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It was for me. I didnt even consider being with someone until at least a year after my divorce. After that, the zipper was down often. It still brought back some bad memories, but man was it a wild time.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 02:08 PM
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18 months.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 11:06 AM
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The item that hit home with me was s1e3 of Black Mirror. The cheating episode. Had me bawling. Marriage Story was also good.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/20 02:15 PM
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I learned this in my divorce. I got a lot of stocks when my gparents passed. I was worried that she would be able to take them and was relieved to find they were safe due to the inheritance laws.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/20 01:50 PM
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Sorry man, I know how you feel. Mine didn't happen on the holidays but I was only married for a year-and-a-half also. Total 4. Ended up leaving and sleeping with her AP same night we had an argument. That same day she ended up moving out and living with him. I know how bad those 1st holidays can be but take care of yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/19 03:58 AM
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I really want to...eventually. But I need to finish healing or find someone that will let me be me while I heal, with them.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/19 10:06 PM
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I truly tried after the first couple months of her leaving. But for me I was so emotionally attached to her still that I couldn't bare "cheating" on her. I ended up ghosting the girl I was sleeping with. She ended up understanding and we eventually hooked up several months later. Took me a while to actually get used to it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/19 10:30 PM
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I kicked her out. Her name wasnt on the title, thank God! Everything she had was on the street. That's what you get for cheating.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/19 09:53 PM
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I unfortunately wish my wife was doing this. Wish she had some feelings for me still. I still miss and love her too much after what she did to me. I know it hurts but stick to it. If there's a reason why you guys are splitting then keep it. Or both of you get into counseling and try to fix it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/18 11:39 PM
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If you guys have already agreed on assets and how everything will be divided, hire a lawyer to draw up papers for a Mutual Separation Agreement. Once you guys sign it, then divorce, at least in my state can be fine right away. This only cost me $600.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/18 05:13 PM
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I like how you are thinking about this. I may hang mine up also until I met someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/18 03:14 AM
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I'm probably going to sell mine as I paid $600 for a platinum band. Sad I can't get the diamond ring or diamond earrings back that I have her at the wedding.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/18 03:13 AM
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This sounds exactly like my STBEW. She's never been alone. Had gone from guy to guy to live with. She's already living with the new guy she cheated on me with.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/18 07:47 PM
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You're very much welcome. If you have anymore questions feel free to ask.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/18 11:59 AM
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So far, legal wise, it's cost me $750. $150 wasted on a counseling session, $600 on a lawyer to write up a Mutual Separation Agreement which had yet to be signed. Then there's the $443 I don't for junk haul to take away all her possessions she couldn't for in her new guys place.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/18 11:56 PM
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I can't tell you how long it's going to take to feel normal. My event only happened 3 months ago. I still feel like absolute shit. we still have not even signed our mutual separation agreement because she wanted to do an ultimatum on me. I ended up doing one back but we're still waiting to sign it. Anything that has to do with her in my life gives me horrible anxiety right now. I've never had anxiety issues before until now. But it is going to be scary it's going to be painful and it's going to …
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/18 03:34 PM
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Try checking out the local meetup.com groups in your area. There's always a ton, or start your own. Learn to do things you didnt do before. Take yourself out of your comfort zone. My wife has mental issues and fled relationships when they got tough for her. Two men before me she was engaged. She has always depended on men and has never lived alone since she was in college. We were together for four years, married a year and a half. She ended up started a relationship up with a 55 year old man wh…
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/18 01:47 PM
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I know how you're feeling man. My wife cheated on me too. She's a Serial relationship ruiner. She found other guys before relationships ended when it got tough. I'm just the first one that happened to be married to her. So I know exactly how you feel. We've only been apart for three months now. But as they said get a lawyer, list your assets, and start to get help for yourself. Whether this is therapy or just finding something to do to keep your mind off of this. Go out and make some new friends…
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/18 06:56 AM
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That was me also. I lived for her. We were in the midst of trying to move up to Vermont and get new jobs. I keep thanking to the heavens we didn't now.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/18 10:37 PM
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I'm in your shoes right now. Two and a half months ago my wife of a year and a half up and left when I confronted her about a relationship with an older man (55) we both new. She mentally snapped, left our house, cheated on me with him, now lives with him, and never came home. She was my world. I lived for her. My life and my meaning had been to make her happy, which made me happy. She refused to work on our marriage and wanted to split up instead of putting effort into our marriage. I've been l…
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/18 09:00 PM
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