hi this is my first time asking something here , so the thing is i live in a place filled with muslims some date some don’t and whenever i land on girls on instagram , i can’t make them on a date with me , approaching irl isn’t the normal here and we only have to use instagram because all dating apps are either banned or are filled with fake accounts , i wanna know how do i seduce people and make them respect me and get sexually attracted to me so they can’t reject me (even when they don’t want to date because of social norms)

p.s i stop talking to a girl as soon as i can’t get a date out of it , should i keep trying a bit more or am i fine by stopping the contact and how do i make them respect me (through instagram 😭)

edit/ i should add in i’m not looking for serious relationships i just want fun