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It’s like those fools who go to strip clubs and sincerely say “No. I think she really likes me!” Yeah. Sure, pal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:00 PM
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THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS! It is not something people often realize or repeat. I work in True Crime and do a ton of research with actual experts, and this is absolutely true. I’ve spoken to the parents and loved ones of these women, and the only way I can discuss it is as utterly soul crushing. Women are especially in danger after the first ultrasound or if they try to leave. While pregnancy can complicate a women’s health for several reasons, it still blows my mind (even though it shouldn’t) th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:55 PM
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Wow. I didn’t know how much I needed to hear this. Hence, the magic that is FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 07:16 AM
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I feel attacked. In the BEST way possible. This was exactly what I needed to hear today and have a “come to Jesus” talk with myself. Thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:40 PM
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I was going to reply, but this is stated absolutely perfectly. I’m the BOSS at my job and still expected to be everyone’s mom and therapist. NOPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:52 PM
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Aw thank you. I took me a while to get to that point both in relationships and career wise!! Wishing you the very best, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:02 AM
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The thing is, I’m an introvert and was very clear about needing my alone time (not that extroverts don’t need that either) but, I communicate that! He’s just emotionally stunted and I have no room for that in my life. I’m not on dude’s payroll as his therapist and I refuse to play that role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:54 AM
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Recently, “I’m a loner and not a big texter.” Cool. I’ll solve that problem by leaving you alone and blocking your ass. I spend seven days a week running a successful TV show, yet common courtesy and communication are still things I manage to find time for. If I’m not important enough to receive the same, I’m not important to you at all. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:43 PM
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Awww! Thank you. That means a ton ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:17 AM
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SAME SIS! That and work stress. I need to just cut it out. You are an inspiration; taking something shitty and turning it into something healthy for yourself. Have you downloaded any of the Quit apps? Looking into it. I’m ashamed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:31 AM
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Can confirm. Two Tylers too many. NEVER AGAIN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:12 AM
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So proud of you!! Congrats!! I need to do the same. Cold turkey?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:01 AM
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I LOVE this. I get extreme anxiety whenever I start to see a what I believe to be a HVM. All of my old insecurities from past relationships, LVM and everything women are told in a daily basis just decide to come and say “what’s” up to ruin it all. Whenever I feel the anxiety come on, I throw it right into this docuseries that I am researching and pitching. I’ll be writing for hours/days, until it’s time for our date and I actually get excited about it! It feels amazing to know that you have far …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:58 AM
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If anyone needs advice on checking backgrounds, feel free to PM me. I kind of have to do it as a big part of my profession, and have found out shit that definitely would have saved me months/years of grief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:11 PM
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As someone who has struggled with mental and physical health issues, this honestly made me cry my eyes out (with the help of PMS, of course). In my last LTR, I had a tumor in my breast and went through a few months of pure hell. What did my (now EX) LVM do at the time? Fucked someone else. Then, what does this absolute garbage human do? Blamed it on my sickness. “I was afraid you were going to die!” So, I see. You are that much of a manipulative, narcissistic child that you expect ME to comfort …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:33 PM
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God damn. That hit close to home and exactly what I needed at this very moment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:33 PM
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Well said!!! “Part of a healthy male’s mind.” Riiiiggghhhttt. Even Ted Bundy, TED BUNDY, attributed porn (and specifically violent porn) as a trigger for him and this was in a pre internet age! There is nothing “healthy” about this. It’s downright dangerous for women. Tolerating this behavior is anything but feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:42 PM
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Thank you so much for taking the time to write this very detailed and insightful reply. I will honestly take every word to heart. That is one of the many things that I love about FDS; I can clearly see everywhere I went wrong and used to beat myself up about it. “How could I not see it? How could I be so foolish?” Instead of judging me, you reminded me that there are people out there who manipulate and use people like it is their JOB. As with many of us, a series of events throughout my entire l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 10:51 PM
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I need to print this, frame it, memorize it and tattoo it on my arm if I have to. THIS. All of it. Thank you for your words, advice and experience. My last ex opened up way too quickly and love bombed the shit out of me. He was the perfect charming man around my friends and family. Then, it started. He had a sob story about EVERYTHING, minus any sort of accountability or any real desire to be better. But, he wasn’t dumb. He could spot an empathic sucker (his next victim) a mile away. “Working fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/19 08:02 PM
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I needed this more than you could know. Brilliantly written and so on point. This sub is my therapy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:40 AM
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That one really it home for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 03:48 PM
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