magic_emoji Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
65	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there?	DATING ADVICE	magic_emoji	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 07:16 PM
10	How much do looks really matter when trying to attract high quality man?		magic_emoji	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/22 12:26 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Different interests - RPW approach Well, it’s all about compromise. To give you an example, me and my BF are travelling to exotic destination during Christmas. I love all inclusive, fancy resorts and he prefers local experience in cozy airbnb. We both want to make each other happy so 7 days we stay in fancy resort and 7 days in local Airbnb. I don’t necessarily like things he wants to do - like scuba diving, but seeing him so happy I want to do that, for him. If you love someone you will compromise and do things just to see your …	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/23 12:12 AM
5	I'm ashamed of being "poor" and it's making my dating life hard I was just about to say this. Amazing comment! I am female but most of my friends are males, and just recently we discussed this topic, there are many ladies who think that their career and degrees are super attractive and it makes them more attractive in dating market but all my friends disagreed and shared that career, financial status or family status is something they don’t care about at all! On the contrary, they are tired of women who build their personality around their career or family w…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/23 12:08 AM
9	Advice on how to handle issues with husband First of all - you are very smart calculating your next steps, I admire you for that. I think you should just finish your degree, find good earning job and leave him. I promise that once you meet the “one” you won’t have to ask him this basic things you listed. Your husband sounds terrible, I am sorry. This isn’t how happy relationship should be. I really wish you to finish your studies, find job you love and meet a guy who will do everything for you	/r/RedPillWomen	08/12/23 12:01 AM
3	Ladies and gents, what are different ways that men/husbands show that they value and appreciate their wives/women? Yes, for now I do, but it’s my preference. My partner offered me to stay home but I just don’t think I would feel fulfilled since we don’t have kids yet. When we have kids I will definitely stay home but now I need a challenge and I frankly enjoy what I do.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/23 11:49 PM
7	Ladies and gents, what are different ways that men/husbands show that they value and appreciate their wives/women? Well I think we have pretty traditional relationship and some examples of how my boyfriend appreciates me : he always compliments my cooking, both in private and infront of people, his family (mum) included if I cook/prepare stuff for his boys nights he always buys me flowers or takes me to my favorite restaurant as thanks gesture if I am too stressed with working and managing our household at the same time he books a trip for us so I can relax when we go on holidays abroad he always books all i…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/23 12:37 AM
1	Struggling to know whether my expectations are realistic? Well, you don’t mention important thing - what is your finances setup like? Who pays when you go for dinner or holidays? Is it 50/50 or does he pay? I think that’s very important information. Me and my boyfriend also have full time professional roles and we live together. His only responsibility is to take the garbage out and I do the rest. If I travel and come home after week our place is really dirty! Same as your boyfriend, even bathroom isn’t clean. However, my boyfriend pays holidays, all o…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/10/23 12:40 AM
4	The Tinder Swindler Strikes Again Well but he never returned the money he got from them. Yes he got caught but apparently it still works and he doesn’t get punished.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/23 12:56 PM
3	Will plastic surgery harm my chances to find someone instead of help? Well I did the boobs 100% just because I liked them and I wanted them so I guess it’s different situation, but if you want to hear my experience, I got quite natural ones (375cc) and I can say that I am getting much more attention from men than I was getting before. I have a partner and he wasn’t too enthusiastic about me getting a boob job because he thought that all fake boobs look like those he sees in porn - very big, far away from each other and hard to touch. I picked surgeon about who I k…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/23 08:07 PM
1	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important If you would read my comment properly before throwing your angry comments here you would read that I said “I don’t know how it will be with kids”. As I don’t have kids I cannot really estimate that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 03:26 AM
1	Q4W: Do girls need to have 'game'? I am woman and I think that in this case OP is correct. Or at least it’s true when it comes to dating apps - I will try to search for the research based on actual data from dating apps. I don’t have data from my friends group but I would say most of my single friends indeed aim for top 20%. I have many male friends and I have to say they usually go for more or less the same they offer - eg friends who aren’t very fit don’t expect women to be very fit and I feel like they are going after women wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 01:28 AM
1	Purge week makes it all clear I think coming here and reading those posts can make many of us women appreciate our partners. I’ve read few posts here today and I feel like I need to tell my boyfriend how much I appreciate and admire him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 12:33 AM
1	Can get women but disgusted that my “type” is second/third choice Well I don’t know the women you are speaking about and it’s possible some of them want you just for your money. However, 10 years ago I had totally different expectations and I preferred different types of men than I do now. Funny but few weeks ago I found “my wishlist” for boyfriend when I was 16 and almost on the top of the list was six pack. Now I don’t care about six pack at all, my boyfriend doesn’t even go to gym and I find him incredibly attractive. My priorities of what I want changed so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 12:25 AM
3	Who should pay on a date? What do you think? There is no clear answer to this, everyone prefers something else. I don’t think there should be a rule on “who pays on dates”. I never had a first date where man wouldn’t offer to pay, however if I am sure I don’t want to see him again I really insist on paying. I think it’s unfair that someone pays for me when I know I will be never able to return the favor. My partner likes to pay on dates most of the time and he doesn’t let me pay very often, so I at least cook for him almost daily and I pay…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 11:57 PM
0	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important I don’t question that attraction plays a big role for men when choosing their partner, that’s absolutely true. However, looking at my surroundings - (engineers, all of them 6figures salary) every male friend I have is in relationship with someone with similar education level and salary. I really don’t think that’s a coincidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 11:49 PM
0	Why women think their Degree/Money/Career of their own is important Well believe it or not but people also need some challenge in life, accomplishments. My partner earns enough for both of us and he also communicated multiple times he would be fine with me just staying at home but I love my job and I love getting better and better in what I do. I can’t really imagine what would I do if I didn’t have a job. I don’t know how it will be with kids, maybe you are right and I will change my mind and work only partially but I will never completely leave my job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 11:46 PM
6	What made you joint this community/subscribe to this school of thought? I am woman working in tech and there are not many women and if there are, they are really toxic feminists in a sense that they judge every woman who doesn’t share their ideas about men and dating. I rather don’t go to this topic with them so I need place where I can discuss things openly - and that’s this sub! I honestly love how supportive and not judgmental women here are. It’s sad to say but I feel more understood and accepted here than I feel at my females girlfriends circle.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/23 09:47 PM
3	Did I breakup with my boyfriend for the right reasons? I will comment on the part where you are scared that you won’t meet anyone else as this is something very relatable to me. I was also in relationship where I was not sure if that’s my person and I was constantly questioning if I should break it off or not, because he was almost perfect on paper. I was also in late 20s and my family was telling me that it’s quite possible I won’t meet anyone better than him. I realized that whole relationship the waves of doubts are coming, they were never going …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/23 09:39 PM
2	How to win a guy over Reading that also you initiated first date I really think it would be too much. Trust me, if he is interested he will reach out to you.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/23 09:19 PM
0	How to win a guy over I personally think that if he wants a second date with you he will text you. I also arrange dates and initiate but later on in dating process, I think second date should be arranged by man to show his interest after first date. If he wouldn’t ask me out I would take it as he isn’t that into me. However, consider that this is holidays time, many people are super busy and exhausted from all the social events and family gatherings. I am personally taking break from drinking and I need at least a we…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/23 09:17 PM
2	Single Women, what are your standards? Height : I don’t really care, fine also with someone shorter than me Income : minimum the same as me, so 6 figures Race: Caucasian (same as me) Body type: healthy. Again I don’t really care, I just don’t find super muscular men attractive. So as long as it’s in healthy range House: preferably yes but not a dealbreaker Kids : no kids I am 28F, the parameters you listed can give you some ideas but honestly the older I am the less I care about the ones you posted and more about the personal charact…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 12:44 PM
1	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Yes! I totally get what you are talking about. It’s not just Dutch men fault that they are like this because women there kind of pushed them to it by being extremely masculine. I even have a friend who is Italian and few times Dutch women would get offended if he would try to open doors for them or so. And indeed, Dutch women don’t care about their appearance so much. I mean nothing against that, everyone should do what they feel comfortable with, it’s just not culture I resonate with. And you a…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/22 07:58 PM
1	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Thank you for this comment, great tips! I am definitely very feminine and I like to show it. I love when men take a lead and I can support that. Unfortunately where I live (Netherlands) girly girls are called “high maintenance” and “princesses” so it’s hard to be feminine and girly here without being judged.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/22 07:49 PM
1	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? I am from Czechia! So I guess that’s quite similar culture in terms what we expect from men. I am really happy that too found your partner, I really hope to find that one day too.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/22 07:46 PM
2	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Thank you for this comment. I honestly don’t care about looks so much and I find the height requirement quite stupid to be honest. I dated men who were even shorter than me and I don’t mind that at all! I more care about personality and shared values. Also when it comes to salary, I am 6figures earner and I would want someone who is 6figures earner too. I think in general I am asking for what I offer. I also want to spoil my partner, not just to be spoiled. And you are absolutely right about com…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/22 07:44 PM
2	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Thank you very much for this comment, I really feel hopeful now ♥️ Well everything you listed its true about me! Additionally I have amazing career and I am also happy to spoil my partner, so I am not just demanding without offering something back. Now I am really hopeful that I could finally meet my future partner.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/10/22 07:40 PM
3	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? I am really happy to hear that! After my Dutch experience I really don’t have high expectations. Door opening and not splitting everything 50/50 on first date is really enough for me haha. Just a funny story to add, in Netherlands there is something called “tikkie” by which you can make a payment request and send it to your contacts. Men there use it after date, they pay and then send that request with invitation for second date. I don’t know anything more repulsive than that.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 09:14 PM
2	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Thanks for advice! I would be actually open to also moving somewhere close to Chicago, I don’t necessarily need to live at city center, so if I come across men who live around Chicago in smaller cities I will definitely give them a chance	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 09:09 PM
6	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Ah so you are Slavic as well? I am actually Slavic so I also grew up in environment where men protect their women and are very caring gentlemen. I am not into any specific culture/nationality, I would be fine with anything as long as they aren’t Dutch (haha), I am very open in that. I hope you find what you search for soon!	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 09:02 PM
1	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Thank you for this comment, I really appreciate that! Your text makes total sense and I wouldn’t recognize you aren’t native speaker as I am not either. I am really happy for you that you already found your husband and he is caring and treats you well. I envy you in a good sense. Well I am not really into religious men, I studied science and I just couldn’t date someone who doesn’t believe in evolution. Maybe some less strict Christian but definitely not super strict one. And it’s funny what you…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 08:58 PM
7	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Thanks for that. Well to me gifts for major holidays is a big improvement trust me. I really don’t think I ask that much, my standards for masculine men and gentlemen are almost non existent after living in Netherlands.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 08:51 PM
9	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Yes I also realized that conservative and right leaning men are usually most likely to be traditional. I don’t mind dating men who are slightly right as long as it’s not extreme. In my case it’s the same experience, I usually get on well with men who are rightish.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 08:32 PM
6	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Thank you for this comment! It made me really hopeful. I would indeed prefer to date protective Eastern European man than “progressive” Western European man, so I am happy to read that. I know it’s a big city and it’s mix of everything, so I really hope I will find my happiness there.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 08:30 PM
4	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Yes of course! Maybe I should have been more implicit but all the expectations I mentioned I mean from serious relationship. I don’t expect any gifts or flowers early on. I only expect that from serious boyfriend, which unfortunately isn’t the case in Netherlands. Once I gave my ex Dutch partner bday gift for 200€ and I really put much thought to it, and in return he made me pay dinner on my bday and gave me book for 2€ so my expectations aren’t really that high haha	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 08:01 PM
9	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Well I would hope it’s still not as bad in US as it is in Netherlands. As an example, three of my girlfriends got engaged recently to Dutch men and none of them was given engagement ring. Dutch men just think it’s waste of money to buy a ring. I don’t expect thousands of dollars spent on ring but the gesture and getting at least some ring. In Netherlands everything is about being practical, men never give flowers, never give gifts. I am someone who also like to treat my partner. I love buying gi…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 07:51 PM
9	Dear US ladies, how hard it is to come across high value man in US? Is chivalry also almost dead there? Thank you so much for this comment, I really appreciate. I understand that we cannot generalize but you gave me pretty good idea! I honestly don’t like passive men but I can tell you that in Netherlands the level of passivity reached whole new level. Women are even expected to arrange the date, pick the place and time, everything. Men don’t put any effort. I am not searching for extremely traditional gentleman, I am fine with pulling chair for myself, but I search for basic things line opening d…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/22 07:45 PM
1	What do you think a High Value Man wants from a partner? So I think I am high value man according to what you listed and according to what women say. My list would be: 1, Attractive and fit (going to gym regularly) 2, Takes care of her appearance and health 3, Has a decent career. It doesn’t have to be 6 figures but I want someone with master degree, earning at least little above average. 4, General knowledge, interested in what’s going on in world 5, Has other hobbies than watching Netflix 6, No drama queens. I want mature woman who is open to conver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 10:38 PM
2	How much do looks really matter when trying to attract high quality man? Thank you for input! Well as I said I love fake breasts and I am would really want to get them, I was already thinking about it for few years, but I am just so scared. And you are right, the most important is how I feel about myself.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/22 09:01 AM
-2	How much do looks really matter when trying to attract high quality man? Thanks for sharing! Well I absolutely love fake breast, it’s my dream to have them. And I am happy you do too! Can I ask, did you see any change in men being interested in you? I can understand it will also bring negative attention, but I wonder if in general you saw increase in attention?	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/22 08:59 AM