| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Issues with initiating texting after grabbing number | mamapop | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 03:32 AM | |
| 1 | [FR] First f-close and FR | mamapop | /r/seduction | 14/07/13 05:58 PM | |
| 1 | First and only encounter with a girl | mamapop | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 09:36 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | [NEED HELP] Is this an IOI or just another shit test? How do I respondYou are walking the line of arrogance. Tread lightly. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | [NEED HELP] Is this an IOI or just another shit test? How do I respondMaybe ignore that she said anything about it and just answer the question “When was once”. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 04:57 AM |
| 1 | [NEED HELP] Is this an IOI or just another shit test? How do I respondDef not a shit test. Probably not an IOI but it could be. She’s definitely recognizing and appreciating your confidence so that’s a good sign for you. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Was This Chick Flirting Heavily?Get it next time man, don’t beat yourself up about it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Was This Chick Flirting Heavily?You’re making up excuses and you’re in your own head. No one knows what they’re doing. Don’t feel uncomfortable when you feel out of your element. Learn the signs of attraction and follow them. Your gut told you this girl was into you and you ignored it and now you regret it. Trust your gut. | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Was This Chick Flirting Heavily?Get that number... | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Is my university professor attracted to me ? Why did he behave this way?That’s creepy as hell... I’d just stay away from that. If he escalates any further you should be clear and tell him to stop. If he doesn’t listen report it. | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women with artGo up to a cutie that’s looking at something you’ve copied. Show her your sketch then say something. Like... “what do you think?” or “pretty good right?” or “I think this guy copied my original piece!... you get the idea | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Ignored.All the texting you did with her made you seem desperate. This probably wasn’t the only thing that went wrong but it sure didnt help. Text less for banter and more for just logistics. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Text FR, Whole Foods RepBe more clever. Practice it. | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 04:26 PM |
| 8 | Guys, what is your first default text to a girl after getting her number?Yeah this sucks lol... | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | I am out solo.... girls keep asking where all my friends are...Most people think this is a REALLY weird thing to do. I recommend you don’t do this. Being confident and being confident about something most people think is weird just makes you look weirdly confident. | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 04:20 PM |
| 5 | I am out solo.... girls keep asking where all my friends are...Best thing to do is say you came out with a buddy but he ran off with some girl. Demonstrates that you have friends that get laid and then you are immediately making her think about it doing the same thing with her. Maybe she responds to that or maybe she doesn’t but I think this the best thing to say. I use it a lot and it usually defuses the question pretty well. | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 04:19 PM |
| 10 | Having coffee with a former high school crush tomorrowI recently met up with girl that I had kissed in my early high school days (about 7-8 years ago) and this was my thought process going into it. Hopefully this can help you. Realistically this can go two ways. If you've been taking care of yourself odds are you look better now than you did then (god knows I do) and if she's willing to meet up with you after all this time then she probably feels the same way. You should probably decide if ASAP if you want something sexual or platonic from this gir… | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Interested or notYes girls sleep with guys when they have boyfriends. It's called cheating and people do it. She did bring you home, but it sounds like you didn't take advantage of the opportunity she gave you to escalate and try and get romantic. If she really did want to get romantic with you, she probably doesn't anymore because you showed her you're not interested by not making a move. Move on. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 01:47 AM |
| 12 | Blind date text openerDefinitely don't say this... | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 02:41 AM |
| 5 | What are your go to conversation starters when going up to a girl your meeting for the first time at school?Hahah I love shit like this. Girls that are cool and gameable usually respond well to crazy openers. But.... I wouldn't advise saying something so perverse to start off but hey... I'm not your dad. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 07:53 PM |
| 19 | What are your go to conversation starters when going up to a girl your meeting for the first time at school?Last weekend, I went up a girl that was perusing a menu at the bar. I said "Looks like you need a drink recommendation." She laughed and we talked for a few minutes. I found her later and got her number. I saw her for a date a few days ago and it was amazing. Just say something. I once went up to a girl at a club and said "Did you buy that choker at Walmart?" Man did think I was retarded but it was hilarious bahaha. | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 04:17 AM |
| 2 | I think girls find me cute but are turned off by other parts of my personality1) So I watched the video and that guy is a total douche. His "confidence" made him look like an ass. He was annoyed and had bad vibes. Listen to what Simon says about his energy in the middle. 2) Seduction and getting with girls is a cult when you read it on the internet. You need to take what people say out here with a grain of salt. Read the advice, apply it your life, and make it work. 3) You want to know what the secret to confidence is? You wanna know what the secret to all of this is? It'… | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Don't know how to interpret this situation with this girl. Could use some advice.You text her yet? If the answer is no you should call her. | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Does Wearing a Suit Help You Pick Up Girls? (Social Experiment Video)And that's what happens when you go to a mall with a suite on and say stupid shit... funny | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Game Tip for Going Out Solo in 2017Adaptation is key, this sub should be "self improving" itself as much as it preaches self improvement to its followers. Great article though, definitely been in this situation before. | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Go out as just friends.Sounds like she doesn't wanna bang again. Must have not banged her as hard as you think. Either next her or wait for someone with some serious wit help you dig yourself out of this hole. Could be a shit test, maybe she wants to see if you're too beta for a second lay. Edit: Could also just hang out with her and pretend like she didn't say that stupid shit. If you fucked her once, you can fuck her twice. | /r/seduction | 14/01/17 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl knows that I want to have sex with her, but wants me to tell her through a text message... how do I do this in a clever, non-douchey way?This is weird... just go have sex with her. Or just be like "I wanna fuck your brains out" | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 12:49 AM |
| 1 | [LF Adivse/discussion] A different version of friendzone? What is this? How to deal with it?You haven't been around here long enough. Words mean nothing. Unless you're both but naked and she straight face says "Stop". The fact that the conversations were sexual meant that she was comfortable with sex and talking about it. That's a pretty clear indication that should have been physical. This is really just a classic case of you being beta. The fact that she's into bdsm and you took no sexual initiative probably turned her WAY THE FUCK OFF. She imagined having sex with you and she was li… | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 03:42 PM |
| 1 | [LF Adivse/discussion] A different version of friendzone? What is this? How to deal with it?Sounds like at the moment she was talking to you she was bored with her other boys. Figured why not, so she decided to meet you. If you didn't escalate quickly or show her your sexual interest she got bored quickly. Sounds like you picked up on the fact that she wasn't happy and instead of fucking her you "boyfriended" her and she didn't like that because she's not into that kind of thing right now. This is all speculation obviously but if this is the way you acted, I'm not surprised at all. Thi… | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Went clubbing aloneNo but I realize that you're an idiot now... dude banged a girl with out even getting her name. How many times a week you think she does that? Enough to get something funky. If it doesn't smell, she's hiding something. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Second chance for first impression?1) it's called a first impression for a reason. No you don't get a second 2) she could still be interested, you won't ever know if you don't say something | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 03:27 PM |
| 20 | If you're not fucking girls from Tinder, you're fucking up.Two things. 1) She's in NY. Tinder is dope in NY. 2) I'm gonna just pretend that she's busted and Byron is a beta bucks fuck so I don't feel bad about myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 03:06 PM |
| 19 | Went clubbing aloneGo get yourself checked son. Bet your friends who played LoL didn't get their dick touched. Good looks. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Going on my first real date tomorrow. Any tips?100% this. Great advice | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Going on my first real date tomorrow. Any tips?Read this right now https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5mrhm3/tips_for_a_first_or_any_date_that_will_get_you/?st=IXPD8IX9&sh=2691e185 If you for one second think, "I just wanna get to know her, not fuck on the first date" then you need to stop making excuses. Good luck have fun | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 12:51 AM |
| 5 | It got a little intimate between a friend and me. How to go on from here?"Hey the other night was really fun. We should hang out again and grab drinks. Are you free tomorrow night?" Date. Escalate. | /r/seduction | 08/01/17 01:40 PM |
| 5 | Met an old friend - Part 3 - Bros before hoesKinda agree as well. Sometimes I think this Red Pill shit goes too far but who knows. If it is true.... it's fucked up I'll tell you that | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you ask out a girl who rejected you a year ago?Move on homie | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What it actually mean to act beta, how to practically avoid it, and why being alpha still doesn't mean that you're landing a lay for sureGreat post, very ELI5 way of explaining validation and how to be "alpha" | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Was friend zoned on a "date", but completely turned it around.But did you put it in her butt? | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Start watching videos of naturals/celebrities.Good points man. I tend to get caught up in terminology but I've but been getting much better at displaying my value intrinsically through my confidence and holding frame. | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Start watching videos of naturals/celebrities.Because he has so much intrinsic value. He doesn't have to prove himself. All he has to do is prove that he's not creepy. Her panties are already so wet it would be hard to fuck up. So TRP. | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Start watching videos of naturals/celebrities.I mean how can a lady resist that. He's gotta have some decent game if his rhymes are so smooth. | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever lose the rush?If you lose the rush you've gotten comfortable. Self improvement requires you to get out of comfort zone and continue to learn and build yourself. Don't get comfortable and life will be full of excitement. | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Start watching videos of naturals/celebrities.I bet you snoop dog gets so much pussy. You ever hang with snoop dog? | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 03:34 AM |
| 7 | Father's DayI'm pretty new to TRP (about a year) and every time I hear about something like this is drives me insane. I don't understand what would drive a women to behave this way. The worst part is that you can't reason with it. You just have to take it and ignore it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 03:18 AM |
| 4 | Reflecting on bars/clubs after botching a pretty good chanceI haven't ever brought a girl back from a bar because I have trouble making a connection for the same reasons you described. Loud, hard to hear, music is distracting. What has worked for me in terms of hooking up on the dance floor and getting numbers is mostly just motioning to dance like mentioned above. You dance, escalate and get a little sexual. If it's early in the night 10/11/12 you probably won't get very far on the dance floor. Most of my luck comes later in the night when I'm/everyone … | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 02:53 AM |
| 3 | What To Do If She Says She Has A Boyfriend? - Videoit sounds like people don't like real advice on this sub anymore | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 02:49 PM |
| 1 | What To Do If She Says She Has A Boyfriend? - VideoDunno why you guys are hating this lmao... Has worked before | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 02:48 PM |
| -3 | What To Do If She Says She Has A Boyfriend? - Video"what's his name?" She might break eye contact and make something up. In this case, just continue to call her bluff. Indirectly comparing "her boyfriend" to you. | /r/seduction | 12/04/16 08:20 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First approach, first rejection. But TRP shines throughUsually my response to height is the size of me penis | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 10:12 PM |
| 19 | You were never really attracted to her, it was just validation.You need a dog bro | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 08:16 PM |
| 3 | You were never really attracted to her, it was just validation.I've really been struggling with this problem. I think the solution comes with age. After all, it did take me 22 years, and a lot of this sub reddit to understand that's how I feel. | /r/seduction | 01/03/16 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Do any of you wink during game? How do you use it?This is the only way gaming girls is fun for me 😑 | /r/seduction | 28/02/16 10:37 PM |
| 6 | How To Never Fail A Shit Test AgainSo this guy makes some jokes and says some pretty radical shit at times but the message is clear. This quote from the author sums it up well. "When getting what you want and living life on your terms becomes more important than getting pussy, that’s when you will start getting an almost unmanageable amount of pussy." This quote includes a lot of the montra people preach on here all the time. Don't put the pussy on a pedastool, have abundance mentality, be firm in your self and your beliefs. Wome… | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 05:12 PM |
| 4 | How To Never Fail A Shit Test AgainThat seemed like a joke to me in the article. All in all I think he has good points. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 05:05 PM |
| -2 | Just broke up with gf.. It's unreal how differently things changeI find that it's important to keep momentum when on tinder. It makes girls less likely to flake if you respond to them quickly and keep them interested. Playing the "game" and waiting to respond to seem like you have other shit going on doesn't work. After you set up a date you can make that bitch wait for a response. Just my two cents | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 06:41 AM |
| 9 | My experience with Tinder vs. DayGameWhy do you feel you need to make a distinction between tinder and day gaming? They are two totally different things and can practically be done simultaneously. Not sure why you seem to be picking one over the other... | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 04:21 PM |
| 1 | When adding your phone number in a girls phoneMaybe. In my opinion most of this shit is totally irrelevant ant entirely situational. Just be crazy and fun and if she likes you it doesn't fucking matter what you do. | /r/seduction | 26/12/15 10:23 PM |
| 4 | When adding your phone number in a girls phoneDunno why you kids are downvoting this guy. He has a great point. It is a little extra and it's not gonna help in every situation. | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 08:37 PM |
| 100 | When adding your phone number in a girls phoneIf you've already established a lot of rapport and she is having fun with you then that would be great. If you just met this girl and established little to no rapport I don't think this would work well. In general I think this would probably catch her really really really off guard. Is that a good thing? Not sure. In principle the idea is awesome. In practice... Always another story. I'll try it for sure. | /r/seduction | 25/12/15 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Today I hit rock bottom: Seduction will not save you.That's sick... Wanted one of these babies since i was in the womb | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Looking for affordable/cheap social activities while leg is injuredI was in a similar situation for the past few months. Focus on your therapy and use the time to work on yourself. I just sat on my ass and did nothing for a few months which I totally regret. | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 10:52 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Could not make magic happen last nightYou were too afraid of being rejected man. That's why you didn't "just go for it" | /r/seduction | 18/03/15 02:08 PM |
| 9 | Can People REALLY Change?Saying "this is how I am, this is how i've always been. I can't change" Is just an excuse for not trying. Everyone changes every day and its something that you can force, rather, help yourself do | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 07:30 PM |
| 4 | 10 Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real ManSooooo what you're saying is that I just wear a suit all the time and look sexy? Sounds good, i'll go try that haha. | /r/seduction | 15/11/13 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Seddit users who are/were ex-LTR types - how did you get back into the game?I got out of a two year relationship about a year ago and thankfully stumbled upon this great community soon after ending my relationship. When it all ended I realized that I had no idea how to talk to women, I had no women in my life, and had lost contact with lots of people that I used to be close with. What I did, and what you should do is to find your confidence. I changed my image; I bought nice clothes and I learned how to look good. The thing that is literally preached on this sub is that… | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 02:54 PM |
| 2 | First and only encounter with a girlI obviously have the wrong mindset here. | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 02:33 AM |
| -1 | First and only encounter with a girlYes i do agree, my mistake for sending that message since it's not what i wanted this post to concentrate on. The message is that people need to #close and not make up dumb excuses to not get one. | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 12:32 AM |
| 5 | A Reminder To Not Let Love Pass You ByIt's fake because she's still hot when she walks in with the baby. Who gives birth in yoga pants? | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I need motivation, Seddit. I know I’m being an idiot, but I need to hear it from someone else.i just psyched myself up so much when i was gonna out with my boys that nothing was gonna touch me and i felt so alpha. I remember this party we had soon after my break up and it was the first time i decided to just have fun instead of focusing on girls. It helped so much AND got me the girl. It was an awesome night and ill never forget it. Good luck to you man, don't let that girl get you down. There's smellier pussy to catch | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Issues with initiating texting after grabbing numberI like what you said very helpful. What is -IAMTHEDEATHMACHINE though? | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 08:33 PM |
| 6 | I need motivation, Seddit. I know I’m being an idiot, but I need to hear it from someone else.Dude this will be really hard for you... But just delete her number. You have to let yourself be free and grow. I broke up with a long time girlfriend (2 years) a few months ago and I just remember how awesome it felt to be free. To not have another person to care about and just go and do whatever the hell you want. Go make some friends man, talk to your co-workers and go out with them. Go to bars go to clubs and approach approach approach. You gotta get a friend base and (excuse my language) fo… | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 03:43 AM |
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