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If you get into martial arts at all, expect conditioning to eat some of your gains. The improvements to your balance, mobility and spatial awareness are worth it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 05:42 AM
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Literally "hey, you look interesting. Can I have your number?"
/r/askTRP31/05/17 07:22 PM
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Solid, intentful eye contact followed by a skillful break will do more for you than just staring indefinitely. There comes a point when you've seen what there is to see and girls will base a lot of their instantaneous decisions on how comfortable they think they would feel if they continue along certain tracks. If a girl whose gaze you met breaks eye contact and you're still staring, she knows. If your behavior signals to her that you're not a creep or whatever the fotm word for unwanted male at…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 07:19 PM
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Meet their gaze actively (as opposed to noticing them reflexively) and then look to the side or back at what you were looking at before. You might need to work on your self-confidence in order to weaken the "AVERT" reflex.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 12:47 AM
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Let them run their mouths, who cares what they think?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 07:57 PM
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This isn't a regular shit test, your girl just sucks at communicating her actual needs with you. When was the last time you fucked?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 02:28 PM
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Whether it's true or not that women can't be trusted, you have to come to terms with your feeling about the matter. I don't really enjoy the cosmic pressure that pessimism about relationships brings into my life, so I don't prioritize friendships (platonic or otherwise) with people who I can't count on. But that might not be the best way for YOU to handle the situation. Hope this helps.
/r/becomeaman25/03/17 09:14 PM
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Do you get warnings for shit like this at work often? Your best bet honestly might just be to let it roll off your back and don't spend time with your cunty coworker anymore. As in... don't go to things you know she'll be at, don't eat around her, nothing. A verbal warning alone is harmless, but they gave it to you because they're legally obligated to keep records of things like this and future interaction with this lady is always gonna be risky. TLDR, you're overreacting unless you plan on gett…
/r/askTRP13/03/17 11:15 PM
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That depends what you mean by "truly." My suggestion: work enough that when you leave work, your goal is not to talk about work.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 10:02 PM
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Lectures are not the place you go for socialization, they're for 1 person to deliver a dense set of information to a big number of people at the same time. In a sense, the dehumanization you feel is necessary for the space to function. If you have quick questions during, I'm sure your professor would love you for asking but takes more than a minute of their time you'll be better off sticking around after class or going to their office hours. I wouldn't harbor resentment for this if I were you, j…
/r/becomeaman21/02/17 07:54 PM
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No worries bro, if being spiritual about it helps you to process it then by all means. Just make sure you don't lose sight of your real goals in the name of that spirituality. That you're doing work to better yourself is good. If your efforts are genuine then you're on the right path. I tend to be pretty hard on myself in certain situations too and you're right, it does push people away. You can keep the "I could have done better" to yourself if you want, but publicly, you will attract people mo…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 01:28 AM
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If you're truly a natural, just flirt with everyone all the time until it becomes part of how you interact with people. In martial arts there is a difference between real fighting and sparring. On the one hand you have the competitors who have a compulsive need to win and be the best, on the other you have people who are practicing techniques in a safe environment to get better. You want to think more of sparring and less of needing to dominate a conversation as self-aware cocky funny guys tend …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 07:04 AM
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what do you do if you fucked yourself in the past? The milk is already spilled. Once you clean it up, how do you keep it that way? I am my only and worst enemy, it's like I have a demon inside of me that wants me to fail.... You're contradicting yourself here. Sit quietly and figure out for yourself which it is - are you the problem or is it the demon? Bear with me here - if it's internal then you can fix it. If it's external, why worry? Pretend you and "yourself" are at war with each other and …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 06:39 AM
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To some people "IDGAF" is the ultimate freedom. Why do you want to like people more so much?
/r/askTRP19/02/17 06:34 AM
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If she didn't want to fuck on her period, she wouldn't have made it as easy to hang out on her period. You may be able to recover but the window closes. In reality, period sex is only gross until you've already been too horny to care, which is to say that if you get a chance to fuck her on her period chances are you won't regret it. Fuck her in the shower or lay down a couple dark towels and go to town. If the blood is really grossing you out just keep your eyes up and enjoy the free lube.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 10:13 PM
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She isn't 100% sure of her own feelings for you, i.e. there's something about you that she maybe consciously knows she "shouldn't" (girl logic) go for but she can't entirely suppress how she feels either. So she tests you like this to see how you react, and your own response is justification for her acting the same. Essentially, she wants to find out if you are cool with the situation you guys have or if you aren't because the internal conflict she's having is hard to navigate and if you give to…
/r/askTRP04/01/17 08:11 AM
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Personally, I feel like you are overthinking this. You know how there are people out there who make things awkward by always saying things are awkward? You are playing their game. She's done two things by asking you about your viewing habits. A) She has relieved the cognitive stress created by her own realization that she's constantly checking on you because girls are often time uncomfortable with their own attraction and B) she is trying to see if it bothers you that she in turn is aware of the…
/r/askTRP04/01/17 03:59 AM
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OP is already married. You're either giving pointless advice or intellectually circlejerking.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 03:57 PM
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Quick question. Who gives a fuck?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 04:32 PM
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The Internet has been around for like 50 years tops if you go all the way back to arpanet. People have been interacting in person for thousands of years longer than that.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:22 AM
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Idk about growing your ego, if anything to accept that you won't fit all of the standards and expectations the world has for you is pretty liberating. If you do something shitty, it won't be worth the time to worry about it as much as it will to just take notes and move on.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 09:42 PM
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Watch Ali Wong's netflix special. I think you'll get a kick out of it.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:21 AM
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Get out of the house as much as possible. Maximize time spent as follows: work > sleep > gym > home. Categorize errands and misc. shit to-do items as work so long as they're things you can do alone with headphones in, e.g. job applications, selling shit on amazon, answering emails, paying bills, etc. Time spent on girls can count for time spent at the gym as long as you're actually working out, otherwise they should be among your lowest priorities. If you're always out doing something or always …
/r/askTRP22/06/16 12:41 AM
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They can't possibly address the gender difference elephant in the room without mortally wounding the cornerstone of their argument, which is that TRP is categorically evil and wrong.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:13 PM
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You're polarizing them instantly - this guy has the nerve to just give me his number, should I text him or not, [decision made] and the only way you could possibly be hearing back is if she already has said yes in her mind to you. To girls, this is chill. Being told by a guy to call him? Not as chill. Phone calls are higher pressure and the plausible deniability is a lot weaker. It sounds like you're playing the numbers game right, just keep doing whichever works better.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 04:34 AM
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Caveat: do the dishes and then don't come back
/r/askTRP06/05/16 05:29 AM
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You either didn't read or didn't understand my comment. "CLASSICAL" is the operative word. There are more types of liberal than the simplified left/right axis most people consider, way back in the times of the Greeks and the Romans "liberal" did not mean the same thing it's used for now.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 09:59 PM
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You're over-complicating it. The classically liberal ideal of equality refers to equality of opportunity. Nuance is lost when people don't think about their principles and this allows people to start referring to equality of outcome, which is where the authoritarian left starts to dig in its claws.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 08:17 PM
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Don't let things simmer long enough that you have time to get into the pattern of blowing up on her. If you have a problem with something and you're not able to express it to your bitch the same day you're taking too long. You're being fake by not telling her she fucked up, and some days she will realize and she'll be glad she had a nigga like you to tell her she fucked up. You have to be the captain, and you can't be the captain today if your ship sank last week. This is assuming you care enoug…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 04:55 AM
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Keto is incredibly effective once you're on it, but also tricky to unfuck if you start to slide on the diet. Source: am currently trying to unfuck a 4-day cheat weekend
/r/askTRP02/05/16 04:44 AM
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Why do you even want female attention if by your own admission, it doesn't affect you that much when they do show interest?
/r/askTRP26/04/16 02:15 AM
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Then you should understand more than anyone the role of failure in personal growth
/r/askTRP21/03/16 06:09 AM
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Well... you can't win at everything the first time. Do you lift?
/r/askTRP21/03/16 01:16 AM
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You don't need to adopt another's thought process. You need to learn how to think in spite of your own natural thought process.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 11:45 PM
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Feminism doesn't believe in narratives. It wholly depends on them.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 09:30 PM
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That's probably shopped too. I'd bang her anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 06:23 PM
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He's been there 10 years. You've been there 6 months. Who do you think has more to lose. As a man, you have no obligation to let this kind of bull shit into your life. You can read that in a couple different ways, but your hamster wants to take off and you are savoring the idea of the shit storm that could result. More practically: This doesn't sound like the kind of person who you can talk down. So basically, the way I see it, your options are either A) quit and find a new way to hustle B) brin…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:45 AM
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This guy is fucking with your work. Your life blood. Do you think it's alpha not to make good use of a resource like HR for what it's meant to be used for?
/r/askTRP11/03/16 05:37 AM
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Cardio doesn't do shit. Running builds physical and mental endurance.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 05:36 AM
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Football is about to become the gayest shit ever... men and women both on the field and the men checking to make sure it's another man before they do the "good job" ass smack
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:18 AM
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You're confusing a side effect with a cause. Don't take this advice OP. If you pretend to be busy and delay communication to make yourself seem interesting/unavailable/mysterious/whatever silly bullshit you're told to justify it as, you're basically gonna force yourself into a situation where you will have to lie to yourself when communicating with your person of interest. Any guy with even an ounce of self respect is not going to appreciate you holding back like that. It's one thing to actually…
/r/seduction09/12/15 08:48 PM
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Maybe if you contributed something of value you'd be closer to the top.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:05 PM
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If you think looking Indian is going to be a problem, you're probably not going to get laid anyway. Why are you asking for regions to avoid? Picking up is not usually a migratory activity
/r/askTRP22/11/15 01:36 AM
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I disagree that manipulating people's perceptions of you is creepy. That statement is basically putz-shaming, the equivalent of when a girl says "just be yourself." Works if you're already a 10/10 guy but the further you are from the top, the more damage you're doing to yourself by taking that advice.
/r/seduction12/11/15 03:09 PM
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People will say that kind of stuff as soon as they see you reaching any significant results. Don't look back as you pass them by.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:33 AM
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Friend her the fuck up at least. If you can prove to her that you are open and cool with admitting your attraction to her, rolling with something I would hardly even call rejection and not turn into a hot mess around her afterward, becoming friends inside and outside the gym could a huge opportunity to build up a ton of social proof.
/r/seduction31/10/15 12:14 AM
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"Working out is for people with self-esteem issues" Yeah, dumbass, that's why we're fucking doing it.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 02:43 AM
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This is an acid-trip-level peak. Excellent insight.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:01 AM
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I'm in university and they are in my classes. I really feel bad about shitting where I eat, especially since it's still the beginning of the semester. Don't worry, this doesn't qualify as shitting where you eat unless you also pay your bills with a job at school. College is an excellent venue for meeting women. Regular group turnover, lots of after-hours opportunities to socialize and if you're not a retard and can handle rejection you have almost nothing to lose in that environment.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:02 AM
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Keep acting aloof. Fix your mindset too. I get the feeling you think about af/bb in terms of which guy fills what position.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:42 AM
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They're not logically equivalent. You are doubting his analysis.
/r/MensRights22/09/15 01:46 AM
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She got more than half his shit and he got half the debt. Anyone who claims they're gender egalitarian and isn't outraged by this kind of shit is lying to you.
/r/MensRights22/09/15 01:40 AM
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There is no perspective in here that only TRP can give. Just don't offer to buy a girl a drink at starbucks and as long as you're talking to them, you're good.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 10:35 PM
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I would assume that's why people wrote things like the bill of rights.
/r/MensRights03/09/15 12:10 AM
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You're at the gym, that's one of the places where EVERYONE has something to talk about. What workout they're doing, what kind of goals they're after, are they interested in ever competing, what got them into the gym... There's a lot of potential for some seriously deep, high-value conversation there. The mindset of "I have to think of something to say" is fundamentally broken. You already have 4 things in common with her, by my count. You could call back to the cat lady thing, talk about your wo…
/r/seduction04/08/15 10:08 PM
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Hypothesis time: Some people try to make the environment fit them, some people make themselves fit the environment. I originally wrote this as women/men, but I realized there are a lot of men out there who bitch and whine about things never going their way and there are women who can adapt to things. It's not unheard of. Retrospectively, the people I respect are the doers, not the talkers, but everyone is capable of both. Just a matter of which impulse you're quicker to act on. You can fit a lot…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 06:41 PM
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For some reason I have him tagged as "posts about indian girls" so it's possible.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 03:00 PM
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scientific purposes i.e., wants to lurk but doesn't want anyone to read his comment section and associate him with /r/seduction
/r/seduction30/04/15 01:32 AM
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If a guy loved a cat as much as some guys love smoking hookah, there's zero reason why that line wouldn't work.
/r/seduction30/04/15 01:27 AM
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That is unfair logic That kind of logic isn't supposed to be fair. By design or by chance, the reality of the situation is that one man can fulfill the biological/ reproductive role of hundreds of men. Don't count on society, the world, god, or anything that isn't YOU to vouch for you. Conversely, there are people out in the world who have MUCH to gain from successful exploitation of your gainful efforts. For you to enjoy your life as you please is a loss to some. There's a perspective you can t…
/r/MensRights30/03/15 06:52 PM
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This is some Black Philip-level breakdown of the situation and applies very nicely to everything from hookup LMR to LTR gaslighting. she's going to fuck with you This is sidebar, page 1 axiom-status knowledge. Takes way too long for a lot of guys to pick up on this and I almost feel like it's the fundamental reason why lots of dudes (myself included) find/have found themselves bouncing around uncontrollably with women for a while. You need to become internally solid enough to recognize avoid pla…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:22 PM
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Assuming your story is a complete account: When she was talking about herself she spoke about her looks and when she was talking about you, she talked about everything. Relatively speaking. It's interesting how different scopes are when discussing ideal partners. Part of me wishes you had asked her why a guy like that would ever consider dating a girl like her.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 06:11 PM
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The problem a lot of the guys with that mentality have is that they don't realize that the suffering of people they used to care so much about isn't going to do a thing to make their own lives better. You can try to make fun of it and relatively speaking it might make them feel better, but feelings predicated on someone else not doing well are hollow objectives to pursue in life.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:01 AM
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What's with all the people asking for statistical evidence and success rates in the comments? If OP likes a response and he gets a chance to use it and it doesn't work, let him try a new one.
/r/seduction26/02/15 04:37 PM
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I can indeed imagine the outrage. Someone should do it.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 05:20 PM
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something about men being three fifths equal to women
/r/MensRights10/02/15 09:21 AM
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Critical point here: Women and men aren't competing in colleges. The competitive space for women overlaps very little with the competitive space for men. It's just that the one for women is growing much faster as a portion of the whole. My inner tinfoil hat tells me there's a good reason for this, and it might rhyme with the popular response about the wage gap myth that if women were really paid less, they would be cheaper to hire.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 09:19 AM
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0% familiar with the Sex Discrimination Act here- iirc, Title IX federal funding in American schools centers around a certain kind of equal protection under the law. You can probably guess what kind.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 09:14 AM
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I'm in school right now, women only from 3 to 5 here would mean I don't get to work out. In that situation, local news can get bent.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 09:11 AM
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This has title 9 equal protection lawsuit written all over it. If you're school's spending millions of dollars on a gym, I'd bet my right testicle that you guys get federal funding.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 09:09 AM
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I have made the same "mistake" recently; it's interesting seeing things from that perspective as my girlfriend's mind is a black box that I am not practically interested in figuring out. It's not easy for me to actively spot these situations and think about the implications. In my case, she asked what I would do if she went to a party and cheated on me - I told her that when I found out, I would bring her things to her place and dump her quickly, in person, and leave and never look back. I expla…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 09:43 PM
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Why can't people conceive of men being victims and women bullies? It's really fucking hard to think of a world in which people regularly defy expectations. If you can't reliably make judgments about people with little information about them, it becomes much more laborious to navigate the world. It sucks that despite ideas of men as being physically strong and mentally tough, they can still be victims of something. It sucks that despite ideas of women as kind, gentle people, they can still do shi…
/r/MensRights04/02/15 08:52 PM
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When I realized why feminism fights protected male spaces. Any group that tells you that you can't meet freely and speak freely fears that they have something to lose from you doing so. My question was, what do they have to fear from men meeting and speaking free of feminist interjections and shaming? That's what it took.
/r/MensRights04/02/15 08:43 PM
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This is such fucking bullshit. "Share if you think it's time to stop criminalizing survivors" as if men don't experience that shit too.
/r/MensRights01/02/15 12:47 AM
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I'm seeing a girl from the bay area right now and she throws punches at me all the time now that I've started martial arts. It's an IOI by means of giving them among other things, a reason to touch you and an effort to get some kind of reaction. If it bothers you and you want it to stop, close yourself off to whoever's doing it - stop talking to them, or move to leave the room, and make a display of showing that you're not having it. Act offended, scoff, and get up like you're about to walk away…
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:09 AM
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Enroll in it, tell them you identify as a woman
/r/MensRights12/11/14 09:04 PM
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People like to forget the entire military code of honor that chivalry was based on... special treatment of women was almost a side-note.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 06:45 PM
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It was just me attending to her the whole time. Funny how the emotional is manifest in the physical.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 09:53 PM
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Hypergamy implies most of these guys wouldn't be getting much tail anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 01:20 AM
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Not sure how the men's rights movement became such a negatively perceived It's in some people's best interests not to give men equal rights. Somebody has to benefit from it, otherwise there would be no opposition.
/r/MensRights11/06/14 06:07 AM
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For such a big fan of critical thinking the author sure doesn't do it very much. You know how I make women feel safe around me? No sudden movements.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:51 AM
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For those who are unaware: Rodger actually was getting help (for lack of better terms) and had been checked up on multiple times. Problem is, nothing anyone did made a difference in the ultimate outcome. I can't speak for what therapy and other action might have done for his mental state but I'd say probably not much.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 06:49 AM
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I don't mind the name. It along with a lot of the other things that draw a bunch of concern trolling help filter out people who can't or won't think critically.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:51 PM
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People hate the name. Change some of the words and keep the ideas though and things sure do start sounding good.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 12:03 AM
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It's an necessary generalization for anything having to do with or thought of as male or associated with men.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 01:44 AM
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It demonizes masculinity pretty bluntly. Third paragraph: sets up a common root for male drives to protect and "ravage" 5th-8th: Less explicitly but still not overtly sets up a desire to circumvent male agency. I can't tell if the author can't understand or chooses to ignore the fact that you get people to care about a cause by making it personal, pretty universally applicable not just to men. 2nd to last: It's not enough that men don't suffer the way non-mainstream, non-male sexuality people do…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:26 PM
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There can't be any contact on Tinder if both parties don't agree to it. I haven't had 190 matches in 10 months, this guy had that many in a day. Rule number 1.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:24 AM
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One of the first trp metaphors that really stuck with me was the one of a man as the captain of his ship. Most women will not go down with a sinking ship.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 12:22 AM
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Everything you do in your life is going to piss someone off. Accept that. I'd go as far to say you should embrace it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:35 AM
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I'm imagining something like this
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 08:28 AM
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Could you link the episode? I'd like to see if she gave any numbers.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 08:26 AM
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Surprise, people outside greek life because they have no idea what it's like inside. I hear a lot of complaining about how insular or closed the greek community at my school can be.. from people who have never even rushed.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 08:23 AM
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I was almost certain it was, I'm not sure where else I would have run into it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 07:40 PM
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I have a bone to pick with the notion of alpha granting control over women. The idea as I understand it is more about minimizing women's influence over your life.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:41 AM
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My theory is that "beta" behavior is learned socially, not transmitted biologically, and that it spreads in the same way ideas and "common sense" do. The encouragement of the beta is a meme subcommunicated through real discussion or media depictions of romance (see romantic comedies, love songs in popular music, etc.) that some men try to take on, not realizing that this gets used as leverage against them in what we refer to as "the game."
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:45 PM
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I don't care if other neckbeards circle up and take turns calling some other group neckbeards. I can think for myself enough to filter out the chaff in this subreddit and parse out the stuff that's actually useful.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 07:37 PM
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The only thing left in the log is the comments, might be worth reading. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/267357
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 08:37 PM
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you always need to be one step behind her Nice turn of phrase. I've reached this conclusion separately but in my mind it wasn't nearly as concise.
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:27 AM
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That last bit sounds like a solid response to many shit tests. I'm taking it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 02:42 AM
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In simpler terms, they're only human, and to expect more might be asking too much. Am I wrong? Recently I've become a lot more aware of the limits of generalizations and human experience because of how subjective things can seem, despite how useful generalizing might be once in a while. I've been involved in a series of discussions with a particular friend and she just doesn't get why she's so frustrated with the way things turn out for her. Either she's consciously contradicting herself, or she…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 09:42 PM
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Honestly, it sounds like you're trying to troll right now. Parties and being around campus are about as public as things can get. The trouble comes when you get caught drunk and alone, the last coherent speaker with some random girl after most people have cleared out. That's the kind of situation you should not let yourself get caught in.
/r/MensRights23/01/14 07:07 AM
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I'm a 3rd year college student right now. Honestly, as a nursing major your best bet will be to be almost paranoid in your thoughts but only cautious in your actions. Take a page from the preventative advice given to women: don't be alone with people you wouldn't trust with your life, never be the last one at a party, stick to groups, let people know where you're going and always be aware of your surroundings.
/r/MensRights23/01/14 02:13 AM
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I would say it's closer to tech jargon. It doesn't make a lick of sense to people who haven't learned or don't understand the long form of things. The shorter, more abrasive term is useful because it saves people time and cognitive space.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 09:35 PM
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"I want every young man in America to feel some strong peer pressure in terms of how they are supposed to behave and treat women,” Obama said. I have straight up backed out of interactions with people on campus for fear that I would make someone so uncomfortable they would retaliate by ruining my life. Wish they would ask about shit like this once in a while.
/r/MensRights22/01/14 09:27 PM
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Self-sufficiency is a MUCH higher priority. The ideal would be to own and run enough business to be able to live off of. I also have way higher standards for relationships and I'm more comfortable with the judgments I make about people.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 11:48 PM
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I've had leanings literally since I was a kid. I saw it in how my elementary school teachers gave girls preferential treatment and I was pissed for it. In high school I developed more of an interest in girls. After I was dumped for the first time I noticed the things that did and didn't work for me in other people's relationships. I started being artificially distant from people I was interested in and found myself enjoying things more. Went to dances, joined drumline, etc. Gave less fucks about…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 11:22 PM
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I find that a lot of people who claim to seek open minds neglect to mention that they want your mind open-- only just to what they want you to believe and nothing else. Same goes for notions of equality, "safe spaces," etc.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 02:34 AM
5

Don't listen to what women say, watch what they do. Fair to say this is applicable to people in general. Talk is cheap.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 08:16 AM
1

Intelligence is a means to many ends. Alone it's worthless, what matters is what you can get out of putting it to use.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 09:57 AM
23

It's a rhetorical thing. In context, what people are trying to do is imply that your subreddit is full of people shouting from the rooftops that they're alpha, and then saying Any man who must say he's alpha is not truly alpha in order to discredit the entire mass of ideas. Something to keep in mind in light of this: People can't hear silence and will fill in as they please in order to say whatever they want to say. Combine this with internet factionalism and /popcorn.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 09:58 PM
10

Who said anything about harming anyone? The point is, you get over the original person (or at the very least, fake it til you make it) and you end up with more positive possible outcomes than negative. It's ok to date different people at the same time.
/r/seduction06/12/13 09:18 PM
1

When I was a kid we got 15 minutes' recess and half an hour for lunch. You had it good.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 04:15 AM
1

I had an experience with a lady friend the other day that basically told me the same thing, except I got to hear a story about a saddened nice guy plus alcohol involved. This girl told me that she didn't like him and liked being put on the pedestal even less. For all the shit people give this subreddit, you guys are right about a lot more than people give credit for.
/r/seduction16/11/13 12:41 AM
2

Breaking up is like approaching in the sense that after you've gotten it out of the way, you'll kick yourself for not getting it over with in the first place. In my breakups it's always been helpful to remember that the pain of rejection is part of life no matter where I am in the relationship. You'll thank youself for getting it over with sooner. Saves yourself a bunch of stress in the long run too.
/r/seduction10/11/13 11:55 PM
2

Talk to other people. Other women especially. You dont need to f close on the first night, but staying social will help you re-internalize that she's only human and that there are billions of other girls out there, none of whom you know and all of which have the potential to get you to feel the way she did.
/r/seduction11/10/13 09:44 PM
1

It's not a weird quirk. Girls tend to avoid direct conflict and confrontation. If you've ever been in a situation where you and a girl are talking about lunch and it's bouncing back and forth "I don't know, where do you wanna go" it's because women reach consensus differently than guys do. When women come to agreement, the process is more like: nobody decides on anything concrete, someone mentions possibility A ("there's this really good chinese place on main and grand") and watches for signals …
/r/seduction07/10/13 05:00 AM
2

I go to a UC with dedicated engineering and compsci departments. There are still more women here than men, with 54% of the undergraduate population.
/r/MensRights06/10/13 11:48 PM
8

At colleges in big cities, women do have more options. “By my sophomore year, I just had the feeling that there is nobody in this school that I could date,” said Ashley Crisostomo, a senior at Fordham University in New York, which is 55 percent female. She has tended to date older professionals in the city. I think the word she meant to use here was "would."
/r/MensRights06/10/13 11:42 PM
1

There is a difference between "would you like to have sex" and "come over, let's fuck." Attitudinally speaking, the two are the same except the latter is much more direct and commanding. When in doubt, be assertive and active in getting what you want.
/r/seduction01/10/13 12:17 AM
2

No, you keep up the good work. Do not let your success make you complacent. Keep on seducing your girlfriend.
/r/seduction23/09/13 02:57 PM
1

I kinda wish this comment was linked in the sidebar. Would be very useful.
/r/seduction21/09/13 09:21 AM
3

I don't think it needs to be as extreme as walking away completely, but definitely be ready to back away from things. If you handle it well enough you won't have to back away at all. Flirt harder OP, if she reciprocates keep things going.
/r/seduction21/09/13 09:05 AM
1

Those girls open doors and make sure you offer them something too. You can be their security, alcohol source, ect. They need to be getting something out of this relationship to maintain it. Adding to this, make friends in the greek community in general. Fraternities and sororities in my experience don't deserve the bad reputation they get among unaffiliated students. They tend to have access to all kinds of party enhancers and also tend to have pretty wide social groups. This is where platonic f…
/r/seduction21/09/13 08:57 AM
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Honestly, it sounds to me like it's too subtle to be able to rile people up about it very effectively. Does anyone have a video link to the scene in question? I'm not a console guy so I won't have the game for a while.
/r/MensRights21/09/13 07:04 AM
14

Work hard, play hard.
/r/seduction20/09/13 08:19 PM
13

Youre in a college dorm, first thing you should keep in mind is the reality of the situation. An abundance mentality is your life for the next year. Act like it. Avoid settling into a long term relationship very quickly. Meet many people and go to as many social events as possible, you can party pretty hard in college without screwing up your grades. Meet tons of people, you'll have plenty of opportunities to work on your game and frankly you're in college. You'll get places as long as you make …
/r/seduction20/09/13 06:53 PM
1

Repeat their names to them and make a game of remembering as many people's names as possible. If you remember someone's name amd they forget yours, you win and that opens up more avenues for playful teasing and future openings in conversation (let's see if you remember my name this time, KATIE or whatever). You can be a little obnoxious about it if it's clearly in jest. When you're actually in conversation, use questions that are specific and directed at certain people in the group. e.g. "Tom, w…
/r/seduction20/09/13 06:26 PM
2

"Why are you mad? I'm just trying to get to know you!"
/r/seduction20/09/13 04:31 PM
6

Nice FR, I dont hear many good stories about gym game. Your use of eye contact and your ability to approach especially should be taken to heart by other people reading this.
/r/seduction19/09/13 09:56 PM
1

I've been on trp a couple times before and seen it discussed among peers. Many of them seem to think we're the ones watching the shark and trying to emulate that, and I doubt many of them will make the effort to understand the distinction. Subscribed, and best of luck to the sub in handling the incoming flood of visitors.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 04:23 PM
2

She's just a girl, you will meet and date dozens more in the upcoming months. There will be others just like her who will want you, and chances are a handful of them you will actually be really into. But mostly, don't drive drunk. I don't think the story will be worth the risk.
/r/seduction14/09/13 10:31 AM
1

If you weren't drunk I would say yup, you screwed up. That she has a history with a lot of guys probably shouldn't matter.
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:50 AM
1

Pretty much.
/r/seduction13/09/13 11:54 PM
1

I got to pass through there in 8th grade on a school trip of all things. Fun drive. On topic, some girls are brutally weird about stuff like that. I had one night of drunk sloppy making out with a girl, it was great but she didn't want sex, fine. No sex, just spent the night, all was good. A couple weeks later, after she tells me she's not interested I get invited over late to have a couple beers and watch a movie. No physical contact or anything, just chilling out with one of the bros. Sometime…
/r/seduction13/09/13 10:34 PM
1

I feel like it might just be that they don't want to seem "easy" to anyone. Reminds me of when women try to give dating advice and they preface everything with "women are... just complicated."
/r/seduction13/09/13 10:25 PM
1

If I were you and attracted to this girl, I would have told her I had some experience with older girls a long time ago but my memory of it was fuzzy or something like that. Especially with this kind of suggestive flirting, the absolute best thing to do is keep things moving up and onward. That kind of persistence is very revealing-- drink a little less next time and you'll pick it up a lot better.
/r/seduction13/09/13 09:55 PM
4

If your engineers are anything like the ones I know, all the girls in the lecture hall will have open spaces left and right.
/r/seduction13/09/13 08:50 PM
1

Could also be a final for a summer class. I just finished mine this week.
/r/seduction13/09/13 08:26 PM
1

This is a reasonable stance to take. But the way I see it given what you said, in my current state I have no way of knowing what the value of what's missing is.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 05:37 AM
8

"just got cut... ladies"
/r/MensRights13/09/13 05:01 AM
3

Catholic raised here, I had it done and to say it bothers me would be an understatement.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 04:59 AM
1

If you want to meet someone tonight but have no friends to go barhopping with then you go by yourself and you find people there. I'm not even 21 and I've met tons of cool people at the pub on my school's campus, it's just a matter of being out there enough to go places and meet people. If it makes you more comfortable, go to venues that aren't just drinks but musical performances, comedy shows, etc. where you can comment on the entertainment as an icebreaker.
/r/seduction06/09/13 04:33 AM
1

The reason the system works is because a girls level of attractiveness is subjective. A lot of what seduction is is mental, if the poster of a FR can give some insight with a couple keystrokes as to what's going on inside his head, I can better understand things when I'm in a situation feeling approximately the same way (e.g. if I was to deal with an 8.5 of my own, I could reasonably expect to feel and thus think and act similarly to what was posted here). Nerds who assign a system of numerical …
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:41 PM
0

There are different magnitudes and types of cuteness. The more general answer you suggest leaves too much to the imagination but the specificity of the HB scale puts the interaction in context.
/r/seduction04/09/13 05:31 PM
1

It could be anything honestly, there's no way to know without context or details. If someone is not responsive but also doesn't object, it's likely that you're dealing with someone who's oblivious or unwilling to turn you away explicitly. In either case it's probably worth pushing forward since you won't know which is which otherwise.
/r/seduction29/08/13 10:24 PM
2

I feel like I've been a pretty observant user. I find that certain indicas are absolutely terrible for social interaction. Sativas however generally make for fantastic conversation and hybrids are great once the body high starts wearing off but the mental high is still around. It's not something that I mention right away unless I meet a girl in that context, but I like my ladies to be 420-friendly so its good to know and find out about quickly. My experiences also lead me just in general to feel…
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:59 AM
1

Caddy corner?
/r/seduction15/08/13 12:46 AM
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This is because in some cases you can argue any way you want. I could argue that custody laws are sexist against men because they deprive the man of the experience of raising and being with the child. I could also argue that they're sexist against women because they place all the burden of raising the kid on the woman. The tendency of this argument to cherry-pick the points the speaker wants to address makes it so that nobody is ever forced to reconsider their own point of view.
/r/MensRights14/08/13 06:29 PM
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I feel like the critical difference is that the word is an adjective in one and a noun in the other.
/r/MensRights13/08/13 07:32 PM
10

If the friend zone is a problem, then you weren't being sincere enough in your intents/desires or you need to work on your method for dealing with rejection.
/r/seduction13/08/13 05:30 AM
2

I've been a godfather for a very long time now. I'm 20 and the kid's 5. It's not often that I get actual feeling from anything but this was cool, sounds like a great experience for everyone involved and I hope I can accomplish the same thing myself someday.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 09:11 AM
8

7 drinks in 5 hours is pretty sober. Although, I do think that tapdancing around how drunk you (collectively) are is great small-talk and opens up a lot of other conversational avenues. I liked this FR a lot, the explanations especially are clear and easily understandable. Quality post.
/r/seduction03/08/13 11:10 PM
1

I kinda think you've got things backwards. Call her to arrange a date.
/r/seduction03/08/13 11:02 PM
8

Smooth, basically textbook examples of the things that have been said in here. Keep that shit up.
/r/seduction29/07/13 08:06 AM
1

I actually agree with you, I think it is a difference in perspective. The first class I took in college was in writing and focused on satire, and this happened to be a point-by-point example of what satire looks like in the real world. I guess as soon as I recognized it I went back into that mindset, haha. I think circumstantially, people's attention spans don't matter because either way their reaction is going to reveal something about them and their beliefs to you.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 02:33 AM
1

Yeah, OP's right. You totally missed the point. This article is one of the best examples of satire I've ever seen. It's supposed to be inflammatory. Its rhetorical strength lies in the fact that people are supposed to get pissed and then realize what's going on. The subject of criticism can't acknowledge the satire without a) admitting it didn't read or understand the piece or b) acknowledging the problems that it's being criticized for. Granted, this is much more caustic satire than most of wha…
/r/MensRights25/07/13 01:19 AM
1

I run a private blog that functions as a journal of my personal life since there are things in it that I would prefer certain people didnt see. It's been very helpful in measuring my own progress, as I started it when I first found /r/seduction and read through the sidebar.
/r/seduction22/07/13 11:54 PM
2

Stay where you are, live frugally and pay off your loans. I don't think anyone else has mentioned it, but time is on your side.
/r/seduction19/07/13 09:07 PM
2

Flair's not gonna change who has the top comment. I've never posted a field report and I've had fairly successful encounters with women in the 3 months since I've started reading and applying material read here.
/r/seduction19/07/13 05:09 PM
1

What's a good second date for a girl who I've been talking to for a couple weeks now and crashed with after a party this weekend? When I slept over we talked for a bit after some pretty heavy making out and she seemed pretty interested in keeping things going, so we had lunch today and I'm wondering what you guys might recommend onward from here.
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:28 AM
4

Offer some help?
/r/seduction16/07/13 05:22 AM
3

I didn't see the conversation going in the direction of roles and norms, sorry. I did take offense to supposing an inability to care for people you don't know though, because that's become a huge part of who I am and it seems like rationalization of indifference. That being said, I think you guys are overpaying horribly, or you're not also considering that half the cost of the date is paying for your own stuff too. I don't agree with the idea that the man pays for anything, so if I'm taking some…
/r/MensRights02/07/13 03:14 PM
4

To me they are the same thing. I am a "nice" person because I feel a love for other people. I am motivated by external forces but that does NOT negate any internal forces that I use to compel myself to do anything. While there is a guard that I keep up, generally I find that most people are ok and worth treating well. I also have bought the homeless food before. That assumption bothered me.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 03:07 PM
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You think it's not possible to care for someone who you don't know well? Because I do do things like hold doors open for strangers and offer to help people carry heavy shit. I think it's sad that the implication there is ulterior motives or that I'm being somehow compelled by external forces to act this way when I actually do like helping people.
/r/MensRights02/07/13 02:45 PM
1

Got any good resources on social circle game?
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:41 AM
1

You're batting .667. That's pretty fucking solid. Hang out on campus, hit the gym, do stuff ti stay busy so you can prove yourself wrong. Aside from those shitty beliefs you might be doing pretty well for yourself.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:38 AM
1

Your point about attachment made me think about Buddhism and the more I think about it the more it and seduction seem to fit together. That's pretty cool.
/r/seduction21/06/13 04:58 PM
3

Dude. you just clarified the biggest problem I've had with girls since I've been interested in them. I have a tendency toward slowness and a fucked up kind of reconnaissance, I guess, combined with shitty judgement. Tonight I know myself a little better.
/r/seduction20/06/13 07:38 AM
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The sidebar alone will explain to you 95% of what you ask for. I would also advise you to open up your expectation of this sub a bit, there's a lot more to be gained than pure game here. Good luck to ya.
/r/seduction06/06/13 02:23 AM
1

Well, obviously it's gonna be easier if you don't have someone else living in the room. But barring that, there aren't gonna be any witnesses cause roommates don't usually stick around and watch. Plus a girl hooking up that way isn't gonna give a fuck what some stranger thinks about her sexual frequencies.
/r/seduction23/05/13 01:46 AM
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Speaking as a current college student who has had a roommate and doesn't now: much less of a difference than you'd might think. Talk to him/her early and let him know to expect this kind of call from time to time. After that, it's pretty easy, just give him a call when you anticipate taking someone home with you. Having a roommate will not stop you from having sex.
/r/seduction23/05/13 01:23 AM
7

Attractiveness is a huge factor in this. Speaking as someone who isn't, but I'm pretty confident in myself and among my circle of friends known not to be a mean person. Little, ephemeral instants of social interaction with people are hugely impactful. Avoidance in public places, other people's reluctance to make eye contact, physical distance from people. You notice things. This is fast becoming a rant, but who cares. I'll just wait til I'm 35 and desirable, I guess.
/r/MensRights16/05/13 05:41 PM
14

I would have torn that clubhouse right the fuck down. If I made it and I can't have it anymore, I don't see why anyone else should.
/r/MensRights09/05/13 05:18 PM
1

I noticed a bit about Starfox Adventures not being released in this video, as source material from one of Anita's videos... problem is, I distinctly remember playing Starfox Adventures: Dinosaur Planet as a kid, and I especially remember that anthropomorphic fox lady pictured in the video. Unfortunately it doesn't seem like I have a way to communicate this to the video that OP is in reply to. What terrible research on her part, and what a shame that she got so much for doing so little. I'd take …
/r/MensRights19/03/13 11:31 AM
3

It was the other way around for me. My high school used to be open campus, which they fenced up years ago.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 08:49 PM
1

I think this is more of a problem with shallow people in general, visible floaters who are only the victim when it's convenient for them in order to gain a false feeling of holding the moral high ground. I've seen family do it, and my current girlfriend has done it more than a handful of times. Few things piss me off more than seeing victim personalities go and do all the things they claim are done to them.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 07:51 PM
2

I would hate to be with a girl with this sort of mindset. I would prefer not to be emasculated in my relationships, thank you very much. Edit: In the original context, not the edit.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 06:38 PM
1

My problem with your point of view, and don't take this personally, is that the implication made by feminists is that they're supporters of gender equality... but there's no way you can claim to support equality for two different groups when you don't look at both in the same light. If you talk about women in general as strong, independent, self-deterministic figures and you talk about men in general as a misogynistic, women-hating bunch of rapists, perverts, and pedophiles, then I do not accept…
/r/MensRights13/12/12 09:26 PM
1

The nature of the comments made by OP is making my troll senses tingle. Come on, you can do way better than that.
/r/MensRights10/12/12 08:12 PM
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The article doesn't say a thing about gender. Downvoted for false title.
/r/MensRights15/11/12 06:50 PM
5

Even if it was a valid point, hair length has nothing to do with gender roles.
/r/MensRights24/10/12 09:33 PM
5

I really would hate seeing this subreddit become anything like /r/atheism, but I feel like this kind of post leads to that kind of thing.
/r/MensRights18/10/12 01:38 AM
14

The point is to deny them pageviews and by extension, money from ad revenue.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 06:08 PM
0

No karma for self-posts
/r/MensRights14/10/12 11:39 PM
12

It's illegal for men not to register with selective service. But it's legal for women not to- in fact, it's illegal for them to. Why don't feminists argue for equality in this regard? The answer to this will say something interesting about what the real goal of feminism has become. I'm downvoting you for completely ignoring context and giving a tautological reason.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 07:17 PM
2

I had to do two years of PE in high school. The second year I did weight training, which was split right down the middle between the sexes. If anything, the presence of the opposite gender made us all even more competitive.
/r/MensRights02/10/12 06:54 PM
2

I really hope this is fake, and it kinda saddens me so feel like this subreddit is more and more /r/antifeminism every day.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 07:26 AM
3

That depends on whether or not a representative cross-section of society actually voted on these definitions or not.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 04:03 AM
5

I'm thinking this. Maybe adopt a dog.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 09:59 PM
1

That's the thing, she should have known. Maybe it slipped her mind or something. Still bothers me.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 05:11 AM
5

I had something distantly similar happen a year ago. My senior year in high school, I was very involved in marching band. The year after I graduated, my sister entered that same school and band. Being a recent graduate with nothing to do until moving to college, I offered to help out at band camp and their first parade. Nothing too fancy, just keeping kids hydrated and a bit of heavy lifting. Just after their first parade, I was talking to my own sister during some downtime between when the kids…
/r/MensRights03/09/12 03:07 AM
1

When you enter a community, you implicitly accept the norms of behavior in that community. Expecting everyone else to conform to one's own demands that the community change in the name of the basic human right of freedom from harassment is a farce when you're talking about an environment centered around a competitive hobby and not some kind of institution. In any competitive setting, there will be trash talk, insults, harassment, etc. Pardon the phrase, but if you can't stand the heat then get o…
/r/MensRights18/08/12 12:06 AM
1

Bots?
/r/MensRights19/07/12 01:58 AM
5

This kind of post has no place in r/mr. I subscribed here for quality and relevance, not for something to be mad at. I implore submitters to hold themselves and their content to a higher level of quality than this.
/r/MensRights19/07/12 12:24 AM
2

Downvoted because SRS isn't that big a problem anyway and this does almost nothing for discussion of men's rights. Subreddit drama sucks. Let's not go there.
/r/MensRights14/07/12 04:59 PM
2

As a non-African American whose family prostate cancer runs in, I'm a little bothered by this kind of exclusion. It's a good thing you didn't post what company this is you're working for.
/r/MensRights30/06/12 08:37 AM
4

I think r/mr is actually one of the better subreddits I've seen. I enjoy the discussions here, and apart from a few trolls once in a while (contrary to your claim), the community as a whole does a decent job of communicating its points in a respectful manner.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 07:16 PM
2

Patently false.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 03:33 AM
1

Suddenly I feel like I've missed a lot of opportunities here.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 07:17 PM
3

obvioustroll, Jr. would have been a little odd
/r/MensRights02/05/12 09:58 PM
1

TwoXChromosomes and ShitRedditSays. Terms used for those subreddits and to categorize members of each community. Separate groups, but inevitably there's bound to be a bit of crossover.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 09:43 PM
2

Lots of talk from them in all the high school classes I ever had, that's for sure. I think mixing kids of different capabilities hinders the higher performers and moves at a pace that's too accelerated for the others, for lack of better terms. They tried mixing Gifted and Talented Education students with worse students when I was in middle school. It didn't go as well as administrators wanted it to.
/r/MensRights27/03/12 04:14 AM
1

Well, it only makes sense that they're gonna give advice that they want people to follow.
/r/MensRights15/03/12 04:35 PM
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