Limiting Beliefs Help

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-06-22T18:15:08+00:00

You know these beliefs are rubbish, or you wouldn't be asking us for help.

CompSci is not an attraction killer. Beautiful women aren't exclusively attracted to handsome guys. Women want an attractive guy. You want a woman who is attracted to your good qualities. Why would you want to be with women who only want guys for their superficial qualities?

Let me put it another way. You don't have to be the most attractive guy. You just have to be more attractive than average. This is not difficult at all, since most guys are terrible at presenting themselves to women in an attractive manner. As long as you are more attractive than average, people want you around more than any random other guy, who could be way worse than you.

badabingbadabang · 2013-06-22T23:58:44+00:00

You're a compsci major ? Dude, I #-closed a girl today talking about music synthesizers and sound design (I produce music).

Believe me, you have a skill... Own it and shine through it like a boss.

bl1y · 2013-06-22T18:15:40+00:00

You already know that all of these things are false. Your problem is that you're wallowing in your problems and overhyping them. Instead of saying "here's why I'm going to fail" ask yourself "what do I need to do in order to make this work?"

Then go do that thing.

jbg89 · 2013-06-22T20:15:20+00:00

I guarantee there are computer science majors at your school banging hb7+'s. If a girl rejects you because of your major then she's not worth it.

Other than that, you can employ the 40 year old virgin idea of "slaying 30-40 hoodrats" or in your case hb3s you'll be ready for the "upper echelon hoes" (hb7s).

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Methaxetamine · 2013-06-22T21:47:46+00:00

So have sex with a girl higher than a 3 and then it will all be blown away

5009 · 2013-06-23T18:22:52+00:00

Obviously you know this is all bullshit and you should stop believing it. But come on man, you're in college and complaining about not having muscles? What I would give to be younger again and start working out earlier. Get to the gym you asshole. Even just a couple months will make a huge difference and more importantly you will feel better about yourself.

lepies_pegao · 2013-06-24T21:58:34+00:00

1) according to who you are below average?? everyone have different taste.. 2) looks might help, but if you don't like who you are, how are others going to like you?? 3) I graduated with a CS degree, believe me...... it helps if you are passionate about it!

Start by improving yourself, accepting things you can't change, everything else will come! Good luck!

my_name_is_X · 2013-06-22T21:17:58+00:00

YGTBFKM.

I went to a school with ~25-30% girls. Deal with it.

nivar · 2013-06-23T07:12:33+00:00

Beliefs has no truth to them, they are ideas that you accepted as real, because your brain need a guided-set of rules to follow in order to survive. It might have been based on previous experience but your beliefs are your and yours only, It does not valid for others. They are empowering beliefs and limiting beliefs. Empowering if it make you happy and limiting if it make you suffer.

"1.) My college is 58% guys and 42% girls."

-- this has nothing to do with you attracting girls

-- naturally only less than about 10% of guys would have above average sexual relationships.

-- Important part is there are girls you can approach and actually attract, be happy it is not all boys school.

"therefore, since I'm below average looks"

-- look does not play major role in attraction

-- confident and your oulook on life will.

"I will have trouble scoring anything higher than a hb3."

-- there is no look rating hb rating are arbitrary and has no meaning to it.

your hb3 might be my hb8; there are girls you would fuck and girls you wont fuck ( in cs term 0 or 1 )

"2.) College girls only care about looks"

No fuck no, look is not that important.
Muscles - no I dont know any pua coaches who actually have muscles

-- "facial structure - some ugly guys always get laid

-- "which I have neither" - good for you now you can get laid :)

3.No good looking girls would ever hook up with me because I'm a computer science major.

-- why the fuck what you studying has anything to do with you getting laid.

-- you can be a janitor/garbage man and get laid

-- I swear I know a homeless guy who get laid in order to sleep at the girls place.

MonkeyMannnn · 2013-06-22T18:18:10+00:00

You're being a pussy and making excuses for your failure. Stop that shit. Get your head right and get out there.

JimmyNSS · 2013-06-22T22:43:52+00:00

Ok, I'm going to fix #3 real quick.

When a girl asks what your major is or what you do.. "I'm the next Mark Zuckerberg.. You know.. Computer Science major waiting to drop out and take over the world."

Done.

Title	Limiting Beliefs Help
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	13
Comments	23
Date	June 22, 2013 5:52 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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