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Just make sure you're being truly open-minded towards him. From what I read in your comments throughout this thread, it doesn't really sound like his political views are that extreme. It's more than likely that your own political biases are influencing the way you interpret his views. It comes across as if you haven't even considered the possible legitimacy of his views, which is surprising because you seem to have a lot of respect for his character, intelligence, etc. Since he's such an admirab…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 11:44 PM
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Eat as healthy as possible. While good skincare routines and fitness routines will help mitigate the signs of aging, nothing can overcome a poor diet.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 06:30 PM
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It really depends. Whether you get stretch lines and loose skin, for example, depends heavily on your genetics. And if you get pregnant more than once, you'll be older and your skin will already be less elastic than it was before, so the physical side effects of pregnancy will only be stronger.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/19 07:29 PM
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I don't think its beneficial to the marriage regardless of who does it, and honestly, regardless of who agreed to it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/19 11:21 AM
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It's one thing to neutrally acknowledge that someone else is attractive; it's another thing to point out the sexiness of scantily-clad young women to your vulnerable wife. Although, I read some of the comments OP made after I posted this comment and it seems like OP might've read more into his comments than he intended. And if they both agreed to it, then you're totally right, it's not so much rude as a little inconsiderate. It's not a beneficial situation either way, especially since it's affec…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/19 12:58 AM
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It's not terribly respectful of him to be pointing out sexy ladies on the beach to you. In fact, it's pretty rude. It's important for you to always work on bettering yourself and improving your health and fixing self esteem issues, but it's also important for him to be respectful towards you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:12 AM
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thanks for the link!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 12:34 AM
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upvote because I'm also struggling to find modest feminine dresses! especially ones that are decent quality but not too pricey
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/19 07:52 PM
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Feminine fashion has a lot to do with the current social standards. So, given that the majority of feminine and fashionable women don't remove their arm hair, I don't think it's unfeminine not to remove your arm hair. It's not feasible for me to have 0 body hair 24/7, so I just make sure my legs, torso, and underarms are generally smooth for special events. If it's the summertime, I'll put aside more time for hair removal. If it you like having smooth arms and it's not a hassle to remove your ar…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 07:53 PM
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Yeah, my first thought was that she seemed a little disingenuous. But she seems to have some great ideas and tips!
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/19 05:23 PM
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Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov is really great!
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/19 07:38 PM
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A Roth IRA is a pretty good place to start :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 12:08 AM
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I think letting the husband make the financial investment decisions makes sense. People (rightly so) can get touchy over others telling them how to manage their earnings, and it can become a even bigger issue when the stocks inevitably dip. It often leads to a lot of marital problems. However, I agree with your overall sentiment. Too many homemakers replace reading and curiosity with reality shows and laziness. It's an easy trap to fall into.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 12:07 AM
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Even better, keep a video diary. Then you can get the physical act of talking out of your system :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 12:58 AM
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It means you should probably stop hooking up with him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 10:04 PM
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Allie Beth Stuckey! She's so inspirational to me as a Christian woman. Other than her, it's mainly fictional characters who inspire me lol. Some of my favorites in terms of RPW are: Rain from Spirit: Stallion of the Cimarron Ma, mother of Laura Ingalls Wilder Beth from Little Women Eowyn from LOTR
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 03:07 AM
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It's extremely normal for teenagers to have irregular period cycles. However, if you're unhealthy or malnourished (possible reasons for not getting your period), then seeking out a doctor and getting healthy should be your #1 priority, not trying to attract guys.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/19 07:00 PM
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I can never manage to say no, whether it's to a friend, a relative, or even someone who's making me feel uncomfortable. Somehow, I always manage to convince myself that the good, righteous thing to do is whatever the person just asked of me. I put an unwarranted burden on myself to never let anyone down. I'm working on it though :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/19 06:34 PM
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INFJ and 1w9
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 01:45 PM
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Gentleness could be one! I'm listening to the Little House on the Prairie books on tape right now so that's the first thing that comes to mind -- anyone else think Ma is the embodiment of a RPW?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 08:52 PM
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I've ghosted a couple people who were interested in me. It's really only for situations where the person is making me feel uncomfortable or unsafe. Sometimes taking that precautionary measure is necessary.
/r/RPChristians28/02/19 07:36 AM
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Aprons are so beautiful and wonderful and feminine and elegant and aghh I love them! They're so flippin' pretty I wish I could wear one as part of my everyday attire. Great post OP :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 09:26 PM
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When I feel loved, I usually feel safe. I feel safe when I trust him completely. I trust him to protect me, to help me, to love me, to guide me, and to be kind to me. I feel safe being vulnerable with him. That's when I love and feel loved the most.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/19 02:23 AM
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I don't think it makes sense for the average woman. If she's 27 and he's 40, he's likely to die many, many years before her. She'll be completely alone for the last 20 years of her life and might have to re-enter the job market at over 50 years old, which is a really difficult and stressful thing to do. My parents married when she was 30 and he was 40. They had 3 kids over 6 years. My father has told me that he would've had a fourth child, but at his age he just didn't have the enough energy any…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 03:01 PM
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From what I understand (and I'm not super familiar with the situation, so forgive me if I'm wrong), she played a big role in the start up of Amazon. She was employed there and made a significant impact in the success of Amazon. I don't think she's entitled to 65 billion or whatever half of Jeff's wealth is, but I think she's earned waaay more than 5 million.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/19 05:09 PM
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Interesting. I personally can only find masculine men in the church. Outside of the church, many men are either too "alpha" or too "beta", but inside the church, the Bible's teachings create men with a harmonious mix of both "alpha" and "beta" traits. I'm guessing one of the problems is that many Christians today don't actually follow the Bible, so that may be why the Christians around you aren't good examples of masculinity.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 07:59 PM
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Blonde and Brittany are fantastic!! Do you watch Blonde's podcast with Matt Christiansen?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 02:04 AM
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Morality and character are secondary complements for unworthy women. If a woman values your certain traits (money, etc.) over your character, that means her own character is poor. Thus, if you still pursue her, that means you also value those traits (attractiveness, etc.) over character. So in that case you would deserve each other. When men make statements about how all women only care about money or appearance, I find that the aforementioned scenario is often the case. These men are selecting …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 03:41 AM
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I think having a general agreement on politics is very important, because one's political views are typically reflections of his/her personal values and morals. And it's imperative for a strongly-bonded marriage to have similar personal values and morals. Two people who are going to be bonded for life should have similar ideas about the purpose of life and how individuals should approach life. Otherwise, it'll easily lead to resentfulness and fundamental disagreement. Personally, I'm a staunch c…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 03:09 AM
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"Creepy" is rightly completely subjective. As the extremely weaker, more vulnerable, and more preyed-upon sex, women often have to rely on a gut-feeling impression of men in order to be safe. When it comes to safety, women have to be proactive and extremely cautious. If a man is giving off even a slight "creep" vibe, it's 100% important for a woman to get away from him as quickly as possible. One misstep, one moment of misplaced trust, and a woman is completely at the mercy of a man. Women simpl…
/r/MensRights05/01/19 05:16 AM
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Holy moly no. Creepy is a man who pursues you after you've said no multiple times. If a woman thinks a man is creepy, she's not saying "I'm not attracted to you right now, come back later when I'm in a better mood!", she's saying "Get the f away from me." If you keep pursing after someone starts thinking you're creepy, that's only going to make you a helluva lot more creepy.
/r/MensRights04/01/19 03:51 PM
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She also seems to have a fairly RP relationship with her husband, from what I've seen on her YouTube channel. It's nice to see :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 02:59 AM
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I think it's mainly dependent on where you live. I live in a middle-class rural / suburban area where walking from location to location is unheard of, so naturally it doesn't exactly create opportunity for catcalling. I've only been catcalled in my neighborhood maybe once or twice in the 20 years I've lived here. However, when I began traveling to cities and walking around without my family, I got catcalled much more regularly. Its all really dependent on where you live.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 06:33 PM
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The factoid being passed around nowadays that women won't get bulky from lifting weights is also a myth. If you follow a legitimate lifting routine, you will get "bulky". That's the fact. The reason that some women who lift still claim to not be "bulky" is because A) she doesn't follow a serious lifting routine. She doesn't push herself and she doesn't lift heavy. In other words, she doesn't lift like a man; and B) she eats the same way she ate before she started lifting, so her caloric deficit …
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 12:10 AM
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r/skincareadditon Making sure to eat healthy, get plenty of sleep, and decrease stress levels always improves my skin. When I'm stressed and eat terribly, my skin reflects that. On a day to day basis, I splash my face with water and apply CeraVe moisturizer in the morning. In the evening, I wash off my makeup with a Clean & Clear cleanser and moisturize my body to fight off the winter skin damage. I have tons of scarring, so I'll apply either Vitamic C or some other The Ordinary product. I also …
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 09:38 PM
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Firstly, most public schools will not ruin your kid unless you neglect to properly parent your child at home. Teach your kid to think critically, teach him about both sides of the coin, and he won't be "indoctrinated". Unless your public school is abnormally leftist, your kid will be fine. It's always been and always should be the parents' duty to teach their children strong morals and values. It's also the parents' responsibility to be closely involved with their child's schooling; parents shou…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/18 04:30 PM
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Communication, maintenance of morality, good mothering (if children are present), social cohesion, productivity, amoung other things..
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 07:22 PM
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I'm sorry, I've always had an unfortunately convoluted writing style. I still can't say that I completely agree with you, but this does clear it up a lot and I really appreciate you doing so. I'm still strongly in the "finding" stage, so I think my perspective on the "keeping" stage is warped by that. Thinking about these 3 things purely in the "keeping" stage does really clear a lot up for me, because it means that the woman has already passed all of the husband's significant tests. I still thi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 05:18 AM
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I don't really understand this perspective either...I'm not trying to be offensive at all; I would honestly like to learn, but based on my experience with men, they aren't so simple that they're completely fulfilled by just these 3 things. I do agree that men's fulfillment emphasizes material / physical things more than women's fulfillment does and certain things are perhaps less complicated for them, but I just don't think I've ever met a good man who would be fulfilled by just compliments, sex…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 04:03 AM
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What's the annual total?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 12:07 AM
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You can google for the full science, but basically when your hair is wet it's more stretchy. So when you brush your hair while it's wet, it stretches out more and it doesn't fully snap back to it's original length after it dries. So the strand of hair is thinner than it was previously, making it easier to break.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 09:01 PM
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Don't brush your hair at all when you shower, even with a Wet brush. When your hair is wet and bleached especially, it's extremely susceptible to breakage. If you wash your hair at night, let your hair dry before you go to bed and brush it. Try to minimize heat even more. Braid your hair before bed to get curls instead of using a curling iron in the morning. Use a silk pillowcase to minimize the breakage that occurs while you're sleeping. Minimize wearing your hair in up-dos. Take care of your s…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 07:43 PM
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Oh my god I love the Jane Austen movies & books. Have you seen Emma? It's soo cute. And Edith Wharton and Henry James novels are wonderful too if you like Jane Austen; I'm in the middle of reading through Wharton's novels and I love them so much that I just have to recommend them to everyone lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 06:10 PM
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me too! I love that that movie showed different perspectives on marriage, whereas most movies would've just shown Kirsten Dunst's story and called it a day
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 06:06 PM
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I don't think you're overreacting at all. Although, I do think that you shouldn't do extravagant things for your partner under the guise of a gift while having the expectation that he'll owe you the same. Gifts are gifts because they were given without charge. Just something to keep in mind for future relationships. Also, happy birthday!!!!!!!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 05:57 PM
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Oops, my bad if I misunderstood you! I was mainly just trying to say that most people prioritize marriage before children (believing that marriage is the foundation for a strong family and all) and that being family-minded isn't equivalent to being marriage-minded.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/18 11:55 PM
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I love Planet Earth I and II!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 06:26 PM
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Divorce was only meant for harmful extenuating circumstances, such as abuse. That's why it's such a hassle to get a divorce; it's meant to discourage couples from separating over insignificant issues. Because of the vows that they took on their wedding day, a married couple should (almost) never have to experience that hassle of a divorce. When a couple gets married, they vow to commit themselves to each other for the rest of their lives. When you make those vows, you know the risks that you're …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 06:12 PM
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With my ex-boyfriend, it meant that he wasn't masculine enough to keep friendships with other males. It turned out that he was massively beta and only females had the patience to put up with him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 03:35 PM
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He's probably from an area where walking or using public transit are feasible means of transportation. If he were from a rural town like mine, then yeah, not being able to drive would be a little unusual, but he's probably from an area where the cultural expectations are different. I wouldn't worry about it :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 03:26 AM
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Sounds like he'll be able to drive by the end of next month. Not really an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 03:00 AM
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I feel the same exact way! Honestly, I think this is much more common amongst women than pop culture might lead you to believe. Pop culture likes to teach women that they should feel the same way towards sex that the stereotypical man might -- always lusting, desiring, engaging in sex purely for physical pleasure. But, women aren't the stereotypical man, and women don't have the same relationship with sex that men have. You don't need to be panting at the sight of a man to have a healthy, wonder…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 01:00 AM
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Yep, it's mainly in the genes. A good diet, skincare, and exercise can certainly help, but they can't change your genes.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 04:44 PM
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My parents met in a kind of similar situation -- My dad was 38 years old and my mother was 28 years old, and the main thing that brought them together was their shared belief in God. However, my dad didn't go to church. He had had a negative experience with a church when he was a teenager, so from that time until he met my mom, he didn't regularly attend church. It was my mother who brought him back to the church. She didn't force or nag him into going back to church; he went back after he met h…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 03:25 PM
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That's such a good way to look at it! Saving your comment for future inspiration lol
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/18 01:05 PM
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It really depends on how much muscle you have. A girl who lifts weights for hours per day is going to weigh a lot more than a girl who just does cardio once a week, but she'll probably look much more fit.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 03:53 PM
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Rachel Talbott. She has both a blog and a YouTube channel. She makes tons of videos and posts about both indoor and outdoor housekeeping and running a household. I find her so inspirational!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 05:40 PM
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A temporary solution is to apply a hair-colored eyeshadow to the area of your scalp where you're losing hair. As long as you still have a few baby hairs in that area and don't go overboard with the eyeshadow, it should do a pretty good job of hiding your bald spot. As for actually preventing the hair loss, I would recommend talking to your doctor and taking a blood test to make sure you're getting all the vitamins and minerals you need. Also, going to bed with wet hair or wearing your hair in ti…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/18 01:20 PM
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Bill Burr is my favourite! Any of his specials or appearances on Conan are hilarious; my ex and I used to love watching Bill Burr specials together. Also, I believe all of Bill's specials are available on Netflix.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 01:34 PM
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My mother was an electrical engineer, but after she had my little brother, she decided to quit her job and be a full time SATM. When my little brother was around 7 or so, my mom decided to learn commercial real estate appraising and got a part time job working from home. She's making bank! If she worked full time, she'd be making more than my dad who's an electrical engineer at a top company. Another awesome thing about her job is that she can choose when and how much to work; she can decline ap…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/18 03:34 PM
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There is no one set mould of "wife material", because different men have different personalities, goals, passions, etc. Your witty banter may not be good for everyone, but why would you want to try to attract everyone when you should instead be trying to attract people whose interests and personalities work well with yours? Beautifully said!
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 11:49 PM
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love Bill Burr
/r/MensRights18/01/18 02:19 PM
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