| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Confused about Congruence | Inner Game | man-o-action | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 05:41 PM |
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| 3 | I don’t need a pickup line. I need a man who knows when not to speak.You missed the part where you want to be treated like a princess but f.... like an enemy | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Confused about CongruenceYou're right, thanks man. I will try this weekend | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Confused about CongruenceI will report back this weekend :D | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Confused about CongruenceIm watching Pimp and julien says women are looking for humph/potency in men. He gives weak hug vs. potent hug analogy. Then he says you can't fake the potency/humph and you gotta be congruent (internal feeling of identity = external ways of acting). He then jumps into saying this ultimately called being real and you gotta be man to woman (laser eye contact, breaking rapport tonality, being physical). This is my confusion. If man to woman (eye contact, tonality, physicality) is a result of being … | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Confused about CongruenceI agree %100 with this : "Being congruent when you're unattractive won't work." I just don't know how to "make it" I guess. Assuming it's about our behaviours/subcommunications, how does one start behaving in a way that is attractive without going against how he feels naturally? Or are you suggesting "making it" means working on your career, hitting the gym etc.? Thanks | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Confused about Congruence"There's an ick girls can get when they don't see you leaving the house" there could be evolutionary reasons for this yeah. The paradox for me is, if I just act however I feel, you know my voice never will be deep or breaking rapport like they suggest. I struggle to maintain strong eye contact. I mean I can verbally tell her that I like her, but I won't be man-to-woman in the vibe naturally (like that deep voice, I'm gonna f.. the shit out of you eyes etc.. they aren't natural to me unfortunatel… | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Confused about Congruencei sustained a fake game method I was trying out for 2-3 months to be honest, pulled my personal 9 doing it. but it did crack yeah :D ended horribly, (got cheated on :/). Thanks for the advice man, I will try this. I didn't have this issue before, but in the recent years I'm burned out from my job and almost every day I am tired. Now I have no other choice but walk up in a shitty mood, depressed etc. | /r/seduction | 07/05/25 06:08 PM |
| 5 | I Almost Went Home After 7 Rejections - Then I Met HerYeah I got a brutal rejection where the girl yelled at me loudly while daygaming. I almost cried, but decided to keep going. I pulled a beautiful redhead at 2am in 50 seconds the same day. It was one of the best sex I ever had, she literally yelled "make me your b****" and all the neighbours heard it. In the morning she sucked my soul too. Later I realised it happened the same day of that brutal rejection. What if I quit? crazy.. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 11:07 AM |
| 2 | New here. Is “Seduction” in this sub the same as PUA in the old days, or is it seduction as in social competence and reading vibes and energies?There is still value in the og content | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Make sure she is walking on the inside of the sidewalk, not close to the road.I didn't mean "you" you :D I mean unless your inner game is good, women don't appreciate these small stuff. In fact, it comes across as supplication | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 10:19 PM |
| -2 | Make sure she is walking on the inside of the sidewalk, not close to the road.She likes it when the hot guy does it, not you. Fix your inner game first. | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 08:01 PM |
| -4 | Why women reject even the most attractive men and how romance fixes itSecret is %95 being alpha male + %5 beta/boyfriend material. In practise, it comes down to qualifying the girl (after the hook point obviously,in vibing phase). There is a RSDTyler classic post in his blog about this | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Didn’t use protectionLearn when her last ovulation was, then we can talk. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | I get lots of girls, but never make it past the 3rd dateOkay here is your solution: Go to the date not to fuck the girl, but the screen the girl. Who the fuck is she? You are a man who is on his path and purpose, improving himself, over a certain level of awesomeness. She is just a pretty girl with no goals, no ambitions, unguided, undecided, just a pretty face and some make up. If she turns out to be more than that, you reward her by banging the shit out of her. If she turns out just a regular girl, you don't pull her, you never call back. The key i… | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 01:11 PM |
| 2 | What do you derive confidence around women from?Act like a rockstar, get treated like a rockstar | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 03:48 PM |
| 2 | You don’t need to run game. You need to run ‘you’Go out. These are mental masturbations only | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | She didn’t turned you down, she turned your offer down.Your accomplishments, the future you offer her, the value composition you have, none of that fucking matters. Except for gold diggers. Women aren't thinking at all when gauging a man's attractiveness. They are feeling. Your voice tone, your assertiveness and dominance matters 1000x more. Also, even if you are attractive in your subcommunication, judgement of her friends, chances of her boyfriend finding out etc. also matter. Even her period cycle matters. So it's not like "oh she didn't like my … | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Wasted 15 Years on Dating Apps With No ProgressHahaha I banged 70 girls (mostly hb6-7) from pure daygame in 9 years. Couple hb9s in there too. Thats a new girl every two months :) I am 5"7, brokie btw. | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 06:09 PM |
| -6 | Seriously…🤦🏽♂️Don’t lose your frame just because you want to get a dateWho the fuck is she that I would give her a gift? I banged many slavic girls and they love being spitted in mouth, foot press on head etc. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Very basic question: How you flirt?I think it comes down to showing interest without giving your power away. Push and pull basicly. You are so hot, I wish you didnt have cock for example | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 07:54 AM |
| 1 | A small tip from a girlNumbers are meant to be exchanged after sex currently, at least in my experience :D | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 05:19 PM |
| 2 | I've seen people say you make women fall in love with you if you can make her release dopamine and oxytocine. What are example of those?If her screen time goes down, you're doing something right :) There are also other signs like her screaming with pleasure until 6am, but can be subtle sometimes | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Getting sucked into a relationship when only wanting FWBhahah exactly. It never happens, but gives them an excuse to keep fuckin | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 01:40 AM |
| 0 | You cannot rate yourself on a scale of 1 to 10I rate myself from 0 to 65536, my wingman uses hexadecimal. In the end it doesn't really matter. We are all 10s | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Most young women are used to getting pumped and dumped by fuckboys. Thats why you aren't getting laidThese are all mental masturbation. Focus on what works, not acting like someone else. Always be the best version of yourself. Improve your tonality, eye contact, body language, escalation, logistics, humour etc. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Just Get a Girlfriend.Great man! Congrats, you made it. Im 27 and I started to reach a sense of feeling unfulfilled by meaningless sex just last year. My body count is not in thousands, just 80 something. I had 10-15 relationships, longest being 9 months. Would I go back and never bang those girls? Absolutely not! I enjoyed every minute, hell, best moments of my life were spent next to a bombshell I pulled from the street just by saying hi, falling in love in a bar, semi-drunk kisses, fucking until 6am, driving my ne… | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Just Get a Girlfriend.If you look at animal kingdom, the only monogamous animals are a genetically distant monkey and a type of bird. Out of 6000 mammals and 10.000 birds, only two of them stick around after sex, for a while, not until death. You can claim its "growing up" to stay loyal to a girl, but her pussy will get wet for other men after couple months, and you will be cheated on if you stick around. Or worse, you will raise someone else's kid without knowing. France recently banned paternity tests without court… | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Just Get a Girlfriend.Good luck with jealousy and insecurity that comes along with knowing it will take you months before finding another hot girlfriend while she can find another guy easily. This is a perfect example of some nerdy guy who never left his mom's basement giving advice. No legit guy will ever tell give dumb advice like this. If rejections break you down, you're gaming wrong. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 09:21 PM |
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