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TBH you don't need PUA to find a relationship. Everybody has a different type and if you just live a normal, fulfilling life, you're going to attract somebody sooner or later. That's why one of the most often repeated advice on here is "be yourself" and "don't take this too seriously".
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:31 AM
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In college, I was friends with a guy named Zeke. Zeke was about as fat as you, a bit shorter, he played DnD, he was super into video games, steampunk, and star trek. Zeke spiked his hair, wore button downs, baller watches, hated fedoras, and was known to wear interesting necklaces and chains. Zeke made fat jokes about himself all the time, was the leader of his group, threw awesome parties, and always had something to do on the weekends. Zeke joined the BDSM society at our school and surrounded …
/r/seduction11/08/13 06:25 PM
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Go with the intention of being shot down and you won't be disappointed. To answer your original question, is it showing weakness to admit to your female friend that you have feelings for her, the answer is, in this case, a resounding yes. While showing vulnerability is a confidence trait, showing powerlessness, which is what you will end up doing in this case, is a huge value destroyer and attraction killer. Basically you're telling her you like her but you've been too insecure to do anything ab…
/r/seduction12/07/13 07:20 PM
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It sounds like you were successfully picked up, not the other way around.
/r/seduction25/06/13 11:33 PM
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This pretty much does it for me. Also, get tan so your blush shows less.
/r/seduction25/06/13 08:56 PM
3

You are rationalizing your oneitis. Stop that.
/r/seduction25/06/13 08:52 PM
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Call her, say "I'm outside, let me in." Be outside holding a bottle of wine, offer to help her pack.
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:20 PM
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You climb Everest using the same techniques that you use to climb any mountain. Practice climbing a lot of mountains to get a good shot at climbing Everest.
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:15 PM
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It means they are attracted to immature assholes.
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:12 PM
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If you talk about things you love with passion she will also start talking about things she loves with passion. It'll be better if you don't rely on canned questions because they can feel canned. Here are some canned questions, if you run out of things to talk about. How long have you lived here? If you could do anything at all right now, what would it be? I had a discussion with my friend about energy/aliens/esp/qi/runes do you believe in magic/crystals/homeopathy/ghosts? Do you have any scars?…
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:11 PM
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Most guys do not make a move at all. By simply hitting on her you do much better than average
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:53 PM
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You need to realize that you are just plain aren't attracted to some girls and some girls just plain aren't attracted to you. Don't take it personally, I'm sure there's some skinny blonde girl that everybody thinks is super hot and you're all like, meh. It's like that for girls too, but many times worse, since society's standard of beauty for men is very diverse compares to the standard beauty for women. There will be girls who think you are a 10 and girls who think you are a 5.
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:51 PM
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Agreed. You're not a nerdy comp sci major, you're a young tech genius with a creative flair. Comp sci is about creating complex and dynamic models out of nothing but logic. It melds together the creative and technical. It's understanding complex, recursive patterns that change and evolve through time, and using them to produce websites and games and apps and programs. It's challenging and dammit you're good at it.
/r/seduction23/06/13 08:51 AM
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Do not lower your standards, instead seduce everybody with your charm and your charisma. Lowering your standards will hurt your chances with attractive girls and give you a certain reputation. Seduce everybody, not just people you wanna have sex with. If you are the center of attention and everybody likes you, then hot girls in the room will all start wondering, who the hell is that guy?
/r/seduction17/06/13 02:31 PM
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Congratulations on coming out of your shell, and have a great fucking four years. College is like seduction on easy mode, go and make the most of it! I would say everything is solid except for lower your standards. Do not hit on less attractive women because you think they might be easier to score with. It'll negatively affect your game with more attractive girls. It also helps to always maintain the feeling that you have high standards, as that cuts down lmr a lot. Instead, you should be seduci…
/r/seduction17/06/13 02:28 PM
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Go out with him. You don't need to smoke to hit on chicks who are smoking, just be friendly with the bouncer for some social proof, and hit on the chicks who smoke.
/r/seduction17/06/13 02:15 PM
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Don't need to smoke to hang out outside a bar and hit on chicks who are smoking. Just be friends with the bouncer. Do not start smoking just to look cool.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:53 AM
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A self proclaimed emo feminist's rant about what's wrong with men these days is not a very credible source of seduction insight.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:11 AM
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About 60% of the people I talk to have never seen a cigarillo before, and about 80% of those are impressed. I don't make a big deal out of it. Obviously smoking a big ass cigar in public is going to be obnoxious, cigarillos are a happy medium.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:08 AM
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The idea of not bringing a lighter is so that you are forced to approach everytime you want to smoke. Incredible motivating tool.
/r/seduction16/06/13 09:00 PM
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Telling a stripper you go to strip clubs regularly is like telling a comic con model you professionally play starcraft for a living. Your best shot with either is to be associated with the sweaty neckbeards that they usually deal with.
/r/seduction15/06/13 01:54 AM
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Apologize for things you DO, not who you ARE. Women want men with integrity and authenticity, not stiff necked hypermasculine douchebros. Examples: Are you late to a date? You can apologize. Did something you say offend her? You're a man who speaks his mind freely, and if she doesn't like it, tough titties (as long as you were authentic when you said it, dont be shocking on purpose).
/r/seduction15/06/13 01:44 AM
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Talk about anything you enjoy, anything that makes you a unique interesting person. Take a note of her clothing, her hairstyle, her posture, her jewelry and what she has on her, that usually is enough to get a good read on her personality, or at least the way that she presents herself. Comment on anything you might find interesting. Between the stuff you like and the stuff she presents herself with, you should have plenty to talk about. If all else fails, tell funny stories.
/r/seduction15/06/13 01:42 AM
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Here are a bunch, all similar, all use qualifying in the opener, all fairly low risk, easy to do. Hey you seem pretty bored, wanna come join us? (if she's by herself) Hey, you seem super serious and busy, I probably shouldn't bother you. (if she's in the middle of her shift) Hey you seem pretty friendly, I'm Chan. (at the park) Hey, you seem to have good taste, let me get your opinion on something. (at the mall) Hey, you seem like you know this place well, what should I get here? (at the bar) He…
/r/seduction15/06/13 01:31 AM
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Roger that, over.
/r/seduction14/06/13 01:33 PM
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I count 20 women that he approached in an afternoon, including 3 HB9+s and I would say he could have gotten at least 5 numbers if he wanted to. Also watch all the girls who rate him low try to qualify themselves as not shallow
/r/seduction11/06/13 06:10 AM
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Note to MissingNo nobody is obligated to answer your questions. Stop taking value from the community and give value back.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:46 AM
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Stop texting her if your texting is terrible. Maybe text get a few days before with a "we still on for Thursday?"
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:43 AM
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Talk to her many times for short periods of time. Once you've got a good set, isolate her and lock her down.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:42 AM
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At some point just spin her around and kiss her.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:40 AM
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Get your coffee to go and walk with her down the street to places. Change venues with her. Kino her, touch her back when you walk, touch her arm when you talk, punch her, push her, pull her, grab her hand and run places. Invite her home to watch a movie.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:39 AM
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Some girls are shy. If she wants you to lead, then lead. Lead her into your house and bang her.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:36 AM
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Before she gives you her number, say "You know I'm gonna ask you out, right?" Her giving you her number is her complying to go out with you. Cuts down flake rate tremendously.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:35 AM
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Stubble is the sexiest facial hair. Mow the lawn so it's not a jungle, but you don't need it to look like a golf course.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:33 AM
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This is a painful process. You are rewriting your psychology and your brain will fight you every step of the way. Pickup will not fix your self esteem or your depression. Fix your depression and self esteem to seduce. Just remember that you're better off in the long run than 90% of guys out there if you stick with it. This is just your pain period. Breathe and improve. You'll be out of it soon. See you on the other side.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:32 AM
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Go for it, because fuck it, why not? Life is short and she's attractive, it's good to make mistakes sometimes.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:26 AM
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Talk to /r/relationships this subreddit is about how to attract women, not how to navigate relationship drama.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:25 AM
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Next time you're doing something fun, just kiss her. She either is into you and will reciprocate, or is not into you and will freak out. Either way you have your answer. Just watch out for LMR.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:23 AM
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Well you can't keep staring at me without introducing yourself. I'm samskate.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:20 AM
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Everywhere. If you're not creepy, then it's not creepy. If you have good posture, if you have good eye contact, if you are confident, observe the three second rule (open a set within 3 seconds of seeing them), if you put on clean clothes and have good hygiene, if you smile and act like you've done it a hundred times before, then it's not creepy.
/r/seduction11/06/13 05:19 AM
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I'd feel she'd be pretty turned on with your head rubbing her crotch as you get yourself comfortable. Plus, you're giving her the power, she's now literally towering over you, it makes her feel in control of the situation so she feels safer. And besides, its hella cute, very intimate, and you are in perfect position for her to play with your face or lean down and kiss you.
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:55 AM
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Don't worry about her. Go out and hit on more women.
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:30 AM
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PUAs hate him! He's found a way to pick up women with no effort! Start your free trial today!
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:26 AM
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This. Coming up with zany original date ideas screams I haven't been on a date in a while and don't know what to do. If she hasn't been on a date in a while that's fine, but otherwise, just do something casual and fun and interactive. Lunch, coffee, concert, dinner, movie on your couch (never in a movie theater), casual drinks at a bar, party, show her something you like to do, etc.
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:24 AM
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Don't hit on girls in front of their boyfriends. If there is any doubt, just ask. How do you all know each other? This must be your boyfriend.
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:21 AM
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Good job, Ted Mosby.
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:17 AM
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You're friends aren't used to the you after youce started gaming. That's okay. You now have a secret from all of your friend group that you can let a select number of attractive people in on.
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:12 AM
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Ask for her phone number. Say that you should hang out outside of work. Ask her if she has a boyfriend. Establish a relationship frame early, you gain nothing by waiting and you have everything to lose. It is incredibly hard to get a girl interested in you once she has a certain impression from you.
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:09 AM
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Be honest. But be funny while you're being honest. Nervous while talking to someone attractive? "I don't usually get this nervous but you're really pretty." Trying to figure out how to kiss her and not be awkward about it? "I'm trying to figure out how best to kiss you right now." Just want to talk to someone because they're cute but don't know what to say? "Hi, I wanted to come say hi because you're cute." Feeling like you need to say something smooth because you want to impress her right now? …
/r/seduction11/06/13 02:04 AM
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Go for it, if you're 18 and she's 17 that's legal in most states. Remember, divide by two and add seven. 18/2+7=16
/r/seduction11/06/13 01:49 AM
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Well if you dont wanna have sex with her then that number is useless.
/r/seduction11/06/13 01:26 AM
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If you have time, make definitive plans beforehand. If not, when you get her number tell her "You know I'm gonna ask you out, right?". Also go for the #-close early. Don't wait for her to leave. Drop it into a lull in the conversation. "By the way, gimme your number so I can ask you out later."
/r/seduction11/06/13 01:16 AM
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Go up to her and say, how come we haven't hung out outside of work yet? Then invite her to come over and watch a movie or tv show together. Then kino the shit out of her. Then bang her.
/r/seduction11/06/13 01:13 AM
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Try less hard and be disinterested when you're not getting laid. If you stick around and do nice things for her if you're not trying to get laid, she'll think well, clearly he wants to be friends with me and not have sex with me.
/r/seduction11/06/13 01:11 AM
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Be more self destructive in social situations. That means don't worry about trying to make yourself look good. Make fun of yourself. Make an ass out of yourself and have a good time. Did you trip or do something embarrassing? Immediately say "Nobody saw me make an ass of myself, kay?" Or "Oh wow, that's attractive." Did you just get brutally rejected at the bar? Turn to the nearest girl and grin, saying "can you believe how big of a wreck I was back there?" Once you relieve yourself the burden o…
/r/seduction11/06/13 01:04 AM
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Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Text get to work on your text game. Build attraction through the phone. Practice using moves on her. Text a hot girl at a bar to get in state. Use her to have abundance mentality. Send her pictures of yourself before you go out to ask her advice on things, and if you look good, don't be shy about asking her to show you pics of her outfit before she goes out. Then text her all the raunchy thongs you wanna do to her all night long. At this point, play it cool and she'll send yo…
/r/seduction11/06/13 12:55 AM
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Diagonal. Best is side by side. Gives you and her the feeling that you're on the same team, figuring out stuff together, rather than two negotiators trying to work out a deal between you two. If you approach in the day, and you have a conversation, sit down next to or stand beside them, instead of in front of them. Huge comfort builder because essentially you and her share a space instead of having two separate spaces. Plus, sitting next to someone gives you huge Kino advantage without losing ey…
/r/seduction11/06/13 12:48 AM
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Pop it, lock it, blow it up, bring it back, up high, down low, bring it together, do the thumbs, chestbump, moonwalk.
/r/seduction10/06/13 10:21 PM
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Good stuff. I'm gonna try this at least once next time I go out. This sounds like it can easily turn into an interview session, all question and answer and no rapport building. How do you avoid sounding like a reporter?
/r/seduction10/06/13 12:36 PM
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Shut up, nerd.
/r/seduction10/06/13 06:24 AM
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A good way to reduce flake rates is yo set up the date as part of the encounter. You can do this a bunch of ways. I'm assuming you live in the same area. "Have you been to that new Greek place that opened up, I hear they have amazing hand made pitas." "I've always wanted to try that one sushi place down the street". "I can't believe you haven't been to Ironworks, hands down best BBQ in town". Find out what her interests and hobbies are. Invite her to something you're passionate about. "I don't k…
/r/seduction10/06/13 04:44 AM
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Getting over AA is only the first step, it sounds like you're opening but you're not getting #-closes. Keep trying stuff, see what works for you and keep practicing. Use % of successful #-closes every day as your metric to improve.
/r/seduction10/06/13 03:45 AM
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This comment thread just proves it's not important what you say, just how you say it.
/r/seduction10/06/13 03:36 AM
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It sounds like you were boring. Don't be boring. Be interesting and different. Be cocky and funny. If you don't know how to be funny, be punny. If you don't know how to be punny, make stupid comments and grin like an idiot. If you don't know how to grin, then congratulations on your recent viral success, Tardar Sauce.
/r/seduction08/06/13 03:09 PM
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I'm saying your best shot with her IS to be outcome independent and go after different girls at the same time.
/r/seduction08/06/13 03:58 AM
1

Welcome back, Project-Me, are you going to start doing your daily posts again sometime?
/r/seduction07/06/13 11:39 PM
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Hug her before you sit down. Try to sit her next to you (say come sit next to me, or sit in the chair next to her if she sits first). Or find a corner booth. Grab her hand or arm to emphasize points. Touch her back. Play with her hair. Does she have jewelry? Say you think it looks interesting and play with it. Do it if you can make it look natural, don't lunge across the table with your arms outstretched towards her throat to touch her necklace. Women might find that alarming.
/r/seduction07/06/13 11:34 PM
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If my advice to you was the website of a liberal activist group it would be http://moveon.org if I was to be more specific it would be http://moveon.org/&really=dont+be+pathetic+theres+plenty+of+fish+in+the+sea
/r/seduction07/06/13 11:30 PM
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Sexually innocent as in less experienced or less adventurous?
/r/seduction07/06/13 08:41 PM
3

TIL President Obama shakes a lot of hands, sometimes in different positions.
/r/seduction06/06/13 03:15 AM
1

It sounds like she was attracted to you before but is less into you now. I don't know the specifics with your situation but you might be treading into friend zone territory. If you are, you need to take immediate action. Stop hanging out with her as much. Make her work for your affection. Change the way you two interact so that you can change the nature of your relationship to one where there is more attraction. Things might not work out for you at this point, so you should be prepared to move o…
/r/seduction05/06/13 11:05 PM
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Shots, party games, dancing, weed. Never have I ever. Drinking games. Bring a white shirt and sharpies and tell people to draw on you. I once brought a fog machine and a black light to a party and hot boxed the bedroom and had a rave there.
/r/seduction02/06/13 04:44 PM
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Be the source of fun. Bring a bottle of chambourd and make girls take shots of it with you. Bitches love chambourd. Or bring mint schnapps and chocolate syrup and offer to make them a peppermint patty shot in their mouth. Or just do hilarious over the top dance moves. Bonus points if you end up with a tie on your head. Be fun party guy. Basically bring or create activities that bored people can take part in. Don't be a bored person.
/r/seduction02/06/13 02:47 PM
2

First things first. You are playing what's known as the long game, you're putting a girl on the backburner as a potential date prospect. Do not oneitis this girl, hit on other women in the meantime or you're gonna get rusty. It is hard to convey IOI's over im, and IOI's aren't that important until you can actually meet. The main IOI is level of interest she exhibits in talking to you. If she keeps iming you out of the blue then she is interested. If she ims you more than you im her, she's intere…
/r/seduction02/06/13 02:44 PM
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Scars don't affect your attractiveness as much if they're not on the face, but they do make good conversation topics. I once had a girl take off her shirt to show me her scoliosis surgery scar in a "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" conversation about scars. It just makes you more interesting, imo.
/r/seduction02/06/13 02:26 PM
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Game of thrones reference, weed reference, children's book reference. You're just everywhere, aren't you? Also Khal Drogo's name is Drogo, his title is Khal. You wouldn't say Kate Middleton's boyfriend was named Prince, would you?
/r/seduction01/06/13 06:58 PM
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These girls are the ones who are only looking for the most alpha guys, and respect confidence the most. They are also the most likely to put out. Don't half ass it with flirty girls. Go for broke and destroy her reality.
/r/seduction01/06/13 06:54 PM
2

A good metric for tipping is $1 for every drink in your hand regardless of whether or not you paid for them. If the drinks were strong or expensive, or hard to make, $3-$5 at the end of the evening.
/r/seduction01/06/13 06:38 PM
2

Girls don't know what they want. Bring a charming, confident man into her life and she'll feel weak in the knees.
/r/seduction01/06/13 05:06 PM
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Everybody needs an option c. EDIT: To clarify, the $20 isn't a bribe, it's a tip. Tell them you'd really appreciate it if you would help them impress this girl. This will guarantee that they remember you. Also, don't be surprised if they slip you a bunch of "free" drinks that night. You've already paid for them, but they look free to your date, extra social proof.
/r/seduction01/06/13 03:25 PM
5

Cheers, mate. Nice reference.
/r/seduction01/06/13 12:27 PM
3

Learn to be social without your friends.
/r/seduction01/06/13 11:46 AM
1

Agree and escalate. (in a super gay voice) If I'm gay then you wouldn't mind making out with me then? Now having a gay vibe isn't necessarily a bad thing. You get past a girl's bitch shields easily and they feel more comfortable with you. Just don't let it get to you, just think to yourself, ha you might think I seem gay but I'm gonna get you in my bedroom before you realize what happened. Edit: Great joke to tell in this situation. What does a gay horse eat? (in your best super gay voice) Haaaa…
/r/seduction01/06/13 05:28 AM
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This shit is gold. Get to know the bartender at any bar. Tip well. Make that bar your home base. Anytime you're there, say hi to the bartender by name. Instant social proof when they say hi back by name. Bonus points of the bartender is a girl. Extra bonus points of she's cute. You can always fake it, too. If you have time beforehand, go down to the bar when it's fairly empty and say hi, tell them you want to impress a girl, pay them $20 to know you by name. Thank them.
/r/seduction01/06/13 05:25 AM
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Don't compliment them on things they have no control over. Recognize personal effort and praise that. Also be specific and put some effort into it. "You are gorgeous" vs "I love the Zoey Deschanel look you have going on with your bangs and cute glasses".
/r/seduction01/06/13 01:47 AM
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You got friend zoned because you didn't Kino.
/r/seduction01/06/13 01:42 AM
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You should try this simple exercise. Try to get rejected 20 times in as hilarious a way as possible. Do this for self amusement. Them realize that if you have only a 5% chance of success at getting a girl's number, then by now you will have on average one girl's number. If you open 20 girls a week, you will have one new phone number a week. If only 10% of those will get you laid, you will sleep with a new girl every 2 and a half months. Also realize that the attractiveness of a girl does not mat…
/r/seduction01/06/13 01:38 AM
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Go out and do stupid shit to get laid, girls don't know any better.
/r/seduction01/06/13 01:32 AM
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Get in the mindset of "wow, this random chick totally lucked into getting me for a prom date." Find a good afterparty. Plan logistics. Be good at dancing. Or at least comfortable with making a fool out of yourself. Have a good sense of humor about the whole thing. Be fun and exciting, do exciting things to celebrate graduation the day before. Make sure your date is having fun. Openly discuss sex in conversation before putting the moves on her (tell her funny stories about your sex life or the se…
/r/seduction01/06/13 01:30 AM
1

Talk to a bunch of prettier girls as practice. Remember that none of those girls are for real, you're just using them as practice, so you can try out all your cool guy moves. Keep track of which ones work and which ones don't. This gives you motivation and a subconscious abundance mentality. Whenever you panic just remember that this isn't for real, it's alright if you mess up, you're just practicing. Practice escalating and closing. By the time you are ready to talk to gas station girl you will…
/r/seduction31/05/13 03:39 AM
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This sounds narcissistic but I the way I get into state is I go into a bathroom, fix my hair, tell myself I look awesome, and walk out again feeling like hot shit.
/r/seduction31/05/13 03:29 AM
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Thanks, Obama for sharing. This is a great example of the flip side of inner game, and there isn't enough posts on this subreddit about it. You acted like a creepy pickup guy trying to score, which is NOT what seduction is about. This is my philosophy, some people here might disagree. Seduction is about building attraction with the scoring part as a bonus at the end. Many people here just enjoy the thrill of the hunt. As my friend Steve would say, "I'm gonna go make these girls want me". Seducti…
/r/seduction28/05/13 12:07 AM
1

I have really bad AA with women of a certain level of hotness. Right now I'm focusing on blowing each HB10 I meet out in as hilarious a fashion as possible.
/r/seduction27/05/13 11:45 PM
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It is much easier to go after someone you know than to run random club game. Just try to get to know someone better and add tons of Kino and eye contact to build sexual tension.
/r/seduction27/05/13 02:42 PM
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Most people here would say, it doesn't matter if you see it, if you think you're hot, then girls WILL be checking you out. Just assume attraction
/r/seduction26/05/13 07:09 AM
1

Do you have any really charismatic guy friends? Or any guy friends who are really friendly with people and have a lot of people to hang out with on a regular basis? How do they talk to you? How do they talk to other people? What types of conversations do you have. Conversations with hot girls should start the same way as conversations with anybody else.
/r/seduction25/05/13 10:12 AM
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A big revelation I've had recently is how fundamentally easy college game is, and high school game is even simpler than that. In school, you are constantly surrounded by people your exact age, tons of social connections between everybody gives you tons of openers, you're allowed to get away with completely crazy stuff, everybody's insecure about themselves and willing to take chances. But most importantly, the baseline high school student is terrible at relationships and hookup, so any sincere a…
/r/seduction25/05/13 09:09 AM
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Baby steps. You're in high school, surrounded by girls who are exactly your age. Branch out. Talk to people in your class. Talk to their friends. Say hi to people you barely know. Say hi to strangers on a daily basis. Be more sociable and more friendly. Do the 100sets. That should start helping you get over AA.
/r/seduction25/05/13 03:07 AM
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Step 1. Read every link in the sidebar.
/r/seduction25/05/13 02:36 AM
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It means I'm comfortable doing stuff that seddit thinks is insane. That'll just get me more in state. Next time I go out and do stupid shit, I'll do it with the confidence that the haters on seddit can't pull this off.
/r/seduction25/05/13 02:31 AM
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I'm honestly flattered you think I'm a troll.
/r/seduction24/05/13 11:37 PM
1

What do your friends get out of hanging out with you?
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:54 PM
1

Is this the third time you've posted this exact post to this subreddit today?
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:14 PM
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Approach Anxiety. When guys talk themselves out of opening a set because of fear of rejection or fear of looking like an idiot. There's a glossary of terms in the sidebar.
/r/seduction24/05/13 05:23 PM
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Ladies and Gentlemen of seddit, there you have it, the perfect post to illustrate what goes on in the head of someone with AA. Tl;dr if you can't say hi to girls without being creepy then you suck.
/r/seduction24/05/13 05:18 PM
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Cause guys think "that will never work" to talk themselves out of trying stuff.
/r/seduction24/05/13 04:56 PM
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Those were all shit tests. And you failed them. The sidebar has more on shit tests but the gist of it is, don't take them seriously don't answer them directly. You've made good progress, though, so it's important to analyze and consolidate to lock in what you've learned.
/r/seduction24/05/13 04:24 PM
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Are you sure you haven't been in love with her this whole time, and you're using the 80's movie trope of newly sexualized childhood friend to make yourself look better to seddit?
/r/seduction24/05/13 04:19 PM
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On the contrary, I love white girls. I love cute conservative Christian white girls, I love blowing their cute conservative Christian minds.
/r/seduction24/05/13 04:15 PM
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That girl is now officially in love with you.
/r/seduction24/05/13 04:08 PM
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I literally just made that one up. Here's a couple more. I need you to guard this table with your lives. Would you like me to teach you how to Dougie? And perennial favorite, WHAT YEAR IS IT?
/r/seduction24/05/13 04:04 PM
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You remind me of that girl from Pulp Fiction, I just wanna stab a needle through your heart. Smooth as Fuck.
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:54 PM
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Go up to them and say this exact sentence. "Hello, I am a duck." Then act like a duck. Be confident. They will either find it funny and laugh or they will think you're a weirdo. Either way, maintain a good sense of humor about it. Even if the set doesn't work, you've made good progress.
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:35 PM
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Very true, I'd like to add the point that a lot of people will try to make, "How do I get good at sex without anyone to have sex with?" While it's true that telling someone who can't find any sex partner that they way to improve their game is to get better at sex is like telling a thirsty man in the desert his water bottle is open, this can still be helpful. Start reading up on good sexual habits on /r/sex. Start experimenting sexually with a willing partner if you can find one (make it casual, …
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:25 PM
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Good luck with med school apps, just make sure you're not using them as an excuse for AA.
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:12 PM
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Be confident. Don't lack confidence. Use 3 second rule, open a set within 3 seconds of seeing them, and do so with confidence. Don't give a fuck. You are now not a creepy dude. Which makes you infinitely more attractive than every creepy dude at the convention. You can even "protect her" from creepy guys at the con. Last but not least, don't go to the con just to hit on girls, it makes you creepy.
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:58 PM
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Pretend like you and her are secretly fucking and nobody knows. Revel in your manliness.
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:50 PM
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I love the moral standards in this subreddit, being an asshole to women because I want to sleep with them, okay. Being an asshole to women because of race, not okay. Keep bringing on the downvotes, haters.
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:38 PM
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Yes. There are girls out there who will absolutely not go for Asian guys, there are girls who think Asians all have tiny dicks and we're bad boyfriend material because of how different we are. However, Asians are also thought of as more intelligent and successful. I've literally dated a white girl who exclusively goes after nonwhites because in her words, white people were to close to her genetic phenotype (that girl was a total freak). You also get an in on Asian girls that white guys don't hav…
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:36 PM
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Parks, coffee houses, beaches, concerts, restaurants, farmer markets, the mall. What do people do for fun other than drink?
/r/seduction24/05/13 01:27 AM
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Only a white asshole from the suburbs can think it's okay to be this casually racist. Dickhead. EDIT: This has been fun, seeing my comment karma go up for being one type of dick and seeing it go down for being another kind of dick.
/r/seduction24/05/13 12:43 AM
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ALPHA AS FUCK
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:22 PM
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Robert Greene has a good series of books that probably help you out. Art of seduction / Laws of Power / Mastery. You can always check out the always helpful How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/seduction23/05/13 07:49 PM
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Don't force yourself to do anything that doesn't feel right. If you're exhausted after work, dragging yourself to bars filled with 20 year olds is not going to help your game if you're not a bars/club type person, and that's totally okay. There are plenty of other options out there. Look up some of the day game posts out there. All a good sedditor needs is a good state to get them going.
/r/seduction23/05/13 07:47 PM
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Leave windows open and be good at climbing.
/r/seduction23/05/13 06:42 PM
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Make yourself irresistible to all women and show her everything she's missing out on.
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:47 PM
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I'm slightly average looking, I dress and groom myself nicely, I'm slightly overweight and don't take care of my body at all. I just wake up every day and tell myself, okay chanyourmind, today you're gonna be baller.
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:43 PM
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The alpha move would be to break up with her right now. Tell her that you can tell she's still into Alex, say you're not a chump, be a man about it, don't be some kicked puppy all broken hearted. It didn't work, move on. If she really was long term material she'll come back at you in a month or two. I've been chumped on before, dumped the girl, didn't look back, reconnected yesterday, made out with her in the middle of the street, never gonna call her again.
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:41 PM
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You don't need parties. The first one works wonders on shy girls. "It's so sad you'll leave before we could say goodbye", "you've been so important to me I wanted to say bye in person". I've asked every single girl I've ever had a major crush on in college and have k-closed all but one of them this way. I've unfriendzoned 3 girls in 3 days. Just play to their emotional state, empathize and intensify. Make them feel nostalgic "I've been trying to figure out when we first met", "remember when we b…
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:38 PM
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If she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you. So ask yourself, do you feel you, as a man deserve her more than her ex, and if you do, do something about it. If you allow yourself to feel insecure about your relationship, she will sense it and she will go over to the better mate. Do not blame your paranoia on pot. Blame your paranoia on your own insecurities and commitment issues. If you are insecure about your relationship then she is not long term material. Mentally prepare yourself to dump her…
/r/seduction23/05/13 05:28 PM
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