women to pleasure each other. Have them touching and kissing each other constantly while you switch between pounding each of them in turn. Or fuck one chick while she eats out the other. Or finger both chicks while chick1 sucks you off and chick 2 licks your balls or asshole. The possibilities are endless. Not only does it keep the women engaged, but it's a hotter experience for you as well.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:48 PM
1

Not a big deal at all. Being short is a minor weakness overall. Unless you're REALLY short, like midget status, then it becomes a larger weakness (yet still you can overcome it). Everybody has weaknesses, you aren't the only person in the world with a problem just because you're short. Stop thinking you're special. You can overcome shortness by being attractive in other areas, just like you can overcome any minor weakness you have by being strong overall. For reference, I'm 5'6" and I've had suc…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:38 PM
1

LTRs can be useful to maintain a certain appearance of you being a stand-up citizen while you continue to sleep around with reckless abandon in secret (secret to the general public, it may or may not be fine to let your LTR know). Anyone who gets into an LTR because they really want to commit to this one girl is a doofus who needs to wake up.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 06:03 PM
8

Yeah, the key here is "barring changes by them". But you can at least try to help out your beta buddies by giving them little bits of advice here and there. Don't full out talk TRP with them, but push them in the right direction. Some of them might be receptive to it. The ones who continue to be beta bitches and insist on ruining your flow will have to be cut out of your life or at least demoted to acquaintance.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 04:01 PM
2

It's a beta trait to fix her shit. You can fix your own stuff all you want.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 09:11 PM
2

You're on the right track for sure and maybe you 'get it'. The key is that sometimes getting laid isn't worth doing certain shit. Sometimes you'll do something just to get laid (and you succeed) and then the girl puts you in that category of "guy who will do x to get laid and I can manipulate him because of it". It's important for dudes to remember that it's not "pussy at any cost", it's "pussy only if it's convenient for you and on your terms."
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:40 PM
0

Sounds gay to me. "I'm gonna do x, and it's cool for you to come."
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:35 PM
1

That's just common courtesy and is fine because you're not doing it to try to get a woman to like you. But if you ever find yourself seeing a hottie and getting the urge to hold the door as a favor to get in her good graces, you've gone wrong and need to check yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:24 PM
2

Seems like a beta gesture to me, no matter what you write on the card. If I was a woman I'd be like, "Ok yeah he wrote I'm annoying on the card but he still went to the trouble of buying flowers for me. I must really be on his mind all the time or something."
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:19 PM
2

These tips are mostly for guys who are really struggling with neediness, in which case they are valuable. For guys who already 'get it' you can pretty much say anything.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:12 PM
2

If you're hot enough or dominant enough it doesn't matter what you say, but these tips do help guys who are pretty average.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:09 PM
2

You're still blue pilled my friend. That cheesy, lovey dovey shit is not part of what makes us human. You have been sold a lie of how you are supposed to behave, but it's not the real deal. Sorry to break it to ya buddy.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:07 PM
2

Having "manly skills" like being able to fix stuff makes you attractive as a beta utility provider. The only skill you need if you want to be attractive as a dick-provider is social dominance.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:03 PM
1

I absolutely would not do that because it's fucking stupid. I'm not going to do shit for some woman who wants me to be her bitch. Like what am I going to say, "Yeah sure I'll come change your tire without any guarantee that I'll get anything out of it. I just have nothing better to do than fix your problems for you and possibly not gain from it in any way. That's my idea of a good time." She can get one of her betas to do that or she can pay someone to do it.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 08:00 PM
2

Yeah but you had to set up her bed for her. That's fucking gay. If she was hot I would probably come over, not touch the canopy because fuck that, and then ask what the REAL reason she wanted me over for is, with a smirk.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 07:55 PM
1

I'm trying to understand what you gained by ratting this girl out to Bevan. Did you not think you could get anything more out of your relationship with her and wanted to end things with a bang? Did you hope to make Bevan indebted to you and thus gain something from him in the future? Did the german chick just piss you off so you wanted to punish her? Because from what you've said it doesn't seem like you got anything out of this.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 06:59 PM
5

You respond the same way you respond to any woman saying anything to you. Say something silly and fuck around. "You seem like you're naive." "What?! why?" "Because you think I'm nice." Then change subject to something dumb iike the weather and let her hamster run.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:59 AM
2

This is a whole lot of unnecessary thinking. All you have to do is not take anything women say seriously and use them for your own pleasure. Problem solved. This is school playground 101 stuff.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:03 AM
24

Hey dude, remember that girls want guys for two things: AF and BB. You have to decide which one you want to be. Assuming you want to be AF, you should have escalated as much as possible on the first date and not stopped until she stopped you, and even in that case, take a short break and keep trying a few more times (in a playful way). If you want to be BB for a woman, you should keep doing exactly what you did here. Take things slow, pay the check, go on multiple dates where you don't talk in a…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:19 AM
12

That tip is the bomb. When's the last time anyone took the time to type out a long emotional text when a 9 was licking their balls.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 12:01 AM
14

Hey dude I don't think you did all that bad. The girl had fun and was probably receptive to fucking you. Even though you didn't pull the trigger, that's still an accomplishment. Some guys struggle to get a girl attracted at all. A few more experiences like that and I bet you'll end up getting the lay. My question for you is kind of a deep one: are you treating this whole dating thing as a game where you have to make the right moves in order to fuck the girl, or are you treating it as your life i…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 11:53 PM
1

If you don't want your daughter to leave because you think you do just as good or better of a job than the mother, tell your daughter no when she asks to see mommy. If you think your daughter is right to want to leave (as in mommy is really the person she needs to be with at the time and not you), then just let her go, be satisfied you did the right thing, and move on with your life. Bottom line, just do whatever your gut tells you is right and then stop worrying. If you "lose" your daughter the…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:34 PM
12

This kind of thing doesn't bother me. Men will never stop touching women. Women will never stop liking it some of the time and not liking it the rest of the time. All of this fuss about it is just noise.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:07 PM
3

Those women aren't on my radar. I'm only attracted to feminine women. If you want to venture into the hag headquarters then you're on your own. Most of them are mentally ill. There are a few rare cases who are healthy and naturally masculine, but if someone acts like a man and looks like a man, I treat them like a man. There are some women who are feminine but have been brainwashed to speak the feminist lingo. Those ones I will engage with if they don't give me too much shit. Most of them will c…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 06:16 PM
9

"And wow, women are insecure but they put up a really good show of not showing it." They don't seem insecure to pussyboys who can barely talk to them without shaking in their boots. Security is relative. If you are secure in yourself and your life the way a proper man ought to be, women will seem insecure to you. If you are a little bitch who can't handle his own shit, then attractive women will seem secure and put together to you. If you still don't believe me, imagine what would happen in the …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 04:47 PM
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It's not that they NEED drama in their lives, it's that their lives simply ARE filled with drama and they can't do much about it. Women are more insecure than men as a general rule. Insecurity breeds drama. The only way to make a woman more secure and thus less dramatic is to be very secure yourself and let your strong frame overpower hers. This way some of your security will rub off on her. But it's only second-hand security. As soon as you leave or if your frame becomes weaker than hers, her i…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:54 PM
5

Definitely don't take them seriously unless it's an old woman well past menopause who has a husky voice and acts like a man.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:28 PM
6

Yes, I am saying that. There is more to it than estrogen and testosterone, but those two are the strongest factors.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:21 PM
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Take a man and pump him full of estrogen and he will more or less act like a woman. Take a woman and pump her full of testosterone and she will more or less act like a man. It's all in the biochemistry.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:14 PM
11

Ok, you fucked up and you acknowledged it. Now the best you can do is to stay stoic and aloof, act like normal, and see if you get a second chance to fix your mistake. If not, forget her and move on. If you're getting girls giving their number to you unsolicited you're going to be just fine.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 02:17 PM
3

This is true and anyone who follows this advice religiously is a wise man and will accomplish great things. I follow a lot of taoist teachings and "following your gut" is very similar to what the taoists teach about "following the Way" and "effortless action". Whatever comes naturally to you in the moment, without putting any conscious effort in, is the right decision. If you hesitate and begin to analyze, you have already gone astray.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 10:07 PM
1

Your wife just sounds crazy to me. I don't think all women are like that. They all shit test, don't get me wrong. But yours just seems like she's less than human, like she can't do basic things correctly that all healthy humans can do. Lol, sounds harsh, but yeah that's what I got from this. Maybe she needs to work less because she's getting stressed out by it?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 09:47 PM
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