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There are gendered patterns to behavior, but somehow those real differences are never the things you see people complaining about online. It's all "Men/women cheat, men/women lie, men/women have inflated egos." Like, yeah, no kidding Becky/Kyle! Men/women bleed red too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:42 PM
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I think that this is indisputable IF you take into account the traits that men typically value in a mate, like youth, beauty, and extraversion. Men will always try to date women who are younger, hotter, and more sociable than they are (And if she's rich and famous, all the better.) Yet somehow this doesn't count as hypergamy (by the already warped definition used by the manosphere) because socioeconomic status is less important to men? Bullshit. Everyone wants to "date up." Doing so just means d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:34 PM
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To sane people, what you are saying is obviously true. To the male denizens of ppd, getting raped is nbd unless you are either a virginal 12 year old or a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 01:33 PM
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If she is "kept," then that's kidnapping and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 01:20 PM
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It seems to me that the Catholic girl would have much greater motive to lie in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 01:17 PM
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This post sure is full of emotional language. "Vile," "repulsive," "abuser," "whore." I think that you're letting your feelers get in the way of logic a bit. Even putting aside factors that would make a camgirl based economy unfeasible, what exactly makes you think that women who engage in this brand of sex work are undatable? Undateable to you maybe, but to all men everywhere? Are you SURE? Also, if camgirls are smart, they will take pains to protect their privacy and anonymity. How will Sally …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 08:31 PM
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Girls don’t typically sleep with a new person for every party they attend. They COULD, but they don’t. Even “slutty” college girls usually just keep a few fwbs in rotation. It’s safer, more efficient, and more enjoyable. Seeking out new partners is a crapshoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 04:43 AM
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As a bona-fide American college slut, I have a difficult time believing this. Where would you find the time? Why would you constantly seek new partners instead of just keeping a small rotating stable? I feel like all this "The average American girl sleeps with 3 BILLION MEN A YEAR" nonsense is just men projecting what THEY would do if they had the sexual access of an attractive woman, not what women actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 06:06 PM
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When women talk about men being immoral with their sexuality they're talking about, like, gang rape. Who gives a shit if liberal women date trump supporters? Who is being hurt by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:48 PM
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Henry Cavill has all the sexuality of a wet potato chip
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:38 PM
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Yes they do lol. Americans are just louder about EVERYTHING, including sex. I can't speak to ALL of Europe, but (metropolitan) Scandinavians and Dutch people are slutty af and look good doing it. They just don't shout it from the rooftops.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:01 PM
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It wouldn't be the worst thing it the world, but why does this trad lad want to marry me of all people? You'd think he could find someone with a compatible mindset if he's so attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:22 PM
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Because men will have sex with anything that moves, with very few repercussions even if the interaction goes tits up. Women have to be pickier for both biological and social reasons, and female celebrities doubly so since their lives are so public.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:22 PM
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I applaud single parents for their hard work and dedication, but I'm not ready to be a step mom. I can barely keep my houseplants alive!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:15 PM
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Yes, I do. You’re making a judgement about the inherent capability of women as a group, due to biological factors that may not even exist. All you actually know is that less women create successful startups. You don’t know the cause of this disparity, but you are choosing to blame it on some ill defined inherent property of woman-ness. And if you then acted on that belief by being less likely to patronize or work with startups run by women, or being less likely to hire women to your own startup,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 02:36 PM
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Yes they do lol. Feminism in its most barebones form is just the belief that women are people, to the same extent that men are people. Many conservative men do not believe this. They see women as less intelligent, less autonomous, and less deserving of consideration than men. Some don’t even see women as fully human, more like robots or animals. Of course #notallconservatives, but enough of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:13 PM
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It's no more the apex fallacy than saying that women are sometimes gold diggers lol. Yes, not all men can monkey branch, but plenty can and some do. Regular men, who work a 9-5 and have regular social circles where they meet regular women. The majority of men aren't incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:55 AM
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Thanks for the sources! This is something I’ve noticed anecdotally but it’s good to see it written and recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:14 PM
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Men absolutely branch lol, and not just the mythical Chad. Being someone who doesn’t date men tends to give one a rosy view of men’s behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:10 PM
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Selfish people are everywhere, but in general women are less narcissistic than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:03 PM
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Tomi Lauren is a crazy person. Of course she thinks that being hot and conservative is all you need to be “high value,” she built a career on that and only that. And since she panders to men who look down on women, I’m not sure why she’s surprised that those men don’t treat her and her friends well when they date them. They all deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:01 PM
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I think it’s subjective, but personally I find that of the small number of people who look good over age 45, most of those people are men. Something to do with skin elasticity maybe. However my boss just turned 50 and she straight up is hotter than me despite being twice my age and smoking and drinking, so ymmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 01:48 PM
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It doesn’t affect my opinion of him at all really. Crying is a normal human response to heightened emotions. My partner isn’t a particularly weepy person but he sometimes cries when I cry, kind of like how yawning is contagious I guess? It would never occur to me to see him as weak because of it, it’s just an empathetic response. I actually appreciate it lol, it makes me feel seen, emotionally speaking. The few times I’ve seen him cry from grief or stress Ive been happy to comfort him in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 08:01 PM
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And you're saying that my sarcastic reply, to a comment that you couldn't have read because it got removed, fits that model because..?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:42 PM
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Mammals are not all the same lol. What you describe as typical for all mammals really only applies to a small number of polygynous social mammals, like lions and gorillas. Our closest relatives in the animal kingdom, chimpanzees and bonobos, switch partners frequently and have sex for both social and reproductive reasons. High status chimp and bonobo males might get more female attention, but they don't get EXCLUSIVE access, nor do they get territorial over them unless a particular female is in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:27 PM
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Enjoy the herpes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:47 PM
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Condom use is extremely important. The idea of only wrapping it up for uggos (who you're sleeping with why??) is baffling. The whole point of condoms is to protect against STDs! If anything I'd be MORE wary of the microbiome that a hot dude is carrying around on his dick. Even with an LTR I would expect myself and my partner to be tested common STDs and to have both had the HPV vaccine before taking that plunge. And EVEN THEN, as I just learned, you can still get other strains of HPV that the va…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:42 PM
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Darvo?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 02:19 PM
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Not getting to indiscriminately spout garbage in one single reddit forum isn’t hurting you, you goddamn drama queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:21 PM
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Only if they talk like incels. If they gain the ability to hold normal discussions without letting their incelness leak through, I’d say they’re ahead of the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:17 PM
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Op is talking about old dudes misrepresenting themselves on OLD, not young dudes losing out to old dudes IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:43 AM
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Lol. Sure dude, only white men know real oppression. How could I have been so blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 05:42 AM
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Lol you must be trolling. Young men aren’t complaining? Are you SURE about that, with the dozens of subreddits literally dedicated to young men bemoaning their lack of success? Anyways, count me in as another youngster agreeing with op: Old men should stay in their lanes. The few young girls who want them can seek them out. Leave the rest of us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:55 AM
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Women know from the time we are children that certain people hate us just for being women. And it’s not like “other groups” have just sucked it up either. There would be no Black/LGBT/disability rights movements if that was the case. Feminism isn’t unique: No one wants to be treated like shit for immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:43 AM
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Once again: Not about me. Not relevant to my situation at all. But have fun with the vast selection of bodacious babes you apparently have throwing themselves at your feet 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:54 PM
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Seems like you’re the delusional one here. Willfully so too, since men on this very forum talk all the time about how they don’t want to commit to “sluts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 08:37 PM
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Why do you assume this is about me? What “incel tactics?” No man HAS to settle for anything, but they frequently do because a woman who is discerning about who she sleeps with seems like a better investment. You can yell and stomp your feet all you want, it doesn’t change the fact that this is something many men care about. Personally I think that women (and men) should be allowed to sleep with potential partners as early or late as they’d like, but I don’t delude myself into thinking that this …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:29 AM
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I became less attractive to the men I wanted to be with lol. They were looking for a partner, but I convinced myself that they were actually looking for a subordinate and that I needed to fill that role to be wanted. I didn’t find an actual fulfilling relationship until I stopped putting up a pretense of ideal femininity and let my natural impulses guide me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:11 AM
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Hard to get is hard to want? Tell that to the incels! They can’t seem to shut up about it. The simple fact that “gutter tramps” are able to charge money for sex shows that it is indeed a luxury. I suppose you are correct that it’s not a Veblen good in every circumstance, but it certainly is from the women that men actually want to get with and stay with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:06 AM
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“Target” meaning “person you want to get with.” It’s gender neutral: Playing hard to get works for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:01 AM
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Well, I’ve never been in this position, but I have been in the position of having a popular guy who looked down his nose at me in high school approach me years later when I revisited my hometown. It felt good, but I didn’t accept his advances. The crazy thing is that I didn’t even get hotter or anything, I was just not beholden to the hierarchy of social status that determines who you can talk to in high school and suddenly I was a different person in his eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:00 AM
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Yes they do? r/Vindicta is their “sister sub” and it’s all about looksmaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:47 AM
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Sex is a Veblen good. Seriously. The harder you make it to get into your pants (While still allowing for the possibility) the more your target will want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:43 AM
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Mark Manson is a PUA, but a pretty benign one. His advice is targeted at men but good for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:40 AM
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FDS is annoying and transphobic, but the core advice of being on your guard and aware of your own value is genuinely good. RPW on the other hand is nothing. It holds the distinction of being the only advice sub for women that will actually make them less attractive if they follow it. Trust me: I tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:37 AM
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Haha ok dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:49 AM
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This kind of thinking is completely useless for an individual woman. People should do what feels right and what is best for them. It is ridiculous to insist that a woman must forever sleep with men before she is ready just because she’s done it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:44 AM
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Reading philosophy is cool and all, but if you’ve worked your way through the western canon and come away with MORE certainty rather than less, you‘re probably doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:38 AM
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Lol at the idea that conservative women don’t medicate... self or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:32 AM
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Maybe 5/20? Could be higher or lower depending on location. At the end of the day though the modern world makes people anxious. Women may be slightly more prone to it than men for any number of reasons, but overall it is a 21st century first world problem, not a woman problem. Medication is one way to deal with it, and tbh it’s probably a better way than chronically using other substances without a dr’s supervision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 05:28 AM
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It’s because they’re weird, old, ugly, or all three. Just like every self proclaimed red pill guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:24 AM
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You don’t think men are ever lazy, thoughtless, and selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:15 AM
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Ashley Madison and other affair seeking platforms are massively male dominated, so I don’t think that this proves much except that that particular sub is popular with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 04:01 AM
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God forbid people eat and laugh lmao. But really when I think of feminine hobbies I think of things like... playing the ukulele, baking, and doll making (all things that my very girly sister likes to do.) These are creative, skill based endeavors, just not ones that most men would find particularly interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:52 PM
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No one who is fun to be around unironically describes themself as “incredibly intelligent and articulate,“ even if they are. Look in the mirror, and have a slice of humble pie while you’re at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 03:44 PM
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They shouldnt. Be a dick if you want. Don’t expect women to be nice back, but if you’re comfortable having women be equally mean to you, go nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 10:20 PM
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Good for you I guess, but that isnt a universal experience. Not all men feel that way, and plenty of men have no issues with forming professional and social relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 10:13 PM
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I'm not talking about drinks with the girls though, I'm mostly talking about working and academic relationships. These are the ones that shape society as discussed in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:24 PM
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No dude I read your op, I just disagree. I’m putting aside the whole “men build society!!!1” thing, and focusing on the fact that your premise (“Men would not associate with women at all if their attraction didn’t compel them to”) is a nonstarter. And so far you haven’t really given it an adequate defense. Again: In real life, men are happy to associate with women when thirst is removed from the picture. The men who seem most unhappy about having to associate with women are a subset of straight …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:26 PM
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How many gay men do you know lol? The top/bottom dichotomy is not as extreme as all that. Men are men. It's true that some men are more effeminate or gender fluid than others, but I've never noticed a correlation between masculinity and misogyny in the gay community. The kind of intense distain for women that you see in the manosphere (and by extension, your op) is almost entirely the domain of straight men... Who are by definition the most thirsty for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:05 AM
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The fact that gay men happily associate with and befriend women pretty much disproves this out of the gate. I actually think that men would like women MORE without the burden of unmatched sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:55 PM
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Again, says who? Do you have any source for this claim besides the word of a few men on the internet, who are probably overrating themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 10:54 PM
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Says who? This myth of women overrating their attractiveness compared to men is constantly parroted by chronically rejected men who want to feel better about their dating woes. Or perhaps by men who only observe women’s behavior online. But it has no grounding in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:57 PM
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No. We both have slept around a little bit and found the experience wanting, which is for the best imo. I’m not sure how I’d react to a partner with way more or way less experience, but I don’t think it would bother me all else being equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:45 PM
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Obesity is a dealbreaker for me, but a bit of a gut is fine and expected on anyone over the age of 25. Many of my male friends are on the chubby side and they’re all married or partnered so clearly it’s not a huge deal for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:39 PM
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It’s ppd, not the larger world. Almost everyone here is red pill or red pill adjacent, even the women. Bringing up lefty talking points here is like talking to a brick wall, so no one bothers. Irl attitudes are very different, depending on where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 04:33 PM
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Great answer, great username
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:44 PM
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The whole point of these stories is to be a fantasy for the female readers. It’s not the pseudo-sexual assault that’s the main fantasy, it’s the hot, slightly wild male protagonist going over the top to win the female protagonist’s affection. Actual sexual assault by a man who the female audience wouldn’t want to get with defeats the entire purpose. And if male audiences want that kind of thing, then guess what, you have tons of it in the form of mainstream porn. Yay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:34 PM
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I mean, I’m a pretty good cook but my car interior still looks likes ass. Might not be the best metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 04:58 AM
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The real kicker is that politeness signals and attraction signals can often be the exact same action, but slightly modified. Polite eye contact and flirty eye contact are both eye contact, but flirty eye contact is slightly prolonged, and may come with some auxiliary head tilts or side-eyes. Personally though I stick to the tried and true method of getting really nervous, making terrible jokes, getting embarrassed, and then never speaking to him again. Foolproof 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:17 PM
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I’m well aware of the halo effect- I benefit from it every day. And I notice that it goes away when I dress down or look tired. You’re crazy if you think it’s only chiseled chads that experience a boost in social status based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:36 AM
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Maybe if you spent more time reading books and going to the gym and less time spamming the same 3 sentences about this topic on PPD, you would be able to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:33 AM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:45 PM
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wee oo wee oo this is the police, you’re under arrest for Beer Crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:42 PM
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I decided long ago that whether or not I take my spouse’s last name will be largely based on how lame or cool it sounds. My current partner’s last name is kinda fun because it’s a common Arabic name, but he has no Arabic ancestry whatsoever and is as white and blond as they come. That slight incongruity might push it into the “cool” side of the lame-cool spectrum, but we’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 08:41 PM
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Do you know what “circumstantial evidence” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:46 PM
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You’re really proving the opposite point to what you think you’re proving. Carol Baskin isn’t even a suspect in her husband’s disappearance- The only evidence against her is circumstantial. Yet “Carol Baskin killed her husband“ is still this huge meme, and has caused her to be harassed, threatened, and stalked since the docuseries came out. Whereas OJ had enormous amounts of physical evidence against him, basically confessed to the murders in a book, and STILL got acquitted in criminal court and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 03:38 AM
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5’6 is short, but it’s not THAT short. Guys in that size range can still compensate with other things that make them attractive and likable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:11 PM
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Are you even reading what I’m writing? I, and all the women my parter has boned before me, are living proof that it’s only “some.” If you’re getting turned down 100% of the time, it’s not because 100% of women turn down short men, it’s because you are 100% unattractive in ways besides your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 03:08 AM
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I think you underestimate how important w/h ratio is to men’s primal attraction lol. And sure, some woman somewhere might turn a man down for his height, but clearly there are women out there who, similarly, dgaf. I’m hardly unique in my height ambivalence- my bf has slept with more women than I have men. And I doubt he was wearing lifts the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:48 AM
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You mean the significantly below average short guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:13 AM
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“uS iNcEls” lol. Actually, you’re right in a way- I (And at least some other women) care about height the same way that most men care about a good waist/hip ratio. It is one (1) attractive trait. It’s just not the ONLY attractive trait, or even the most important one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:12 AM
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Yes? It happens lol. And again, I “ended up” with someone that most of you would consider fairly short.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 02:04 AM
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So? If someone says they don’t care about height, that means they don’t care, not that they only date short people. Fwiw, I didn’t care about height when I was with my 6’5 ex, and I still don’t now that I’m with my 5’7 boyfriend. If anything I noticed him faster because his face was at my eye level when we met, rather than his nipples 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:43 PM
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And I mean with ATTRACTIVE FIT women. I am not interested in unhealthy women. I am talking someone you might find in a college sorority or on a beach showing off. Damn, yall rarely say the quiet part out loud like that. I guess the honestly is refreshing? But no, being involved in SOCIAL geek shit is probably one of the better things that geeky guys can do for their love life, simply because it will put you in contact with other humans, including at least a few women with similar interests. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:18 PM
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Pretty sure he is in fact referring to socialism in that tweet, which is strange, but not THAT strange considering the other things that come out of his twitter-mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:07 PM
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No, the male experience is the default pretty much everywhere. “Gynocentrism” is a made up word, created by the manosphere in order to frame traditional gender roles as somehow created by and beneficial to women, which they are not. While “the west” is more gender egalitarian than ever before, men are still largely seen as the “default” human and women as the “other,” for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 03:01 PM
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I truly could not care less about a guy’s n-count. Not tryna take anyone’s virginity or get any stds, but beyond that your sexual history is your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:44 AM
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It’s important but it’s not the only thing that matters. Lots of guys do just fine with women and life despite being on the shorter side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:53 PM
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That last sentence says more about you than it does about “women.” I personally know plenty of female jokesters, and while comedy is mostly a boys’ club, there are also some very smart and talented female comedians. If you have failed to notice this, you are simply ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:38 PM
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Not in any kind of inherent way, but I do think that since the male/masculine experience is kind of the “default” in our society that men’s jokes tend to be received as more “universal” than women’s jokes. It’s a matter of social power, not of some ingrained “funny gene” that men possess and women don’t. Edit: Female comedian recs: I’m very picky with standup and find most of it insufferable regardless of the performer’s gender, but imo Tig Notaro is one of the greats. Her comedy is the golden t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:34 PM
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r/ihavesex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:23 PM
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You know what, that’s fair. Still doesn’t mean that the prevailing culture of a “neutral” sub automatically reflects the most accurate facts. And the rest of my comment still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:06 AM
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Correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:03 AM
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Women eventually realize that arguing with pissy nerds who hate them is a huge waste of time. A lot of us have lives outside the online gender wars, it turns out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:49 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:47 AM
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It has nothing to do with facts lol, if that were true then there would be no woman friendly or left leaning subs left. It has to do with the demographics of people who actually stick around instead of going “fuck this noise” and taking their energy elsewhere. If I weren’t the glutton for punishment that I am, I would’ve left this shithole years ago. At this point though I feel like I gotta stick around to support the few non crazy, non woman haters left on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:46 AM
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Fr. I hate driving, would much rather take the bus or train if given the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:37 AM
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Highly doubt that that’s actually average, but thanks I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:33 AM
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I mean, realistic, semi autonomous, affordable sexbots would be kind of a different story, wouldn’t they? I would pick one up myself if they were so mainstream and easy to access that normie men with options were getting them. Program her to do housework or something. As it stands right now though? Yes, I do think I’m too good for guys who would spend thousands of dollars on a lubricated silicone sex slave from the depths of the uncanny valley. Gotta draw the line somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:32 AM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:13 PM
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Speak for yourself lol, the kinds of guys that would buy a sexbot are not the kinds of guys that most of us want to date. Go crazy, paint em purple, give them vibrating tits! No skin off my back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:11 PM
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And your penis is tiny whether or not you disagree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:00 PM
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I would call Bernie a moderate Leftist, yeah. Feminism is a very old and diverse movement, which generally leans left by virtue of being progressive in nature, but which also has neoliberal and even conservative branches. But some feminists are explicitly leftist- look up Marxist feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 10:59 PM
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Right, and if you’re a woman and you disagree with a man, you’re a stupid bitch, or a whore, or a roast beef pussy gutter slut. Toughen up!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:45 PM
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Well, consider giving women the same benefit of the doubt lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:44 PM
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You look fine, although I’d get rid of the bottom middle pic. Your issue might be that the pictures as a set are a bit boring; All I get from them is that you’re a guy who likes drinking and snow lol. Maybe ask a photo-savvy friend to take some nice “candid” shots of you doing something active that you enjoy, like hiking, playing a sport, or playing a musical instrument. Funny pictures are also good conversation starters, don’t worry about looking like a goof, it makes you seem fun and confident…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:38 PM
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Russian women are 🔥, hard to beat ‘em in terms of hotness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:23 PM
1

I don’t understand the question. Who are they individually, or as groups? Some popular leftist movements include socialism, social democracy (/democratic socialism,) communism, antifascism, and anarchism; Although there are a lot of in-betweens and overlaps. More specific causes like African-American civil rights, gay rights, feminism, environmentalism, etc. also have left leaning politics, although not all supporters of these causes are explicitly left wing themselves. I would (very loosely) co…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:07 PM
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Not even remotely true my dude. Universal healthcare and easier access to social services would dramatically improve the lives of America’s poorest. The rich will still be rich, even with higher taxes on the most exorbitant of their wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:53 PM
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Yeah I’m not anti feminist by any means but I do agree that a lack of concern for working class issues including those primarily effecting men is a major fault in non-Marxist feminist discourse and activism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:52 AM
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Why would this hypothetical version of me not want a woman (or women) in his life? Sex, companionship, and romantic love are three things that most men want. Can’t really get without involving women, unless you’re gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:46 AM
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Nope. My entire sexual history consists of 3 hookups, 2 short term relationships, and 2 long term relationships, including the one I’m in now. Idk why I’m giving you an itemized list since you’re just going to call me a gutter-whore-bitch-skank either way, but there ya go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:42 AM
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Because a) sex in nice, but not essential to life, and b) a person’s right to safety and bodily integrity outweighs another person’s right to have sex with them. You’re not allowed to assault people just because it gets you something you want, even if that thing is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:26 AM
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Actual leftists (Not liberals or Democrats) are VERY concerned with the plight of the poor and working class, and care little about identity politics unless they effect the material reality of the people involved. Unfortunately, America lacks a strong unified left wing party.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:19 AM
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Glad you approve lol. Still, girls with way more than that get boyfriends and husbands as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:09 AM
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Jus’ sayin dude. I’d rather be a hot rich cuck with a smokeshow wife than a lonely bitter non-cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:54 PM
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It was a 4Chan troll campaign thing that a few crazies took seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:49 PM
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Sure, 1 or 2 a year doesn’t sound that crazy. For me it was about 3 total. My boyfriend had a similar number.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:45 PM
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He’s a super hot Swedish celebrity chef lol. If that’s what a cuck looks like, then slap my ass and call me Othello
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:44 PM
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Because it doesn’t? As long as they’re cute enough, girls who do sex work can and do get boyfriends and husbands. Besides, you guys also like to claim that having a few hookups in college disqualifies women from finding a decent boyfriend and/or marriage, and all we need to do to disprove that is look at ourselves and our friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:38 PM
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Do you guys really think that most women’s lives “revolve around sex?” Like, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:01 AM
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If only.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:59 AM
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Damn this actually made me laugh. Genuinely good satire, 8/10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:41 PM
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Ahh yeah that was the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:19 PM
2

Literally!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:15 PM
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I thought she was talking about r/truerateme lol. Where any man with hair is an 8 and women who could model professionally are a 6 tops
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:14 PM
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It's because most women use tinder to collect matches like pokemon cards, not to actually engage with the people they swipe on. A lot of them probably didn't even read the bio where the damning info was contained.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:09 PM
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I don't remember where I read this but there was one girl that Nietzsche was completely obsessed with who then dumped him for some other 17th century intellectual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:52 PM
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He said "practically all feminists think that," not "one prominent feminist thinks that." And again, collectively women do less bad stuff, but that doesn't mean that individually women are incapable of bad actions. I think even Carol Gilligan would agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:41 PM
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What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I'll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I've been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I'm the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:38 PM
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Its funny that they made the chaste ones attractive since white people that don't fuck usually look like peeled potatoes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:57 AM
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Oh fuck off. How bout men trying and failing to be players learn their place instead, Kyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:52 AM
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Aw did the extremely mild pro-female trolling get to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:35 AM
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That is not true at all, and if you engaged critically with feminist philosophy or literature of any kind, you would know that. But you'd rather talk to the straw-feminist in your head or the femcels at FDS because they let you justify your preexisting distrust of women and avoid the discomfort of changing your worldview. And hey, guess what: Anyone can make stuff up about what's in other peoples heads. Practically all MRAs have foot fetishes and mommy issues. Whether or not its true, you can't …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:31 AM
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A wise 12-14 year old is a very rare thing, and not gender dependant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:11 AM
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No one with a half functioning brain actually thinks that. On an individual level, women are just as capable of evil as men, even if they commit less crime overall. Someone saying that they hate women because women are sometimes capable of evil is basically admitting that that they don't think of women as fully human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:06 AM
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It's not voluntary if the alternative is to be thrown in the street during a pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:00 PM
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Sure, but waiting awhile definitely reduces the chance that someone looking for an easy lay will stick around. Regardless, consenting to sex isn't consenting to being secretly filmed. You guys are only hurting yourselves by making it that much more risky for the girls that actually want a quick fuck to have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:57 PM
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Sex work is real work when its voluntary, just like normal labor. These are sexual acts being coerced by the threat of homelessness, making them a form of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:52 PM
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Middle school is extremely pedo. I can see the argument that liking high school age kids is normal enough, but a lot of middle schoolers haven't even hit puberty yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:47 PM
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Even in schools, male teachers commit the most sexual crimes. Female teacher-rapists are just more salacious and therefore more reported on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:46 PM
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Only a complete psychopath would have that kind of patience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:43 PM
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Lets not pretend that men on here don't constantly crow about how they'd never date a rape victim
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:36 PM
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Damn this is pretty fucked. Lets not pretend that men on here don't constantly crow about how they'd never date a rape victim tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:36 PM
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An objectively fine asf ass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:57 PM
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Whaaat no Lizzo is cool. Her music slaps and she seems like she'd be fun to hang out with. Is a fat lady playing the flute what passes for public indecency these days??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:54 PM
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Be bitch, get simps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:01 AM
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I'm 23 and wasn't in an ltr when i started posting here! I think the fact that I am now says more about my ability to ignore you weirdos and your terrible advice than anything else tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:57 AM
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I love them all equally
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:51 AM
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Tbh I have no frame of reference for what the measurements would be. Like a 6 inch dick *sounds* good but who knows. I'm not sure how my boyfriend would react if I whipped out a tape measure to check my visual acuracy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:40 AM
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She looked at me and laughed pointlessly. Then she flounced over to the dog, kissed it with ecstasy and swept into the kitchen, implying that a dozen chefs awaited her orders there. "I've done some nice things out on Long Island," asserted Mr. McKee. Tom looked at him blankly. "Two of them we have framed downstairs." "Two what?" demanded Tom. "Two studies. One of them I call 'Montauk Point--the Gulls,' and the other I call 'Montauk Point--the Sea.' " The sister Catherine sat down beside me on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:14 PM
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"All kinds. What kind do you want, lady?" "I'd like to get one of those police dogs; I don't suppose you got that kind?" The man peered doubtfully into the basket, plunged in his hand and drew one up, wriggling, by the back of the neck. "That's no police dog," said Tom. "No, it's not exactly a police dog," said the man with disappointment in his voice. "It's more of an airedale." He passed his hand over the brown wash-rag of a back. "Look at that coat. Some coat. That's a dog that'll never bothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:12 PM
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Anything bigger that what my vagene can comfortably handle is a waste and a nuisance, so my genetically engineered penis would be pretty small and boring. But its cum would taste like fruit gushers or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:09 PM
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12-14 year old girls ARE incredibly stupid. Every 12-14 year old is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:37 PM
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Pretty sure this was down by a woman. Just some surreal labia humor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:12 PM
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Listen I know that the overall population of reddit isn't winning any comedy awards, but the only people who find incels funny are other incels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:53 PM
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Blah blah blah. You still don't speak for all men everywhere, and no amount of hysterics will change that. I don't care about the cultural particulars of Pepe memes on Twitch, they're irrelevant to my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:00 PM
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Idk about that lol, there are plenty of movies and books about perfectly benign things that are still really good. But yeah as far as I'm concerned problematic =/= bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:13 PM
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Soooo you want to ban everyone who isn't Red Pill or Black Pill? On a forum about debating Red Pillers? Did I get that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:08 PM
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if u have birds youre probably a totally based gigachad who smashes ALL the prime pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:58 PM
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Tons of guys on here say that they'd be a cam girl if they were a woman, and that the market for sex work means that women have it eeeeasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:54 PM
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I expect alot more from men You must live in a state of perpetual dissappointment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:50 PM
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This is the only acceptable form of purge posting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:47 PM
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I think it's more admirable to stay with your normal looking wife whom you love than to constantly buy upgrades who would leave you in a heartbeat if you didn't pay them, but that's just me. Pretty weird that you all idolize this type of behavior and then turn around and call women disloyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:41 PM
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Huh? I just mean that they both contain some gross or questionable content. Stuff that if acted out irl would be morally dicey. I personally loved Das Parfum, and liked 2049 well enough. Lots of things are “problematic,” doesn’t mean they’re never worth watching/reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:58 PM
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What a completely nonsensical comment. Are you lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:51 PM
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I’m being a bit facetious, but still, Pepe memes are pretty well associated with far right pill types. If you use them, then it’s a fair assumption that you’re a bit fringe as men go. It’s inaccurate to imply that other men ~secretly~ all think just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:50 PM
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Field hockey clubs. Or rugby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:07 PM
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I had to cut him off when he became obsessed with Blade Runner: 2049 and Das Parfum by Patrick Süskind. I... get that both of these works are problematic to say the least, but this has still got to be the weirdest reason for cutting off a family member that I’ve heard to date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:58 PM
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The only one of my male friends who would know wtf a pepelaugh is is a radical Marxist who sometimes trawls the right wing internet for kicks. Most people are normies, and most normies don’t see the world the way you all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:51 PM
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It absolutely does. Words are wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:20 AM
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If that moron is unwilling to commit to that arrangement simply because the person he would be commiting to is a woman and therefore inferior/unlovable/untrustworthy, then yeah, he’s a misogynist. Again, legal marriage isn’t something I’m personally dead set on. But an aversion to marriage on the grounds that a) It makes it too hard to cut and run without repercussions or b) women can’t be trusted? Massive red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:11 AM
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I don’t really care if you fear me, guy. You don’t know me. My partner does. You’re just flinging out cheap shaming remarks hoping that women on the internet will be abashed into accepting relationships where they are treated as less-than.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:05 AM
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Plus AD looks like a normal, attractive person rather than a comic book Superman come to life. I genuinely find Henry Cavill difficult to sexualize just because he doesn’t quite look real.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:34 AM
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You know it’s not actually harder to get divorced in at-fault states, right? It just means you need to name a reason to the courts, and if the reason is really bad, the offending party might get penalized in the proceedings. Most places have switched to no fault divorce because it’s easier on the legal system, not the divorcees. And again, business partnerships can also be dissolved with no fault. People still get into them alllll the time. Sometimes a verbal agreement just wont cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:17 AM
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I mean, yeah. It’s not just male nerds either, this: You aren't fun to be around, you aren't fun to talk to, you don't do sports hence you're not fit, you have no fashion sense, you're such a nervous wreck you can't approach your crush, and even if you did you can't flirt. Pretty much described me for most of my teen years. I didn’t get dumber in my 20’s, I just focused really hard on developing my interpersonal skills, and that’s what took me from “weird girl” to what current weird girls and gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:08 AM
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I mean I see the point you’re making but irl Einstein was VERY charismatic, and fucked plenty despite all the nerd shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:07 AM
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I’m ambivalent about marriage in the general, but frankly the type of guy who would refuse legal marriage on the grounds that it supposedly gives me too much power over him isn’t the type of guy that I’m interested in marrying. It displays a lack of trust and a lack of genuine commitment, plus a side helping of misogyny if the main reason that he doesn’t trust me or want to commit to me is that I’m a woman and therefore inherently untrustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:45 AM
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You can be legally bound while still having the option to walk away. The alternative would basically be slavery. It’s just more of a process to do so, and there is a paper trail proving that the union once existed. Business partners are legally bound too, and no one would argue that those relationships aren’t real just because they can be dissolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:34 AM
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TRP: “Single mothers are subhuman scum!!” A woman: “I don’t want to be a single mother, so I will insist on marriage before having kids.” TRP: “THESE BITCHES AINT LOYAL REEEEEEEEEEEE”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:09 AM
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God is not real. And to those men who are stuck with nasty sloots who are capable of enjoying sex with more than one partner in their lifetime... 🎻🔬
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:47 AM
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Most younger men are renouncing relationships, yet most young women end up in them anyways. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:42 AM
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My friend, I’m sure you are doing fine in your journey towards self realization (or whatever else.) When this guy says “take responsibility,” he doesn’t mean “do what’s best for you, make amends to those you’ve hurt, etc,” he means “Accept your place, woman, under the bootheel of men like me.” Theres not anything inherently wrong with promiscuity, it doesn’t make you less of a person, and it’s not necessarily a “mistake” that you need to take responsibility for. It doesn’t even make you less des…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:36 AM
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Yes god forbid you marry someone who likes sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:12 AM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:16 PM
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Be strong-looking and walk with confidence. My boyf is only a couple inches taller than me, but he’s built like Crash Bandicoot and has mad BDE. I feel much safer with him by my side, even though I doubt his presence would do much against a really dedicated mugger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:15 PM
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Even if this were true, the gym is still great for health, discipline, and self esteem. (It’s also not true, unless you legitimately have some form of dwarfism. I know way too many mini-Chads to believe such a thing.)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:10 PM
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You sure think about cocks a lot huh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:41 PM
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She’s saying the same thing you are dude, just without the positive spin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:40 PM
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People who buy new cars are idiots, the damn things lose half their value the moment they’re off the lot. I’ll take a well maintained used car over a new one any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:37 PM
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They are two pretty damning examples, straight from the proverbial horse’s mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:09 PM
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Let me guess, because women made them do it, somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:07 PM
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Lol. I’m sure you do hon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:17 PM
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Well, how’s the whole “treat women like another species” thing working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:16 PM
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I suppose I should’ve specified Western Europe. Dutch women for example are as lovely and classy as anything, but no less Western in their values than I.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:15 PM
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Do you live inside the head of each and every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:10 PM
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Thinking of women as space aliens isn’t going to help you either. Improving yourself and getting to know some women on a human level actually might, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:10 PM
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European women and women over seas respect themselves enough to not sleep with men out of commitment a) European women are “Western.” b) Euro women do their fair share of sleeping around, albeit more quietly than Brits and Americans. Do you actually know anyone from Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:06 PM
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Staying home and caring for the house isn’t an “innate desire” of all or even most women lmao. It’s just a practical necessity in certain situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:59 PM
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You SHOULD be comparing humans to anglerfish, if you want to get a well rounded perspective on what gender differences mean in the grand scheme of things. If perspective and intellectual curiosity = autism, then you need some autism in your life my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:56 PM
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This is what the majority of neuroscientists and anthropologists actually believe. Men and women have our differences of course, but they are minor compared to even the differences between males and females of other species. Compare humans to, say, gorillas. Or anglerfish. In terms of sexual dimorphism we’re more like dogs, or hawks, or chimpanzees. We look pretty much the same from a distance, and behave pretty much the same until it comes time to fight or fuck. Minor differences seem huge when…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:28 PM
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Yeah of course people can choose to behave in any number of ways. An “unrestricted” woman can also choose to be a loyal wife. But the same way that an unrestricted woman is a “bad bet,” an unrestricted man is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:12 PM
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So then you DON’T believe that a Pareto distribution of resources is natural and just. Why make a comment saying that it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:07 PM
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Men and women are more similar than they are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:04 PM
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Unfortunately men that struggle for female attention are just as capable of bad behavior as men that don’t. That said, I also don’t think that “all men cheat/are dishonest/etc.” Even men with options can choose to be principled.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:03 PM
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I’m sure you would, but if she accepted you then she’d be accepting a shit deal. It’s been known to happen, but I feel sorry for the girls in question lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:57 PM
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The distribution of resources in the US is not Pareto-like at all. It is far less equal, closer to 95-5 than 80-20. If you believe that a Pareto distribution of resources is natural, then I hope you’re voting for higher taxes on the wealthy and related policies. You know, to bring the natural order into place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:54 PM
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If you’re a man with an unrestricted SOI then you’re not doing that “precious,” restricted-SOI girl any favors by pretending to be on her level. You will inevitably get bored and/or cheat, betraying her trust and wasting her time. Best to find someone you are compatible with, or not to get married in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:06 AM
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I dunno, maybe. Or maybe those demographics are just less likely to pretend that the thoughts are not there, since they’re less invested in upholding traditional “protector, provider” style masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:39 PM
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If you’re using words like “TIM” and “AGP” then I doubt you much care about how trans women actually perceive themselves and the world around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:34 PM
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See my top level comment- The author of the memoir “The Testosterone Files” explicitly states that he likes life better as a man and considers the male experience superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:00 AM
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I suspect that you’ve come across most of these examples via MRA sites and forums, because they sound a bit cherry picked. I have heard several testimonials from trans women who struggled with the way they were treated as women (especially in the workplace,) and trans men who felt they were treated significantly better as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 11:13 PM
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“The Testosterone Files” Is a good book about the FtM experience. FWIW, the author found life significantly better as a man, despite the difficulties of transitioning. He talks about how much less afraid he felt, and how much more respectful and attentive people were when he talked. He went through a phase of genuine male chauvinism, because he felt like taking testosterone had basically given him superpowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 11:10 PM
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How you were raised doesn’t really effect how you get treated day to day though. Plenty of trans women pass just fine, and are going to experience regular old sexism from people who don’t know they’re trans. I doubt that, say, Kim Petras experiences a lot of trans-specific mistreatment in her daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:58 PM
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Wide hips high up on the body, not balanced by broad shoulders. A pear-like silhouette.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:47 PM
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More likely to divorce =\= unable to pair bond. I would love if just once a person making this claim about pair bonding would provide some evidence. ANY evidence. A study. A survey. A series of interviews. Even just a well reasoned hypothesis, with a possible causative mechanism! But in almost 5 years on this forum I have not seen this. Just endless parroting of divorce statistics that can be easily explained by many factors besides a woman’s ability to “pair bond.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:43 PM
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Humans don’t lose the ability to bond lol. That would be like losing the ability to enjoy food. Social bonding is a fundamental part of human life, and a romantic pair bond is just a particularly close social bond. If a person doesn’t form a close bond with their sex partner, it’s a matter of interest, not ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:23 PM
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Yes, I think lots of women are attracted to younger men. Maybe not as big a percentage as of men who are attracted to younger women, but enough. We don’t always act on it for the same reasons men don’t (or shouldn’t.) a) Young people are annoying b) Young men usually prefer women their age or younger c) Dating someone way younger than you can be unethical and/or weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:16 PM
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Overweight, bad skin, noticeably feminine hips. Those are the only hard no’s, everything else I can deal with assuming the guy has other positive qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 05:24 PM
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If someone is a legit sex addict then yes, they will definitely fuck uggos just to scratch the itch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:06 PM
1

No, I just find that men who know what it’s like to date men tend to be less myopic about their behavior in relationships with women, and are less likely to hold sexist beliefs. However there are clearly exceptions, such as op.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:53 PM
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I’m guessing you live in a conservative area? In my circles (artsy, queer, big city) it’s really not like that. If anything most of my friends would consider bisexuality a plus in a man. I know I would. For those who are wigged out about it, I highly doubt that “feeling insecure because men are just soooo much better as people and how can they measure up” is the reason. It’s probably just good old fashioned homophobia, manifesting as a visceral “ick” feeling about gay sex. Sometimes even perform…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:14 AM
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They’re all about fitness and self care, so I imagine they’d say leave the man AND get fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:29 PM
2

There is extensive photographic and witness testimony to the horrors of the holocaust. Holocaust denial is right up there with flat eartherism in terms of quackery. And even if Hitler isn’t the be all end all of Naziism or Fascism, all forms of these ideologies have the elimination of “undesirable” humans as a goal, and it is this inescapable fact that led to the holocaust and will lead to other atrocities if allowed to flourish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:40 PM
2

Same! Within a year I’ve turned my normie centrist bf into a Bernie bro, and the corruption only grows >:)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:44 PM
4

Good. The state sponsored genocide SHOULD overshadow everything else, regardless of how much the Nazis liked animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:37 PM
6

Tell that to all the republicans! I agree that Denmark is not really socialist, but neither are Bernie and AOC. They are simply pushing for accessible social services and strong unions, not a centrally planned economy. The US Left is not particularly radical, unlike the US Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:31 PM
3

You say “conservative men aren’t willing to date woke women” like it’s a bad thing for the women!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:23 PM
9

I’m sure it sounds that way to you as a man, but I can assure you that this is not the case. I briefly fell deep down the RPW/traditionalism rabbit hole in my late teens, after my first relationship ended. I thought it would help me find more success in my next one. But instead what happened was that no man wanted to spend time with me because I was so goddamn prudish, boring, and anxious! I didn’t really find success in relationships again until I purged all that crap from my brain and started …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:14 PM
3

Yes, I think this is exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:53 PM
9

So then what you’re saying is that going home with a guy is consenting to be hit on. Not consenting to sex. You have c’d your own v.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:56 AM
4

Ah yes the notorious Jewish porn cabal. Tf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:41 AM
2

The thing is, even if it’s the most important single factor to male attractiveness, there are still tons of other factors at play. All else being equal, will a taller man usually win? Yes. But all else is never equal. Every man has a different face, upbringing, personality, sense of humor, moral compass, and sense of style. Every woman has a different set of priorities when it comes to finding a partner, and different quirks of her own. Speaking for myself, I actually tend to notice good looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:53 PM
3

I think OP specifically means male fans/patrons of female e-celebrities, who may pay for nudes from them, send them gifts, buy their bath water, etc. Or even just like and comment on their social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:37 AM
3

“Suffering?” Who is suffering? E-Thots provide a service: Entertainment, in the form of pictures of and parasocial relationships with sexy women online. This can be a bandaid for loneliness, but it can also just be entertainment. Your take is like comparing snack companies to war profiteers because they profit off of people’s hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 03:22 AM
1

It deffo bothers some people lol. I’ve seen some very heated online debates about if someone who sleeps with men can call themself a lesbian. But IRL I honestly don’t think it comes up very often. If you look like a lesbian and quack like a lesbian and exclusively date women like a lesbian, most people don’t care enough to nitpick. Both of my aforementioned flexigay friends have steady gfs so clearly it’s not THAT much of a problem 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:54 PM
3

I don’t want to date someone who looks like they could have fathered me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:12 PM
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Only you weirdos could read something like “I want to date a peer that I can relate to” and turn it into OMG RED PILL CONFIRMED WAMEN SO STOOPID
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:38 PM
1

Do you think that just saying buzzwords with no connection to the topic at hand is a good debate strategy? Because I promise you that it is not. At best it will get people to stop replying out of frustration, which is not the same as winning an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:58 PM
1

I mean, not to get too deep into it, but “lesbian” is a word with multiple meanings. It’s often used is to describe a set of behaviors rather than one innate characteristic. I know a couple of women who are attracted to men and don’t deny that fact, but who exclusively date women and participate in lesbian culture and therefore consider themselves lesbians. They could call themselves bi, but who does that really help? They don’t want men to hit on them or think they’re available. If they want di…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:41 PM
1

See this is the kind of thing that you learn to think is a good comeback when you repeatedly talk about the same topics with people who basically think like you in an echo chamber forum that pretends to not be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:45 PM
6

It really isn’t though. Being penetrated doesn’t usually hurt and it’s usually not fun when it does. It’s also not humiliating, doesn't curtail anyone’s autonomy, and isn’t the only thing that happens during a typical sex act. I feel like I’m explaining this to an alien, but there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:03 AM
1

Guys are easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 02:38 AM
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Good mothers love their children, yeah. Even their non-sexy children. In fact I would posit that a mother would have to be pretty fucked in the head for the sexiness of her children (or their father) to have any effect on her love for them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 02:33 AM
2

Too bad there are only like 3 actual “sjws” on here. You are learning how to argue against yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 02:21 AM
4

Who says they were talking about moral goodness? They mean goodness as a partner, not goodness in some vague general sense. And you don’t need a six pack to be a good partner by most people’s standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:16 AM
1

Benefiting from affirmative action still necessitates getting a job. And most women are not on welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:31 PM
1

They were referring to incels, dummy. That’s what this whole thread is about. And you’re still comparing actual violence done by men to women to mean words said by women to men, and if you don’t see how that’s kinda fucked, there’s not much I can say that will help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:29 PM
2

Source? That sounds... improbable. Not to mention impossible to determine accurately from DNA alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:07 PM
4

because the government takes care of them. Or because they have, y’know, jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 07:02 PM
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Well, you kinda did, even if it’s not what you intended. The person you replied to was saying “[incels] want us to sympathize with them??” in reference to another poster’s experience of being stalked and sexually assaulted as a young teen by a sexually unsuccessful young man, and her own “near miss” experience. You then snapped back with a comment about how women shouldn’t expect sympathy because they express “misandry” online. As if that is in any way comparable to what the other two posters we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 04:29 PM
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Ah yes, being mean to men online is truly the moral equivalent of stalking and raping a 14 year old. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:17 PM
2

So... It’s true, but it’s not, but it is, but it’s not. Somehow you don’t have me convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 12:08 PM
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You’re trippin dude. I’ve never so much as had depression and I know that men can suck, do suck, and have sucked since time immemorial. I’ve seen way too much “crazy” behavior from my male friends and relatives to believe this “women are crazy men are normal” crap. Men are just less likely to actually believe themselves abnormal and do something about it (like therapy.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 04:50 AM
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Yes and no? I disagree with the way they make out relatively normal, universal human behavior to be either a wicked conspiracy against men or a sign of women’s inherent inferiority (ie “hypergamy”, ”female” solipsism). But some of the female tendencies they describe and the ways men can play to those tendencies are also accurate (ie women like men who are physically strong and act like leaders, so be physically strong and act like a leader.) If it wasn’t for the unfortunate ties to far right pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:47 PM
9

...Do they? Most femcels seem pretty self aware about why men don’t want them (They’re ugly, mentally ill, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:08 PM
3

In the real world this isn’t what happens though. Women entering the workforce en masse after the cultural revolution is one of the things that helped skyrocket China’s economy to it’s current world superpower status.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:28 AM
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I’m not disputing that women are capable of violence and harm, just the idea that they do it as often or more often than men. Men commit emotional/psychological abuse as well, and are often jus as good at hiding it. And there are far more male child rapists than female ones. Some male sexual abusers may have been abused themselves by women... but statistically, they were more likely abused by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:48 PM
2

Yes, it is a clusterfuck... Because for a non zero amount of people, maximum freedom = Smoking crack and fucking 12 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:41 PM
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Lol you have been talking to some very politically unaware women. In my circles if you say “I’m a libertarian” you might as well just say “I like to smoke weed and drop racial slurs AT THE SAME TIME and also fucking kids should be legal.” ...Not that I think these things are true of all libertarians, but you wouldn’t know it by the way people react 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:17 AM
4

yeah the alt right guys are even grosser
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:08 AM
1

😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:07 AM
2

Why do you think rich/handsome republicans beat rich/handsome democrats? Just cause they play for your favorite team or for some other reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:05 AM
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They’re talking about violence in general, not just domestic violence. Men are not being mugged/shot/beat up/prison raped by women in any significant numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 11:00 PM
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How many men do you think are going to wife up an ugly bitch just because she brings him beers? Female beauty is prized and fetishized to a huge degree, and not just by cads. Up to a certain point, improving your SMV is improving your RMV. Past that point, there are a ton of other factors besides a woman’s cooking skills that determine whether a guy is going to fuck her and bolt or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:30 AM
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Uh. I take it you have similar feelings about TRP/PUA/etc, yes? All these subs are about getting what you want from the opposite sex. Or is it only ok when men do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:24 AM
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The average American man is pretty fat too, so if you’re not fat yourself then it’s not crazy to want the same in a partner. If you can’t find a non fat person to date, then there’s probably something else at play. Consider working on your style and “game,” or increase your chances by moving somewhere where obesity is less common: Cities have less fat people than rural areas, the North has less fat people than the South, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 04:30 PM
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Tbh I’m amazed that the guy can lift that much and still look so doughy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 09:29 PM
2

THIS IS THE IDEAL MALE BODY,
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 09:24 PM
3

u right lol I was #triggered by the folks in the comments taking it super seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:48 PM
1

Where are the women saying game doesn’t work? Good game works wonders. Hokey PUA routines not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:46 PM
1

Do you work in a club? Cause that’s the only way that what you just wrote would be relevant to the op. And good luck trying to get people to stop dressing sexy at clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:43 PM
1

Is it really that crazy to be impressed by impressive behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:38 PM
2

facts don’t care about ur feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:37 PM
2

Tys I’m “the purring jew”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:26 PM
1

Pretty sure this the opposite of an incel meme
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:25 PM
15

I think this is what one might call a “joke.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:19 PM
2

Danny DeVito is in his 70’s, of course he doesn’t inspire lust lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:27 AM
1

Im confused
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:06 PM
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What is with everyone’s obsession with this guy. Yeah, surprise surprise, felons can be charismatic! More charismatic than reddit neckbeards, even! Also, people can leverage exceptional good looks to climb the social ladder! Groundbreaking!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:33 PM
1

Must be nice, I haven’t been horny like that since I was a teenager 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:27 PM
1

;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:21 PM
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You can fuck men of your choice not due to any "social movement" or "rebellion" but because men in power allow you to do so. So stop allowing it. Go ahead. Any time now, I’m sure you can do it. Fact is, no matter how much Genghis Khan erotica you write, women won this fight in the developed world and they’re on their way to winning it elsewhere. If you honestly think this is only at the behest of benevolent men and can be revoked at any time, I cordially invite you to try to revoke it and see wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:18 PM
8

Fuck off pinky dick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:46 PM
1

God this guy’s comics are so fucking ugly they offend me more as an illustrator than as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:53 PM
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Cum reliquary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:49 PM
8

Cum mausoleum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:48 PM
1

It pays off, apparently. The men on here are just straight up unfunny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:40 PM
2

:D Sup Jane! I took a long hiatus from ppd because it was bumming me out lol but the train wreck of purge week brought me back from the dead. You’re right tho these fools clearly haven’t heard the good word of the birdpill 🤔 Miles to go before we sleep..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:10 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:57 PM
12

Disagree, the female-authored shitposts have been way better this round. Higher effort and funnier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:22 PM
2

Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:14 PM
3

Its especially weird since Orthodox Jews are usually super conservative. They don’t care for gay marriage/women’s rights/single motherhood any more than your average right wing antisemite. If you want to blame some religious or ethnic group for society becoming more progressive why not pick a more interesting one. How bout the Buddhists? They’ve had it too good for too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:47 PM
1

cracks whip and puts on leather yarmulke Yeah you like that, bitch boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:40 PM
2

This genuinely sounds like something a rapist would say. Good luck defending against those “lies” in court I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:16 PM
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Ah so sexual assault does happen but it’s ONLY perpetrated by brown people. If a white guy does it, it’s not rape, it’s just a forced genital handshake. I see
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:11 PM
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Yeah cause a lot of them don’t even look old enough to crack “milf” territory. There was a girl in my undergrad program who was apparently 32 the whole time but I had no idea, she was hotter than most of the 20-23 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:19 PM
1

Hell yeah contrapoints I love that binch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:44 PM
5

Nahh the femcel brigade aren’t single mothers with chlamydia, they’re fat, neurotic, socially maladjusted nerds just like the male incels. Unlike the male incels, they have enough tact not to make asses of themselves when it’s not purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:37 PM
1

That baby looks sickened and disturbed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:32 PM
1

Lol maybe the few men who actually take an interest in mastering the art of cooking are “better” at it, but 90%+ of men cant cook for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:27 PM
1

...Why not just buy a fleshlight?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 09:24 PM
6

Don’t you think that is his responsibility too? Or is the dictate to “make it work” solely on the woman’s shoulders?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:01 AM
24

This is the ideal male body. You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 02:45 AM
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It’s a compliment I’m my eyes lol I wish my girlfriends were as gung ho about starting a band as my boyfriend’s buddies!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:30 AM
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I think you’d be surprised if you actually measured the weight of every woman you found attractive (unless you only like very petite women.) Not that you’re going to of course, because that would be silly- just like this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:55 PM
1

Take a trip to nyc sometime. Also consider not using terms like Dravidian or Levantine Arab to refer to people living in the 21st century, unless neo nazi chicks are your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:17 PM
1

They do outside bumfuck Oklahoma lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:43 PM
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You’re not alone lol, but this sub is very right wing and people love to compete for the title of edgiest teen during purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:42 PM
1

Damn you’ve convinced me. I, a lowly woman, am uncontrollably aroused by the manly society building feats of your fellow men. I cordially invite you to pound my butthole, zaddy (but very gently because we all know that men hate rough sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:30 PM
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Maybe, but I’m a pretty equal opportunity pervert. My irl sexual experience doesn’t exactly point to men being blushing brides about kinky shit, so maybe there’s some confirmation bias at play with which videos jump out at me while scrolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 10:11 PM
1

It was definitely true last time I checked lol, but I’m at work so I’ll have to take your word for it for now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:38 PM
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I think it’s nice that men are always willing to start a band with each other regardless of the musical talent of anyone involved
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:36 PM
1

No race is off the table for me, I’ve flirted and gone out with guys of all colors of the rainbow... But my only serious ltrs have been with two very similar looking baby faced eurotrash blondes 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:31 PM
1

I don’t buy this particular manosphere meme. Look at the top rated videos on pornhub, on the main page and the “popular with women” page. Both invariably contain rough sex and mild bdsm videos. There’s usually just more gay stuff and less “horny stepsister” stuff in the women’s section.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:17 PM
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Can’t cyv because u right. Some of the biggest chads at my university were Indian guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:39 PM
1

Because they resent women and have unfounded superiority complexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:37 PM
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You can tell a guy is a misogynist when he opens his mouth and says misogynistic stuff. It’s a bummer when an otherwise attractive guy does this, but attractiveness doesn’t get him off the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:35 PM
1

Men def watch violent porn too, are you kidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:31 PM
2

I can’t imagine that civilseaworthiness got banned, I think she just got tired of this place and left :P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:30 PM
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What, you gonna whip out a scale on the first date? Date only thin women if you want, a lot of guys do. Who cares if she’s 100 lbs or 150 as long as she looks good?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:24 PM
1

Was gonna say. Rough sex and bdsm-lite is pretty much ubiquitous in porn, for both men and women. We all like a little pepper with our salt, it keeps things exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:22 PM
3

Get a load of this society
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:01 PM
1

For my own sake I sure hope so 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:37 PM
3

I disagree that women have no need for sexual variety, but yes I understand your meaning now. I think the “high libido virgin” is virtually nonexistent in a sexually free society, but the high libido/low n combination is entirely possible, if a bit unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:35 PM
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I see, that makes a bit more sense. I think it almost goes without saying that exceptional men tend to seek exceptional women and vise versa. What constitutes “exceptional” depends on the traits one values in a partner, but it’s a good general rule to know your worth and not accept “meh” when you’re great, or expect great when you’re “meh.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:31 PM
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There aren’t a lot of radfems on PPD tho. In the wild it’s as you say, but on here it’s usually guys trying to parrot the radfem approach, saying shit like “you aren’t entitled to an attractive man” or “you aren’t entitled to a man’s time/money/affection/respect/etc.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:20 PM
2

the reality It’s a song.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:13 PM
2

...Are you really arguing that you should be allowed to blow up at women and call them whores over a rejection and that no one should judge you for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:58 AM
1

Men also possess unearned power and privilege in many realms of life. Just being a man doesn’t make you a disadvantaged minority, and certainly doesn’t entitle(!) you to respect or empathy, especially when you’re treating someone like shit for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:55 AM
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They shouldnt, unless it’s what they want too. Shockingly, “alphas” do fall in love once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 08:38 PM
1

80% of the male species on this planet are on the lookout to avoid sluts, but you do you? This just aint true my guy. Our closest biological relatives (chimps and bonobos) treat females that have already successfully reproduced one or more times as more valuable for mating than females going into estrus for the first time. Monogamous(ish) animals like birds and gibbons might chase off potential rivals to their mate's affections, but don't have any concept of promiscuity beyond that. Even "patria…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 06:05 PM
1

I think the average men of PPD can handle it. It's not like something equally judgmental about women doesn't get posted every other day or so. If you think struggling men are too fragile to hear that their passion over n-counts might be perceived as a red flag, perhaps they should find another forum to post on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:29 PM
1

Unless she's very religious, it's unlikely/unrealistic that a woman with a high sex drive would voluntarily have sex with only one person in her entire life. Same goes for men, except that almost all men have high sex drives so this is treated like a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:21 PM
1

Because that's exactly what everyone looks for in a partner lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 05:18 PM
2

I think assuming because of that that the sex wasn’t bad is equally ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 03:38 PM
1

Well that sucks for all those nice affordable Toyotas out there but my wrinkly ass is gonna be a classic ‘stang 💁‍♀️💅🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:36 PM
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Hate to break it to you bud but the analogy is perfectly comprehensible, it’s just dumb. Once you apply a little more higher order thinking, comparing sapient beings forming relationships to cars being bought and sold reveals itself to be a pretty shallow analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:30 PM
1

I mean if you like trp then you’ll probably like gc, I can’t deny that. I, personally, think they’re both full of annoying bigoted morons with a child’s understanding of sex and gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:31 PM
1

That’s not really the issue that people have with the main sub tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:28 PM
1

He’s famous for being funny, not for shredding like Hendrix lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:34 PM
4

As the incels will tell you, makeup can’t change bone structure. A hot girl will still be hot without makeup, just less flashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:33 PM
1

You’re probably right tbh, when I saw this my first thought was “why on earth would the admins send them a warning?”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:24 PM
1

Redpillwomen is very very tame compared to the main sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:13 PM
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I hope gc goes next. That’s one of the only female centric subs I’ve encountered that matches trp in terms of nastiness. Fuckin terfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 05:12 PM
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I just don’t see this prediction borne out in my day to day life. Most of the hot, educated, successful women I know have equally high value partners, and vise-versa. It seems like “another dude” (with tits and a pretty face) is exactly who men want to build a life with, given the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 10:46 PM
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Nah man male gymnasts are usually tiny and they look great
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 04:48 PM
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Yeah surprise surprise women are people and people won’t give you unearned respect unless you coerce it out of them. Move to Saudi Arabia if you want automatic respect for having the right genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 06:37 PM
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It appears to me that people object to the idea that casual sex destroys the ability to form happy relationships on ideological grounds or seemingly out of an obligation to defend women. Orrrrr maybe they object because there is no evidence that this is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:07 PM
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You don’t have to lie, just don’t over share. She asked you “why are you on here?” not “Have you ever dated anyone before?” yet you answered the latter question unprompted. An equally honest but less weird answer would be something like “Because I want to meet someone” or “Because I want to go on some dates.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 10:47 AM
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Hell no they don’t! Insecurity is only attractive to extremely low value men. For normal people, that’s at least a third or fourth date convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 10:44 AM
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That’s not even close to white supremacist rhetoric lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:58 PM
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Because feminism has an actual history, purpose, and philosophical grounding behind it, despite the proliferation of whiny nutcases attached to it. MGTOW in it’s current form has existed for maybe a decade, and is basically the He Man Woman Haters Club for sad adults. Whiny nutcases are the rule, not the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 07:13 PM
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Most of those “creeps” are fine and decent people who do not sexually assault anybody, but pretty much all men act pushy and demanding once certain horny level is reached. Maybe you’re an unusually passive man, maybe what I consider pushy and aggressive you just consider normal, who knows. But it’s not about a particular woman’s choice of men, it’s just the way men act when their hormones are up. It’s whether or not they’re able to take a step back and chill when asked to do so that separates th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:42 PM
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You are one man. You are not all men, or even a few men. Just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:48 PM
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Dude. “Pushy, demanding, coercive, aggressive” is such mild condemnation of male sexuality. It’s not even condemnation really, it just is, even for the pussy beta nu male cucks that I’ve dated. Rational thinking turns off the moment a guy gets a boner, every straight woman knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 10:47 PM
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I think it’s really charisma, presence, sense of humor etc that makes the difference for most people, not some immutable algorithm of face x height x body (+/- guitar skills lol). My fella is also unencumbered by the kind of overthinking and social anxiety that seems to plague 90% of reddit users, which I’m sure makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:14 PM
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Sure, but the person I responded to was saying that if you’re under 5’9” or whatever the average height for your country is then you’re SOL. I was providing a personal anecdote that this isn’t the case. I would say that my boyfriend has been somewhat above average in terms of sexual success, but the point is that being slightly below average height isn’t, as you say, the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:23 PM
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He does, as well as a decent body and some sick guitar skills. Even at 5’7” it’s not exactly a mystery why girls like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:18 PM
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A hooker is someone who sells sex. A hookah is a device for smoking tobacco. His first paragraph was about the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:15 PM
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Of course everyone has their issues, but I can say with confidence that the man was never an incel. He’s talked about his romantic and sexual history in extensive detail, including times of depression and heartbreak. Not everyone buys into the RP dogma that you can never admit weakness or you will end up sad and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 07:26 PM
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Maybe not always, but it definitely can. I think you gotta experience it to believe it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:56 PM
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This but unironically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:53 PM
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This is a weird take. An open relationship is by definition open on both sides. I don’t think anyone who is ok with open relationships is suddenly not-okay with them when the man participates. What people tend to have a problem with are situations where the man is allowed to sleep around but the woman isn’t, which is what TRP users tend to encourage. Their problem is with the unfairness though, not the “man sleeping around” part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:51 PM
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Where tf do you live dude? I work at a Starbucks and our customer base is like 85% old people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:35 PM
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I mean Danny Devito is a grandpa now but he was cute when he was younger, and had one of Hollywood’s longest and happiest marriages. You don’t need to be Channing Tatum to have a good love life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:30 PM
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I think you have to be significantly below average for it to matter that much. My boyfriend is 5’7” and has never struggled with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 02:03 PM
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Sounds like the words of a man who could use a good spanking ;))))))
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 12:01 AM
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Eh. I kinda get what you’re saying, but power bottoming is definitely a thing. Personally I’ve had a few encounters where I was unquestionably the dominant party even while being penetrated, and not just because I was on top. It’s not a common occurrence though, even with my current boyfriend who has some submissive fantasies of his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:55 PM
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How is it any different to a woman playing along with being submissive tho? Most people aren’t forced to be subs in bed, they do it because they enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 11:44 PM
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And generalisations are wrong, by definition, and have no place in debate. If this is how you feel then you have come to the wrong subreddit my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 08:59 PM
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Lol I know what the phrase “rose colored glasses” means, I don’t live under a rock. The “your experiences are not universal” meme is a clip from some tv show that is used as a common reaction gif when someone talks about a strange or unusual experience as if it’s totally normal. If your experience with human interaction is so bad that you feel chatbots will soon replace it, that is not normal. It is strange that you assume that everyone’s experiences have been as bad as yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:37 PM
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My mom and I don’t talk about men lol we talk about books tv shows and science news. My mother is the last person I would go to for personal advice, shes judgy af and an even bigger autist than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:31 PM
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I mean, if it works it works. How is this different or worse than TRP for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:29 PM
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What forms of “radical” bigotry have you personally experienced due to your gender? No vague generalities please, I’m curious to hear concrete examples
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 07:27 PM
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Doctors of any kind tbh. Narcissism is like a job requirement for them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 07:39 PM
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A decent person would lay on the horn, or at least slow down and wait for her to do something. If the deer then walks closer to your car or bats her eyelashes and starts seductively playing dead in the road then you’re gucci
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:13 PM
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Billie Eilish didn’t even write the song dude. You’re not sexualizing her, you’re sexualizing an imaginary edgy teen nymphette with Billie’s face and an adult songwriter’s ideas. And I mean, knock yourself out with that, I’m not gonna yuck your yum... Just understand that your attraction to this character is one thing, and hitting on real teenagers is another (usually creepy) thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:55 PM
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tldr
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:41 PM
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Sure we do, in certain controlled circumstances where we have veto power. That’s why being attuned to IOIs is one of the most valuable skills a man can learn when it comes to getting with women. Go ahead and be the hunter, as long as you can tell for certain that she’s enjoying being the deer. If you can’t tell, pull back and wait for her to give some more obvious hints. It’s a game of push and pull, not single minded relentless pursuit. Treating uninterested women as “prey” is how you get arres…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:40 PM
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hey that’s not a real meme
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:58 PM
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I mean I treat my SO well and whatever but the stuff you listed sounds like the behavior of a insufferable self hating cunt. Definitely not someone I’d want to be friends with or to emulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 12:57 PM
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I don’t disagree tbh, I just think a lot more people have psychopathic tendencies than most of us would like to believe. That includes attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 08:27 PM
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I suspect that a lot of them do. It takes a certain amount of disregard for both the law and the humanity of your victim to go through with a rape, not to mention poor impulse control. These are all characteristic features of someone with aspd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:32 PM
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But you do frequently hear about attractive men doing the raping. It’s not like they need to force women in order to get laid. They want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:27 PM
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Put him next to a weak woman he's been pining after for months, with a few drinks in him, let him sloppily confess his love, get burned by her, and he'll snap. The whole time he's raping her, he'll either be telling her how beautiful she is, fantasizing that she'll fall in love with him, or angrily beating her because he feels powerless in every single area of his life and is taking it out on her. These are the thoughts and actions of a dangerous, delusional, mentally ill person. Not an unlucky-…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:24 PM
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Yeah I’m sure Harvey Weinstein and Jefferey Epstein were crying themselves to sleep over how powerless they felt lmao. That’s why they decided to rape aspiring actresses working under them, and to traffic impoverished 14 year olds for their rich friends’ enjoyment. Because of how hard it is being a multi-bajillionaire man in today’s society. Lol, give me a break. Also, when’s the last time you heard about a random socialist actually robbing a rich person? “Eat the rich” jokes don’t actually cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 06:13 PM
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Lolwhat. With money and influence, you can shape the world around you to your desires. That is power, by the strictest definition if the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:57 PM
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I think it will be a cool novelty, and something to provide solace to the extremely lonely, but I highly doubt it will have any noticeable effect on the lives of everyday Joes and Janes. People already have dogs, waifu pillows, and online friends. So far, none of those things have made any headway in replacing real life social/romantic connections. We are intrinsically social animals, and our need for human connection goes far beyond a desire for conversation or the presence of a nonhuman creatu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 05:15 PM
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I promise you that lots of men also commit (gasp) to women who have slept with other people before. Happily, knowingly, and voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:45 AM
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Out of curiosity, what are they? Most of the “slut tells” that rp blogs talk about are stereotypes and nonsense- If not dressing flashy/alternative and not having a lot of male friends are all it takes to avoid being seen as a slut, then get ready to put a ring on cause I look like the damn Virgin Mary
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 01:28 AM
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There’s not, she just means that women who aren’t ideologically rp still end up in abusive relationships. Which is true. Fwiw though I don’t much care for the RPwives sub either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:19 PM
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In what way would it be “wrong?” What harm does it do? How do other people’s sex lives affect you in any way? The only way I can see it being “wrong” is if the premarital sex-haver is going around raping people, spreading stds, or producing unwanted babies that will be a burden on the parent(s) and/or the state. And the wrongness of those scenarios has to do with issues beyond the fact that the sex is premarital.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 01:14 PM
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overconsumption Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 10:42 PM
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So when you say “the past,” do you mean “pre-agriculture?”* Because that’s the only way I can square what you’re claiming with reality. The nutrition of well-off people in developed countries is better than it has been for pretty much anyone in all of recorded history. So much better that one of our biggest problems is people having too much food! Hence why we are collectively taller, longer lived, and more intelligent than any other group of people in history, strange as that seems. *Or very we…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 08:03 PM
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You find it unbelievable that women prefer masculine faces across the board?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 03:56 PM
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It used to be, before the RP male takeover :P Last I looked there were tons of posters pushing the male imperative under the guise of “helping” women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:14 PM
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Hah, don’t we all know at least one Dylan. Fortunately the Dylaniest guy I ever met was a genuinely lovely person and very committed to his gf. Which made him all the more appealing. Damn you Dylan!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 04:41 PM
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Most of your comments on this thread have ruthlessly judgmental of women, ya dingus. This whole sub is. You might think it doesn’t count because it’s the internet, but these attitudes are everywhere. People come to the internet to say what’s on their mind irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:19 PM
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I think your examples are male projection. Sure women can be competitive, but I hear way way more judgmental comments about women’s bodies from men than I do from women. Women care about status and style, not about Becky’s ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:15 PM
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Lol if your “utilitarian minimalism” looks like the above comment then you can keep it, I’ll stick with men who brush their teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:02 PM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:16 PM
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Befriending is one thing. Pretending to befriend is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:37 PM
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What kind of question is this? Setting aside your weird 13 year old boy’s idea of what friendship between men and women looks like, it is hurtful to know that someone you considered a friend was just trying to get something from you and never actually liked you. Wouldn’t you be upset if one of your male friends completely cut ties after you wouldn’t give him a hundred bucks? It shows that he was after your cash, not your friendship. Maybe you’re better off without him, but learning that fact sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:34 PM
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If you’re consistently getting sneered at for approaching women on a night out, you’re either being really weird about it or you’re definitely not a 6/7 lol. (My money’s on the former, this being reddit)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 02:05 PM
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There are definitely more male rapists than female rapists, even outside prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:53 PM
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So you would consider a guy who is an outspoken vegan feminist socialist and has never heard of TRP (and would be disgusted by it if he did) a Redpiller as long as he fucks? That seems... incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:03 PM
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Why only ugly women though? Why does this logic not apply to all women? Surely if ugly women are “gassed up” then average or attractive women are even worse. So why be outwardly rude only to ugly women? It seems like a transparent attempt to punish them for being an eyesore and I find it very odd that you’re continuing to try to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:32 AM
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I’m an intp who’s still got lots of female friends. I think I’ve managed this by being extra nice and friendly to offset my natural tendency towards aloofness, and making a good faith effort to understand and abide by the “rules” of female friendship. So when I inevitably slip up, I’ve built up enough goodwill that the reaction is less “wtf why would you do that you weirdo/bitch” and more “Haha typical MadCockatiel. She’s an an oddball, but she means well!”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:36 PM
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Can confirm. The fsm is a mystery and im just lucky that most people think im ~quirky~ irl rather than a total fucking weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:28 PM
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Yeah before I saw peaky blinders I only knew him from a few random talk show interviews and couldn’t understand why my friends were obsessed with him. He’s pretty weird looking, and has the world’s blandest personality, at least while being interviewed. As thomas shelby though? 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:09 PM
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I really don’t care as long as he isn’t a “player” who intentionally misleads women, or have a history of unsafe sex practices. N count can correlate with these traits, but doesn’t always. I’m fine with dating a man who had an (ethically) slutty phase as long as he is capable of and comfortable with monogamy. That said, an n-count approaching triple digits would definitely be an eyebrow raiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 06:00 PM
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In a whole host of ways, unfortunately(?). There’s good research on it. Proper nutrition, lower stress levels, and physical activity in childhood have a huge impact on one’s “baseline” attractiveness, not even getting into cosmetic treatments that are available later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:49 PM
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Pardon my French but you’re totally talking out your ass lol. Being treated like you exist isn’t a high bar and doesn’t cross into the territory of unwanted attention. It’s quite telling that you consider unattractive women receiving the same basic social courtesy as most men and women to be “gassing them up.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:40 PM
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Seriously, almost no one does that anymore What are you smokin man that’s still how a ton of relationships start. Possibly even the majority, despite the existence of online dating and hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:35 PM
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Elementary and preschool kids don’t give IOIs lol. They talk and play and compete, and more nuanced forms of socialization (like flirting) develop naturally along with other developmental milestones (like puberty). The point is that kids raised by screens and overprotective parents have trouble with things like flirting because they lack the foundational social skills that you are supposed to learn early from your peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:50 PM
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It really is a shame isn't it. Lots of men could use a self improvement boot camp similar to TRP, but in order to embrace TRP wholeheartedly one basically has to internalize the idea that women are intellectually and morally inferior to men, and exist only to be used for men's enjoyment regardless of the harm it may cause her. Sure you can pick and choose what you want to take away from it, but then why even include the shitty stuff in the first place? Why not give the facts without the judgemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:14 PM
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Then why get so collectively buttmad about people (ie: women and feminists) judging male sexuality? Sure, it's "brutal" for a woman to dump/cheat on/disrespect a man, and that is "their nature" to a certain extent. But if TRP is just telling it like it is, why are men not judged just as harshly for dumping/cheating on/disrespecting women? Those things happen just as frequently and are also "men's nature" to an extent. Yet men on TRP are *praised* for doing these things, and occasionally for doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:03 PM
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It’s an analogy homie. Flirting is the foreplay of romance. It’s hard to have good romance without flirting the same way it’s hard to have good sex without foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 10:37 PM
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It’s not so much that women like “games,” it’s that we like people with social skills. Being too direct is usually a sign of obliviousness more than honesty. Plus, flirting, bantering, and teasing are half the fun of getting to know someone new. Skipping that is like skipping all foreplay during sex and then wondering why women think you’re bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 02:45 PM
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One when I was 16 I got my boob sorta-grabbed by a elderly drunken hobo lol. I was obviously taken aback but it was in broad daylight in front of tons of other people, and the guy seemed harmless enough despite being blitzed out of his mind. Besides that I’ve been fortunate enough to avoid any physical harassment. All my male relatives are good, non creepy people; And as far as strangers go I’ve always been good at avoiding people that give off threatening vibes. Except when I lived in Italy. Gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:40 PM
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If you’re a man, lot of this stuff is obviously going to escape your notice since it’s not happening to you or in front of you. If you’re a woman, I guess congrats on being street savvy and/or plain enough to avoid the worst if it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:30 PM
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But she sure as hell is not getting groped by the same mofo twice!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:20 PM
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There’s a difference between being traditional and being a pickme. Just being traditional, or being a supportive partner, won’t earn you ire on the internet. Bragging about how little you’ll accept from a relationship and how much better it makes you than other women, to strangers on the internet, will. (See: White knights.) Also, speaking from experience, many women go through a “pick me” phase when they are young. We just tend to eventually realize that acting like that is not a good strategy …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 06:17 PM
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Assuming I was basically a male version of my current self, I would lean heavily into the “alt” scene and try to score with artsy chicks. Bitches love an eccentric artist, especially if he’s “woke” and fun at parties. I would keep up a fitness routine but probably wouldn’t bother trying to get beefy- It’d be fighting a losing battle, endomorph that I am. I would definitely make an effort at personal styling though. And then from there I’d just try to befriend as many like-minded women as possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 04:03 PM
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As far as I can tell TRP just means “the physical body” when they talk about loving someone “for who they are.” They’ll talk around it as best they can, but when you really nail it down they are basically claiming that loving someone for their tits and ass more “real” than loving someone for their personal qualities, which to me is ridiculous on its face.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 02:55 PM
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Like I said, for some men, paying for a date is like waving their peacock tail around. It demonstrates goodwill, generosity, and provider-ship ability. It is very normal behavior, outside of weird gender justice internet circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:09 PM
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I have insisted on splitting or paying the whole bill before, when I’m kind of “meh” about the guy and don’t want him going out of his way for me for no avail. But if I like the guy, and it’s clear he likes me, I have no problem letting him wave around his metaphorical peacock tail by wining and dining me. It’s nice, it’s part of the courtship ritual, and it lets him feel manly. I’ll always offer to split out of courtesy, but if a guy that I actually like wants to treat me then I’m happy to let …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:49 PM
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Well, my mom’s birth father who she met as an adult is much closer to us than any of my “real” grandparents... And I know he’s elated to have finally met her and by extension me, since none of his legitimate kids had children of their own. So unless you’re in Westeros, bastardhood can be a blessing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 06:01 PM
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Lol I’m perfectly aware, I’m just saying there’s some variation and that the gay girls are sometimes pretty slutty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 01:31 PM
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No one has the time for a crazy fuckfest every day though! People have jobs. I think you are correct that lesbians tend to have sex less often because women generally desire sex less often. But I don’t think they’re delusional about what good sex looks like. The greater sexual satisfaction is probably due to a combination of being able to intuit what will get another woman off, having to get creative with sex acts due to a lack of penises involved, two potentially multi orgasmic partners, and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 06:20 PM
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Idk man maybe it’s a matter of 80’s club gays vs. 2010’s bougie college gays. Like among my gay friends it’s a little bit like that but there’s a ton of individual variation. Plenty of low-key, monogamous gay guys and hyperactive party lesbians lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 06:07 PM
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Right, and it’s even lower with other kinds of sex. Right down to being nearly impossible via oral. Furthermore a one in fifty chance sounds small, but with an incurable disease that might not present symptoms for decades and spreads exponentially, it’s still significant. And anal sex is the easiest way to catch it, besides blood to blood contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 08:19 PM
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Not quite. Transmission is very easy via anal sex. A little bit harder via penis in vagina sex. Very hard via oral sex, fingering, fisting, sex toys, etc. Guess which of these lesbians do more? Again, not saying that women like casual sex as much as men do, just saying that even if they did, HIV would probably never have been a huge problem in the lesbian community due to a critical shortage of penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:37 PM
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It is exceptionally hard to transmit HIV via lesbian sex, and exceptionally easy to transmit it between male partners. Also, from an epidemiological standpoint, how would an STD move from one population that only have sex with each other to another population that does the same? It would be more surprising if AIDS had hit the lesbian community... at all really. Gay male sluttiness probably factored into its rapid spread WITHIN the gay community, but lesbian prudishness has almost nothing to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:20 PM
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Get educated. Learn a cool skill (musical instrument etc.) WORK ON SOCIAL SKILLS (working in retail is great for this). Learn how to do your hair and makeup. But clothes that flatter you. Smile and be goofy. Go to therapy. Meditate. Eat better, sleep better. Learn how to make friends. There are tons of resources out there if you’re interested. If you want I can send links to stuff I used in my self improvement journey. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:13 PM
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Breaking: Men on reddit bad at sex, more at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:07 PM
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I can always tell a person doesn’t know many gay couples when they say shit like this lol. Yes, gay men can be slutty, and yes, gay women can commit prematurely, but the rest is mostly stereotypes that I have never seen a real person embody.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 07:00 PM
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Lesbian couples also have the highest rates of sexual satisfaction. Say I’m some kind of magical being that only needs to eat a couple times a month. If, every time I eat, I have a total balls-to-the-wall multi-course exquisitely prepared feast, can I really be said to “enjoy food less” than someone who eats every day but it’s just, like, grilled chicken and lettuce?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:58 PM
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That’s assuming a fair fight tho. A woman fighting for her life or attempting to escape slavery is gonna fight dirty, anything from nut punching to stabbing the man while he sleeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:27 PM
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Male bonobos will actually dominate female bonobos one on one (taking their food, for example), but as soon as you introduce a second female they are back to being the ones on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:24 PM
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How could you possibly know that my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:51 PM
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There’s a subset of young Asian men in America who have trouble integrating into mainstream youth culture, but even here they’re not as common as reddit would have you believe lol. One of the biggest players I ever knew was a guy from Bombay with a really stereotypical Indian name and accent. He was decently good looking, and off the charts charming. Girls loved him even more because he was “exotic” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 08:43 PM
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No one does on here lmao. Surely your friends and family haven’t dubbed you the 2nd most obnoxious person they know, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 07:30 PM
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Put more bluntly, check your shoe mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 06:31 PM
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I didn’t read most of this because it has nothing to do with what I wrote, but see my second reply to officerkondo. Most athletes absolutely do need to train cardio as well as lift, since top performance at most sports requires a combination of strength, speed, and endurance. Powerlifting, like bodybuilding, is an exception that relies almost exclusively on strength/muscle mass. The same cannot be said for football, swimming, soccer, hockey, cross country skiing, rugby, fencing, or pretty much a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 11:49 AM
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I mean train cardio, not run marathons specifically. All athletes do this, from the skinniest swimmer to the beefiest linebacker. I don’t personally consider bodybuilders “athletes” in the traditional sense, but if you do then I’ll grant that they’re the one exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:16 PM
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Any serious athlete could tell you that you need both to perform at your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 10:09 PM
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Not very successfully though :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 09:33 PM
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In this case it’s more like men castrating themselves to make women UNhappy, if the “personal responsibility” line of reasoning applies to more than just a few dweebs on reddit. Abortion being illegal hurts both men and women, but you all care so much about hurting women that you’re willing to take that L 😂 Have fun with your noseless face I guess, hope it was worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:08 PM
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Beyond incentivizing healthy lifestyles and creating spaces for young people to socialize (as others have suggested), I don’t think there is any way to legislate away men’s dating woes. As trp is fond of saying, you can’t negotiate attraction... And you definitely can’t make women fuck people they aren’t interested in with a tax break.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 07:32 PM
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Ah ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 06:34 PM
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There are better treatments for depression than phenibut dude. Any old low-dosage ssri can feel like a miracle drug when you’ve been struggling untreated for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 02:42 PM
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Of course it’s not a need. Some people are happily celibate for life. But people who feel that it is being denied to them unjustly tend to over-fixate on it and amplify its importance. That said, it may not be a need but it sure is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 04:54 PM
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Agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 02:59 PM
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I’ve had guys ask probing questions to kinda get an idea of my sexual history. One was a right wing weirdo who would’ve been right at home on TRP, and one was actually my current partner. The difference is, the first guy was obviously trying to figure out if I was too much of a slut to be worth his time, and my partner was only curious because he had just finished telling me a bunch of wacky hookup stories and I didn’t have anything to contribute to the conversation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:56 PM
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Why do you think that being disgusted by women sexually is necessary in order to hate them? Most misogynists are straight men: Their attraction to women, and their anger over the power that these inferior beings have over them, is the root of their hatred. I would even go so far as to say that sexual attraction is a necessary component of genuine misogyny, just like its a component of genuine romantic love. The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. The worst misogynists, the men who sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:42 PM
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...Except that chances are, nothing you do can prove them wrong, and one step in the wrong direction can turn a woman hater into a woman beater. It’s not a coincidence that pretty much all rapists and domestic abusers are textbook misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:34 PM
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High RMV people are high RMV, regardless of your relative sluttiness. Hell, it isn’t even necessary to be polyamorous and bisexual. Just be a cool attractive person who is great in bed and you will not find a shortage of men willing to commit, even if some fools on the internet think you’re an icky icky slut. Before me my boyfriend had only dated virgins and very low n women, and he’s still totally smitten with my kinky ass. Men want fun and excitement too, and the “ick” factor of female promisc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 07:52 PM
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I don’t even know how to respond to this besides recommending that you check out some kind of “physics for dummies” course
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 09:28 AM
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...And you consider this form of patriarchy a good thing? Christ. I usually roll my eyes at lines like “feminism is the radical notion that women are people” but dude. Women are people. Who suffered under the conditions you described. Why, now that we have a say in the matter, would we go back to those conditions? You can find fulfillment in life without trampling over the rights and liberties of your fellow human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 09:26 AM
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What the fuck did you just fucking say about me, you little bitch? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class in the Navy Seals, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret raids on Al-Quaeda, and I have over 300 confirmed kills. I am trained in gorilla warfare and I’m the top sniper in the entire US armed forces. You are nothing to me but just another target. I will wipe you the fuck out with precision the likes of which has never been seen before on this Earth, mark my fucking words. You thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/19 09:17 AM
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I mean it kinda is when you apply it to human interaction. People ain’t magnets.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 07:00 PM
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Weird. Where do you live? Maybe this happens more often in conservative places where being gay is seen as somewhat abnormal lol. Like a woman in NYC might think to herself “he’s not into me, maybe he’s gay” but it would be pretty gauche to blurt it out like that... Especially when there’s a good chance that she’s right!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 05:47 PM
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Guys in ltrs who see their partners with and without makeup frequently may be able to tell, but ime it takes a while and most guys aren’t paying enough attention to notice. My ex would only be like “hey, you’re wearing makeup! :D” when I was wearing really obvious lipstick or eyeliner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 05:42 PM
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Conservatives in aggregate are no more morally pure than liberals, no matter how much they harp on Christian values and such. Conservative women will still lie, cheat, and get teen pregnant. Awalt is dumb, but your in-group isn’t exempt from the darker/stupider parts of human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 05:35 PM
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I’ve tried, with mixed success. Y’all can say “that’s because women are illogical, tingles etc reeee” all you want, but I’ve had exactly the same mixed success with warning dudes off of crazy. It’s human nature to ignore red flags when you’re smitten with someone, and it takes a strong person to look at that kind of situation objectively. Most people aren’t stronger than their feelings of infatuation, even if they think they ought to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 05:26 PM
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Well if it's part of bdsm role play, or a girl that he is just fucking and she's ok with that, then it doesn't really matter one way or another. But if you're in a relationship with someone that may become serious, you are going to have to talk about things like that at some point. After all, you have to find out whether she's a slut or not somehow, right? And regardless, you really can't hide attitudes like that forever, contrary to what many from TRP seem to think. With few exceptions, a "slut…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:00 AM
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Ok now I’m sure you’re trolling lmao. Had me fooled for a good minute!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 10:25 PM
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Who is “we” and where do you get off telling a bunch of women what is and isn’t normal for vaginas? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 10:20 PM
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What makes you think these are the same men who are super judge-y about female sexuality? I mean, a good number of posters on here complain about prudish girlfriends and wives while also claiming that “sluts” are unworthy of love and only good for fucking. Expressing these kinds of views is going to scare away pretty much any woman who is sexually liberated/adventurous, regardless of her level of promiscuity, so I’m not sure what they expect besides prudishness from the women that remain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:14 PM
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Kind of a distinction without difference, no? By definition, neither men nor women will dominate someone that they can't dominate. It seems like the main difference is that women will usually back down when they know they're outmatched, while men will continue to try their luck until they are completely smacked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:07 PM
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I'm gonna gonna guess that at least a few of the women who told you that all they do is "sleep, watch netflix and browse Instagram" were being self deprecating and/or flippant, but that's just a hunch. Even my most basic bitch friend writes poetry, goes hiking, and reads a shit ton of dense philosophical tomes. Maybe hit up your nearest college town for them educated hoes lol. To answer your question: I draw, paint, and write short stories and poetry. I read (both fiction and nonfiction), play t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 08:01 PM
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What, you mean watching facebook clips about Game of Thrones with a heroin needle sticking out of my arm while pooping isn't an acceptable way to spend my free time? Killjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:46 PM
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The former. Extremely masculine men don't even ping on my sexual radar unless they're very aesthetically attractive or have some hidden vulnerability. Friendliness and emotional openness are a must!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:28 PM
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That's like the tl;dr version of the male social matrix tho. Dominating and outcompeting others is how men gain status.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:22 PM
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There definitely are more socially incompetent women running around as well. However I do think that these women have a slight leg up on later-in-life social skill acquisition, for interconnected reasons of biology, culture, and upbringing. I would have considered myself one up until a few years ago. And I had a really hard time dating, despite being conventionally attractive! I just wasn't a full on femcel, so my social incompetence flew under the radar for the most part. Going to college and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:19 PM
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Because if you've ever been within sniffing distance of dating a man you know there's way more to a successful relationship with one than that? It's kinda like saying "all you have to do as a man is buy her things and make her come and you'll get from you want from a woman and keep her happy." Like, those aren't necessarily bad things to do, but you're in for a rude awakening if you think that's all it's gonna take.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 07:10 PM
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So the whole thing about how women receive lighter sentences for the same crimes should be a total non-issue then, right? After all, anyone who believe [sic] male murder and female murder are same bad [sic] don't under [sic] basic gender difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 07:47 PM
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I find reddit users named MrHerbSherman disgusting so they must become illegal. Wee oo wee oo here come the police Jokes aside, disgust may play a role in policy, but it has never been a valid enough reason to outlaw something on its own. Even disgust-based anti gay legislation is and was couched in religious/moral justification, and we’re slowly but surely doing away with it in most developed countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 04:54 AM
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Hah I clearly didn’t read the OP very carefully because I thought this was about unflattering fashion choices until I read the other comments. 😂 I was gonna say spiked gelled hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:00 PM
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Men will sleep with anything, but they won't commit to or fall in love with someone they perceive as ugly or low value. Most women are after love, not just sex. Also, *everyone* treats you better when you're attractive, from bus drivers to grannies. I think that this applies to men too to a certain extent (halo effect etc), but goes double for women since women's aesthetics are so valued in our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 06:23 PM
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Men they’re dating? In real life? When and where have you seen this happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 05:51 PM
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Who is ”women?” I don’t make a fuckin Twitter callout post every time my boyfriend does something irritating lol. He’s an adult and I’m not his mom. It’s not my job to make him “suffer the consequences” of anything, unless he crosses a major line where the consequence is that I break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:27 PM
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buddy I don’t know what kind of galaxy brain shit you’ve internalized, but over here in the real world there’s a BIG middle ground between letting someone mistreat you and incessantly CALLING THEM OUT and MAKING THEM SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES OF (what you perceive as) THEIR BAD BEHAVIOR. That’s an insufferable attitude in general, and one that’s just plain destructive in the context of a long term relationship. Set healthy boundaries and stand up for yourself if your partner does something unaccep…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 11:20 PM
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Don't let them get away with excusing or rationalizing their shitty decisions and behavior; Hold a light up to it, call it out for what it is, and then make them suffer the consequences. lmao imagine dating someone who acted like this. no thanks, i'm not a sick freak with a fetish for joyless judgmental toolbags
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 11:18 PM
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Female, and yes. Not all the time, but often enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:24 PM
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It is a little girly to be that into skincare, but hey if you like it then you do you. I think more men should moisturize and exfoliate. High end skincare is mostly a scam though, unless it's something specialized that treats a specific problem. Thinking you'll be able to look 35 at 60 just by being diligent with skincare is pure delusion though. You can't stop the clock, only slow it; And your diet, exercise routine, and general lifestyle will affect your attractiveness as you age way more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 09:35 PM
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This could be wearing makeup themselves to make their face look better and cover up any redness, they could wear shoe inserts to add a couple inches to their average height of 5'9, they could style their facial hair strategically to make their average jaw appear stronger, they could shave their body to appear more lean and defined, they could wear a wig, they could straighten their jew hair, they could wear contacts, they could say they're 6 foot when they are like 5'10, they could lie about the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 03:07 PM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/HmlfiOQ
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:52 PM
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Setting aside the the obvious hilarity of calling things as innocuous and unavoidable as “breaking up with a guy” AWALT... Yeah I’m capable of all those things. I’m also capable of going over to my mom’s house tomorrow and stabbing her to death with a pencil. I’m capable of donating all my money to charity and living out the rest of my days as a traveling ascetic. I’m capable of stripping naked, painting myself blue, and dancing on the streets of New York City. I’m not going to do any of those t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 02:57 AM
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I meet women and its depressing how well they fit into RP stereotypes and reaffirm it. Look up “confirmation bias.” want something authentic, as soon as that happens it's over with. She'll instantly lose interest. Way more women are interested in relationships than not dude. If you can’t find a woman who wants something “real” with you, check your own shoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 03:54 PM
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If they look like men, act like men, and get treated like men, then they are for all intents and purposes “men.” This is like saying adoptive parents aren’t parents. Like sure, maybe not technically, but if you fulfil the social role of “parent” then for all intents and purposes you are one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 03:48 PM
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A vasectomy certainly helps. But have you never heard of an accidental pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 01:42 PM
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Well, being a woman myself, that isn’t a huge concern of mine. But accidents do happen, even if you use birth control. You can do a lot to mitigate the risk of pregnancy, but it’s very hard to eliminate it completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 01:41 PM
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In other news the sky is blue and water is wet! However the difference is that both parties are 100% in control of whether or not marriage happens, which cannot be said for pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 01:32 PM
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The other dude is cat calling you and trying to provoke your guy. I mean, if he's doing something like that he's probably either a crazy person or on drugs so I'd calmly but quickly walk away, and urge my boyfriend to do the same. A handsome crazy person is still a crazy person. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:01 PM
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What? No. If I'm "making a guy wait" it's because of my own comfort level with intimacy, and my desire to build a stronger connection with him, not some weird carrot-stick gambit. I might still be open to meeting and going on dates with other guys until exclusivity is established, but fucking them kinda defeats the purpose of waiting. Of course, if we're not exclusive yet then I don't expect him to abstain from sex altogether either. If he wants to keep going on dates or hooking up with his fwb …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 04:08 PM
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It's not ALWAYS sexist, but as with everything context is key. If you're being told to smile more as a customer service employee because your RBF is scaring off customers, that's a little different than being told to smile more by a random man on the street because your RBF makes his penis sad. With the Brie Larson thing it comes off as sexist because male superheroes can be scowley badasses without a problem, but she was being told to smile even though it's inappropriate for the character she's…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 03:58 PM
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I mean, obviously it’s murder. Rape is a terrible thing to go through, but people do get over it and move on. You can’t do that if you’re dead. However I do think that rape should be treated as a more serious red flag by the legal system than it currently is, since there are few serial killers and the like who weren’t serial rapists first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 05:33 PM
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It would be cool if I could express my sexuality authentically without it ruining my value as a relationship partner and/or human being in the eyes of many. I also wish that either long term monogamy wasn’t such a schlep or that a certain degree of non-monogamy was more widely accepted in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 05:28 PM
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I would be surprised for sure, since this really isn’t an attitude I’ve ever encountered from a man, but I’d respect his wishes. I have no desire to pressure anyone into sex they don’t want, and I can be patient. But if it was a “no sex before marriage because Jesus said so” thing then it would be a sign of incompatible values.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 05:12 PM
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they might end up just being flirtatious with everyone, and honestly believe it doesn’t count because “who would want to date plain old me?” I was friends with a guy just like this in college. 😂He was nerdy but suuuuper charismatic and and when our friend group would joke about how everyone who meets him instantly falls in love/lust he was just like "????????"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 02:48 PM
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I’m a girl and I’ve had the same experience as you op! The gym never struck me as a very social place, despite the many hunky guys it contains. But I guess some people have had different experiences, based on the comments. I say if you’re getting iois and she’s not wearing headphones then go for it. Worst that happens is you get brushed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:05 PM
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Get involved in sjw-y sex positive kink/poly/genderweird communities. Seriously. People are swapping fluids in those circles like you wouldn't believe, including men I personally wouldn't touch with a 10-ft pole. Of course, you'll have to familiarize yourself with the culture, lingo, and philosophy to fit in. You'll be expected to respect the rules of the scene and the validity of identities and orientations that will probably make you roll your eyes. But if the goal is to get with many women ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 08:54 PM
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This sounds like it was procedurally generated by a trp textbot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:04 PM
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I think it’s mostly a lack of self awareness. We all like to think we’d dump a cheater or turn down a snooty bitch, but once you find yourself in that situation, emotions cloud your rational thinking, and things get more complicated. Fwiw I think men and women fall victim to this thought pattern equally often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:02 PM
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I’m more a fan of the smash/maybe/pass scale myself, as once you reach the point of fuckability breaking it down further seems like splitting hairs. For me most guys in my age cohort are a “maybe” until something bumps them up or down, like a sexy voice (smash!) or bad BO (pass..)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 03:58 PM
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Ngl I've always had more relationship success with men who are cute but book-dumb than with typical smart guys. A relationship only has room for so much neuroticism and know-it-all bullshit, and I've got that corner of things covered. So I don't blame nerdy/cerebral/intellectual men for preferring to date "hearts" rather than "heads," if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:08 PM
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Yeahh it's definitely unusual, but everyone is different. One of my good friends never seemed to have any interest in women until she met her now-fiance, who is a cute butch lesbian. Human sexuality is a tricky beast
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:00 PM
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Your friend is bi, or sexually fluid, or "homoflexible" as the kids say. She may prefer women but be down to clown with the right guy, and just doesn't have the vocabulary to describe this state of affairs. I don't think this is the case for every or even most self-identified lesbians, but some people just don't realize their own bisexuality until they meet a particular person who clicks that lock for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:51 PM
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Jews tend to BE bossy women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:18 PM
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I’m referring more to the Chris Hemswirth look than the 300 lbs muscle beast look lol. I know many women like the look, I’m just saying it’s not as subtle as you guys think (most of the time). Lots of men like Kim K’s big fake ass too and I ain’t judging!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:11 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:53 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:48 PM
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Omg where were these guys when the purge was happening. this would've been so much better than a bunch of boring old incel shit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:37 PM
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A male version of that thread gets posted like every three weeks. The ones here are way beyond your run of the mill "DAE women/men are lying liars???" posts. you shouldn't listen to women on dates when they say no perceived as condoning rape Lmao what other way could that possibly be interpreted? I'm pretty sure a post encouraging rape against men would be removed as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:35 PM
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I mean, if I’m already a tasty sausage or a decent facsimile thereof, why should I have to eat an over spiced pile of slop that may someday become a sausage? There’s a reason trp recommends “monk mode” when you first start out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 10:13 PM
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Because it contradicts our lived experiences? Listen, I know that certain people and certain cultures place a high premium on female virginity, but I’m not living in those cultures. I’m a young coastal American secular Jew. The only people around me who would care about my virginity or lack thereof would probably consider the whole “secular Jew” thing a way bigger problem anyways. Some men somewhere may value female virginity, and some women somewhere may value their opinion. I, most bluepllers,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 05:09 PM
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There is a certain kind of "beefy" look that, while sought after, is difficult to achieve natty. If you hang out in gyms long enough you get an eye for the difference. But a) it's not really any of my business, and b) looks can be deceiving. It's kinda like guessing if a girl has had work done. There are certain aesthetic tells, but it's an art not a science and it's easy to be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:45 PM
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You're overthinking this. Contrary to popular belief, I don't think women really give a shit about "how the sausage is made," as long as the end result is a tasty sausage in their preferred flavor. What many women dislike (and I know this is shocking) are annoying high maintenance killjoys. Men who talk about self improvement and little else. Men who read books only about being a better sexier man, not books that they enjoy. Men who are too preoccupied with their gym routine and "clean eating" t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:37 PM
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I cba to dig up the survey, but don't married people have way more sex in an average year than single people? Even if women's libido declines over the course of a relationship, if she's still willing to sex you up with *some* regularity, then you'll still maximize the amount of sex you're having by staying in that relationship rather than leaving and risking one or more long dry spells. There's a reason that even movie stars get married, love notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:22 PM
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I mean, even if he's not same person who made the original "chad casing" comment, it's still an inane statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 09:15 PM
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There are female red pillers, tradcons, and mras too. In similar proportions to male feminists, if I had to guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:35 PM
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I guess what I’d like to know is what form you’d like this sympathy to take, since sympathy alone is nothing but an internal emotion and the concept of charity fucks are, as you say, silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:24 PM
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I have sympathy for lonely men, and for many other people. But I'm not running a charity here. I'm no more interested in personally fucking away men's loneliness than am am in feeding my flesh to the homeless. I do my best to help people in need when necessary and appropriate, including donating money to organizations that fight homelessness, support rape victims, etc. I know many other women do as well. But there's not a lot that "women," collectively, can do for lonely strangers on the interne…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 10:44 PM
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Maybe I’m missing something. I interpreted your statement as chiding this girl for “Chad chasing” when she’s “nothing special,” but perhaps you meant that it’s nothing special for a young Chadette to Chad-chase?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:27 PM
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So? She can still find you gross. I wouldn’t want someone who would take to the internet to call me ugly after being turned down for a hug to touch me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:23 PM
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A cute smart 21 yo woman is nothing special but her equivalent cute smart man is an unobtainable chad? Incel logic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:17 PM
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Would you rather hear “don’t hug me because of my boyfriend” or “dont hug me because I think you’re gross.” Serious question, because I think most people would prefer the former even if it’s slightly dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 07:13 PM
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Well, a few reasons. 1) women get approached by men way more often than the other way around. 2) When men do get approached and have to reject a woman’s advances, they may remember their own experiences of rejection and be nicer in an effort to “do unto others,” and 3) women may be better at picking up on disinterest and backing off before it gets to the point of a direct rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 04:41 PM
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You can cherry pick "Red Pill Lessons" from almost any story that isn't explicitly feminist, and even a few that are. Doesn't mean that these lessons are ~lost wisdom of the ancients~ or whatever, just that the ideas they represent are less new and exciting to people than they used to be. People still read the classics. People still take wisdom and inspiration from them. The existence of other media doesn't erase their impact unless you're purposely not paying attention. And, based on the fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 09:09 PM
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*you're
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:52 PM
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Because it can be fun to play out those fantasies. With a guy I like, trust, and who turns me on, me being a horny sex kitten is as fun for me as it is for him. I don't like the sexual attention of strangers personally, which keeps me from dressing overly sexy in public, but different strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 03:31 PM
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Slutwalks aren’t walks to celebrate female promiscuity or anything like that, they’re marches for solidarity of sexual assault survivors. They’re called that in an attempt to reclaim and destigmatize the word “slut,” since it’s often used as a bludgeon against SA survivors. ie: “You’re a slut so you must’ve wanted it” “If you weren’t dressed like a slut it wouldn’t have happened” etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 06:24 PM
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Dressing down, mostly. Unless a man is really clueless he usually won't bother to hit on a skinny girl dressed like a hobo who looks tired and done with the world's bullshit, which is kinda my weekday look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:35 AM
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"Significant" means that it improves or makes easier daily functioning either socially, financially or occupational. You brush off biological differences, but I would say the advantages of male physiology have a pretty significant impact on daily functioning, especially in less industrialized societies. Simply not having to potentially bear the burden of pregnancy completely changes how men interact with sex, relationships, careers, family, and public life. And not for the worse, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:26 AM
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I wanted to see how arguing like a woman works in practice. Sadly you only succeeded at demonstrating how arguing like an obnoxious pedant works in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:20 AM
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5-7 days seems manageable. My initial googling showed people talking about going for 10, 20, 30 day periods which just sounds insane! Unfortunately I really am only a little above the minimum healthy bf% for women, and dropping below it has caused me health problems in the past. But hey, right after Christmas? Not a bad idea. Thanks for the tip!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:35 PM
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I think that worrying about your weight can lead to an odd love/hate relationship with food that is more common with women. But I don’t think that standard “foodieness” is a gendered trait. I’m a giant food/drink snob and I love cooking, eating, and hosting dinners, but these are all traits I picked up from my dad. My mom’s a mediocre cook and is generally more focused on the healthiness and utility of food than its flavor. It’s a matter of culture and disposition more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:12 PM
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I think that these female pro-minimalism coaches exist because of first world women’s tendency to overbuy and overspend. Men certainly buy unnecessary shit too, but their spending patterns are different and they tend to be less self critical. Exact economic/cultural reasons aside though, women are more likely to look at their spending and say to themselves “Damn, I have a problem. I wonder if someone out there can help with this.” Which leads them to discover Marie Kondo, minimalism, etc. The an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:02 PM
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Is this safe if you don’t really have any spare weight to lose? I’m always on the lookout for things that will help with my adhd besides drugs, but this sounds like a recipe for hospitalization for a twig person like myself 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 06:51 PM
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Ok but if you genuinely believe in feminist ideals, then being “unapologetically not a feminist” just because you think it makes you a panderer is paradoxically just as lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 09:24 PM
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Well, sure, amongst other things. Like friends, self esteem, and life satisfaction. It’s all a positive feedback loop that builds off of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 09:21 PM
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Personally I’m not as averse to eye contact with strangers as some people are, despite living in New York. I usually give a brief smile-nod to everyone I meet, unless I’m in a hurry or they’re behaving strangely. For the 99% of people who are normal and well intentioned, its just nice. For that 1%, it’s like... I see you dude. I will be able to identify you from a lineup if you try some shit. However, I’m not someone who generally gives off sexy or flirtatious vibes, so I may be less gun shy tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 07:45 PM
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Same reason men hamster away male cheating while condemning female cheating. Almost everyone empathizes more readily with people like themselves, and is therefore more forgiving of their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:59 PM
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Wish this reply was higher up. It seems like a lot of folks on here have no idea what abuse looks like irl, which is concerning to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:50 PM
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The whole “soy makes you feminine” meme is so bizarre lol. There is a molecule in soy that has a similar shape to estrogen, but it’s a plant hormone that, as far as anyone can tell, doesn’t interact with the human endocrine system at all. There is zero scientific evidence that soy increases estrogen production in humans. You can eat soy fellas. It’s not gonna give you bitch tits or make you vote Democrat. It’s a better source of protien than whey anyways, esp if you’re lactose intolerant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:00 AM
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It’s just what’s trendy today. Young women in my mom’s generation wore their hair short much more often. And fwiw long hair is easier to care for in a lot of ways. You don’t have to style it for it to look good, and if it’s greasy you can just throw it up in a ponytail. Short hair is only easier to care for if we’re talking boy-short, and women rarely wear their hair like that unless they want to advertise that they are gay!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:58 PM
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If I was naturally asexual or whatever I’d be fine with it, but as is I already know how great sex and companionship with a loving partner can be and would hate to give that up! I feel the same about, say, taking a pill that would cover all your nutritional needs. Sure, it would be convenient, but have you ever tasted really good spaghetti?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:49 PM
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I require a man to be at least feminist-friendly if we’re gonna date. He doesn’t have to use the label or anything, just be pro-gender equality, anti-sexist, and sympathetic towards women’s issues (as I generally am towards men’s issues). I consider active anti-feminism a major red flag for several reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 12:21 AM
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You can say that all you want, but it doesn’t change the fact that the “disgusting, abstract comparison to violating a person's genitalia” is exactly what most RPers mean when they use the phrase, including the people who came up with it. If by “you ladies” you mean RP mods and vanguards though, then yes absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:42 PM
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Oh my god dude. Also from Dictionary.com: 1: unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration of the vagina, anus, or mouth of another person, with or without force, by a sex organ, other body part, or foreign object, without the consent of the victim. This is by far the most commonly used definition of the word. Using “rape” as a synonym of kidnapping or plundering has not been in common parlance for hundreds of years. Like it or not, the people who coined the term “divorce rape” int…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:33 PM
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Wheee look at that hamster wheel spin! Keep it up little guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:43 PM
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Somehow I think that the typical RP user is much more familiar with the normal, colloquial definition of the work "rape" than one that has hardly been used since antiquity. As others have pointed out, the term "divorce rape" was explicitly coined to draw comparison between divorce and sexual assault, mostly for shock value. If you choose to interpret "divorce rape" along the lines of "The Rape (despoiling, kidnapping) of the Sabine Women" that's up to you, just know that you're pretty much the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:41 PM
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Yes lol. Constantly. Here and elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:33 PM
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In what world does "rape" mean the same thing as "robbery?" Rape specifically refers to nonconsensual sex, and "divorce rape" is absolutely comparing divorce to sexual assault. To claim otherwise is pure hamstering, unless you're a non-native English speaker who genuinely doesn't know what "rape" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:30 PM
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I constantly see guys on here say that shyness is an advantage for women, which could not be further from the truth! Also when girls on here ask "How do I become high value??" at least 3 guys always reply with some variation of "Step 1: Don't be fat. Step 2: Don't be a bitch. Boom done." as if that's all it takes lolol. That's basically like telling a guy "Step 1: Go to the gym. Step 2: Be yourself :)" Equal parts condescending and unhelpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:50 PM
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Not scared exactly, but cautious. I’ve thankfully only been on the receiving end of very mild forms of unsavory behavior, but I’ve had friends who’ve experienced a lot worse... And I’ve seen police blotters and true crime tales about people who’ve experienced the worst of the worst of the worst. Even women who’ve never been in a truly dangerous situation in their life are aware that violence and predatory behavior from men is always possible and take steps to prevent it. The reason women don’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:27 PM
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Jason Mandoza mr steal yo robot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:02 PM
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I’m sure this is true of some men, but not men on the whole. Men simply tend to lash out in different ways than women do. For example shouting or hitting things, rather than crying. On the flip side, stoicism can be a sign of emotional maturity, but it’s usually a sign of someone who is much less emotionally mature than they fancy themself, whose unresolved issues will eventually leak or explode out in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 08:34 PM
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Yeah I mean im being flippant but it wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 02:37 AM
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Ok cool and men’s mating decisions can be decided on by a council of wise older women who will pair them up with the smartest and sturdiest women instead of the degenerate cuties they’d choose on their own. Its all coming together now. The rational men’s council and the wise women’s council will have to negotiate over every bone sesh ever for the rest of time, but hey, it’s for the good of humanity right????
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:18 PM
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That is a really shitty thing to say, but you gotta realize that a lot of the edge-jockeys on here will strike out at people they disagree with, especially woman-people, in whatever way they think will hurt the most. Unfortunately anything you say here can and will be used against you. It seems that this person genuinely struck upon a sore point, but remember that he doesn’t know you. Like, at all. It’s classic troll behavior to latch onto whatever line of commenting provokes the biggest reactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:09 PM
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Chronic untreated stupiditis
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:53 PM
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10 goats hell yeah bitches there’s a new stacy in town
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:51 PM
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Hel yea I’d kudos this to the top of archiveofourown if I could
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:39 PM
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I think that over reliance on porn makes people into bad lovers, who treat sex like a visual performance and forget that sex is actually supposed to... y’know... feel good. But a selfish lover isn’t always a bad one, as long as a) the selfishness is mutual or b) the other person enjoys the “service” role. Porn didn’t invent these dynamics. Porn also didn’t invent anal, or sexual degradation. And trust me, plenty of women (and men) are into sexual degradation alllll on their own. Porn has probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:30 PM
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I think ur a lil confused about the point of the x/10 scale my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:53 AM
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Jeff Goldblum and Mads Mikkelsen are foxy grandpas but I can't think of any other examples
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:14 PM
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Most women don't humiliate the men they reject. They just reject them. Some men see rejection as inherently humiliating, but that is largely a "them" problem. And again, having your feelings hurt is not the same as physical violence, whether your feelings are hurt via "humiliation" or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 02:59 PM
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Do you think that making a man sad because he can’t have sex with one particular woman is morally equivalent to wife beating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:00 PM
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I don’t disagree that women are often the instigators of “punishment” against women who break social norms (through promiscuity or other means), but this sub, the entire manosphere, and the lived experiences of many women will plainly tell you that men take part as well. For instance, women rarely if ever sexually assault each other and then justify it by saying something to the effect of “she was a slut anyways so who cares?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:31 PM
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She was the mastermind of the Tender Years Doctrine. She was one person. 150 years ago. Before "feminism" even existed. During a time when default custody was instead given to the father, which really isn't any better. And again: The tender years doctrine is dead and gone. Fathers get custody when they fight for it today. Hooray sexual assault in 30 percent of lesbian relationships Iirc, the figure is that ~30% of lesbians have experienced sexual assault, not that 30% of lesbian relationships in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 08:01 AM
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One single proto-feminist in 1839 campaigned for what became the basis of the tender years doctrine. The British parliament "wrote" the actual law, the precedent that it set hung around for 50 years or so, and then it was abolished in most countries before the mid 20th century. The once-existence tender years doctrine is not the "checkmate feminists" that you and other MRAs think it is. I'll give you that the Duluth model is flawed, dated, and overly narrow, but it *does* accurately describe man…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 05:34 AM
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Why would you want someone in your life that views relationships as an equation to be equaled out People want reciprocal relationships because in such a relationship, both parties work their hardest to meet the other's needs. Both parties get their needs met, and the effort to do so demonstrates love, commitment, and respect. A relationship where only one person is making an effort is exhausting for the party doing all the work, and shows a lack of love and respect from the person doing none of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 04:07 PM
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Posts that are written in this jokey faux-irreverent tone that go on for more than 3 lines make my eyes glaze over
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:18 PM
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The answer, of course, is that you don't have to want that person in your life. You're not obligated to date that person, or any person whose "attitude" or (fairly reasonable) standards you find objectionable. Now answer my question: If good treatment, good sex, and pulling your own weight are unreasonable demands in your estimation, what exactly do you bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 03:13 PM
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Why would that person want you in their life? Why would anyone want a partner who doesn't pull their own weight or make sex mutually enjoyable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 04:03 AM
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Deepthroating! Blech. I have a sensitive gag reflex and nothing is a bigger boner killer than almost vomming on your partner's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 12:55 AM
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Op is a) a man and b) in a committed relationship lol. You stick to being a dick for no reason (elsewhere, ideally) and let us handle the serious commenting alright?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 12:00 AM
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The government can force government funded colleges to accept women. Private colleges fund themselves, and are beholden only to their own rules when it comes to admissions. Most schools, including former women's colleges, are going coed these days. But a few men's only colleges still exist in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 04:53 PM
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“Destroy?” Women being allowed into top universities didn’t “destroy” them, it made them what they are today. Universities would be fools to arbitrarily exclude half their customer base, including any number of intelligent people who could make ground breaking discoveries there and earn the school more prestige, just because some guy on the internet thinks that wimninz r bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:58 PM
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No one can “force” private institutions to accept women if they don’t want to. But we as a society came to the collective conclusion that restricting women’s access to education on the basis of gender is unfair, and so most major universities have opened their doors to women. Besides, it makes more business sense to not arbitrarily exclude half the population from your customer base. And it increases the prestige of the school to have ALL the country’s best and brightest competing to go there. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:52 PM
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medium and high value men go their own way. Where are these fabled high value mgtows that you speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:38 PM
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I’ve just found that guys who watch a lot of porn mostly suck in bed. Sex becomes only about the visuals, and things like “sensations” and “human connection” and “your partner’s enjoyment” fall by the wayside. It’s not that I’m afraid I can’t measure up to pornstars or whatever. I look good, and I know how to fuck just fine. But I’m uninterested in playing the part of “posable fuck doll” in a guy’s attempt to act out a porn clip in real life at the expense of my own pleasure. What looks good on …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 02:32 PM
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Obviously the idea that not-masturbating will make you into a pussy magnet is stupid, but undersexed guys aren’t the only guys who are getting addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 01:59 PM
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My dude. My guy. You need to see a therapist. They are trained to talk people through irrational anxieties like this. There may be more at play here than a simple fear of aging, but as strangers on the internet we are deeply unqualified to figure out what those things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 01:54 PM
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From the title I figured you meant that girls OVER estimate men’s height, since that’s what I always do. Anyone taller than me is 6’, as far as I’m concerned. Doesn’t matter if they’re actually 5’7” or 6’5,” they’re just “tall” and 6’ seems like a good number for “tall.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 01:42 PM
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Because “Islam’s misogynistic culture” is a complicated issue best handled delicately from the inside by Muslim feminists and allies, not by a clueless, tone deaf rage-war waged by Anglo westerners who don’t know a hijab from a hole in the ground. This is already happening. Western feminists tend to focus on western women’s issues (frivolous as they sometimes seem) because they understand the cultural context surrounding them and how to “fix” them. I do think that western feminists would do well…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:07 PM
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If they settled, then may we all settle 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 06:17 PM
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Haha well thanks! I’ll keep that in mind for future reference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 02:06 PM
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1) I find very few women sexually attractive (hence the reason I call myself straight) 2) There are way more straight and bi men in the world than queer women to begin with 3) I’m fairly relationship minded, and 4) The women I tend to like are usually attractive, outgoing, masculine presenting girls who are in high demand amongst their fellow lesbians, and have no reason to want to date someone who is barely even bi. I did briefly date a trans guy though. He was cool, but it didn’t work out ¯_(ツ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 09:06 PM
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I don’t. I call myself straight, despite the fact that I DO find myself wanting to have sex with a woman once in a blue moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:34 PM
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Every time some RP avatar of r/iamverysmart praises the quality of Rollo's writing I have myself a hearty internal chuckle. Like, you can agree with him and think he has good ideas or whatever, but face it: The man needs an editor the way a Californian tree needs a firehose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:46 AM
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San Francisco already exists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:41 PM
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Twinks. Otters. Leather daddies. Bears. Long ago, the four nations lived together in harmony...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:41 PM
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I don’t know. If men are equal to women then how have feminists managed to achieve their iron grip on society (according to the manosphere, at least)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:34 PM
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No fam they’re talking about the gender that crows “fuck sluts, marry virgins” from the rooftop and then complains about dead bedrooms after they marry those virgins with the low sex drives and/or sexual hang ups that caused them to be virgins in the first place. They’re also thinking of the gender that praises male promiscuity and shames the women that make that promiscuity possible. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:46 PM
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This kinda breaks down when you take a step outside and notice that men are often just as entitled and arrogant as women, if not more so. Where’s their bad attitude coming from, if they’ve all been humbled by their service to the female imperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 02:39 PM
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Said the red pill man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:28 AM
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So actual surveys, studies, and statistics are pseudoscience, but your fee fees are hard cold facts? Is that what you're claiming here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 06:04 PM
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I didn't say you think that they're not "valid people," I said you think their gender identity is invalid. Which you explicitly do: "I don’t have to agree that they are a man if they are biologically female." What I'm saying is, that doesn't really matter. Whether or not you think a person with xx chromosomes can be a man is irrelevant to the fact that people with xx chromosomes who look like, act like, and refer to themselves as men do exist. These people, in colloquial English, are called tran…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 11:23 PM
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men who are reckless with their finances This is the real killer imo, not “brokeness” itself. There are myriad reasons that a man might not be rolling in dough, and some of them don’t effect his quality as a partner, but if a man is poor because he doesn’t know how to handle his finances like an adult he will either ruin you or force you into a stressful and deeply unsexy “mommy” role. My dad’s extreme financial idiocy was half the reason my parents got divorced. A partner should be someone you …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 08:56 PM
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There’s no such thing as ‘cis-gender’. As long as there's such a thing as transgender, then there's such a thing as cisgender, since it's just a word that means "not transgender." Whether or not you believe that a person with male chromosomes can ever "truly" be a woman is irrelevant. Transgender people; People who at the very least play the social role of the opposite sex; not only exist but are also becoming increasingly visible in the mainstream. "Cis" is a good word for when you need to dist…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:27 PM
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Women fall in love too dude. Just not with this guy, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:12 PM
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White people are more neotenous than other races. Huh? How so? White people tend to be tallish, have long sharp faces and big pointy noses. None of those things are usually considered neotenous lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:13 PM
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current culture pedestalizes "diversity" to an unhealthy degree Only in response to the extreme Eurocentrism that has defined American/Euro culture for centuries. A few decades of attempts to normalize diversity won't erase deep seated cultural notions of race and beauty, at least not right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:04 PM
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Females are inherently viewed as more valuable than males in all cultures. Where do you all get this idea? In heavily patriarchal societies women are seen as disposable breeding machines, bottom line cut and dry. Look at the rates of female infanticide and sex selective abortion around the world, even today. People aren't dispatching burdensome female babies because they see women as inherently valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:54 PM
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No, my post literally said the opposite of that lol. I don’t think I’m the only “mostly straight” woman in the world, but I know that Kinsey 0’s still exist. Unlike OP, who seems to believe that Kinsey 6 women do not exist simple because there are Kinsey 5’s in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:41 PM
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I never said that. That’s exactly what your OP says, unless I’m missing something. Also the LGBT community has fought big time precisely so that "gay" and "lesbian" ARE NOT SEEN as mere label identities. Lol. No, the LGBT community has fought for a long time to have those identity labels, and the relationships they imply, be accepted and celebrated. “Gay” and “lesbian” are words that mean something, but they’re still just words, and people often disagree on their precise usage. For example a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:39 PM
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Yeah, pretty much. If people colloquially used their Kinsey numbers instead of normal sexual identity labels that might matter, but most people don’t, so “straight” is good enough for me!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:33 PM
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It’s true that women are often more sexually fluid than men. But that doesn’t mean that lesbians don’t exist, or that lesbians are just bisexuals who are sick of men. “Lesbian” is an identity label as much as anything. If you’re a woman who exclusively or near exclusively dates women, you may decide to call yourself a lesbian for ease of communication even if you experience occasional attraction to men. I suppose I myself could be considered “bisexual,” but since I’m almost exclusively intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 02:11 PM
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I’ve been on a Bryan Fuller bender lately, so I’ll nominate Ned and Chuck from Pushing Daisies, and Jack and Bella from Hannibal. Both pairs are kinda doomed by outside circumstances, but heathy besides that!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 10:23 PM
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Morticia and gomez are the #relationshipgoals standard I strive for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 10:10 PM
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I can still dominate women whether or not they like it so long as they agree in any way I see fit whether or not it's safe. That’s what they call a felony bud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:50 AM
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Sure, but if a Chad can’t get laid is he really a Chad? I doubt all the “mentalcels” out there would consider themselves such.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:29 PM
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You don’t need to be “very attractive” to find a gf that loves you and personally finds you attractive. Why on earth would you assume that a guy who used to publicly lament about his inability to attract women is “very attractive?”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:22 PM
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Buddy I don’t know if you’re new or what, but her bf is/was a regular poster on here and at one time described himself as a near-incel. Obviously some self esteem issues were at play (as is probably the case for a lot of romantically challenged men), but if someone like that is a Chad then I’m forced to assume that you and every other near-incel on here is too. So congrats, Chad!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:06 PM
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I see what you're saying, but personally I have little patience for that kind of game playing bullshit lol. Total waste of time. If a man that I actually wanted to date acted the way you describe, I would generally assume he wasn't interested and bounce. If he was, too bad: Women aren't mind readers either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:50 PM
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Not gay myself, but as someone with a lot of lgbt friends, coworkers, and family members, I can confidently say... Kinda? There are certain rp ideas that are just new names for pretty universal concepts. Attractive, confident people have an easier time getting sex and relationships. Everyone wants a partner who is "better" than them in one way or another. People often desire masculine/feminine polarity in their relationships. Bitches be crazy, sometimes. As for some differences I've noticed: Les…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:31 PM
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You are innately and viscerally attracted to men who display these characteristics, which is why many of us have worked hard to develop them as second nature. I'm innately and viscerally attracted to men who act like they don't want to date me? Alright kemosabe whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:07 PM
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It's pretty hard to hide deep seated political/social beliefs for long periods of time, especially in a committed relationship. And that's if being an awkward try-hard who "subtly" uses rp lingo and flirting/vetting techniques doesn't out you immediately, which I've actually experienced believe it or not. Fwiw though I wouldn't care too much if a potential date was a casual peruser of manosphere content as long as he was friendly, well-intentioned, politically left-of-center, and not bitter towa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 07:59 PM
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As opposed to millennial men who are paragons of virtue and humility lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 05:49 PM
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it's like when a girl has sex with a guy she doesn't really like. find some desperate dirtbag who is willing to fuck her So exactly the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 04:50 AM
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Yes, Rami Malek is attractive and looks good for his age. Why did you make this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 11:01 PM
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I don’t think that all women can be said to prefer extreme height, no. Most women want a man who’s at least a little taller than they are, but there are still exceptions. Height for men is like an hourglass figure for women. People who have them are certainly considered more attractive because of it, but it’s not the be all end all of a person’s desirability. Short men and curveless women can still find love and be sexy. Anecdotally, tall women and short men do date, as well as people close to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 04:15 PM
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It’s just you. Tall women are almost as sought after as tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 11:12 PM
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“Right time, right person” is key. I have 0 regrets about losing my virginity at a relatively young age (16) because my boyfriend at the time and I were very much in love and pretty sensible for teenagers. We took things slow, used birth control responsibly, and our parents knew that we were sexually active and were ok with it. If I had been pushed into early sexual activity by someone who didn’t have my best interests at heart, if I had been ignorant about birth control/consent/stds/other stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 11:33 PM
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I have a theory that love is like that because the practical nature of women have made it so. This makes no gd sense my man. Your emotions are your emotions. “Women” have no say over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 08:06 PM
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Vast majority of women aren’t given it all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 08:01 PM
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if you point out the actual problem (Juden) thats when you get into trouble, Conservative enclaves or not doesn’t matter How oddly comforting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 10:58 PM
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Easy: She has a brand to maintain, possibly a lot of money to make, but if she fucked every guy who asked she’d have no time for anything else. It’s not like you know her irl dude, you’re one of thousands of interchangeable screen names who would probably like to get into her pants. Personally I would find all that sexual attention exhausing as well. But she most likely keeps doing it for the same reason most people do anything: $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:56 PM
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Haha yeah brah that astrology shit is gayyyy. Anyways did you catch that sick touchbasket at the Big Game last night?? Man I love sports
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:16 PM
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Well, sure. If we were talking about an actual guy, it might be possible to determine why he’s getting rejected. But hammerhaunts was just talking about the general concept of a “nice guy tm.” Without knowing the guy, there’s no knowing what he’s doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:27 AM
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There are as many reasons for a man to be rejected as there are men in the world. Maybe he smells bad. Maybe he’s ugly. Maybe he’s weird. Maybe he looks like her brother. Maybe she’s a lesbian. Maybe she’s married. Maybe a lot of things. Even the Chadliest of Chads will face rejection at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 06:01 PM
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Who is “you?” If a man (politely, respectfully) expressed that he did not want to be friends after a rejection, he would fall under the category of “nice guy who remains nice” in my books, not “Nice Guy TM.” This comment is specifically in reference to men who are hostile in the wake of rejection, despite their claims of niceness. Those are the Nice Guys (tm) that most people object to. The “tm” is in reference to the fact that they’re not actually nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 05:54 PM
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Are you really implying that there is just one singular reason why a man might be rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 05:40 PM
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Here’s the thing: There’s aggressive men, and then there’s passive aggressive men. Nice Guys TM are the latter. They pretend to be nice, then flip their lid when rejected. It’s the fakery that women object to, not the niceness. A man who is nice and stays nice after being rejected is fine. A man who is a dick and stays a dick after being rejected will be called a dick. A man who is upfront about his desires (“aggressive”) and nice after being rejected is ideal. But it’s the duplicitous nature of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:54 PM
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I definitely know women like this, but personally I’m with you OP: “Human interaction” is overrated. I like socializing for socializing’s sake sometimes, but usually my own company is enough. Still, I don’t think that only talking to colleagues can truly be called “living in solitude.” Colleagues are still people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:14 PM
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Never done this myself but once when I was younger and stupider I went on a Tinder date in Italy and a gaggle of my abroad-friends followed me into the pub to make sure the guy wasn’t going to mug me. (He didn’t, but he did allude to being a fascist so there was no second date lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:02 PM
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I try to avoid fantasizing at length about any of my friends. It feels rude somehow! But often when I first meet someone even slightly attractive I’ll think about sex with them a few times. Usually these thoughts dissipate with time and familiarity, but sometimes not so much! 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 08:47 PM
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Sure, there are male versions of this that are quite popular with women. I think characters like this appeal to geeks in general, perhaps due to the "teaching" element, or maybe because geeks tend to be clueless themselves in some way so the characters seem relatable despite their otherworldliness or superior abilities. Thor is a good example. Major geek girl boner material right there. Other characters that come to mind are Mr. Spock from Star Trek, Connor from Detroit Become Human (or literall…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 06:11 PM
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It seems to be hard for you to wrap your mind around the fact that persecution fantasies even exist as a genre It's not that it's "hard for me to wrap my mind around," its that the vast majority of people would not consider "persecution fantasy" to be a genre of media so much a pejorative term for certain types of melodramatic narratives. It seems to me that the "rules" for what is and isn't a persecution fantasy in this context are just made up in your head, and conveniently exclude types of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 07:28 PM
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THT is set in a dystopian future. It is a fantasy tale. Per your own definition, no it is not, unless you want to say that all fiction is fantasy because it was made up in the author's head. THT takes place in the real world and has no fantastical elements. It's sci fi, at most. This is a weird hill to die on anyways, since the "evangelical persecution" films you're comparing it to generally aren't fantasy genre either, or really any kind of speculative fiction. And that's the key difference bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 06:35 PM
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You would think, wouldn't you? But apparently that only applies to men in some people's minds. That particular nugget was from a couple of rpws, and I've seen similar sentiments expressed by red and black pill men as well. ("Women already have too much power in the dating market, you don't need extra help")
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 05:55 PM
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You seem awfully smug in your claims for someone who a) clearly has no background in writing or media analysis, b) has not watched the peices of media in question and c) has yet to provide any evidence whatsoever to back them up. Genres are not seperate, bespoke categories. Drama, horror, and fantasy can and do overlap. Neither THT or Get Out are “fantasy genre”, but they both contain elements of horror, drama, and sci fi with a considerable focus on social commentary. They might go in different…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 02:35 PM
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Saying the same thing over and over again doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 01:44 PM
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From the homefront: “It’s what’s on the inside that counts” Yeahhh but if you neglect the outside you’re not gonna get very far “Don’t worry, boys are just intimidated by you” Thanks mom, but no, even horny teen boys don’t want to talk to scraggly weird girls lol From the manosphere/rpw-esque femosphere (which I bought way into after my first major breakup, for context): “Be submissive and meek” aka be so boring that no normal man would want to spend time with you “Having sex lowers your value.”…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 05:09 AM
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Lmaoooo man either you didn’t even read my reply or you’re even denser than I thought. I’m gonna spell this out one last time: The Handmaids Tale is a sci fi/spec fiction series about sexism. Get Out is a sci fi/spec fiction film about racism (the horror elements play far second fiddle to the social commentary. Get Out is not a slasher flick.). The only reason you see one as more of a persecution fantasy than the other is because you seem to believe that racism is a real/valid complaint while se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 04:43 AM
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Ah, so you haven’t seen The Handmaid’s Tale or Get Out. That explains a lot. Any drama that deals with oppression in an accurate light is not a "fantasy" by nature of the word. There are realistic dramas out there about sexism, y’know. And sci fi stories about racism. Would you consider a realistic drama about women’s issues a persection fantasy? How bout a fantasy story that deals with racism? Get Out is merely a fictional novel. Get Out is not a fantasy about persecution. It's a fictional dram…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 04:04 AM
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I do think that “toxic femininity” exists, but I don’t think that “hypergamy” is part of it. I do not belive that hypergamy (as defined by rp) is gender specific, nor do I think it is always a bad thing. If you’d like further elaboration on the gender roles and expectations that I do consider toxic for women, I’d be happy to provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:52 PM
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No they... really aren’t. At least not with respect to the media. How exactly would you differentiate between a piece of media that genuinely deals with themes of oppression from a so called “persecution fantasy?” Is it just because you feel that prejudice against women no longer exists (or never existed at all) and therefore a show about that subject is invalid? Or is there some objective criteria out there that I’m unaware of? The Handmaids Tale is dystopian fiction, but it deals with very rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:43 PM
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That is not what blue/red pill means in the context of this sub. That is what trpers like to tell themselves, but they tend to believe just as many untrue things as anyone else. For example: The entire premise of your OP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:17 PM
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Ahh I see so any piece of media that portrays or explores oppression is a "persecution fantasy," which proves that the group in question is actually the one in power. Brilliant! Since Get Out was released, racism has ended and black people run America! Moonlight shows that straight white people have always been the truly disadvantaged! Hell, let's take it way back. Grapes of Wrath taught us that poor migrant workers have been running the show all along! The Boy in the Striped Pajamas is proof th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:26 AM
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Especially as biology explains all of it. All of what? At a minimum 50% of these soft 'science' studies have been found to have been literally invented out of thin air Gonna need to see a source on that one sonny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:42 AM
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What I found whilst I read all this was I would meet women who behaved just like these articles said. When I stopped reading it, again this is a couple of years ago, the women I met seemed a lot more nicer. This is actually a nice succinct way of expressing the zap that certain communities can put on one’s head. I think it’s rooted in confirmation bias, which everyone is susceptible to. You expect to see women behave a certain way, so when they do, it confirms your expectations. When they don’t,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:55 PM
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Lol. This again. No, women and bp cucks (aka normal people) don't dislike trp because it reveals their grand scheme, they disagree with it because they find it morally repugnant, unhelpful, or incompatible with their lived experiences. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:23 AM
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Right. A person having low EQ doesn't necessarily mean they have high IQ. Life isn't fair, and some people are really annoying and too dumb to know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:19 AM
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because of confirmation bias in how you perceive me, and anything that comes from me. When I see you post something that displays even a hint of empathy towards people who aren't like you, I'll happily change my opinion. In the mean time, why don't you go tell someone new about how all women are the cause of all the world's evil because they love rape and lesbians never have sex and are constantly beating each other up or some such. No bias there, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 07:04 PM
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Uhhhh that whole story was just one red flag after the next. The weird rapey sleep sex was the red flag icing on a red flag cake. She should definitely dump this fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:49 PM
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That's a whole lot of solipsism and futile REEEEing my man. >variety and validation >women too often don't give their partner deserved validation and practice starfish meditation during sex Women physically cannot be more than one person at a time. Men desire sex with more than one woman, full stop. They also derive validation from being able to pull this off. Even men in loving relationships with great sex cheat. This is a fact. You are letting your own pain cloud your assessment of reality. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:46 PM
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Pretty rich coming from you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:41 PM
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You sound like you're from an alien planet and have never met a man lol. Men's cheating often has little to do with volume of sex, and lots to do with a desire for variety and validation plus a lack of respect for their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:25 PM
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I would say PPD has taught me the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:03 PM
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I've tried, but it's just not feasible long term. I need someone calm, stable, and adventurous to balance out my manic-depressive INTP bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 08:58 PM
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Makeup application is a skill that takes time to master. If a girl is actually punching way above her weight due to makeup, she has likely put in the hours to get good at it. Heavy makeup applied without skill usually makes the wearer look worse, not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 02:12 PM
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Sure but rough sex play is different than rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 03:26 PM
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Sure, of course they do. "Jacked" is in style. And even if it wasn't, women will always prefer men who look physically capable. It speaks to our lizard brains the way T&A does for men. Just as jacked is in for men, "thicc" is in for women... But that doesn't mean that women who don't look like Kim K can't be attractive. There's more to attraction than having a body with the most exaggerated possible secondary sexual characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:26 AM
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Famous last words mate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:12 AM
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Hah, that was my first thought too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:30 PM
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I... Don’t really see how these things are comparable. Women aren’t riding the cc with robots. But no, I can’t say I find the idea of a sexbot brothel “disgusting,” unless the bots aren’t getting properly cleaned or something. There would be less risk for ethical problems (ie employing trafficked women) than with a human brothel, and less stds. Unless the robots gain sentience and revolt I don’t see a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:29 PM
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The dad bod was always supposed to be relatively strong and fit, not just chubby. There are probably more fat dads in the world than dad bod dads, but the term “dad bod” refers to a particular aesthetic, not what the majority of dads look like. John Hamm is probably closest, because he actually has some muscle, but the other two could qualify after hitting the gym for a few months. Personally I do like the “strong but cuddly” look. As long as there’s beef underneath a little padding is a-ok. Edi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:56 PM
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Who gives a shit if people consider it “OK” or not? It’s still not OK to force someone into sex they don’t want, and it doesn’t become OK just because the person stopped wanting sex at a point that many find inconvenient. The allegations against Kavanaugh aren’t even related to this. It’s alleged that he tried to hold Dr Ford down and remove her clothes, not that they were already hooking up and she changed her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:24 PM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:45 PM
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Mmm delicious word salad. Pass the balsamic please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:05 PM
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I’m a woman, with mostly female friends. It’s not that I have a “preference” exactly, but it takes me a while to open up to people and become close with them, and it’s mostly been women who are patient enough to stick around and emotionally savvy enough to meet me half way. I like to think I can still hang with the bros tho 🍻 Edit: Realized I didn’t really answer the question. My experience has been similar to yours, OP. I’ve seen the best and worst of women through my friendships and other rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 03:18 PM
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I see that you’re trolling here but man sometimes it is hard to tell. Regardless, you’re aight in my books Sru. Though I would recommend getting a diary and a life coach instead of expending your energy on ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:09 PM
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What gender were those Nazis again?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:03 PM
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F :( RIP lil kitter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 02:57 PM
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I used to feel this way, but then when some smug asshole posted a CMV about how TRP is conducting 100% Real Science(TM) a few months ago, TGP was actually willing to engage with him and type out the long paragraphs needed to explain how wrong he was. The guy wouldn't budge, the battle raged for pages, but TGP persisted. He gained my respect as a warrior and a man on that day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:39 AM
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These days I mostly shop at second hand stores of one kind of another, because sometimes you can find seriously nice clothes on the cheap. I also like Urban Outfitters, American Apparel (rip), and Madewell. Sephora is better bc there’s more variety! I like Mac lipsticks but all the other products I use are from different brands. I’ve also become a total Glossier ho recently. Their skincare is def overpriced, but all the makeup I’ve tried from them has been great.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 09:48 PM
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No idiot, you’ve posted on here for years. This account is new but I’m all too familiar with your incel-adjacent tomfuckery and abiding love of rape (except when it’s man on man that’s groooce and scaaarie tee hee)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:49 PM
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Lol I like how you edited your post after stalking my history and realizing I wasn’t a dude. Typical ‘moid, more balls than brains!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:41 PM
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Play it again, Sam
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:34 PM
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O➿O
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:33 PM
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And you personally are more annoying than all of them combined
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:30 PM
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Then you realize it’s only a matter of time till you’re banned from or earn a bad reputation on those sites, right? Most of them have systems in place to discourage that kind of tomfoolery, from what I’ve heard. “Salt daddies” I think they call you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:09 PM
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Stacy’s mom is a post wall sloot. You know who’s hot? Jessie’s girl. Where can I find a woman like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:04 PM
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Did you pick these alleged women up via actual sugar dating platforms or just on like, okCupid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:59 PM
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Eh, Myers-Briggs is at least based on something, even if that something is self assessed and not particularly scientific. Astrology is based on pretty much nothing, just pure chance and a few Barnum statements for flavor. Regardless, my opinion as an INTP is that both are good fun and feed into the human desire to label and categorize all aspects of life, tangible and intangible. 🤖
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:58 PM
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Lol. No you haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:45 PM
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You mean nutty, delusional incel echo chambers have consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:41 PM
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Even for a city girl I can’t imagine that the average is much higher than 10. City girls have ltrs and fwbs too, we don’t just hop on every available dick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:38 PM
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We’re all birds here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:55 AM
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Hey if you’re a bird it’s all the same hole
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 02:52 AM
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Purge all straights 2k18
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 02:33 AM
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I know full well they are not the same thing. I also know full well that there is a shit ton of overlap. I have seen that kind of language and those terms used by all three, though admittedly “cock carousel” is more often seen with trp/mgtows than mras. Incels are a whole nother can of beans. There’s still overlap, but they have their own slang and preoccupations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:39 PM
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ur mom
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:05 PM
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No. Back to your chastity cage, slave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:52 PM
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I have never met a frat boy chad who talked about women the way you consistently have for all of purge week. Have I met ones who are sexist, rude, and even predatory? Sure. But actively hateful? No. They may exist, but they’re in the minority. A man being attractive and boisterous doesn’t automatically make him a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:50 PM
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Those are specific manosphere talking points dude. No one unaffiliated with trp, mgotw, or mra talks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:27 PM
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D’oh!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:24 PM
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Nope!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 10:24 PM
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No, not particularly. My neighborhood is full of old people and families with kids, I don't even feel unsafe there at night. It's mostly "seedy" places that I try to avoid walking alone in after dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:50 PM
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My Stacysona is a level 4 fashion warlock who looks like Cara Delevingne. I roll to make Chad my thrall
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:45 PM
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Don't run from ur true desires hon. Giga anal cleanses the soul
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:29 PM
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I’m neither larping nor a Stacy, but I’ve genuinely never experienced this. Whatever helps you sleep at night tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:41 PM
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I’ll giga anal u any day bb ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:29 PM
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Ok? Sorry that happened, but I don’t know what that has to do with my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:27 PM
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If a man doesn’t want to kiss his wife he should just save everyone the trouble and divorce her lmao. What kind of weirdo needs to be forced into kissing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:27 PM
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The stuff about the cock carousel and how men have it so much harder and women are parasites sounds pretty MRAish to me. Could be from trp as well, there’s a lot of overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:23 PM
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Projecting? Tell that to the trps incels and mgtows constantly posting about how disgusting and unlovable sluts/modern women/tinder thots/roasties/femoid cunts are. My girlfriends are perfectly supportive of whatever I choose to do with my junk, it’s the he-man-woman-haters club on reddit who have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 01:02 AM
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Because a lot of people on here seem utterly socially clueless, and oblivious to their own cluelessness. And calling someone an autist or a sperg is more biting than just calling them weird. As someone who is possibly maybe on the spectrum, I realize that it can be an uphill battle to learn social norms and abide by them, but it’s not impossible. On here failing to do so will get you called a sperg, but irl it will just get you ostracized. Pick your poison, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:25 PM
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Orrrr it’s because she knows it gets a rise out of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:12 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:42 PM
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Whatever woman will actually have them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:38 PM
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Amen!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:34 PM
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ok but you look like pretty much every 36 year old trump supporter ever so there's not a whole lot to re-evaluate here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:16 PM
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I want to die
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:35 PM
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Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:05 PM
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What, for thinking that people under-rate sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:02 AM
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I love your flair! And completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:13 AM
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First I would dress and/or paint her to look a little less like a real human, because humanoid dolls look like corpses to me. Then I would name her "Roomba" and program her to make snacks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:01 AM
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Even female chimps form coalitions to protect their safety and interests. And like female humans, they tend to have higher life expectancies than the males.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 03:14 AM
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Yes dude, obviously. Men have the upper body strength. Women have the social wiles and long lifespans to get men to use that upper body strength in ways that benefit them. That’s what I mean by “soft power.” I know that men can punch harder, but it doesn’t really matter as long as women can manipulate men into doing the punching for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:56 AM
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Soft power for gaining control of the tribe, hard power for defending against mongols. Having tough men at your beck and call is part of being the clan leader, natch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:45 AM
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Hole up in mountain fort and shoot poison arrows at them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:35 AM
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It makes me feel like you probably have a tiny dong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:17 AM
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If that were possible I’d be on it like a comet. Come service your new swole overladies, manlets!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:03 AM
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I’m like 90% sure Jezebel is a RP troll. Her posts really lack the depth and rigor of Jammerly’s, and sound exactly like what a GLO-type would think radical feminists sound like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:47 AM
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Hi John
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:30 AM
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Women have survived tho, and even worked their way to the top of various ladders using soft power. Even in pre modern times! Upper body strength is very useful and I wish I had a little more of it, but if you’re a clan matriarch and everyone around you including the young men value your leadership and do what you say, who needs it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:29 AM
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Bird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:20 AM
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PNW winters are dark wet snowless misery 😷 They’re the one thing I don’t miss about Seattle!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:19 AM
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This thread is some orphan black shit I can’t tell the many Atlii apart on mobile
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:00 AM
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Toxic masculine behaviors like what? I can say with almost 100% certainty that I’ve never fucked a toxic-ly masculine guy, if we’re using that to mean violent, rude, sexist, self destructive, etc. Most women try to avoid those types if they can. If your claim is that guys who get laid because they’re handsome/funny/smart/confident/etc are automatically “toxic,” then that just sounds like sour grapes to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 11:27 PM
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Eh, maybe. I figured it was more of a "2/10 elbows too pointy" situation. Regardless, those are probably good tips. I'm of the opinion that just about any man can be reasonably attractive if he's fit, social, and well groomed. I went to college with too many short Asian and Indian players to fully buy into the concept of curryceldom. The balding is tough, but luckily your options with that are more varied and effective than they've ever been before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 10:14 PM
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Omg. How did you know I sometimes read his posts in Alex Jones' voice
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:57 PM
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got 3/10 on truerateme Dude... I'm a slim, conventionally attractive 21 year old white woman and I was once rated 3/10 by someone on reddit. People say all kinds of things. You're definitely not fubar just because some lookism weirdos told you you are. There are tons of things you can do to make yourself attractive, even if you'll never be a 6'4" Scandinavian model (join the club!)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:53 PM
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very carefully
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:44 PM
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Man, I totally want to, that thread was a blast. But apparently some people can't keep it together enough to not save everyone's pics like a creeper so men's arms are all you get >:|
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:44 PM
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Uh oh :[ This is why we cant have nice things people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:35 PM
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I strongly suspect that this is in fact OP's situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:13 PM
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I do. Ok, but are you actually capable of getting anything different, or have you trained yourself to like these traits because that's what's attainable to you? Because I'm certain you'll find women who will say they like unattractive traits, just like you, and I think both you and they are at least a little bit full of shit. What, are you incapable of finding a woman attractive without being "proclaimed" publically that she's "attractive"? I'm not talking about me, I'm talking about "men," as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:12 PM
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Sorry dude but there is not a single man in the world who actively prefers fat poor ugly women with no friends. Plenty of guys are into "quirks" in women's faces that are "normally" considered unattractive. Where are the women who are attracted to ugly guys Fuckin lol. Show me a female sex symbol with a face like Adam Driver's and then we'll talk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:58 AM
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What concrete proof do you have that men aren't merely tolerating the "unattractive" traits you listed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:20 AM
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Without sex and reproduction "women" and "men" wouldn't exist, we'd just all be the same. Women are weaker as a direct function of being birth-givers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 03:15 AM
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Alright, the snakes have better taste than I thought. Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:45 PM
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Now the snakes are trying to get me to read Models and Jordan Peterson’s book :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:14 PM
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Awwright now those are some man tits I can get behind!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:07 PM
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Oh god, how did you know?? You planned for this you bastard!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:02 PM
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Ladies, ladies! Line starts at the aviary door ;^
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 11:01 PM
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Since I laid eyes on this post I haven’t stopped screaming and snakes have started to physically manifest in my house
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:58 PM
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And yet most of them end up in happy relationships. Funny how that works. Also threatening random women to make yourself feel like a big man is beyond pathetic and just goes to show that faggot ass rp cunts online are just as big of faggot ass cunts irl. Plus it’s only a matter of time before you get pepper sprayed and/or kneed in the nuts, so have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:55 PM
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unrealistic standards Hot girls don’t have unrealistic standards you fucking dweeb, they have realistic standards that you happen fall below
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:46 PM
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What on earth does that have to do with Judaism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:54 PM
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Ahaha thank you! I’ve been around for a while but only as an occasional contributor, so for now this is the real me. 🕊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:41 PM
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White collar crime seems most lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:27 PM
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Yes, like that. Like guys say they just want someone who loves and understands them, and then go chasing the hottest girl they can in lieu of other options. Also like guys saying they want a nice loving girl to open their heart to, and then turning around and cheating on or mistreating those girls when they find them. Men are not angels. Men lie, cheat, use and abuse. You don't see this because you don't date men, and you don't have girlfriends who share their experiences with you. If you're not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:38 PM
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Who gives a shit lol. I disagree with Atlas about pretty much everything but unlike you she's cool and sticks to her guns. Maybe finding a felonious spouse of your own would help you build some character!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:26 PM
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Oh, yeah, for sure. I understand that catcalling can contribute to a general social atmosphere where women feel unsafe and like their bodies are on display for public consumption. I just can't bring myself to be too upset about the odd "hey pretty lady" during daylight hours. Gross or threatening behavior is a different matter, and I definitely do mind that. I also don't mind women telling catcallers and other rude, intrusive men to fuck off as they see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:18 PM
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This may be an unpopular opinion, but I don't think there's anything really wrong with catcalling as long as it's not done in a threatening manner. I may not have jumped on the dick of the elderly Latino man who told me I was "muy linda" on the street yesterday, but I didn't particularly mind either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:51 PM
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ayy cool ink
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:41 PM
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Acceptable to whom? To the law? Sure, as long as you toe the line . To the people you hurt, manipulate, and con? I'm gonna say no. To the friends and family of those people? Still probably a no. To anyone who learns about your exploits and thinks you're a creep and an ass? Again, that's gonna be a no. Seeing a pattern here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:41 PM
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In this particular case drugs and babies are, in fact, the same. Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go snort a fat line of babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:35 PM
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Dear Reddit User GayLubeOil, You are not as smart, provocative, or attractive as you think you are. Kind regards, Everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:23 PM
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this is why we don't empathize with women complaining about dating being hard. You... realize that most women have had experiences like this as well, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:08 PM
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Arrogance is attractive in anyone, regardless of what trp says. If you believe you're hot shit, so will other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:03 PM
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If only it were that simple lol. Further proof that men are the truly solipsistic ones!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:01 PM
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CRISPR would like a word
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 03:53 AM
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Nope. If that was true every frat boy who got turnt up in Amsterdam for a week would be a felon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:12 AM
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If u find out tell me, I am a beanpole who is trying to get thicc and bulking hurts my tum 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:57 AM
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Trans people should answer whatever posts they have relevant insight about. That could potentially mean q4w posts, q4m posts, or both. Luckily the mods probs won’t ban anyone from participating as they see fit just because a couple of troglodytes on here think trans people are icky, so your poll is ultimately meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:35 AM
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Of course it does. I’m sorry that such a thing happened to you, no one should have to go through that. You’re definitely not alone though, and you’ll find sympathetic ears both on here and out in the world if you go looking. All the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:21 AM
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Hey LewisCross, this is low effort! Drop the alt and purge like a man!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:00 AM
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I’ve seen the lookism picture threads fam. Most of you guys look fine. The real cope is thinking that your looks are 100% the problem. Its a lazy excuse to never improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:44 PM
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This is actually decent advice even if you don’t realize it lol. A large chunk of incels aren’t even ugly, but they have horrendous mental health and self esteem issues coupled with piss poor social skills. Confidently asking women out over and over with no expectation of reciprocation is like doing push-ups for your social skills. And eventually one of those approaches might even pan out, who knows. While y’all are at it, why don’t you go confidently join some meetup groups and start going to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 09:39 PM
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You’re kinda proving my point fam. It’s like none of you have seen a 30 year old woman before. Some people age badly and quickly, but a lot of women don’t look much different in their early 30s than they did in their 20s. Maybe you all just assume that the attractive 30 year olds are still in their 20’s, idk. But either way, I’m sure the Miranda Kerrs and Dita Von Teeses of the world will be absolutely devastated by the loss of your attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 07:10 PM
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Lol, no, trust me when I say that there are many many many women who are the same way. I could just as easily say that men uniformly like young/clear skin/shiny hair/ideal wh ratio, but I still recognize that there is significant variation within that, and that there are men who care less about looks than others. I, too, can point you towards many women who value connection over looks. In fact I believe that while there certainly are men like you describe out there, they are significantly fewer …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 11:11 PM
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Women are shallow. Men are shallow. No one wants an unattractive partner, regardless of their other qualities. Luckily almost anyone can learn to be more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:22 PM
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I would say to that man that moving to a third world country where he will be the best option around for pretty much all women is a good idea. He will get his pick. That certainly is an option, but that's exactly what I meant by "these women may lack other things he values in a partner." Women in a poor SE Asian country aren't even going to speak the same language as Middle Aged Joe, let alone have anything else in common with him. If you're the kind of person that values youth and beauty and li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:18 PM
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You must be new lol. First of all, my comments to both you and reluctantly_red were tongue in cheek. I was just pointing out the hypocrisy of making claims of superior male loyalty and then immediately admitting to cheating and almost giving your girlfriend the clap. Second, "men and women are different" isn't a phrase that you can trot out to excuse any and all male wrongdoing. Men and women are different in some ways, but cheating is cheating, and it's a shitty thing to do. Third, I am not bp.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:06 PM
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implying those who participate in them are somehow challenged by mental health issues and are therefore not normal. Well... yeah. Not to be an ass, but men with good mental health who have their shit together don't usually go digging for girl advice on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 07:34 AM
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lordy lord this is a tl;dr monster but here goes Is the prejudice in knowing that there is a high probability of a woman leaving you, or cheat on you, out of the blue, even if you played by the good man book, while other people can get away with jerk attitudes? It is if you believe this only applies to women, yes. Men are statistically more likely to cheat, and to mistreat their partners in other ways. It's fine to vent your dating woes, but trp positions women's dating and mating habits as the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 05:24 AM
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Wrt children, that's fair given that the woman wants to have kids right away and the man doesn't. But if the woman doesn't want biological kids, or the man does want kids relatively soon, or both parties are divorced and already have kids, then a 30+ yo woman isn't automatically a bad option. Wrt beauty, time steals it from us all. Men are not studs forever, and women do not become decrepit the minute the clock strikes midnight on their 35th birthday. If a man is pushing 50, he is going to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 11:42 PM
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Well, I guess opposition has finally caught up. Blue pill confirmed!! AMALT!! All men are sluts!!!!! EEEER
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 10:18 PM
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If those 30 old women look so great why are they having troubles? Most 30 year old women aren't having troubles lol. Certainly not the attractive ones. The ones that are generally have more issues than their skin being slightly less supple than it was at 25. Men prefer youth. Cry me a river. Sure, of course they do. But most men, at least where I'm from, will take a beautiful, fun, cultured 30 year old over a pain in the ass 20 year old any day, unless they've got something to prove. And anyways…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 02:24 PM
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Man are you fr?? Imagine if a woman said this immediately after claiming women are loyal and honest. Married or not, people on here would lose their fucking minds. “TRP confirmed!! The hypocrisy of women!! AWALT!!! Ahhhh!!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 03:55 AM
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What do you guys think women in their 30s look like lol. They’re not usually shriveled hags, unless they smoke and tan like crazy. Attractive 30+ yo men happily date and marry attractive 30+ yo women allll the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 03:43 AM
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Distain for women as a group is the main thing that attracts men to the manosphere. It’s comforting to low value men to treat the people (usually women) causing them discomfort (usually via rejection of one kind or another) as “the enemy:” fundamentally different than them, worse than them, and out to get them. It gives them something to “fight” against, plus a false sense of superiority. If “misogynist” or “woman hating” are triggering word for you, let’s call it something else. Anti-woman. Pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 03:36 AM
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Dating as a man is hard. It comes with a variety of challenges that are different (though not always worse) to the ones they faced in the past. People who haven't experienced those challenges for themselves have difficulty relating. That sucks. But you know what else is like that? Managing your finances Raising kids Building a career and a legacy Doing scientific research Undergoing serious medical treatment Navigating strained familial relationships Growing up gay in a conservative family Etc, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 05:17 AM
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And in that world women would see no need for men at all. Which would make men terminally expendable. Many parts of the world are already like this, and women continue to have relationships with men there. Funny. lying you're a liar this is a personal attack There is a different between "lying" and "being wrong." He was clearly doing the latter. Being pointlessly dramatic doesn't bolster your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 04:59 AM
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Ashwagandha Hah, my mother used to always make me take this stuff when I got a cold. Did not realize it was psychoactive, but I was and still am very anxious so 2 birds 1 stone I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 04:46 AM
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Strip clubs are one of the few remaining ever existing places where men and women can sexually express themselves solicit light sex work freely within a certain set of rules and guidelines that are intended to protect the safety and dignity of the workers. There fixed it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 07:01 AM
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Kinda funny, but I was referencing the trp use of "next"ing, not some silly bus thing. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 12:33 AM
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1: Never, as far as I can remember. 2: Only in the context of assessing a partner for potential future encounters. Like, "I enjoy sex with Bob, but it lacks a certain intimacy that it used to have when I was with Jim. Is it a difference in technique or whatever, or a difference in my feelings for Bob?" or "Well, that was a disappointing lay. I know sex can be better than that, since I've had it before. NEXT." 3: That's like asking if food gets less tasty as I have more of it lol. And the answer …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 05:06 PM
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Your ex wife’s game must be off the charts lol. Whether or not her feelings for this guy are legitimate, getting him to trust her that much is impressive. Most women couldn’t pull off a stunt like that, even young beautiful ones! So I don’t think your story illustrates that “women” are good at manipulation so much as it shows that great manipulators are good at manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 06:08 PM
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That’s also just... a word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 05:45 PM
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Factually untrue, and also a statement that has nothing to do with my comment. No one wants to feel replaceable, but we all are. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:18 AM
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It’s also why many girls find questions about their n to be a red flag. If the answer matters, and he’ll drop you if he doesn’t like it, he clearly doesn’t care about you as a person all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 03:11 AM
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It’s just weird man. Especially if you barely know the girl. I don’t have a high count by any measure but I’d sure as hell balk at such a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 01:41 PM
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Oh, definitely. Never met an attractive man with a full life and lots of friends who gave a shit about n-count. In fact the only guy I’ve met who did (or at least who asked the kind of questions that I suppose were designed to “subtly” gauge a girl’s count) was a guy I met in Italy who turned out to be a fascist weirdo. I highly doubt this will ever happen, but if a seemingly normal guy asked my n count I’d head for the hills. It’s just not a thing that socially well adjusted men care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 01:32 PM
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Is this fr? So someone came up with a niche, childhood nostalgia themed zen retreat. New York one of the most high pressure cities in the world. Everyone needs an escape, even if this particular one is kinda weird. Men go to anime and game conventions where they dress up as cartoon characters and dweeb out over comics too. If enjoying childish things and indulging in escapes from adult responsibility makes someone a child then like 80% of people, most of them men, are children. Blue pill confirm…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:39 PM
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Women are on the side of other women in the general sense but hate the individual women in their lives. You said this, no? And that I was "adorable" for saying that this is clearly not true because most women have friends? And then told me to ask my mom who the biggest busybody (lol) she knows is, as if this would prove otherwise? We were both here for all that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:35 PM
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Cook her dinner. Remind her, as you cook, that you are not a woman because you cook. You are, in fact, ultra masculine. Burn the chicken to reinforce your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:29 PM
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I am commenting on what I generally observe from the WASPs around me. So which is it? All women hate all women who they personally know, or WASPy moms gossip sometimes? And if you're not drawing from personal experience, where are you drawing from besides (as I alluded to before) the media and stereotypes? My invitation was for you to do it, not speculate. Sure, and while I'm at it, why don't you ask your dad who the biggest son-of-a-gun he knows is? Whatever answer he gives will surely reveal t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:16 PM
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I think my mother would look at me like I grew a third head if I asked her that question, not least because "busybody" is a word I haven't heard said out loud in the past decade. My mom is no saint, and she certainly has people she dislikes (male and female), she just wouldn't call them her friends. She tends to speak very highly of her friends, unless one of them does something egregiously shitty. Surely you must realize that your own limited experience is not a universal rule, right? And that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 06:46 PM
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So what I'm hearing here is that the only women you know are the ones from early 2000's teen movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:03 PM
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the only women who think women can be cunts post on PPD, and will say so only to virtue-signal Man is it really so hard to admit that you were wrong, or exaggerating, or whatever, that you have to make up bizarro world conspiracy bullshit to justify what you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:57 PM
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but hate the individual women in their lives. Simply not true lol. The vast majority of women do have actual friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:51 PM
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I think the word cunt (at least how it’s used in the states) is quite nasty, but yes of course women can be shitty, unpleasant people. Frankly I doubt you’ll find anyone who disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:17 PM
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It's hardly the exception where I live. I'm not saying that's the case everywhere, but in my city and at my university Asian man/white woman couples are about as common as the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 08:44 PM
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i am white girl with asian bf what now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 08:35 PM
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You can have fun and be fun in multiple ways. Fun is not a zero sum game
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 04:45 AM
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So the worst of both worlds lol. Great
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:45 PM
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From what I’ve gathered, fat acceptance is about treating overweight people like human beings, not about encouraging obesity or forcing thin people to be attracted to fat people. Fat people know they’re fat. They know fatness comes with social and health consequences. Treating them like shit won’t make them thin. The obesity epidemic has many, many more causes than mere lack of shame. Despite being a health nut myself, I can’t get behind anti-FA because it seems to me that most anti-FA people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:42 PM
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Pretty much to the same extent that male body image issues (ie needing to look jacked) are the fault of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:22 PM
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Noted!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 04:27 AM
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Lol, this is hilarious. Doesn't feel too good being told you expire at 30, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:23 AM
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You're not "an older man" dude. You're 26. You can date women in their early 20s and literally no one will bat an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:18 AM
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You see "at lot" of 40 yo men banging 20 yo women and he's the delusional one? Where do you see these couples, Hollywood tabloids?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:14 AM
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Now that's a pill I can get behind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 09:03 PM
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Eh. They look like fashion students. Dressing more experimentally than the average person, with results that are sometimes unflattering. It makes sense that fashion buffs would be modding a fashion sub, but that doesn't mean everyone who posts there has to dress like that lol. Most of that sub's advice is pretty solid from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 02:23 AM
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The term did originate within the caste system. But yes, it looks like in recent years it has been used to mean "marrying up" in general. That's still pretty different to how trp uses it though. They use it to mean women dating up in any way, for instance dating a man who is more physically attractive or charismatic than she is. That is not what hypergamy means. Plus, it seems fairly clear to me that hypergamy is a social phenomenon predicated by women's economic dependence on men. Not an intrin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:41 PM
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Not the way TRP uses it. It is a term specific to women marrying up within the Indian caste system.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 07:26 PM
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I think her sister meant that you guys were having too much sex in her house, where she can hear you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:55 AM
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Do you think promoting and advising classist (social and economic) behaviors will only be seen as prejudiced to Marxist feminists? Yes, I genuinely do. They are the only people in a place on the ideological spectrum under which the oppression of the working class and the oppression of women are intersecting concerns. Frankly I think even most marxist feminists wouldn't be too bothered by most normal dating advice for men. Even if some of that advice does gently allude to economic or gender hiera…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:48 AM
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I highly doubt you would like to date a woman who was heavily sexist against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:17 AM
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Marxist feminists are a tiny, tiny proportion of the population. If your claim was "dating advice for men will always be seen as misogynistic by Marxis feminists," you might have a point. But no one else thinks this way, hardly anyone even has those ideas in their frame of reference, and pretending that they do in order to excuse the genuine and distinct misogyny of TRP and other parts of the manosphere is almost as disingenuous as it is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:05 AM
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Strangely, many people are hurt by other people of varying demographics every day without becoming keyboard crusaders against all people of that demographic. If every woman who was hurt by a man became a political lesbian, radfem, or other fringe female supremacist, then those people wouldn't seem very crazy or fringe at all because that would be 99% of women. TRPers who are sexists and/or misogynists didn't become that way because a woman was mean to them, they already harbored those beliefs an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:24 PM
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Yes, this would be a non-issue to me. I would be uncomfortable with taking a guy's virginity if I hadn't yet made up my mind about him, but if I knew I liked him I'd count myself lucky to get to induct him into the world of Fun Sex Things. But I'm pretty young- There are plenty of inexperienced guys my age who are otherwise sexy and functional. I would probably feel differently if I was older.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 03:42 PM
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TIL men walk around with a little sign on their crotch so you can tell their dick size at a glance
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 04:59 PM
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No shit lol. Why anyone would do such a thing is beyond me. However DBs are not always the result of marrying someone you aren’t attracted to in the first place. A lot of things can change in a decades long relationship, and a mature sensible couple will either work through their problems if they are solvable, or divorce if they aren’t. If you have to resort to bullying your spouse into submission, you’re past the point where the relationship is worth saving imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 03:52 PM
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I have soft rejected and been soft rejected more times than I can count. Only been hard rejected once, but it was a bad one! And I have only had to hard reject once or twice. I'm a fairly young, conventionally attractive but very shy female. But for guys, I know rejection is a whole different ballgame. Girls are picky picky. As others have said, you might have to strike out hundreds of times, but it really is a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 03:38 PM
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I wasn't just talking about the husbands dude. If you married someone you don't want to have sex with, that's a big problem. And not one that can be solved by ultimatums.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 03:06 PM
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After the last thread, I’m now of the opinion that once you get to the point of having to drop “screw me or I’m out” ultimatums the relationship is effectively over. I know I wouldn’t want someone to have sex with me out of fear or a sense of obligation, and I know I’m not a good enough actor to feign interest in a person who says they love me but is willing to threaten and bully me to get their way. At that point, just call it off, take a break, see other people, think long and hard about your …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 02:38 PM
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Edit: the stuff under the “ignore” section in your op is what I was referring to as overly petulant, not the very concept of saying “if you don’t give me x, I’m done” When you've given and given and given, and she's done nothing but take and take and take That’s a major assumption though. If the guy has done everything he can and he’s at the end of his rope, then doing as you say is totally reasonable. If you skip straight to ultimatums upon becoming slightly dissatisfied, without finding out th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 09:44 PM
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If he got fat (or whatever) after they got married, meeting her halfway would mean getting un-fat. I would say the same to a woman whose husband has lost attraction to her after weight gain. Standing up for yourself is great and all, but it’s also important to take responsibility for the factors you can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 08:55 PM
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Not at all, but the way Lewis described it was unnecessarily petulant and cruel, especially if there is a legit reason for the decrease in sex. Children grab their toys and threaten to leave the sandbox, adults lay out their needs and work towards a mutually agreeable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 08:33 PM
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he tells her “no sex? No attention. No sex? No affection. No sex? No discretionary spending. No sex? No marriage. " That is pretty much the grown man version of a tantrum. If she leaves, well, at least he's not married to a woman who's not attracted to him, and now he can fix himself. Why not do that to begin with, if he has no interest in meeting her halfway or becoming someone worth fucking in her eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:50 PM
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most of the men here want women to be simultaneously awful and miserable, so that they can mock and ridicule them without having to feel like an asshole for it Yeah, this. The women on here aren’t complete morons, they know that many users on here will look for any excuse to rip them and their gender to shreds. Complete honestly is not always the best policy in manosphere spaces, unless you want to be followed by the constant hum of a thousand REEEEEEs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:43 PM
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If she’s not attracted to her husband, what makes you think tantrums and threats are going to change that? At best she’ll give him bare minimum starfish sex. At worst she’ll say “alright, fine” and leave. And he’ll still be an unattractive schlub not getting any sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:20 PM
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Ugh, incel shit. Assuming this doesn’t get nuked by the mods 5 minutes from now... Female orgasms do not facilitate pregnancy A man could be Adonis in the flesh and most women still couldn’t come “just from having him stick his dick in her.” You’ve gotta involve the clit somehow. To ignore this is to ignore a fundamental fact of female sexual anatomy. Could you come from having a super hot woman repeatedly flick your taint? Women can easily give themselves orgasms without the involvement of a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 03:51 PM
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As others explained to me in the thread where this was first brought up, it’s not that 50 yo men are most desirable to everyone, it’s that they’re desirable to the largest number of the women on online dating sites, ie older divorcees.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 08:36 PM
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It’s both tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 12:13 AM
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Men having some feminine interests and mannerisms is fine, even preferable, as long as you have a masculine side to balance it out. It can make women feel more at ease, like you “get” them. There’s a section of Robert Greene’s book The Art of Seduction all about that. “Entering their spirit,” I think he called it. But if a guy is TOO feminine, or really bad at flirting, he could also just come off as gay. I for one like when a guy is very emotionally expressive because I don’t like having to gue…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:22 AM
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Several other people have disagreed with you on the same grounds so clearly not. But hey, it’s ppd. “Guy on internet doesn’t know what word means, doubles down. More at 11.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:11 AM
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Orrr the people aren’t lying/“coping,” genuinely like their so’s, and you guys are reading your own insecurities into innocuous interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 10:14 PM
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Do you know what entitlement means lol. Wanting something is not the same as feeling entitled to it. As for female verbal diarrhea, save your gross fetish for the automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 09:07 PM
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She’s saying stuff you wouldn’t want to hear, but it’s not entitled. She’s literally saying that she’s not entitled to a better partner than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 06:11 PM
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With the number of happy ugly couples I see, I have to believe that this applies to them too. They’re not just faking it, at least not the ones I’ve known personally. Weird looking people are perfectly capable of inspiring genuine lust in their partners. Wether you choose to believe this is up to you, but that doesn’t make it less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 06:02 PM
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Because if you ignore facts and evidence in favor of your own version of reality then there is nothing to base objective truth on. Also, it’s not that I don’t believe that domestic violence against men is underreported. I do believe that. But I don’t believe that women are more violent than men in general, because every bit of evidence except for the feelings of RPers points to the contrary. I also don’t think that a person slapping their SO is the same thing as beating them within an inch of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 05:56 PM
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I get that, but what I'm saying is that some people genuinely find "attainable" partners more viscerally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 05:17 AM
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Hmm, interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 05:12 AM
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Looks may not be relative, but attraction definitely is. I can look at a male model and think "Wow, what a pretty dude!" but not find him sexually alluring in the slightest. I'm much more attracted to guys with some odd features or imperfections, even though they may not be as objectively good looking, simply because I'm no super model and that's kind of guy I typically get with! I assume it's the same for truly ugly people. By the time you reach adulthood you tend to have an idea of your genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 05:11 AM
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Are you trying to say that “emotional violence” or whatever is the same thing as physical violence? Because otherwise I have no idea where you’re getting this shit from. What bizarro world do you live in where women commit the same number of murders as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 04:59 AM
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Dare I ask how that is any different from the standard "HB" scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 04:51 AM
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Men commit something like 90% of all violent crime dude. Women are certainly capable of violence, but more inclined to it that men? No way. Your anecdotes only speak to what you personally have seen, and I would hope you realize that this comes with a big heaping scoop of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 04:35 AM
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Huh? She’s an influential writer and philosopher who I’ve admired for a long time. Obviously she’s only human, but it’s disappointing when people you admire do shitty things or defend shitty behavior. Wouldn’t you be disappointed if you found out Jordan Peterson or whoever you’re into had defended an abuser or harasser? (Assuming he hasn’t already tbh)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 10:01 PM
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Sure, sounds great, until the woman realizes that this is a raw deal for her and decides that the relationship is going to be open on her side too wether the guy likes it or not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:47 PM
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Ah right, I forgot the "I'm coming out so you can't hit meee" shit. At least he was rightfully trounced for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:43 PM
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Right? Come on Judith, I trusted you...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:41 PM
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I look forward to feminists either defending her or remain quiet on this. That hasn't happened tho, aside from a few of her academic peers. Certainly not in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:37 PM
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I don't recall that "defense" being used by or for Spacey. *His* defense was that he didn't remember the incident because it was so long ago and he was blackout drunk, but everyone else, including the gay community, was pretty soundly on the side of the accuser. Unlike some of the other #timesup/#metoo scandals, that one wasn't really controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:27 PM
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Yoiks. Gross. Glad she got suspended. It seems like the university responded appropriately though, so that's good. And re: "Why is #metoo only valid when men are doing the harassing??" It's not. This woman deserves every bit of punishment she gets, and the people defending her are complicit in her behavior. Hypocrisy is a human universal. It's disappointing when people whose views you otherwise respect do smarmy shit like this, but it's important not to let tribalism get in the way of standing u…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 06:18 PM
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These standards certainly aren't unreasonable... for a slim, handsome, masculine guy. But on this very forum many guys will admit to lacking in at least one of those areas. It also seems to me that a *lot* of guys over estimate either their looks or their overall personality, so they're sitting there thinking "why can't I get a sweet beautiful girlfriend? I'm a catch!" when they are in fact quite average and verging on socially stunted. At the end of the day, you can't expect to get a partner wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:45 PM
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Inb4 “They hate it because they know deep in their hearts that it’s all true and they’re trying to keep hidden the SEXRET ARCANE KNOWLEDGE”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 09:08 PM
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Fair enough. I’m sure, like most people, that there are ways that I am privileged that I’m unaware of, although I’m certainly not blind to all my advantages. However I still don’t know what you guys mean by “society giving emotional support” to women. Who is “society” here? What does this look like in practice, in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 08:05 PM
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Uh huh. And its so hard being a straight man, right? And again, men are also capable of hiring therapists and talking to their friends. What other sources of emotional support do you think you’re missing out on? I realize strangers are friendlier to women than to men, but I hardly think that qualifies as emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 06:40 PM
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Men’s desirability peaks at 50? That doesn’t seem right. They must mean relative to women, or within their age pool. 18 yo women and 50 yo men almost never pair up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 02:58 AM
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The nagging sex drive would be annoying, for sure. But men are just as capable of hiring a therapist and/or talking to their friends as women are. I don’t know what emotional support “society” has been doling out to other women, but its news to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 12:20 AM
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Probably a bit of both. Prenatal hormone exposure “masculinizing” or “feminizing” certain parts of the brain could have something to do with it, and the “man-loving” and “woman-loving” genes that effect sexual orientation might correlate with certain masculine and feminine traits. But also, ime, gay people are very likely to grown up with the majority of their friends being of the opposite sex, and consequently pick up their mannerisms. The reasons for this seem obvious enough- it’s easier to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 06:36 PM
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Nah. Muscles are always a plus. And young women love a gay baby face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:28 PM
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Who wouldn’t rather be a guy? Being sexy isnt all it’s cracked up to be, especially when you’re judged for taking advantage of it and when it leaves you vulnerable to unwanted contact. Add to that that you have to worry about pregnancy and periods? No thanks! I’d rather have big biceps and be taken seriously than be a cute helpless sex object (for, like, a decade) any day. There’s a reason female empowerment exists. From a physical standpoint, femaleness is a burden!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:21 PM
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I’m a female INTP but I pretty much exclusvively fall for mushy feely xxFx guys. I need someone else to be the chick in the relationship haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 03:01 PM
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So what is the alternative? Continue to let abusers get away Scott free so that a few men can be more comfortable hitting on their coworkers? Why should Henry Cavill’s discomfort be a bigger priority than women’s safety and equality in the workplace, or their ability to speak out about their experiences of abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:52 PM
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A potential threat. Not a certain one. Most big dogs are friendly, but it’s still a good idea to be cautious around big dogs you don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:06 AM
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wew lad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:10 PM
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To be fair, you have to have a very high IQ to understand rick and morty how uppity sluts are going to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:08 PM
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Huh, interesting. I don’t even remember those lines. I figured you meant, like, Brienne being bigger and stronger than all the menz or Sansa feeding her rapist to dogs. Like there def are feminist themes in GoT they’re just nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 11:13 PM
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Like what..? Got/asoiaf have always had “girl power” themes. Unless you’re saying George rr Martin is an sjw lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:18 PM
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Sounds like you kinda C’d your own V. Masculine traits consistently expressed in unhealthy and harmful ways are toxic. Those same traits expressed in healthy and appropriate ways aren’t. Consistent unhealthy or disordered consumption of food is toxic. Balanced eating is not. Toxic masculinity is about the way certain traits are expressed to the detriment of the man and those around him, not about masculine traits all by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 09:00 PM
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Nah, I’d be happy for him and happy about having a sexier partner! I’m not at all insecure about my looks so I don’t think I’d feel threatened, unless he took advantage of the attention. Besides, he’d have to be something really special for me to date him at all if he was initially fat and sloppy. I wouldn’t let jealousy ruin a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:40 PM
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“BP” just means “not RP.” You can lift, flirt, and be social without any knowledge of TRP or the manosphere, and without accepting its dodgier beliefs. I do think that by itself “just be yourself” is useless advice, but only because dumb kids take it to mean “be complacent and don’t try to improve yourself” rather than “be relaxed and don’t try to play a character.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 08:29 PM
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Lower birth rates are a feature of developed nations, not a bug. The economy will adapt. What we really need to do is spread the social factors causing lower birth rates to poorer countries that are causing the population crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 01:08 AM
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Literally unplug your router and never return lmao. The pillosphere is toxic for young people, both men and women. Go outside and make friends. Play a sport. Backpack across Australia. That’s how you learn social skills, not from dysfunctional fucks on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 01:04 AM
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This post is about why TRP is poorly regarded by the rest of reddit and the internet. Like it or not, TRP’s users are its public face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:58 AM
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If there is one thing TRP is not, it’s dispassionate. The language is deliberately inflammatory, and many users engage in ridiculous histrionics. True or not, this doesn’t make them look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 06:28 PM
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I’ve had no problem acting out my tamer fantasies with partners. Mild bdsm stuff mostly, nothing that anyone even slightly kinky would balk at. That’s all well and good. But some stuff I fantasize about would just be impossible lol. Like “Hey honey I want to spice things up a little, could you turn into a werewolf track me thru the woods and ravish me” Also I like looking at big dicks in porn but I am so petite that even my partner’s fairly average sized penis occasionally causes me pain! Def no…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:40 AM
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Many of the accusations that started #metoo, particularly against Harvey Weinstein, were decidedly of the “fuck me or lose your job” nature. By trying to reframe blatant sexual coercion as “transactional sex,” you are implicitly condoning it. The women are taking responsibility: By attempting to get justice and prevent this from happening to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 04:44 PM
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Seriously? You believe that not ruining someone’s livelihood is a good or service?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 04:39 PM
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It’s because they are #teamman, even if those men are monsters. They have more empathy for men outed for shitty behavior than for the women they abused because they only care about men, full stop. Women’s suffering is unimortant at worst and amusing at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 04:36 AM
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Saying “fuck me or you lose your job” is not “transactional sex,” it’s sexual coercion. It’s baffling that anyone would defend such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 04:14 AM
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Men like high value women. That value can come in a variety of forms, but the long and short of it is, if you act like you have no value men will treat you like you have no value. When you “put up with bullshit” and “give men infinite chances to change” you’re basically announcing to that man that you can’t do any better. He will take that to heart, and will find you unattractive as a result. It’s basically like being a spineless beta guy. Personally I’m trying to learn how to be a little more “…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:55 PM
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At that point, why would “the sexes” even need to exist? Take away anything to do with sex, attraction, and reproduction and we’d just be androgyne blobs. But to answer your question, yeah, I’d still like to have a favorite blob around to cuddle and hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:56 AM
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No one is only rational, in fact it’s irrational to think so. Girls probably think you’re weird due to poor social skills: the curse of the INTP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 07:23 PM
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Most women do, in fact, leave their house once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:31 PM
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Nah. The problem with things like tinder, when you’re even a semi-attractive woman, is that if you’re not super picky it becomes completely exhausting. I’m not over estimating my smv when I swipe only on hot guys with thoughtful or funny bios and good pictures, I’m just narrowing my pool using the only available information. Which is why I prefer to meet people irl. A guy’s looks and his ability to write a compelling blurb about himself really don’t tell me anything about our potential chemistry…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 02:53 AM
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I didn’t say you could have benevolently sexist attitudes without the sexism. I said you could behave BENEVOLENTLY towards your partner without sexism. I know you can read what I’m writing, don’t play games. My main point though is that women are not being done a disservice by being encouraged to pick non-sexist partners. You can be nice and helpful to your female partner without treating her as lesser. As you have said in previous posts, benevolent sexism is patronizing and undermining. Some wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 07:47 PM
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So then why are you conflating them? I’m saying that feminism is not doing women a disservice by influencing them to pick partners who lack BS attitudes, because you can have the benevolence without the sexism. Your post, including the title and the last paragraph, suggest they are the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 06:38 PM
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There’s a difference between benevolently sexist and just benevolent. All of my partners have been lovely people who treat me very well... Because they care about me, not because they think I’m weak and helpless. I also treat my partners very well. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:09 PM
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Women refuse to engage in my psychotic ramblings about their genitals?? How dare they REEEEEEEEEEE Edit in the off chance that you’re not just trolling: If you want a good faith discussion, make a good faith post. Refrain from calling the people you want to debate you whores and cockroaches, and you might find them more receptive. As it stands, I know that there’s literally nothing I could say that would change your opinion, which makes you not worth debating. I imagine pretty much everyone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 04:05 PM
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History of cheating, substance abuse, right wing politics, bullying or abusive behavior towards anyone. Also if you’ve ever unironically shared a meme involving Heath Ledger’s Joker you’re on thin fucking ice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:24 AM
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That would be hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:10 AM
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Tell him that’s great and I accept him for who he is. If he’s interested in opening up the relationship of something that might be a problem, but nothing about him just being bisexual would bother me, and I know for a fact that it wouldn’t bother any of my friends either. Must be a generational thing, because this sub’s hate boner for bi men is absolutely baffling to me as a millennial who knows and spends time with a bunch of gay and bi people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:43 AM
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Good lord that’s so many words. Im not playing any games man, you overestimate the extent to which I care about you and your opinions. I’m just out here living my life, wasting a little time on Reddit and then returning to my otherwise pretty good life. I suggest you do the same before you blow a gasket or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:34 AM
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I’m not exactly talking about “antiquity” here. I know female rulers like Hatshepsut in Egypt and matriarchal-ish societies like pre-Mycenaean Crete were the exception and not the rule. In big, complex societies a gendered division of labor was usually necessary, and more likely to leave women in a powerless position, like you say. What I’m talking about are smaller, tribal societies (a few of which still exist today) where labor is less divided along gender lines, and where women need to produc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 11:52 PM
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And yet the world will keep turning and mentally healthy people who wouldnt think to spend energy writing screeds like this will continue to have fulfilling relationships with other people like them. You know, people whose “hearts” are actually worth a damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 11:22 PM
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Sorry man, reality is reality. Women did indeed give birth, and did do most of the child rearing... and also provided the bulk of (generally plant based) food, in some societies. And in those societies, they held near equal or equal status to men. This is not speculation, this is based on a large body of anthropological and archeological research. You can even see it in the differences between the few tribal societies that remain today. Men and women have never had the exact same jobs and roles,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 08:50 PM
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Oh nooo what will those used up whores with an n-count of 5 ever do without your magical dick in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 08:37 PM
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The Aztecs and Incas were agricultural societies. If you want a pre-agricultural society, look at !Kung bushmen. They are/were fairly gender egalitarian. Edit: I can dig up the paper that I recently read on this if you want, but tl;dr version is that food/wealth production is directly tied to gendered power. Societies where men provide most of the calories (or $$) tend to be “patriarchal”, whereas societies where women provide an equal or greater number of calories($) tend to be more equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 01:56 PM
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First, feminists don’t hate shy guys, they hate shy guys who deal with rejection in violent and shitty ways, like shooting up schools. Second, if you think frats and Greek life don’t get ripped apart by feminists you haven’t been paying attention. Third, I was in a sorority for all 4 years of college and knew many frat guys very well. I can easily say that bro-y “frat misogyny” is no where near comparable to TRP misogyny in tone or scale. Predators and woman haters surely exist in these groups, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 11:00 PM
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Most millennial and gen z girls who are otherwise gay friendly won’t care if a guy is bi as long as he’s attractive. But for the girls who do, I would guess it has to do with not liking the idea of him being submissive in bed, or maybe thinking he’s secretly gay. I for one think bi guys are hot and women who have a problem with them are weird and prudish, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 03:12 AM
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Not in my experience. Lots of “players” (some of whom don’t consider themselves such) are kind, friendly, and even pro-feminist. It depends whether they’re the type of person to see women as “women” or as individuals capable of good and evil same as everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:00 PM
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