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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 13 | is it just me or does this comment scream Stockholm syndrome? I’m sorry; but why all the excuses for a pos because it’s his kink? it wasn’t about shaming OP, we are trying to protect you when we say his behavior is not okay. Update to one of my most recent post.Thank you for this thoughtful response 🤍 I agree, it seems like she won’t realize how toxic he is until it’s at the discard phase where he no longer feels like he can possess her. I’m also sorry for what you’ve been through as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:29 AM |
| 71 | is it just me or does this comment scream Stockholm syndrome? I’m sorry; but why all the excuses for a pos because it’s his kink? it wasn’t about shaming OP, we are trying to protect you when we say his behavior is not okay. Update to one of my most recent post.Sunken cost fallacy is real and I just can’t process how she’s saying she knows 100% that he hasn’t shared it on the internet or among friends. As if doing that with strangers makes it any better. Also how she’s still driving down the point that she won’t invade his privacy any more even though snooping through his phone is far less harmful than sharing nudes without consent. People see your face and your body in separate shots? It’s still objectifying her… I’m just… this is when I step back bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 10:55 AM |
| 147 | Men will marry women who they don‘t love, find attractive or even hate. How does one even vet for this?You’re absolutely speaking truth, I’m terrified of not knowing since narcissists are amazing at acting. Sending love to you sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:46 AM |
| 83 | Paying off someone else’s debt?You articulated my cognitive dissonance perfectly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:42 AM |
| 628 | Men will marry women who they don‘t love, find attractive or even hate. How does one even vet for this?Why I’m learning to fall back and never chase. Even if you end up with the guy who is indifferent to your needs or you think you’re lucky to have, he will think he’s settled and use you as a bang-maid. They say women don’t marry for love even though oftentimes I see a lot of men don’t marry for love either. I’m not ever getting married unless I feel genuinely treasured and protected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:24 AM |
| 87 | Why I have trust issues and why we should be guarded.Right 😰 like tributes are meant to honor and respect someone, not degrade and objectivity them. Hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:03 AM |
| 383 | Why I have trust issues and why we should be guarded.Does it hurt any one else’s heart that she’s trying to believe he has no malicious intent when he claims this blatant violation of boundaries as “tributes”. Lvm see women as trophies and not human beings. I regret sending nudes in the past because now I think how many of them were used to boost a shitty guy’s ego? These men are so invested in impressing other men, they’ll share something so intimate and special. This should be an immediate dealbreaker. Edit : also the way she feels guilty for sn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:56 AM |
| 47 | Blue Balls and BullshitI agree! Which is why constant vetting is so important. My narc ex started out being super attentive only for his effort to gradually dwindle into nothing. HVM are consistent and don’t just bait and switch, they want to keep you happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:23 PM |
| 139 | Blue Balls and BullshitIt’s so strange and insidious how they pressure women into “finishing them off”, when reality is most of the time men can’t or barely ever make their own partners cum. If any thing, women are constantly dealing with “blue vulva” and incompetent types of men don’t even care. I know some men who will act like they’re owed an orgasm every time meanwhile their gf had never experienced an orgasm during sex in the year+ they’ve been together. Ladies don’t settle. HVM will prioritize your pleasure and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 01:35 PM |
| 16 | Do I drop him?I’m sorry sis; If you had to make a whole post about it, I think you know the answer. It don’t sound exciting or worthwhile whatsoever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:35 AM |
| 964 | Seriously, what a QueenThese men want their “legacy” to carry on without any of the responsibility. Good for her, sis had to do what she had to do to ensure her future isn’t tied with an lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:24 AM |
| 210 | 'Body count': Do people count and what even matters?I’d be a virgin if body count was only men who truly made me cum, LMFAOOOOOOOOOO DAMN edit 1: the few times I have been very close though have been with a man who ate me out like a full course meal. generously giving a lady oral is often the best way to get her off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 12:36 PM |
| 9 | Woman in Denial About being in an Abusive, "open" Marriage.She’s so attractive and has such low self esteem, praying for her recovery :,( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | When a man acts as if him being empathetic is some rare gift and not a normal thing everyone should have, I always think of this memeI’m screaming, this is totally my narcissistic rapist ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 01:35 PM |
| 273 | Not a lot shocks me after following FDS for a while but this just sent me.I’m cringing so hard, my heart is breaking for these ladies. These porn-sick men couldn’t perform for shit, how are these women going through life with these creeps? 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Acclaimed author and activist bell hooks dies at 69“It still took years for me to let go of learned pattern's of behavior that negated my capacity to give and receive love. One pattern that made the practice of love especially difficult was my constantly choosing to be with men who were emotionally wounded, who were not that interested in loving, even though they desired to be loved. I wanted to know love but was afraid to be intimate. By choosing men who were not interested in being loving, I was able to practice giving love but always within a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:26 PM |
| 14 | Cautionary TaleI needed this older queen energy, thank you for sharing and although I am sorry for the LVM wasting your time - cheers to you getting out and knowing you deserve better! ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 05:10 AM |
| 6 | Acrobatic sex from his poor wife still isn’t good enough for this hypocritical idiot! (Reposting)I’m so disgusted, this man probably doesn’t even make her cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 33 | Weekly FDS Check-inA guy I’m seeing said he follows Instagram models only because he’s been following them for years + is just interested in their lives now. But I’m the only woman he’s interested in apparently??? Like huh??? Lmfaooooo he unfollowed like half of them and still follows another half. Am I just insecure? Edit 1: He does follow some male models I suppose since he’s into working out, but the female ig models he follows are wearing nearly nothing/most of the pics border on soft porn (not shaming the wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:58 PM |
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