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ADVICEmagicalunicornjuice/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 05:50 PM
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I met my fiancé on a Christian app called Ark back in November. I’m not a big fan of all the swiping and everything feeling so shallow. I was feeling discouraged and about to give up but then we matched. We are each other’s answered prayer. It’s all thanks to God. I like the site Christian Cafe a lot because it’s less about swiping and you can write about yourselves and have people get to know you a bit before they reach out. It’s paid but they give away free days sometimes. The only major issue…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/26 11:51 PM
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I (34f) recently ended a nearly 2 year relationship with a man for dragging his feet about marriage and expecting me to take the lead and he follow. I’m asking myself the same questions. Genuine bible believing men with leadership qualities are hard to find, let alone one who loves me in particular.
/r/RPChristians27/05/25 03:45 AM
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I wouldn’t judge so quickly. I’m missing a back molar because a filling fell out right before COVID and by the time I could have it looked at, it was infected and the whole tooth needed to come out. I’m glad it’s not really visible unless you’re looking in my mouth because I know people judge others for their teeth Things happen that are not due to poor self care. I’ve also heard of nutrient deficiency or medications making peoples teeth weak so it could have been something like that too. A thir…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/22 04:45 PM
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I don’t leave my house, so mostly the internet these days scrolling Reddit and swiping through online dating apps not finding anyone who takes their faith seriously 😂 but if I did leave my house I’d hang out in church, the park, or the library.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 08:58 PM
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It’s probably a matter of respect. When men lead and are good at it they feel respected and valued, they are more likely to be kind and loving toward wives. When they feel disrespected they feel unvalued and unloved so they either withdraw and get all demotivated or act cold/unloving. Good relationships have love and respect.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 10:24 PM
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A really good book to read for advice on how to cultivate healthy relationship dynamics that give a man like this a boost of confidence is The Surrendered Wife by Laura Doyle. It’s freeing to realize you can’t control your SO, only yourself, but when you do change your attitude other people tend to respond. Another book I think you both might like is Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, it’s basically about how men and women tend to be wired a little differently. Men tend to be really posi…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/22 09:13 PM
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I like some dresses on Amazon and Zulily for $35 or under. Oxiuly is an Amazon store I have a few cute & modest dresses from. They have pockets ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 04:04 PM
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Anyone who has ever had ideas contrary to the mainstream, or contrary to someone else’s deeply held beliefs has been accused of being brainwashed. Whether it’s true that someone is brainwashed depends on how much of the contrarian view is rooted in reality. Brainwashed people tend to have a very limited ability to use critical thinking and change their opinions based on new information, even if their beliefs are something that can be easily challenged or even disproven. The internet is great for…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 04:57 PM
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I just mean that men in the redpill subreddit and broader internet manosphere tend to be disillusioned with relationships and are ironically no longer interested in trying to find a feminine, self aware RPW needle in a thot haystack. They’re just having as much fun as they can rolling in the hay. Find someone who still has hope that the kind of woman you’re striving to be still exists and would actually want to marry him.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 04:37 PM
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It’s because men and women are different. Redpill is about “mating strategy.” Redpill male strategy seems mostly about lots of sex and how to achieve it without getting his life screwed over. The majority of women are not like this sub, they are selfish, harsh, and they take advantage. They are, for lack of a better word, ran through. They will divorce on a whim and financially destroy a man, and society encourages their behavior. Redpill men are trying not to end up like that. Redpill women rea…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 05:31 AM
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Christian, anti-fem, somewhat moderate. Abortion is basically killing. People should be allowed to have guns but with stricter rules. Free speech needs to be protected, even things people don’t like or words and ideas that are wrong. We shouldn’t be teaching little kids gender theory, before they’re even old enough to understand the difference between male and female. Support the troops and veterans. One person should make enough money that a parent can stay home and raise their kids. Workers ar…
/r/RedPillWives26/08/22 02:30 AM
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Something interesting I learned as far as PIV sex is that a lot of men are doing it “wrong” from the perspective of what actually can stimulate the clitoris during sex. It can either be due to male circumcision making that kind of deep but small scooty grindy motion that stimulates the clitoris not feel like anything to the man, or feel too intense to do for more than a few seconds. Or it can be due to men copying pr0n where they use big long exaggerated strokes and spend a majority of their tim…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 04:55 PM
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the blog To Love Honor and Vacuum might have some advice about libido she writes about that a lot. Also something that is rarely talked about is that if a male partner is circumcised, as he gets older he might to be rougher during lovemaking, and the circumcised man’s shape and technique tend to draw the lubrication away from the woman. I know lubrication decreases with menopause as well and it might make sex more uncomfortable than it used to be even without the increasingly forceful technique …
/r/RedPillWives07/07/22 12:37 AM
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I wouldn’t bet on it. If he doesn’t want to marry and you do it’s not a good match. Never a good idea to be with someone you have to hope will change its like gambling with your time energy and emotions. You could get very lucky but chances are you will lose
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 05:53 AM
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I grew up going to Catholic mass as well so I understand how gracious her gesture must have felt toward your family! In the Catholic masses I’ve attended there was a similar serious and somber tone, people tend to react negatively when children are heard more than they are seen. I’ve been going to various Protestant churches for over a decade and they seem more relaxed about children making noise. Most have religious education or children’s church during the adult service too. It makes me sad th…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/22 09:16 PM
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I agree with you. I don’t have many friends (quality not quantity) and the ones I do have would never go for this surrendered stuff. It’s hard for me to form new friendships, too. My current friends I know since elementary or high school and I work from home.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 07:50 PM
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Thank you, by the way! We both have our issues but we also both have each other. I 100% believe God put us in each other’s paths and that all the horrible things we’ve both been through only enabled us to come out on the other side to find each other. I never thought I would think such things about another person, it sounds like something people say in a book or movie. I’m a loving person and I’ve surely loved other people before, but I’ve never felt convicted quite like this that I’m right wher…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 11:23 PM
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I really liked the book, too. It made me realize things about myself and my behavior that never made sense to me before. I’m the kind of person who thinks it’s really important to be conscientious and it’s so difficult for me to actually behave that way, this book explains why pretty well. It’s all in the wiring of the brain. It’s a source of internal conflict and honestly at times self-hatred that I often fail to live up to my own values, but that book helped me to stop viewing it as a moral fa…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 11:15 PM
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My fiancé has taken such interest in ADHD and how it affects me that he’s read the book Your Brain’s Not Broken and he actually applies it to life. When I’m having an ADHD related complication like disorganization, forgetfulness, overwhelm, etc he thinks back to the book and says something like “oh, did this happen because X,Y,Z? How can we fix this? How can I help? What can we do to prevent this?” Your guy shouldn’t feel like fixing his attitude, or fixing you, he should work with you to help y…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 09:38 PM
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I had an ex-boyfriend for a little over a year who treated me similarly because of my then-undiagnosed and rather severe ADHD. My symptoms were the reason he told me he wasn’t ready to marry me, or rather why he “thought I wasn’t ready for marriage.” I left him. The man I’m with now put a ring on my finger within 6 months and I’ll be marrying him by the end of this year. He is disabled by Multiple Sclerosis but he is the kindest, most understanding relationship I’ve ever been in. And I think he’…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 09:28 PM
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Also best wishes on the procedure 💕
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 11:49 PM
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I’ve got really heavy periods. No pain just an incredible amount. It’s always been disruptive to my life. Scans looked normal. Worried it could be endo. How did you find out?
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 11:48 PM
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Thanks a lot! I’ll be praying for you
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 04:55 PM
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Hi there! I’m a RPW who has been living at home due to disability related issues from brain damage when I was born. I’m 31 and also concerned about my own fertility as I’m newly engaged and several years away from trying to have children. Some positives: birth accidents are not genetic, and you can be genetically predisposed to mental health issues, but if you make efforts to take care of your mental health and your children’s they are not necessarily doomed to develop something to the extent th…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 05:55 AM
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Thank you for your thoughtful advice. I think my problem I want to believe everyone deep down is good so I make excuses for when they treat me poorly, they didn’t really mean it. My main relationship experience has been with my parents and my mother is verbally and emotionally abusive/manipulative. But she’s my mother, mothers love you, right? That must be how love feels. It doesn’t set off automatic alarm bells when other people do it. It feels normal, so normal I might not even notice it right…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre25/06/21 01:25 AM
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I literally just read this. It makes me really sad. I’m a woman and I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mom. I’ve been reading books about relationships and how to be a good wife for years. I was socially awkward and heavily discouraged away from having a relationship and having a family young in favor of focusing on school until I got a bachelors degree that I never really wanted in the first place. I would be thrown out of my parents house if I quit and I had an immense fear of not being able …
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre24/06/21 05:31 PM
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I’m thinking about how to really improve myself as a person. I took a Big Five personality test and while it said I have a lot of positive qualities it also said I severely lack conscientiousness. This bothers me because I want to be a diligent, trustworthy, hard-working person especially if it will really benefit the people around me, but I’m often forgetful and I let people down sometimes. I have inattentive ADHD so it’s my life struggle. I don’t want to be unreliable and forgetful. I don’t wa…
/r/RedPillWives23/06/21 10:09 PM
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I don’t doubt you, but I would think this is the one place on the internet where the pros of an age gap relationship would be understood rather than the man being treated like a predator for it. I’ve had terrible relationships with men a decade older than me and great relationships with men my age or younger than me by a little bit. Age is clearly not the end all be all but I just thought it wouldn’t get crapped on so hard here especially since successful men err older
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 12:00 PM
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Because no one is “the one.” No one is ever a perfect fit. You don’t think over the course of 10, 20, 30+ years people can change? You can’t guarantee the dude you marry at 25 is gonna be the same dude when you’re 50. It would be weird if he was. Staying married is always hard whether you initially thought you were a good match or not. Either way it’s all about attitude. You are only in control of yourself and your behavior and attitude, and you can’t change the other person’s through sheer forc…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 08:01 AM
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Yes, she is prime age to be with someone in his financial prime, men in their 40s and above. Men improve with age while women decline. RPW is about strategy for finding the most suitable man for marriage, which is someone who is willing to marry, can provide, and who we can most easily submit to. What kind of 25 year old can financially support a woman and children?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 07:36 AM
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Why not? Aren’t we supposed to look up to our husbands, submit to them and respect them? It’s not natural to do that to someone we see as a peer but it is to someone several years or even decades older.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/21 07:29 AM
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Maybe for some people they don’t need to get to know the other person for a long time to know they’ll get along fine. It’s probably less common today but I’ve certainly heard of people who met and were married within 6 months and now they have grandkids. The older generations didn’t waste their time because it was improper to have sex outside of marriage and they didn’t want to wait, do you think all those people got to know if they were perfect matches for each other first? People in arranged m…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 03:55 PM
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I’m agreeing with you here, I don’t understand what all the hate is about. I thought this sub was about Redpill dating strategy which generally involves men dating younger and avoiding marriage while women err toward older, established, marriage-minded men. If he’s got his life together, the two of them have enough in common, and they both want the same kind of relationship, why is the age gap a problem? Isn’t it ideal? Doesn’t being with an older man make it easier to be feminine and submit? Sh…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 09:20 AM
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Women in their 30s and 40s have a harder time having children than women in their 20s though. If having a family is the most important thing to him, dating a woman at the tail end of her fertility is risky. Any man who can manage to find a younger woman will. I thought we were aware of “the wall” in here. There aren’t many post-wall women with less baggage than this guy or who don’t already have some other man’s kids she’ll expect him to provide for as well. I don’t know why this thread is seein…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 09:11 AM
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If guy #2 hasn’t made her his girlfriend yet there’s nothing to tell. Women date around until they get commitment from a man. #2 has expressed intentions to be committed in general but hasn’t committed to her specifically OR said he was in love with her. You’re reaching
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/21 09:53 AM
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Most people go on dates with several potential matches until they find one interested in commitment. If neither man has made her his girlfriend yet it isn’t “weird” it’s normal dating
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/21 09:49 AM
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I agree with that too, my mom didn’t have a good example herself. I feel sorry for her but I want to do better and like you said break that generational curse
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 03:58 PM
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Thank you! I think a lot more women than people realize have a situation where they didn’t have a positive female role model and I think it’s one of the many reasons we see a social breakdown in how women relate to men and other women. Women teach younger women how to relate to and empathize with people because those are things women are supposed to be better at communicating. I like this sub because it’s often about how to get along and be supportive in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 03:32 PM
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Mother’s Day makes me sad because I don’t quite have a relationship with mine. Not particularly because of anything I did, she’s just distant and not particularly helpful or understanding. I became a RPW on my quest to figure out how to be the exact opposite of what she is. My point is, Mother’s Day is awkward and uncomfortable for a lot of people and it’s great to be so positive anyhow and just look forward to being a mother ourselves
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 11:00 AM
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Very true. My identity is in Christ, maybe non-religious disabled people struggle to find identity in the usual things like work & relationships because those things are hard to get and manage when you have a disability. Some people let disability become their whole personality and they eat sleep and breathe disability social justice. It’s not balanced. People need to find hobbies and interests aside from that. I don’t fit in with them because I’m trying to just be a regular person with a normal…
/r/askRPC07/05/21 11:26 AM
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Idk about resources but I have physical and mental health disabilities and I’m finding the same issue. A lot of chronic illness/disability communities and resources don’t have the Christian perspective and DEFINITELY don’t align with RP. A lot of my disabled contacts find a sense of identity in their conditions and it’s just strange to me. I want to be better, I want to do more. I’ll never be cured but I want to be my best self and take the best care of my body and mind that I possibly can.
/r/askRPC05/05/21 04:06 AM
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Weight loss isn’t easy but you can do it! I’ve been doing a low carb high fat diet since February 25 and I’m down 20 lbs. I still have about another 20 to lose but I’m focused on my goal so I know I will get there. Just keep your eyes on the prize. What really helped me was to write down all of my goals for this year and put them somewhere I could see them often. I put a mix of bigger goals and smaller goals, so when I see the list I can see some things I’ve started, some things I’ve finished al…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 10:37 PM
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I grew up in a similar way. Also didn’t have my first date or relationship until 25. I was very sheltered. 30 now and I’m glad I’m not married yet, I could have married someone really wrong for me. Focus on being the best version of you that you know how to be and get out there on dating apps! The paid ones and faith based ones have given me the most luck so far. Men who pay for dating are more interested in finding a serious relationship and ghost you less.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/21 09:41 PM
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They’re all very upbeat! I like Feel Special, Fancy, What is Love? Dance the Night Away, Cheer up, and Signal best
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 08:02 PM
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For me I like to listen to older music like 70s funk and soul, or older pop like abba or the carpenters. I’m a Christian as well so a lot of what I listen to is in that vein
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 07:40 PM
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I like kpop too it’s really energetic. I like the group Twice because they’re so cutesy and girly.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 06:22 PM
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Update: my dad got his house appraised last week and told me the day before the appraiser was coming. We had to clean from top to bottom. I finally tackled my room which took about 13 hours not including the rest of the house. I got rid of/donated bags and bags of old things I don’t need and began organizing the things that are left a bit better. I actually have usable closet space now because it isn’t piled full of old stuff. I’m keeping a weekly schedule of tasks to do so that things can stay …
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 02:13 PM
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It’s kind of ironic because I really have the desire to work hard and work diligently, in some ways I’m very conscientious because even if I screw something up the first 5 times from being a space cadet, if it’s something I really want I’ll go for try number 6 or until I get it right. University took me 6 years to do a 4 year program. I re-took certain classes out of pocket until I got a grade I was satisfied with. It’s just that my brain doesn’t keep up with my desires to succeed and it makes m…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/21 01:52 AM
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It doesn’t help that I have a physical disability as well. People tend to have low expectations of you in general if you walk or talk funny, so my difficulties in school were always chalked up to either laziness, or things just being too physically and mentally difficult for me. They weren’t, and I wasn’t lazy. I was high IQ and bored out of my mind in school. On tests I was off the charts. I just can’t focus worth crap to finish homework or complete projects that don’t look like crap because I …
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 10:31 PM
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I’m in the US as well and my insurance covers it with a prior authorization, but getting a provider under my insurance to prescribe it is another story. I was only taking it 4 or 5 days a week and taking breaks from it when I had less to do or when I knew I would be with my dad all day and would be kept on task just by having someone there to keep me accountable. He knows me long enough that he notices when I get that faraway look and stop doing whatever I was doing and he can snap me out of it,…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 10:22 PM
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I was actually able to try adderall for a short period of time through a website called Done ADHD but they didn’t take insurance so I was having trouble affording it. It helped me a lot and I felt more focused and energetic than ever. I had no more time lapses and I got things I wanted to get done without mistakes and with loads of time to spare. When I went through my insurance the psychiatrist I ended up with doesn’t like to give stimulants to adults and doesn’t seem to take me seriously. I wa…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 09:04 PM
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That sounds like a good resource! I’ll check it out. Thanks for the tip!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 07:07 PM
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The only “diet” that’s ever worked for me is keto and intermittent fasting. Eating mostly meat and veg with the occasional fruit is the only thing that keeps me losing. If I try to eat grains regularly again the weight comes back.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 05:18 PM
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I’ve used that site before too, I love the styles.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 04:30 PM
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I would say I’m a “traditional” woman. I believe a woman’s role is to support her husband and make him look good to the world, to cook and clean, and to get married and raise children. I’m also a Christian. My first boyfriend was far more religious and in a different denomination than me. He was everything I hoped a boyfriend would be, he was polite, thoughtful, generous, kind, he was the only person in my life to ever make me feel special. But then he left me in order to consider a vow of celib…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 07:11 PM
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I actually understand what you mean. I grew up with a physical disability undiagnosed inattentive ADHD that was just recently diagnosed as an adult, so I relate to that feeling of being segregated and ostracized and realizing that people will always group you, judge you, or other you if you are seen as someone with “problems.” But you have to remember that God doesn’t group his people that way. He has a history of using the people whose lives were unbalanced and chaotic to do His will and advanc…
/r/askRPC19/02/21 08:09 PM
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I don’t think chemical imbalance = sub human. It can really make a difference I promise. I’m 30 and I’ve been a Christian for over 15 years and clinically depressed probably since puberty, but definitely for at least the last 10 years . It can be for a load of reasons, hormonal, brain structure, amount of neurotransmitters your brain releases, life circumstances, or a combination. Medication really helps me. I take a low-dose SSRI and it’s enough to level me out. When I don’t take them I feel sa…
/r/askRPC18/02/21 06:53 PM
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What I don’t get is, if she wants a serious relationship, why doesn’t she say so before she gets doinked and gets all in her feels for them? It’s not that hard. If you don’t want to get used, don’t let people use you. Don’t get with people who don’t want what you want and try to manipulate the situation after the fact. Your vagooter isn’t so special that it’ll make a man who doesn’t want to commit change his mind
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