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If you went on 100 dates how many would you expect to go well? apply that percentage to your current situation.
/r/seduction10/02/26 12:27 AM
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And the gym
/r/seduction28/01/26 08:00 PM
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It’s all contextual need to have the whole conversation to make these assumptions
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:43 AM
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great advice. it’s this disconnect, lack of self awareness in one’s thoughts that causes so many problems.
/r/seduction11/07/25 07:49 PM
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Then it should be easy to find them.
/r/seduction18/05/25 04:58 AM
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Probably because modern conservatives think women belong in the kitchen. 🤔. Did you hear they let them vote now too?
/r/seduction17/05/25 10:26 PM
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I needed to hear this. was thinking of reconnecting with her lately. thinking twice now.
/r/seduction17/05/25 10:50 AM
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Amen
/r/seduction17/05/25 10:47 AM
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Honestly going out solo invites more conversations. Choose your places wisely, clubs are not great for that bars are good.
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:49 PM
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It’s still an entertaining read, I’ve always said it’s like nerds took “how to have charisma” and systematically made a manual out of it. The book points out a lot of things you may already know but have not heard vocalized before. That and it gives insight on basic social dynamics that can help when going out. Canned routines is bad stuff in the wrong hands but there’s some good fundamental knowledge in there.
/r/seduction15/04/25 10:46 AM
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Fear is the mind killer. The little death.
/r/seduction14/04/25 06:02 PM
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Point out things you notice. Ask follow up questions, share anecdotes, relate their experiences to your own. If you have no stories or experiences to to tell or share then you have some work to do before things get easier. You can’t expect to hold someone else’s attention if you’re not passionate about things in your own life. Also it’s ok to be quiet and mindful of your words, in the right situation.
/r/seduction14/04/25 05:58 PM
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If your shit is canned then yes. But that means game needs work.
/r/seduction14/04/25 04:59 PM
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Fully agree. have fun friends with lots of energy and invite people to join in the fun. when your out and about doing that, people want to hitch along
/r/seduction12/04/25 03:34 PM
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I would wager your not saying that from a place of experience. just judgement.
/r/seduction12/04/25 01:20 PM
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lots of variables here we don’t know, but 2 things we do know, she invited back to her place, big green flag. and two got naked and grabby. you messed up, it’s time to step up a lead next time. The majority of women want this, especially if you’ve been given so many green lights. good to exercise caution but not in this scenario. Caution if your like taking out someone from work or social group where you know some other social bs could hinder. this is a freebie you missed out on. chalk it up, an…
/r/seduction30/03/25 02:56 PM
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Hit the gym, take some martial arts, get some confidence.
/r/seduction17/01/25 08:33 AM
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Agree. 👍. Never tell someone in any situation who is upset to calm down. Or relax or “insert opposite emotion here”. Same team same side, always comes out more fruitful.
/r/seduction07/01/25 06:33 PM
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Leave them both for a bathroom break. When you come back, they will have discussed the situation and you’ll get a better read on the play.
/r/seduction08/12/24 10:07 AM
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It is. but why the hell do people do this.
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:36 PM
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Birds 🐦
/r/seduction27/10/24 11:01 AM
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say less, think more, and don’t express your insecurities as much. Sounds like a lack of charisma or confidence though.
/r/seduction26/10/24 10:02 AM
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If you get a girl because you have money, shes the wrong type of girl, and you’ll regret having dated her. meet people organically as others have said, and work on what makes you happy. people are highly attracted to someone who has a passion for life - like if you really enjoy your job, sport, craft, hobby etc others feel that so work on your skills, and improving yourself at what you enjoy doing.
/r/seduction14/10/24 07:04 AM
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WTF? Dude you went through her phone while she was asleep? And through all her dms? Shes dodged a bullet on you mate.
/r/seduction13/10/24 06:56 PM
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There’s no single right way. What works for some people will not work for others. you need to go try a lot and see what works for you. This takes time and effort to develop a personality that people like. to be interesting, it requires having interests. That being said Todd v is pretty good. Don’t overthink it though, like I said you have to try and fail a LOT to get better.
/r/seduction11/10/24 11:33 AM
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Less fluff. Pro tip for copywriting try not to use negatives. Keep it positive.
/r/seduction11/10/24 12:47 AM
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Dude. it comes off as really simple and lacks confidence. Put that into chatgpt and say “rephrase this but make me sound confident and concise”. Ie: “No fish pics or shirtless selfies - let’s focus on the good stuff. Busy social worker by day, adventure-seeker by night (and weekends). Looking for someone to share the fun with and make life more interesting. No drama, no smoking. Just good vibes and a partner in crime. Want in?” This is an improvement but this is still just ok. not a lot of intri…
/r/seduction11/10/24 12:39 AM
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Btw. Your mindset from this post is toxic. “How do I make them… so they can’t…” you don’t make people do stuff. you should be more focused on “how do I become more ____” charismatic, attractive, appealing etc. being attractive is not about making people do stuff, and they always have the choice to be part of your life or to leave. At the same time, indeed making friends or relationships that are worth being around does take some time and effort. You’re right that the mindset needs to change. “Gi…
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:30 AM
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Just jokes. haha. 😆
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:28 PM
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7?
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:27 PM
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Don’t ask “are we still on for tomorrow”. It comes off as low value. Assume it’s still happening. Ask something else or send a message that’s unrelated to the date, one that builds curiosity. then confirm the date casually or indirectly.
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:03 AM
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Wow. Amazing analogy
/r/seduction06/10/24 12:17 PM
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staying lean doesn’t happen by accident
/r/seduction23/09/24 03:52 PM
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What are these, numbers for aNtS!? Get about 40-50. and self evaluate why the ones who responded did. We can’t guess since we don’t know you and how you interact. But…based on this so far you haven’t built any attraction. spending 10 mins getting a number doesn’t mean shit these days. maybe like 20 years ago it did. everyone is reachable with social media so if they care to respond will be based on if they are interested in knowing more about you. think of it like getting a match on a dating app…
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:34 PM
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she’s three years out of school practicing law? dating a student might not be her aim.
/r/seduction22/09/24 08:25 PM
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stop trying to meet people via instagram. women don’t want to be “picked up” via instagram. Do things that put you in proximity to others with the same interests. Introduce yourself, and go from there. If you have no interests, then you’re probably not coming off as a very interesting person and that could be why it’s difficult to meet people.
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:41 PM
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I’ll tell em I know this great little restaurant that doesn’t take reservations. That makes it sound cool, exclusive. And when we get to the restaurant, the restaurant is closed. AS of course it alllways is… on Sundays. I’ll feign surprise and say something along the lines of “well I guess we could grab a pizza and watch a movie, at my place?”
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:31 PM
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you want to have a fwb. First they need to be a friend. then you can figure out if there will be benefits. your meeting people in the context of dating.
/r/seduction22/09/24 02:08 PM
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Perceived Social status. Not always about looks. In school, Your general social status is a result of your charisma, and perceived value, sometimes looks / athleticism. but perceived value can have many factors that are dynamic, sometimes regionally specific. same rules apply outside of school. If you pull a napoleon dynamite and knock it out of the park with a talent contest you social value jumps up huge. Bring value with your personality and good vibes/ energy. Simply smiling at people and ad…
/r/seduction01/09/24 08:05 PM
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nobody can know this. you might have said something that was off putting, got too clingy, or she met someone else (or was already seeing someone else). if she’s blocked you you gotta move on. Just analyze what was said back and forth before the block, if nothing could be off putting then it’s just her being off the reserve
/r/seduction30/08/24 12:36 PM
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https://youtu.be/Gu8YiTeU9XU?si=wKGugfbEnJ6GppSV
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:36 AM
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This is how practice works
/r/seduction19/08/24 07:35 AM
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How are anyone else’s unread messages different from yours? And if your situation is so unique why are you handing out such universal advice? 👉👈. Thiswontlastlong gave an anecdote and good point. Perhaps one should evaluate each situation individually rather than use such broad strokes.
/r/seduction12/08/24 08:23 AM
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Pass him a note
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:45 PM
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This is not ok. please seek therapy.
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:24 AM
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I’ve made this exact mistake before. she wanted a booty call, she thought she was giving “signals” all night and you shut her down. women don’t get shut down often. she knows now she could and then the mystique wears off. keep it light, fun. don’t fanboy her. They like the mystery of wondering if they could get you, or wondering what it would be like. sometimes it’s ok not to be such a gentleman about it, and be straight up. Especially when you’re “visiting town”. gotta keep that masculine energ…
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:52 PM
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on a first date, choose two locations in advance. They should be walking distance from each other. ask her to the first one. After a couple hours, it’s time to go to the second location. If shes at least a little interested then she will go. If not then you saved a couple hours and a few $.
/r/seduction02/07/24 06:37 AM
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This is a lot of planning. keep it organic my man. I had a friend back in college that would always keep his guitar placed on his dorm room bed just in case a girl came back with him. inevitably she would ask “oh do you play?” …. He knew one song. free falling. Worked every time.
/r/seduction18/06/24 03:55 PM
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This is the correct answer ✅
/r/seduction18/06/24 11:32 AM
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Noooo she was dead conversation. would a girl give you a second chance on the same circumstances? I’d prefer someone whose default setting is outgoing and easy to talk to. If they had crippling anxiety from meeting me, then that’s something which will be difficult to handle until they’ve worked on themself a bit. Ps. This is how women also think in such a situation.
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:51 PM
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ask her something that implies she does have a boyfriend and see how she responds. assume, and then she will confirm, and if she’s single then she also knows your interested in such things. Win win
/r/seduction10/06/24 11:43 AM
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So many variables here. was she very interesting and curious about you before the date? She may just interested in a free meal / drink. I had one date like yours and it turned out afterwards, she asked to go out again. i declined, and explained why (because she asked for feedback) she then explained she was really really anxious / nervous cause she had not been on a date in a long time and was just in her head the whole time. hard for us to answer but maybe if you ask for some feedback afterward…
/r/seduction09/06/24 05:29 PM
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Be attractive
/r/seduction23/03/24 07:57 PM
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bahahah gold. https://tenor.com/bzXlq.gif
/r/seduction30/01/24 07:29 PM
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I respect the hustle 🫡
/r/seduction30/01/24 01:38 PM
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What’s cool to realize as well, is that women who are 8-10’s feel the same way.
/r/seduction29/01/24 08:44 PM
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100
/r/seduction29/01/24 08:43 PM
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if she’s asking you to buy her a drink, it’s feigned. if your buying a girl a drink before you’ve made some decent connection with her, your wasting your time and money. Even if she swears “it’s her birrrrrfdayyy”
/r/seduction27/01/24 04:46 PM
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People find passion toward your hobbies appealing. What are you working towards in each area of your life? Set some goals. for example if working out is all you do, then instead of working out, say training for my first “powerlifting competition” or something whatever the goal is. you don’t need dozens of hobbies but having goals /passion towards achieving those goals is well respected from girls and guys alike. And would help explain why you focus on that one thing. if you don’t want to take pa…
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:29 PM
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Or one of those door to door energy contract bundlers... those guys can fuck right off.
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:34 AM
0

M'lady
/r/seduction28/07/20 08:57 AM
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why is it always on the guy, she clearly likes him. it's on her if she want's it to move forward.
/r/seduction25/07/20 05:35 PM
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Be interesting, and she will be interested. Don't be put off with how others make their play. Join the conversation and have fun.
/r/seduction08/07/20 08:42 PM
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the algorithm is meant to put you at the top of the list when you move into a new area, so you get these kind of results. you basically move to the top of the stack for a short while. it will eventually fade back to more normal results. So there is an artificial boost there. however - yes moving to a more progressive or dense area should have *some* improvement on your results over the long term, but not to the full extent you experienced.
/r/seduction01/07/20 08:12 AM
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Do this. But make sure it’s drinks with just you. Not with a group. If she pushes to make it a group thing then she’s not interested in you romantically.
/r/seduction07/08/19 03:50 PM
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No credit for this joke? You guys are dead inside
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:47 AM
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You gotta stand out if there are lots of guys competing. She clearly likes the attention but don’t wait around to act on this. You have a window of opportunity to show you are a sexual candidate with someone like her. Tell her you want to connect in person, and go from there.
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:50 PM
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Take a picture where you flash a roll of cash 💵 with your shirt pulled half up in the bathroom while your at it, that way they know you make fat stacks and you work out.
/r/seduction16/01/19 01:11 PM
0

A dance can’t be a kiss. Too much movement involved.
/r/seduction07/01/19 03:01 PM
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Yea man keep it up
/r/seduction28/03/18 06:37 AM
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For sure she is trying to get free training. Tell her your hourly but add 50% and be very happy and kind about it. and then sit back and wait for her to bargain down for a “special” deal. If she does this, fuck it. If she pays then fuck yea.
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:13 AM
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Dude. Go through every top post on this sub ever. Come back when you’ve read all that then go do it.
/r/seduction07/03/18 11:08 AM
1

So much this. For me I noticed, the upcoming weekend is the only window of opportunity. If you wait until the next week, they are gone.
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:34 AM
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Lookin good :)
/r/seduction27/06/17 07:50 AM
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...was there an unusual amount of jumper cables in this bar?
/r/seduction20/06/17 06:10 PM
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obligatory warning: I hope you take this concept/idea, and make it part of your sober life. Having fun is great! but don't rely on it to be that person.
/r/seduction26/12/16 04:07 PM
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My room mate is killing it. He has friends but his girls never meet them. He's got a "stable" of at least 5-10 women at any given time. They maybe meet me in the mornings on their way out the door. Haha. It's quite possible to kill it without physical evidence of social proof
/r/seduction29/06/16 10:38 AM
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Approach them
/r/seduction12/06/16 11:29 PM
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******Tells you exactly what you did if you upset her - doesn’t turn it into a test*******
/r/seduction13/01/16 12:48 PM
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Don't compliment them on things that they have no control over. ie. Their looks. Compliment on style, personality, ability, intelligence. goes a long way for women who are constantly being reminded they are attractive.
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:06 PM
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How are you meeting them?
/r/seduction16/07/15 12:06 PM
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They are getting your company. You value is that you are the party, and they are getting invited to the party. Buying things for someone is the worst precedent to set before having sex. The idea should be to set the frame you are a sexual partner, then secondarily (if you so choose) to be a provider. Not the other way around.
/r/seduction27/05/15 06:46 PM
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Being in this forum, you should be very familiar with all the content from RSD. If your not, take the time to view and understand their philosophy on rejection. Outlined here : https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MgJieS1WV30
/r/seduction25/05/15 10:06 AM
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dont be selective, open everything.
/r/seduction27/02/14 08:10 PM
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I would agree, alright to edit ... mean come on, everything in moderation. normal conversation is a must, and texts like this must be spaced appropriately, and as you said, it would be way too cumbersome to do this ALL THE TIME, like EVERY text. but if your starting, or if she is starting a conversation with you, might as well make it interesting and go from there with the normal stuff. just shows you don't take yourself too seriously.
/r/seduction06/05/13 05:17 PM
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You hate the music, and you have no company to go with, i mean i'm no rocket scientist.... A) go somewhere that you like the music, B) get new friends that have the same taste in music as you, likely at the new venue. C) Win
/r/seduction06/05/13 05:09 PM
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If you write something, and read it back to yourself and as your reading it are thinking.... jesus thats a boring text. DELETE it. start over, but write something ridiculous. WRONG Ie. Girl - "What are you up to?" You - "Chillin out, just studying. you?" YOUVE FAILED. RIGHT Ie. Girl - "What are you up to?" You - "Battling an ocelot with a toothbrush i've carved into a small spear" WIN 9/10 she probs doesnt know what an ocelot is, so you sound smart (social status +1) Your funny cause well, thats…
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:46 AM
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