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Outer Game mariaandmythoughts/r/seduction30/05/24 10:29 AM
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Resourcesmariaandmythoughts/r/seduction11/04/24 04:58 PM
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Field Reportmariaandmythoughts/r/seduction03/06/24 07:39 PM
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Maybe not here, but there is rejection therapy where you do cold approaches to get over the fear if rejection. Not just dating but generally in life
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:04 AM
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I was just interested in getting to know how the games are from the people commenting here in this subreddit
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:01 AM
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You tell us. That's why I added the "what you define as success", can be different for everyone
/r/seduction04/06/24 09:58 AM
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Try, and let us know
/r/seduction04/06/24 09:57 AM
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Success is what you define as success. And where is your playground? Clubs, daytime, work?
/r/seduction03/06/24 10:19 PM
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Maybe you should Team up
/r/seduction03/06/24 08:14 PM
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What country are you?
/r/seduction03/06/24 07:46 PM
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Let's not go there, which gender puts in more effort, because if it comes to dating, women are way more sweet and doing a lot for the guys and them not even appreciating it tbh most of the time. And I think a lot of women are interested in pick up, but we don't have the same goal als men. Even now a lot of men just thinking about Sex, as if that's my goal to sleep with a random strangers. Yes I know it's easy to walk up to a guy and ask for Sex and most likely he will say yes, but that's not wha…
/r/seduction31/05/24 07:10 PM
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I like a even interaction. He should court me and I will be the lady.
/r/seduction31/05/24 06:25 PM
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Well in Bars, it worked on me when they asked for a cigarette, even though I didn't have one. Would you call that the cold approach? And I want smooth stuff, not blunt, what we'll most guys definition cold approach is
/r/seduction31/05/24 06:23 PM
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But sometimes especially in bar/Club it's hart to get to the talking stage. And in other events are they just nice or interested and if they are interested how to escalate
/r/seduction31/05/24 07:11 AM
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I don't know, women are really flirty and shy they did a good job picking me up, but in generell I have a bad gay Radar, if they are not completely obvious that they want me to make the move I don't. So I can understand guys felling the same, and that's the ones I like, the guys that jump when a girl approaches them and asks "Sex?" and they agree are not the ones I want. Why would I want a dick head? Obviously I want a good guy and that's not just interested to stick his dick into something and …
/r/seduction31/05/24 07:09 AM
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Yess I love that, that's exactly my style and what I'm looking for But what to say if they really do smoke haha
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:59 PM
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The smooth part is more for me, because I don't like the direct approach, it's just not my style. I think there is a jubilee Video Rating women picking up guys and guys picking up girls. I found the girls did a way better job, but I want more haha
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:58 PM
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I think a lot don't get the hint, especially if I'm in a group. I feel like I can see the confusion in their eyes, not knowing what to do
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:55 PM
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Social events e.g dance Partys, pub quiz, game night, Bars, clubbing, student Partys, etc
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:54 PM
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Yes, I think so. You can not be honest with guys, a lot of sugar coding is needed because their ego can most of the time not handle it. So I might find someone cute, but I need to talk to him and see how the vibe is to consider more, but that's still in a stage where everything is open. If I like the conversation then I might want to talk more, flirt and if the mood is set maybe make out and so on. But a lot also depends on the location, smell, people watching, etc if I want to or not. I need to…
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:50 PM
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I saw some Post and it's just confusing. I suck at the gay Radar and flirting? Forget it even hetero women Flirt with each other and make out, how will you know
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:44 PM
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Well I don't want to fuck, that's not my goal and if I get the vibe he is just in for his pleasure well I'm not interested. I don't want a dick head 😅 I have heard that I have a intimidating aura, but I would say I'm a lady and they say I'm giving off an aura that says don't fuck with me, I have to much of a standard. And they are more respectful, which I actually like haha
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:43 PM
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Oh nice, can you maybe mention 1-2 things from the book? Yeah I know that, but let's be honest guys that are cute are also not there alone but in a group haha
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:40 PM
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It's easy for me to play wingwomen, have helped a lot of people, but when it comes to my own game I suck, it's most just luck. I want it to be smooth, I'm not comfortable with the cold approach, I instantly lose interest
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:38 PM
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Of course it's an issue. A lot are to afraid of rejections that's why everyone is online hidding behind a screen. I talked to a lot of guys and most said they are to afraid to approach a girl, because they don't want to make her feel uncomfortable. They don't want to act like a creep, and you read a lot of Posts from women not wanting to be approached, they are there to have fun with their friends. And yes I understand, it's really uncomfortable when a person you don't fancy tries to pick you up…
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:35 PM
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Yes. A way for a women to make the first move, but guys think they actually did the first move. Like the example I gave with the handkerchief. Him picking it up and talking to the girl, thinking she didn't plan it haha
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:29 PM
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I mean if that's all it takes then guys should be all over my friends, which is never the case. I think you need more. I don't dress sexy I dress comfy 😂 and that's when I got the most success in the past. I think you need to do more in today's time, guys are to afraid because they think they might come off as pushy/harassment. So I do think we lady's need to give a hint like the handkerchief back in the days. The same asking a lady to dance at balls, but just grinding and dancing from behind in…
/r/seduction30/05/24 12:11 PM
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Well I like the gentlemen that are thoughtful so I understand that it can be confusing. I want to send reassuring signals that they are not annoying, but it's okay for them to approach, I just haven't found a way, or to hint to the guys I like that they should come to me and not the others
/r/seduction30/05/24 12:07 PM
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Tell me what signals. And that's also more how I prefer it, I could approach I have the confidence, but then kinda lose interest because they are not proactive
/r/seduction30/05/24 11:15 AM
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I said I don't like the cold approach out of the blue. I want something smooth. And it is not always easy I have girlfriend that have never been approached and they are gorgeous and always smiling, sending positive vibes
/r/seduction30/05/24 11:08 AM
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The weird think is when I don't want to meet someone I always get approached, but I want to it doesn't happen. Why?
/r/seduction30/05/24 11:06 AM
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For me Demisexuell is not about erotic/porn only. Demisexuell is when you see a person on the street do you have the desire to fuck them without knowing them, or does that interest come after getting to know them. I can acknowledge a person being objectively pretty, but most of the times I don't even see it, while a lot of girls freak out how goodlooking he is. After feeling a connection I want to rip their cloth off, but before not really doesn't even cross my mind. The connection can happen in…
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:46 AM
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Demisexuell girl here, I found it easy sometimes to force myself not to have Sex but touch e.g holding hands, cuddling, kissing. Your body will tell you if you feel comfortable around them or not and starting from there getting to know them as romantic prospect and telling the other person. I can't tell friends I have a crush on that I have a crush on them after knowing them for so long, don't want to risk the friendship. But I do get a good sense of people through their action e.g seeing them w…
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:26 AM
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As a women I have to say I love reading books (like erotic literature not self improving books) and copying their moves. It makes it easier to not be overwhelmed with situations. But yes definitely talking trying and getting feedback
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:18 AM
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You could also be Demisexuell, only want to have Sex after having a deeper connection to a person
/r/seduction25/04/24 09:52 AM
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I feel you was the same. I think it's easier for you as a guy. A lot of girls as passive and wait for the other guy to make the first move. A lot of guys are also to fast and just interested in Sex, so I think you should not have a problem with that . When it comes to intimacy what helped me was do it in public e.g at a bar/Club. I wanted to make out but didn't want to have Sex, making out at home a lot of guys would think it's going to lead to Sex, and I didn't want to put myself in a position …
/r/seduction25/04/24 09:51 AM
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I mean If you behave like a decent men you don't have to be afraid of anything 😅 I mean there was a need for that so 31k women decided to join. If there was no need for it, there would not be this group. Behave correctly and then you don't have to worry about anything. I'm sure men gossip too, in General human gossip you can't do anything about it
/r/seduction24/04/24 06:56 PM
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At your age I thought fuck it, let's try it. Had the opportunity a lot of opportunities, but didn't want to. So I started being content with having less experience. It was actually more surprising to be that people I dated, said I did new stuff they have never experienced in their past relationships 😅 while be being the inexperienced one in the equation
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:20 PM
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I would find it invasive. Because I could be just nice and thinking he needs help with direction. Without knowing a person or the first thing you say to them is "my dick in your mouth, tonight" is not sexy 😂but invasive, in my opinion. I'm a women and who says every girl is submissive, I would be turned off if someone wants me to kneel lol
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:31 AM
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It can feel like harassment, when all people do is project their desires and wishes on you, without your consent, without reading the room or being smooth/seductive. You could also argue with the argument, what's the risk of sending a dick pic, it's not physical harassment, but still emotional harassment, that's why there is at least in my country a law against sending Dick Pics without the person receiving consenting to it
/r/seduction11/04/24 09:32 PM
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Not going too, don't feed the trolls 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction11/04/24 09:23 PM
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I don't like pornhub and I do believe there are good erotic seduction Dialog content out there .. just haven't found them
/r/seduction11/04/24 05:53 PM
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