Dealing with menopause

leftylibra · 2022-07-06T15:58:35+00:00

MHT/HRT can help, as can a low dose testosterone. r/menopause

magicalunicornjuice · 2022-07-07T00:37:35+00:00

the blog To Love Honor and Vacuum might have some advice about libido she writes about that a lot.

Also something that is rarely talked about is that if a male partner is circumcised, as he gets older he might to be rougher during lovemaking, and the circumcised man’s shape and technique tend to draw the lubrication away from the woman. I know lubrication decreases with menopause as well and it might make sex more uncomfortable than it used to be even without the increasingly forceful technique of a partner. I think any of those things might make anyone desire sex less. I read about that in the book Sex as Nature Intended It and the accompanying website, which is the title of the book with no spaces .com (just a warning it has pictures of real genitals on there so the site is very nsfw)

Not sure if that’s relevant or helpful but I thought it was a little known or talked about thing that upset me very much to learn and might help me prepare going forward so it seemed useful to share.

myfavoriteforever · 2022-07-06T15:57:10+00:00

You also might want to post this at r/sexover30 it’s definitely not red pill but you could get some good answers there too :)

tiffinyvillar · 2022-07-12T00:12:06+00:00

Thank you all so much for the great advice

brushshstrokes · 2022-07-06T16:22:07+00:00

Don't feel guilty or ashamed! This is normal. Get comfortable with yourself otherwise it won't be fun anymore

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-07-06T14:24:55+00:00

Maybe you could talk to your doctor about getting on meds to help? Or something like Estroven?

Otherwise, eating healthily and exercising always helps and has no downsides. Or, if it appeals to you, you can try reading erotica right before he usually wants sex to help get you in the mood.

Title	Dealing with menopause
Author	tiffinyvillar
Upvotes	7
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Date	July 6, 2022 1:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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