madog20x Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	[FR] Just joined a lair, approach initiation.	Field Report	madog20x	/r/seduction	18/02/13 12:06 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Wow! Eye Contact plus a smirk does work! Especially over the Net.	/r/seduction	04/04/14 07:33 PM
1	So far, my psychiatrist has basically repeated to me what Models has taught me. Vulnerability is not insecurity. In fact, you have to be secure in yourself to be vulnerable. I would even argue a vulnerable action is the opposite of an insecure action. For example, I wanted to try standup comedy for years. I never did it because I was too insecure too get in front of a crowd and try to make them laugh. Not long ago I "Cowboyed the fuck up" and did it. I took a class and performed about 10 shows. Everytime I went up, my sets had different results based on the audience, despit…	/r/seduction	04/03/14 10:02 PM
1	Any way to salvage the impression of 'neediness'? Its difficult to say if its too late or not because every girl is different and their tolerance for neediness is different. Remember, show that you want her but dont need her. If you may have crossed that line but dont know, be direct and honest with her in a text. DONT PROFESS UNDYING LOVE FOR HER, but state that you're into her. If she doesnt respond or says shes not interested, youve been rejected, move on. At least you know.	/r/seduction	18/05/13 04:12 AM
0	Does not paying for the date fuck things up somehow? I always pay the first date, but if she doesn't at least offer to pay her half, I wont call her again because she's a money grubbing prostitute. ABUNDANCE MENTALITY.	/r/seduction	02/05/13 08:50 PM
1	Looking for a PUA peer group in the New Orleans area. Theres one on Meetup.com. It looks legit.	/r/seduction	02/05/13 03:16 AM
1	Looking for a PUA peer group in the New Orleans area. Have you looked at the local lairs?	/r/seduction	02/05/13 02:53 AM
1	Considering giving this whole thing up, despite tireless effort. Please help me reconsider, because I want success. Atlantapua.com First thing that came up when I googled atlanta pua lair.	/r/seduction	01/05/13 01:39 AM
1	Considering giving this whole thing up, despite tireless effort. Please help me reconsider, because I want success. If you live near a big city, you should join a lair. Your doing something wrong, and its impossible for Seddit to know what. Go sarging with other members and get them to critique your approaches honestly. If youre not near a lair, find the closest city to you, look up the lair, find the moderator, and send an email explaining your situation. Request some sarging time over a 3 day weekend and make a road trip. No one in a lair will ever tell you you're too ugly and should quit, but they will be …	/r/seduction	30/04/13 09:43 PM
-1	Above The Game Part 3: Body Language & How to Approach I stick to light beers. It's really hard to get smashed on bud light.	/r/seduction	30/04/13 09:23 PM
4	How do you not take rejection personally? Until you f-close a girl, theres nothing substantial between you two, EVER. Even if you kiss a girl, that means theres substantial attraction, but things could still end abruptly. She wont feel committed to you until you've slept together. Once you internalize this, rejection wont seem so bad because your expectations will be lower until you've slept together. I only feel the blues when a girl flakes on me AFTER we've slept together, because then I know it was because of me.	/r/seduction	30/04/13 08:06 PM
1	Making friends Or hookers. Most of my friends like hookers and appreciate that I know a lot of hookers.	/r/seduction	21/04/13 08:37 AM
1	I find it easy to flirt and pick up girls who I'm not massively interested in, but turn into a nervous weirdo around girls I really like. Same problem here. I think it just takes practice to desensitize(spelling?) yourself talking to beautiful women. Chat, flirt, and have have fun with them and I think eventually you start acting consistantly regardless of looks. Im just speculating though.	/r/seduction	17/04/13 06:21 AM
0	How to show your true personality to people? Don't forget the zeta down here... thats the letter z right?	/r/seduction	15/04/13 07:07 PM
1	Rejection. Baby steps buddy. Its a stair step process. Start with something so simple it seems pointless, like asking 10 girls the time. Then ask 10 girls for directions. Then ask 10 girls their opinion on something. Every time you go out, set a goal that only mildly goes outside your comfort zone. Eventually your goals will be things like initiate light kino 10 times or use a direct approach 10. Your not testing these things out, these methods have been tested 1000s of times by aspiring puas. Your making …	/r/seduction	14/04/13 10:55 PM
6	The Freeze-Up: "It's the little things that matter." You can always reopen a girl later in the night. RSD Julien says if you consider the average night out is 4 hours (10pm-2am), the first two hours should just be spent socializing and talking to different groups and women, like OP is doing. Then you move into deeper rapport and seduction the last two hours by reopening the girls you met and liked. A girl may not be receptive to reopening, accept the rejection and move on to the next girl.	/r/seduction	14/04/13 01:21 AM
2	Best place in the country to practice seduction? The best place to practice will be based on demographics. Are you a cowboy? If so, you might like Dallas, wheras NYC will just see a high class redneck. You a high paid lawyer? NYC might be great, but Dallas will just see and East Coast yuppie. Im a white guy into hard rock, snowboarding, and gym time. Growing up in dc was difficult because it didnt fit my personality. My ability with women and life in general became better when I moved to Colorado.	/r/seduction	11/03/13 10:51 PM
2	Put down the phone and meet women in real life I replied to a post stating texts should be used for logistics only. Trying to flirt or game wont help you, but may hurt your cause. I got slammed for this but in my experience, my lowest flake rates came when I stuck to logistics.	/r/seduction	07/03/13 07:21 AM
1	“You are afraid to die, and you’re afraid to live. What a way to exist.” With a Private Pyle tacked on the end.	/r/seduction	01/03/13 05:21 PM
1	“You are afraid to die, and you’re afraid to live. What a way to exist.” Is is wierd if I think of R. Lee Ermy saying this?	/r/seduction	01/03/13 05:20 PM
1	When do you chase and when do you let it happen? Look, if your new to Game and approaching beautiful women and PUA in general, I highly suggest you dont flirt and stick to logistics only because it wont improve your chances, but it might convey neediness. Once you have multiple girlfriends and your game is solid, do whatevet you want, thats why pickup is an art.	/r/seduction	28/02/13 01:45 AM
10	When do you chase and when do you let it happen? When you text a girl you recently met, it should be extremely simple and to the point. "Hi girlijustmet. This is madog20x. I enjoyed meeting you last friday. Id like to get to know you better. Lets have ice cream tuesday evening 730 at Icecream Shop on Main St." NEVER flirt. NEVER text more than once without a response. NEVER say anything that could possibly be conveyed as NEEDY in any context of the word. Be prepared to wait hours for the response. Logistics only! Do these and youll get about a…	/r/seduction	27/02/13 04:58 AM
6	Help me stop caving into starting a relationship with girls I don't care about because I don't want to hurt them. COMMUNICATION!! You're not in an exclusive relationship until YOU, as a man, tell her you would like to be exclusive. Its what girls refer to as The Talk. Until then, you're just two people with a sexual relationship. Some girls, especially younger girls(and guys like OP, and me up until recently) aren't sure if sex the first time means you're exclusive even if you're not technically together. Can you sleep with other girls after sleeping with this girl without being an asshole? Absolutely! Be H…	/r/seduction	26/02/13 08:03 PM
23	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. Everyone says confidence, confidence, confidence. However, in the book Models, Manson points out that you can convey a certain level of nervousness when approaching. This conveys vulnerability which is VERY attractive. The number one killer of Game isnt a lack of confidence, its NEEDINESS. If you approach a woman nervous, and you need her to show you its ok to not be nervous, you are needy. When I approached, took control of the convo, conveyed sexual intent honestly through flirtation and kino,…	/r/seduction	26/02/13 06:41 PM
1	How to get the quiet girl? "Hey, I know your a bit more shy than the other girls, but I want you to know I think your really cute and Id like to get to know you better. Lets go get ice cream some time and get to know each other." She might say yes, she might say no. If no, dont take it to heart, and tell her no hard feelings. You will still have the gratitude of knowing you put yourself out there.	/r/seduction	21/02/13 09:15 PM
1	What can a lady do to be good in bed? Forgot to point out, women are sensual, like being banged with eyes closed and 'feel' whats going on. Men are VISUAL. We like to SEE everything. Thats why most guys hate missionary or girls who are lazy and do very little I bed.	/r/seduction	20/02/13 11:57 PM
2	What can a lady do to be good in bed? 5 minute bj. Reverse cowgirl. Money shot on boobs, not face. Guys think face cause its in EVERY porn, but boobs is hot and less slutty. Watch porn, appeals directly to men's fantasies.	/r/seduction	20/02/13 11:49 PM
1	Tips for asking someone out when they're working "Hi. I know this is very direct, but I think you're very cute and and wanna get to know you better." Pull out your cell phone. "I've gotta go meet up with a friend, but id really like it if you gave me a way to contact you:-)". She will eithet say yes or she will say no. Either way, you have lost nothing. DGAF.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 08:28 PM
2	[FR] Just joined a lair, approach initiation. Local club of aspiring puas that practice together.	/r/seduction	19/02/13 07:22 AM
3	Passing Shit Tests and DHV Opening a window isnt DHV. Getting the room to laugh because no one realized the window could be opened would be DHV. Similarly, telling a girl "$2.60 for the beer" is better than "Here you go!" , but still not DHV. Your still acknowledging and responding to her looks, but in an abrassive way. "Depends, whatll you do for me?" with a smile is friendly, starts a conversation, and is DHV.	/r/seduction	17/02/13 06:36 PM
1	What is a good first date location / activity and what advantages does it have over other places? Take her for ice cream. Girls love desert, and it usually sets a different mood than coffee or dinner.	/r/seduction	12/02/13 04:07 AM