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your assets wont help you or hurt you; It all comes down to your attitude. If money helped, all the people with money would be the great seducers. You don't need to bring the topic of money into conversation, and don't need to emphasize if it ever comes up, do the rest of the pua stuff.
/r/seduction07/08/15 09:08 PM
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true
/r/seduction28/06/15 05:32 PM
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you know there are very good looking young girls who likes wussy guys; dominatrix.
/r/seduction28/06/15 04:49 PM
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Is that true or your belief? confidence is subjective.. so we can not measure it; I myself know many guys who are not confident and having girlfriend and relationship. In that case rest of your answer is not correct, You don't need Money, You don't need Stable job, You don't need Fame, You don't need Independence, and similar way Confidence is not needed but its hard to prove because its subjective. But somehow people come to conclusion that there is certain things you require in order to get gi…
/r/seduction28/06/15 04:13 PM
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if this the case people without any of those wont have girls or relationship; I am sure you know guys without any of the things above having girls and relationships.
/r/seduction28/06/15 02:45 PM
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hire an escort and get over the virginity. I know /r/seduction will tell you otherwise; but I know it will push you way head on learning process because you will get rid of the horrible feeling of being a virgin, which will allow other aspect of your personality shine. (was virgin till 27 so; know what I am talking about)
/r/seduction28/06/15 02:41 PM
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give an example so we can understand.
/r/seduction20/02/15 05:13 PM
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what are the some comfort zone challenges? is there any list?
/r/seduction09/02/15 04:56 AM
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hire a escort to get over the v-card
/r/seduction06/02/15 05:43 AM
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You are fine, is that your beliefs systems is wrong. There are certain beliefs that you have to internalize in order to have a healthy outlook on life. One of them is to love yourself more then anyone else. If you met someone just like you, same personality, same skill level, same manners, same job, same everything would you be glad you met that person or you never want to see them again. If you don't love yourself why would anyone would? Find out what would make you love yourself more and start…
/r/seduction01/02/15 05:57 AM
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Feelings are not real. It's your body reacting based on the belief system you have in your head. Conciously choose to do something. You see hot girl, tell yourself "I choose to find out if she is friendly". Then approach, your body will eventually be ok with approching.
/r/seduction17/01/15 04:19 PM
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let your friend have the girl, and go find other girls, there are plenty of girls everywhere.
/r/seduction16/12/14 07:15 AM
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improv - you will be able to make shit up on the moment.
/r/seduction04/12/14 03:49 AM
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Any situation you want to be confident in tell yourself "I choose to be confident now". Then act as if you are confident. Eventually you will be.
/r/seduction29/11/14 04:43 PM
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People are trying to improve and they are asking for help. Everyone start from where they are. If you want to and if you can help, then give help, if not just ignore.
/r/seduction29/11/14 04:31 PM
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wouldn't you kiss a random girl before your date? women are no different if they are allowed to be free of judgement there will be lot more sex.
/r/seduction28/11/14 09:22 PM
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it all comes down to to how you ask. if you ask personal question out of no where it would be uncomfortable. if you lead to the question it will be the natural progress of the conversation. sample: Y: how are you? H: I am good, how are you? Y: I am doing fine, [you tell story] just visited my family other day and my father said... bla bla bla H: oh really.. thats cool.. [she respond with give some thing back] Y: Don't you wonder how people, care for their family and bla bla bla [ get deeper] H: …
/r/seduction28/11/14 05:09 PM
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now get specific list for each city, so we have list in each city to do something fun for cheap.
/r/seduction12/11/14 06:01 PM
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confident is an illusion, you don't have to do anything to get it. you should feel that you are enough for any girl you gonna meet, that's all. It all comes down to how you feel. If you are asking this question I assume that you have some beliefs that make you think you are not enough. Find out what it is and eliminate it.
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:32 AM
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seduction is based on emotion not logic, if you want to seduce a girl you go for her emotional interaction, where her feelings are involved. Sex and attraction are processed in the animal brain not the frontal cortex which was evolved much later for logic. Same reason artist are more attractive then accountants.
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:25 AM
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respect
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:10 AM
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Correct. When you have options, your obsession will go away.
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:50 PM
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Did anyone have oneitus while having regular sex and many options?
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:48 PM
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Find seduce and fuck 10 girls. You will forget your ex name. Oneitus is simply your body telling you to procreate, the chemical and hormones in your body are encouraging you to go get laid. As soon as you get regular sex it will go away.
/r/seduction27/09/14 02:19 PM
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"It's Not You, It's Biology by Joe Quirk" fun book to read not totally on women psychology also includes genetics http://www.amazon.com/Its-Not-You-Biology-Relationships-ebook/dp/B001M5JVDY
/r/seduction08/09/14 06:31 PM
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Only person you should compare is you today and the you from yesterday.
/r/seduction08/09/14 05:20 AM
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"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein
/r/seduction04/09/14 05:27 AM
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meetup, dance, hobbies, and other general interest classes.
/r/seduction01/09/14 05:36 PM
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pay for sex. it is simple fast way to get rid of your v card and you anxiety about sex.
/r/seduction01/09/14 05:34 PM
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female attraction toward male is not based on physical appearance. so answer to your question is NO.
/r/seduction28/08/14 05:12 PM
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http://www.amazon.com/Its-Not-You-Biology-Relationships-ebook/dp/B001M5JVDY
/r/seduction27/08/14 04:41 PM
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kino, eye contact, body language, story telling, qualification.
/r/seduction26/08/14 07:21 AM
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easiest way to become player is to develop your social skills. learn how to have a good meaningful conversation ( you have to put yourself in situation where you have to talk to people, join clubs, volunteer, get involved in activities where you have better chance of meeting girls, take improv or acting classes - one thing that all pua teachers have in common is their background in acting or improv) having a open and inviting body language, voice, eye contact, kino (search body-language and prac…
/r/seduction24/08/14 05:24 PM
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give us more information on your experience, so we can guide you in the right direction. how old are you? why you want to be a player? are you doing it for sex only? any other info that might help to give you specific guidance.
/r/seduction24/08/14 04:41 PM
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hug is a must if its a date. you are getting physical right away, so nothing will be awkward later on.
/r/seduction17/08/14 04:56 PM
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go out more by yourself; ethnicity is not major obstacle for seduction, usually it is an advantage because you are exotic.
/r/seduction17/08/14 04:53 PM
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ethnicity do not play major role in seduction. what you are seeing is limiting belief.
/r/seduction17/08/14 04:47 PM
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I never been in your situation, here are the list of the things that people who have been thorough your situation have done to get out. move away form where you are cut friends who temp you in this path work out read find social group or other hobbies meditate get into /r/GetMotivated go to doctor check up to see if you have any deficiencies eat healthy food
/r/seduction17/08/14 04:46 PM
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how often have gone out by yourself?
/r/seduction17/08/14 04:40 PM
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goal of life is to have fun, be happy and enjoy the moment. everything you do is to get you there; so path are different but the goal is same. so having a goal help you to get there, but if you don't just remember the above.
/r/seduction17/08/14 04:36 PM
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tldr - pull her hair and run away... she will chase you.
/r/seduction13/08/14 05:51 PM
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take salsa dance class, and impov acting class.
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:51 AM
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you need to find 10 chicks, seduce them and fuck them, then come back and post this question here.
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:50 AM
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agree with you, op is in his head; need to change his attitude and beliefs.
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:38 AM
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Indians are exotic creature in white areas ;)
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:34 AM
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took bootcamp with lovesystems, it was complete waste of money.
/r/seduction03/08/14 04:41 PM
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yes I have been through lovesystems boot-camp cost me $3k. it is complete waste of money, they don't teach anything that you can not find on r/seduction
/r/seduction03/08/14 04:38 PM
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absolutely everything you need for pick up is available in /r/seduction don't waste your money.
/r/seduction03/08/14 04:41 AM
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girls are not solution to your loneliness
/r/seduction28/07/14 02:42 PM
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thanks for the answer, I see that more and more women are becoming sexually liberated, hopefully this will catch on fast enough.
/r/seduction19/07/14 04:11 AM
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thanks, great explanation :)
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:13 AM
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Women will be whatever you want them to be. (if you are clear in your intentions) can you explain this.
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:05 AM
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thanks for the input, that is a very valid point many newbies miss, and wonder what they are doing wrong. Yes, I have lost so many girls being too romantic in my early high-school years, dint know what I was doing wrong till I got into game, and started learning the female psychology. It is not that girls wants ass-holes it just they want a man who is strong and independent, who can take care of himself. Who can stand for his own actions and beliefs. If you look at ass-holes they do have those q…
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:01 AM
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Women enjoy sex more just by the biological fact. They can have longer and repeated orgasm in one sexual encounter. There are more nerve ending and stimulant in her body that can be aroused for sex. Sex is lot more grand and longer experience for women. For men it is just another short climax.
/r/seduction19/07/14 12:03 AM
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Thanks for the input. How do you make sure shes not feeling like a slut? Do you verbalize that or there are other way to overcome your point 3?
/r/seduction18/07/14 11:56 PM
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I go through this everyday. If i am better then i was yesterday i am doing something right. Life is a progress of yourself, from where you are to where you want to be.
/r/seduction18/07/14 11:49 PM
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sorry about the wrong wording, women like men who are players.
/r/seduction18/07/14 09:00 PM
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do a palm-reading; if younger girl thumb wrestling it will lead to kino and hand holding, problem solved.
/r/seduction18/07/14 08:48 PM
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women do not feel attraction in the same way as men do, for men it is like hunger you see good food, you feel that you want to eat it; highly a physical attraction; but for women it is more like a book, you can not look at the book's cover and decide if it is worth your time or not. you have to read the book in order to feel its worth and to decide if you want put it down and move on or keep on reading it.
/r/seduction18/07/14 08:44 PM
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Game is all about intimacy. A PUA is just a man who can create an illusion of intimacy very quickly. can you elaborate?
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:27 PM
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thanks for the list; listening was my aha moment too.
/r/seduction18/07/14 04:50 PM
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initially usually acting confident will make you confident, even if you know you are acting, it is the first step. eventually you don't have to think about it, it will be natural, proper body language will make you confident. what other people think about you is their business, you have nothing to do with it. practice, practice, and more practice until your body and mind internalize the confident. in general a healthy lifestyle will make you confident unconsciously, if you know you can take care…
/r/seduction18/07/14 04:45 PM
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http://reactiongifs.me/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/lebron-james-approves.gif
/r/seduction18/07/14 03:52 PM
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confidence is the key, simile, make eye contact, if she is receptive extend your hand palm up she will give her hand ( if she doesn't do a silly move with your hand and keep dancing) gaming on the dance floor is all physical no talking other than few words, of "hey.." or "nice move"
/r/seduction18/07/14 03:36 PM
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its ok to fantasize, but remember fantasy and reality are not same; there is no perfect girl, there are many and each one unique in herself. hope you not going to hypnotize yourself to develop oneitis is a hard thing to get over.
/r/seduction10/07/14 09:35 PM
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congratulations!
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:58 PM
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paying for it works, I have taken this route and is the fastets way to get confident. second go take some salsa classes, or some dance class where you have to interact with women.
/r/seduction22/06/14 03:13 PM
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nothing wrong with being single. if you can not be vulnerable you wont have intimacy having girlfriend does not means you will be happy the idea of romantic intimate relationship that you seen in movies and tv shows are just that, they are fiction; real life is much more messy being lonely has lots to do with people you are hanging out with and your attitude about not being able to open about your feelings and emotions. If you can share your deep feeling and vulnerable side you will feel much mo…
/r/seduction22/06/14 04:10 AM
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seduction only happens in person, not over text or chat. yes you need to talk to her in person if you want anything to happens.
/r/seduction14/06/14 02:26 PM
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lol.. did your hormone tell you that she is the special one, there is no special ones, its all in your head. You don't even know the girls name, or who she is; she could be the psychotic who will cut off your dick. you will never know until you get to know her. If she dint have the cute body and the face you want to fuck so hard you wont even ask this question. Will you be thinking the way you are thinking now if this cute girl was a guy? Love is just a another word for I want to fuck her so har…
/r/seduction14/06/14 02:13 PM
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you need to post it in http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/ learn to talk and how to keep the flow of conversation. rejection is part of pick up, if you are too invested in the outcome it will kill your charm and flow of conversation. why the fuck it matter this girls likes you or not? even if she rejects you it all learning experience. get a generic option or situational opener and just talk to her, then invite her to do something outside of gym.
/r/seduction14/06/14 01:57 PM
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Definitely you should tell her, but try to seduce her first; don't expect anything in return, or anything wonderful to come out of it. It might be well end of friendship unless you can seduce her. Right now your judgement are clouded with the "romantic ideology" in real life there is no such thing. As a guy who went through this same situation in my teens; my advice is move on and find many other girls to befriend and have fun with. Usual Seddit Advice: find ten girls seduce and f-close them, af…
/r/seduction12/06/14 05:53 PM
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don't compare others success with yours; it is futile and will always bring you down, there will be more successful people then you in all endeavour in life; compare your success now with your success in your past. feeling uncomfortable is a good thing as long as you channel the energy into your progress.
/r/seduction07/06/14 05:27 PM
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search for conversation in /r/seduction there were many useful ideas, also taking some impov classes helps. if you must have a standard story, or questions that leads to some interesting conversations, maybe some canned materials like opinion question. "My friend girl cheated on with him with her ex-boyfriend should my friend take her back?"
/r/seduction20/04/14 07:03 PM
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if he thinks girls are easy he wont post here.
/r/seduction20/04/14 06:58 PM
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take improve class
/r/seduction21/02/14 10:01 PM
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get over your virginity (pay for it, easy and fast way to loose it) join improve class, you will become much more interesting person join salsa dance class (give you chance to interact with girls without rejection) learn how to keep conversation going. learn seduction, kino, eye contact (extremely important) pick up girls, seduce everyone :) have lots of sex and enjoy the life :)
/r/seduction12/02/14 03:04 AM
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I went to a massage parlour and they took care of my virginity problem. First time I couldn't even cum; but I was no longer a virgin, my dick got into a women vagina. Sexual conversation hardly lead to sex, because you are trying to convince her logical brain to think about sex, not many women want to do that. Instead make her body feel the sexual tension by kino and your body language and confident (read about kino). This will turn the women more sexually then the best sexual conversation you g…
/r/seduction19/01/14 02:02 PM
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the ford. family, occupation, recreation, dreams mostly about them, you have to be interested in what they are saying and able to relate or expand. conversation is 80% listening and 20% talking.
/r/seduction16/12/13 03:35 AM
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book "psycho-cybernetics" by maxwell maltz
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:09 PM
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"That is pretty interesting." vs "that arouse my interest deeply"; you are saying the same thing but second one is sexual.
/r/seduction22/10/13 04:14 AM
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my 2cents, sexual intent is not shown by words. most of them are shown through kino, body language, voice, tone, the words you use, seductive smile, seductive eye contact.
/r/seduction21/10/13 06:14 PM
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psycho-cybernetic by maxwell maltz - this is for life in general also good help for inner game.
/r/seduction19/10/13 06:15 PM
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absolute forgiveness. (sound easy but very hard)
/r/seduction19/10/13 06:12 PM
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no one is perfect; so tell me what are the some bad qualities about this girl?
/r/seduction17/10/13 05:07 PM
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Social Group how did you build it? Is there how to guide to get wider social circle?
/r/seduction28/09/13 07:37 PM
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there are many other places beside bars to meet girls, have you tried shopping malls, library, school, these places are much more friendlier place to talk to anyone, also gay bar is frequented by horny women. how anyone get good at anything, they practice till it become second nature. confident comes with practice. if you really don't want to have girls in your life at this time its all good, just do what you have to do, no one is forcing you to do anything.
/r/seduction08/09/13 11:20 PM
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i think he is 24-25 ish
/r/seduction08/09/13 03:36 PM
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is not what you talk about, is how you do it. he is laughing, being confident.
/r/seduction08/09/13 03:35 PM
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true: people remember how you made them feel, not what information you were exchanging.
/r/seduction05/09/13 06:42 PM
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my 2cents. Issue is not the height here. You had too much stake, because you were looking for girlfriend, be "outcome independent". Girls have this very keen sense of detecting the desperation. food for thought "everyone is same height laying down" :)
/r/seduction24/08/13 03:41 PM
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I would say. 1: learn to talk to anyone in any situation - very important 2: seduction stars with eye contact - learn how to do it 3: kino is important if you want to get intimate fast - learn how to do it properly 4: make friends everywhere - it will be very helpful in life 5: everything take practice - so practice till you can do it without thinking about it.
/r/seduction18/08/13 03:41 PM
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Beliefs has no truth to them, they are ideas that you accepted as real, because your brain need a guided-set of rules to follow in order to survive. It might have been based on previous experience but your beliefs are your and yours only, It does not valid for others. They are empowering beliefs and limiting beliefs. Empowering if it make you happy and limiting if it make you suffer. "1.) My college is 58% guys and 42% girls." -- this has nothing to do with you attracting girls -- naturally only…
/r/seduction23/06/13 07:12 AM
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only person who can stop you form your success is you, you are fucking responsible for everything you do and don't do. No one is forcing you with gun on your head to make you do things. You are fucking deciding what you are doing and not doing. So take responsibility for your actions and non-actions. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU. Oh you are virgin and dint have any success, who the fuck you think is responsible for you being virgin and not having success. yes; that's ri…
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:21 PM
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I know I am going everything the seddit advising but once you get over the "I am virgin" mentality it gets lot more easier. I been in the same shoe and it got lot more easier after I paid for loosing it. Get over your virginity first, just pay to get it over with. I am sure wherever you live you can find massage parlour or some place for few hundred dollars can take care of your virginity issues.
/r/seduction01/05/13 03:13 PM
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way he is talking is called sexual innuendo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-olV_st5X8
/r/seduction23/03/13 02:47 PM
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yes
/r/seduction23/03/13 05:52 AM
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how would you feel if someone does the same thing to you?
/r/seduction08/03/13 02:28 PM
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unfortunately it would be hard to find such girls, if they are gold diggers you would not know about it till she take most of your money, only then you will realize she is a gold digger. If you just want to fuck girls and you have money escort is great idea, just do it, nothing wrong with it. Girls are little complicated, which means they are not logical. They respond to emotionally first. It would be hard for guys to understand but when you realize this and understand in core level you will be …
/r/seduction02/03/13 08:30 PM
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fuck 10 other women and see if you still feel the same way about this hb10.
/r/seduction19/02/13 03:17 PM
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key is body language: staring at her eyes, and thinking what you would like to do when you get her naked. seductive voice, seductive smile, kino. but sometime verbal: tell her she smells nice, that remind you of a girl that you were sexually attracted to. tell a story that is sexual, but not creepy. ask her what she think about something that involve some sexual element.
/r/seduction12/02/13 05:36 AM
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I see that money is not an issue; have you thought about hiring a coach to guide you through? it is much more easier if you get someone to guide you through then doing it all alone. You will save time and energy and will have much more fun doing it.
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:04 AM
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real story. there was a lonely girl5 who is not that attractive she has a good attractive friend girl7, girl5 find it very hard to attract guys on okcupid or anywhere else. girl7 feels sorry for her ugly friend girl5. girl7 decide she needs to help this poor girl5 so invite a random guy for a date with her then introduce the girl5 to the guy. guy feel special that random girl like him, fuck girl5 and feels happy. the end.
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:14 PM
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what meditation do you do? how you do it? just want to know what and how you do it.
/r/seduction06/02/13 10:32 PM
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"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein First thing you have to change is your beliefs; do you even believe that change is possible? No one is stopping you from improving your life; only person capable of stopping your success with women is you, yes you read that right, is you and only you. Take fucking responsibility for you life and and do shit to change it. Who the fuck told you identity is set on stone? Stop you fucking dumb c…
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:12 PM
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What stops you from saying "you are cute", is the conversation that happens in your head while you are talking to the girl, and the beliefs that you have to say it in the proper time and proper moment in a proper way; well you want it to be perfect. There is nothing perfect in the world, nothing. You can say cute anywhere in the conversation in anyway you want, as long as you feel that what you want to do. I felt the same way when I started in this journey, I got over it by brute force by just s…
/r/seduction01/02/13 01:29 AM
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I haven't found a single person who learned swimming by reading books on how to swim.
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:36 PM
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when you feel the fear/anxiety try to breath deep and slowly, only different between fear and excitement is that we breath while we are excited and breathing stops while in fear. Changing physiology will change emotion. Usually what stop you from approaching anyone is the dialogue that happens in your head, whenever you have these dialogue that happening in your head just acknowledged they are there and tell your mind "thank you for sharing", your mind will calm down or the dialogue will just go…
/r/seduction26/01/13 07:08 PM
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If she wants to be with her ex, let her; everyone is free to choose who they want to spend time with. my 2cents, there are plenty of much more beautiful women the one you got now, go find them and have fun. Domineering other in order to gain something is trait of a douche bag, You don't have to become the douche in order to get a girl.
/r/seduction26/01/13 06:38 PM
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29
/r/seduction21/12/12 04:35 AM
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If your goal is to just to get laid, and the methods these teachers are advocating works; I don't see any problem with it. Different gurus different perspective. Deal with it.
/r/seduction11/12/12 08:33 PM
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Here is my 2cents that I had hard time coming to terms with. If you are not happy with yourself the way you are now, its not going to make different in the way you feel when you get girl in your life. Happiness in not dependent on girls or sex. For loneliness get involved in group setting, and activities that you will be doing with group of people, I am sure there are many group activities that's goes on your neighbourhood that you get involved for free. And make friends. Let me repeat this to y…
/r/seduction27/10/12 08:44 PM
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take improv class, it fun and you will meet cool people guys and girls.
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:47 PM
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I know a guy who used "alligator wrestler" as his job description, I saw him do this few times and always get great fun conversation out of it.
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:01 PM
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what can I start doing in Toronto, Canada?
/r/seduction25/09/12 03:57 PM
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working on solving world hunger. feeding the hungry.
/r/seduction12/09/12 06:45 PM
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just curious how did you get into this? I myself want to do something similar and I assume is very profitable.
/r/seduction12/09/12 06:42 PM
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great; this works for oneitus too.
/r/seduction12/09/12 06:39 PM
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real estate agent
/r/seduction11/09/12 08:17 AM
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oneitus twice, was 27 and virgin.
/r/seduction05/09/12 06:53 AM
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failure is part of success. http://i.imgur.com/jiVwh.jpg
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:40 PM
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I am short (5'3) and feel that women don't like short guys. There is voice in my head that says that she wont like me because you are short.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:49 AM
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sorry to tell you this, learn to use "sorry" in all your sentences, its a Canadian magic word for attraction.
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:20 AM
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would you be able to give step by step instruction how to find and changing the beliefs you have to fit your body or type. how do I know which beliefs are stopping me form emitting the attractive vibe? once I find out the beliefs that blocking, how to change or replace with new beliefs? thanks
/r/seduction20/08/12 02:11 AM
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awesome man! keep up the good work.
/r/seduction17/08/12 01:59 AM
1

dude is definitely insecure, that is not an excuse to bitch about friend's success. It might take long time for the OP's friend brain to click, and op will spend all that time not improving his life because his friend brain dint click. I say that is a big bull-poop to take.
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:03 PM
2

It is your body language that make them avoid you. Find out what you are doing wrong and change it. Look up how to have open body language and practice it. Most important are posture and smile. my 2cents.
/r/seduction12/08/12 04:00 PM
30

if a friend bitches about you getting laid with hot girl, he is not your friend. I used to have friend just like your friend, then I found the seduction community and one by one I let all of them go and formed much more deeper friendship with other great guys. I am much more happier now. If you surround with people who are negative, your life will be surround by negative feelings. It is simple, you will be average of the five people you spend the time with financially, emotionally, and physical …
/r/seduction12/08/12 03:57 PM
1

summary please.
/r/seduction02/03/12 04:45 PM
3

“Courage is the path to freedom. Courage leads to happiness. Happiness leads to love. Love lead to enlightenment.” - yoda reversed
/r/seduction27/02/12 08:04 AM
1

from experience i would suggest loose the v-card, it will give you give you frame to work with, and you will be much more confident when you know you already have done it. definitively made me escalate faster, and be more confident around women.
/r/seduction23/10/11 03:22 PM
1

congrats! seducer-in-training. put reminder on your phone wallpaper, on what to do each time you see girl. such eye contact, kino and basic conversation skills. it will remind you everyday so you will improve faster.
/r/seduction09/09/11 12:18 AM
1

this one worked for me http://youtu.be/R3Kei1vpP3Q then, i practiced smile on the mirror, it took long before getting it right. practice smiling in front of mirror, and holding your smile for long time 2-3 min at time, eventually it will feel natural.
/r/seduction09/09/11 12:03 AM
0

test your smile, i have been trying out few smiles and i found the one which works for me the best. test out few different smiles and choose the one best suits you. how: practicing in front of mirror for 15-20 min each day for few days. this will help you to work the muscles that make your face smile.
/r/seduction08/09/11 03:39 AM
9

how many fake facebook friends do you have? how do you manage them? can you explain me little more details, thanks.
/r/seduction05/07/11 05:24 AM
2

for dance join salsa dance, usually more girls then guys and its very social.
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:40 PM
2

magnetic mindset by cory skyy
/r/seduction27/06/11 06:43 PM
1

thanks, i will look it up.
/r/seduction26/06/11 07:25 PM
2

one word. kino. you should not leave any part of her body untouched.
/r/seduction26/06/11 07:14 PM
1

how do you practice smiling? been trying to do this for few months now and cant seems to get it.
/r/seduction25/06/11 02:13 PM
7

coming to similar conclusion. it seems that guys are the one short-changed; all the work, all the time, and expenses while girls just get ride. even in sex women enjoy the sex more then guys. guys make the cake, and the girls eat the cake. (as put by one of my gf)
/r/seduction25/06/11 02:39 AM
2

who are the 25 names? would like to have them. thanks.
/r/seduction24/06/11 01:05 AM
1

thanks, interesting videos... i like the interview with john Stewart
/r/seduction22/06/11 08:12 PM
2

health >10 wealth > 10 love < 1
/r/seduction12/06/11 01:15 PM
1

http://www.ehow.com/video_2385727_magicians-choice-coin-prediction.html
/r/seduction09/06/11 03:18 AM
1

summary pls. thanks. :)
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:16 AM
1

thank you :)
/r/seduction23/05/11 05:23 AM
3

28/M When i was 15, i got a crush on a friend of mine. She found out that I liked her, she stopped talking to me completely. Since then i could not approach or become romantically interested in any girl. I had fear of rejection developed so deeply it lasted for last 12 years. Only recently i was able to break through this block.
/r/seduction19/05/11 05:00 AM
2

similar thing happed to me when i was 15 and it hurt me a lot, i become so much introvert, shy and antisocial it lasted for 12 years, the thing that made me realize the truth and eventually break through this block was few good advice. Here is the advice i got. do not put girl on pedestal, girls are just good looking men. girl do shit and there shit smells like your shit too. just imagine the girl who told you taking a bid dump and it smells same as your dump or worst, imagine this until it don'…
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:54 AM
27

men look for beauty in women, women look for survival-value in men.
/r/seduction14/05/11 09:49 PM
2

join a pua club near your area, you will meet like minded people who you can practice the pua/game.
/r/seduction14/05/11 09:23 PM
1

anything going on here yet?
/r/seduction03/05/11 06:52 PM
1

where? info site?
/r/seduction27/04/11 01:49 AM
1

hey im in.
/r/seduction27/04/11 01:37 AM
2

I was that guy, few years ago. (Slowly changing) He likes you a lot, I mean he thinks you are cute and you are beautiful; but afraid to say or do anything to show interest. The reasoning behind is he has serious case of fear of rejection to the deep of his core, low confidence and combination of shame and guilt associated with showing love for another person. He might been rejected in a dramatic way in the past, which he could not get over. Even though he sees you a beautiful person who he would…
/r/seduction27/04/11 01:28 AM
3

*A couple of openers *3 stories that display value and convey attractive attributes about you *Questions that build rapport with other people where can i find these?
/r/seduction13/04/11 03:28 AM
-5

have you thought about paying for sex first time.
/r/seduction02/04/11 12:30 AM
0

"May the Force be with you"
/r/seduction31/03/11 06:04 AM
1

lol.. good video.. to the point.
/r/seduction30/03/11 01:04 AM
2

anyone has cheat sheet pdf copy?
/r/seduction21/03/11 02:35 AM
2

agreed.
/r/seduction18/03/11 03:47 AM
1

anyone for Toronto?
/r/seduction17/03/11 04:58 AM
1

"You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink" on the other hand everyone change, in their own phase, so you don't need to force him, just let him know what he can do, and suggest how it can improve his life.
/r/seduction09/03/11 04:32 AM
4

better video / different angles: 1: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-G-cBND9cN4 2: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nU7dxkIz1Vs black eyed pies girl start the dancing http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QnJ49hv5Rho
/r/seduction06/03/11 02:04 AM
1

You're the Best Around Lyrics http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXO3gKfOUN8 Nina Simone - Feeling Good http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CJA69C6SlRk Muse - Feeling Good (Video) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmwRQqJsegw Michael Bublé - Feeling Good (Video) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Edwsf-8F3sI
/r/seduction01/03/11 05:53 PM
1

thanks.
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:20 PM
-5

can someone please put this in simple terms. too long to read.
/r/seduction28/02/11 01:03 AM
1

is there any books or other materials on story telling?
/r/seduction27/02/11 01:52 PM
1

in case you have not figure it out, everyone on seddit is in different stage of development; not everyone was raised or know about how to deal with girls, and many of us never even had a decent conversation with girl when we looked for help to improve in this area of life. people will take their own path to development.. so just hold your horses and let it be..
/r/seduction24/02/11 03:39 AM
1

museum, art gallery, botanical garden
/r/seduction21/02/11 02:52 AM
1

where is the link?
/r/seduction16/02/11 03:04 AM
1

lol.. that one angry answer! thanks for the answer anyway. sorry about the mistake of posting at Seddit, i did not know that /AskSeddit was open.
/r/seduction12/02/11 11:53 PM
-2

Yes we should have /AskSeddit
/r/seduction12/02/11 10:28 AM
1

are you in Toronto?
/r/seduction12/02/11 10:27 AM
3

good job bro! :)
/r/seduction07/02/11 02:49 PM
1

"Hi there... having fun!" - worked for me
/r/seduction07/02/11 02:42 PM
2

good re-framing, thanks for the insight.
/r/seduction07/02/11 02:38 PM
2

where do we find these sex addicts? i think it would make the work little bit easier. (virgin here)
/r/seduction05/02/11 09:47 PM
1

i noticed that if you have fun, the girls comes around you to dance. This happened few times in the club, when me and my friend started dancing and making fun of each other the girls just hop by and danced around us, then it matter of time before stat kino then to grinding.. is there a reddit for learning to club dance?
/r/seduction05/02/11 02:05 AM
0

hey good to know you find out about this, you can be a pua. Just keep on working on it, like everything else in life more you practice the better you become.
/r/seduction05/02/11 01:58 AM
2

Conquer Your Campus http://www.kickasstorrents.com/conquer-your-campus-t607203.html Flawless Natural http://www.kickasstorrents.com/rsd-flawless-natural-t1158522.html What Every Body is Saying http://www.kickasstorrents.com/what-every-body-is-saying-2008-269-pages-pdf-fbi-e-book-sharego-t2149736.html
/r/seduction01/02/11 04:55 AM
1

i know, it is the mindset. i know it is not the magic bullet too.. thanks for the reply.. will work till get what i want. thanks for the reply.
/r/seduction30/01/11 03:45 AM
1

thanks for the reply. thanks for noticing that i am well rounded guy, i graduated with business degree, currently own a company importing products form china and distribution in north america, have few working under me. in high-school i was seen as the luckiest guy with girls.. lots of people thought me as a player, but at that time girls and sex and girls was not in mind, i spent time with sports and studies.. maybe i am a really late bloomer.. i had lots of girls as friends but i never approac…
/r/seduction30/01/11 03:43 AM
1

good point, lowering my standard occurred to me, but when i am with girl i find not attractive i can not get excited.. thanks for the reply. i will keep on pushing till i get what i want. pursuit of happiness.. :)
/r/seduction30/01/11 03:34 AM
2

i enjoy the part where i talk to girls.. touching them, laughing with them.. now all these are happening, i see the pursuit is exciting as the end.. maybe little more then the end sex. thanks for the reply.
/r/seduction30/01/11 03:29 AM
1

thank you for your reply. i dont think my problem is serious as to go to professional therapist, but i will keep that in mind. i will keep on working on pua and self improvement, i personally dont feel escort is what i want to do now.
/r/seduction30/01/11 03:25 AM
2

pursuit of happiness, when you reach the goal, it not that important any longer.
/r/seduction22/01/11 03:24 PM
0

where is the link, i haven't seen it yet. thanks in advance.
/r/seduction14/01/11 02:18 PM
1

what you guys are applying.
/r/seduction08/01/11 01:24 PM
2

Keep in touch. any advice on how to do this? i cant seems to figure it out.
/r/seduction16/11/10 02:38 PM
1

white lies and timing, lies that dont hurt propel usually make them laugh. for me usually saying what comes first to my mind works.
/r/seduction13/11/10 12:32 PM
3

you need a friend to videotape you while you are interacting, or sarging. Then you can determine the body language you are projecting.
/r/seduction02/10/10 02:15 AM
8

27 still no girl, but improving. Get into PUA and learn little by little everyday and you will be the star in no time. I am in this approximately eight months, have changed tremendously. I can talk to girls, keep contact with girls, awesome how much it changes you into a superstar; wish i had stumbled upon this PUA materials and seductions forums instead of porn when i was in your age. You are sill young, have fun kid.
/r/seduction28/09/10 01:38 AM
2

tollywood is south indian movie industry. (tamil/telugu )
/r/seduction22/09/10 11:14 PM
4

this has lots to do with the culture (south indian movie), and the tollywood movies, feel sorry for the guy, i have been there and it is painful and you dont know why you doing this.
/r/seduction22/09/10 04:25 AM
2

same story here. I have not found a smart+cute girl yet. Cute yes but never met smart; maybe just me but i never met a smart girl yet. I think the definition of smartness for guys is different for girls. (just my thought)
/r/seduction20/09/10 03:04 AM
1

i am happy, healthy, strong, confidence, and energetic. repeat anything positive and your chatter will become that eventually.
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:40 AM
3

You can make a girl's day just by approaching. I gonna make few girls happy.
/r/seduction17/09/10 08:54 PM
1

how to develop the mindset? (newbie here)
/r/seduction17/09/10 07:33 PM
3

do observation opener about the environment you are in. for example if you are in store you can open with some sale item, like "hey did you notice they have sale on blablahh". few day ago was in computer store there was this chick checking out laptop i opened saying "you need any help".
/r/seduction14/09/10 07:06 PM
1

good job bro! talk to everyone you see, that the key to open anyone.
/r/seduction10/09/10 11:08 PM
3

preparation. action. calibration. "point, shoot, aim" philosophy.
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:48 PM
1

yes. eye contact and smile is amazing, yep have seen the how touch magically change the peoples attitude in interaction. thanks sir, glad to know that i am on the right path to the a better life.
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:41 PM
7

can you point me in the right directions, what steps did you take? two months seems to me very short time to change life. thanks.
/r/seduction08/09/10 09:24 PM
1

where are the collection of negs? would love to get some list. thanks.
/r/seduction03/09/10 04:59 AM
1

should be in /r/love
/r/seduction03/09/10 01:55 AM
1

5'3" I might be the shortest guy here. Not that important if you are confident and amazing.
/r/seduction29/08/10 05:49 PM
1

"..so people use the simple metric of 5 HB8s/year to value a man." what is this means?
/r/seduction29/08/10 05:34 PM
1

what is canned opener?
/r/seduction28/08/10 03:43 AM
1

going from stage one to two.
/r/seduction28/08/10 03:02 AM
15

what about this is great? explanation would be good op.
/r/seduction15/08/10 02:30 PM
0

affirmation works. make simple affirmations and repeat them everyday when you wake up and just before going to sleep. sample affirmations. i am confident man i love talking to people i ... etc.
/r/seduction10/08/10 09:32 PM
1

This must be written in stone. Commandment #11: Take her off the pedestal. She is flawed, maybe a little crazy and her shit stinks just like yours
/r/seduction06/08/10 05:46 PM
1

How to Win Friends and Influence People in Five Minutes or Less http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRKvVKd6viY
/r/seduction29/07/10 04:05 PM
1

thank you for the insight !
/r/seduction29/07/10 02:11 PM
1

I felt like read my story here. my route to becoming cool guy is from the self-development similar to pua but for business. I am extremity successful in finance but still a no improvement in sex/relationship. Same as op i give out vague answer if someone ask about my adventure in relationships. I am really short guy, only 5"3; but was given much more compliments and appeases for my achievements and personality and look. But i am still virgin. I don't know what i am doing wrong, it really bothers…
/r/seduction28/07/10 03:59 PM
1

from just talking to getting laid.
/r/seduction28/07/10 03:47 PM
1

alway wanted to know how this happens. still a virgin, any insight into this.
/r/seduction28/07/10 03:03 PM
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