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Your penis is a totally normal size, you can find that out yourself. Your behaviour would be unbearable for someone who cares about you. I feel pain even reading how uncomfortable you are in your own skin. I'm so deeply sorry you're experiencing this. I don't know what you look like, and I'm not going to argue against your logic because I know it doesn't matter. Imperfect people are lovable and deserve love (with people who want to give it, of course). I hope you can experience healing 💗
/r/ExRedPill16/05/26 06:18 AM
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Genuinely, what a good boy! Go you 👏 🙌
/r/ExRedPill07/05/26 01:34 PM
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He really likes hurting other people, but he has to find a way to justify it to regular people so they will get close enough to allow him to do it. So weaker men can become stronger by allowing him to hurt them, and women secretly like being hurt and it's a man's right to do so. He has much more to say than this, but he has made those points above specifically. He also becomes very angry and upset very quickly when challenged, so that suggests (as others are noting) that there's some pain point …
/r/ExRedPill20/12/25 12:50 AM
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Personally, I communicate with lots of men from various parts of South Asia for work and other things. If I had to generalise from my experiences, they seem less rapey than the native born population lol
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:09 PM
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I'm sorry, I'm talking generalised cultures, not people. I'm also not saying one of those extremes is better than the other. I know individuals are individuals, no matter the culture. My husband and I are both weirdos who don't represent our nationalities in all respects, I'm Australian and he's South Korean.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/25 11:09 AM
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But you're literally just searching for that specific thing...
/r/ExRedPill04/11/25 10:22 AM
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I'm not sure women are the main promoters of this idea, pretty sure these themes are enjoyed more by non-black men actually.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/25 08:02 AM
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Holistic issues with relationships - they have issues with relationships with BOTH men and women BUT they feel a woman can prove their worth as a human so they can ascend and thus hate women for withholding this. It's also why they turn women choosing men they find attractive into an evil conspiracy - they have that little understanding of fellow humans. ALSO vulnerable narcissistic tendencies that make them feel the world is against them.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/25 02:39 AM
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Yep we have some funny ideas 🤪
/r/ExRedPill29/10/25 05:38 AM
0

I said I don't think it's bad. But I'm a really awful hobosexual so I could probably have done with being more pragmatic just making sure someone was just a real responsible grown up 🤣
/r/ExRedPill27/10/25 10:54 AM
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I wouldn't mess with an angry Vietnamese or Mexican woman, that's for sure haha
/r/ExRedPill27/10/25 04:53 AM
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Yep, true 👍
/r/ExRedPill27/10/25 04:13 AM
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Less so than in the past however, there's been lots of development in Asia over the last 20 years. However, funny thing, my husband is Korean and him and his friends used to joke that Anders Brievik who was a weird incel before he was a terrorist could get a date in Korea because he was so blonde 🤣
/r/ExRedPill27/10/25 04:12 AM
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What gets me is when they target Asian women from developing countries/areas. Those women are tough as hell and so pragmatic! They can think about men just from the perspective of resources, and it's very normal because they're practical. From my experience as an Australian white woman who has spent a lot of time with Asian people no group of people have been brainwashed to be romantic about relationships (and therefore men) as much as white women! I think I'm not saying one approach is better t…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/25 03:27 AM
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I'm glad you left. Been there, done that.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 09:39 AM
2

Yes. Sad thing, we were together 15 years from when we were young.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/25 01:21 AM
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This happened to my ex too... sad.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 05:17 AM
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Not giving a shit about garbage like that is very masculine I think 🙂
/r/ExRedPill25/01/25 12:05 PM
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My husband is 5'7" and I'm 5'6", make of that what you wish 🙂
/r/ExRedPill25/01/25 11:28 AM
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I'm not offended. I do understand your concerns.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 08:07 AM
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People who haven't experienced a feeling can often think it's made up bullshit. I remember when I met my husband I had an experience of suddenly certain sayings about love made sense. I had experienced love of course, but not at that dramatic level. The issue here might be more your lack of comprehension because you yourself haven't experienced certain feelings yourself, so you're having a hard time understanding other people's emotions. Some things in life are really experiential, you can descr…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/24 12:35 AM
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You clearly know every woman's brain better than they do, so I stand corrected 🤣
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 09:12 AM
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I couldn't agree more my friend ❤️
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 04:03 AM
18

Women do actually love men, you know.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 02:23 AM
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They clearly want women with an insecure attachment style...
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 07:26 AM
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They avoid the religious question. The family was just giving my bro a nervous breakdown and his wife didn't get it because in her culture you'd always give to your family if they don't have things they need. They got the family out and living somewhere else in the end. My bro is still a bit annoyed but I don't think it caused all this...
/r/ExRedPill14/08/24 10:38 PM
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I sent him your video just saying I thought it was interesting. He watched it and said he agreed it was easy to get lost in the manosphere. So good news on that. I think part of his issue is that he's a millenial but for a long time really not online a lot. He must have recently discovered the internet and ended up in bad places. It makes me so sad, but it's above my ability to fix it. I'll just be here and be supportive.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/24 09:36 AM
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He's an agnostic/soft atheist and he married an evangelical woman. There's also a bit of a culture clash. We are Anglo-Celtic Australians with upper middle class family background, so I guess a bit uptight and repressed (my brother is quite neurotic), and she's an Aboriginal woman who recently invited her homeless family to stay and they weren't organised or respectful of objects in the house. He chose her knowing these things, and she is a very lovely person and a very giving mother, but I gues…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/24 09:29 AM
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Yes it's really worrying! It was so disturbing to hear him tell me what I should have done 25 years ago!! It's a whole adults lifespan. At first I was very confused why he would care or think about it until I realised he was just calling himself a loser really. What's funnier is that I basically didn't date as a teen, I didn't have any serious relationships until after school ended. He definitely needs to grow up and move on. Last time he messaged me out of the blue it was about "men only get un…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/24 09:38 AM
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Hi friend, my brother is having a very bad time (midlife crisis??) and keeps repeating redpill takes to me. He has some pretty bad mother wounds from our boomer mum and I think this is the genesis of the issue. Sad thing is he's married with two lovely kids but when he came to stay with me recently he was obsessed with talking about being a loser in his teens. He talked about some really inappropriate things that happened with me at 15 as if I was some kind of Chad chaser...saying I should have …
/r/ExRedPill12/08/24 10:30 AM
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I think men seldom put themselves in women's place, they think it's somehow magically different for women. It's a weird thing I've noticed in the men around me, even the nice ones. It's a blind spot. I'm sure men can tell us our blind spots too.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 04:48 PM
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I think most women find it a bit gross and pathetic, and many women are upset because there's few ways of checking if the woman is truly consenting and not forced into it on some level, or being damaged by it. I knew a woman and she did it because she couldn't find work to fit around her little girl. She often spoke to me about things clients did that weren't violent or anything but she was deeply disturbed by it all. Another woman I knew did it because her and her boyfriend got into drugs, but …
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 04:47 PM
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Yeah men who believes sex workers would be truly honest generally sound delusional. Not sure men know how hard it is to deal with a man who has zero idea how women's bodies work, and has all that stuff you note going on. Having a conversation with such a person where you have to kindly say "this is awful and everything needs to change or I'll never get my needs met" is HARD work, and generally leads to hurt feelings, blaming the woman for not fitting mythical or pornified ideas, and potentially …
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 04:38 PM
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The average young adult woman has had less sex than middle aged women did in their youth. Just wanted to put that out there.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/24 04:28 PM
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Working on your emotional intelligence and learning to accept yourself. Neither of those are easy tasks but they make people much better at all relationships.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/24 11:34 AM
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Yes. Studies show that the one thing all extremist groups share is fear/hatred of women. Thus attracting young men who are fearful or angry about women is the best way to funnel prospective members to whatever group is seeking new candidates. Edgy misogyny is the first step on the sales funnel if you like. Sadly young men drawn into this have lots of other problems and need help instead.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/24 12:20 PM
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A man who isn't insensitive, resentful and angry is pretty hot ❤️
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 07:41 AM
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Possibly you're right, but it's not like there's zero impact on women and 100% impact on men.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 07:33 AM
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Great point about sex offenders lying to themselves, the lengths they will go to to deny their action had no consent is breathtaking sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 05:53 AM
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Interesting you heard "equal" as "less than", isn't it. But now you understand, it is special 🙂
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 03:22 AM
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GET OUT NOW!
/r/ExRedPill25/02/24 03:45 AM
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The blackpill (and redpill) makes it impossible to succeed. Dudes that RP or BP men would call "betas" are often perfectly happy family men. But I feel like RP or BP dudes would degrade them because the man's partner and him got together at over 30 and the woman had already been sexually active. In these dysfunctional philosophies everything and everyone gets categorised based on superficial and sometimes completely unreasonable criteria. Even being a heterosexual man who really likes women (whi…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 10:14 PM
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I think they need more promotion so I always say something when the subject comes up. Women hear over and over that tall is better, and I think it does have an influence. But short men in my experience are convenient as you said but also a lot of them are very interesting people, with a lot of spirit. My husband looks like the most innocuous, adorable person, and he's usually mild mannered and kind, but he's actually very brave and outspoken, even aggressive when he needs to be. He's probably th…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:59 AM
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Short men are very sexy I think. There's nothing like having an intimate conversation with someone who is on your level, you can be in a private little world even in public and look eye to eye. My husband is only one inch taller and everything (😉) is better with someone who isn't a giant. He doesn't take up the whole bed and steal the blankets, which is something I battled for so long with taller men. Sounds like a small thing but it's super annoying. Also, I don't have to make a giant pot of fo…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 02:50 AM
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Some are just ridiculous grifters, and some are teaching skills in rape.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 07:34 PM
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Yep, it encourages domestic violence, short term relationships, paranoia and valuing partners too young to be legal/ethical/practical instead of a peer.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 06:54 AM
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That's called coercive control and is illegal abuse in many places.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 11:56 AM
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Problems come up when a man has a strong insecurity/trauma he doesn't have the skills to cope with and won't have an adult conversation about it, which leads sometimes to abusive type behaviour trying to control the world outside instead of dealing with the inside issues. Then after dealing with that and forcing the conversation, THEN the emotions come out and you end up comforting a crying man who has not been treating you with love, care and dignity for months. That's not ok, that can cause re…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 11:55 AM
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Exactly. Fat women get treated like shit too, and men and women are both horrible to fat people. This is a fat vs thin issue. It has zero to do with redpill propaganda.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 07:57 AM
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I remember very clearly one time I was really fat (i had a huge health crisis and meds made me gain 30kgs in 3 months!) and I went to a fancy restaurant with family and made a big order for a special treat. The waiter couldn't hold in his look of revulsion. The world sees fat people differently. Hell I'm guilty too, a long long time ago I was so scared of being fat and projected that fear onto fat people. Society has an issue.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 07:55 AM
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Having lost a lot of weight myself (a few times lol) I'm not sure you're having a lot of self insight. You went though a process that required discipline, and you probably feel at least a bit better about yourself. We don't stay the same inside all the time, we go through various phases in life and we change over time. Hopefully our experiences make us more mature and generous (if we try to self-actualise).
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 07:50 AM
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People at the gym you converse with might be acquaintances instead of friends?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:19 AM
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Yes this is true too the EI deficit between men and women is fkn brutal.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:18 AM
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Bro please understand we are all a bunch of vain superficial creatures. This isn't "the redpill" this is just reality as known for probably longer than you have been alive. Even people who like rarer things like sapipsexuals who fetishise intelligence its the same thing, the focus is elsewhere but its still lusty and superficial in a sense, they just want that persons big sexy brain to interact with them. This is just human nature, it has social influence (mostly around what's high status they w…
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:16 AM
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Chubby women are literally goddesses, seriously ❤️
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:10 AM
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I feel like when I was young men understood we had eyes and also liked people we found attractive. Wtf happened in the intervening years that this is news??
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 08:09 AM
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Many people have fantasies they never want to act on, or even fantasies that are impossible like living in the pocket of a giant woman or being eaten by a snake, people are weird. We aren't our fantasies, theyre just strange things made up by our subconscious. In the case specifically of women fantasising about being violently, non-consenually dominated there is a phenomenon where the subconscious dwells on things that make us anxious or have caused us trauma and that can become part of our fant…
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 07:18 AM
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Thankfully unnecessary male genital mutilation has become very rare in my country, which is great 🙂
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 05:28 AM
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It's a real shame because men really do have issues requiring help, I'd get behind that if it was about banning unnecessary male genital mutilation, reducing male suicide etc. Men are really vulnerable to drug and behavioural addictions too, they get really exploited by certain criminals and industries (gambling is one example, sexploitation gangs is another). I'd love to be involved in helping out with things like this. But MRAs only use real men's issues to fight women, instead of getting stuc…
/r/ExRedPill11/02/24 12:01 AM
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How so? This is just my personal life experience, how does it become part of any theory?
/r/ExRedPill10/02/24 08:10 AM
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Just look at real life statistics. Women get dates and partner up at all ages. I got married at 39 incidentally to someone 7 years younger. My mum also had dudes chasing after her at that age, even a teacher at my school used to ask me "how is your mother?" (🤮). My grandmother had an active dating life until she was 60 or older and just lost interest in men eventually.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 09:23 AM
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Does fearing and being jealous of women HELP any of those problems? It doesn't even sound like a particularly effective cope to me.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 07:11 AM
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Omg haiiii! Thanks for your work 🙂
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 03:39 PM
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I'm very unsurprised
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 09:16 AM
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Good God, imagine knowing that not one with other options will ever choose you, that you can only be seen as preferable to crushing poverty or homelessness.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 06:40 AM
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Any man with conscience, heart or soul would want to be a so called beta. The men who get called betas are the true winners.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 06:44 AM
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You're autistic and that's a perfectly valid way to be. We don't need to chase after other people and try to be accepted. But that doesn't mean we hate them either. The tips women give you might not work because they're meant for average people. Average people are playing a different game than us. We need to judge ourselves by different standards. Once you let go of these things and finally accept yourself managing your other mental illnesses will become easier. Look for a doctor or therapist th…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 08:08 AM
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Game related content can be a pipeline to misogyny and even Nazism/terrorism, its something that has been studied. Sociologists / policy people have done lots of work into this recently.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/23 07:31 AM
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I hate gender wars so much I wish we could all just live in peace
/r/ExRedPill15/08/23 09:13 AM
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Many non-thoughtful conservative people are often hypocritical in a way that if they or someone they admire does something it's ok, even if it's totally inconsistent. Sometimes religion is a nice costume to dress up in to feel self-righteous but they don't read the bible they just follow the yelling man. I tried to understand all this but I realised they don't care if it is internally consistent.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 10:20 AM
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Most of these people are of what I call the yelling man variety. Except Jordan Peterson who adds crying to his act. I've often watched these things wondering why men love watching angry men so much. It wasn't always this way, sort of dopey idiots used to be very popular in the media when i was young. I wonder when it will be well adjusted people? Probably never because it's not very interesting lol
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 09:06 AM
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This sounds crazy to me. When I was young porn was either magazine or vcr, much harder to access and you didn't know if the vcr was good until you rented or bought it. We didn't have a mass suicide of men from lack of watching people have sex. I'm not anti porn but if somehow it disappeared men would just whack off to something else, like they did in the old days when they couldn't get actual porn. You know people also had a thing called an imagination then, I imagine we still do now...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:05 AM
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Is that because you don't understand women can have sex and be in love? Or is it because your individual girl doesn't like women in a way that threatens your relationship?
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 09:13 AM
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Yes men fetishise us a lot and few take the time to understand, most just make assumptions.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 09:11 AM
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I'm a bisexual girl. I chose my husband out of all the men and women on earth ❤️
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 09:10 AM
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People (men or women) who work on themselves become better partners with age and experience. But that doesn't mean 20 year olds are interested with 30-40-50 year olds.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 07:20 AM
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Have fun never experiencing love with an attitude like that... and then what would be the point of this relationship?
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 09:06 AM
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I'm a nerdy person, I'm so excited to meet other nerds, personally.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 07:51 AM
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Please just speak to them like other people I.e. Men. Be friendly and professional. We aren't there to judge you, we are just there to do our job, like you are😊
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 07:49 AM
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By and large women can only sell sex because men choose to engage in transactional interactions with women. Same is true of men who sell sex to other men. Interesting thing is as women get more liberated we can see some women also become buyers, engaging in sex tourism even. Makes me wonder if this behaviour is more to do with opportunity than with gender... I agree with the top commenter who said any men who feel jealous of OF girls should give it a go. I don't think people feel jealousy of peo…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/23 11:58 AM
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Insecure men steal valor from men who have done great things, and simultaneously diminish women's contributions. Their minds are too small and their emotions too unstable to accept reality. And these are exactly the type of men who tried to argue women couldn't undertake university study, join the army etc because they said women were "naturally" too stupid or too weak. They do this because they have to make reality fit their simplified views or they feel threatened.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 03:42 AM
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I've been asking myself the question "why does society hate women?" for about 15 years, and I have academic training. So I don't have time or university resources but I've been trying to get at the heart of why we are so fucked up for a long time.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:45 AM
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Well that would be the link with agriculture...
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:10 PM
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There's lots of arguing about this because we don't have records from this time that say "we have now created patriarchy" or whatever. But seems to have sprung up around the time humans developed animal agriculture. I personally think that men worked out how half of reproduction works (man puts seed in woman) through close observation and intentional breeding of animals. They then got all self important and thought that men were God-like creatures and woman are innert vessels for making sons. (T…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 02:36 PM
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I hope this doesn't happen to you, but this is so real. A lot of young people have said and done some awful things online. It will come back to bite many of them later. There are some pretty good tools available to trace even anonymous accounts attached to a person, and some employers do use them. Some of these people probably don't even believe the things they are saying, just trying to impress a bad crowd or fight against other people they think are their enemies because they are misguided.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 06:38 AM
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My husband is a 5'7" Asian man who is the cutest, smartest person in the world. He's only a bad boy when he gets road rage 🤣
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 03:24 AM
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Being a human sucks sometimes. As a human to a human I'm sorry you're having a hard time.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 09:43 AM
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I think you've missed my main points but gosh that's a lot of going on about age of consent 😅
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 09:53 AM
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This 100% whether is a man or a woman
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 09:20 AM
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I'm sure there are lots of people in the manosphere generally who are reasonable and helpful but the clamour that makes it out to the mainstream is things like Andrew Tate, Fresh and Fit, the Whatever Podcast (as examples). I spent a lot of time growing up in mostly male social groups so I know that male culture encourages shocking, absurd, silly speech that can be "edgy". I'm cool with that. It's the droning on of points that are genuinely misandrist, misogynist and authoritarian that is danger…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 07:20 AM
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Seduction community doesn't teach about relationships, only how to coerce women into sex.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 02:24 PM
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Having trauma doesn't make you defective. No one thinks men truly going their own way is a problem, but that's not what anyone objects to within RP.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 02:09 PM
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Yay! So happy for you 🫂
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 10:25 PM
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Oh I feel so sorry for that whole situation 😢 sounds like you had a patch of bad mental health and then RP and incel content scared you and dragged you in. I've had a similar thing happen in a way. My husband and I were having a very difficult time and I tried to do some research on relationships to fix it and I found RP content trying to look up male psychology and then even worse from there. They told me all men are horrible people who don't feel sorry about rape and other things and don't see…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/23 12:06 PM
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Most women just go to dance and wear a pretty dress. I remember when I was young we did everything we could to get away from the packs of prowling dudes, even went to gay bars and obscure places. Most of us were already taken and just wanted to have a fun time. Men seem to project this idea on women that going out for a drink is a meat market because maybe that's their motivation? I wonder maybe the music and flashing lights are there to attract the women and the men only go to find a woman 🤣
/r/ExRedPill20/06/23 08:25 AM
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Basically rape 😕
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 03:00 PM
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Hahaha someone has to get it done 😆
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 10:02 AM
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I personally don't have time to have sex with 100 people haha 😅
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 09:54 AM
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You don't have to be conservative or private to not be having sex with 100+ people tho, that's completely outside the norm LOL 😆
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 09:52 AM
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I agree. When I've seen face rating pics from low self esteem incels they're all nice looking to me.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 05:23 AM
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Were both Gen X :) Yeah I really don't understand. I don't remember in the 1990s dudes going on about "being a man", I think people would have laughed at them. It would have been really uncool to act in such an insecure, conservative way. I think back to some of the most famous men of the 1990s and in music we had Kurt Cobain and Eddie Vedder who were proudly anti-misogynistic and anti-homophobic and myself and the people I knew were immersed in this kind of culture. What's happening now is so i…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 04:53 AM
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A few years ago I took some interest in Alexander Grace videos. I'm interested in and compassionate about men's experiences. But you should try being a woman who engages in conversation with his viewers and you'll see what his audience is getting from it. I literally posted supportive comments and got attacked purely for being a woman. It basically didn't matter what I said, there was an appetite just to attack a random woman. Then I paid more attention to what he was saying in terms of factual …
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 04:37 AM
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My ex went crazy during the gamer gate thing and the nu atheist, anti-SJW thing, which was a massive misogynistic out pouring online where suddenly men became incensed by basically everything women do. After that he started watching what I now realise was neo-nazi content. He became misogynistic and horribly racist. But it happened so slowly it was like the frog in slowly boiling water. Some of the content he listened to seemed even like just history content but if you paid attention it was all …
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 04:33 AM
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Go you!!! 😀
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 07:13 AM
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Those issues you mentioned are real problems. Women are more likely to vote for politicians who want to address such issues than men are.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 02:31 AM
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The reason you hear things about women's welfare on TV all the time is that 100 years ago we were basically slaves who could make no decisions on their own. In my mother's day we still couldn't do a lot of things without husbands permission, like get a bank loan for instance. Women also literally got paid less per hour until the 1980s. Because of thousands of years of disempowerment we're left in a position where we are vulnerable. And there are lots of men who actively fight our empowerment bec…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 02:30 AM
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Just think about it for a second, what percentage of men are 6'6"? It must be a very tiny percentage because I've only known 1 man that tall in my whole life. I've known two men who were a little shorter than that and everyone reacted to them like they were freaks of nature. My brother is 6'1" which is very tall, but somewhere around 6'3" you start to become a person who cannot go places without getting everyone asking stupid questions about your height. It is in no way necessary to be a freak o…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 02:04 AM
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You might not be like that but some men blame the woman. Probably some people just blame other people for their feelings.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 01:55 AM
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Having zero sexual literacy is solved by two things 1. Actively educating yourself via sex Ed available from reliable (preferably female) sources 2. Just caring and resisting the urge to get upset with the woman as a result of your own nerves. The woman will most likely be just as nervous for her own reasons. You'll be fine, we all survive these things 😀
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:45 AM
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My husband is a migrant who is 5'7", skinny and until recently had like zero money. I'm not gonna lie, he's attractive to me, but he's the exact opposite to what RP guys think is attractive. They would tell him he would be single and loveless forever. His success with women was that even though he's kind of awkward and clueless he just never gave up meeting people, and he was very open minded. He just met up with everyone because he's really interested in people, so if romance didn't work out it…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:36 AM
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Getting married and having to deal with a wounded man and all his stuff while loving him with a burning passion made me have to build strong empathy muscles. So I have better understanding through helping him, understanding him and saving our relationship together from various bullshit men end up believing about women. And once he fucked me up with his bullshit he then turned and helped me and redeemed himself. Now everytime I see a man face his internal demons and take up his sword to fight the…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 09:16 AM
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Historically, families really didn't want their daughters to be actors because the industry was so sexually exploitative some people viewed it as literal prostitution. It seems like what we are seeing is that the culture is still like that.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 02:33 AM
3

You are a great human being! ❤
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 11:22 PM
3

The point of the redpill is to make you a misogynist. It is anti-women, male-supremacist propaganda. So if it did that it did its job, that doesn't mean you're a bad person. Men have real problems, many are lonely and because our social system likes to pretend men are all-powerful it doesn't address men's issues and vulnerabilities. That's bad because men have very real problems and men deserve to get help but most of men's issues aren't directly caused by women so attacking women doesn't actual…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 11:20 PM
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Well then just be "normal" and ignore grifters and their followers with unresolved mummy issues.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 05:18 AM
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I've always been the same. I didn't want some idiot to pay $50 for dinner and assume he bought sex with that...because I'm not like a cheap sex worker who does discount gf experience service LOL 😞
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 02:48 PM
3

Weird girls on tiktok might be yelling about it to get views?? Who is carrying on like that IRL?
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 02:46 PM
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Yes, also because science never says "this is how you should be" it just says descriptive things like "in a group of 20,000 women 40% liked pink". It's descriptive, not prescriptive.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 02:44 PM
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Good for you. I'm not excited by having sex with strangers either. Let's not do that then 😀
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 10:58 AM
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This is all just male supremacist conservatism. Evangelical Christianity has a similar perspective and agenda, just that they use God instead of evolutionary biology as their support.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 10:38 AM
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Yes. This is all about vitriolic hatred of women. Dudes don't listen intently to other men when they sound idiotic, they tune it out or laugh... just thinking the dude is blowing off steam. This stuff is serious. Some of these men want to rape us, beat us, even kill us. They're the gender hatred version of the KKK.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 09:59 AM
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spouses The word spouse is unisex... I'm glad you think that this is a conspiracy and men never did anything wrong and women just leave for no reason. It must make life and relationships nice and simple for you. I'll be out here in reality where certain men did some pretty shitty things in the past and women had to fight for the right to be independent to protect their own safety.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 10:07 AM
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Just keep on being sexy, and interact with lots of people whilst being an actually fully formed human being, and some lucky lady will snap you up. Life is hard and confusing but I see hardly any single people around me in my life, and most seem fairly happy. I'm sure you will end up with someone who loves you <3
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 07:40 AM
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Nice. I love that for you <3
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 07:34 AM
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I love your ideas and think you should 100% do it. Men are BEAUTIFUL and they should really show it off more. I feel so sad when I see men on the internet acting like men are gross and only women can enjoy their own beauty. It makes men so jealous and angry and gives them ideas that the world is unfair to them when often it is mostly them getting in their own way when it comes to self love (which is true for women too, only we can take actions to increase self love).
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 07:34 AM
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I agree. I'm only saying that the pseudo-scientific ideas men come up with around their sperm are primitive.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 07:25 AM
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He was usually a nice guy, then suddenly he was jealous that I, as a woman, could orgasm without losing life force. At that point it seems like mental illness?? Dudes have some weird ass ideas sometimes and care way too much about the stuff that comes out of their pp's.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 07:48 AM
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The idea that semen is some kind of sacred fluid to be hoarded is basically superstitious delusion. But it seems to be an idea that springs up around the world in different places. I think it's because until the last 150 years people thought the whole baby was contained in the sperm, we didn't know women had eggs until we developed microscopes powerful enough to see them. Ancient Hebrews literally thought Adam contained every person on earth in his balls when he was created, but Eve was just a f…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 12:21 AM
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Men should ejaculate 3 times a week for prostate health. Your manly equipment needs to be used regularly to maintain health. Remember you make sperm and semen all the time, you wont run out of sperm if you ejaculate a few times a week. Anecdotal funny story. One of my friend when I was young had very painful balls and he went to the Dr. The Dr was like "how often do you masturbate" and he said "never". The Dr laughed at him and told him to do it a few times a week. His balls recovered miraculous…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 11:19 PM
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"The third problem is that I have a belief that a persons first partner is the most intense love they feel." I really don't understand why men believe this. It's just a made up thing. Every woman I know when asked about her first lover feels a bit cringy. I guess it's because not only might she have made a dumb decision in who she chose but also you remember being inexperienced and the feelings that come from that. Many women feel very lucky not to be still with their first lover. The romanticis…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 10:16 PM
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Porn is fine if you actually try to consume ethical porn and realise that it doesn't represent reality (ie as a woman most porn is no good for me to watch because it doesn't represent how women's sexual response actually works).
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 09:28 PM
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White lady here, you're probably right and that sucks
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 03:14 AM
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I see a lot of stigmatising single mums and fatherless kids lately in RP spaces. I grew up in 1980s and experienced a lot of stigma myself and towards my mum because we were a single parent family. This died off in the 1990s. Seeing this come back again is awful. How does a person even blame a kid for being abandoned by their dad saying shit like "fatherless behaviour". Just shameful.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 03:09 AM
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Women don't leave relationships for no reason, particularly when caring for children makes that especially difficult. Every relationships ends for complex reasons. Redpill dudes want to act like it's a conspiracy but it's pretty rare women WANT to be a single mother.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 03:05 AM
2

Watch some videos of lectures by Simon Baron-Cohen pn YouTube. He specialises in autism and male-female brain differences, with a focus on male brains. He's fascinating, he has nice delivery and zero political ideology (very important!). He's a good gateway I think.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 12:35 PM
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The problem you battle with is the problem the greatest minds that ever lived have battled with, and still do. Current psychological consensus is that men and women are more similar than different. Even Jordan Peterson says this. There are statistical differences when you look at large groups and measure particular variables, but individual men or women can and very often do land in more "feminine" or "masculine" positions on a graph. Dr Baron-Cohen, who specialises in the male brain and autism,…
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 02:22 AM
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Unlike in the idea that seems to be propagated women do not leave a home and a marriage for no good reason to become single mothers for the enjoyment of it, or whatever people think is going on. The below describes the situation better: Some people have serious problems with relationships, and with their own coping with stress and internal issues. Some of those people are men. They get into relationships, often with women who are kind and understanding and see their wounds and want to help them.…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 09:57 AM
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They hit you??? That's so terrible :*(
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 09:26 AM
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Vaush who streams on Twitch and has a YT channel talks about incels and gender issues. He's fairly good at referring to data and he's very smart, he also likes to troll a bit so for young guys they might be into that. He doesn't just mock people for having bad gender ideology, he explains why people feel like that and also why they are wrong.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 11:33 AM
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I'm weird. I have niche interests, like being here talking you men who often hate women when I could be relaxing or paining my nails hahaha (joke). Seriously tho my hobbies and interests are too weird to discuss at work. My husband is a weirdo too. We managed to be weird together, it's totally possible you can find a weird sweetheart too :)
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 11:24 AM
2

Less misogynistic is a massive development! :)
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 10:52 AM
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Depends on the build of the person, it is theoretically possible to be healthy at that weight but not that probable. I have a medium build and medium height and like I said, people think I look grotesque at 127lbs or under. I start getting weird comments under that weight and people who care about me get concerned. I was 121lbs for a while once and a client I was working with said I looked like a vampire! My boobs completely disappeared, and with my clothes off my ribs and spine stuck out. It al…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:57 AM
2

For me I get stuck in being so serious about the world and other people's pain, then I can't stop doing it because I think if I don't worry about it I am a heartless person. My husband has no such problem and makes all kinds of whacky jokes about serious things and laughs at the absurdity of the world. I need him for that.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 05:27 PM
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they laugh at things that hurt, and help you laugh at them too I like this too. My husband helps me with this a lot because I am very serious.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 04:36 PM
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He might be somewhere else.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 11:00 AM
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120lbs is a very unhealthy weight probably for most average height women. I'm 5'5" and last time I was 127lbs or less people I knew literally said I was a skeleton and my bf at the time staged an intervention because he though I had an eating disorder.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 10:59 AM
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My sexy husband seems to like my money LOL
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 10:56 AM
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You have to have LOTS of money for that. The average woman who has sugar baby relationships wants to come out well ahead from the grossness of the situation.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 07:51 AM
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That's because people need to train each other to make each other have a really good time. If one party decides they already know all they need to know but actually have a head full of misinfo then there are no benefits for the other party. But this isn't intrinsically linked to being a man. That's a different problem. Men are sexy beasts and we love them but they're always pooping on their own parades. Women like me and the other women here want to help because we love you guys as fellow humans…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 07:49 AM
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Yep well this bullshit acts on purpose to stigmatise women having a thing that all sexually reproducing animals have.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 07:42 AM
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I'm bisexual and I think men and women are equally attractive. So if there is a difference I'm missing it?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 09:09 AM
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Seriously...most women's prerogative is not to trade in the man its just to have the one man act decently and show some love and support.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 08:16 AM
1

Why is "attractiveness influences selection" like a truth bomb or something? Did you dudes grow up thinking women had no eyes?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/22 08:14 AM
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HOT :)
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 12:51 PM
5

I love men! :D I love when I can see that little boy inside. I love dumb jokes and edgy humour that actually has some wit to it (i.e. not just saying nazi shit). I love squishy hugs. I love not having to be so emotionally switched on.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 10:47 AM
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Women are very sensitive to stuff about men other than looks. A far greater part of the female brain is specialised for communication. Women also score higher on empathy on average than men. Women are reading a lot from a person men may not be aware of. Some of this is about actual threat, that is very important. Some of this is something else, more like looking at the emotional burden a person might represent. Women are often not looking for casual sex, but even when we are we don't want to end…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 08:23 AM
2

Are you saying basically some people are so emotionally vulnerable they could only deal with a person whose characteristics only exist in fantasy?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:26 PM
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Regarding "nice gestures" it has been found that significant numbers of men think smiling is an expression of sexual interest. This is I guess a product of evolution, it's better to be wrong sometimes and still be attempting to have sex than to lack any sensitivity to any signals at all. I am a very happy, friendly, open person which meant basically everyone hit on me when I was young and single. It got me in lots of horrible situations. My wiser friends kept trying to teach me to have resting b…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:22 PM
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One weird thing I keep hearing is this demoralisation over discovering women aren't "perfect". And "perfect" seems to be an idea that women should be selfless and not at all superficial. It's like a standard of behaviour well above what I think men expect of themselves. As a woman when I hear about this disappointment I am totally mind blown. And my immediate reaction is just wondering where this concept even came from. What media / social messaging are these dudes reacting to? To me it sounds l…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 08:56 PM
1

Fear leads to anger and anger leads to the dark side?
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:13 AM
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These combos are often just a long-term sex work arrangement basically... And they are rare because most women aren't interested in taking part, even extremely attractive women who could potentially do well in this kind of scenario would rather be making something of herself by getting educated or working on her career and dreams of actual love. I think some men think like this because they watch too much weird dodgy media and they have zero understanding of women.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 09:36 AM
1

My husband is a tiny bit taller than me and I'm a bit over 5'5". He's small and skinny but very well-formed, like his body is a very nice shape and he's surprisingly strong. He's boyish looking and I think he's cute, obviously LOL. He's got a weird personality like he's usually kind of socially awkward but then he can be suddenly charming for no good reason, like he aces every job interview. You have to be attracted to your partner. It's just the way it is. You'll find the right one for you 😉
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 10:55 AM
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I promise you most women aren't like me! Please don't worry about that! I'm a massive weirdo... but a nice one 😀 Women talk routinely about things they like in men. Some like the big scary footballer dude, some like the indie looking skinny dude who looks like he's in a band, some like just a normal cuddly dude who'll make a good dad, some women have very specific things they look for that are unexpected like one woman I knew liked big noses. I'm the only chick I know getting hot over professors…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 10:04 AM
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I'm only attracted to incredibly intelligent men. The other day I watched an old professor dude do a lecture on YouTube and he was really in the zone and no joke my pants area became active. I was even surprised by that! I guess its just genetic to me. I really want a man who dwarfs me intellectually. I think a man who can program is hot. My husband speaks three languages, programs and knows a lot of interesting historical and political info. I want to learn things from my partner and have inter…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 09:46 AM
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I'm only attracted to incredibly intelligent men. The other day I watched an old professor dude do a lecture on YouTube and he was really in the zone and no joke my pants area became active. I was even surprised by that! I guess its just genetic to me. I really want a man who dwarfs me intellectually. I think a man who can program is hot. My husband speaks three languages, programs and knows a lot of interesting historical and political info. I want to learn things from my partner and have inter…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 09:46 AM
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Really? I hate the grifters and I think people are mostly harsh about that? I think the women like myself are here to provide support and alternative perspectives. I'm sorry this is your experience 😔
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 09:36 AM
2

What an overall insane situation! LOL
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:24 AM
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They want to believe women are different in another country, it's a fantasy that somewhere else there are living sex dolls who will capitulate to their need for narcissistic adulation. Often they target East Asian women for their fantasy. This is very funny for me as someone married into Korean culture and who has dated a Chinese man before. East Asian women have HIGHER standards than Western women. Where Western women might prefer a taller man or one with money often East Asian women will not e…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 03:46 AM
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I'm Australian. We don't have time for wankers, unless they are very funny or very smart. I have seen lots of this guys "work" and he is neither.
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 06:48 PM
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That fresh and fit guy is such a loser he has to pay for sex or bully women into sex... you sure you want to follow his advice about what women like?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 01:11 PM
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My husband is a little fellow with a boyish face. He's hot as fuck. Ex was a giant fellow who did "manly" crap all the time, lame. It's all subjective. I get the sense you are young and I just want to say being young sucks ass. Please recognise you will feel much less awful about yourself as you get older.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 01:09 PM
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This is I think the saddest cult I have ever examined. I feel so sad for everyone involved, the men and their partners.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 11:38 AM
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Get out and find a less dangerous man. Your man hates women. It's very sad for him but you should save yourself. I've been with a man like this and he was so misogynistic and gaslight-y he made me start to hate myself for being female. I didn't actually realise just HOW abused I was until I escaped.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 09:14 AM
2

America is the whole world?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 12:16 PM
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Abuse. Like technically I could get him arrested. But that would involve interacting with him again.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 11:43 AM
4

Why would anyone over 12 want to be like those fresh and fit dudes they are pure cringe
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 11:32 AM
1

I know zero bad boys. I don't really SEE any badboys except in tacky tiktoks. But I am a grown up and I think most actual grown men realise they cannot be acting a in a bad boy role and do anything decent with themselves.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 10:33 AM
5

They hate trans people, they're bioessentialist i.e. the opposite sex is naturally evil. It checks out for me.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 10:31 AM
0

I got that. I think you are right.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 10:30 AM
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I think mostly they resemble radical feminists.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 08:06 AM
2

What are "women" to you? Because I see men and women all around me and most are coupled and I see no "bad boys".
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 09:45 PM
1

I just don't understand... I'm not saying he committed a mortal sin or something LOL
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 08:28 AM
1

My husband is a severely introverted person. He is very masculine to me.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 08:26 AM
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Introverted men aren't socially incompetent. That's not what introversion means. Some people find extroverted people a bit grating. And an Introverted man is sometimes actually perceived as more masculine.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 02:15 AM
2

You don't have to be an extrovert. Many women like a quieter, more stoic man. It's more about developing the generally positive traits others mentioned, like being compassionate towards others, self-aware, learning general relationships skills etc etc.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/22 01:33 PM
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Why are you speaking so badly about this girl as if wanting to have sex with you makes her a bad person?? You do not have to do anything and if you don't think it's a good match then of course that is fine. Some people have issues. It doesn't mean anything bad about you, of course.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/22 02:59 PM
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Women can continue to be attractive if they look after themselves, just the same as men. If a person gets old and lets go of themselves they lose their mojo. My mother is not very attractive but she had dudes chasing after her like crazy until she was 40. She doesn't believe in presenting herself in an unnatural way (makeup, dying hair etc) and she is very uptight and not very approachable, if she was different to this it probably would have continued longer. I'm 42, I didn't actually get marrie…
/r/ExRedPill22/04/22 11:29 PM
2

I think we all agree. The message seems pretty generalisable.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/22 12:33 PM
1

I'm not angry with you either but I have already said what I think and if you believe I am a unique snowflake it doesn't seem to make me some kind of bad person so I will take it as a compliment. Have a good day/night :)
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 01:02 PM
2

Just my observation so it's anecdotal I guess, but so many people think it that it's a cliche. Some people peak in their teens. They have everything they need to be high status in high school. But that doesn't translate to much in the real world after high school. And because they are fucking around so much often they become parents early, get a boring job, cant further their education and get fat. That doesn't mean their lives are doomed or something, it just means they might not continue the h…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 09:28 AM
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Ok. This is hard, and I feel your pain. 24 is time to get serious, but really you just need to take an opportunity you wont hate too much right now, just anything to get on a track that goes in a different direction to this. This isn't too late. If you change tracks quickly you will be fine :) You need to get your general life sorted before you try to add another person into the picture. The essential thing is to become intendent and self-supporting. This isn't because you're a man or women care…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/22 09:03 AM
2

Awwww :) You're pretty awesome too sweetheart xx
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 09:46 AM
2

I'm sorry that is your life experience and I agree some of this must come from men's life experience and messages in our society; they cannot imagine being truly desired. Apart from your subjective experience of your life, which is totally valid and understandable, it is also VERY hard for women to tell stories about heterosexual desire publicly. Men really don't want to hear for whatever reason, some are really aggressive about it. Men sometimes also do a thing for some reason, where I can expl…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 05:41 AM
3

^ THIS What gets men into worst problems is their non-relational philosophy to sexuality which is natural to have as an immature early teen but they should be assisted to grow out of after that stage if it doesn't come naturally to them. Without investing in a relational approach to sexuality then these things end up being approached like "how to trick women into having sex with me". Women deeply want (obviously) to be seen as full human beings who themselves have their own sexuality and anatomy…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 04:42 AM
2

You have lovely eyes :) Other people have good advice on hair, I don't know much about that.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 03:25 AM
3

It's true. Everything is a learning experience, even terrible things sometimes turn out to be moments where you learn something.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 06:10 AM
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There is no one feminism. There are many different kinds of feminism (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism). People who agree with the basis of feminism (that women deserve human rights and the sexes should be equally valued in society) may change their minds about which aspect of the philosophy they align with. Certain kinds of feminism are much more popular in society (like liberal feminism) than others (like radical feminism), of course this varies country to country. So unless you decide t…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 06:03 AM
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Everything is always a zero-sum game with red pill dudes. Life can be upsetting and deeply dumb. Imagine my regrets I spent 15 years financially supporting and looking after a man I had a deeply unhealthy - and in the end abusive - relationship with... But life has gone on, I'm married now to someone else. If I hadn't spent 15 years with that dufus I probably wouldn't have had the experiences that led me to ending up with my husband. If you don't get everything exactly right now it doesn't mean …
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 04:19 AM
1

When I was young it was fine because everyone was living like that. If your roomies are cool then it could even be a plus.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 04:00 AM
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The sad thing is that I think we are brainwashed not to think of teen boys as vulnerable and needing protection the same way we think about girls....perhaps because the power structure wants us to feel ok with sending them off to war. Really if we were moral people we would acknowledge that for hormonal reasons teenage boys are very aggressive and problematic but they are still kids and they need their hands held to get past that terrible period from like 14-24 so they can be successful and happ…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/22 12:01 PM
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I agree this is some kind of psyop, and it could well be originating from outside the English speaking world. It's really effective too, the internet is now full of kids who hate women and hate themselves. Of course there will always be crazy people of both genders who hate the opposite sex either because of horrific abuse or derangement but there is no reason for boys who haven't had a chance to get hurt yet to hate women (and any other targeted group) so much and be going around repeating prop…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/22 10:30 AM
3

Do you? What are your current interests? Maybe you can find someone else who likes those things? There is a thing people do socially called reciprocation. To reciprocate socially it helps to invest in stuff other people are interested in. But you don't have to totally change who you are and you get to decide how much you do this. People at work (mostly women) want to talk to me about TV shows. I don't even have a TV and I haven't had one since 2007 because basically nothing on TV interests me. I…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/22 12:27 PM
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So what they are naturally is an uninteresting person incapable of growth and development????? Surely not.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 02:48 PM
11

We don't want a dancing monkey. Do you think we see our friends as dancing monkeys? A boyfriend is literally a friend you also have romance with. That means that in between having cuddles and sex there are conversations and helping each other out with stuff and laughing and unfortunately sometimes arguments. Being playful is a big asset. A playful person is fun for EVERYONE to be around. Men and women both love a pleasant, playful guy...and conversely do not love a over-sensitive, negative, or a…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 02:46 PM
3

I've been with a few different men, not many but enough to feel small, medium and big. My ex had a larger pp and we didn't fit together well and it limited what we could do. The best pp I had for the feel of it during piv and oral is my current partner. His is not big but we fit together very nicely and we can do all positions and he never hurts me. It feels very free. Being hurt by the pp during sex is horrible.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 10:13 PM
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Do you have any idea what kind of bullshit women put up with from men (and vice versa) when they love the person. Love still exists, right?
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 02:39 AM
2

Depends who the man and his parents are. Depends how they interact with each other. For me it was a plus sometimes. My family was kind of shitty so I enjoyed being part of other families as a younger person.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 02:34 AM
1

Yes.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 12:33 PM
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He's taken it too far. He needs psychiatric help before he's ready for a relationship. You don't need to be abused. You can find a non abusive partner instead.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 09:12 AM
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It's a very uncomfortable position for the woman to be in. She's set up trying to draw and someone comes and starts trying to pick her up. If she's a shy or compassionate person it is literally torture to get out of.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 09:09 AM
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It's not at all taboo. Women and men both prefer attractive partners.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 09:05 AM
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High five bro!!!!! 🙌
/r/ExRedPill19/01/22 09:01 AM
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This man actively encouraged treating women and even teenagers in a dark triad manner. Most humans find that despicable, because if nothing else they don't want their sister or daughter treated like that. He should have understood that when his teachings got past his wanna-be sociopath followers to the general public he would be in trouble. If he failed to anticipate that he has no one but himself to blame. Mail chimp cutting his contract was probably due to him breaching terms of service. Acces…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/22 05:25 AM
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I love this post! I love seeing men explore their sexuality. Men are often feeling jealous that women can flaunt themselves and get attention. A lot of us women have been saying men should put themselves out there if they want to too! I'm awkward and shy so I've never done that kind of thing but I love seeing people of any gender feeling sexy. As a bisexual woman I think men are incredibly beautiful and sexy. I love watching all kinds of men being sexy and feeling confident. On the toy front I h…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 10:46 AM
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You don't sound very EX redpill LOL
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 10:32 AM
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I got to know a man who had been single for a while and had misguided ideas that were very harmful to him and others. I got incredibly interested in male psychology and perspectives and experiences. I found Incels and Redpill and started doomscrolling with equal levels of terror and intrigue. I think a great psychological horror movie could be based on this stuff.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/22 10:26 AM
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Yeah yelling men are either scary or funny. I mean I'm not sure how gendered that is, I think a yelling woman is probably the same. It's super unattractive in either case.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/22 12:42 AM
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Did imagining being gay give you a giggle? XD
/r/ExRedPill16/01/22 12:40 AM
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As a woman I know what a desirable man looks and speaks like. None of these men are popular with women. Look at their angry, beady, evil looking eyes when they speak (really a lot of them yell a lot), really look at them...just imagine you were gay for a second, try really hard to imagine just for a second. Do you want to be naked and alone in a room with ANY of those guys? Unless you have a kink for specifically angry mean people you probably don't. It's a LARP, it's grifting, it's a scam. They…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/22 08:04 AM
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You're not a loser. You are a human being (doesn't matter gender really in this situation) who is having a really hard time and has no support. I'm really sorry things are so hard. Like others said please do talk to a Dr if you can about getting your depressive mood under control so you have more ability to take control of the things you can take control of. I wish you all the best <3
/r/ExRedPill15/01/22 07:52 AM
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I've thought and believed a million dumb things. We keep evolving. You are not permanently damaged :D <3
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 10:04 AM
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I just want to ask, from your personal experience and from what you witnessed around your environment, if the roles were reversed, how many black women would date a white dude ? I'm just genuinely curious that's all. I don't mind you asking but I am unsure what wisdom I can bring to the table. I'll try my best :) I personally think black women are very beautiful and I don't think these sexual dynamics are actually about raw attraction. I think a lot of them are about just racism and status. I se…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/22 09:40 AM
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So instead, they need a dogma that tells them all people are shitty people. That way they can justify how they treat women, feel validated, and also tell themselves that they’re either “normal” or “just more willing to be realistic” and therefore not responsible for improving themselves. BRAVO! Because that is red/black pill in a nutshell - "all humans are terrible and I'm the only one telling the truth".
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 09:55 AM
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Yeah. Really sick. For the promiscuous black man stereotype that seems to be present (just from observing things in documentaries etc) in a lot of places black slaves were taken. I cannot help but think this must be influenced by both slavery and colonialism in ways I'm probably too uneducated to understand. Maybe because male slaves were denied the ability to attach to and protect their wives and families this trauma got passed down? My husband is Korean and I have had the opportunity to unders…
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 11:54 AM
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"The only women i can imagine agreeing to such ltr would be so low in self esteem that I can’t even imagine" These are the only desirable targets for TRP, PUA etc. And that is because those men tend to be horribly insecure and traumatised, so a confident woman appears to be terrifying for them. I'm not surprised though because being called on their bullshit when they're trying not to be vulnerable while trying to also have an intimate relationship (basically an impossible task only undertaken by…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 12:03 PM
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"Going back" if you mean enforcing traditional gender roles on women would require violence that has been made illegal in all Western countries so no. Thank god.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 09:50 AM
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You sound like you should go live with the Taliban. Maybe there you could buy a woman who cannot understand your bullshit to live with.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 09:46 AM
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EXACTLY!!!! :D By acting like this they are inducing a culture where women will avoid men and certainly avoid being alone with them somewhere private. If you think you are building some kind of relationship with someone being alone and being intimate in some way is natural, but that might not immediately be PIV sex. If you're aggravated by that you probably need to stay at home with your fleshlight and some porn so you are guaranteed satisfaction.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 09:34 AM
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I am disgusted by men who think sex isn’t supposed to be enjoyable for both, btw. I am starting to become convinced that SOME men want to believe so hard that women CANNOT really enjoy sex like men can. I think they want to believe it because it makes them feel more secure somehow like they don't have to be concerned what the woman thinks about having sex with them. There are also sickos who really truly do not care or even want women to suffer but I'm not talking about them right now. I think t…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 09:26 AM
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He also probably didn’t mind the women being uncomfortable during sex or scared, that’s one step away from being rapey, it’s pretty awful to say the least. It's so awful that people can be like this. Someone is the most vulnerable they can be and you are totally cold to them. Gross stuff.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 09:21 AM
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Yes, shitty, con-artist, coercive behaviour is terrible no matter who does this. I'd feel just as much empathy for a man who was treated like this.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 09:19 AM
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Whatever bro. I'm literally a totally normal married women who is just supporting affirmative, enthusiastic consent. You're the one freaking out about that. If you encourage "dark trial" traits in dating you probably don't have good intentions towards the women you date or the women your followers date. That's very obvious. If you pretend you are interested in making a future with someone so they agree to fuck you they have not provided consent that is informed, making their consent not complete…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 09:17 AM
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Yeah there's something incredibly racist going on there definitely. Because there are infinite ethnicity combinations but only one kind of "bull" gets as much attention. There are other racial fetishes and stereotypes of course, but this one seems to beat all of them. The only one in competition is probably the "submissive Asian woman" thing but no white woman is freaking out an Asian woman is going to steal their man.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 06:12 AM
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Hey there :) I think it is white men who are very focused on these things and not white women. White women are actually the least likely women to date outside their race. It's actually a massive problem for non-white men who live in white dominant areas. My husband is not white (he's Korean) and I only know one other woman who has a non-white partner of any kind (Pakistani). Everyone else exclusively dates white men. White men through out history have spent a LOT of effort discouraging white wom…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 07:41 PM
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I really feel like a lot of men watched a lot of porn when their brains were developing and it formed a picture of the world that is very hard to change. There is nothing wrong with watching people have consensual sex, it's all the porn themes that are the problem. And racism is a major theme in porn made for a mainstream male audience. I'm not saying that women do not find Black men attractive, Black men are attractive just as every other ethic group is. But this idea that white women especiall…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 12:13 PM
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Not just looks bro. You're always in here saying the same crap over and over. Why do I bother responding?
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 11:56 AM
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It's really kind of hilarious you are overreacting like this to me just stating that the horrible way this man treated women in order to basically "hack" sex out of them was terrible and unacceptable. If there was a post about a woman who was writing about how to manipulate men to steal their money or something I would also think the person was terrible and make similar comments.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 07:27 PM
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r/MensLib is just about men and not about hating women.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 07:32 AM
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DINK - Double income no kids - is why gay male couples are often so well off. There is no reason het/bi mixed sex couples cannot do the same thing :)
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 07:21 AM
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Dick has only the value of the man it is attached to. Dick gains value based on the subjective feelings a woman has for that man. Random dick from random men with often no respect - or even aggressive disrespect - for the woman has minus value.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 07:15 AM
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Well this is mega cringe but I think it is supposed to be......funny??? The secret is that no man gets any woman he wants. Not even the chaddest chad.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 04:49 AM
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The Disappearance of the Beaumont Children happened in 1973 in South Australia. Three children went missing after being sent out all day alone, they were 9, 7 and 4 years old. They were never found and the probable murderer never identified or convicted. In my country this changed things forever basically overnight. I was born in 1979, not that long after, and no one "normal" would have sent such young children out to wander alone more than one or two houses away in my lifetime. I'm not sure tha…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 01:52 AM
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I'm really sorry you suffered childhood abuse :( A lot of the things you mentioned are not advantages for most women because most women are not people who want to prostitute themselves. Also many women aren't even attractive enough to do these things even if they wanted to. I know men often have this fantasy and think they would do this if they magically became a woman but it is largely just a male fantasy.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 01:32 AM
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" I think men still have to follow these rigid gender roles while women don’t have to as much." I 100% agree. Patriarchal societies are very rigidly controlling of men because men are their representatives in a sense, thus it matters less what women do. This system is not only enforced by men, there are horrible authoritarian women who are very happy to get up on a stage of some description and say men are this and men should do that. They try to tell men that they will have advantages over wome…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 01:29 AM
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LMR or last minute resistance is pretty common even when you've been passionately kissing a girl, really connected well and you both go to yours/hers/hotel room. Women generally won't want to be perceived as easy. Guys would normally react badly to this, as they got their expectations really high just to be let down in the "final step". Obviously you can't control feeling bad about this but you can definitely control how you react to it, and the advice given was to simply not react. Just keeping…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 01:12 AM
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The man pretended he had a future with these women, then he said he would leave if he didn't get sex. He had no intention on having a future with any of these people, when he did get sex it was because the woman was scared of this false illusion being taken away. This isn't true consent because it is made under false pretenses. This man is exactly the person that in the past people used to say to women that they should never have sex until they had a real commitment to avoid. This isn't a game b…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 01:10 AM
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Many women go on dates just to take advantage of men (get free drinks or dinner) so how would a man should react when he realizes that the woman he's dating is like this? It's his right to leave and cut communications. And if we were talking about some woman who advised other women about how to do this I would also have a serious issue with that and say she was treating people terribly and pooping in the dating punchbowl also. I didn't say that I was happy he killed himself. I am happy he is not…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/22 12:57 AM
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I love Tennessee Williams :) Not happy stuff tho LOL
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 08:36 AM
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I'm gen X, my mum is Boomer and my grandma was Silent Gen. Silent Gen people were of dating/marriage age in the 1950's. This is my understanding of how things worked from what my mum has told me of stuff she worked out by observing the older gen when she was young. Not everything was this dark but there was a hell of a lot of dark things going on under that shiny façade and there is a reason the Boomers had a social revolution against this culture that changed our society forever. People got eng…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 06:20 AM
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I'm a white Australian woman so I'm far away from your issue but the English speaking internet is dominated by Americans so I do actually see these angry yelling back men. I'm really sorry you have to deal with this. I see black women fighting back on social media too, I follow a bunch of outstanding black American women. I think as women we can all agree that this "pill" content is the most flagrantly sexist shit we have ever seen and promotes violence. Maybe there is more we can do about it or…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 01:50 AM
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This was helpful with my abusive ex. I imagined how awful it would be to be a defenseless old woman with him. That made me leave pretty quickly.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 01:18 AM
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Yes this really has gotten me several time. I thought it was because I am so loyal, it's not really that.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 01:14 AM
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"he sulks for hours, makes snide remarks, and trues to have what I would describe as degrading sexual contact with me." This is very serious abuse. You cannot achieve anything without putting your foot down. I don't know why but even men who aren't innately terrible often slide towards abuse easily when they have a personal problem. Simply refuse to put up with all of this and be really serious about it and express that you cannot and will not tolerate it. I wish I could tell you something else …
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 05:08 PM
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Thank you for contributing it! I really think this extreme sexism is contributing greatly to what people are calling heterofatalism - the concept that heterosexuality is doomed. Left and Right wing people agree in great numbers that heterosexuality is messed up. These people who think rape is a functional part of society and women should suffer for the benefit of the the group (wtf??) are greatly, greatly contributing to heterofatalism. The more we can get out the message that these kinds of pro…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/22 08:02 AM
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general social behaviour This is the baseline that is essential for anything else to happen though.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 07:44 PM
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This is great advice. The manosphere is obsessed with external things and doesn't like to touch on internal things. Like "confidence looks like X so do X". Self compassion is definitely important for everyone's welfare and we need it for ourselves regardless of what anyone else thinks or feels about it. You can have compassion for yourself no matter what you look like or have achieved in life. Women tend to help each other with these things in my experience. Like if a woman is feeling bad about …
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 07:42 PM
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I think there are sooooooooooo many people out there talking about this, generally men, who want to make out that the differences between men and women are unfathomably huge. I cant think of any other reason than that they want to push ideology over science, and it is generally an ideology of extreme sexism.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 07:25 PM
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“Evolutionary informed” counselling includes teaching women that post-rape trauma is a psychological adaptation and to use psychotropic medications “cautiously and selectively” (not because of their side effects but in order “not to eliminate the defense that psychological pain provides”). ​ Sick. These people (Thornhill and Palme) want rape victims to be in pain because they think it is helpful for us. Wow. This is some disgusting stuff. ​ "How would a society consistent with evolutionary psych…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 01:05 PM
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BEHOLD THE MEDIOCRITY!!! LOL
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 08:39 AM
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No it's ok you can believe whatever you want. I am a woman, who inhabits this lovely female body, who has been intimate with other women's lovely female bodies, who is related to other women, has had hundreds of women acquaintances and friends. I have read a lot of stuff over the years about sexological research and I have read a lot about history and goddess worship and Judeism/Christianity/Ilsam's intentional destruction of sacred sexuality. If you were interested it is very easy to find out t…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 08:35 AM
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Yeah that's a TERRIBLE way to treat a person. I really don't know how any man who follows a person like this can sleep at night, they really should think about what they are supporting. I'm glad he is not around anymore to hurt other people.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/22 08:25 AM
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I assumed you were around that age.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:35 PM
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He just means we are made of filth with a pretty exterior. I think it made him feel better about taking a vow of chastity. "Although, if you cite peer reviewed sources that study the variation in female sexuality through the ages, I'd be interested" this is kind of impossible in a sense because it was impossible to do real study of sexuality before the last 100 years because of Christianity. Which is convenient for you because then you can continue to believe no sexy women have ever existed ever…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 09:28 PM
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I overheard him saying to others that he “liked me” but didn’t respect me Not nice at all. I'm glad you cut him out. Sad :(
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 12:51 PM
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Ok then, no sexy women ever existed and female sexiness is not possible ever and has never happened. There was never any extreme variation in how men and women were treated between societies and how female sexuality was regulated. That is not at all a thing. No evidence exists of this at all. Yes you can go back all throughout history and identify incels, particularly in Church writings. It's quite hilarious. There was one priest fellow (cannot remember his name unfortunately) from hundreds of y…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 12:43 PM
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OH WOW that is incredibly weird! What is up with these zoological people? Actually, I read something today that said that when men are stressed they depersonalise and become cynical. They don't see people as people anymore, but instead as objects and problems. It's a way to distance yourself emotionally from your life so you don't have to feel anything about it. That article made me think about all these weird male behaviors.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 12:07 PM
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mimics a natural human behavior of just getting to know someone you see as an equal Why do you need to mimic natural human behavior? What are you, the Mothman?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 11:47 AM
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I don't know how old you are so it makes it harder to answer. But actually when men and women are surveyed about relationships what they want is pretty similar. They want companionship, affection and closeness, sharing activities/teamwork, generally also to share sexual pleasure, and often kids. All you can do is make sure you are relatively "together" as a person and you develop good relationship/communication/interpersonal skills.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 11:41 AM
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I think you and me speak from such different positions we have a hard time understanding each other LOL The whole of the OT is about the Hebrews destroying the dominant fertility religion in which women were the principle priestesses and public sexual displays were almost definitely part of the worship, hence in the NT all the harking back to the concept of the "Whore of Babylon". They went around destroying these people's temples and condemning the priestesses to death. That's what the Garden o…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/22 07:35 AM
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You are very self conscious. I was very self conscious as a young person. I lived in crippling embarrassment of myself 24/7. I'm not sure how to make it better on purpose but I'm sure a therapist knows. For me it got better naturally over time. Oh one thing that helped was this saying "what other people think of me is none of my business".
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 10:45 PM
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When we look at history we see that more than just what we see today is possible. I can only really cover the history of my people in detail. The conversion of Western Europeans to Christianity and it's anti-sex, and particularly anti-sexy woman, beliefs took a long time. It took convincing them that the sexy woman was in league with the devil and would condemn people to eternal torture in hell. Hundreds of years ago the church decried women for being the highly sexed ones and banned all sexual …
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 10:37 PM
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I actually agree but when they start getting all zoological and talking about BIRDS I am like "wtf?" LOL
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:40 PM
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If you stop having reciprocation with your friend you wont have a friend either.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 01:53 PM
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Where in my marriage is this unwritten contract? I know that a great, great number of women do not want to be giving sex for money because if we wanted that we would be sex workers and make much more money!!! There is a reason women don't want sex as much as men and a lot of that is about sex quality because the man thinks he has "paid" for it and thus the sex should be centred around his pleasure, his penis, his orgasm. But now usually partners work and sometimes the man still wants to act like…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 01:44 PM
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why base your theory on birds that are very, very distantly related from us when you could look at bonobo chimpanzees OUR CLOSEST RELATIVE???
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 01:06 PM
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But if she looks at you like a stunned animal or looks angry straight away just get out of there, she doesn't want to talk.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:51 PM
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The girl will be ok as long as you are polite, she will get on with her life and not think about it much afterwards. As long as you don't get angry or needy afterwards like demanding to know why she isn't interested or whatever. It's not like an assault or something. Just be wholesome about it, you're just trying to get to know someone better. No one can be too offended by that :)
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:49 PM
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How am I supposed to know who likes what, when they like to be approched, and how they like to be approched if at all. The thing that sucks is that you cannot know this beyond 1) paying attention to body language cues (what is a happy smile vs a fake uncomfortable smile) and 2) always stopping when a woman says no. You seem like someone who would be happy to do either of those things. Beyond that you have to know you will sometimes make mistakes and look dumb. I could not tell you how many weird…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 12:14 PM
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Maybe I was unclear, I apologise. It's not nice to get confused by people when you're trying to understand things like this. 1) I mean just talk to me like someone you were not trying to have sex with, just like neutral, friendly, open manner. No pick up tactics, just human to human. Two humans observing whatever thing is happening that instigated the conversation. Then I can "read" you because you're not trying to be another person or initiate some kind of tactic. Having time to read you means …
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 10:54 AM
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YOGA IS A GREAT IDEA!!!!! Like if a guy found a more "feminine" interest that he really does like and he genuinely got into that he would be surrounded by women and have lots of women friends. And if they trust you and like you they might introduce you to the nice, stable girl you want.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 10:00 AM
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I'm kind of similar in a way but I don't mind a cold approach but I just want to be treated like a person, not be "picked up". Like if they treat me in a friendly, non-flirting way at first I can see if I like them, then I would give a very clear signal so they can commence any flirting. Actually, that's not even necessary for me. But I like quiet shy men, not asshats like some men I've seen out there. If a dude was to try to do PUA shit on me I'd probably punch them in the balls LOL
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:57 AM
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Yep it's much more complex than he describes.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:26 AM
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See my other comment about RECIPROCAL human behavior. Transactional is like a relationship that is specifically as he describes.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:25 AM
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Agenda? What agenda? Being an actual human? lol
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:22 AM
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Exactly!
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:21 AM
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It's ok if that is two people's negotiated relationship but most people would feel extremely dehumanised by that. Also, where does the woman get sexual satisfaction if her role is to be a human fleshlight for that dufus? Women only agreed en masse to this arrangement when there were no other options. Pretty sure men want to be more than walking ATM's too???
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:21 AM
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No, I think the word you are looking for is reciprocal. Like I'm nice to you, you're nice to me. The moment one of us drops that ball the other one will feel uncomfortable and our relationship with fail. That's just basic human reciprocation everyone expects from people who are older than about 4 years old, that's not by definition a transactional relationship.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:19 AM
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You know what is dumb. Guys shouldn't be listening to this wanker talk shit he doesn't know about they should be going to day long seminars hosted by LESBIANS!!!! No one knows women better than lesbians!
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:16 AM
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I'm getting fucked by Chad right now! :P
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:14 AM
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That's a great idea :)
/r/ExRedPill04/01/22 09:13 AM
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XD
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 12:31 PM
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Of course but I always give people WAY too much benefit of the doubt LOL
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 12:15 PM
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So they are just rightwing authoritarians basically and their whole life is about upholding gender roles. Fucking weirdos.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 11:56 AM
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It isn't true outside of sugar baby type relationships, or rich men with trophy wives etc. An average man doesn't have enough to engage in a transactional relationship like this with someone who exchanges sex for money.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 11:54 AM
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I'm *this* far from starting to subscribe to the concept of spiritual warfare and speaking in tongues to drive out the evil hoards LOL
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 11:51 AM
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EXACTLY!!!!!! In both my long term relationships there were times I helped my male partner financially. Because you're supposed to be a team. Not sex worker and John. These men are literally ruining heterosexuality, like any scraps of beauty people have worked so hard to salvage from heterosexuality over the last 100 years these men are just collecting and setting on fire.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 07:56 AM
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That's totally different! Sex issues= 1) two people are not providing each other enough emotional intimacy/have too much interpersonal conflict to be able to have sex with each other that is enjoyable, or at all. 2) one or both have too much stress or too tired to have sex 3) one or both people lack the skills to describe what they want in bed 4) the man uses coercion instead of trying to understand is wifes needs etc Various complicated stuff like that... Money issues= 1) one partner has become…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 07:53 AM
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My husband and I have been trapped in separate states for months and he does not provide me money and I have been unable to have sex with him. Strangely, we still love each other. Seriously though, like I don't want to be religious about this I'm sure you understand this can be taken metaphorically but DO THESE MEN MAVE SOULS? They seem like heartless, inhuman monsters to me LOL
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 05:15 AM
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"Ralis normally does not go on more than three dates with the same person" "hinting at future plans to falsely lead women to believe "this is not a one-night stand," (From News Week article) So basically this guy has a couple of dates with women (which many women feel is the time they need to feel safe with someone and test if the man is interested in more than sex) and then coerces sex ("overcoming last minute resistance"). This is not consent. If there is any resistance there is no consent. Th…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 04:54 AM
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The last link I think doesn't go where you wanted it to? Pick-up Artist Tom Torero Sold Sex Recordings, Targeted Teen Girls Using Major Tech Firms https://www.newsweek.com/pick-artist-sold-sex-audios-targeted-teen-girls-using-major-tech-firms-1648461
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 04:43 AM
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HuffPost always seems to be purely opinion pieces.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 04:05 AM
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I've never heard of this either. In my experience women leave men who are incapable of providing intimacy, or who are burdensome (i.e. both partners work but the woman is responsible for everything else), or who are abusive.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 04:05 AM
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EXACTLY! Unhealthy people cannot have healthy relationships. Hetero people who hate / are scared of the opposite sex cannot have healthy relationships. TRP / incel forums etc are a VERY bad influence because it actively tells young men NOT to empathise with women (even providing detailed rationales around why rape isn't a big deal or that women even want to be raped!) and tells them to hate and / or be scared of them. Faced with seeing that, women feel they have almost zero ability to approach s…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 03:58 AM
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Well it has to be all interconnected because it's men and women being the most interconnected men and women can be. One persons issue directly relates to the other persons issue and when people are being unhealthy with each other they will make each other worse.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 02:46 AM
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No you're probably right. There are horrible men out there who want to have sex with a partner who has no boundaries and doesn't "interfere" with their enjoyment with their sentience and basic humanity. They do not see sex as an activity for two people. Some people even take this to the extent of necrophilia fantasies etc. There are people who have killed just to gain access to a passive body of the gender/age etc they prefer. I am not against these people having a doll at all.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 02:42 AM
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This study is from the same time period as the article: Overall, 68.6% of participants and at least one partner in 88.9% of couples reported that there was a final straw leading to the end of their marriage. General themes of final straw issues where generated through qualitative methods for participants who reported a final straw. Of the individuals who indicated that there was a final straw involved in ending their marriages, the most common cited reason was infidelity, which was reported by 2…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 02:29 AM
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Yes, exactly, it depends what you are measuring. I think what we need to do is really have empathy for the various things men and women struggle on. Like women lack sexual safety and maybe men lack relationship security? From what I have seen and experienced men not acknowledging women's need for sexual safety contributes directly to men's relationship security.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 02:18 AM
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I agree. Like some men (my brother is who I think of) have a lot of paternal type caring energy. That has to be considered extremely masculine I would think!
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:36 AM
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It is possible that this is the case. The woman writing the article is a lot older than the couples she is treating and the guys she is seeing as so sensitive might be less so also than they seem to their partners? It's also just very anecdotal, like it isn't a study. It's just her observation that these guys she thought were great and not abusive still had their relationships end. I'd like to see a study on this to show it it is actually a wider issue.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:35 AM
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This woman is a very conformist person. She clearly believes men should be a certain way and women should be a certain way. She contradicts herself "I know eboys are a big thing" but "no woman wants a man with painted nails". That doesn't make sense, if lots of women are getting sexually excited over pretty boys with painted nails then how does no woman want a man like this? These conventional women are out there of course but they aren't the only option. I would hate to be with the opposite gen…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/22 01:27 AM
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This is just my feminine perspective. A lot of the attention young women get is horrible. I was once working in a small shop by myself and a man came in during a slow period and we were alone making small talk. He suddenly said "I could take you into the back of the shop and fuck you". I thought he was going to rape me right then, nothing really would have stopped him. I just froze in fear and said nothing. He just kind of stared at me for a while and then left. I went through many unpleasant ex…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 05:04 PM
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One of the worst examples I saw was a man (a relationship coach trying to get clients) was trying to give a rationale for not doing dread game. But dread game is domestic abuse, anything other than trying to make your partner feel loved and respected is basically domestic abuse (unless you have to clarify boundaries or having a stupid argument over the bins or something like all couples do). I said basically that it was good he was discouraging people from doing dread game but very sad he though…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 04:10 PM
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I'm with you bro. I even get upset when people use gender essentialism to talk about men and I'm a woman. Yes there have been some pretty terrible threads lately.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 03:50 PM
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We are literally going to be in the Matrix movie LOL
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 09:44 AM
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I was just thinking about myself taking my sex toys out to dinner and taking selfies with them LOL You know I'd like to think that the majority of men can develop relationships with real women. I mean not if they take the redpill or the blackpill, no one wants that, but if they can live in a reality that women can recognise also.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 08:55 AM
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That last revelation was the final piece of figuring out the human conditioning into accepting vr as the ultimate escape. I think we are going to lose a big chunk of boys and men into the VR simulacra and they will become decrepit while sitting in their rooms with a headset stuck on their face.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 08:51 AM
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a woman past her prime We are human not livestock LOL I really think sometimes men are not able to look around at themselves, or the future versions of themselves. I'm bisexual so I can tell you that a woman or man are equally capable of looking good at equivalent ages. Women don't just go rotten at 25 or 30.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 07:18 AM
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You sound fine. That person just sounds difficult to be with, whether they are a dick or just socially incompetent.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 01:30 AM
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No apology required my dude :) I only said that because redpill was involved and that dictates AWALT and stuff like that.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 01:27 AM
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For the record, the only partner for whom I had this issue would also not really help me introduce myself when I was with her friends, as in talk to them as normal and expect me to get in. Some people are socially incompetent and don't understand how to introduce others. I also had a lot of male friends when I was younger and I was socially incompetent and a late bloomer socially. That's why it was easier to hang out with men, because women have a lot higher social demands of their friends. This…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 01:23 AM
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This kind of shaming for being a nice man who likes women and has emotions is kind of like the flip side of slut shaming for women. Essentially if a man has any qualities that are considered feminine, like being caring or loving, he will be called a simp or a cuck or a beta. It's extremely destructive and will drive young men to hurt themselves or others. The very scary thing is when a young man tries redpill ideas and they do not work (because they don't) then he might take the blackpill. Those…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 01:17 AM
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Well of course kpop artists are fit, they dance 12 hours a day. But they often don't show their bodies at all or very little. Korean media tends to be quite modest compared with Western media. Korean actors are not necessarily extremely fit like that though. I'm talking about Western women by the way also, not Korean women. But these days women enjoy a wide range of things and often things that are erotic to women don't even involve obvious sexual content. The point of what I am saying is that w…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:43 PM
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You'll be happy about it when you are a bit older. When I was your age I looked 16 to some people. I had a kind of serious job and it made it difficult. It will pay off later when you will look more fresh compared with men the same age. It doesn't mean at all that you are gross??
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 03:35 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, "Most guys would do almost anything to get laid." doesnt apply to most guys I've met. Thank you! :) Dudes don't understand the majority of women have experienced some kind of sexual violence and are doing our best to not have it poison our relationship with 50% of the population. Then this guy says something like that LOL.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 03:30 PM
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In regards to this being an unusual problem I don't really know because it's just not something I see in the real world or at least people that I talk with. Most women are involved in the treacherous endeavor of trying to establish emotional and sexual intimacy with men. This is some expert level shit. Most men from my experience are very confused and have hang ups at some stage around relationships and sex. If you could ask your friends gf's or wives for them to discuss with you you would hear …
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 02:19 PM
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I 100% respect what you are saying. That must be very hard! You must do whatever you feel comfortable with. I'm maybe a bit "aggressive* with myself about things, that's how I work. Maybe it isn't the most sane approach for all people haha. I very much doubt you would get the reaction you expect though. A man feeling shame or insecurity around sex and dating isn't that unusual I would have thought.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 12:21 PM
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That's beautiful bro! What a wonderful insight! I'm a woman so I really don't *need* to be in here using my energy to help guys like you. BUT I feel so worried though about young men because soaking in those entitled, transactional ideas and "energy" is the biggest cock block any man could impose on themselves. It's very self-defeating. I can understand what you are saying like TRP really does use that whole sex and death thing to get guys hooked. That makes it even more insidious than I underst…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 12:15 PM
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Turning 30 makes everyone feel crazy, men and women. It's a milestone where you are "supposed" to have reached certain goals and people say you are doomed it you haven't. It's not true. I got married at 39 to the love of my life. You WILL meet other people. Life will go on. Happy New Year to you too bro :)
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 11:09 AM
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The fish would say "fuck off don't eat me!" LOL
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 11:04 AM
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Also something people who are against "socialised" health care don't consider is the immense COST of not keeping the population healthy.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 11:02 AM
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Also an Australian. We are always criticising our system for not being good enough and that's good for progress for us, but I feel so bad thinking about the situation for so many Americans. Americans are great people and deserve better <3
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 11:01 AM
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This all seems very sexist....
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:34 AM
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I think back on sex I had less than a month ago with my husband and I'm 42 LOL
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:31 AM
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Just my 2c coming from the opposite side of the tracks. I had trauma caused by men (SA) and I personally found having a male therapist and going through the process of putting my faith in them to be very healing :)
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:30 AM
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The men I am not with now are men I rejected for some reason. The man I am married to does not have those problems and I really really love him. Women don't have this cartoon experience that we are like so valuable and wonderful and then we get to be 30 and we are like "oh no I'm becoming old and gross I better find any man who will have me so I can exploit him for money!" We don't have that experience because we continue for a long time after 30 to be considered valuable by men. I was 39 when I…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:28 AM
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I am simply pointing out the reality of what most men are like. I'm sure you do know and I'm not trying to say you're bad or something and it's good you are trying to do something about this stuff. The "reality" of what most men are like makes me want to move to a lesbian island. Can you tell us maybe how to find men who don't think their desire excuses abuse? What are the best green flags so to speak of a nice man who has empathy so women can avoid anyone who might capable of deciding to do the…
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:17 AM
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It's the same morally imbecillic low-empathy shit as when men make analogies around rape and waving money around in the street. Like bro, I'm not a fish for you to hunt and eat, and my body is ME, not something I can avoid inhabiting to be safer.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:12 AM
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Seriously, are you using desire for sex as an excuse for abuse??? I know actually you are trying to be helpful but this response makes me (and probably more women than just me) really feel so distant from and disliking of men.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 10:05 AM
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It is essentially a form of coercive control, the man refuses to give the woman any emotional security unless he gets what he wants from her at all times. Very abusive, whether it is applied by men or women.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 09:55 AM
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Can I leave this planet now? Are there other options yet? LOL
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 09:46 AM
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It is extremely sad that it appears to be necessary to provide evidential arguments against what is essentially domestic violence. You would think people could realise that domestic violence is ethically wrong and leave it at that. You'd think men could have enough empathy to realise being abused actually makes people want to run away instead of stay. However, if that is what men need to hear to keep women safe then thank you.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 08:53 AM
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Have you seen how popular Kpop and Korean dramas are? That archetype is the most opposite to Outlander possible.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 07:23 AM
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100 year old virigin who creeps into women's bedrooms at night and wants to eat them. I watched that film and it creeped me out and made me laugh in equal measure LOL
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 07:21 AM
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you'll have a sex life and it'll probably last until you reach an age where you both get floppy enough that younger people will try not to picture it This is the dream.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 07:19 AM
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Yeah I agree. I want to go to the gym and get fit and get some musculature just because I know from past experience it feels great to be strong, it changes a lot about how you move and hold yourself. I assume a lot of men just feel like that.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 04:40 AM
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Fair enough, that seems logical and consistent. You're right of course that all sex has a possibility (however low) of creating a baby. People really don't think about that enough.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 04:28 AM
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Personally the RedPill content I have seen makes me very scared of men. It's scary like looking at extreme feminist content, which actually agrees with TRP about what men want and are like. I'm not sure what the benign content you might be talking about is, is it the stuff which is like "women have eyes and like attractive people, if you want to attract more women you should wear nice clothes and be fit and healthy" because I wouldn't say that belongs to any Pill.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/22 03:59 AM
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It's probably not just about superficial things, she will want someone she can share life with and if gym is part of her life it will be cute and fun to share it together.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:58 AM
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I've been with a handsome man with a boring personality, it was my shortest relationship ever. We had zero in common except we both found each other attractive. It was super lame.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:53 AM
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I 100% see that he would be a narcissistic bully. He really likes to get fired up and he demands a lot of reverence from his fans.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:49 AM
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I've noted that misogynists have ZERO concern with being consistent or rigorous.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:44 AM
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I feel like these people have a weird relationship with sex and bodies, their own and other peoples. I feel like they are disgusted even by their own drives because even when they discuss their own desires it' just sounds terrible. No sensuality at all. I'm so glad not to be them! :)
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:42 AM
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It's absolute rubbish. I think it is a fairy tale and a fantasy, like so much of other crap in TRP. What percentage of men are 1) good looking enough AND 2) have good enough communication skills AND 3) don't have a conscience about being dishonest with women? I don't think that's a big percentage that have all of these combined. I don't think there is too much plate spinning that will ever be happening in the male population anyway. Most men have a hard time finding a few women to speak to at on…
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:39 AM
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Rich Cooper is HORRIBLE. His head looks like every other middle age man's head, his personality is so aggressive and woman-hating, once we get through that I don't care what the body looks like lol. I think he only has a chance with a delusional young woman who is not bright, unless he has a totally different personality when he turns off the camera?
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:14 AM
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In my experience, people become better lovers through multiple encounters with the SAME person Yes. Definitely. If you maintain your relationship's non-sexual intimacy and communication skills and don't fuck it up by being assholes to each other it should get better and better over time :)
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:08 AM
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biology, psychology, and culture. What do you mean? I'm curious.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:03 AM
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What???
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 08:00 AM
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I was watching but he said "I don't eat out out the coochies of the shorties in my rotation" and only said to do it with your main woman. That's fucked. I don't like him and I don't think it's "spiritual" to treat some women like garbage and just use them as a self-warming sex doll. He seems like the same as the others with the "spinning plates" thing. They do it to hurt women, to get one over on them. There is nothing wrong with dating multiple people honestly and being polyamorous but this is …
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 07:46 AM
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The most immediately sexy man I ever met was a 5'5" Eurasian man* I met when I was about 22. I had a weird fixation on height at the time (I dunno why, I was a weird kid) and I walked up to him to meet him (he was a friend of a friend) and after finding out his name I asked who was taller him or me. That's a a very strange question (I was probably drunk) but he went with it and we went back to back and found out we were almost exactly the same height. So immediately we were close physically and …
/r/ExRedPill31/12/21 07:29 AM
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You think right now we understand everything we need to about a topic?? Bro we just found out something about women's eggs we didn't know before. We are always finding out more info. Evo psych has interesting theories and many are probably right but TRP uses them in a way to say like "it has always been this way, will always be, and will never change". Meanwhile if you study history you find that humans have had a very wide range of behaviors over time. There are environmental factors as well as…
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 06:53 AM
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When did I say it was ok?? It's not ok. But it is what women are doing when they do that. They aren't looking for what redpill dudes think they are looking for, that was the only point.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/21 08:13 AM
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Whoa you're a legend giving me such a well thought out reply! :) I don't think pre patriarchy was all rosy. I think people were crazily superstitious and probably still did all kinds of things they weren't into. If you think sex makes the crops grow you probably end up having sex you don't want. If you think there are various gods around you for all kinds of things and if you piss one off you're going to be fucked then you'll probably be really paranoid LOL. Also, society was still shit and the …
/r/ExRedPill29/12/21 07:43 AM
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Thank you :) I'm glad what I wrote was helpful! I think men and women are similar and different. There was a time long ago when women's sexuality was understood better but the problem is that western society was molded by Romans and violent monotheism that was basically anti-women overall. The word vagina in Latin means "sheath for a sword" - rendering a penis a violent weapon and the vagina/vulva a passive object - and the Greco-Roman world was specifically anti-clitoris. Like they said stimula…
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 09:20 PM
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You're awesome bro. You're going to be 100% fine and get most of the things you want in life :)
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 05:44 PM
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I could look at pictures of very beautiful women and feel envy for them I guess. But I'm not really that bothered to have what they have I guess, and I know beautiful people have problems too, sometimes really horrible problems. Like recently we found out all these models got raped by horrible agents and photographers when they were basically just kids. And a lot have eating disorders because while they were growing up their managers and designers would talk about their body as only an object an…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 05:23 AM
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I think people are angry at you for other stuff, because you got the answers you asked for and then APPEARED to get all twisted out of shape that to get what you want IRL you would have to learn how to make women feel good, or that what you want is very rare IRL. I don't think the fantasy of having a woman thinking your dick is bomb and being very enthusiastic about you physically is bad at all. I basically have the equivalent fantasy. I want a man to be like "OMG your pussy so good, so beautifu…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 05:13 AM
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Thank you for your feedback Mr Rapist.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 03:45 AM
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I recommend "A History of The Goddess" by Edward Dodge as an easy to read investigation of life in the near east prior to the violent imposition of monotheism. Also you can read the Old Testament. Where the OT talks about the "witches" and "prostitutes" that they want to kill they are talking about the female leaders of the local fertility religion. When they talk about cutting down Asherah poles they are talking about destroying the places of worship of this religion. When they discuss how the …
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 03:15 AM
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I'm glad you keep trying. People CAN change if they have self awareness and try very hard. I know I have changed in a million ways in my life. I wouldn't even want to meet myself from 20 years ago lol.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/21 01:40 AM
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I am 42. I came out of a LTR in 2018 when I was 38. I was ready to start looking around soon after because the relationship had been pretty dead a long time, one of those things where you keep trying for loyalty but the other persons behavior makes it impossible. Anyway, I had a very specific kind of rare thing I like and I had no issues at all finding nice people to talk to and I met my husband within months of being single. I got into a whirlwind relationship with him and we got married in les…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 04:15 PM
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AWALT is about women being duplicitous and untrustworthy. AWALT is not about women being aroused by different things then men are. Of course women generally have a different pattern of arousal than men, otherwise I'd probably be incredibly interested in getting into my husbands butthole. And while some women ARE very interested in that, most aren't. Actually men are probably more likely to fantasise about that particular fantasy. The "women are not a monolith" thing is to argue against the redpi…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 02:13 PM
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When a woman loves a man and they have sexual chemistry you develop a real affection for the thingy. There is a kind of relationship between you and the thingy. Sometimes it makes you do funny things like I have kissed my husbands thingy and told it "goodbye" after sex when he puts his pants back on. All the bonding hormones make you a bit silly like that lol.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 01:35 PM
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"How does foreplay work for women?" Women are going to vary on this and there will be general consensus, but I can only speak to my experience and some statistical information I am aware of. Men should discuss this with the individual woman they are sleeping with, consent is essential and sexy as fuck. I think the super key thing a man needs to get is that the woman's clit is her penis and vice versa. Like literally in a fetus when the male fetus is exposed to testosterone the clitoral structure…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 01:15 PM
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I am dearly hoping that after this point where we have hashed out the great evils men have committed (which followed an earlier period where women were blamed for everything from all parenting problems to getting raped, even as children) that we can get onto the great evils women perpetuate. Then I hope after that point we can de-gender abuse and victimhood and just focus on the type of people who abuse and who enables abuse. Because really we all enable abuse to some degree at some point, we al…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 12:28 PM
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Human beings are so much more than their biology. I agree. I wholeheartedly agree. Maybe we don't know 100% why men and women are different like this but it appears we are. We could improve this by dealing with slut shaming and making life safer for women in regards to sex. That would increase the likelihood of women just jumping on men's dicks.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:49 AM
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I could look at nipples for days and get very little reaction but really its the entire person and their face and some other crap about the person. This is why in boybands they always REALLY stress the unique personalities of the guy and stupid shit like "what is your favourite colour" and less stupid things like what the guy thinks about some ethical issue. So the audience is like "OMG Tom is so cute and he really cares about koala bears and likes the colour green just like meeeeeeee! He will b…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:43 AM
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Hahahhahahahahahhahahaha
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:35 AM
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Given some of the guys I see women around me get with I'm not sure this is entirely true. I get this. I think a LOT of doing well with women when you are young is just being outgoing, confident and friendly because then you make more connections. Terrible people, like truly awful people, can sometimes be better at this than shy but much nicer guys, it's one of life's great injustices.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:34 AM
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Trying to imagine masturbating to a picture of an underwear model is so funny, that would be completely impossible for me. As a teen I had such intricate fantasies about the context and the imaginary man.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:29 AM
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Women generally hate dick pics, unsolicited dick pics are on their way to being made illegal in the west. And I'm not sure how many women solicit dick pics. Women like pics of naked men with a penis but really I think they look more at the whole man. Like if the man is lovely and you see the lovely mans pp that could be exciting. Women get actually very turned on by clothed images of men that are somehow sensuous and then they think about that man taking the clothes off etc. Women go crazy over …
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:27 AM
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Like I want a woman to just want me y'know. No context, no strings, no nothing. She just sees me and wants to fuck me like that, just raw animal attraction. I wanna be a sex object, is that bad? That's a beautiful fantasy :) I think it is possible except the "no context, no strings" bit not so much. I'm not saying women don't do casual sex but they are significantly less interested in it than men are. Sex is high risk for women in lots of ways, from being shamed for being a slut, to having a lam…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:19 AM
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However, “dick” can be made much more valuable is the person it is attached to is a valuable person (fun to be around, has good personality characteristics, etc). This applies to both casual sex as well as meaningful relationships. This is a very concise explanation.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:12 AM
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Why do people assume that I'm not good enough? Why is the advice always 'be a better person'? No no no. No one means you suck as you are. It's a terrible misunderstanding if this is how men take these comments. Life is a process of personal development. A lot of people neglect this so the more developed you are the better advantages you have.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:09 AM
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Which is to say, women care more about the person than the dick attached to it. Fuck yes!!! Men are not dildos you select based on colour, size, shape etc they are complex and beautiful beings whose sexiness is within their sharp minds, their kind eyes, the veins on their hands, the way they cuddle you etc etc. I remember when I was getting to know my husband and I could tell during chatting he wanted to send me a dick pic and I basically begged him not to and I explained how I wanted to "meet" …
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 11:07 AM
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I'm trying to be expressive and describe my experiences in a way that someone who has never felt what I felt can empathise. I fucking looooooooooooooove men. You guys are great. One thing I appreciate about men is that men are considerably more light hearted than women generally and can enjoy a joke better. Women are quite serious a lot of the time, so when you want to have someone take you seriously they are better at that. If you want to laugh about how stupid the world is generally men are be…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 10:41 AM
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Ok I will try this... I'm sure some woman will pop up at me and disagree, all our opinions are subjective. There is some truth to this because of how men act, not because women aren't attracted to men or don't want sex. A young woman basically has dicks thrown at her 24/7 and she doesn't really want any of them because of the behavior of the man attached to the dick. Men act really weird about sex from a female perspective. We would (most of us) not send a pic of our kitty at a man with a messag…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 08:56 AM
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Lifting weights is awesome and being strong is awesome, but don't do it for us, do it for yourself :)
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 03:35 AM
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I think TRP is a bit like the extreme end of radical feminism, I think it is a trauma response. It's easy when abused by a particular type of person (like men or women) to get into black and white thinking i.e. "all women are soulless harpies". In fact I think our primative brain is primed for this and it takes real work to resist it after trauma. I would expect an above average number of these men had mothers who had some kind of inappropriate or abusive parenting behavior. For women I think it…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 03:29 AM
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Sounds like you learned from that though?
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 03:20 AM
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I agree. I don't do this myself and a lot of people don't, a lot just get divorced when they cannot resolve their issues. But people do do it and these are usually the reasons.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 02:39 AM
13

You know what I think women are "on the lookout for" it's fucking intimacy and safety and consideration. When women go wandering and get into flirting with other men it is because they feel totally unseen and unappreciated and their husband has basically turned them into his mum or is being abusive. We're not looking for a better looking or richer man all the time, most women really don't want to be always looking for another partner any more than most men do. What CAN happen is that they meet a…
/r/ExRedPill25/12/21 12:44 PM
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One thing you have to realise is that a lot of this comes out of women being pressured to make just one correct decision that will predict her whole life. That's the history of it, having to marry young and forever and having family members getting involved etc. Being told that the only thing you have to catch a man is your youth and beauty and your womb encourages women to view men in a similar horrible, objectifying fashion. If you think he is judging you on superficial shit it would be stupid…
/r/ExRedPill25/12/21 11:32 AM
5

This is useful generally, I have downloaded :) Merry Christmas!
/r/ExRedPill25/12/21 12:53 AM
2

In some cultures women basically aren't allowed to have a sexuality and are expected to be a living breathing fleshlight and broodmare. That's a bad situation. I'm not saying that is YOUR culture because I have no idea where you are from or anything about you. But there is such a thing as human rights and you will find that given freedom as an option women would prefer to have access to their own sexuality. It's a natural part of your body and soul.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 06:14 AM
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You are clearly not capable of engaging in respectful dialog with women and thus are unqualified for a relationship with one.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 05:58 AM
2

So you don't actually care about how we got here or about how different societies looked at this issue? You just want to stick within TRP view on this and act like it is the only view that ever had merit. Fair enough.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 07:40 PM
8

I think younger people WANT to believe their parents or grandparents weren't fucking around but often they were lol My mum definitely had more promiscuous behavior than me. Her stories sound like she had sex with almost anyone who remotely liked her. She was VERY into male attention.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 07:36 PM
1

You really lack reading comprehension, don't you.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 07:31 PM
2

You're not even trying to be balanced about this though. People who engage in excessively critical or paranoid one-sided analysis of either gender aren't being productive when dealing with gender relations. You don't even acknowledge the heart of my argument here, which is that each gender can use evolutionary psych to get all bent out of shape about the other gender. You can of course reject a partner for ANY reason you desire, even silly things like their haircut. I think though that although …
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 07:24 PM
3

You cannot understand the full picture unless you realise the full inhumanity people lived in in the past, not just women but also men. But the women part of the pie is not looked at at all. My grandmother had 5 kids, she didn't really even like kids it was just what you did. She was not a good mother and delegated a lot of the work to my mum, her oldest daughter. When my grandmother got to 50ish her reproductive system fell apart and she needed a hysterectomy. Her husband left her for a woman 2…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 12:48 PM
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Bro what is it with dudes that have misogynistic and nationalistic attitudes that they are so damned natalist and think their genes desperately need spreading? If a woman wants your genes they will come and let you know basically, and you cannot force women to select you. But just so you know talking about birthrates makes women's external reproductive anatomy become internal it is that disgusting to us. Women don't want to be brood mares. We generally DO want kids and to raise a family with som…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 11:47 AM
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I think that the "get them young and virginal" thing the redpill promotes will really backfire. If dudes succeed they just end up 10 years later with a grown up woman who may well have outgrown them and learned inside out their manipulations and insecurities. That will not be pretty. All the emphasis on avoiding a woman who has experience but no focus on building intimacy or giving her good experiences to build the relationship and give it solid foundations. Even if they achieve their short term…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 11:27 AM
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I think something weird has happened to men in the last 10-15 years. I cannot escape the thought that constant exposure to porn from childhood has done this to younger guys. I think this weird phobia that your future wife (who you don't even know yet) is cucking you right now is EXTREMELY pathological. It's very new to me, and strange because the younger generation are having less sex than my generation did (Gen X) and men from my generation didn't go on about being cucked like this. In my MUM's…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 11:22 AM
1

I feel like you need to give your body more love. Your body is you, you should give it goodness as a sign of love not to exert power over others. Your body benefits from being fit and strong and well-nourished. Maybe take on a perspective of looking at your body as basically an innocent animal that needs your care. Your body gets bossed around by your ego that wants it to meet it's ego needs, and as you said your ego has become kind of toxic. You need to free your body from judgement and shame a…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 09:27 AM
1

You could have a codependency issue where you feel the need to accommodate peoples every desire. I kept naturally becoming a counsellor and for me it is because my mother put me in that role when I was growing up. It made me feel very vulnerable like people could just use me for that role. It also made it hard for me to set boundaries which meant that people didn't give me anything I wanted and sometimes really hurt me. What helped was learning about codependency and what I could do to take some…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 09:11 AM
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Why is your focus just on women though? Men AND women both have mating strategies found in evolutionary psychology that their partner wouldn't like and find threatening. Men's mating strategies in particular can be VERY dangerous to whoever they find attractive if left unchecked, especially compared with "slutty women" who actually give many men happiness and good memories. In ancient Greece the men basically only allowed prostitutes to walk free in the streets, mind you these were often just ch…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 08:56 AM
1

I agree these are known facts. I'm not sure why everyone is freaking out about it. I suggest that paternity tests should be done at birth during any routine screenings of the baby so men can stop freaking out about being cucked. I understand that the idea of raising a baby for years and finally finding out they are not related to you would be horribly traumatic and is a fear for many men. I think that recently it has been an uncontrollable phobia for a group of men and perhaps is ruining their c…
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 08:38 AM
3

"Men apparently assess and evaluate levels of sexual activity by a woman prior to long-term commitment—behavior that would have been observable or known through social reputation in the small-group lifestyles of our ancestors. Past behavior is a good predictor of future behavior, and having a large number of sex partners prior to marriage is a statistical predictor of infidelity after marriage" I'm not taking issue with your whole thesis, just this part. Only problem with this generalisation is …
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 08:21 AM
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Awful. The whole philosophy encourages abuse. 0/10, would not do it again.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 08:09 AM
2

I have met one unpleasant man who was an ok friend (not that great tho) but a terrible boyfriend. He said he lost interest as soon as a woman gave in to him. He was from overseas and he came to my country and was desperate to get a gf, when he got one she seemed lovely. He lost interest her immediately and just used her for accommodation, really pissed me off. I think some guys are also scared of outgoing women. And some think an outgoing girl would just fuck anyone. I wonder if it comes down to…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 08:04 AM
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I'm not saying YOU caused the problem. But the problem is these gender stereotypes that women should be X and men should be Y. Doesn't matter if men or women encourage that both are bad but men are incredibly LOUD about it lol.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 10:40 PM
2

Maybe if angry men didn't shame outgoing women so much, or tell women that initiating relationships made them worthless and men will use them just for sex, then shy men like you might get more women approaching you. Just a thought for dudes generally.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 09:22 PM
2

<3 <3 <3
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 10:05 AM
3

Yes, extreme radical feminists are the same. They could look at a baby boy and decide they already know all about him and how dangerous he is the day he is born.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 07:51 AM
2

I think those TRP and FDS people are very confused by diversity and complexity. Yes, I'm doing my thing and I'm not finding their view of reality matches my experience. I got married to my gorgeous baby at 38, he is 7 years younger than me, he is exactly what I wanted. My time wasn't running out because of "the wall" and my way of doing things didn't deprive me of access to mates. You know who is my role model? One of the oldest goddesses we know of, Inanna (also known as Ishtar or Astarte). Her…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 07:47 AM
1

I think what they really mean is authoritarian. They worship angry, aggressive, simpleminded guys who want to punish women for basically existing as independent humans ("women must be held accountable!!!!" etc). You can tell because the kind of guys they hate are the opposite, like caring, open-minded dudes who can take another persons perspective and who understand nuance and don't really want to punish anyone for anything - those people are traitors to "the cause". The cause is apparently redu…
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 07:27 AM
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I think there are more like us I think that people like to believe others should only have one kind of relationship and that one will be perfect and all others are dysfunctional, like the RP dudes and the FDS women. But just because a man is quiet and shy or whatever doesn't mean he is a beta and undesirable, terrible stuff.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 08:31 PM
2

Do we have the angry yelling men with the red faces? Do they just turn up at house parties and start shaming women for existing and men for not being alpha enough?
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 12:46 PM
1

I'm Australian. We're not very superficial overall probably compared with Americans? We're probably similar to English people. I'm not thinking of outliers, I really cast my mind back, the great looking girls from school did worse in my experience than the less good looking ones. Maybe the really good looking ones got targeted by worse men? I'm older than you so I think social media has increased superficiality in my observation. I don't think male appearance was anywhere near as commodified whe…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 11:15 AM
2

Hypergamy Edition!!! lol
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 10:52 AM
8

Having clinical anxiety sucks, I hope you can find ways to improve this and feel better. Having anxiety is separate from other personality stuff though. I have anxiety that I take meds for and has gotten better through time and some self-development stuff (like understanding why certain stuff triggers my anxiety, understanding my past has helped). But mental illness even though it effects your expression, sometimes totally, is not personality or introversion/extraversion. My ex had panic disorde…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 10:51 AM
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Harry Styles is also with an actor/director almost 10 years older who has two kids. This dude is ridiculously popular and could date any 18 y/o model he wanted and yet somehow choses a single mum who is apparently "post wall". All RP stuff is garbage.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 10:21 AM
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Oh you're right, they are like a pack of hyenas!
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 10:16 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BA19DJ5Onto
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 10:16 AM
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO We all - men and women - should develop ourselves as we get into adulthood so we are both fairly healthy and well-adjusted people and able to have good friendships and romantic relationships. I hear that men get really fucked up at a certain stage when they realise at 18 or whatever that what they are "isn't enough". None of us are "enough" at 18. We all should be open to personal growth. That's not about superficial things and it's not about having what a "gol…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 10:14 AM
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I like shy men. I always have. I am a rather forward woman, outgoing when I feel connected to someone. I don't like being the passive partner, I like to court the other person instead of being courted. Like I like them to do nice things for me too of course, but I don't have rules around the man paying for dates or him having to call first or whatever. I think people should just be natural and do whatever makes sense between them as people, like I make decent money and I've often made more than …
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 09:57 AM
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What really freaks me out is they ascribe to this kind of philosophy I would describe as "hollow". People are just their bodies and their genetic programming. All the substance of life is missing, any emotion except anger and jealousy and indignation is missing. People are just rated bodies floating around looking for someone with a higher number to connect with at the genitals. Women are just a a life support system for reproductive organs who expire basically as soon as we become proper adults…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 12:06 PM
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Don't think tho that just because a woman is attractive it means that she only cares about superficial things in her partner. MANY models have married ugly photographers or other people from the back end of the business, people not in the limelight. I cannot testify to what these men were like but a lot of these marriages seemed to last a decent amount of time in the scheme of things, so it seems they were drawn together by the shared life experiences and the woman didn't run away as soon as her…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 11:29 AM
3

That person would understand my pain, they might have something meaningful to say to me!
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 09:19 AM
3

No she is saying she has a similar problem she is struggling with but the opposite way around. People can have this issue where a member of a group does something bad over and over to them and they extend their fear to the whole group. It's a very human problem I think a lot of us will deal with in life.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 07:36 AM
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I don't see a mocking comment, this person is empathising with a similar problem????
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 06:57 AM
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Women go through these phases with men too. It's a trauma response, after something awful happens to you the brain is looking for danger all the time. The key is to intentionally go looking for examples of women that are more complex and more positive than the redpill gospel allows. For me I have a history of sexual trauma and domestic violence at the hands of men I loved, it's really hard to deal with and I could just go look at rad fem stuff that says all men are horrible animals and live in t…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/21 06:56 AM
2

I agree. I have know several sworkers and they did not have a good time. They did what they felt they had to do and it lead to trauma. I don't want to discount there can be some people happy to do it but I think they are very rare people.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 10:04 AM
1

Which one?
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 05:51 AM
3

I agree generally with you. Give women the means to support themselves on the same playing field as men, then any woman who still wishes to do sex work let her do it legally, with a union and with regulated minimum conditions and pay. I believe it will be a very small number of women in full contact sex work after that.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 05:24 AM
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Yeah I don't think good natured, happy-go-lucky guys stumble into the redpill and suddenly just go crazy from that alone. I think they could look at it for a while but if there isn't something to hook them in it I think they would loose interest and walk away to do something else more enjoyable. I think to a degree it is weaponised trauma. Men are walking around with a lot of childhood traumas out there and they are right they are not given a lot of space to deal with it.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 03:02 PM
3

I like the yin and yang too, I think if we take the good parts from that and throw out the horrible oppressive bits it can be fun and beautiful :)
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 01:26 PM
1

No I don't think so, he was a fairly gentle nurturing person I thought when we met but he was quite narcissistic too and my codependent ass didn't recognise it. His mother was a narcissistic abusive drunk who was sexually abused by her father and she talked to him about that from a young age. She was a very high conflict person with people she was familiar with and coward with anyone else, very difficult to be around. Super critical and inappropriate. She liked to talk about my ex like he was an…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 10:47 AM
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Women don't always leave for a better option, I'm not saying it never happens but in my lifetime I actually haven't seen a woman leave to go directly into another relationship. They always left because they didn't like that particular guy. So there was I'm sure an idea like "this sucks, I can do better than this" but not someone directly they went to. Oh hang on I thought of one example but she was all over the place cheating on one then going to the other and then breaking up and going back to …
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 10:19 AM
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My ex was a proto-redpill gamergate loser, basically he just went crazy and started watching Sargon of Akkad videos and talking about how women were the cause of everything bad on earth and saying increasingly abusive things until the abuse went past the point of believability and there was zero except abuse and selfishness. We stopped having sex because he wanted to make me a BDSM slave. He gaslit me into thinking my MH issues were incredibly severe and used it to get control over me. This was …
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 08:31 AM
1

What exactly does "cope" mean in normal people English? Does it mean you have found an enjoyable hobby or does it mean your hobby is stopping you from having a nervous breakdown?
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 07:56 AM
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What about the INSIDE of the girl, like her values and shit. If she is superficial and very focused on looks or money then the answer would be 100% yes but not every nice looking girl has the same ambitions to think in a really Machiavellian way like "I am in my prime being 18-25 years old and very attractive I must use this time to locate the best genetic match for my offspring and not commit until I find him". Some very attractive women don't value looks because if you are smart you realise ea…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 07:34 AM
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Good for you in finding the caring part of yourself, THIS is the part we have relationships with. It's very simple. Women as a group are more empathic than men, you can call that emotional if you wish. So those of us who are nice people go around in the world caring about others and trying to support them as we can. The idea of a man who pays that back in his own way, with his own energy and care, not necessarily any money, is bliss for us. We want a partner, someone to be a team with to make li…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 07:18 AM
2

I feel like you are a victim of psychological abuse and you are kind of repeating that cycle of hatred internally. More than you need to worry about finding a woman or being attractive or whatever for your own welfare you need to try to resolve your trauma.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 07:09 AM
1

I really wish I could remember it was something I watched very randomly on a day when I watched like 5 documentaries.
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 07:05 AM
3

For younger guys who like video games Dr K on Healthy Gamer GG YT channel is really good, very healthy takes on self development, dealing with mental health and relationships for guys :)
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 08:39 AM
1

Ben Shapiro doesn't give his wife WAP.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 08:37 AM
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My parents have hobbies, dnd is a hobby, playing games is a hobby too as long as you do more than just that all day. If nothing makes you happy you might be clinically depressed which is a risk factor for people with autism. Being autistic can be a hard life and autistic people deal with some stresses that NT's might not.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 08:35 AM
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Women are different from each other. Personally I like to chase the guy a bit but not so much I don't know if he loves me or not, that's horrible and makes me feel crazy. I think people should be open about their style and how they like to communicate and not play games. Some women want a guy who texts a lot and sends them lovely messages morning, noon and night, some women like a bit more of an aloof vibe where less is more. But it shouldn't be some formula you picked up online because that can…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 08:29 AM
2

I'm glad you were able to have confidence in yourself and strike up conversations with women but you obviously have decent social instincts but just needed practice and confidence. You're not a native English speaker and I'm not sure where you are from, it could be that in your culture flirting in the street is more easily accepted than in my culture? It could be that PUA stuff in your language is a lot less toxic than the stuff I have seen even? I have seen videos of men who were not in anyway …
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 08:16 AM
2

I think it has to be about low self esteem, like needing attention and demonstration of worth constantly via sex. Also low empathy and narcissism potentially.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 07:36 AM
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Bad people can be male or female and we all have feelings. We are all precious beings who can be hurt, and we are all capable of hurting others. I totally agree that men need safe spaces to express their trauma, and both other men and women need to not mock them for that. Both sides need to stop the "whataboutisms" like a man says "X is a really bad problem for men" and women say "Oh yeah, but what about Y problem". That's really no good, no matter what side does it, and it happens all the time.…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 07:30 AM
1

Ratings are subjective. For some reason people think it's a science but people do have tastes that vary in a population. This is why you can say to people "what is your type". I like short chubby blonde women with a round race and big eyes, some other person wants a tall skinny brunette and calls my crush a "landwhale". It's kind of rubbish.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:32 PM
1

I really hate ratings. It just doesn't sit well with me to rate people like they are show dogs or something.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:29 PM
2

Please avoid women who don't speak your language, aren't in their home country, are very young, or anyone else who belongs to a vulnerable population. Human trafficking is a real thing, and it can only stop if consumers demand ethical sex work. ^THIS
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:25 PM
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I think it's ok if he says stuff where there is a natural opening to say stuff, just make a little conversation for a moment and move on if the other person is not pursuing the conversation. But no, women don't want a weirdo just hovering around for no reason obviously trying to run some kind of PUA script.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:23 PM
1

Not cold approach like in PUA videos, that never works. More like if you are in line at the store and something happens you just make a funny comment about it. You shouldn't be trying to pick up, just getting to know the people in your environment (who are your desired gender).
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:21 PM
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YES! Do things because being positive and kind and loving makes you happy. The other person might think "wow, that's a positive, kind, loving person! I want more!" but they might also just say "thank you". Do stuff that feels right to you, don't try to "game" people because they don't work like that where you put niceness coins in a woman until sex falls out. Just be nice to women because they deserve kindness, if you find out they are not nice and you made a mistake just move on and don't exten…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:17 PM
2

I understand because you know how vulnerable those men are and why they are there.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:08 PM
2

I'm wrong but in my experience women very much enjoy a man who is masculine, secure, and kind. When does redpill teach you to be kind? Redpill in my experience is a bunch of middle aged men yelling about stuff and putting women down. And the stuff they say that men should do that doesn't suck is stuff any adult could tell you like "get off your ass and stop feeling sorry for yourself and go do something in the world you can be proud of". We all have to do this whether we have peepee or vajayjay.…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 12:05 PM
2

I think that mockery is needed to turn people away from these things because: PUA is worthless and basically tells socially awkward guys to do things that basically don't work and women often find to be sexual harassment. It then leaves those guys very confused and upset I'm sure when they have been trying for a long time and maybe approached and been rejected by 100 women. When I was younger I had some guys try to pick me up on the street and none of them got a date. When you approach strangers…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 11:50 AM
1

FFS keep that blackpill crap to yourself! Why do incels always say "you will never.... " "She will never....", speak for yourself if you must, stop dragging the other men down with you. Why do you all write like that? Do you recognise it is very abusive? My husband is my perfect man, the other men I was with weren't right for me so they aren't with me anymore. He isn't a "betabux"! I make a LOT more money than him. You really think that women are such sad losers that we pick a guy we don't like …
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 11:02 AM
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I had a very difficult relationship with my mother. She isn't intentionally mean but she is cold and inconsiderate, which drew me to female friends who were like this. I couldn't really keep up with other women socially until I was in my 30's and so I had bad experiences because I just didn't know what they were doing or their intentions or whatever. I think young women also are quite aggressive and status conscious. I caught up eventually and now I can understand and enjoy other women but I was…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:46 AM
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The dominant social model of masculinity found online right now is a literal sociopath. It's very sad, men are much more than that. I wonder how those men are going to feel later in life when they realise they spent however many years pretending to be the worst kind of person on earth and ended up maybe losing a relationship with someone they actually did love because they think men can only retain a woman via abuse. All because of some grifter on YouTube. People who act like that end up alone, …
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:36 AM
1

I'm sorry you feel unsupported like that :( I think the issue women mean to refer to is the lack of reciprocation. Women cry at each other and listen to each others stuff and provide feedback and affection and support. Some women have had the experience where we have to be very aware of men's insecurities and needs without getting much back in return. But that doesn't mean EVERY MAN is that person and I think now we have finally been able to be assertive enough to express ourselves sometimes we …
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:25 AM
2

Oh and they also love to degrade gay men, they should leave LGBT+ people alone too.
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:19 AM
2

I think men can talk about anything they want and be critical of women and whatever except there are certain firm LEGAL lines they are walking all over at the moment in these redpill and incel spaces: glorifying and excusing and inciting rape of adult women, and condoning and encouraging child sexual abuse or child exploitation material. I would feel exactly the same if some feminist website was talking about raping men or children but somehow I haven't come across that yet... I know they do tha…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 10:18 AM
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