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Field Reportmaddisser101/r/seduction02/04/20 02:20 AM
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Lol that really is it. Talk it up, do it, and then leave while handing it out to other people. Everyone wants something they can't have like OP said.
/r/seduction23/04/22 12:01 AM
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Lol do it. Great thought experiment.
/r/seduction02/09/21 04:54 PM
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Yeah there are success stories with that but overall it is inappropriate to do so.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:17 PM
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This usually occurs because the guy is lonely and the only woman in his orbit. Why do you think so many guys hit on the waittress/bartender? Because she is literally right there and keeps coming to them... easy access. Yeah there are success stories with that but overall it is inappropriate to do so.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:00 AM
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Or at least foster the connection in a platonic way. Never know who her girlfriends might be.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:59 AM
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That is not even really a dating sub as much as it is a white knight circle jerk lol.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:58 AM
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It is not just about approaching women but approaching people too. Socialization is a muscle and you have to use it continuously. The biggest part about r/seduction is getting better at life in general and not just with women. If all you aim for is women then you will fall incredibly short in regards to everything else. While lifting is important for women as you appear more attractive it also helps your mental health and self esteem. That is more important than anyone else finding you marginall…
/r/seduction01/09/21 10:45 PM
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I had two girlfriends during college and barely spoke to women because of that. After graduating, I was completely lost. The best advice to give is to lift, find a passion, and approach as much as you can. All failures have a lesson but you have to go out and learn.
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:49 PM
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It is crazy but most of the best advice on this sub has little to do with women and more to do with life.
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:47 PM
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It can be embarrassing but a number of girls have said that it can be flattering. And honestly I don't understand why it is not seen like that more so. Also, he should be eating you out after finishing that quickly, it is basic common courtesy.
/r/seduction30/08/21 04:40 PM
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took this from one of your old posts For me it's about 1 in 20 although I've gotten picky over the years if I were to try to pull every girl who liked me it would be more like 1 in 5.
/r/seduction25/05/21 09:25 PM
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Gotta go through different environments as well. It is a numbers game. Approach a 100 women and MAYBE 5 will like you. 1/5 of those will likely have sex with you. There is a reason major league hitters barely bat .300 and that is considered superior to most. You are not always going to get a hit but need to get out there and swing.
/r/seduction22/05/21 08:17 PM
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This is weird for a first date
/r/seduction13/05/21 06:24 PM
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this was better than OPs post
/r/seduction23/04/21 06:53 PM
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They are not going to be on Hinge. And if they are then they use it for confidence purposes. Attractive women already have enough men in their circle from their friends, work, and getting approached in real life. The only way to meet them tried and true is to approach in real life or use mutual friends. You can meet the occasional 10/10 on dating apps but like I said they are getting hundreds of messages on there so it is like throwing a rock into the ocean hoping it will come back.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:23 PM
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she is just shit testing you. just hold fast and be calm. I remember seeing a post on here about a man that did basically everything you did but when the woman complained he never yelled, screamed, got angry, and she was furious at how stoic he was. just keep your cool and keep making as much money as you can.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:40 PM
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Tell her she will be added when she makes more money than you from a job she earned on her own...
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:25 PM
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It pertains to being negative. Which can come off as impatient, antsy, lack of reserve, etc. Obviously if you wanna look that deep into it.
/r/seduction06/04/21 07:17 PM
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I'm a big proponent of less is more. Little interaction as possible if they do not seem pleasant. Hello, have a nice day, goodbye. No pandering or other BS.
/r/seduction06/04/21 07:16 PM
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It is very simple - just pull over and let them pass. I do it all the time. I see them at the next stop light anyway. Waste of gas and brakes.
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:43 PM
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Negativity in general. Being rude to service workers. Getting mad at small things like bad drivers, stop lights, people talking on their phone, etc. Just mind your own damn business and be at peace with what is going on at that given time. Showing anger, jealousy, and disdain makes you look so weak and pathetic. Also just complaining in general. No one ever wants to hear it and it makes you so annoying and intolerable. If you are going to complain, at least be funny so everyone gets something ou…
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:29 PM
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Do more adult shit. Pay your taxes, build things, cook for yourself, build a fuckin shed or something. If you feel like a kid then you are probably still doing things you were doing when you were a kid.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:23 PM
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Fucking hell yeah dude
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:52 PM
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I was in consulting but I definitely did not like it in my classes. I like the retirement/real estate side but not corporate finance. That seemed the most boring.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 10:58 AM
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I know a lot of people went into the Big 4, worked the shitty hours, got their CPA, and then went into industry where it was much more tame and work was much less. If you like sustainability, why not think about real estate? I know plenty of people that went from accounting into real estate. You can be a building manager or somehow lateral into sustainability that way. Master's degrees are expensive regarding both money AND time. This needs to be something properly vetted before committing: shad…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:34 PM
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You gotta pick up when the conversation is about to die and then dip out. You don't wanna dick around and keep forcing words out of your mouth. You're a man with a plan and got somewhere to be so you should act like it. Right before you feel the conversation about to die just ask for their number and leave. You don't need to waste anymore time. Build off of that and text for hangouts only.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 01:53 PM
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Lol of course it is perfectly okay. I tried doing the whole casual sex thing and it wasn't as fun. It was way more fun when there was a connection and levels to the relationship. I think casual sex definitely is not for everyone in more ways than one.
/r/seduction22/02/21 07:13 PM
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Viktor Frankl said it best and I think you illustrate it well: “Don't aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not …
/r/seduction16/09/20 04:40 PM
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In order to be interesting, you have to interested. Actually listen to the answers and build off of them. Example: Me: "if you could go anywhere where would you go? I feel like you're a well-rounded person who loves to experience culture" You can basically put any question and assumption in that allows you to: a) ask a question she can answer. b) answer or question the assumption you have. c) discuss the answers to a and b further. Actively listen. Nod. Eye contact. Repeat words she says. Make i…
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:59 PM
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Shoot your shot but warm her up first and ask her to do something else.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 11:10 PM
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You have gotten accustomed to your situation. Humans are not used to being stable. Think about it in an evolutionary sense: we roamed the plains for hundreds of thousands of years, eating maybe three times per WEEK, sleeping in the dirt, fearing for our lives and meals. Now we have everything we have ever wanted: food, shelter, relationships, etc. There is nothing left to really strive for. You need to shake up your life more. Do something scary or that you have never tried before. Find out what…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:03 PM
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THIS IS FUCKING AWESOME. Gonna go slide in some DMs now. GET TO IT.
/r/seduction11/08/20 04:11 PM
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I think this is more so the case because it is a lot easier for women to get laid and way harder for men to get laid.
/r/MensRights30/07/20 06:10 PM
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Fair enough brother. I think whatever works for other men, works for other men. That is my entire point. If you can BS and get away with it, then BS and get away with it. Nothing wrong with your approach or another approach, in my opinion.
/r/seduction22/07/20 01:23 PM
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dude it is not that big of a deal, if you don't wanna say it, don't say it. if you're in that head that much to the point where you can't even BS with someone then don't even go out and daygame
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:46 AM
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technically he is visiting that store/town/area/conversation... so...
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:39 AM
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username checks out tho
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:38 AM
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Lol I was in a fraternity in college and I guarantee you that those girls hanging around all those guys never touch each other. Every fraternity has orbiters that are just chicks friendzoning them to get into parties and fall back on their plans. Delete social media. All it is, is people showing the best part of their lives ALL THE TIME. I know some of the WORST PEOPLE and their lives look amazing on Instagram when in reality they can't even finish one beer when they're out and go to bed by like…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:35 AM
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I think that Will did the right thing. He even says in the video "I was done with your ass" and she admitted that she was being a terrible partner. He got to smash Margot Robbie (unconfirmed) and keep all his money. She gets to sit around a red table and talk about it like some badge of honor but at least he doesn't have to give her half of everything.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 02:58 AM
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Not gonna lie I sound like an ass. He is free to do whatever he wants.
/r/seduction10/07/20 05:19 PM
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I think doing this for the sake of doing this isn't really bringing about any progress. While I respect the discipline I feel that you are treating this as a job instead of something fun to do. If you haven't even followed up or picked up any girls yet I wouldn't continue doing this if all you are doing it for is a reddit post and for the sake of doing it.
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:49 PM
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It will be by the end of the day. No chance the censor Czars don't remove it.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 07:18 PM
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With all due respect this is the dumbest shit ever when people play mindgames like this. If you feel a certain way, especially if you are a woman, just be straightforward about. Don't say "It was nothing more than sex" when you are literally saying you like him. Life is way too short to be saying one thing when you feel another way. This is ridiculous. I mean really, what kind of advice do you expect here? This seems blatantly straightforward.
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:54 PM
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This is like me right now with twitter and reddit. No sports just all political bullshit everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 01:20 AM
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Nice, nice. Thanks for that. Do you have any news sources that are reliable for staying up to date?
/r/askTRP13/06/20 03:11 PM
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Yeah honestly I might wait until after the election, pay off my loans, and then dump a bunch of capital into the market before grad school so it can accrue while I'm not working and have good credit in the meantime. I was thinking of small, medium, and large market cap stocks, per my friend. I had a few in mind but am waiting to see if there is more legislation being passed that could affect student loans and the market. Not trying to pay everything off and then Pelosi gives a $10k handout to ev…
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:42 PM
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Just had a conversation with my investment banker friend about this yesterday.... bout to open up a Vanguard account this week.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 01:55 PM
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"don't be such a tryhard" *writes a fuckin ten million page post*
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 08:14 PM
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keep us posted bro!
/r/seduction05/06/20 03:29 PM
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that is what I meant to say
/r/seduction25/05/20 02:00 PM
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You forgot to mention he is the Avatar. Very important fact.
/r/seduction25/05/20 12:58 PM
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If you go on twitter there are all these posts about "I love a man who's last post is from 2016" or something corny and specific. There are whole comment chains of girls talking about liking guys like that. Obviously everyone is different but you cannot deny that it adds mystery. I'm not saying don't have social media just to impress girls. It helps build your image. People only see what you let them see. If you post all these impressive pictures then people will imagine you as such. But, if you…
/r/seduction13/05/20 06:27 PM
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Lol if she says 1 that is kinda awkward. There will definitely be girls that say that.
/r/seduction12/05/20 03:40 PM
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Do you have the link for Steven Pinker or were you being sarcastic? I think that guy is interesting sometimes and would like to read about it.
/r/seduction05/05/20 09:20 PM
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Real question for me is which one is less likely to have you fucked up physically? Can't afford to be nursing broken bones for months in a time like this.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:31 AM
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Reminds of the quote from Anger Management "Temper is the one thing you cannot get rid of by losing it." Same goes for your reactions. What you do matters more than what you say. Getting angry in an already emotional situation is just going to add fuel to the fire. I think it is generally accepted on this forum that being stoic is the best way to keep frame. Being fluid, neutral, and nonreactive are all vital tenets to build and maintain frame.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 04:31 PM
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This is an awesome post OP, thank you for sharing. Really, this shit hits home. We all deal with negativity all the time and how we react to it is our biggest test of frame and composure. We have all had bad experiences whether it be with other men, women, coworkers, family... but the best way to combat it is by being fully ourselves and controlling our reactions! I am going through a similar experience... I recently graduated uni and was dating this beautiful woman who was insanely smart from a…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 04:26 PM
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This is why libraries are important. Free books both in paper and audio. All of these people just rehash what the ancients have said. You can find the same shit in books like 'Meditations' or '48 Laws of Power.' No need to pay $30 for some bullshit Tim Ferris tell-all. They just say the same stuff but with more buzzwords.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 06:02 PM
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I've been feeling the same way. I have really felt like shit and been checking social media too much which is bad to do even when not in quarantine. It just shows peoples best selves and directly compares it to your shitty current situation which isn't fair by any means. Don't check social media. It's a trap and is terrible for the human mind, body, and soul. All it does is make you feel like shit. When I deleted it I felt so much more at peace and less pressured to feel like I always have to do…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:43 PM
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Obviously, every human being is different, my writings describe a generality, stop being stupid. So many people on this sub do not understand this and just call everybody autistic because one person goes against their 'norm'
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 10:10 PM
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I had someone, who never spoke a word to me in their life, say I walked around thinking I was "all that." They never even spoke to me. They judged me on how I walked. Who gives a fuck what people think. As long as you do what you want and stay true to the path you're on those people will not matter.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:47 PM
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This goes off of the other popular post that you need to be busy. You shouldn't shower with compliments or act like she is overly bodacious. Never, ever lower your position and put her on a pedestal. This is why a lot of people do not go for nice men/women. They know they won them over. No one wants what anyone else can have.
/r/seduction19/04/20 06:38 PM
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From what I've seen and heard some girls think it is actually attractive and mysterious. There was a meme going around facebook saying 'there is nothing worse than an ex that doesn't use social media.' Although that was probably due to the vanity of some women and having to constantly compare themselves to other people and make sure they are better off than their past partners. My ex would also always hag me because I didn't like her instagram photos. It was so annoying.
/r/seduction11/04/20 11:53 PM
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Online dating is literally just a picture of you. And it is general consensus that there are two main rules to it: Be hot Don't not be hot There is another general consensus that you should have three routes to getting possible partners: social circle online apps cold approaches It is a numbers game. You gotta start swinging to hit the ball. Don't just get caught up and discourage because one route seems closed when there are others.
/r/seduction11/04/20 04:24 AM
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I think its a fair tradeoff because women have a shit ton of shitty shit to worry about. I love being a guy.
/r/seduction11/04/20 04:22 AM
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Name checks out. Small changes have big results.
/r/seduction09/04/20 06:26 PM
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Inner game is the most important part of game my dude.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:27 PM
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This was awesome to read.
/r/seduction03/04/20 04:00 PM
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I think comfort can mean something different person to person. People think touching creates comfort but I've met plenty of girls that weren't 'touchers' so to speak. Like the OP commenter said even laughter can't be a tell-all indicator of comfort. I think your viewpoint in the comfort of being a high value man is good but a lot of people can see that as arrogance or narcissism.
/r/seduction02/04/20 11:07 PM
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what
/r/seduction02/04/20 08:58 PM
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That's not the point of the post. The point was to build and maintain attraction. Not taking a slow approach with every woman. You could take my four points and they would still be applicable in a more acute setting. If she wasn't my lab partner I wouldn't game a girl over three months because that is obviously too much time to be spent on a girl you met in a bar/coffee shop/public place.
/r/seduction02/04/20 07:20 PM
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There's plenty of other women out there
/r/seduction02/04/20 07:17 PM
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This is very good feedback and I appreciate it. But I'm not looking for intimate relationships, just casual dating or short term relationships. I was in a long term relationship for awhile and it burned me out. I would rather spend this time of my life to casually date until I'm ready for more intimacy again.
/r/seduction02/04/20 05:08 PM
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Thank you! If you can't tell, I'm super jaded lol. Great discussion.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:16 PM
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Haters gonna hate man. I thought I made it pretty clear at the end to tie it all together but obviously people didn't read the whole post.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:13 PM
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Thanks again for your input but if I wanted to find someone I could be myself with I would hangout with my mom or my guy friends.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:11 PM
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OBVIOUSLY
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:09 PM
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I see you didn't read the whole post
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:07 PM
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Exactly. And I only did this because there was a set point where I would not see her again. I would never EVER do this at work or a place I frequented of that nature.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:06 PM
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I wasted no time. I got her number and we had some fun. I got a 4.0 that semester and lifted heavier than I ever have. I also have the experience and skills from this endeavor to build off of. Just because you are negative doesn't mean I have to be.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:05 PM
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Thank you for your input but to be honest that is what every girl I was interested in used to say and then they got bored when I became more emotionally available and transparent. Its not like I am doing this on baseless grounds, it is from experience and what has worked/not worked.
/r/seduction02/04/20 04:04 PM
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At least you are in college and you will be back. The beauty of it is that there are women everywhere. There were some other girls I gamed this semester but her I wanted the most.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:56 PM
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THATS what you're going to critique me on?! lmao say less
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:53 PM
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Kudos to you for being straightforward. I respect that. This definitely wasn't an attempt to 'win' because that would mean that there is a loser. Why would I want to date or make someone I'm attracted to feel like a loser? Or look upon them like a loser? This, for me, was about self-control and restraint. If you see the last paragraph in my post, I used to be an open book. I used to just pour out my whole life to girls, talk about myself, and always insert every single detail about me into every…
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:48 PM
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I agree that it should take 1 week and even less. I guess this post was about gaining and maintaining attractiveness. Yeah, I could have made a move after one week but she actually had a boyfriend at the beginning of the semester (I failed to mention this in the post). She told me that AFTER I hooked up with her and that they broke up after the first month of the semester. So if I made the first move I would have had to deal with that awkwardness for the remainder of the class. This is an entire…
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:32 PM
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I actually instituted most of this by learning from a past relationship.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:27 PM
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Its all good, she lives in an area I frequent so I will probably see her again. We ended on a good note.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:24 PM
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I ended up switching schools so we don't see each other anymore. Edit: Yes I fucked
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:17 PM
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I mean isn't everything in life based off of self control? You want to study, you have to adhere to a plan; you want to eat right, you can't have cheat meals; you want to be fit, you have to go for runs in the morning. I don't WANT to do any of that but I still do it anyways. If I listened to the voice in the back of my head telling me to stay on the couch I would be one lazy POS. I was simply projecting the man I wanted to be and am now. If I was genuine, I would be a scrawny, babbling jackass …
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:17 PM
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physical touch
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:14 PM
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I was definitely flirty but I wasn't outright.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:13 PM
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All in all for the most part I just wanted to focus on class to be honest. I didn't have time to be flirty or set up dates, nor did I have the money. I wanted to get good grades. I failed to mention that in the post.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:12 PM
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This happened with me at the gym but it was like 15 degrees out and the girl was in shorts. I told myself she didn't want to talk to me in the cold and aborted the approach. Now we can't even go to the gym anymore lol.
/r/seduction01/04/20 07:17 PM
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Still, texting is good for meet-ups and not building attraction (generally). She is just looking for attention due to lack of social interaction. Don't foster or entertain that.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 08:01 PM
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I think it is generally accepted that this is monk mode time. You should only be texting to arrange meet-ups, which you shouldn't even be doing now. What if this chick had that virus and you are on a respirator in two weeks just because she wanted to give you blue balls for some attention.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:16 PM
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I've just been doing push ups, pull ups, resistance band rows/curls, and dumbbell work with curls, lateral/front raises, rows, and shoulder presses. Gotta do whatever you can with what you have. I keep saying i'm gonna go to a hardware store and buy some sand and buckets to do farmers carries or bench press but all of them are closed or filled with gross ass people.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 07:10 PM
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I just hung around people I actually liked. I did not have an actual social life until I was 14. I spent a lot of my middle school years alone. I ended up getting in a group of friends that I actually liked and from there I spring boarded into other relationships. I have suffered at times to make friends and fit in in places such as college and work, but when I invested time in things and people I actually cared about and genuinely was interested in, everything came together. For example, I was …
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:38 PM
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I was initially an introvert. I would look forward to spending summers inside playing Halo on my Xbox. I used to play gameboy while I downloaded map packs. I would draw, read, and research random shit all the time. I am totally in my element. No social pressures to go out, socialize, fuck girls, etc. I love all of this. People may hate it but I am absolutely chilling. Still working out and eating right though. Can't let that go by the way-side.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 02:34 PM
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I ask her to suck my dick and after some resistance she does so and it was the scariest and most aggressive blowjob of my life I thought she’d fucking rip my foreskin off she was so violent with that thing and I couldn’t cum out of fear so I told her to just lay down on my thigh and jerked off onto her face I'm fuckin dying. Med students are CRAZY
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 04:56 AM
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You only lose if you act offended. You gotta just make your weaknesses your strengths. If you laugh it off and embrace it then you have already won.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:51 PM
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Tough when it is your place of work though.
/r/seduction09/12/19 04:24 PM
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Act indifferent and civil. Be mature and just move on. If she don't like you now she never will, man.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:47 PM
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The prince of England is bald, ain't no way around it. There are ways to slow it down that do work but they are expensive, time consuming, and overall more risky for your health as opposed to just letting it fall out naturally and deal with it. No one is dating your damn head or your hair. Just own your shit like all the other jacked bald guys out there.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:25 AM
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Some blue pilled guy maybe. It was a joke dude.
/r/MensRights08/12/19 04:43 AM
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Yeah she posted an article saying all men don't do anything. The article had a pay wall so I know she didn't read it, she just googled it and posted it in the comment. She didn't reply back when I called her out on it. Honestly it is probably some man just parading around as a woman or something. There is no way someone is that delusional.
/r/MensRights08/12/19 04:39 AM
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Lol she is such a bitch. I've argued with her before on PurplePillDebate. Total lunatic that just bathes in the echo chamber atmosphere.
/r/MensRights07/12/19 11:36 PM
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I think that these are all serious problems - but no one here is really in the place to give medical or clinical advice. I think you need to do what is best for you - therapy, medication, meditation, exercise, etc. and try to live the best life possible. If your conditions have you ending up in the hospital then you clearly need to follow a medicinal regimen - I would start there by owning your shit in that sense: make sure you go to the doctor, take your meds, do therapy, exercise, eat healthy,…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:52 PM
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You are at an early stage in your life - everyone is finding themselves. Everyone has toxic habits. No one has anything or everything figured out at 19. The best thing to build right now is patience and acceptance - focusing on things you cannot change while ignoring the malleable aspects is a complete waste of time. The more grounded in yourself you become the more you will attract people of your likeness.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:49 PM
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He is your dad - he has lived his life shitty and toxic life, well, his entire life. It isn't going to change and no one is going to deal with it - he is going to be the same. Can't teach an old dog new tricks. Learn from it, ignore it, and carry on in better ways. Don't make the same mistakes, don't absorb the same emotional immaturity he seems to exhibit, and do not stoop to his level. Learn from his mistakes and shortcomings.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:17 PM
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You just need a minor surplus. That is like 400-600 extra calories. Anything more than that and you will start to get jiggly in places you never noticed.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:08 PM
3

if by the time I’m 25, every women worth pursuing are already in relationships or in marriages. People start when they are like 40. Don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 09:06 PM
8

No but this is a great idea. I think more people visualize their failure than their success generally anyway. It is nice to flip the script.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 08:59 PM
2

Holy shit a post about an actual situation where things worked and looking for improvement. Kudos mate!
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:23 PM
1

Then don't do it in places you frequent. 5,500 people at that school? That means around 2750 women of age that are available. 50,000 people in that town? That means at the very least there are 25,000 women where maybe 1/3 are of age and willing to date. That sounds like ~10,000 women that are available total. That is enough for a lifetime of practice. Get to it. Sucking at something is the first step to being sorta good at something. If you're still not comfortable then go to a nearby town and d…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:26 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:06 PM
3

Just keep it going and then leave. You don't have to tell them shit. They're probably not going to spend time with you if you they know you are leaving.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:47 AM
3

There was an entire Seinfeld episode about this.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 03:24 AM
4

I agree. My comment was an explanation of their beliefs - I do not hold those beliefs.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 09:00 PM
6

Bc they think that since you care about another set of rights that all other rights do not matter. Also since men are more privileged in society that they should not have advocacy for their rights.
/r/MensRights02/12/19 07:50 PM
2

"Why do my eyes hurt so much?" You've never used them.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:34 PM
2

Being a bouncer is cool in that sense but a lot of the girls you meet have the motive of using you to get into the bar/club for free. I frequent a certain bar all the time and all the girls try to say they know someone to get past the bouncer cover-free and it never works. Being anything in the service industry is good for social skills but the transaction part is always the hidden motive that you will be used in some way for them to gain. That is why just going up to women and asking to buy the…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:31 PM
18

The hardest part about approaching is opening. It does not matter how you open, just open. If it works, it works; if it doesn't, then learn and do something differently next time. No one remembers how you open. They only remember the conversations you say after that and how you carry yourself. I literally meet people by saying the dumbest shit ever but all that matters is that I interject myself into their life in some way. Doesn't have to be any particular way but just any way. No open = no app…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:28 PM
6

Do you know what forum this is?
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:22 PM
12

They will have to find out on their own. Rule number one of fight club and TRP is do not talk about fight club or TRP.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:50 AM
2

bullet points dude, bullet points.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:04 PM
1

You're just going to have to adjust your diet beforehand to cope with passing gas if you are going into a social situation.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 01:49 AM
1

Dude just drop her. There is documented evidence that she is a hoe yet you made her your girlfriend. AWALT. Did you even read the side bar?
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:40 PM
6

Secrets are a no-go. Ride the weekend out and fuck off after that brother.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:38 PM
1

Be quiet child.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:25 PM
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I don't think you even read the articles you cited because they aren't very convincing for anything you just said. Looking at the 'hole' in the labor market and deducing it to laziness is a lazy argument in of itself. Even the Bloomberg article's best evidence for this is 'more enticing video games' which sounds pretty baseless. Also the Bloomberg article originally had a pay wall so that's even more evidence you just googled it and posted it to reinforce your confirmation bias. Also if a suppre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:24 PM
1

You all are hateful for no reason. This is absurdly ignorant to use a blanket statement like this. I agree that there are plenty of men that are immature both emotionally and mentally but to continue with these absurd blanket statements is ridiculous. Not all men are hateful the same way not all women hold the aforementioned ignorant statement. You just refuse to do any work, This is also untrue. Anyone who has a shred of knowledge about social dynamics realizes that they have to be a man of val…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:23 PM
1

This is basically the gist of 'debate' on this forum. Everyone just screams at everyone remotely mentioning TRP and plug their ears while screaming until they give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:17 PM
1

You sound like you're eating a hamburger thinking its a steak. We've all been there. TRP is realizing that no one is perfect, even you. People get what they want or leave. Sometimes we have what others want and we don't want to give it to them and the same goes for other people.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:06 PM
2

Did you read the side bar? This is so damn straightforward man.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:58 PM
1

The shit talking stems from jealousy. Just sit back and let them bitch and moan.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:55 PM
1

Will do so from now on. But there has been an absurd amount of posts regarding advice with siblings and middle school bullshit. I blame the holidays.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 05:51 PM
1

This is the only post I commented on and she came at me. Sooooo. Everyone is wildly immature on this sub lol Edit: Oh wait you're the middle school kid asking for parenting advice. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 05:48 PM
1

Perfectly mature response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:33 AM
1

Good on ya for being nice. Definitely just mention that you are interested in someone else but you don't want to talk about it. The truth hurts but it doesn't have to kill.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:28 AM
16

This subreddit has turned into daycare
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:21 AM
1

Apparently yours is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:15 AM
1

None of what you said made any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:27 PM
1

Dreading is demonstrating value. Not sure why you have it in quotation marks. Adding value to yourself is not bad so I'm not sure why labeling it 'dread' would make it any different. Anyone on any self improvement is not there for anyone else but themselves - this again is common sense. You have obviously have your mind made up. TRP has helped me become a better man and professional without hindering or hurting anyone else - I don't really care how others view it. What matters is how I extract v…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:24 PM
1

It is simply knowing one's value, holding one's frame, and not playing into the mindgames that women like to play. That is what I "literally" said. Again, see the part where it is a game and we are all playing. I also never said it was the definition of abuse. I said it was abusive. There are good people on it as there are bad people. And I would not want to be a woman anyway I am totally happy being a man. Resorting to insults and distorting my statements with falsehoods is pretty weak, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 05:02 PM
1

FDS is abusive. And life is full of mindgames. See the part where I say it is all a game and we are all playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:40 PM
1

I've worn condoms even when women are on birth control. Also I have a lot of friends that take birth control to help with their acne. Not that everyone does this but just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:35 AM
2

What if you nut inside a fig?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:34 AM
1

You’re the one who’s fishing here with these false equivalencies. Lol you brought up Nazis, turning dirt into gold, and called all men rapists. But ok. Also YOU JUST PROVED MY POINT - not all men that are in TRP post the vitriol you speak of nor condone it. You are letting a minority represent a majority and the negatives overshadow the inherently true positives. Thank you for making my argument come full circle. Good day to you. Edit: words
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:30 AM
1

Yes. It is called Creationism or Intelligent Design. You are REALLY fishing for nothing here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 02:19 AM
1

Was the world made in seven days?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 01:55 AM
0

So because people go to church and believe in Christianity they all condone child molestation and think the world was made in seven days?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 01:47 AM
1

I think dealing in absolutes is foolish and obtuse. If you wish to have a self-fulfilling prophecy and fixed worldview, go ahead. I don't think its that hard to understand that I can follow some principles while denouncing others. All your posts scream "just say you're a misogynist!!!!!!" without even considering reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:12 PM
1

It is almost like you didn't even read my reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:31 PM
0

Due to your post history I see that you put a blanket over people on TRP as misogynistic. I do not condone misogyny. I do not think women are lesser than men. I do not think either are more intelligent than another. I think that the toxic people spewing bullshit on the forum are toxic people spewing bullshit - in both respects. I think both should have sexual freedom and not be judged for it. I do not condone everything the TRP does. Same way I do not condone everything the bible preaches as a C…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:24 PM
0

Self improvement is obviously a big factor for the Redpill, but you can’t deny that game aspects such as dread and tricking women into being plates isn’t also a critical aspect of it, one you can’t just dismiss as “anger phase” guys. Dread is not abusive at all. It is simply knowing one's value, holding one's frame, and not playing into the mindgames that women like to play. Women are also free to go as they please - I don't think there's anything wrong in having multiple partners as long as it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 09:14 PM
4

The forum is literally quarantined.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:16 PM
1

TRP is about increasing men's value. It says it right on the first rule of the forum: "TRP's mission is to discuss men's identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men. " Sure there are plenty of manipulative, hateful, misogynistic, and overall disgusting men on the forum but as a whole the mission statement is about the betterment of men. I personally disavow those weak men as they give the forum a bad name and go off on women-hating r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:15 PM
1

Keep fucking going man. Life is not easy and never will be. Try. Fail. Reevaluate. Try again. Rinse and repeat. This shit does not happen overnight.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:30 PM
9

Vulnerability overall is a good thing. Trying to consistently act perfect is boring and unrelatable. Mark Manson is just saying a general principle that many other people have said before. Being grounded in yourself shows that you not only know yourself but know what you want in other people - this in of itself is attractive and polarizing.
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:25 PM
1

Jesus this person should not be commenting on shit like that. That is absurdly unprofessional. Just keep working your ass off and become an asset that they cannot replace and no one will say anything to you. Fuck that shit.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:09 PM
1

The funny thing is is that masculinity is not something that belongs to a gender. It is the nature of an act - the nature of being associated with a man but not necessarily only pertaining to a man. Women have some of the worst toxic masculinity of all: "What are you a pussy/faggot/coward/loser/etc" or "Stop being such a girl" etc etc etc. They will find a trait that a man is insecure about and drill it into the ground. I hate how toxic masculinity is considered something that only men can conve…
/r/MensRights21/11/19 06:02 PM
2

She is looking for attention. read the sidebar before posting
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:57 PM
2

Nice Guys act nice because that is all they know. They are nice to others because they think that is how they receive what they want. They are misled and are upset at the fact that their worldview is not what they think it is. They simply think that because they are nice they then will receive a nicety in return which could not be more false. The whole purpose is to be clear with intentions. You take what you want. If they will not give it to you then go somewhere else like you said. Rejection i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 05:51 PM
3

To find new friends or go loner for awhile. I've been there too. Sometimes it is better to just not have friends for a time as all the negative energy and anxiety really gets to your self esteem. Just know one thing - this is only temporary and can get better if you make an effort. If you stay in the same friend group they will treat you the same. If you try to become better and fit their standards you are basically living life according to their rules. High school ends. College ends. Work ends.…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 04:09 PM
8

"We can meet up but I forget what you look like." Dude you know the answer here.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 02:27 PM
8

Times have changed. The elders don't know shit about the dating scene now. Relationships are more expendable than ever with more economic freedom and ease of access to thousands of potential interests via Tinder, Bumble OkCupid, etc. Compatibility is rare. But in their days the stuck together because they already like three kids by the time they were 23 with a house and union factory job. There are barely pensions anymore now - imagine what the dating scene must be like let alone marriage and ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 03:21 PM
1

Then obviously you should be on dopamine meds. Not really sure what you're fishing at here. I'm just defending both venues but neither are absolutes. Every situation is different and medicine is all relative.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 01:20 PM
1

For the overly psychotic people yes but a lot of the times they are pushed and mismanaged because the reimbursement for them is higher. CBT is getting more and more advanced every year. Also most psychiatric meds were not even created for psychiatric purposes but were just an offshoot side effect of a drug created for another entirely different problem.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 01:06 PM
1

Lol this is such a common reply to mental health concerns and treatment. I have gone through something similar and that is what I did - I wouldn't just say all that for the fuck of it. It has helped incredibly and I have been living my best life ever since. Again, it sounds like you are doing things for external reasons. Who gives a fuck what others think? You are really going to deny yourself help because in your culture it is looked down upon? The epitome of holding frame is going your own way…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 04:53 PM
1

The questions on this sub are almost always relationship based and it is definitely tiresome and redundant. Kind of annoying to have to see "what should I reply to this text? is this chick tired of me? should I get in LTR?" over and over and over again.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 03:26 PM
2

My friend you sound like a candidate for depression. Also, it sounds like you are doing all of these things for external reasons and not internal. You are living someone else's life, it seems. You need to do things that drive you - things that you WANT to do! Not something you think you are supposed to do. You should definitely consult a therapist/psychiatrist. Start with your primary care physician, call your insurance to see who is in your network, and do some research on who you would like to…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 03:22 PM
1

AWALT.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 02:26 PM
1

fuck yeahhhhhh
/r/seduction16/11/19 02:16 AM
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This is what happens when you enter a fucking echo chamber like that.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 01:59 AM
6

She literally was in a movie where a guy jerks off too much.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 04:51 PM
1

The thing with nutrition is that what works for someone else might not work for you. Breakfast does not ALWAYS make you sluggish and for a lot of people it helps boost their energy. I noticed that when I am fasted in the morning (not eating breakfast) I am actually more alert. There are various scientific reasons for this but again - whatever works for you. I used to play sports with people that would eat mcdonalds and smoke cigarettes before practice while I would get a cramp if I had anything …
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:14 PM
3

I would ask your doctor and possibly get some blood work. Maybe you have a vitamin deficiency. Most common ones are vitamin D and b12 which can cause you to be sluggish. Also sleeping a lot doesn't mean you get quality sleep - people that drink a lot of coffee/energy drinks, eat close to bedtime, look at screens close to bedtime, or do a lot of things in bed outside of sleeping/sex can lead to shittier nights sleep. Your bed should be for sex and sleep, that's it. Everyone is different and you s…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:57 PM
3

This girl let you kiss her butthole before you kissed her mouth? This is some wild shit man lol
/r/seduction15/11/19 01:48 PM
3

Dude... fuck yeah
/r/seduction15/11/19 01:41 PM
1

I agree with what you said but I don't think it applies to my point. If he wants to hit on her - great then go ahead, even better if it works out. If it doesn't he has to deal with that atmosphere until the end of the semester. I could care less but in my experience after I've hit on girls in my class and asked them out it just made it awkward when they said no and even if it worked out it was awkward if we had a fight or disagreement on something. School is synonymous with work and it is widely…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:56 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with awkwardness but if it occurs in a place you have to frequent every day then it becomes a problem. I consider class synonymous with work and I think it is widely accepted to not shit where you eat. Also I do not think waiting three weeks (guessing that's the end of the semester soon) is that long anyways.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:52 PM
2

Dude just suck it up and pay your shit off. This is only for a year. You will basically be saving at LEAST $12k that can go towards your repayment. You will be living on your own for the rest of your life - what is 1-2 more years of free living space to pay your loans off faster? Just go to her place anyway if she has one - if anything you have some minor logistic difficulty for a year or two. There is no perfect situation here and it depends on what you value more - the freedom of living alone …
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:00 PM
10

TRP favors whatever works for you. Everyone is different - some people get laid more through tinder and some people are better in person. Some people are better in coffee shops and libraries while others are good in night clubs or bars. Everyone is different.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:57 PM
2

ABUNDANCE. Did you read the sidebar? Abundance in every aspect of your life: streams of confidence, streams of income, streams of friends, and streams of women. Some people think TRP is all about gaming people. It is about being your best self. Figure your fucking shit out - socially, mentally, physically, and emotionally. This is all about your hierarchy of needs. Some men get so into their women because they do not have good relationships with their friends or family. Build a nice foundation f…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:55 PM
3

Sometimes you have to let people crash and burn. I have given so many friends hours upon hours of advice and none of them followed it. People learn more by doing. Sometimes you gotta let them 'do' by failing.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:53 PM
2

She is ignorant and trying to drag you down of insecurity. There is nothing more insulting you can do someone than ignoring them - do this and it will continue to infuriate her. If you keep paying her mind and spending mental energy on her then she wins.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:51 PM
1

There are subreddits for meditation. It is also easier to meditate when you have someone guiding you instead of just sitting there. You can look up videos on youtube. Also you have to realize your brain is a muscle in of itself and you cannot just sit there with hyper focus the same way you cannot sit down and be amazing at the saxophone or hit one hundred free throws in a basketball game. It is all about practice and plasticity. This is not just pseudoshit anymore, it is science.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:49 PM
-9

Everyone will say 'follow the sidebar' which is true but WAIT UNTIL THE END OF THE SEMESTER. You do not want to risk it being awkward and focus on gaming her instead of focusing on your studies. Not saying she will reject you - but she might - and this could cause some awkwardness in the class. Also just try to escalate by like asking her to study together or something in place of just feeling her up in class and gaming in the middle of lecture.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:48 PM
4

Its all about the kibbles brother.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:44 PM
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I don't think I've ever felt that but damn it does feel good to see people you have not seen in awhile and they comment on how big you've gotten. I was at a bar in NYC last weekend and some girls I hadn't seen in like a year were pointing, whispering, and continuously touching me. It felt fucking awesome. But what feels even better is just getting in and out of the gym every day and looking in the mirror at your pump. This trumps all else knowing that I can even tell I am changing myself externa…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:24 PM
7

The point is to lift whatever you can and continue to try and lift more. The best exercise is the one you can do the most frequently.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:47 PM
1

The ones on snapchat are the worst. And they have access to these insane gyms with like thirty different variations of equipment. This one guy did leg press vertically ( pushing up on his back), horizontally, and reverse horizontally on three different machines. What gym has more than one direction of a leg press???????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:44 PM
2

I don't know why so many people gotta be such dicks on here lol. Nah I would not wear them - you only let things bother you as much as you let them. Wear your insecurities like a badge of honor and let them be your shield instead of your weak point. Everyone has insecurities to a varying degree but it is up to you on how you react to them. Instead just focus on building your mass by lifting and becoming more grounded in yourself.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:54 PM
9

Time heals all wounds. It also goes by faster when you are on top of someone else. Consensually, of course.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:31 PM
8

Loneliness is one the largest factors as well. Men are more likely to have smaller social circles or no circles at all. This is why it is important for men to have a good group of friends or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 03:25 PM
2

this is an opinion piece on a new study: https://www.the-scientist.com/news-opinion/waves-of-fluid-bathe-the-sleeping-brain--perhaps-to-clear-waste-66660 this is the study showing it in mice: https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/brain-may-flush-out-toxins-during-sleep
/r/askTRP13/11/19 01:11 PM
2

Your brain produces waste from activity. Sleep helps filter that waste. The more you sleep = the more your brain gets filtered and renewed. The less you sleep = the more waste that is present and the more 'brain fog' you feel.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:35 PM
1

This seems like a better question to literally ask a woman and not a man. We don't know what they're thinking. All we can apply is AWALT until we find a unicorn. One thing is for sure: everyone gets bored sooner or later and 'hypergamy finds its way over the walls.'
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:34 PM
4

Dude, what? Have you never been to a sex education class in high school? You think you want to raw-dog a girl you just met at a night club one hour ago?
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:07 PM
4

No one said the journey was going to be easy. It sounds like your friends are threatened and jealous - so be it. You are becoming anew and they are staying the same - keep it moving and DON'T STOP.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:29 PM
2

Again, do not shit where you eat. Just stay away and keep it professional. Do not mess with the environment that literally contributes to your livelihood (work). There are thousands of other women out there in the world - do not go for the ones you will end up seeing every day at the place that gives you money for rent and food. STAY. AWAY. Just keep it professional.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:28 PM
2

[email protected]
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:26 PM
1

Yes, I do. I have tracked his stats personally and put them into a pivot table.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:33 PM
1

Me neither honestly but on the matrix attractiveness to pull ratio he is insanely lopsided. Dude is insanely hilarious though. And after going to a D1 sports school the athletes barely have to try to get women but again you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 01:01 AM
1

Because he doesn't give a fuck. He seems like a guy that just wants to have a great time and enjoy life his way. Yeah he may be short and poor but the dude obviously loves himself nonetheless and holds frame with confidence.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:34 PM
3

Less words. Dont be like "ah man you see I dont really got that much cash on me now man I'm sorry." Less is more. "Sorry, no cash." And keep walking. All my socially awkward friends have to give these guys a fuckin sob story when they don't care and will walk away as soon as you say no. Holding frame is pretty straightforward: just do not succumb to those around you. The more you immerse yourself in a situation and get used to it the better you become at reacting to it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:09 PM
1

Nothing in a vacuum will guarantee anything: this is proven time and again on this sub as all these guys that are told they are good looking just cannot get laid or are terrible with women. Also, I would not regard anything from The Guardian as factual or even slightly scientific. David Spade is probably one of the ugliest guys out there but pulls more than JJ Watt and is married to a literal supermodel. Granted he is famous but come on the dude gets way more than some major athletes. Comedy hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:05 PM
5

I think it is generally accepted on here that you should not fuck with any woman at work ever even if she initiates it - this then gets into the whole he-said-she-said territory where everyone believes the woman. Do not shit where you eat: gym and work. Just act like it never happened and treat her professionally.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:01 PM
2

Its just texting - I would just try one more time and then leave it at that. Plenty of people would probably say "fuck her, whatever" but maybe something came up that stopped her from texting you. Obviously anything more than twice - which is still pushing it - is a no-go and you should just forget about her. Worst case scenario you just sent another text and that's it, then move on with your life.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:58 PM
10

Def sketch but do it lol
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:30 PM
2

I've been banned too! Like what the fuck! I don't even agree with half the people on here nor the shit say - but I agree with the main principles of TRP. The women-hating, incel radicals are the ones that need to be banned - not simple practitioners and followers. Its like even whispering about it gets you banned.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:20 PM
2

Abort. ABORT ABORT ABORT. Do not meet with her. You ARE DOING GREAT. Why would you do anything to regress into your old self? You have been getting better every day. She is a part of the old you. You are a new man already. Keep being great and getting better every day. I think you know what everyone was going to say - NEXTTTTT.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:13 AM
42

You have no debt and you have money saved up. Your first priority is to get a job - ANY JOB. Work gives us a structure for the week that we can plan meals, workouts, and sleep around. Your world may start to spiral out of control due to lack of structure. Every day should be put towards applying to jobs and bettering yourself (so stick to going to the gym every day). Literally any job. Whole foods, BJs, Costco, and Amazon all pay well for example and you have ample experience already due to your…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:38 PM
2

She should be fucking jailed. This is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights09/11/19 02:24 AM
2

Don't be overly attracted or needy. Just text to her plan your hangout and go from there. Do not text all the time as it shows you are available all the time - which you shouldnt be. Just ask her if she wants to hang out tomorrow or the next day and put the ball in her court to decide.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:45 PM
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Currently back in school while working to pursue graduate school. You just gotta stay focused and driven which is easier when you have clear, set-in-stone goal. Everyone runs harder when they know how far they have to run - otherwise you are running blind and cannot siphon your energy correctly. Some nights you may have to stay in and study. Some nights you may have to go to the gym instead of going out. What you have to realize most of all is that this is temporary and you will become stronger …
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:35 PM
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By doing shit you actually care about. Its like reading a book: if you do not care about it or are not interested in it then you will not finish it. You do something last minute because you know you can. And you obviously care about it or else you just would not do it. Everyone has things they want to work on but cannot get around to but you just have to take an Occham's razor to it and simplify what you truly do want. If you want to learn the guitar, go to school for welding, and become fluent …
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:52 AM
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You have to change the motor to change how fast you go - the brain is your motor and your speech/social dynamic is how fast you go. You just gotta be more present within yourself and your thoughts. For example, I am insanely negative all the time - it is ingrained in my soul from my family and overall upbringing. Whenever I watch TV or am in a social setting I seem to just have a shitty outlook on everything going on around me and would usually externalize this outlook into the people around me.…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:50 AM
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Shit testing begins as soon as the honeymoon phase is over. The honeymoon phase transcends all time and space - women do everything for the person they are with without question: they have sex all the time, cook all the time, are happy all the time, and barely fight at all (obviously in relationships where one or both people are crazy this is not likely the case). The honeymoon phase can end any given second. So just make sure you're good at test taking.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:46 AM
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You need to keep abundance - tell her no. Do something that has never been done to her before. People that do not want their lunch never want to give it to someone else. By telling her no and giving up on her you show that your time is valuable - sure you may not want to give up on her but this is a symptom of oneitis. Just next her and find someone else.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 03:43 PM
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I mean we only know you from the odd sum of words in this post - this does nothing to illustrate your body language, what you actually say, how you carry yourself, and what you actually look like. There is a guy at my university in the gym that can do fifty straight pull ups, bench 300 lbs five reps at a time, and has a ripped six pack with abs. He is SO ANNOYING and everyone hates him. He walks around giving other people tips on working out, talks to EVERYONE even when they have their headphone…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 03:40 PM
1

People will keep making fun of you only if your feelings are hurt - own that shit and no one can hold it against you. Defending yourself only makes you look more insecure and guilty.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:49 PM
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I have been more depressed having a HB9 as my girlfriend with consistent lays every week than I am now - and currently I am probably the loneliest I have ever been yet I have never been happier. You need to realize there is more to happiness: happiness is more sustainable, joy is fleeting. I feel that relationships can bring both joy and happiness like a drug brings a short high with a guaranteed low. You are responsible for your own happiness while external factors can be responsible for your j…
/r/seduction04/11/19 09:24 PM
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Literally just walk outside. How is this a question?
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:01 PM
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You can have a LTR but you must keep your frame. As someone who was a complete dog on a leash in a LTR, I lost my frame early on and paid for it dearly. Keep doing your thing but just have a LTR. The point is to keep doing what got the girl in the first place. Do not change. Do not budge. Do not shift your tide.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:50 PM
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Being angry isn't going to make your life easier at all.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:18 PM
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Probably because he's tired of gold digging thots. Can't imagine most people you meet after you get famous like you for you or really understand you. That is why famous people usually stick to other people as well I assume.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:21 PM
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I agree, but when a woman (especially one I am interested in) wants me to 'work for it' by continuously dating her and stringing me along when she gave up 'the goods' to another guy she was not even interested in dating at some random party I am not wasting my time further because obviously the respect is not there. This is definitely dependent on the woman and the situation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:11 PM
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Damn straight brother
/r/seduction29/10/19 05:06 PM
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Definitely do not hit on women at work - this can only end poorly. If something happens and you have to see her again, every day, or whenever she has a problem - this will be insanely awkward. Also the entire 'MeToo" and "He-Said-She-Said" culture is at an all-time high so you want to be careful at all times in all places - especially ones you frequent like at work. DO NOT HIT ON A GIRL THROUGH WORK EMAIL. That is SO WEIRD and even inappropriate. Also this has a hint of #NiceGuy mentality to it.…
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:48 PM
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Don't have it define you. You don't have a girlfriend because you are focusing on other things like traveling, career, hobbies, working out, etc. It is not all about women. Make it about yourself. If your time is used up in a significant manner then it makes you seem more desirable.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:46 PM
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I would use them as a means to connect with other women. Being friends with women isn't bad at all - if you keep trying to get with them and they keep saying no then this is a problem. Also, people tend to go towards the easiest route of passage when it comes to gaming and hooking up. It is so much easier to hit on your safe friend that you already know instead of going up to random women and hitting on them. It is so much easier to hit on the waitress or bartender because they HAVE to approach …
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:44 PM
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Maybe you are just not interested in the girls that are interested in you. I used to think like you and then I think back to the girls who wanted me to take them on dates, ask them out, all over me when drunk, and I did not pay it any mind because I was not interested in them.
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:39 PM
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Stay the fuuuuuuuck away from her and if you bang then at least bring your own condoms. This sounds like a ticket to crazy town and I wouldn't risk putting a baby in her.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 01:31 AM
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